Pastor Ray Bady Apologies to his wife in Front of the Congregation

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@RCBlakesJr. 3 ай бұрын

This is an amazing example of leadership as a husband and pastor.

@GStewart-ci7oj 3 ай бұрын

Thanks Bishop Blakes for your stamp of approval! You always have great content on your program regarding relationships. You are a blessing sir.

@spekialcay1 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@tamlynn100 3 ай бұрын

yes sir.. Pastor

@tonyaharris6593 3 ай бұрын

Yes. Pray keeps us in check

@jeanjohnson9522 2 ай бұрын

@@spekialcay1pp9a

@vickieregister7681 3 ай бұрын

😢😢😢😢 I am a pastor wife and that really touched me.

@noble604 3 ай бұрын

I attended a church where the pastor’s wife stopped attending. She *might come maybe once a month.... maybe every 6- 7 weeks but threee/four services a weekend ... no... she wasn’t there even one time for one service. She’d show up annually on the pastor’s anniversary aervice and stand in front with him to be acknowledged and to receive the recognition from the congregation but, other than that, whatever was going on at home/ in their marriage, no.... she wasn’t coming to church. I’m talking about for years. 10plus years. Currently . To this day. She doesn’t come. I stopped attending the church (for many reasons) but for large part because this pastor’s relationship was troublesome and this seemed to be a character issue, imo No one ever mentioned this formally in the church (a leader saying “Mrs XYZ is ill.. keep her in your prayers...”) and because she obviously doesn’t come, of course, we all could speculate on all kinds of reasons why, which one of them is “to blame” for it and what the pastor is really like but all we know is she does not come. 😥 The pastor never mentions his wife from the pulpit in any sermons, stories or family anecdotes. To hear him tell his stories, you’d think he’s single... “I was on a trip...” Her photo isn’t on anything church related, she’s not in any ministry.... She’s just not a part.😥 The point of all that is our families need so much healing, in every position. We continue to pray for pastors and their families. It takes a lot to be in that role. Pastors are leaving the pulpit left and right and we pray for their strength.

@cynthialurry7569 3 ай бұрын

I Am a pastor wife. I stop going to church with him many years. Because he is not right. He's a false pastor he preach one thing at church. And treats me really bad. DON'T SPEAK TO ME. I don't speak either. I can't tell you when the last time he told me he loves me. I have been been married to him 5 years. And I am working my way out. He will cause me to miss heaven

@melissamcfarlini_emerge1614 3 ай бұрын

Me too and this was so WONDERful to watch! 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️

@wamanisamuel3993 3 ай бұрын

Pliz @cynthialurry7569 Don't miss heaven because of your husband! Forgive him and meditate on God's word, pray that God will assist you in granting you the Grace to forgive him!

@sunshineb1778 3 ай бұрын

@@cynthialurry7569 be encouraged and keep your eyes on Jesus. I'm proud of you for not supporting hypocrisy. But don't leave unless you are sure that's what the Lord is telling you to do. May the Lord bless you and give you wisdom to deal with him!

@nyellesbeautybar1444 3 ай бұрын

They didn’t get to 31 years for nothing! BEAUTIFUL display of love!

@valeriehurt3050 3 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@TheGodzfav4 3 ай бұрын

Indeed. To see this is beautiful.

@cynthiaziegler6558 2 ай бұрын

Truth

@Uplift2023 3 ай бұрын

He hurt her REAL BAD. You can see the PAIN in her eyes even as he stood in front of her. Her heart is hurt. 😢

@SoarLikeAnEagle624 3 ай бұрын

You can tell! I can see how hurt she was/is. He must have crossed the line and said or done some things that went too far. May God heal her heart completely beyond this public apology. ❤️

@Uplift2023 3 ай бұрын

@@SoarLikeAnEagle624 Exactly!! ❤️❤️

@karenp7978 3 ай бұрын

Very true. Her pain is palpable and visible 😢❤

@marycaldwell5763 3 ай бұрын

Well What ever is in the Dark Will Come to the Light Wake up Men & Women who Know that God didn’t Want us in UnClean Things ok

@user-dv2pw5ym6x 3 ай бұрын

His public apology want make her feel any better. He’s exasperating the issue. He’s only doing it to make himself feel better. He’s selfish! It’s not about her! It’s about him! His conscience has got the best of him. Thank God he still has one, but she’s going to need a very long time to get over the hurt. You cannot only see it in her eyes, but you can feel her pain. Many Blessings my dear sister! God is with you.

@herkinkz 3 ай бұрын

THIS RIGHT HERE!!! Wasn’t nobody business what their indifference was.. the fact that he acknowledged his error with her in private & in public is mighty!! 💛🙏🏾

@vanessafitzpatrick5635 3 ай бұрын

Praise God 👏 😊

@precioussimoneinspires 3 ай бұрын

Yesssssss nosey for no reason! Ppl be wanting details to be messy! But will you pray for them ya know!!🙌🏽🙌🏽

@audreylittle2828 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@0709happy 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@dantedee4682 3 ай бұрын

That's a fact. He owes it to only her and the Most High.

