As a Latina I can tell you that’s our nature. If someone is struggling everyone contributes so that the struggle goes away. In a world where people forget their roots, this has to give you hope.

Did you here COLOMBIAN ❤

I. Will. Be. The. First. To. Tell. You. That. Just. Because. A. Landlord. Is. Nice. To. A. Tenant. And. Helps. Them. Out. Does. Not. Mean. That. There. Is. Something sensual. Or. Romantic. Between. The. Two. And. Anybody. That. Thinks. There. Is. Is. A. .meathead. which. Means. Dead. From. The. Neck. Up

That landlord is an exception to the rules.

That is exactly what I was thinking! He is doing the roll of a father!

I'm with you a 100%

💯

May God Bless This Woman & Her Landlord With A Heart of Gold.

Amen. That's the definition of a good man.

To be real she should see her value and not slight her children and herself. Get a skill, a 401k and your house. Handle your business honey.

I mean my great grandparents had 10 children ... But they also we're married for 50+ years to one another. I don't think it was a crime back then. Environmentally, I don't think that'd be wise now.

​@@austincc1782I think you missed the point the other commenter was trying to make.... It's NOT about how many kids he actually has, I think it's about how he has so many kids by DIFFERENT women and he's barely present in any of their lives....

As a man i feel like throwing up... His seeds is not suppose to spread this much... 😓😓

@austincc1782 Yeah you misunderstood entirely. The emphasis is on _that man_, not on the number nine. The crime against humanity is that that particular man has spread his dna nine times.

​@Austin CC bro she is not saying that because of the number of the kid he had but because how he treat them

Tbh this idiot would deserve it if the woman left him.

Guilty conscience, she nailed it

@@Linsie84 When 30% of men are raising children that are not theirs I don't think any man can't rules out the possibility that a child might not be theirs. It doesn't have anything to do with a guilty conscience, sorry it's the actions of many women that brings doubt. My Granny said when dealing with some of these women "That's mama's baby dads a maybe."

She shoud've married the landlord instead because the man is crazy , insecure man

@Mark-rl8sm it's the actions of HIMSELF. He literally started off with I got a longgggg history of infidelity... he knows he cheated on her so many times, he wouldn't be surprised if she cheated back. Stop projecting!! It ain't because what some women have done that he's HEARD ABOUT! It's about what he's done!! If you suspicious, then get a DNA test, WITHOUT accusing her. That's a guilty conscience!!

You need hundreds of thumbs ups....

Yeah

Blk women need to leave blk men. They don’t deserve us at all.

@@fosthedoll correction we need to leave toxic men in general

@@fosthedoll good black men or men in general exists DONT generalize when u don’t like other generalizing u I know da,n well if a black man said that you wld be going off

You know it's TRUE. This clown is a disgrace.

I AGREE

Well not always *Update response from the wife responding to my husbands "Well not always" comment! No it's true 💯👍 the guilty always acuse their partner!!

Exactly

I have slept with many other peoples wives during my lifetime---it takes two to tango, And a man might have a fling but some women accommodate many.

That was my thoughts as well

I wonder how they found each other, so opposite

​@@Mr.Lubbox-Lobsterlegz1 being desperate is something 😢

Rhonda Banner This comment should have been in bold print with exclamation marks!!

yes

Exactly!!!

Oh yes

Exactly

No he was mad because the landlord actions highlight how much of s failure he truly is that why he mad

And he's probably fine lol

@@babydoll4458 yess

Exactly he is an idiot

Facts!

Im like show me the landlord 😂😂😂😂... lemme see how he look

Well that one was more literally anyone she talked to in public she said

I would wish it was another father with him and his 8 kids 🙄

Exactly

Amen

“Patience” might not be the word for it...

Yes

It;s not patience, it's a glaring lack of self-worth. Which is heartbreaking, because even just watching her for short while here, she seems like a lovely women with a lot to offer a GOOD man. She just has to come to the realization that she deserves one!

