Indian supreme court scolded Ekta Kapoor for ruining young minds with these stupid family drama.

The irony is you think bachay peda krna or unki parwarish ek bht hi chota sa kaam hai. K pehle apnay ghar pari hui thin or ab susral me aa kr par gae hain.

Pakistani drama plot - 1) poor heroin... wants to study.. is struggling for her identity.. rich guy sees her.. falls in love.. direct rishta.. shaadi.. taleem gayi tel lene.. Plot 2) poor hero.. toxic relatives.. he wants to marry mamu ki ladki.. chachu ki ladki loves him..phupi wants him to marry her ladki.. he marries phupi ki ladki coz she is a living hell.. divorces phupi ki ladki.. marries mamu ki ladki.. doubts her.. divorces her... Chachu ki ladki sacrifices and is happy... Plot 3) mix and match the above 2 plots and you get infinite stories..😂

My take is that the relationship didn’t get enough time to solidify their relationship… Amman pehlay hi beech main a gain… they should have talked about this issue…baqi lagta hai the guy never wanted a desi wife altogether

There is a drama "Hasrat", usmain larki ka haq hai ke uska alag ghar ho apne jeth se. Lekin usko normally thori dikhayein ge. Pehle usko badtameez dikhayein ge phir larke ko mama's boy dikhayein ge. Aur maa ko maar dein ge. Joint family ko log ziada ache samajhte hain.🤮

Bachpan me discovery pe "brain game's " Vo show aaj bhi 100 times better hai aaj kal ke indian serials se 😅

Totally agree , even the clothes these women in the dramas are so extravagant. Who dresses like this in the house daily!

It's funny for me because here in Pakistan i am thinking about continuing my business, as i was doing before marriage, bearly watched any dramas and vlogs and my financial independence is the issue in my house.

Indian tv shows unfortunately ruined when they switched from 13 episode format to 5 days a week episodes format This means that it's like a factory mass producing content. Leaving no spoke for actor to showcase any talent and neither writers have anything left to write except the typical formulae Though you can now finally find some good shows on ott all because they follow the 13 episode format

So, you're basically suggesting that women who choose to stay at home and raise a family have no ambition or purpose. These men who can't handle providing for their families on their own and rely on dual incomes are just lazy. Junaid may be good at talking, but he lacks a deep understanding of the real issues at hand!

Thankyou for speaking up for this!!!

I personally feel that in Pakistani couple lack of friendship & understanding. They mostly lack compatibility & on the top they bring in third parties in their relationship. I agree with you, that Pakistani women/ princesses are taught to be fully dependent on men financially as religion gives them a right, there’s no concept of team work & helping each other out. Similarly most typical Pakistani men are taught to hover their wives & force them into situations what they don’t like and stressing them out especially involving their families into the relationship. In this guy’s case, there was no compatibility in the first place. He wanted some sensible progressive smart woman and forced into typical desi woman. They didn’t even get enough time to bond and eventually helping each other out in their personal growth and he brought in another woman in the household who would be staying at home and poking his wife. If they had given more time, getting out of covid situation & then work on goals and him helping her learn to be part of system etc marriage probably would have survived.

Very insightful, hit the nail in the head. Kudos from USA!!

Can you talk about the ton of house work housewives do? Most of women not in house sitting. there is alot of work. from cooking, cleaning, washing these men's undergarments. Managing house and kids.... No man would want to do equal or more house chores

