Jai T same lol

Same and now I'm into Couples Court it's messier!! 😂😂😂

Alisha Glapion Lol I’ll probably start watching that soon to🤣

Same

Lol...

I was just thinking that. I will be by myself than be with someone like that.

Darrin Jefferson I was asking myself , why lying ?? Why cheating ??

Yeah it is I can relate

@@darrinjefferson2803 LOL, you know these thots always have excuses for their behavior.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️

So Is Constantly Lying And Cheating Multiple Times. She Was More Upset With Him Keep Reminding Her Of How She Hurt Him But Didn’t Show Enough Remorse For Hurting Him In The First Place.

She was separated.

Melanie Smith - that does not matter she got impregnated and trying to stick it on him. That creates doubt and unfair expectations from the man.

woman do the same, and when that happens it’s always well you have to give her time - same for the men as well why not!

When one parent constantly degrades the other, not only do the kids grow up feeling like they can't look up to that parent or they hold a lot of anger towards the abusing parent. Also, a kid may feel that if the parent is ' awful' then the kid may also have poor self esteem.

@@melaniesmith1022 "Seperated". Aka retroatively on a break. Also that does not mean she should pin the baby on him. She just says "oh the past". How convenient.

EXACTLY!!

She needs him out of her life.

I think he’s actually torn. He wants it to be his baby and snaps when he convinces himself it isn’t. Should she leave? Yes Should he leave? Also yes

But she is a liar and a cheat, she just admitted that,t

IKR

RaeThe Queen no wonder, it ends like that. If the man is not respecting the woman, he is with for 10 years and calls her all kinds of names, one day you will get, what you are calling for

I agree 100.

That's what i'm sayn. Plus, he talkn about walkn away. Smh! Regardless they still have kids so he'll be walking away from his kids

She is only 24 they have been together 10 years. She was 14 when they started dating. They would have had to be together 4 years before she was even legally able to marry.

idk if he's going to talk to her that way how would he treat his children? What would they hear/see in his house with a new gf/wife? He's abusive, I wouldn't want him around kids period.

Wait lol you mean he. He better off co parenting with her right? Isnt she the cheater. Fyi thats if you need a justification for the "verbal abuse" just cheat on any human being u will get verbal abuse.

I agree. The trust is gone!

Yep. She's not trustworthy. You can't build a solid foundation on shaky ground.

Agreed and sadly, the way he learned to deal with life's difficulties is abusive and the kiddos will learn from him.

I won’t agree i have been with my husband since i was 12 & had our first when i was 14 & we’ve been together for 23yrs married for 13 and have a beautiful granddaughter soooo EVERYONES outcome isn’t there’s mine is beautiful we’re college graduates and business owners, so love and blessed💗

You know what I tend to notice that in majority situations when the judge asks "if in fact; the child is proven to NOT BE your biological child do you still wanna maintain a relationship with them?" & they say that they'd rather not (for whatever reason) she tends to not really like their decision! As if she just expects every man to just stay & continue having a relationship with said child but not everyone wants to do that & they have that right! He's young & if it isn't his child he has every right to want to move on & hopefully build a family with someone else! I have been binge watching these videos & I've just come to noticed that. I could be wrong but that's just my observation 🤷🏽‍♀️

It's not horrible for everyone! I started a relationship at 14, got pregnant at 17, got married at 17 and had our 1st child at 18. It's not easy, you have to communicate, work together and be honest & faithful!! 24 years now we have 3 beautiful children together, 2 adopted and a grand baby. Living happy, healthy and lovingly♥️♥️

I know a kid that got his gf pregnant at 14. They stayed with their parents and each finished school. Before they graduated they had a second kid. When they became 18, they got married and have two more kids together. Think the guy is 23 or 24 now, but he's staying with his now wife and has always held a job to support his family. Not the best way to get started but even at that young age, they were both committed to the relationship and moving forward together as a family.

Agreed!!

If she constantly cheating and not using protection , Leave! If you know that you can get pregnant use protection. And why do these women cheat and once they get pregnant never go to the one they cheated with. They always run back to their husbands and long standing boyfriends. Why? Because they know that the other man just wanted a good time with them and nothing else.

dee jones thank you!!

they both should be single

Heeeere

Because she know she wrong as well as wants someone to still support her so she takes the 'abuse'

its his retaliation to her after he been cheated on. its verbal assault to make her feel the pain he suffered.