I couldn't believe he was in his mid-30s. Every other word" ya know what I'm saying" would have drove m crazy the 1st 2days. I couldn't have gotten PG by him.

he is chiiilllllddddiiiishhhhh

Wow I cannot imagine how he behaves at home. It's narcissistic

CLOWN

This was just what I was about to say.

I can't stand the way this man talks....wants to run the whole show ...NO WHAT IM SAYING?? LOL

So this CLOWN is the father!!! It's a real shame she has to live with such negatively...where there is no trust there is no lovable bond...I sure hope things get better for this nice mom....

🤣😂

With 8 other kids no doubt!

😂😂😂😂😂

Dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

He is a disgusting pig !!!!! She can do so much better !!!!!

So true 😂😂😂

He doesnt look like either of them.

😂😂😂😂

Scootchie and Boo ALL THE TIME🤣🤣🤣

💀💀💀

OOooo😂Ouch lol😏

In the quickness

Yes as soon as possible.😁

So you're promoting adultery..

You don't know the Inside story that why you would say that, I can't blame the man because even the mom have doubt, And that is what doubt can do to you. It will make you find a way to determine what could have happen and that doubt is what break a family.

so, did she marry the landlord? i know y'all b looking these people up lol

frfrrrr

Exactly!! 🙄

She should’ve went with her move with the landlord looks like he was better provider than him!!!

The donkey was doing a lot of something, he had 8 kids.

Yes

Right!!!!

Exactly

👏👏👏

Story of My Life I’m ctfu

Landlord is husband material.

Some black people are very uneducated. The father wants mix-race brown skin women but he what darker skinned babies.

I’m sorry but this child looks nothing like them.

@@londiymadonda5608 He looks like a lighter version of his mom. What are you talking about?

@@londiymadonda5608 All y'all see is skin color 😂😂

I am a registered nurse and you have to look at generations between both of them because somewhere along the line there could have been lighter skin black people in either the biological mother or the biological father's family that could have caused the baby to be lighter. And looking at the DNA of the families

I got chills of comfort when I say her reaction. I’m so happy for her. She was so glad it wasn’t a mistake at the hospital.

Dam..😱💀💀💀💀😂😂😳😳😳😏😏

Adrian Torres-Contreras 😂😂😂😂😂😂

😂🤣🤣🤣omg!! Dying!!

😄🤣😂

💀💀💀💀 seriously

I wish she could stay with the landlord. this time waster he is not worth her. she is so beautiful why is she with this guy?

Lol whose to say that landlord wants to be with her as if they dont have options maybe it was out of the kindness of his heart or other possibilities

Exactly

Frau Haertner I am looking for the landlord 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂☺️🤣☺️

@@Suzyfromtheblock right!

Amén!

Also a man that’s not always “going away”

I wonder what she is doing with him....

Lovely woman

SHE REALLY DOES! SHE WILL MAKE SOME MAN HAPPY ONE DAY.

To be fair, for the mom it was only because everyone kept questioning his heritage that she was worried she wasn't the mother. She accepted him as her baby unquestionably but she still had everyone else question HER

Hi baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks.

"You know what i'm sayin" SMH 💯

He's a Narcissist. She needs to seriously hook up with that landlord because that would be the Karma he deserves. That man is disgusting. Tyler Perry where ya at?

You must know her personally.

Exactly. Mom is an adult taking care of her adult responsibilities and being loyal to the man she loves. Dad is a horn dog child.

😂😂😂😂😂😂I'm done with you. He might be that nice to everybody.

J BIrd913 , same thing I saying

Exactly, I agree...but some people misinterpret the goodness he does. This man should be at least thank him and be grateful. But this guy don't know such thing.. I feel sorry for him...