You are the only youtuber whom I watch. Apki podcasts se hmesha kuch na kuch seekhny ko milta hai. I am watching you since Covid. I am 25 a CA finalist. One or two guys from my CA community approached me for marriage and they demanded to leave your career or bs ghar pe beth kr shadi k bad bachon ki parwarish krna. Islam me nhi hai k aurat kama kr laye. And there is type of people who says k shadi krni hai to ghar k kharchay adhay adhay kren gy. ghar k kharchay aadhay or ghar k kam puray krny hain to yahan pe mjy phir princess mindset wali larkiyan he sahe lagti hain jo na zyada struggle krti hain. Or unhen kharchay aadhay krny partay hain bs ghar bethy dramay dekhen or shohar k peson pe ayashi kren. Yahan achay mindset k banday nhi miltay Pakistan me. I a really frustrated from these rishta cultures. Yahan k larkay, larkiyon se b zyada PRINCE hain. Ghar k kharchay adhay krny me mujhy msla nhi lekin phir inhen jb kaho k ghar k kam ba adhay kro phir ye log kehtay hain k hm typical mard hain

The poor Pakistani male wants the best of both worlds, if you want a working woman, who is independent, and has a mind of her own and who takes care of everything, then first get ready to do half of everything in the house, around the house, and then because you are copying west here, then in the west the parents in law(especially in Europe) have no say in their son's marital life, they don't dictate or even advise unless asked for advice and the married son's meet them only on two occasions Easter and Christmas, that also if he is not celebrating it with his wife at home or with his in laws. If you want to emulate the west, then emulate it entirely, not that the wife is working outside and she is doing all chores inside the house too, you get to keep her entire salary and then on top of that your mother can be the mother in law from Pakistan(scolding, making faces even if treated very well and all the usual eastern saas toxic stuff). If you want a wife, who does everything at home alone, then don't expect her to work outside and earn money, marry a digest reader and even then you will have the fireworks at home, but at least she will tolerate her mother in law in the same home.

Yeah rite....blame and blame...blame Denmark,also .... There is always azan on Pakistan TV channels...why not 101% pple are praying 5 prayers in mosques? I never expected such an excuse from a person living in western world 😮

Atleast PK TV series are much better than Indian. Ekta Kapoor and her Balaji Telefilms single handedly has destroyed the quality of our "desi" prime time tv content.

Put Aurat march content in all dramas than junaid akram will be very happy.

Pehley bhai ney amma k kehney pey shaadi ki, phir khushiyan larki ki zimeyaari aur Pakistan dramas ki banadi. Bhai wah!!😒👏

Seems like they already had Pakistani drama environment in their home as he couldn’t marry anyone he liked

By far, the best youtuber of this country. Focuses on real issues and provides value for your time

One thing I wanna say is that it’s not the women’s responsibility according to Islam to double the income. For example, she’s not obliged to provide, or double the income Uncle, rather than teaching people good stuff you are putting this in a man’s mind! Islam is so beautiful Alhamdulillah, and women have a lot of rights, Allah has made man the Haqim, not the women! Hope it rings some bells!

its not about parents control only the society as well. we are still very sick people

Non sense, I am living abroad from last 30 years,most of your thoughts are illogical you are not covering all aspects of society in Pakistan and kids raised abroad.

but junaid bhai the guy was complaining that the women empowerment narrative has caused his divorce, AND THE ( the drama Ratings) case YOU highlighted actually presents us here as a paradox.

Hi Junaid, Some of your analysis is good, but when you start giving career/personal advice, you sometimes come across as pretty insensitive. The purpose of marriage is not just to win over a career-oriented man or woman; it's more about having someone to share your life with. As an overseas Pakistani myself, I know that many men and women from North America have a tendency to put themselves on a higher pedestal and look down on those living in Pakistan. It sounds both pathetic and arrogant when someone says that another person lacks the mental caliber to match them. I would never marry someone so proud or trust anything they say. I consider myself very career-oriented but am married to a woman who is a doctor but not so career-focused. I found her to be a perfect life partner, a very humble and kind human being. Alhamdulillah, we have been married for the last 15 years, and I consider marrying her the best decision of my life. On the other hand, those who judge people by considering them inferior often end up alone. Marriage isn't a business; it's about having a partner who completes your life and shares a home with you.

Sir please do live question and answer session and allow callers. Apki batain bohat Sachi lagti hain. Bohat kuch discuss karnay ka dil chahta hai.

