Virginity is important especially in a sexually perversed culture like this!!! Please abstinence directly impacts your lives hence the cases of teenage pregnancy Don’t buy into the lie that sex determines you being an adult! It does not! What makes you as adult is your ability to be accountable and self control And in all honesty, it’s a flex to you as a person cause you are defining what you want, and what you don’t want! You are standing on your ground to say No! And that is some rare power shit ..! It’s not in any way embarrassing please! And before you think no one is genuinely abstaining, we are quite many that still exist. Look around you and find your tribe! Protect yourself and define what you want! Love from a 25 year old Virgin who is waiting till marriage❤️❤️

Virginity is so underrated.. Respectfully Speaking I think that Maliya is talking about her close circle and the people she's surrounded by. It's not just about education, family, career e.t.c I am a graduate top of my course. I have a great job, things are in order for me and YES I am a virgin. It isn't just about my Religion. It's my choice because Purity is something that I've cherished... I could have messed up myself always had the avenue but it is a decision I made for me, on behalf of my children to come!!! I want them to know by my example that Purity and being a woman of Virtue is the greatest gift you can give to your home.

Maliya literally took the virginity thing so personal!!!But she's a brilliant girl. Eronini doesn't talk alot but he is so wise. I love this combo

Why is maliya stigmatizing virgins bruhh…let’s be real here it ain’t easy being a virgin it’s shows discipline and principles ..if it your personal conviction then babygirl it’s a flex and that’s on period

Please to any girl reading this your virginity is a form of pride don’t let anyone gaslight you, throughout history valuable things are always things that aren’t easily gotten

Maliya is exposed and smart. Gives the vibe of a person that won't let bad experiences happen to her first. Susan needs to calm down and actually absorb the information and point of views being given. Eronini is calm and doesn't talk too much but makes a lot of sense when he does. Kudos 👌 👏

Omo, why is maliya taking the virginity thing so serious. It is not easy to be a virgin. Eronini is right, it can be a personal flex. The fact that it used to be a big deal and you don't think it isn't anymore doesn't mean you cannot still be proud of yourself for being a virgin.

Eronini is speaking my mind on the virginity topic!! It's a flex, people should be allowed to celebrate what they want.

Maliya is so expressive, I love the way she expresses herself, she is so brilliant and exposed. I love the confidence she puts in when she gives her opinion. Eronini is also making good points, Susan is doing well. This podcast is so educating.

I have never seen Maliya talk like this before but I’m loving it😊

Wow Maliya!!! She's Smart I really really didn't know she's so outspoken and very wise. The girl get plenty Sense. Beauty with brains. I love it.

This discussion just proves that a lot of wisdom comes with age...they're not there yet. It'll be interesting for them to watch a playback of this in years to come. That being said, amazing points were made at the beginning about sexual assault awareness, open communication, and sexual safety.

Abeg they should bring Frances and maliya together in another episode I will be very happy

Your virginity is something you should be proud of and it’s a flex for you to have it you want it , don’t let anybody bring you down for wanting to be proud of being a virgin, it’s your life not theirs. If you want to have sex to before marriage it’s your life not others, carry your flex with your chest without hurting anybody. Omo be proud that you could abstain from something that’s normalized for today society, and nobody should berate any one from deciding to follow the normalization in this world too. It’s everybody’s choice. Of course you’re virginity doesn’t define your character but it’s a part of you and every little part should be celebrated no matter how unnecessary it is. Omoooo live your life with your choices but with the right guidance.

Maliya is definitely for the screen. It’s how her facial expressions and tune matches every word she’s trying to pass out.

Please give Eronini his flowers 💐… He’s the only one that made sense to me. His perspective is top-notch abeg.