@Royal-Ty-Things 3 ай бұрын

I dont want you to miss God because of me - Realness.

@tieshaadams5265 3 ай бұрын

THIS PART Sis 👆🏾

@MJ-lt5cj 3 ай бұрын

That was powerful.

@user-lp1fc3bb5y 3 ай бұрын

This is so real !!! I agree. By the way, Greetings to you Ty. This is Elder Grissom from GKB Macon Branch from back in the day. I thought that it was amazing that I ran into your comments like this. I still remember the day I invited you to Church. To see that you are .making healthy comments about a video of this caliber is a blessing to say the least. Please know that seeing your comment , and then seeing that the comment came from you really uplifted me. I hope that my comment encourages you the way that your have comment have encouraged me. Take care.

@kamed. 3 ай бұрын

BEAUTIFUL!

@gloriajones4657 3 ай бұрын

Awesome word of encouragement

@debrasmith8664 2 ай бұрын

I am a Pastors wife. And I am touched by this. This need to happen more!

@sharonjackson268 2 ай бұрын

Good for you! I'm not touched 🥲

@sheridanwallace2038 Ай бұрын

Pastor's wife, I'm happy it touched you too. People who are NOT in that role (ministry leaders) have NO idea the REAL hell you all go through. Ministry leaders (all positions) take on a LOT for others while their home is suffering. I pray healing comes to your home as well.

@hazelsbeatsandhits 2 ай бұрын

Seeing her reaction tells a deeper story, its more than we know,its bigger than some Kroger flowers and a public appology, she is in pain.Look at other women looking at her they know whats really going on ,please pray for this woman. Pray for her healing, spiritual freedom, joy,peace,personal deliverance in Jesus name amen 🙏🏾

@Msfruity44 2 ай бұрын

You noticed that as well. … 🙏🏽

@kimmay2453 2 ай бұрын

Yes, I can see the hurt on her face. He really hurt her 😞

@tjneverdefeated4394 2 ай бұрын

Exactly! His public display did not move her or fix anything.

@terryboothe4500 2 ай бұрын

100% agree. My question for him would be what kind of counseling is he going to seek so that he doesn’t do what he’s been doing behind closed doors again? It’s one thing to apologize, but it’s another to address the issue the root cause that had you do what you did. That doesn’t get corrected with flowers, although it was a nice gesture.

@born2cree886 2 ай бұрын

Yes ma'am! I agree, "Seeing her reaction tells a deeper story..." I literally typed on a sticky pad all of her response. She was literally trying to get through her pain with Jesus. I guess you have to live it to know it (I have lived it.)

@Grace_Social_Skills_ 3 ай бұрын

“You can’t preach something you ain’t living.” Amen 🙏🏽

@ChristinaJenkins-pk3ty 3 ай бұрын

That part. Brother reconciled!! Amen

@cherrylox88 3 ай бұрын

Listen, my Pastor always says, “Live me a sermon”. Anyone can preach one but if you ain’t living it then what does profit you? 🙌🏽

@PrincessOfARoyalKingdom 3 ай бұрын

So much FAKE PEOPLE IN CHURCH!!! Lying and having problems behind closed doors 🚪 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

@gloriajones4657 3 ай бұрын

Good word from your pastor

@jamesnatashaking6761 3 ай бұрын

Amen🙏

@arlenecollier2011 3 ай бұрын

What pastors’ wives put up with in secret is heavy; it’s a heavier load than other wives carry. God help them all❤

@SB-tc2jr 3 ай бұрын

Truth! If only people knew ...

@chiquitalanier1250 3 ай бұрын

⁠@@SB-tc2jrWe know……trust me. We know…….

@sabrinagields8992 3 ай бұрын

I'm a PK Kid, how right you are.

@GRIEVINGWITHYOU 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@_thewisdomhour 3 ай бұрын

Please explain why you believe pastor’s wives carry a heavi-er load than what other wives carry?

@mamadeborah1999 3 ай бұрын

This breaks the spirit of hypocrisy in the church! Praise God!!!!! More Pastors need to take notes❤❤❤

@mlatrellelove 2 ай бұрын

It’s really good to see a black man honor and respect his black Queen.

@monicadhenderson8670 2 ай бұрын

Yessssss!!!!

@peachesgospel 3 ай бұрын

I apologized to my husband before singing at a church event in front of everyone, it wasnt planned and he had no idea, but I share this same testimony that I can't sing about something that i'm not living....he nearly slobbed me down in front of everybody lolololol

@lisajohnson4667 3 ай бұрын

❤

@tinahammond4920 3 ай бұрын

Thank God because I have seen some terrible things by the head of churches this is leading by example

@jcardoso3619 3 ай бұрын

Praise God! This was powerful and beautiful. I'm not married, but I trust God and can use this with my relationship w/my daughter. 🤲🏽🙏🏽

@valeriehurt3050 3 ай бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@penielministries1231 3 ай бұрын

Amen. Blessings in your marriage always Beloved.