I would be very surprised if a girl these days is becoming a doctor just to get married 😮 thats solid 5 to 6 years of aggressive study program that drains every drop of your sweat and energy I get the concept of ppl finding Dr bahus k wah wah hoti ha and later not letting them work but koi larki jo Dr ho khud dsh kbhi ye nhi chahe gi us k lye 5 saal khuwar honay ki phir zarurat nhi

when i used to play gta i also started rash driving on bike its true.

I can somewhat relate to the wife here not the addiction to drama but moving abroad after marriage is reaallly lonely the obsession with couch setting and husband coming home and asking what did you do all day? You see your husband already having a life and you're mentally clocked out and dont have the energy to do any chores. There is a void that husband was not filling emotionally (my husband did Alhumdulillah he was very patient) and drama was filling that void. And shaitan already works hardest on wife and husband. Also I agree with having a hobby now I have a baby and no longer have the time to feel lonely and I also study online in islamic studies which benefits tarbiyat on my kids+I always have something to be curious about. It is important to note that hunting for money is not always so important yes strive for the best for your family but dont be that hungry that you lose your touch with empathy with others

9:00 meri wali baat kar di. PAKISTAN IS NOT A ISLAMIC COUNTRY. BARA BARA LIKH DENA CHAYE YEH.

I Agree with term pakistani girls princess han

This is exactly the concern i have about our writers who r mostly writing abusive dialogues between mother in law and daughter in law. It seems that these relations are always toxic and end u up badly so maybe his wife was just trying to defend herself before any of such nonsense starts. The dramas who show such an image like showed in drama Taqdeer and many more should be completely banned. Writers should promote positively by showing pleasant relations and environment in home and if u can't do it then make inspirational dramas like sinf e ahan etc... Drama industry should make some of these changes and stop portraying toxicity in beautiful relationships.

Drew barrymore part was epic😂

13:06 May SOUL felt that! I swear....the invasion!

Can you tell me the name of the books behind you? TIA.

Turkish dramas were a blessing when they came 10 years ago. Their content is very expansive and cover a wide variety of issues. PTV used to do the same too but of course the coming of Cable TV brought in the Model industry into the Arts and Dramas field which created a severe brain drain in the industry. We need PEMRA to enforce ALL channels to view programs based on ALL the demographics including kids, Teens, 20s, 50s, family, working people, etc which the channels severely lack.

I also don’t like big boss,daily Vlogging and free time I want to be busy and to do work continuously but I like sleeping

men don't know the women's world, they have no clue. and they can't even understand. all they can say is KYA DRAMEY KAR RAHE HO ?

I agree, how we change our country ,PAKISTAN😥😥

Bilkul sahi kaha junaid bhai. Pakistan mein larkia. Fantasy world sa bahar nahee arahi haan. Aur drama and films plays a very major role in ruining the mindset of girls and boys in Pakistan.

Its not just drama people are admiring the the tiktokers their fame and life standards i know one of my friend is going through the same issue

I stopped TV..now watch OTT Gullak, Panchayat, Pathallok, Asur, Arya, Aranyak, Lapata Ladies, Mirzapur, the last hour, Mumbai meri jaan, Murder in Mahim, Maharani, aparan

Yarrr godi media😂😂 Keh konn raha hai😂😂

Ladki galat nikli to uski galti ki society ko jimmedar banao waah

ChatGPT If arranged marriages are like gambling, then why do love marriages have more divorces than arranged marriages? Now you will say your claim is a Myth. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Didn't expect from junaid bhai... He clearly means women should earn after marriage? And contribute to house? Men deserve 50/50?? Do any man contribute in child raising? It's 100% responsibility of women and once you'll babysit a toddler even for a day you'll understand women have no time to earn after marriage... Household work isn't a joke itself... In reality women deserve princess treatment because it's unfair to ask for 50/50 and their princess era according to you doesn't last more than 2 years after that they get busy with their kids... Men have to admit raising a child is 10 times more difficult than having a job... If that's the demand then please raise your kids by yourself and then ask for 50/50 don't ask their mother to cook food clean around shop laundry dishes and everything else

Such a truthful analysis. Truly women these days need to just be somewhere.... just be dumped

Hadd hai, the reason seems fake

"Dikhnay mein mazhabbi hain, andar say nahi"🤣 this line is so true. 😂😂😂😂

Wrong! My marriage worked out well... I didn't follow any counselling from the Pak dramas.