You know this

Yes, when you suppose to have a relationship with this woman you have to accept her w/all your heart not to hurt her verbally, physically & emotionally that's why she found another guy because maybe she thinks she's super tired

Right...some of what he said to her on the show was WILD. I can only imagine what he says to her when he thinks no one is listening. He's well within his rights to be mad about the cheating but he's handling the aftermath horribly. He's literally doing the damage to his daughters that he claims he's trying to prevent her from doing.

@@ma.jeanejalandoni8668 - stop justifying cheating.

Can u blame him he tried to stay for her but she doesn't make it any better they both should of gone to marital Council in

You think coming home preggers from another man is respect? You think trying to make him out to be the bad guy is respect? You think being there to rub in the kid that is not his needs his money, day in day out, is respect?

@@jamegumb7298 - Jame I think that if you are going to STAY in a relationship with someone who cheated, you have to move to the stage where you work on healing. If the man is angry and wants to work things out, he can't continually mistreat her. He has to either forgive her and move forward or let her go! If you are going to stay with a person who cheated and just treat the person horribly, you might as well let the relationship go because you are only going to make yourself and the person you are with miserable. This is one of the key reasons why it is so hard to forgive a cheater and stay with them. You become evil and vindictive and want to make them pay for what they did over and over. It is often easier to walk away than it is to stay and forgive. SHE did wrong, but trying to stay with her and mistreating her isn't the right thing to do!

@@crazifyit This only applies if the cheater is a woman, it' is fully acceptable in our society to try to ruin a man for hurtuing your feelings, she didn't forgive him for cheating, then she kept cheating and somehow it's all on him because she is the one up there crying, He should have gotten the test sooner, and possibly things would be better but the fact is this women isn't trust worthy, You can say the same for him, and if you don't think she brings up whatever he did constant and often, then you have never dated a woman , they never let anything go, and I mean never.

And it's extremely respectful to cuckold your SO and lie to his face; it shows real character!

@@onewayfarer53 - Marcus, I don't think it was respectful to lie to his face. However, if you make the decision to take someone back INSTEAD of just leaving, then you can't abuse them! She cheated, which was wrong, but he decided to try to make the relationship work. You can't do that if you are abusing the person you are with! She was wrong, for sure, but he is now wrong for how he abuses her. Two wrongs don't make a right!

You're correct. Who set the example for these young people playing house?

Plus she was about 5 to 10 bodies in, if not more Remember ladies lie lol😂😂😂😂

They have 3 kids. He's not doubting the oldest.

NtheNow I know this isn't the first time you heard of this

@@sensual2kizz613 , No and that is why the Black Community is overwhelmed with women raising a no good man's children. Women are excepting kids before marriage which is out of order. Marriage, bond, then plan for Children.

And so what. She didn't care if she hurt him or not. He was the one who was emotionally abused not her because constant infidelity.

If men cheat and women become verbally ABUSIVE and overly protective it ok tho

Do u people listen to testimony....he was verbally abusive before she cheated. Listen! Read comments after the show.

He said they were separated so how did she cheat?

@@thomasb577 No one said that. We're talking about this man being abusive to this woman.

how he seem cold when she cheated ...? women love sticking up for other cheating women smh

When a women let's a another man in her, coldness comes from a man that actually cares

Woman is broken, yes, but look at the bigger picture cheating and deception will always lead to an abusive relationship. That is a sad fact.

She's broken. Sadder. Why? Because that's all she knows like most battered women. However, she obviously invited some of the bs. Mugu ..

@@omgitsdev4568 2:22 He's a cheat as well ...

You’re so fine😍

@Anthony Mozon no, he can't that's why he's there

Finally an unbiased opinion... Thank You Geraahh... Yooooooou. Tha. Real. MVP!!!

Geraahh there young and they doing to much there only together cuz of the kids.

She got her self esteem up and has a beautiful family with a new man

PREACH!

Not always you can be scared into silence I often was as a child and still shut down if yelled at can’t bring myself to say anything Im 25 I know your point but it’s not always the case

Bekah Wolken May I use this saying!!