@chemay5803 3 ай бұрын

First Lady is full of wisdom and maturity 😊

@marivelortiz266 3 ай бұрын

Amen yes!🙏🏼

@noble604 3 ай бұрын

She really is. She already wasn’t exactly feeling his behavior, to begin with, that week 😬 then ... she had it made public to the church/ world 😬 then .... she was put on the spot to come up and talk about it. 😳 She easily could have let her emotions guide but it’s clear where she is spiritually. Praise GOD for her godly response to all of those situations. May Jesus be glorified and remain everything to her and to them. Amen

@chemay5803 3 ай бұрын

@@noble604 👍

@kenichimitchell9792 3 ай бұрын

I’m praying to get there too while on my journey.

@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok 3 ай бұрын

@chamey...nothing special,1st ladies are always matured, supportive & forgiving wheareas their husband treat them like shit!(south africa)

@yvetterenee8256 3 ай бұрын

He's blessed to have a wife with wisdom and unconditional love for GOD first. May GOD bless their marriage.

@tonyamarie6534 3 ай бұрын

This is what the church needs! Transparency among leadership!

@keahharrison4765 3 ай бұрын

I’ve grown up in church. If this was normal behavior in church not just husband and wife but among everyone the body of Christ would be so much stronger than what we are and could do more as a whole.

@thekingsplacegospeldjc4847 3 ай бұрын

🙏🏽 AMEN AMEN & AMEN🙏🏽

@user-lw8pk6fx6f 3 ай бұрын

JESUS GOT HIS CHURCH. WHY HE COULDN'T DO THAT AT HOME.

@user-lw8pk6fx6f 3 ай бұрын

I HOPE YOU NOT MOVED BY THAT PHONY MESS. WITH THE LORD IT'S HOW YOU ARE IN SECRET.

@toniamartin7516 3 ай бұрын

You are so right. 😊

@cherritalugo372 3 ай бұрын

@user-lw8pk6fx6f he said he did do it at home that morning but the Lord had him to do it publicly as well, maybe to help others...

@Vee316 3 ай бұрын

It’s no infidelity. Sometimes you can just talk to each other wrong and be disconnected from God. So true I am living that now. Please pray for me. 😢

@sheritaterrell-cooper6378 3 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@GRIEVINGWITHYOU 3 ай бұрын

Prayers 2you

@nancywells2099 3 ай бұрын

Praying

@joyfullnoize2242 3 ай бұрын

Exactly

@ramonaaker3529 3 ай бұрын

🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@kramarkmultimedia7912 3 ай бұрын

She’s heard apologies like this before and you can tell.

@wonderfullymade425 2 ай бұрын

Lol…

@Love1010P 3 ай бұрын

A Pastor’s wife here and this is beautiful 😍 #LoveWins…

@Pastoralmondgiggles 2 ай бұрын

GOD Bless You Abundantly in JESUS CHRIST NAME Amen!

@theonly1258 3 ай бұрын

His ability to put pride etc aside and publicly, openly apologize to his wife before congregation and God is beautiful thing to do🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥❤️

@yvetterenee8256 3 ай бұрын

He had to. He knew GOD was not going to bless that sermon and she would be giving him that eye.

@swtayh 3 ай бұрын

Men can be prideful and cruel at times. With that being said, I'm glad that he apologized to her at home first. Let's remember them in prayer because it's needed.❤

@DanThomasLIVE 3 ай бұрын

People (men and women) can be prideful and cruel.

@AmmyC88 3 ай бұрын

Amen. 🙏🏽 ❤

@melodygilbert5896 3 ай бұрын

Amen ❤❤❤❤

@melodygilbert5896 3 ай бұрын

We all have to change an become as little children to enter the kingdom of heaven. Matt 18:3 We have to be obedient to God, Never think that we are too powerful to apologize, pride goes before destruction Proverbs 16: 18-20. Pastor share the devil. Thank you Pastor ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@canwejustloveeachother2550 3 ай бұрын

@@DanThomasLIVE She addressed whom she wanted, not being corr3cted

@AnnWill0119 3 ай бұрын

What stuck out to me was her feeling of being uncovered and unsafe ! Her honesty and transparency spoke volumes!

@kenichimitchell9792 3 ай бұрын

FACTS!!!!

@user-ij3hf3wu2e 2 ай бұрын

Amen - that resonated with me.

@UncommonLeadership777 3 ай бұрын

3 minutes into this video-I paused it, and apologized to my husband. I needed to hear all of this !!! Thank you for this example of Christ Like obedience. “Mind your business-by taking care of Gods business”

@GatoreChantal 3 ай бұрын

That is right! Be blessed.

@ClentoniasWorld 2 ай бұрын

Yes Lord 🙏🙏

@CD-vv8wh 3 ай бұрын

Entire congregation should be on their feet. This is walking in true humility!

