The Effect of Silence in Marriages and Relationships

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Жыл бұрын

This would settle many problems in relationships
The evil effect of silence in marriages and relationship.
Find out why your partner is not talking and the dangers around it

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@maameamajuliet5306 Жыл бұрын

May my man and I never be silent to each other and may we all experience the best marriages ever IJN….Amen🙏

@amokaseyineme2565 Жыл бұрын

Exactly how I was also treated until a few years ago i was asked to rather be silent.

@eferuth6408 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@fifipeck7984 Жыл бұрын

My ex husband doesn't talk he's in London. He doesn't talk to his children no school fees nothing. For almost 8 years we haven't seen him. He then sent his mum to come and end the marriage. May God come through for me and my two children. I met him when I was 16 years and I'm 35 years. I'm just tired...I really need God to intervene. He puts up a picture of him and another woman in their morning coats. I have been through a lot.

@kwesifelixboafo619 Жыл бұрын

Sad to hear that. Don't worry. Be hopeful in the Lord....

@estherkwakye201 Жыл бұрын

Let him go and be strong for your children, God will see you through.sending you love and hugs🥰

@amoatengesther8444 Жыл бұрын

It is well Let God lead 🙏

@akuadonkor5413 Жыл бұрын

Aaaaw I can really feel your pain just love God and choose yourself first , let him go my dear God will come through for you

@Ahoef3Becky Жыл бұрын

God will speak for you

@vivianshitakha2023 Жыл бұрын

Young people may God open our spiritual eyes to see this behaviors before we get in marriage 🙌🙌 Thank you Holy Spirit for enabling pastor Elvis to reveal this deep secret to us🙏

@Regiscerealfoods_1. Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏽

@esthermensah7967 Жыл бұрын

Aww papa God bless you for this powerful message 🙏

@sophierodrigues7320 Жыл бұрын

God bless you my dear sister,young women hear this advice 🙏

@PreciousKokroko 10 ай бұрын

Is my prayer the Good Lord strengthen us, specially women who encounter such situations. Many of us women go through such challenge but it's been very very painful to handle, because God created some women so wonderful that all they need is peace, love and joy. So when such challenge occurs it makes the woman remain quite and heart broken within! Silence from a man you cherish is very painful when it keeps occuring at a wrong time. May the Good Lord grant us the Wisdom, Grace, Strength to understand and find solutions to that challenge.🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🔥🔥🔥

@nanaadjoafabeahboateng85 Жыл бұрын

While I was listening, I said to myself “why didn’t I hear this earlier?” Infact I was a victim of such and didn’t know how to handle it and asuch it ended the relationship. I cried many nights, I lived in pain & hate towards others, I was bleeding, tried to keep myself busy, I lost total focus to the extent of loosing my job. We eventually broke up without a word from each other and he ended up turning me also into using silence to communicate to others. Thank you pastor for this eye opening secret of good & bad silence… God bless you abundantly 🙏

@yarhnyarko3096 Жыл бұрын

Aww sorry

@lydialyzbeth7030 8 ай бұрын

😊😊😊😊99⁹😅

@vivianachiaa Жыл бұрын

I love listening to you. God has given you great wisdom. Your videos have helped me. I'm grateful to God, He has given you to us. You're truly a great man of God. You'll never miss Heaven. You've saved my marriage. Thank you

@cityofgold1325 Жыл бұрын

Pastor Elvis is full of wisdom. Thank you Papa

@amagyasiwaa2469 Жыл бұрын

This was meant for me to listen😭😭😭the first 5 minutes is exactly how I’ve been treated for a year now😭🙏🏿

@jeanettecharis2849 Жыл бұрын

Sorry about that Sis, however the principle in Mathew 18 :15-17 helped me tremendously in such circumstances...kindly study & apply it. Here are a few suggestions based on those scriptures : Be bold to open up to him about it, how it makes you feel and the kind of changes you want. If he listens, praise God🙌. If he doesn't take you seriously, prayerfully get the "right persons" to talk to him... If he still won't listen and another attempt at it fails, just pray for him and boldly walk out if you're not married yet (it's a more alarming red flag). It'll save you "YEARS" of wasting your time... Go & build your life spiritually, economically, socially, academically and in every other Godly way... You'll reap sweet benefits including a better relationship. If you're already married, ask God for his guidance before you make any decision... Whether you believe you must stay or separate yourself from him for whatever reason, stop focusing on him and once again build your life spiritually, economically, socially, academically and in every other Godly way. The fruits will make you more fulfilled... he'll look back at you sometime to come & shamefully go away, or apologize & make things right... you have only one chance to live your life, God has not given any body an assignment to come & frustrate you unless you give them permission to. Choose to be the victor, not the victim, be in charge of your happiness cuz it's no one's responsibility apart from you. Hope this helps. 🙏

@y.b.6781 Жыл бұрын

Truth be told. Emotional abuse at best when they don't want to deal with issues. Sad situation as it affects all including children as they sense the rift. So much unnecessary damage from the selfishness.