J BIrd913 absolutely

Agreed cause her baby daddy is a scrub

So true

Exactly pissing me off too

He's been away, he comes and goes, mostly goes. Nikka stays in the wind

His smug attitude is most annoying, he has children here there & everywhere, she should do herself a huge favour & find someone descent to love & share her life with, because if he is so free in producing children all over the place in the past, the future isn't going to be any better, cut your losses & start fresh with someone worthwhile.for you & your children, you deserve better.

@@irenabevans3411 that's great, but do you think she can recognize that she deserves better, she's been putting up with it for years, it's her "normal" , women like that "love him" and usually don't feel the same way about themselves enough to walk away.

Yeeep

So true

She doesn't need to get with another man, just focus on her children and be financially stable. Not get with another man and get another child cause he can use her to.

That talk of yours why woman keep being used. Spiteful

The landlord is a gentleman until he has a kid with her. I am sure Mr Barlow was a lovely guy when she first met him too. Familiarity breeds contempt.

Not all the time. Some people have been cheated on and gives them thoughts that they are getting cheated on so you cant just categorize every cheater thinks like this. I know people who got cheated on and they don't trust they new girl so they act different. Just saying

Exactly true

@@beyondeverythingspidermanm4491 MeB 777 made a factual statement. In psychology, the thoughts of a cheater are, if I am cheating then, you must be cheating too. The term is known as projection-- Notably, I was dating a guy who constantly accused me of cheating (despite the fact I was not). It was not about projection, it was because he was insecure and felt that I could find someone else that was better looking, financially stable, etc. So, why was I with him? It was an extremely toxic relationship, that I'm glad is over.

Mr Barley sound like a clown.

I was thinking that. Thanks for saying it.

Exactly.... Beautifully uttered💌

PC Fam, please don't give your support away for "free"..there's power in our voice. If you think Judge Lake deserves an apology for not being allowed to speak or not even having her NAME mentioned during the emmy speech, or thanked, please @DavidArmour23 (IG for show creator that showed his true colors) & PaternityCourtTV (IG)/and or PaternityCourt (twitter). *Comments disabled for Emmy video. They know they did her wrong*

Right!

I was thinking that nobody said that the landlord could just be a good person and definitely doing more for the family than the dude

He said he was away A LOT too. In and out of jail and cheating making other babies. Smdh

Yeah mam

Yeah..That was Cruel How People Did Her! She Going To Be Cussing Them OUT...If They Try IT, This TIME. LOL

Omg lol

Poor mumma...💜

Children don’t of to resemble the parents sometimes baby come and look like some great great grandparents

He sounds like a good man

There are more good people out there then we know about but you're always going to have your haters God bless you keep keeping on💛

You were really blessed.

I had a lady with 2 kids renting from me for 4 years and after sheet got rid of her abusive husband she needed as much help as she could to get on her feet cause he was the soul provider I told her she was to not worry rent for a few months me an my son's mother ( I say that cause we're friends an not together ) got her son into sports an my son's mom would watch her daughter until she was able to pay for day care . Their are men or there that do believe in helping women with no strings . I was single at the time but didn't want anything from her but a friend ship an to watch her kids grow up an do the right things in life .I would do it all over again .

@@terrysmith9794 you are a stand up guy!🙌🏾

Crystal Forde 😂😂😂

Rt she can get free rent...🤣

One is enough

Crystal Forde we all make mistakes and stay when we know we’re supposed to leave but we fail ourselves to stay

😂😂😂😂😂😂

He's showing just how sorry of a man he really is. Only he's the only person in the court room who cant see that he is so sorry of a man. He's complaining about what another man is doing to provide for his woman and their children. But not once did he say he went to the landlord and payed him what was owed and took over his household.

He was Away as in away in jail probably didn't pay his child support for his 9 kids

Steven SteveO his sorry as was in jail so he couldn’t help his family even if he wanted to.. He should have thought about all this before he committed a crime and got locked up..

😂😂😂

I cried 😂😂😂😂

I laughed so hard... 😂😂😂

I think because he is obviously so ignorant nobody cares!