@oraldinepoellnitz3905 3 ай бұрын

Thank God for the humility of this pastor, husband, and wife 🙏 😢😮

@cynthiagreen1944 3 ай бұрын

I AGREE STAND UP

@LordCommandor 3 ай бұрын

Based upon your comment, you must not be married. Come see me after twenty -years of marriage and putting your two girls thru school. American black church is too fixated on sensationalism. Trust me this is no big deal.

3 ай бұрын

Amen

@user-lw8pk6fx6f 3 ай бұрын

PLEASE. I STAND ON MY FEET FOR THE KING OF KINGS. JESUS. IN GOD'S KINGDOM ALL HIS CHILDREN ARE SPECIAL TO HIM. I DON'T KNOW IF THEY PART OF GOD'S KINGDOM IN JESUS NAME. I DON'T WORSHIP NO FLESH AND BLOOD. I WORSHIP JESUS. GOD ALONE THROUGH CHRIST JESUS. AMEN.

@RodZilla11 3 ай бұрын

For all the foolishness that goes on in these fake churches, THIS should have gone viral to show a REAL MAN OF GOD, demonstrating REAL JESUS CHARACTER in public, to his WIFE!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I thank GOD for this Pastor! 😇😇😇

@Testimonioyfeunicas 3 ай бұрын

Say it again !!

@user-lw8pk6fx6f 3 ай бұрын

If they was for real about the Lord they wouldn't have people serving them. And calling him pastor and her first Lady. I see so many are ignorant.

@adarrinsmith7491 3 ай бұрын

SHOULD BE PRIVATE

@diamondsforthekingdom 3 ай бұрын

Say THAT!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥

@valenciajones6769 3 ай бұрын

Open rebuke and he rebuked his self … this was done back in the old days… he did right… God is coming for the church first so he is the head and the ppl that follow him is the body if the head not right the body is led astray so any thing that’s not of God repent correct it! Good job pastor! What a great example .. no one is perfect.

@professorc8377 3 ай бұрын

This woman of God just preached the sermon of the day! Love = longsuffering, patience, and edification ❤

@spekialcay1 3 ай бұрын

1 Corinthians 13

@kenichimitchell9792 3 ай бұрын

She sure did.

@rosemarytay88 3 ай бұрын

Amen to That!!!

@beverlywomble1582 3 ай бұрын

AMEN!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@angelaw9476 3 ай бұрын

He did the right thing. I was married to a pastor and he's one way behind the walls of the church and totally opposite at home. He would scream and holler at me on the way to church or stay silent. Then walk into church like flipping a switch and try to present himself as godly. I had to sit there like a prop on Sundays portraying a loving family. He was hateful and aggressive at home until I finally left.

@kenichimitchell9792 3 ай бұрын

Jesus!!

@berthaphiri3503 3 ай бұрын

God help him

@barbarawilliams527 3 ай бұрын

It's good you left your unequally yoked marriage. Even though I wasn't married to a pastor I stayed over thirty years. Finally I took him to court and the judge made him leave. I took him to court after a woman came to my door to tell me to go get him from his mistress house. I did because a week before that he told me that he had stopped cheating and I believed him.He eventually married her. Even after that he'd come to my house crying/begging me to take him back. He went all over our small town telling anyone that would listen that I was the best woman he'd ever had. He called me hollering and crying apologizing to me a few days before he passed He also told everyone that he was lying about the things he said about me. I asked God to make him do that and God did. I'm sorry my text is so long. I pray that God keep and bless you with a healthy,long and prosperous life as His presence, anointing and favor be in and with him. Enjoy your day Sweetheart.

@kingsdaughter9242 3 ай бұрын

Tell him to watch this

@erinnreed7697 3 ай бұрын

Although he was good to handle it at home, as a pastor he used this opportunity to teach and lead the people of God. Praise the Lord!

@elsieervin1652 3 ай бұрын

🎉😂Thanks for being a real strong man ❤

@frederickweeksjr.1189 3 ай бұрын

Interesting point. If she was surprised by him bringing it up, MAYBE he should have asked her if it was cool to discuss it before bringing it to the congregation.......... AGREEMENT is ALWAYS important.

@janicewilliams2093 3 ай бұрын

That was a beautiful jester, the pastor gave to his wife, an open apology in front of his congregation as well as @ home to his wife. Thank you Jesus!

@shirleyconnor1595 3 ай бұрын

Beautiful!!!… I’ve been in a church over 50 years and never seen this before!!! With all the negativity on social media, this should go viral!!!😢😢

@brianjohnson3855 3 ай бұрын

This is very beautiful to see the Pastor apologizing to his wife.

@joaniefitzgerald217 3 ай бұрын

My, my, my I've never ever saw anything like this. Some men need to see this right here. That's a true man of God. Love this.❤ May you have 31 more years.