@dollybond8589 Жыл бұрын

You have really expressed well

@samuelwhyte5361 Жыл бұрын

Please can we have the continuation... It has been of great help.. please don't keep silent🙏🏽

@emprezzclasspeters364 Жыл бұрын

So the best way is , I withdraw my energy.. for my mental safety

@purelykingdomofgod2249 Жыл бұрын

Exactly but apparently its the wrong way.

@deborahsakyi-djan4197 Жыл бұрын

Some are great men with full anointing but posses that attribute

@purelykingdomofgod2249 Жыл бұрын

I can relate paaa, I pray God gives us the courage to express ourselves vocally and not silently.

@stellaadjei1766 Жыл бұрын

For your teachings dàddy I really find great joy and happiness listening to you😂😂 since 2am I have been listening to you non stop😂😂

@user-gg4qx8dk4b Жыл бұрын

This has got me teary,I am passing through this silent treatment from my husband since 2months ago. May God intervene for me and may thy will be done

@rosegold6209 2 ай бұрын

His seeing someone

@Naa_Dzama Жыл бұрын

May me and my husband to be not go silent on each other in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾

@daisytsogbe4256 Жыл бұрын

I cover my marital life with the blood of Jesus amen

@AdjoaWerekoah 12 күн бұрын

I connect i and my future husband to this powerful altar we will not be silent to each other in Jesus name amen, 🙏

@chelslovely9351 Жыл бұрын

Reverend this is exactly how my husband treats me.

@maryowusu4196 Жыл бұрын

I am going through this...God heal my marriage

@motherasabea4473 Жыл бұрын

The annoying part is when they cheat they intentionally ignore you so you don't talk about it. It kills, trust me it is deadly 😭

@blessingkumah5032 Жыл бұрын

Such an eye opener Pastor Elvis 🙌 🙏. I'm really learning a lot

@mkalinecpf5206 Жыл бұрын

Blessed be the word of God to us this is wisdom am smiling because of truth am receiving what a beautiful sermon

@RebeccaMensah-ct1nm Ай бұрын

May we never be silence in our relationship to marriage in Jesus mighty name amen

@Ogedeone Жыл бұрын

It's common with people who are narcissistic. My husband can be silent close to a whole year. God has done it indeed. 🙏

@evaamanfu6143 Жыл бұрын

There was a silent treatment between my guy and I , some months ago but we both love each other and now it’s like things are getting out of hands. May God come through for us. Because am emotionally and mentally unstable

@cindybawa1473 5 ай бұрын

Same as mine may God have mercy on us,😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@hephfaigrace6323 Жыл бұрын

Thank you pstr for always teaching us, may God almighty continue to use you mightily in Jesus name, amen.

@rejoiceafflu662 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Papa!!! May the good Lord increase you!!

@maudpipim-addo3665 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this message. You are so right and your message is real and on point.

@princeaddo2520 Жыл бұрын

Such an eye opener. Thank you Man of God

@lifestyle_channel Жыл бұрын

Very powerful... I bless God for this wisdom 🙏

@maryadubea5692 Жыл бұрын

Man of God this is deep..God bless you for the enlightening

@victoriagyamfi1096 Жыл бұрын

Powerful message 😊… God bless you Pastor.

@jennyloveyoung Жыл бұрын

God bless you 💓💕 very powerful message

@elizabethowusu9838 Жыл бұрын

God bless you pastor Elvis Agyemang 🙏🙏🙏

@josephineapokakunyese5956 Жыл бұрын

God richly bless you for this powerful massage 🔥

@sarahabakahessoun6192 Жыл бұрын

God bless u papa. More wisdom to excel in ur ministry.