I watch selected pakistani dramas and few daily vlogs. My husband hates it when i watch the daily vlogs.

Watching Pakistani dramas feel like writer is telling his/her own family ki kahani and their phadday. It's better to expand our horizon and start watching something else. Life Pakistan mein rehte hi itni depressive hai phir q aur beragarat krein. 🙂

Yeh papa ki princess yahan akar bhi yehi krti hain or jo larkiyan yahan professional kaam krti hain ghar manage krti hain bache paalti hain…career oriented hain…un larkiyon ko in princess aurton k shohar jo apni begumaat se to koi kaam nhi krwa sakte…khana tak nhi pakatin…or yeh farigh log beth kr working women ka mazaq urati hain…unk ghar mai problem krte hain…hum pak qoum hi aese hain…na khud kuch krna hai or jo kare usko bhi pareshan kr k rakhna hai

He is wrongly blaming the drama. Dramas actually reflect reality. He needs to look it that way. No girls are waiting for free money. Sub kaam krti hain. Ghar mein hon ya bahir hon

You are the main culprit here.Open your eyes what your mother is doing to her,don’t blame on dramas.

Another big problem is Alpha brothers ... who impose all kind of hijaab only on their sisters ... if wife stop doing hijaab that's completely fine but all alpha geeri stay there for sister only ... the sister has to live with someone else, brothers! be fair while dealing with your sister and wife

Ok let me make something clear We are not hating on Pakistani content/film/drama/youtube industry whatever.. The point is that in the drama serials the content is so repetitive.. The young are just getting brainwashed and whatnot... The teenage girls are making up false fantasies in their brain that some prince will marry them and life would be perfect... You have to sacrifice a lot in reality to be happy... && also the fact that your mother in law is always zalim in their minds thanks to the stupid nature of Pakistani dramas and how forcerfully they are fed into the brains of the girls that watch it.... SO if you religiously watch such kind of dramas or know someone close who watches it... its not too late to reconsider ezpz... Make Good decisions,,, have a safe life

We Indian's are now laid toward shows like aspirants, panchayat or any series feom tvf which are giving some good content and i am happy that the young generation of girls are now not watching these shows (most of them) but still there are shows like big boss gaining popularity here

in the west most women are working and have the 'goals' he is talking abt yet women are still unhappy and stressed. plus so much more broken homes. im not saying pakistani society is right but clearly there is more to the solution than just women working and 'assimilating'

Its started from drama and ended on arranged marriages. Sorry to say but this video was just an emotional shot and totally lacked intellect.

Pakistani Drama also ruined my 1st marriage :(

Honestly the stories are getting worst like they need better plots..

Cousin se ker letay to izzat main rehtay. Magar larko. Ko. Bhi zalil honay ka shauq hota hay

Yeh to mere demagh wali bat Yahan sari princess hen

agar aurat bahir kam kar bhi rahi ho to mojeh nahi lagta ky vo khush hai or yai reaserches bhi batati hen...vo ghar bhi sanbhaly bacchy bhi sambhaly or phir bahir ka kam bhi kary WHY??? what I bring to the table is I take care of you, your house ,your children ....what do you bring to the table ?? JUST MONEY !! If she works she has money .. what a jock (if she is doing something happy it's her choice, you can't force her to do work outside, we can do things at home with no need to go outside) I live in Quetta and the majority of the women here are business women, running different org. and doing a lot more. i am also a freelancer and an entrepreneur last question why do people want to see women outside?