@kevinharris3993 3 ай бұрын

I am reading the comments and it is disturbing that we can't rejoice for a man and a woman living out the scriptures. This is why the church has become wax cold. I am praying for the man and woman of God because it is not easy feeding God's sheep, and some times we are so busy feeding the sheep that those closes to us are starving. We need to cover our leaders in prayer because ministry is hard work and we want mercy from the leader but rarely have mercy for the keader.

@crystaltaylor1242 3 ай бұрын

It's disturbing to see the comments but it's refreshing to see what kingdom marriage truly looks like and the only reason why people have such a problem with it is because it has not been displayed properly in the body of Christ in the kingdom of people have been hearing the scriptures but not living the scriptures so that's why they can't recognize true Kingdom marriages when they see but that is what God is building in this season so people better get ready to hear the truth and truly see what kingdom marriages and living truly looks like cuz God is on the move and he's moving in every area in this nation God's will shall be done on Earth as it is in heaven 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@frederickweeksjr.1189 3 ай бұрын

I don't necessarily agree with you on this, but it's cool. I commented on it earlier.

@joanhudson2599 3 ай бұрын

@sabrinagields8992 3 ай бұрын

Oooooweeeeee that's a message right there.

@jamilbiotech91 3 ай бұрын

Don’t read the comments and thank God for the healing

@dietriamichelle494 3 ай бұрын

A lot of men and women need to do that. It only takes an apology. And asking for forgiveness. God loves us all.

3 ай бұрын

But it starts with the men- because they are the head.

@buteful25 3 ай бұрын

And changed behavior. It’s that simple.

@karmynstewart2332 3 ай бұрын

I totally agree. I love how he was so genuine. Not in this instance, but please know that an apology without changed behavior is manipulation.

@Joa32 3 ай бұрын

Why is it that now,you will acknowledge that the man is the head…I believe we can all I initiate it once we know we are wrong

@DrLisaB1 3 ай бұрын

I love it! People are going thru REAL problems, and they need leaders who can be REAL❤️❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@preciousbrown73 3 ай бұрын

He is real for this! What a man of God. Take notes gentlemen

@tawanasimpson5708 3 ай бұрын

I’m in tears. This was powerful. Thank you Father for this husband and wife.

@soulinspiration1 3 ай бұрын

At first she could not believe it and waited to stand. Then she concluded this is real and broke down, stood up, and shed a tear. The old folks used to say "you can tell how a Pastor behaves at home by watching the Pastor's spouse's reactions when the Pastor preaches".

@itsmel979 3 ай бұрын

Sometimes…I was married to one and no one knew the trauma I faced. Transparency is well respected.

@blazee3895 3 ай бұрын

Not always! A pastor shot his wife while they were at a conference. No one knew the abuse and pain she was hiding.

@danielharper4266 3 ай бұрын

That’s what you think happened here? Interesting.

@mekabarbour 3 ай бұрын

THISSSSSS!!!!!

@mamadeborah1999 3 ай бұрын

You can't preach something you ain't living! This is a needed Word!!!!

@kingsdaughter9242 3 ай бұрын

His wife’s words coming out to the congregation shows a true heart for GOD.

@gospelician 3 ай бұрын

Her response is tale-telling. You're not first, GOD is. Set the record straight, ma'am. He made it about him, you made it about GOD and through that, you can be a wife to him. She's spilling the tea in a sanctified way. Passa wasn't ready for her comment. Whew! Smart Lady. 👏🏾

@Shavier777 3 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

@mishawilliams4319 3 ай бұрын

OH YES 😊🙏🏾

@feleciachaplin4215 3 ай бұрын

She seems very sincere to me.

@saspalm2393 2 ай бұрын

I hope he's not abusive to her😢.

@beautyandfaithconsultingll3027 Ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@edwardfanningjr 3 ай бұрын

Whoever’s on keys deserves a raise!

@angelawalton4740 3 ай бұрын

Agreed!!! They added so much to this moment!🙏🏽💜

@beautyforashes.280 3 ай бұрын

😂😂❤for sure God bless y’all ❤

@shannonanderson957 3 ай бұрын

Yes!

@winfredwinny4708 3 ай бұрын

I second that!

@mj11222 3 ай бұрын

Facts only!!!💯💯🔥🔥🔥As a keyboardist myself, I was so thankful for this musician’s approach…there was healing even in the ministry of music. To God Be All The Glory.

@GStewart-ci7oj 3 ай бұрын

❤ I love this! He said first he apologized to his wife privately at home, then he publicly apologized to her during service. I especially like when he said he wasn't going into details about the situation. Everybody doesn't need to know the intimate details of your problems, nor can they handle them. Praying for God to bring them closer and bless their marriage for many more years.❤

@spekialcay1 3 ай бұрын

If he is not sincere, God will begin to allow the “dirt” to be revealed.

@angelsonia6310 3 ай бұрын

Really I thank God for her. If she didn't go to God, may be her husband wouldn't have realised his error. It takes the Spirit of God to be silent and rely on God. May the Lord give me this kind of grace to live for Him (God) alone; thereby making me a better person to my future husband and anyone around me

@rwhite3119 3 ай бұрын

How many other Pastors, Bishops, and men of God should do the same thing… I commend you for doing the right thing! 🙌🙌🙌

@sonjaanderson6933 3 ай бұрын

Watch for the next apology.