THE OTC HAPHAZARD I was laughing so hard when he said that 🤣

CHOCOLATE LEO I’m tryna figure who is cheating with this man

That's exactly what I said, and he talks like a uneducated fool. He must be king dingaling 🤣

@@cnb1243 women with glaucoma or blind..😎

He looks like a catfish 😁😁😁

Nina Davis 😂😂😂

I know that's right👍

👏🏾 👏🏾

shame I thought he was away working lol. they need to stop saying when I was away or when I was gone ...etc.

Someone needs to start a Go Fund Me Page for a vasectomy 😂 or find that Bobbitt lady to cut it off he must be going with Bubba, that's why he's been away over 80 times, he Loves jail.

Was he away workn or in jail?

She needs to leave ASAP

amen

Amen

Landlord is giving her all the signs.

Why would any landlord want with a woman with 5 kids

and that is sad because good men are so rear that when we do happen to locate one there is a stampede

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂

🙏🙏🙏

Amen

@Lynette : Yessss, that bothered me to no end‼️ For the life of me, I don't understand why some women stay so long in this type of mess. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Seems she's even responsible for the bills and all. All of his money just might be going to child support. And he is so condescending as well ! This loyal lady (and her children) deserves soooo much better.

You get what you accept

@@TheM1220yh Don’t tell the truth too loud!!! They don’t wanna hear it.

Yes, but she needs to realize that! If he has a track record of failing…why give a man like that a chance?? Just sad. As women, we need to remember our value and hold ourselves and our men to higher standards

Amen

Somebody tell her that the Ringley Brothers retired.

@@4Ebsus Please!

@Just me Exactly. Blame them and still stay.

Preach gurl!!!

Periodt!! We just lit like that!!

Yep...... We have the Eve's Gene

That never really happens, most of our kids look the same

💯

Charisa-Shonte' McKinney - white people, too. I’m fair and yellow and my brother is darker and olive, we both have hazel eyes but his hair is darker than mine...my mother is fair w light hair and green eyes and her sister was darker skinned w dark hair and eyes...my father and his one sister are dark olive w black hair and eyes and their other sister is fair and yellow (like me) w reddish brown hair and brown eyes. Etc etc etc...everyone is different and everyone is beautiful and I love that we can all have all different color skin no matter where or who we come from or what we are bc we’re all different and special and we’re all beloved children of the earth. Peace and love.

Stephanie Ricketts she needs to run

I saying the same thing

lol he needs to go back to mars by far the most ugliest man on the paternity court i've ever seen

😃😄😂😅🤣

She’s not either

Lol!!!!

Yep, I was out here hoping he was the father. Lol. Baby would've been better off.

Husband material 4 sure

Shacel W For sure! There are good people in this world.

Wonder if he is single. Lol

Maybe she's a ride or die kind of girl.

Mommy Kitty women have bad taste in men. Too busy going after bad boys they turn down lots of decent guys.

I mean.. she is not cute at all but I don’t get why she stayed either

She's beautiful..very beautiful

@@bullshark3771 Amen

Exactly!! That's the main thing!

Only reasonable thing I can think about

Probably unable to believe because he is unable to care for others nor help others out of goodness from his own heart.

Guys like that don't believe that there are 'good guys', they think all men are like them, it seems.

They can’t understand kindness and empathy because they don’t possess it themselves.

I hope she ended up with the landlord

Yep.

Every single mom needs a "Landlord" daddy!

My nephew has a child who is very light skinned and he and his wife are not very light skinned like their child. We all know why, it is because my nephew's grandmother's mother was mixed race! Some black people may look black and dark skinned, but some of their ancestors were white, so when they give birth to a very light skinned child, they get surprised! Guys, check your ancestry before you jump into conclusions that your very light skinned child is not your child!!!😊

I'm thinking the same

All shades and every shade

You're correct. My sister has 5 kids with her husband. They're both a medium brown skin tone. And one son is dark like Micheal Jordan, and another son looks like Steph Curry.