Well everyone has a point but i was agreeing with maliya until she said focusing on virginity will make you broke with no job or career is crap, are you saying sleeping with men brings the money and dream job and career?. And eronini saying the pressure is actually the flex is spot on but I will just give a straight forward explanation: now imagine all the pressure that comes with school and fees and exams and so on, and I still struggled while 20% of my school mate probably dropped out or degraded in class,and I still struggled to pass with a first class, are you now telling me my certificate will not be a flex? People, I will flaunt it like no tomorrow even if I don't get a job( # the point of probably when you get married ,the partner might still end up cheating with an experienced concubine) the fact still stands that I have a first class degree which is a big flex considering the struggles and frustration in school. So I hope Maliya sees this from a good point of eroninis view ,he should learn to express his explanations too . Secondly, the people saying she didn't mean it's not a flex should rewatch cus it's literally obvious she said it a multiple time that its not a flex. So you defending is just like justifying a racist ( I mean no harm oooo) Insecurities makes people assume virgins admitting they are virgins is to shame non virgins. Like this people are just trying to be them and normal,it's not like they carried a bill board to announce they are virgins , they are even taking a risk to open up to you. So stop intimidating them to lie or keep mute all because you care about your feelings and assumptions more . It's none of anybodys business yes , but if they open up ,don't look at them like they are mocking you, as far as anyone is concerned, you made the right decision and they made theirs too. I as an example has lost lots of friends cus I don't drink alcohol. Whenever I go to parties , I have to start lieing that I am not in the mood to get drunk that day and they will start begging me to just take a sip ,out of frustration I will end up telling them what I don't want to be let out which is "I don't drink" and that is the last day I will ever be invited to their party.but it just gives me the insight that they are not the right people to keep around me. We should all respect people's choices and not scare them to speak of who they truly are. I do hope I said the right thing. I love you all and this show. If you want a better explanation, just invite me for a part 2🤣🤣🤣🤣

I must admit I love the podcast. Maliya is so insightful and intelligent. Eronini was also brilliant with his responses. Weldone guys👏

This episode hit🔥🔥🔥.... Maliya is making sense and Eronini is also making points. Susan is really doing so well with this show.

I think what Maliya is trying to say is you NEED to educate yourself as a girl. It doesn’t matter if you’re fresh out of high school. You have to learn how to identify red flags and honestly speaking there is so much information out there. I literally learnt everything about men early enough through KZfaq videos and speaking to older male friends. Nobody will protect you so you have to unfortunately learn to protect yourself.

It's not a matter of virginity being a flex it's about virginity being something really valuable that's the point she is missing

Virginity is a thing of high importance. No matter how “woke” we become in this generation. To me I feel it shouldn’t be COMPROMISED.

This virginity talk Dey pain Maliya and Susan 😂😂😂😂 #non virgins

Maliya and Francis should be on this podcast..very outspoken and intelligent girls👏👏👏👏👏

I feel like the most important thing before dating is knowing yourself. Knowing your boundaries and limits.

Maliya was making sense at some point but got me irritated when the virginity topic came up. She literally took it personal. I don’t know what your story is sis but you don’t say this on a podcast younger people would listen to and watch. How on earth were you comfortable saying not having sex is embarrassing. Wow 😮 just wow!!! I love the way Eronini was standing up for this virginity topic, that’s a young man that knows what he wants. Have a mind of your own so no gen z or person would ruin your train of thought and mind.

All the people supporting Maliya and calling her points deep really haven't lived life yet. Like I'm not saying that to insult her but I can tell she hasn't yet had the "Welcome to life" moment yet. I live stateside (US) but my family is originally from Africa and I feel like a bunch of y'all are trying to copy people who live here. Listen, what you don't hear about from those influencers etc is that the whole "life is a vibe" thing doesn't work in the real world. My father always quotes that famous saying about Life is a teacher, but when it teaches its lessons you don't always feel the effects until later on. Sounds great telling people you're experienced sexually etc etc but when you look back at those experiences you really where intimate with people who some of you ain't even talking with no more. Deep that. You gave the most intimate part of yourself to a person you don't care about anymore.

This should be aired on national TV , because a lot of girls are really traumatized

This episode is actually the best so far I have definitely learnt a lot from this podcast Thank you Susan ❤️

Very presumptuous to think that virgins don't have other things going for them. Plus you see how the young man there thinks it's a flex, that's truly how the society sees it. It represents discipline and strength of character. Most virgins are not virgins for lack of opportunity- well maybe in teenage.

Maliya is so educated,this is so educating

This was fun to watch. I totally enjoyed it. You all did amazing. I Will definitely educate myself more moving forward .

Woww a lot of things were shared and said in this episode! Susan I hope that you do not feel a burden or hindrance to your mother. I know that you mean so much to her and probably the best person to her. You make her proud with all you are doing with this podcast and beyond. Great points and advice from Eronini and Maliya too. I am glad you have them as friends in your circle

I don’t think Maliya understand the virginity aspect there are people who are really educated and still decide to remain a virgin wonder why some people decide to be celibate? Bro it’s a biggg flex

The anticipation for these two killed me😩 nice to see two brilliant people on the show

I watched this episode to the end,this particular topic felt like you where talking to me in every aspect,this episode is a bomb and i love maliya she's so expressive and her expressions are killing me😂i really loved this episode Susan nice job and eronini is so wise, parents need to watch this,they're really gonna learn a thing or two from this.