@ALECIAATHOME 3 ай бұрын

This blessed me as a PK…. and a wife…. Thank you both for your transparency. May God pour out double blessings for your obedience.

@eaglessoar65barrett37 3 ай бұрын

IF THIS A’INT RIGHT! You’re NOT RIGHT!! The SHEPHERD LEADS! We follow. Thank you! As an ex Pastor’s wife, I’m waiting still for my apology. Love this lady’s response of WISDOM☮️💟

@ThePastorsWifeCorner 3 ай бұрын

Plenty hugs

@mztellit0026 3 ай бұрын

“I gotta whole lot of gift but eventually the gift will run out”….thats good Pastor!

@GodsProphet84 3 ай бұрын

I need the oil to run wheww

@GratefulDaughter1 3 ай бұрын

That first lady is very feminine, genuine, and mature. I loved the words she spoke.❤

@blazee3895 3 ай бұрын

And I love how she kept the focus on God! No matter what her husband may or may not do …she ain’t leaving God!

@GratefulDaughter1 3 ай бұрын

@@blazee3895Amen! You are so very right!

@lynettejohnson8418 2 ай бұрын

AMEN!🙏🏾

@ClassyGirl-zl3wx 3 ай бұрын

Such a humble First Lady ❤

@SoarLikeAnEagle624 3 ай бұрын

Indees. May God continue to bless and lift her.

@zamib.2003 3 ай бұрын

Sir thank you… this is all most women want in relationship..an ear for God’s voice..sincerity..transparency..🎉

@psvincentdr.evejacobs2429 3 ай бұрын

It's very rare that you see this. Wow...this has to be God. For all the women of God in the front line who needed to see and hear this...take this as a reminder that God has you in mind also..I'm grateful I came across this...and Im in awe...❤

@mr.anthonyliggins3272 3 ай бұрын

I have so much respect for this Man & Woman of God for being so transparent. More people in the body of Christ need to learn from this moment.

@allynshepherd7233 3 ай бұрын

I love my brother and sister transparency! This is what a true man and woman of God looks like. ❤

@elgenekisakyeug223 3 ай бұрын

When light comes in The darkness will flee. You chose the right weapon for that battle!

@valourempress1901 3 ай бұрын

I am hear watching and crying. This brought me back to my own marriage that ended in divorce after 20 yrs. I endured several years of infidelity until one day I just told him ,I love you enough to let you go. He is now married to another woman and I chose to remain . It's 18 yrs since he is out of my life. My desire is to honor the most high. He has given his life to God ,and now he calls me for advice. I find myself sometimes being a counselor to him and his new wife with nothing but the love of God. I wish them well, the rest is up to God. Continue to Love your wife Pastor and may your wife do the same. Take it from me, a divorce especially after many years is like death of a loved one. It was for me and my 3 children. Even today my kids are grown people, but they are still traumatized from that divorce . Divorce is an evil weapon. God bless !

@beautyandfaithconsultingll3027 Ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@feliciawalker1004 3 ай бұрын

This is what true ministry is All about. It starts in the Home...

@valerielambert4218 3 ай бұрын

I used to be married and been divorced since 2015 and my ex-husband and I are still good friends to this day and will be until the end of time and hearing this really blessed me. God will fix everything if you let Him. God Bless you both 😊

@MegaMizzdiva1 3 ай бұрын

I respect any man who can apologize in public and in front of his congregation that he was wrong. We have to remember that Pastors are of flesh too!! Stop putting them on pedestals like they’re Jesus. All of Us makes mistakes. Yes men are nuts…but so are women. The important thing is that when God shows You your wrongdoings, hold yourself accountable. Accept that you did your wrongdoings and be obedient. Thank you Pastor for being obedient, apologizing to your beautiful wife, giving her/her flowers and leading by example. 🙌🏾👏🏾♥️

@user-kw5gy3ti9d 3 ай бұрын

This was awesome to watch. Never seen a pastor do this. Humility seems rare sometimes

@georgeblackwell4670 3 ай бұрын

That’s the type of wife every man prays for!! God bless this marriage!!

@berthaphiri3503 3 ай бұрын

How about a husband? Which type of the husband a woman prays for?

@amechecameron3217 2 ай бұрын

A door mat? Of course you want that.

@georgeblackwell4670 2 ай бұрын

@@berthaphiri3503 I’m speaking as a man!

@georgeblackwell4670 2 ай бұрын

@@amechecameron3217 I wouldn’t call her a doormat! They know their roles in the marriage! Thats why they are blessed! Nothing wrong with submitting to your spouse.. male or female

@sharonjackson268 2 ай бұрын

@@amechecameron3217😂🤣😅🤣😂

@seedofabraham31 3 ай бұрын

People need to see that their leaders have problems too. He apologized to her and confessed his wrongdoing in front of his congregation. Valley Kingdom.... you have a true man of God.

