Not begging no mf body to bring me my child if I gotta catch the train I gotta catch the train 😤

Tf does $20 a week do for a child?? “I try my best” TRY HARDER WTF

The way some of these men get applauded for doing the bare minimum. Good lord. I'm glad I was fortunate enough to have a father who didn't make excuses and bust his ass to make sure I was taken care of.

If you can get a ride to the trap house, you can get a ride to get your son!!

Wow...she’s called bitter while he’s the one being a dead beat.

So he only pays $20 and he expect her to use her resources and gas money to bring his child to him. Smh I bet he find a ride everywhere else. also I don’t think she is bitter if the two mothers of his children are working together apparently he is the weak link.

I have a daughter that lives in GA. I'm from Ohio. When my daughter was living with her mom, I used to go to Georgia to get her and I would take her back to Georgia. Later I got custody. But if this man wants to see his son, he needs to find a way. It's not on her to take her son to him.

The fact that he thinks $80 a month is enough for a child makes me sick. Stop enabling these men and make them get jobs.

Judge Mathis Fell for the okey doke. The plaintiff was saying a whole lot of nothing. $20 in child support...smh

There is no excuse for the non custodial parent to not be able to work two jobs and give something . The custodial parent has to sacrifice everything. There isn’t any trying ..

He we go judge capping for the guys as usual. It is the man's responsibility to pick up his own child.

He got his child support reduced from $42 to $20 and that’s to be commended?!

I hate this one he really had the nerve to call her bitter when she’s taking full time care of their son working and all 80 dollars is not nothing

Why is judge giving him props for doing the bare minimum?? Omgosh. The bar is set so low for black men. My husband’s dad took 100% care of him and put him through college. and yes he’s black. $20 a month is nothing.

One time my daughter's father gave me $100. A few months later, we were at court for him being like $16k behind in cs and he says "I gave you $100. That money was for my daughter, not you" and the judge goes "well how long did you think $100 would help take care of your child for?" 😂

She said “not me” with a swiftness like that’s a problem but ma’am you slept with him and without protection so being from Gary is the least of your problems

He has that baby boy mentality. I don't like it.

hes paying $20 each month meanwhile shes probably spending $300 on her son every 3 weeks

Stress about what? Paying five dollars at a time. You should be embarrassed. Know damn well that’s Yo kid. Got six fingers

I cant believe judge mathis let him go on with all them excuses its definitely not fair that all he can pay is 20 dollars and the mom have to pay the rest...we as mothers cant just do wat we can we gotta go above and beyond for our kids so he should do the same...was very disappointed with judge mathis with this. case that lady aint bitter she deserves some help!!!

Why should she have to go out of her way to drop her son off just because he doesn’t have a car?

How is it her responsibility to get his child to him??? Sir get on the train! He really got praised for the bare min and she got called bitter for what? Judge Mathis missed the mark on this one. I'm disappointed in the way he handled her.

Judge Mathis be tripping! She damned if she do damned if she don’t . He think women supposed to except the bare minimum

TWENTY DOLLARS A MONTH and he deserves respect and leniency??! JM can sometimes be too nice to these “reformed” street dudes. He was just cussing her out and threatening her life. So she wasn’t “bitter”, she’s fed up!

She deserves alot more than $5000.00..from that unmotivated man.

So all a dude has to do is dress up his pitifulness while doing the bare minimum and he gets a standing ovation 🙄 She’s somehow responsible for giving him rides to visit his son 🤨 He’s 15 grand in arrears but gets credit for buying an outfit here and there 😑 He lacks a good relationship with BOTH of his children but he’s the victim and she’s bitter 😒 yeah ok

The mother showed a lot of restraint! Judge Mathis did her dirty!

Not Judge Mathis giving this man a golf clap for doing the bare minimum 🙄

Calling her “bitter” was completely out of line. And he’s a bum. Smh

That guy ran a whole game on JM and now back at home laughing with his homies about JM 😂😂😂😂

He got money for a nice suit and jewelry but can't pay for a DNA test 😆 Had to go on TV and blast his business for a free test

I think he was hoping the child was not his so he wouldn't ever have to pay anything again.

When you meet a guy like this , why have a child by him ?! I JUST DONT GET IT 😩. Why do so many invite pain and chaos and dysfunction into their lives and then have kids and subject them to the same crap! ?DAMN !