@@minwellitsanicknamebegrate2531 I hope you are healing. I'm 26 and shutting down is my coping. Fight or flight or freeze. A lot of people freeze I think more than we realize but it gets better.

Amen very wise words

She is nothing but a wicked woman

I agree

I agree

Right! It was all about her! Even when the judge was having a moment with him cos she could see he was emotional talking bout when hes holding the baby, she pipes up and says, "oh but he keeps calling me names"....like please shut up 🙄 Shes a pick me

Why cant she move away also if she is being verbally abused, she should stand by herself

I agree! He will continue to bring up her past.

They are still young and can make it work.

@@JoseLopez-wo7so no effin way should they make it work. He is too abusive

Women

he has every right to be abusive when some one is abusing his trust .

😂😂😂😂

Rrrriiiiiiggggghhhhttttttt 🤣🤣

Right 😂 I love her!!

😂😂😂😂😂

She said it, right when I read your comment.

I can see this escalating and then him going for sole custody.

Why not.?

He got some things aired out. She hurt him and hurt ppl hurt ppl. He had every right to question her and their situation, pain made him abusive and some of that pain has been removed

She should stop cheating smh

Cheating women are statistically more likely to cheat again and again. She's abusive by cheating.

The nerve of him to be name calling lookin like a sloth in the face.

Well and shes not going to stop cheating so he should leave her

He has no right to be verbally abusive, especially in front of kids. She should walk away from him no matter what.

@@UlikeTammy EXACTLY

Yeah leave him it's best for both parties because he can never trust her going forward ha ha ha ha this is Soo easy to move on from unless the kids is his. 😱😱😱😱😱

Facts!!!

Right. She blames him for calling her a cheater, when she cheated.

She has attitude because HE verbally abuses her!

Calvin Coats calling someone cheater is one thing and name calling is another. He can just move on

She’s not playing victim she is owning up and trying to change if he decided to be with her HE HAS TO FORGIVE

No he is there because he doesn't want to be on child support

She doesn't seem like she's willing to stop what she's doing

Right...what 14 year old is in a "relationship"....lol...that doesn't even sound right.

How do you cheat when your not going with someone?

Based on their older child, she was still a young teen when she got pregnant.

prettybrowngirl71 they grown now they can commit to each other they got children together

Cheese AKA Multi she probably was taught right every body got they own mine especially these young grown up

Hes a very insecure man

@@sissiebarthelemy5338 He's not insecure if he's right. She cheated. He's right about her being a cheated and liar

@@taurisshingler2868 but he is too soo 💁💁

@@taurisshingler2868 oh no i agree with that but in regards to him still going to be verbally assaulting her and I'm sure it was happening before that even happened is why I said he was insecure

Sophia Bentley she can leave/co parent as well. Simple.

I peeped that too👀👀👀

And then the audience started clapping 🙄

And sadly she ate it up. She craves his approval but unfortunately he will never fully give it to her. She needs to leave if he won't, both for herself and thier children but I fear she doesn't have the self esteem to do so.

he is a good man for respecting "that" at all. she is not worth his respect

Jonathan Barronville They were separated when she slept with someone else, so she was free to do as she wished at that time just as he was. However even ignoring that there was absolutely no testimony given that she ‘repeatedly cheated’. Where she was wrong was not telling him right away once she went back to him and discovered she had gotten pregnant while they were separated that it may not be his, however she did tell him before the baby was ever born and he then chose to stay.

He called it as it is and women are mad. He didn't say anything outrageous. He called her a cheater and liar. The reason that caused the mess in the first place.

Well. he was at least a cheater and an abusive boyfriend and father. That hurts the kids as badly as being hit 🥺

@@spongemonkeysooz No one said anything about abuse, fall back.

@@bobsburgers1556 At least verbal abuse. Even if it's not aimed at the kids it hurts them. It makes for a toxic environment.

THANK YOU BOBS BURGER!!! AS SOON AS A WOMAN CRIES...EVERYBODY HAS SYMPATHY! NOT I!!!!

Just a piece of paper for most people.

Right!!!!!!!!!!! I will never understand that

Just terrible!