@dorothymckay3565 3 ай бұрын

There was no need to apologize in public. It was a private situation at home and that where it should have stayed in my opinion.

@seedofabraham31 3 ай бұрын

@@dorothymckay3565 I agree, it was a private matter, but the pastor felt need to apologize to his wife in public and to show his congregation he's not perfect and also ( confessed ) before God's people . This man humbled himself in front of his wife and everyone.

@boipelol1213 3 ай бұрын

@@dorothymckay3565 I couldn't agree more

@reesemonique 3 ай бұрын

@@dorothymckay3565there was a need and God told him to do it. the need was to show to be an example you don't deny what the holy ghost commands.

@MarieJones-dh6he 3 ай бұрын

Who pzstor at valley Kinvdom

@tamsdant 3 ай бұрын

That’s what you call a strong woman of god! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

@MsSandy7x7 3 ай бұрын

This is powerful especially for him to apologize publicly. I’m sure his example will help many men to do better.

@emamonreaux 3 ай бұрын

This is so Beautiful! As a PK I’ve never seen this and as I sit with tears in my eyes I wish this was more common ESPECIALLY in the church…. This was an AWESOME EXAMPLE and the CHURCH is missing this …. THE EXAMPLE MARRIAGES NEED in the home. God bless HIM AND HER, Their Marriage and the ENTIRE CHURCH❤❤❤

@helenmroy1 2 ай бұрын

I pray for all first, ladies everywhere, because a lot of women are going through for the minister 🙏 ❤ first time hearing about this church this beautiful!!❤❤❤❤

@thefirstoneannetbrbrowne9603 3 ай бұрын

It's not easy to live with pastors as a pastor's wife. It's time to come clean. Women really suffer, behind the curtain 😢😢😢

@katchylicious 2 ай бұрын

Don't make it about women! Are you saying you are without fault? Stop this selfishness.. Pray God the Pastor set an example. Quit making this about women. You figure women don't step out of line and some men don't go through stuff..

@wonderfullymade425 2 ай бұрын

I agree with you. My Mom was a preacher’s wife. A lot of hypocrisy in public. My Mom had to deal with this for years.

@lyshondajenkins4193 3 ай бұрын

I’m not married yet but I was inspired by your transparency. May God continue to keep you humble and obedient 🙏🏽👏🏽

@Chaunee2005 3 ай бұрын

This is truly what humility looks like! Glory to God!

@brittanyjones1628 3 ай бұрын

Thank God for this ministry . The Pastor & First Lady represents kingdom marriage so beautifully .

@awethutshengu9340 3 ай бұрын

Thank you First Lady. Your reply taught me so much. I thank God for the wisdom He has bestowed on you❤

@DoctorCarrieHall 3 ай бұрын

This is powerful when anyone can say that they are sorry and wrong Some people will never say forgive me I'm wrong.

@sunshinegaily 3 ай бұрын

This was absolutely powerful! He yielded to the leading, rebuke, and correction of the Holy Spirit.

@porte568 3 ай бұрын

I always look at the woman, her face and demeanor completely says, using your church to try to fix us ain’t working. This lady looks tired and looks unphased by this apology; she is sincere whereas he coming off as wanting to be apart of the crowd.

@latoyacunningham6940 3 ай бұрын

The whole scene was a shame wasn't it? It was all about him, not Christ. Fake.

@amechecameron3217 2 ай бұрын

Bingo. A mess.

@user-ij3hf3wu2e 2 ай бұрын

I sensed he broke her spirit. I sensed brokenness.

@wonderfullymade425 2 ай бұрын

I agree. She looked very hurt. She wasn’t impressed.

@wonderfullymade425 2 ай бұрын

@@user-ij3hf3wu2eVery true.

@sharonjackson268 3 ай бұрын

Hmmm... I hope he doesn't go home and turn into the #incrediblhulk!!! Hmmm...suspect...

@itsmel979 3 ай бұрын

I WAS in a ministry where the Bishop did not treat his wife right in front of his congregation. To the point I had to respectfully step in. 😢

@noemitorres651 3 ай бұрын

I don’t know she look’s sad 😞 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼let’s just keep all the Man and Women of God in Prayers the Enemy is after the Church Blessings 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@sandyb.3630 3 ай бұрын

I agree. I have been married for 20 years. I'm now separated. I know that look. Whatever he did hurt her pretty bad.

@born2cree886 3 ай бұрын

I agree that he truly hurt her. Even while on stage, it was about the focus on Jesus. I read the comments and they were praising him, but we do need to still pray for them. Whatever happened scared her, and it threw her thoughts back to a tumultuous time. I am married and have been for 24 years. An apology is fine, but sometimes the wound is so deep. I know why she responded in her actions like she did, and verbally.😢

@MissCalLowe 3 ай бұрын

I agree. Women with certain life experiences can surely SEE she’s treading the edge. I’m hopeful she’ll find her footing and get stronger in the areas that will benefit her wellbeing and let everything else come after.