When you mentioned Ertugurul foreign content brought to PTV is a propaganda dramas. I agree with you 100000000000000%%%%. Dil ki baat kardi.

Junaid bhai You should call usman riaz for a podcast.

Education channel kaha h

Haunted Dramas indeed

11:48 whe she can bring to the table is that she can contribute by making achieving goals easy for the husbamd, by taking care of house and taking care of children and nurturing them in a good way. But that's another thing that women don't realise it. Also they don't have any hobby except netflix or dramas. But I feel like Mr.Junaids's view in this matter is somewhat Baised. Its not like they are wylie or something they really working whole day, cleaning, cooking, washing and all. But if some is not doing it then afcorse she is a freeloader and want only to netflix and chill.

Love marriage bhi gambling hai shadi say pehlay sub kuch ideal hota hota hai asal life shadi kay baad ahoro hoti hai hai, i am no against love marriage laiken aesa he hota hai.

Drama se ghar kharab nehi hota

16:50 true. Its a army ranking system here. likes and dislikes. Overseas ones have no idea what is happening in pakistan. They are really not well read or informed

Dude belive me if she was into these dramas she never was a mature person to begin with, all that job hunting, language skill etc would have been a show or she was taught to do so in order to win you over. There are many young girls who do not like to watch these dramas eventhough if any of their family member is watching it. They are mature people, they spend their time in productive things and if they watch any movies or series they choose them according to their taste. You should be thankful to GOD that this toxic and immature woman is longer the part of your life.

Ganji Swag hamare dramy songs r actors ki acting har chezz endia se far better hai so don't worry

Ture facts and figures ❤

YOU ARE NO QUALIFIED TO GIVE THESE ADVICES....PLZ STOP DOING THIS AND REFER PEOPLE TO PROFESSIONAL EDUCATED CONCELERS

8.45 bilkul sahe log pata ni Pakistan se shadi karo larki ki larky ki bhi matlb bahar bhi ache proposal hain why not phr divorce hoti hai ya larki Pakistan main bachy aur susral ko face krti hai

مسلمان کی کافی بار ہوتی ہے شادیاں 🎉 ویسے حادثاتی طور پر آپ بھی امیر ہوگئے اللہ کے حکم سے اور اللہ پاک اسے سدا برقرار رکھے باقی عقل کی کافی کمی ہے آپ میں. ❤ یہ شادی والی بات تو صرف حوالہ دیا ہے ویسے ہی. زندگی میں کچھ بننا ہے نا تو لمبرون کی صحبت سے کوسوں دور رہنا ورنہ دماغ مزید کچرے کا ڈبہ ہوجائے گا ❤❤❤

3:08 How? IZLAM

Showing Ertugrul was the best thing PTV did, it was mind blowing to watch. I started to read Quran with translation and 5 times prayer. In pakistan no one says Salam and even in ISPR dramas they will show soldier dying without kalma-ai-shahadat. We need to stay from pakistan TV industry and read more books

Obviously ek aur case jahan amma jaan ne bete ka ghr khrab kia

Why is it still okay to say stuff like 'typical wife' material. You cannot generalise all housewives. Not everyone has nothing to do except watch TV all day. Its high time people start respecting homemakers. As far as looking for wives in the same place that they are living is concerned, I can tell you that the same men when they have career oriented women cannot accept the fact that they will have to contribute to household chores. They then have issues with the fact that she spends all day at work and then comes home and doesn't cook and clean and isnt treating me like the royal prince I thought she would. Men need to look at themselves first and then complain about the wives that they get. Also, a marriage ending is on both the parties. Before it was your wife's fault, it was your family's fault. First of all they should have let you get married to whomever you wanted. If that was a dealbreaker then they should have looked into what kind of girl they were looking for. It is your fault for not clearly stating before what you expected in a partner. Its very easy to simply blame the girl and dramas for ruining your marriage. How about men learn to take ownership and responsibility. P.S. I am a homemaker who left work to raise kids because I didnt want strangers raising them. Ofcourse the husband is never expected to leave their jobs to raise their kids. I spend the majority of my day picking and dropping them to and from school, swimming lessons, football lessons, grocery shopping, cooking, tidying, cleaning etc.