They aren't married but they're together! He's in his kids life not running from responsibility. Most marriage ends in divorce nowadays anyway.

It’s a cultural thing

Exactly Make that make sense to me.

It makes good sense. Because If he isn't the father of the 1 than he must not be father of 2

I think he'd leave her and not desert his kids.

rick mckinnon That’s what I thought he meant too.

It makes good sense. Because If he isn't the father of the 1 than he must not be father of 2

Truth. Ain't nobody ever got an excuse to treat anybody that way. Male or female.

Exactly. I don't what she has or hasn't done, he has no right to talk to her that way.

i believe cheating is the worst abuse. he should have left her and took the kids. he doesnt deserve a wife like that. he is obviously a great father thats why she wants to stay so badly

@@lordtimothy2002 again, they both slept with other people during their separation. Did you watch the video? How'd you miss all this key information?

@@TishaPisha They miss those parts because then when the same thing happens they would not feel they are cheating either. But if the woman has or could be they can deflect their guilt away on to her.

I AGREE Good Day

No she needs to stop cheating and I think they'll be ok. We got too many single parent households.

@@inquizative44 She said that he's been calling her names for the whole 10 years. He's also to blame here!

He needs to grow up...he aint perfect neither....

@@denisebourne3770 Why are you turning this into a gender war? Just because she was the cheater this time, you try to find fault with him like it's a competition. Get over it!

I love this so much!

💯💯💯💯💯

Especially when you're the cause of it, like her.

I agree she should leave...you can’t turn hoe into a house wife!!

yes. he should not turn a ho to a wife

he deserves better than a cheater. this woman is sick

@@lordtimothy2002 they were separated and he also slept with someone. Calm down

TishaPisha she slept with other people throughout and that’s y they are in court even when they were not separated, you’re the one who’s not listening obviously

@@odekalebamidele4668 sir, he stated he slept with someone else, as well. And he stated they were separated when she slept with whomever. What are you arguing?

I agree. I can't believe the judge allowed him to speak to her that way in her presence. I feel some type of way now 🙄

Talkindurinthemovie I’m not!!! I came out of a verbally and physically abusive relationship!!! It ain’t never okay!!!

I'm not, before I watched the episode I commented to her to leave, run don't walk

I bet he puts his hands on her.

Definitely needs addressed. People saying in the comments that it was warranted because she "cheated". BUT she said he was doing it before. They weren't together when she slept with someone else so how is that cheating? His insecurities are probably why they were broken up to begin with.

my ex was the same way

@Sassy Cappie she didn’t treat him right by cheating

@Sassy Cappie Umm, Hello..... 🙌🏼 PREACH!!!!!! I say this all the time!

Sassy Cappie 🗣FACTS! Honestly, it’s usually mental imprisonment that keeps folks in these situations

Preach. It kills me when women feel like they have to take that abuse and be raising their children in that toxic environment.

Say that sis

Caught it, they always seem to gloss that over. They both were doing the tango.

Same thing i said...he is not a saint...but he is pouring on the blame on her

He didn't get pregnant tho

Chile its ok/different for men.

@@trilltaylor he got his side hoes THO

He is projecting on her what he himself feels. They r so lame!

He needs to be the one to run

Didn’t see already run to another man that’s where the issue comes from don’t be bias

Get some help because your self esteem is taking a beating. Go to court, set up your child support, and keep your legs CLOSED while you work o you and raise your children.....make God first in your life. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️

Listen 🗣️ He would have to go. This will turn domestic real quick.

That should tell you something. She thinks she need him..

Weak willed...

Low self esteem. Keeps her in that relationship. Sad.😏😏😏

Right. People act like he's not supposed to be upset.

Cuz period I said the same thing

Yes, isn't it admirable to be a cheater and a liar and be proud to admit it to your spouse? GTFOOH!

Sometimes. When it's a bunch of screaming or name calling I do.

OMG I just did..I can't stand this guy

Sumika Brown haha - I usually always do!😂

All the time.