I understand Judge Mathis wanting to uplift the father and his efforts to become a better person. But I feel Mathis was completely out of line for calling the mother BITTER. She didn't deserve to be disrespected like that on television. 😡

Man that's bull!! JM really did the Mother wrong. $20 can't even fill the gas tank up. This whole episode is a mess. That man played the judge and he fell for it. Praying the Mother and son are doing well

When she laid down with him, I am sure she was aware of his financial struggles. Things don't turn into gold because a baby is born. Good luck.

He’s a professional at selling “you know what” but can only afforded $20 a month?? That’s not professional sir 🤣They’re both a mess

I was cracking up about her cousin being his case worker lol.

Attn Women: stop laying down with men who credit is messed up, don’t have a job, uneducated, lives with his parents, has several other children by several different women, he doesn’t have a car, no ambition, no motivation, etc.. the only thing they can offer you is sex. 🤧🤭😩

He called her bitter and that was wrong. She’s the parent that stayed. He knew that child was his, he just used that as an excuse to cover up why he’s inconsistent as a father. He just acknowledged that he has a legitimate job after running the streets for years so why would she wanna send him over there like that?

Well if his son lives 20 mins away then why is he waiting for her to bring his son over. Walk and go get him yourself.

Wow! Her face when he called her bitter very uncalled for and it kind of upset me. How is she bitter when the dad is the one bringing her there for a paternity test. She probably was living her life taking care of the child they had together. Gregg Mathis your wording was inappropriate with this case very bias...

So when she met him he was "unemployed", running the streets, had other children.yet within a year she had a baby by him?

He called himself a professional at drug dealing. Yet, he has no transportation and claims to be incapable of sufficiently proving an adequate quality of life for his son. Note: children still require basic necessities even when a parent fails to provide. Still, he wants to lecture us on the mother’s “ ways “. This is a lot of audacity and enabling.

A drug dealer that can't come up with $40 a week? What is he selling Aspirin?

“She was my cousin at the time” ... oh okay...

42$ to 20$ omg! That’s a shame

Both of them aren't sounding good at all. Absent father with all the excuses under the sun and after 10 years, he couldn't afford a private test? What a great drug dealer. 🙄🙄 He should've gotten a normal job, no matter what and provided a stable and consistent presence for his children, that's a truly trying father.

All his crying and whining is for the birds.. he’s so annoying 🙄

He’s a smooth talker!

That suit he got on ain't working 4 him, but he thinks he looks good, WRONG

Judge Mathis be so off sometimes with how he see these cases.

All they gotta do is hit Mathis with the i'm trying to change my life and he jump on they side! Mathis thinks he's hip to the game but he gets played time and time again!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Judge Mathis can go to hell with all this attitude he giving this lady that man is a bum next case

This case reaffirms that the BAR IS SET LOW for these "men."

Lol!!!!!Dude the case worker is the girl cousin that suppose to help you with your case😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Get 2 jobs if need be to help your child. Most importantly put him before the streets

I can’t believe JM called her bitter 😔😔

He called her bitter because he feels she could have at least acknowledged the fact he makes sure he gets his son stuff all the time doesn’t matter if it’s stolen or not .

I'm so sick of these men saying "I'm doing the best I can" Your best isn't putting food on the table. What if the mom, who has custody of the child, would let the child starve for 3 days & say "well i'm doing the best I can"????? Of course some mother are bitter! I'm not saying that it's right, but do you know stressfull it is to only be able to count on yourself to take care of a child??? The mothers just have to except crumbs because that's "the best he could do"?? fuq outta here.

This man needs to realize that buying a child clothes doesn’t put a roof over his head or food in his belly!

Judge Mathis really giving this man credit for $20 a month 🙄

Do anybody believe in marriage before carry

Really, Judge?! 🤦🏽‍♀️

How you praising a man who was order to only pay 20$a week and couldn't even do that lol I love you judge but this is crazy that woman over there working hard taking care of her child for all these years and you praise a deadbeat she didn't even put him on support until the child was 6 judge are you doing crack

KZfaq tryna say I seen all judge Mathis episodes on KZfaq they gotta be lying 🤣🤣

I have one question that wasn't answered after watching this video. Who is the crackhead in this story?