Jin larkion k life me koe career goals hoty hein un se koe shadi nae karta k ye ghar nae basa sakti 😂 what an irony, I m from Quetta BTW and have some goals and working towards them, yes city is conservative women dont move freely but you can find educated people

Bhi love marreige main bhe logon ke zidagian sahi ne hoti.Awrat ko kamana chie satttle hona chie phir zindagi age bhar na chie.

Dramas buray hain lekin is ka matlab yeh nahin hai k naukarani ban jaye aurat bahar k mulk mein ya kahin bhe. jab tak biwi linkedin pe naukri dhond rahi hai tau woh bohat achi hai lekin jesay he us ne jo dhonda chor diya hai tau woh buri ho gaye hai. donu maa betay nay larki ko bhaga diya hai aur blame dramas pe laga rahay hain.

Larkiyo ka mindset kyun nahi hota goal oriented? because of men. men who are their fathers and brothers. karey na support bante hai phir sare pakistani "CEOs". By choice koi aurat yahan vele nahi hai , jaise conditioning ki hai waise hey hai .

Don't agree k har orat pit Rai he ghr me

This guy is the guy Pakistani dramas show lol

@Junaid I dont agree with some of your points, for example i do watch pakistani dramas, i do watch daily vlogs, but then i do listen to your podcasts or different religious podcasts but i am an actuary, works full time, manage my house and my baby too, with a very supportive husband. You can multi-task just manage your time properly

Should not take tv serials seriously. . learn what is good and unlearn what is bad for you .. try to balance the marriage life .. for example you are cycling .. The front wheel is a wife and the back wheel is your (mother or family) .. you have to balance both wheels to drive . You can't do wheeling . You can't drive from your front wheel but you have guid it where to go. But your back wheel is a power behind you but you can't always use this power sometimes you should use it as a freewheel .

Pakistan me btya gya hai ke islam main aurat ko na ke barabr he azadi h bhair ni ja sakte yeh ni kr sakti wo ni kr sakti bhtt sari limit line kenche gye hen aurat ke aage us lye asa hota h sub

Junaid you must help Karachi people who are unemployed just like other

Haha !mom didn't allow him to choose a girl . And the blame is my wife copied drama dialogues bhai pehly apni confusion door karein . Pakistani dramay tu dekhna he chor dena chahiye

Ganju bhai ❤️ baat kam ki kri hai 13:00 90% awaam demagh sey farik hai tbhi they do give a fuck to anything that maximize the wastage of time 😂😂

Yeah love and arrange ke baat nahi tarbeyat ke baat hae...or jo keh ry ami abu ny aagy chly jana sharam kro bacho ko kia sekha ry k maa baap ke koi value nahi ...unka life experience kuch nahi unko zamany k sath China nahi aata woh andhy jahil hae? Hamari bhi arrange marrige hoi pr hum sab behan bhai khush hae ...wali k baghair nikkah jaisz nahi chahy 1000 bar court marrige kr lo..ulti he matain dy ry baith kr..agar bacho ke pasand sahih hae to theek agar nahi to koi apna bacha ya bachi aag mae kio daly..kia seekha ry yaha k nahi manta zindgi aap ke amma aba ny aagy chly jana purany zamany k loog apni life guzaroo...aisi soich Qiyamat ke nishanion mae sy aik hae jo aap jaisy loog promote kr ry...jahil

If girl step us then boys says she is giving herself as an object . She less respect I will marry with my mom's choice. She is dominanting but after some time of arrange marriage that can't realize that who is now dominanting because now they are under influence of Soo called love life.

That’s why I stopped watching these fuckin same storyline Pakistani drama its just time waste wohe purani ghisi piti story kuch productive Nhi bnaty 😢