Always 😂

I think she faking or gaslighting truly abused people don’t speak up all tears aren’t real is a technique to victimize the true abuser and to take what the victim is saying lightly or not at all and when she was telling him to leave I can tell she wanted him to stay she controlled the whole courtroom as soon as she played the victim

She was massively playing the victim role though. Only talkin about how the man name calls her. When they were talking about the man on how he felt having to doubt if that's even his kid everytime he looked at it and how heart breaking it was she instantly said something along the lines off ''But you don't need to name call me'' attention got of her for a second and she immediately tried to be the center of attention again that seems very selfish imo. Ofcourse he shouldn't name call n stuff but she shouldn't've cheated. The fact that he was doubtful was warranted. cuz she cheated on him.

Bergelyne Auguste how is she suffering when she is going about banging other dudes ???

Well she is a cheater

She plays the victim role well. But then he should have left her alone if didn’t trust her.

They were separated.... did he remain celibate while they separated?

THANK YOU... He was insecure from JUMP, because she didn't tell him the exact number of Men that she had intimate encounters with. So, like the insecure, immature person that he is... He begin to try to verbally terrorize her and bring her down. So while they were separated she found solace with someone else.

Im baffled too

Thats exactly what the heck I’m saying!!! They were separated!!!!

She was still married and got pregnant, that is cheating. Marriage is not being boyfriend and girlfriend, there's no such thing as a break. You cannot bring an affair baby back to the marriage! She allowed another dude to shoot up the club raw!

Maybe he does. If a man cheats you would call him names right? Yes or No?

Maybe he does. If a man cheats you would call him names right? Yes or No?

i dont think the father should disrespect the mother in front of the children especially the boy as it will have a negative effect i think...he will either grow up disrespecting his mum or disrespecting and hating his dad for how he treats her

@@stephenmattia480 I wouldn't bother calling him names. It's a waste of my time and energy. I would be done with him. But ESPECIALLY not talk that way in front of innocent children.

@@stephenmattia480 Not in front of the kids.

Her fatness would’ve chased me away

She cheated though. He is feeling that way because she cheated.

Pretty is overated and doesn't give anyone a pass. Most women are pretty, and.......

@@MrEmman12 so wrong! 😂

@@MrEmman12 Hold uppp wait a MINUTE✋🧐 Isn't that *you* in your profile picture??!!

Torron Brown No one said she did nothing wrong. The point is why stay and degrade her every day instead of leaving? The lady said he can still have a relationship with his kids without being in a relationship with her.

Girl...me too! It is so hurtful & will send you down a dark path.

She is getting all the self esteem she needs from her boyfriends.

If her self esteem is low enough he'll be able to keep her under his thumb. Been there done that.

Its funny you said that cause women is the ones that always bust out crying in court never the guy, so i think we handle our emotions pretty well, unlike yal..

@@chestnutbrown9340 Sadly I think her self esteem is low enough. He knows exactly what buttons to push (such as her not having a father in her life) to get her to do exactly what he wants her to.

faith thomas so men need to learn how to deal with there emotions but women don’t ? Why is everything bias . It’s simple they both wrong and have reason for doubts and trust

"Big hurt she was with another man" " men need to learn how to deal with they emotions" like do you hear yourself. I hope you or your children would never be in a situation like this

Dude in California they grow on trees

Dang I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. Wish more women (and men) are more aware of this type of behavior, including my past self. It’s such a scary thing to go through bc majority of the time you’re so blind to it 😞

PLEASE ITS EASY TO FIND A CHEATING WOMAN U SOUND LIKE ONE,,,ALWAYS DEFENDING AND NORMALIZING CHEATING FEMALES

@@chickenwings3430 boy I’m a grown a** man. You seem hurt which means you probably just like this dude so yes my comment is made specially for you. You probably will have a heart attack if your woman leaves you for somebody else

Miriam Quintanilla she keep repeating it to it’s like a cry for help

She cheated uall6people need to,👀

She doesn't need help, she needs to keep her legs closed and learn how to use Birth control

Abuse how by him saying u lied nd cheat i guess to lock him away huh cuz guess what she admitted to the court she did the reason she upset cuz she don't know y he acting like he didn't know before this day so explain being told while she is pregnant and not knowing including when she should had told the man too so he could also be there just in case right but the truth is she probably did he was like not mine than dipped or she could still be with him don't know right. I agree with the emotion of that man if ur man or woman cheated got pregnant nd lied u call them every name too nd maybe leave them

@@victorvictorious8692 I see. In your eyes men can do as they please with as many women as they want, but women can't be with more than one partner. Typical attitude of one of those men.