@girls4christ430 Жыл бұрын

Great message 😊

@marthaadekola505 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Daddy for this eye opening message

@sethadu-poku7299 Жыл бұрын

Very powerful message God bless you man of God have really learn alot

@kukuwaaadu3682 Жыл бұрын

This is actually for me this week. Battling with one with my boyfriend and it’s causing me mental stress. I nearly lost my life out of this and all I keep asking myself is “so just because this time around I refused to make excuses for him and I refuse to say sorry for his wrongs? This is the end result? After how many years & he is rather giving me silent treatment 😢. Mercy oh lord

@stellaadjei1766 Жыл бұрын

Hmmm my dear he is moving on with his life try hard to also move on to be able to forget someone it's quite not easy but the only way you can do that is to think about his bad side I guess he has lots of bad side than good if you do that you will begin to forget about him try this my dear because no guy is too good that you can't let go

@ivietracy4880 Жыл бұрын

My dear , what you tolerate when you are dating is exactly what you will tolerate when you get married .. a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.. love yourself and know you deserve better .

@maryanokye1512 Жыл бұрын

Sad. But as difficult as it is,try to focus on yourself and your future. May God bless you with joy.

@sophierodrigues7320 Жыл бұрын

Hello my dear, move on ,and seek the Kingdom of God first and every other thing will come with it. I have thirty-five years in marriage, l can promise you he will never change. The simplest answer is he does NOT LOVE YOU. MOVE ON. YOU WILL LOOK FOR ME ONE DAY TO THANK ME.

@motherasabea4473 Жыл бұрын

Hmm, story of my life. Have really endured in marriage

@afiasika8616 Жыл бұрын

Powerful…thank you Sir

@patriciaamo9579 Жыл бұрын

Wisdom personified 🔥🙌🏻

@daisytsogbe4256 Жыл бұрын

Let this spirit of silence go away from us in our marriage in JESUS Name

@areyousmarterthangod8782 Жыл бұрын

This kind of people can only be feed by their own medicine until, they also feel what they are injecting into your emotions. The worst is to allow them to be the victims by going to apologize first. If they can victimize you from day one the have succeeded into pushing your buttoms.

@richardadu6005 Жыл бұрын

Powerful man

@lifegateadukpo5036 Жыл бұрын

May my husband and I not be mute on each other for even a day... I pray for total peace in my marriage in Jesus' name

@dorothyabakah9857 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@nyarkoconstance7927 Жыл бұрын

I connect myself and families in the name of Jesus Christ amen 🔥🔥

@HighLearningBrighterFuture Жыл бұрын

Thank you Pastor 🙏🏾

@RebeccaMensah-ct1nm Ай бұрын

Lord please dont let i and my partenar be abuse each other in your name 🙏🙏🙏🙏

@franklinaagedemeier9030 Жыл бұрын

Very deep 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@evelynyaadanso8919 Жыл бұрын

God bless you man of God

@Mily368 Жыл бұрын

FATHER,I always depend on you on my marriage,enough is enough now in this relationship that am in now.

@emmanuellaaryeetey1904 Жыл бұрын

I feel like pastor elvis is talking to me in my current relationship...God have mercy 🥺

@christopher.ellah123 Жыл бұрын

I love u pastor

@mensah-oklefiovaleria1123 Жыл бұрын

Thank you PaPa..God bless you for this sermon 😀. I was once in this toxic relationship but have moved on

@franknyarko8448 Жыл бұрын

Hi pls can I contact u pls

@mensah-oklefiovaleria1123 Жыл бұрын

@@franknyarko8448 Okay

@franknyarko8448 Жыл бұрын

How can I reach u pls.

@whodinijonas6411 Жыл бұрын

I suspected my wife of having an affair with a male friend . I have talked about it all I can and rather she gaslight and make me feel bad for trying to address that issue , now I don’t talk anymore and the only thing that rings in my mind is “divorce” divorce “ divorce .

@gloriatetteh4650 Жыл бұрын

God bless you Exactly this what end my relationship My fiance was like that

@BroEnock 7 ай бұрын

Some people also become silent when a spouse àlways approaches n receives insults as a response........

@afriyieabigail6662 Жыл бұрын

May God bless you papa

@joshuaopare4778 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@monalisananayaaankomahbeatrice Жыл бұрын

God have mercy on us not to keep silent in my relationship in Jesus name amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥

@rosepally8924 Жыл бұрын

Thank you papa

@ishmaeldzakpasu2061 Жыл бұрын

Man of God u are on point.