The bar for these men has really been set so low that it’s literally in hell. They’re really applauding that man for doing the literal bare minimum (if even that) for his child. She’s literally providing the majority of care for the child when all he’s required to contribute is $20. 🤦🏾‍♀️ He has the nerve to get mad at her because she’s not wanting to coddle his grown ass or play personal taxi (when she’s literally doing everything else). If he can materialize a ride for his street activities, he can materialize a ride for his own flesh and blood son. Enough of the “just trying” and excuses. Kids don’t survive off of just trying. Mom doesn’t get the option of just trying. She has to make things happen. He needs to grow up, take full responsibility, and make things happen. He has sons that are looking to him for guidance. They need better than “just trying.”

He’s acting like Jody from the movie Baby Boy lol 😂 .

I could go on a tantrum about the minimum support but I'm more concerned about women that willingly lay with men like this, have their children, and get upset at lack of support like it was some elaborate scheme or magic trick. TF u thought was going to happen?!?!

He said he begged her to bring the son to him because she has a car and he would have to take the train… so when she didn’t bring him, why didn’t he TAKE THE TRAIN?!?!

Judge Mathis is trippin! He really just called her BITTER?! I can't even watch anymore smh

This man is a whole bum and just trying to stunt one of them daddies that wants to be a father when it's convenient and the judge shouldn't have given him a pass

He said that his childrens mothers work together, so the fact that they deal with each other amicably speaks volumes to how immature that man is. How is the judge siding with a man who lives 20 mins away but makes excuses as to why he can't see his son? Mind you he got his child support reduced to 20 dollars a week. Your son can't even join a sport at school on $80 a month because he also need necessities such as food, clothes, haircuts etc. I don't even want to think about how costly the boys birthday party is with no help.

Lol this Judge is satisfied with this guy paying $20 a month to his kid. The bar is set so low for black men.

Judge Mathis love talking about his accomplishments. No shade lol. I think he love to hear his self talk lol.

Trying, trying trying ... Lol . she is actually doing tho. But he is the believable one. Lmao dude is a bum, his child is 9 now.

Da.mn he's pathetic AND playing games you knew when that baby came out with 12 toes he was yours that's a trait that runs in your family. Smh He ain't had no car in a whole year. My man get it together. A man with multiple kids, no little to none support and no car you can't depend on him for sht. If it's a emergency he won't be able to pick up his son.

If my children's father works at McDonald's I'll take the $80 per month b/c it's something

“if she call herself a christian woman of god” how low of you to call her faith into question when you can’t even get yo ass on the train to go see your son that you love so much

Once your child is born, you give up your money for your child first before you think of yourself... It's just a natural given....

I can’t believe he called her bitter he’s being bias on this case

When JM said bitter, the look on her face was crazy deadly! Wowzers

I hate when people use their kids as weapons towards each other. The kids see and hear everything.

Gotta be careful who you lay down with. He nickel and diming his kids whole childhood.

Keeping things real he just has not done enough in nine years. Kids just know at a early age when their parents or not responsible. I hope he does better bye his son❤

Judge teach alot in most cases. Education in every case.

Transportation is and should be 50/50 in any scenario like this. She is flat out wrong...and sounds bitter.

I feel her if he can go run the streets...he can go pick up his son...my daughter’s father use to do whatever it took to run the streets...his mama used to always ask why you don’t bring her over here... I told her just like he makes away to party in the streets he can make away to get her over there...

Can’t believe the judge fell for his bs

The dust 😷

That $5000 want even count toward his state child support arrears! SMH he still owes every dime when they get home! 😜

Pathetic. These men are embarrassing and these women are sad to lay up with them.

When you say to yourself " I have time to watch one more judge mathis episode" , then you look up and a hour has passed 🤣🤣🤣🤣

What the hell she’s suppose to do with $20.00 a week? Seriously? You should want to do more for his child than $20 a damn week. She’s the fool to have a child with this fool. Both are crazy.

The judge really enjoys tooting his own horn...

She is bitter, no more bitter then you judge . this is a joke.

Hold up……. How can someone be your cousin….. AT THE TIME. Lol 😂

JM: “Where ya’ll from, Gary???” The Defendant: “No, not me.” 🤣🤣🤣

The Defendant: she was my cousin at the time Me:🤔