Vince Durrell my mom has 8 kids and my youngest brother was the only one born with colored eyes went from blue to gray and now they’re hazel and he was also the lightest kid

A lot of black babies are born light skinned but get darker as they get older.

Sadly not. A huge spectrum of amazing skin colours and hair types and eye colours. Shame he doesn't see that, because there's so much to appreciate 💯

Very deep, he's a manipulator.

A dat mek mi know seh she neva deh tell no lie. (That's why I knew she wasn't lying.

@@paulinemckenzie1312 suh y yuh neva juss write it in English an done, radda dan say it an translate it ma’am🤣

@@slayyaaa387 a dat me a seh 2 😂

Right that's crazy asf

I’ll take the landlord as a father for 500 please

Keisha, For more reasons than one......

😂😂😂

Wow😔

What a clown,low life needs his own circus

Genetics are a funny thing. My late husband was German, and he looked it, with green eyes and very light skin. I am Asian, Arab, Jewish and Irish. I have very dark hair and eyes, but light skin and look like I am obviously part Asian. Our son is brown skinned, black hair and eyes and looks almost completely Arab, but has somewhat Asian eyes. The rest of his facial features look almost exactly like his father, except that he is much darker. I used to get asked if his father was dark skinned, but people were surprised when I told them his father was lighter than me. You never know how the genes will mix up, but you love your child no matter what they look like.

​@@lisabaltzer4190 Sorry for your loss. I wish more people understood how complex genetics are!

Right! Its because of him. smh hes a true waste man.

This📌

😂😂😂😂😂😂

I feel so sorry for the children in these cases. You know what I'm saying?😁

He might be married though

Too bad the landlord wasn't the dad. He sounds awesome compared to this fishbowl

True

Hahaha!

skip that mouth dont sugar coat it lol

@HizMusic LOL 😂 Agreed

Illresponsible black player. Thank God for the landlord

If the Landlord is doing something I need to help with that involves me laying down. It means I don't have to pay.

I wanted the baby to be for the landlord😔

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Nicola Morris mmm it was gonna be tough with the extra kids🤣🤣🤣

Agree!

Bc he was locked up. Maybe if he stayed out of trouble and stayed out of jail, so that he could be around to do the "manly" and "fatherly" things around the house, then there wouldn't be a need for the landlord to come around to do them and there wouldn't be an opportunity for the landlord to come around bc the father would *be there!*

@@emoliver80 EXACTLY

He needs to be thanking him

@@emoliver80 +

IKR?! I was so scared of having my baby switched at birth (for no reason, just irrational pregnancy fears), but I was thankful that my baby's father reassured me that he would have the baby in sight at all times until I was out of the surgery room. And he did. I couldn't imagine living with that fear not one more day. Shame on this man for making her feel like that.

He has certainly played on her insecurities... that joker irked my nerves

He's narcissistic and a gaslighter

SIX kids. He says he's the father of nine, and he has three children by this woman. He's irresponsible trash.

Misery loves company. A cheater will Always accuse their partners of cheating.... it makes them feel better about what they're doing

@@ampollard7041 agree 100%

Vasectomies should be mandatory and free for men like him.

This dude is a clown, why is she with him? You mad that another man did what you was suppose to be doing. So her kids suppose to go without you want her to do everything with no help from you and bo one else either.

She didn’t question the baby because of him she questioned the baby because he looked like neither of them... but I do agree that she NEEDS to leave him completely... like he’s not a good man for her at all...

look at the baby any man would

@@normandyf4234 Both of them are mixed, actually. They both have to have recessive white genes to have a child this light. If it was just the mother she would have to be that light skinned herself. Even then the child would be darker in complexion because skin color genes are codominant. The father has to have white genes himself to have a baby that light skinned, even with a white mother.

No one could have said it any better. Lol 😆

She needs to have her tubes tied.