@blueskiesarelovely 3 ай бұрын

Yes, I see hurt and I'm praying for their marriage.

@marciarodney337 3 ай бұрын

this is God at work, you must call into accountablity of your actions, may God be your guide

@andrenefrancis3690 3 ай бұрын

You don't know how many ppl you've helped in this moment through your obedience to the Holy Spirit. God bless you Man of God.

@valetasellshomes 3 ай бұрын

I appreciate his honesty. The fact that he was able to humble himself and hold himself accountable for his actions toward his spouse says alot about him as a husband, Pastor, and man representing the body of Christ. Blessings to their union.

@Ministersdw 3 ай бұрын

This is so ENCOURAGING to and for the Body of Christ…and those of us who are married. Thank you Father God for these Leaders who are walking in Spirit and Truth #thispart

@prohatsounds 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for showing your church a great example of humility. You are a great leader.

@Bannerkim1 3 ай бұрын

Lord I just thank you for the inspirational and growing testimony and message by this couple, leaders in the church and part of a marriage. Thank you.

@princesschrisyj 2 ай бұрын

The part of not feeling protected, women understand. That when you put it in God's hands and He brings safety and He'll even cause him to over flood you with security. Keep praying women

@WordsPictures997 3 ай бұрын

😭😭😭 Thank you Pastor. Well done Sir! Thank you for loving your wife well 👏👏👏👏👏❤

@brandyross2942 3 ай бұрын

This is literally such a powerful demonstration for all of us! This is beautiful 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@daaangdasia 3 ай бұрын

Powerful!! This is wisdom. Lord cover all marriages, including mine. Amen!

@Novakim1989 3 ай бұрын

This is a powerful message to the world 🌎. I love it all. I loved it when he said I dont want you to miss God because of me. Im not a pastor. Im not perfect 😢. But this message touched me in a new way. I dont want to see anyone I love, miss God because of my mess. God bless 🙌 🙏 their marriage. We are never too big to say we are sorry.

@t7cooley420 3 ай бұрын

When you are connected to God - you can’t even sleep right. I believe this accountable example has impacted many. Ministering on so many levels - singles, marriages, men and women, youth, families… the level of authenticity and displaying your heart posture of who your first love and responsibility is to is humbling. We are nothing without Him. Amen. All praise and glory to the Lord. Praise the Lord. 🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽

@Kiyaboo214 3 ай бұрын

Amen.

@loveabounds611 3 ай бұрын

Pastor Ray, this was God working through you. It was such a powerful example and I wish more of us Queens could experience this!🙏🏽❤️

@kittyessy 3 ай бұрын

Am a Pastor's kid, and watching this makes me want to see a lot of things that were done wrong being rectified...Lord, you see my heart. #Kenya

@mathildap.7705 3 ай бұрын

I applaud him for doing that...however, her demeanour told a deep hurt and pain he caused her. She didn't show much emotions when he spoke, she was stoic and still hurting. What old thing resurfaced and hurt her so deeply? He should go and get counselling before it happens again. Prayering for your FL. I know what it feels like because I'm a PW as well. Im seeing hurt all over this FL. Lord protect her and keep her safe.❤

@pansetasimon5311 3 ай бұрын

I applaud this Pastor and his wife. This shows transparency, honesty and maturity. God bless you both. This should go viral so that others will emulate and help to heal relationships around the world. Many blessings.

@kimberlybonds4291 3 ай бұрын

This is real Preaching, Teaching, Leading and Living the true Word of God. God bless this Pastor, First Lady and the entire Ministry.

@vekiebaking-shelton1452 3 ай бұрын

First time here and this made me subscribe! Thank you for being real and showing that we are human and go through things too. Just because we have a calling on our life we still go through worldly things. Pray, forgive and don't do it again

@crissiewilliams1280 3 ай бұрын

This really just gave me wisdom … Thank you for being led and being transparent ❤

@MsHappy-xz2px 3 ай бұрын

This is The Day that The Lord has made!!! God was With me Today and I recognized it! Beautiful message Sister 🙌❤️🙏😊

@donaldsherman4311 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤ I'm in total agreement with this pastor. I've not seen this done in any church. I'm not ashamed to do what this pastor did.

@Mulaasa8905 3 ай бұрын

Wow! This is amazing. Am so emotional 😢😢. I wish all men were this humble. Glory be God

@chasingathousand4003 3 ай бұрын

Whoa!!!! This was really needed! I really needed to hear this. Thank You God that this man's apology/ repentance not only helped/ healed his wife, but it went into overflow for many that he may never even meet!

@rev.karenandersonhardaway 3 ай бұрын

I'm a PK, now married to a pastor. Hubby shared this video, and I cried. Why? Because, as his wife, there were some days that I had to suffer through it. Thank you both for your transparency.

@IAmGHightower 3 ай бұрын

I'm praying today for you & your Husband. Abundant Blessings 2U both, your family & your ministry!