This is incredibly admirable. I was intrigued by the little recording I found on TikTok, and my interest grew when I read the comments and saw the variety of viewpoints. Sincerely, I can't believe I listened for an entire hour and thirteen minutes. Maliya is bright, outgoing, and has a great sense of humor. She is a fountain of information for me. Overall, this was really amazing. Susan and Eronini, you both have respectable points of view. ❤💯

I've been watching this vid all day because of network problems and I've refused not to finish it and I'm so happy I finished it I've learnt so much 😍❤️Susan is a great host and miliya is so outspoken omgg I love everything she said and learnt so much ❤️the guy he's great too wat a great combo best episode so far

I really want to sit with Maliya and let her lecture me about a lot of things.I’m wowed! She’s so smart and intelligent. Big ups to Eronini & Shout out to you Suzi🫶

Sometimes keeping your virginity till marriage is also a personal thing. Maybe I just feel I'd be most comfortable with loosing it when I'm married to the person I love

The same way you say being a virgin isn’t a flex, is the same way fucking around isn’t a flex. There have been situations where people have had sex with the wrong people and it fucked with their lives. You kids need to understand that it’s not just about the sex, sometimes the kind of person you’re having it with l also matters. This is why parents from our part of the world try to protect us from fornicating not because we’re not responsible, but they don’t want us to end up with the wrong people. For example, how will you feel if your daughter is having sex with a drug addict? Will you call that a “flex”

Maliya is so self aware, smart and outspoken. Young and aware.

Maliya was making sense until that virginity topic started. If you are beautiful, smart, independent, a good job, paying your own bills and you're a virgin?. That's a big flex. It's about self-control and not being pressured by men who might just want you for sex. So yes, let's not down play the virgins. The fact you think your exposed doesn't make your opinion right. Not trying to be righteous but call a spade , a spade

Top notch and educative I just sent this to My younger ones love every bit of this

I really wish Susan had brought guests that are way older and with more experience. This conversation went from one topic to them talking about a lot of other things and not really talking about a particular thing. A more matured guest would have known how to direct this conversation in a way that all points are passed, and explained. A lot of things have been said vaguely and it's scary because of the audience that listens and will listen to this in the coming years. It's a lot sha, it's a lot

Maliya is making so much sense but she's taking this virginity thing too personal. For crying out loud, it's my body and i can choose to carry for my virginity with so much pride. It feels like there is a stigmatization towards girls who are virgins and that's totally unfair. If other girls are allowed to embrace you hyper-sexual selves then we should be allowed to embrace our virginity. Point of correction there are a lot of successful virgins; virginity doesn't equal being broke, laziness does.

I enjoyed this with all of my heart especially...the matching of energy aspect

My best episode so far🔥🔥🔥…I love Maliya’s energy🔥…her energy just dey ginger me, I love eronini’s cool vibes too, susan is trying too but how come she always has a friend for every situation tho?😅😅

Eronini spoke really well. Virginity at any age is a flex! Maliya spoke well but got it all wrong with the virginity topic. It is a personal choice and it is their personal flex. It is okay if it is not your flex, but it is theirs, respect that.

I really enjoyed this I think there should be more podcasts with these two even if it's just one on an entirely different topic

Honestly, it's sad that people my age do not see how abominable it is to date someone in a relationship, talk more of marriage. How in the world should that be complicated?? Mehnn, we are in for a loooonnggg ride if these mindsets don't change.

You guys are amazing,I found this video very useful 🥺❤️thank you guys

People have said they have had sex because of the pressure and then what??? They never understood the rush. This is a message for someone contemplating to make decisions in your own time. Not because someone said it was lame and wasn't a flex.

Maliya is so wonderful and funny,Eronini did a good job,the way he was calm and handled the talk with the ladies 🔥❤️,Susan real nice one congrats 🎉🎊

Anytime I see a new episode of surviving Lagos I click!!! Eronini is so calm and smart Perfect definition of “speak when you’re only required to and people will listen to you. Maliya is super intelligent and funny too 😂 I have never seen this version of her but I’m loving it 😍 would love to see a new episode with maliya and Frances Theodore

Most educating episode fr … take your crowns

Omo this ep mad like crazy I enjoyed every bit and the fact that I can relate to literally everything being said