@nanayaw677 Жыл бұрын

Aww pastor Elvis you're too humorous

@Victory.1707 Жыл бұрын

This is for me 😢,God I need you 🙏🙏🙏

@ruthserwaaamaniampong6494 Жыл бұрын

I ve a courtship relationship with my guy and we are almost 7years nw,all the time he keep on be silent because he don't know why u talk much and am Nt a cuul or silent type so it hating mee,I always complain all he can say is dat am Nt addicted in calling and I normally say to my self like hw we ve dating since nw and u can't change for the one you love and it means u are doing something else where,what hit mee most is dat when he is Abt to come to my place we will be talking fine buh immediately he left dat silent mood start,he don't call or massage mee buh if I did he respond, it's worrying mee paa and nw what I ve decided is to live the relationship and move cos I can't stay with a person who normally think Abt his own Nt other

@hildsme4802 Жыл бұрын

Best decision If you are a priority he will always be eager to hear from you, know what’s going on with you Wise up, your mental health is important

@daisytsogbe4256 Жыл бұрын

May God help me and my husband in our journey in JESUS Name

@preciouscornervlogs1020 Жыл бұрын

Powerful

@ayikunaomi8037 Жыл бұрын

Hmmm thank you men of God

@deboraasase2718 Жыл бұрын

😊thank you Papa

@benedictahammond377 Жыл бұрын

God bless you

@gedegbadzi5901 Жыл бұрын

This Silence issue has many twist and angels, if not covered properly from the root. It can worsen issues.

@stevenkamwendo8245 13 күн бұрын

powerful

@Ella0553 Жыл бұрын

May God have mercy on us 🙏

@jenicaachia2882 Жыл бұрын

You're not lying laa

@keishaowusu597 Жыл бұрын

True talk

@leonaracudjoe7899 Жыл бұрын

Hmmm true talk ooo father help us

@abbancatherine9531 Жыл бұрын

Word 😊

@MissLee77 Жыл бұрын

Thanks God

@user-rp7uh1ug4m 6 ай бұрын

Is true paa oooo

@amoatengesther8444 Жыл бұрын

God have mercy

@janetamoah3877 Жыл бұрын

May God have mercy

@nanaakua2381 Жыл бұрын

Lord Jesus guide my ways, let your will be done in my life, bless me with a godly, good husband and good marriage.

@adizaackaah558 Жыл бұрын

Is mostly the men that they change themselves when they see other women😔😔

@sakyiemelia8286 Жыл бұрын

It's two way dear. Women do same

@janetamoah3877 Жыл бұрын

I have the same experience

@belindaaboagye6855 Жыл бұрын

Lord have mercy on us

@purelykingdomofgod2249 Жыл бұрын

🥺 Mercy🙆‍♂️

@thomasamezah5457 Жыл бұрын

Eiiiiii hmmmm it's really true

@noras_decor5066 Жыл бұрын

My ex was like that,thank God we broke up

@sheilaayeligiliga5881 Жыл бұрын

These are the same problem into please daddy I need help to save my soul

@jenicaachia2882 Жыл бұрын

Indeed

@luckyadzika5543 Жыл бұрын

Thank you papa 🙏

@franciscafrimpong5731 Жыл бұрын

Hmmm am going through this same thing my husband is everything you say when I said I want a divorce he is trying to get me back but he can't change

@judithagbemenya4079 Жыл бұрын

Hmmmm it is well

@amokaseyineme2565 Жыл бұрын

My husband wants me to always be silent when he's talking and even if he's done talking. And when i want to explain my side he gets angry and tell me if I'm tired of the marriage i can walk out. He's a submissive woman must always be quiet. The least thing he gets angry and speaks to me anyhow even to the point of insulting me in the presence of children and neighbors. So just this these i have decided to be silent so that he doesn't disrespect me again but then he still finds a way to do it. The silences is killing me but i don't know what to do

@hildsme4802 Жыл бұрын

Eii Hmmmmm

@estheragyapong8149 Жыл бұрын

I use to have a boyfriend who was like that.The moment I realize he never want me explain my side I quit the relationship.It’s a red flag right there.Thank God I didn’t marry him.I got married to a respectful man who’s always ready to listen to my side.

@veraeyi-mensah9730 Жыл бұрын

Papa nie

@elizabethashong3810 Жыл бұрын

It's a message

@deborahadjei1764 Жыл бұрын

Papa we are sorry 😅

@princeaddo2520 Жыл бұрын

Wow

@maameesiapp Жыл бұрын

Exactly what I’m dealing with in my relationship. Once i confront him about something wrong he did that made me unhappy, he’s rather going to act angry and give me the silence treatment for over two weeks till we somehow get back to talking normal. No apology whatsoever

@happyagbo964 Жыл бұрын

Hmmm

@augustinaagyei-kane2298 Жыл бұрын

Pastor Agyeman Elvis indeed you are really God sent amen

@hildsme4802 Жыл бұрын

If it’s not marriage, my dear ran…for the sake of your mental health

@kofiduku934 Жыл бұрын

@@hildsme4802 what if it’s marriage??