HE needs to leave HER!!!!!!!

No type of accusation can drive a person to commit Adultery/Cheat. Being honorable and doing what’s right means so much. You cheat and make a mockery of yourself, you can only hold yourself accountable. He should have left her for his own sake Long Ago.

@@sengcau4795 a good woman who cheated multiple times without protection. Gtfoh 🤡🤣

Exactly

@@iceill3425 they both cheated.. he admitted it too. She did when they were seperated. But yes, he needs to leave her because fo some reason she didn't leave him. No one should be on a relationship where they don't trust and abuse each other.

He's right in a sense

John Doe he might be but i jus feel like if that’s the case why would he not only stay with her but continue to have children with a woman who he wouldn’t want his daughters to be like? I think he’s trying to hurt her by saying that.

she should of keep her foot close it is 10 yrs not 10 days

@Enrico Hall ignorant

@Enrico Hall you are so ignorant shut up

I tell him everybody PLUS ya pappy n grandpappy!

and i guess number two is cheating

PREACHHHH!

Say it louder for the people in the back!!

@@faiththomas9533 Hey family :-)

I agree 100% regardless you have to be the man you want to be. That being said people are human. You can’t harm people emotionally mentally or physically and not expect a wound to be there. He should have taken sometime away from her and decided how he wanted to move forward. Staying in that house with all that hurt was like reopening that wound daily. Got to get yourself right before you can be the best parent you can be

Well, I think we should consider why the man feels this way. He's making the comments to her, because she's obviously hurting him with her cheating. Just telling a man to stop it or leave her and his children is an awful thing to say. Let's address how he's feeling. What can be done to alleviate his insecurity, anger and pain and him acting out on it.

Why not? He said he stayed so the girls wouldn't grow up to be like the mom; that seems to be a pretty valid point to me.

@@onewayfarer53 Totally agree. As men, we are used to making rational decisions.

@@onewayfarer53 then he shouldn't of come back.

EXACTLY! Leave her be.

@@mmadhi Child, please. 😂

No, he needs to make it permanent. She's done nothing to earn respect other than what any other animal on the planet hasn't done. Bare young, that doesn't make her special.

An overweight woman with 3 kids? Yea they’ll be lining up to be with her

so she leaves then cheat on the next man and he laughs. We will love to see that

AMEN! I didn't know you watched this? LOL 😉

No. Just smoldering anger.

LOL. It wasn't the first time. She hints at that part while he didn't really focus on it. 'her past'

Well call me a narcissist. But if we are married or in a serious committed relationship and we separate and you're sleeping with someone else so fast. Were done. Relationship/marriage is over. There's no take backs. In that case. Especially if I hadn't cheated.

Thekeyman1 me too

nicole hallatt facts why he wasting ppl time 🤦🏿‍♂️😂😂

calling her a cheater and a liar is not verbal abuse, thats just what she is.

Females are something else. 😒

So how is cheating justified? i believe cheated is much worse then him calling her a cheater and a liar. BECAUSE ITS THE TRUTH!!

100% agree. Abuse cannot be justified. What kinda men throws in your face the fact that you didn’t have a father and blah blah blah all while calling you out your name in front of your children. The whole relationship is toxic and unhealthy. I feel sorry for the kids because even with these results he isn’t going to change. And she didn’t necessarily cheat, he said so himself they were on a break.

Exactly Jalisa but she's grown accustomed to him after 10 years but seems woman enough to decide it's either he change or relate to the children only...I'm happy that she's demanding change if she stays with him

Exactly 🤦🏽‍♀️ Just leave him

She's playing victim a tad.

Yip...Christina A. sang it..."its a common double standard of society... The men get all the glory, the more he can score, while the girl can do the same yet you call her a wh...re..".

I was taken aback by that statement- I must not be a normal woman because never once have I ever lied about the number of men I've been with when I am with someone new. That stuff I'm always full disclosure on.

It finished me! 😁

Not me though.

@@liezelhorn8931 why is it like that?