“I feel like” 1 million times 😭

This was 🔥🔥🔥. Loved every minute

Everything that was said in this podcast was subjective. Maliya, eronini and Susan really made a lot of sense. You have to choose the way you interpret what they said. Susan thank you for bringing such an educative topic I learnt a lot

This is the most insightful topic in this podcast!! I love Maliya, I wish I could talk to her one on one

Wow 🤩 I finished watching this… I find this so informative, educative on its own and highly recommended…. Love everything part, Susan being able to carry the topics along side by side n making it interesting sweet, Eronini’s honest views, Maliya wow 🤩 very practical views n highly intellectual perspective…. I really understand her point, and she was able to convince Eronini at the end abt virginity view being discussed here… love y’all ❤

this was so interesting, entertaining, and educative... but I heard "like" a billion times😭😂

Maliya took the virginity topic too serious

I love the way Maliya speaks and thinks omg!

Loved every bit of this show 👏 💕

Omo! I have to pause this podcast to comment abeg!!! Eronini good Job,,,,🔥💪 The fact that you didn't allow those small children, influence your thought, Your smart abeg👌,,,,,Legodi maliya, Virginity is not a flex, Let your mother catch you over there,,,, Susan be doing gbaza queen,,,Rest!!!! Small girls🙄

Never saw Maliya to be this smart!!!!! I give it to you! You said every goddamn word I needed to hear!

Like this episode. I feel achievements are relative. Infact many adult (male b female) virgins are self aware, thriving in their careers and are very proud of it. It's a choice and shouldnt bring out this much emotion for people who don't believe in it now. Lol.

Eronini is calm and makes a lotta of sense👏👏👏

As a child being molested or at the verge, it is important to talk to your parent and i wish most parents will create an atmosphere that encourages trust from their children enabling them to communicate without holding back. It is always not wise for a victim to have these discussions with their mates who are within the same radar of innocence and ignorance, it is better to talk to a knowledgeable and trusted adult. Hopefully you have one around.

This episode hit home,OMO !! Maliya dey para 🤣🤣🤣🤣✌🏿

For me this is the most educative episode. Maliyah is so smart.

This episode 😊🥰it gets better actually 😂❤

Maliya is so freaking smarttt‼️ I'm just 10 minutes in and I keep agreeing with what she says coz I'm big on educating and improving myself and I'm also learning, love this episode, I'll be sharing it with my friends 💯

I have not seen maliya talk like this before... I'm loving it ❤❤ Osi is smart

Maliya I’m feeling you 😂the part she said you don knack 😂😂😂

I watched this till the end it was very educating thanks to susan and the amazing guest🥰

Maliya just gave me the joy nailing every point swears

Marriage in which both partners are virgins statistically grow and lasts longer than marriages in which both partners have so called “experience”.

a really nice topic of episode that could be on the show from this episode could be the impacts of strict religion in Nigeria. very fun to see

I didn’t believe I can watch it from beginning to end like I only does this with movies but I must say this is what we need In our society. I really enjoyed it, kudos to you guys. You all did a great job. I will like to see Maliya again

It’s the way I could relate to most of the things that were said….this was a very beautiful episode keep it up suzzy

Top content!!! That babe was spittin facts!! Susan's lovely as always. Broski didn't slack too💪

Dear me Don't fall back into your patterns, just because they're familier ♥️

Maliya was srsly dishing out knowledge 💯💓

It seems as if the two ladies are discriminating virgins and it's soo stupid. Why would she say "and they'll still rape you". Abeg this is so stupid.

This episode is lit!!!🔥 Y’all did so well.

I love this show very outspoken and intelligent 😊👏👏👏👏

Maliya is a big vibe and her points are so deep, this is so educative. I just love this episode.

Very educative, love this.

MALIYAHHHH! You’re so brilliant ❤️

Keeping your virginity does not mean that the person is necessarily waiting for marriage, some people are not just ready to have sex period!

Honestly everyone is speaking based on their experience, if you were a Virgin you did agree to eroni, if you are not you did agree to Maliya,

Came from Twitter. Maliya is exposed 👏👏

Really love this episode Go maliya 👍🏾👍🏾

Virginity is a form of self accountability. It’s only those afraid of accountability to self and partner that say otherwise

I feel like maliya took the virginity thing very personal. It’s biblical to keep yourself guys, it’s BIBLICAL!!!!

I love Maliya!!! Please bring her back! She's soooo educated and informed!

Could they make this surviving lagos pod available on Spotify and other pod apps? Watching a video for an hour on KZfaq (not KZfaq premium that you've got background play option) isn't exactly for everyone