Patrice O'Neal, Dante Nero, Dru Boogie and Karith Foster in studio, with Patrice explaining how he's able to deal with jealousy along with an in-depth analysis of possession and ego.
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@TheWardog66505 жыл бұрын
*"Possession Of Mind is Free Will"* *"Possession Of Body is Control"* R.I.P Doctor O'neal. We need you man.
@m3m3lina473 жыл бұрын
No truer words spoken
@locozen782 жыл бұрын
RIP DOCTOR PATRICE BLACK PHILLIPS O'NEAL
@littleteethkeith6 жыл бұрын
I love the woman chimming in and Patrice giving her nothing
@jkake24346 жыл бұрын
+Gavin Stutler he was swinging. Way different
@sigmainuass4 жыл бұрын
@@zombiemachinery4868 he was getting pussy also?
@whitleypedia2 жыл бұрын
she has to know her job is to be offended at things
@kirbyaugustine7614 жыл бұрын
The caller is “pimping” out of fear and not from a position of power. He fears dealing with his own emotions associated with not being able to control his girl’s body which indicates he doesn’t have her mind. The part he doesn’t understand is he can never forcefully control her body or mind until he learns to control his own emotions. He’s asking Patrice how he can lead from a position of strenght when his motives are generated from an emotional position of weakness. A man doesn’t try to control his women’s behavior; he teaches her, via options, to control her own behavior.
@kayo50113 жыл бұрын
The last line is fucking Godly
@tsepontelele25883 жыл бұрын
Brilliant💎
@rosebuddelicious84913 жыл бұрын
Well put, sir. I try to convey this philosophy to my friends but most of them can't grasp it. They think I'm just a controlling A-hole
@BKkillaz3 жыл бұрын
How do you teach her via options though? Especially already in a relationship How do you implement this way? Focus on getting your own mind right first?
@Joseph-ws5de Жыл бұрын
Watch more Patrice videos and slowly learn to give woman options. You feel how you feel, don’t fight it, rationalize your feelings. Be prepared to take the loss. If she want to leave, show her the door. Be righteous with your actions
@KalElKryptonsFinest6 жыл бұрын
I can't believe he's been gone 6 years already. Damn.
@raveenpereira71473 жыл бұрын
9 years :/
@u7angbe3 жыл бұрын
@@raveenpereira7147 Sad shit
@mvneturner43812 жыл бұрын
Going on 10 in a couple months 😪
@IanO32 жыл бұрын
@@mvneturner4381 10 bro
@drizzya.c82622 жыл бұрын
11 😞😞😞
@forrtyfiverr7826 жыл бұрын
Learned how to possess my wifes mind and now im following in patrices footsteps with a 3rd woman involved. Thank you Mr. P Rest in Greatness.
@tristinfleurimond15773 жыл бұрын
Do tell
@lucky7evyn2613 жыл бұрын
Please express
@fazalshaik83992 жыл бұрын
Ey man 😭
@shellyadams11822 жыл бұрын
Are you the only man she having se with ?
@locozen782 жыл бұрын
Plz go furthermore w this story !!
@chomnansaedan47883 жыл бұрын
women don't have their own thoughts, So true, every girl i've ever seen copies their man in every way. Which is natural, she looks up to him, which is how a healthy relationship should be. The minute she start copying someone else, mmm watch out.
@DanielRomanoАй бұрын
It's true
@josephrubio18175 жыл бұрын
Lmao the karate guy voice. Patrice is a god
@kentondragon92633 жыл бұрын
Never give your girl 100%, 90% for her, 10% for you to be able to let go😌. You gotta possess her mind🧘♂️
@Joseph-ws5de Жыл бұрын
Keep 10% just in case that person ain’t shit. Keep your Human Resources department open
@seychellesyuri6 жыл бұрын
He really knew his shit. Although I would say the maximum is 60 %.
@senseiii39862 жыл бұрын
no more than 40% nowadays. inflation and all
@P3RF3CTD3ATH4 ай бұрын
@@senseiii3986 hoeflation*
@livinstone77423 жыл бұрын
Still taking notes in 2021...RIP PATRICE
@Shele.9 күн бұрын
2024 🙌🏿
@SKBottom5 жыл бұрын
80%. Solid advice. I would even say 75%.
@jeviosoorishas1813 жыл бұрын
Insecurity, is the source of most relationship failures. If you can't accept that your woman wants to or has in the past fucked a lot of dudes, then that's going to bite you in the ass, and when it does you're not going to be able to control it. That's the genius of the Black Philip philosophy is, is that you never lose your insecurities, but you're honest enough and true enough to yourself and how you feel so that you can control it, and then you can help your woman to better to control hers so she doesn't fuck up your relationship either. But it always starts with you.
@optimum2008 Жыл бұрын
Yeh man, i gotta come back here every so often to check myself, it's haaaarrrd dealing with it but you can't be going for white belts at my age 😂😂
@u7angbe Жыл бұрын
@@optimum2008 Exactly bro. I come back to these shits just to check myself LMFAO RIP Patrice Big Dawg
@pllastmanstanding9716 Жыл бұрын
@@u7angbe he was a legend bro. Stay Up!!
@Yellowsupercar4203 ай бұрын
Spoken like a true cuck
@JoePvpii4 жыл бұрын
If they ain't looking, I don't want her. Real facts.
@underpressure76616 жыл бұрын
A mother fuckin' GENIUS!
@mentlinc6 жыл бұрын
Under Pressure he truly is. On the spot, real deal, genius
@unclejesse42716 жыл бұрын
mentlinc that is a really interesting way to describe it
@tgraham766 жыл бұрын
I just got the dirtiest loom from the two broads in the grocery store parking lot listening to this!... Lmao
@ricliu45384 жыл бұрын
Thank you for curating the best topics
@Ringofire2806 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with the idea that removing the ego is a good thing. The ego is part of the human psyche for a reason. It needs to be in balance with the rest of your being, not destroyed.
@rivalino6 жыл бұрын
I also don't agree with the idea that you only want to fuck girls that other dudes want to fuck. Sometimes I want to fuck a girl that for me are 10s, but my friends think they're 4s. they be like : man what the fuck you doing with this bitch, she ugly. The only reason I could share a bitch, it's because I really don't care about her; meaning she's not my gf.
@karamlevi5 жыл бұрын
Think of a self centered reason to do a thing. Think of a selfless reason to do a thing. Think of a standard reason to do a thing. Now integrate those vibes n it will motivate progress n fight for it passion. Your selling you on your reasons.
@Oldguitar575 жыл бұрын
He's not meaning ego as in id, ego and superego
@DJdevil3195 жыл бұрын
CommonFable You are so wrong my friend The Ego is the reason humans are doomed to repeat are mistakes Get rid of ego And you become a TRUE FREE man
@itsyah5 жыл бұрын
Maybe because I'm still Young, but my gut just would not allow me to watch another male claim dominion over my territory.. I think this was the only flaw in Patrice methods because here he gained oneitus which is why he was willing to make compromise with his girl. Although having sex with different women at the same time isn't deep a for every guy as it was with Patrice, if my girl wanted to be with another guy she would have to know she would be demoted from my right hand back to the bottom.. after that we would just be FWB. If that makes me a hypocrite, oh well! There are worse people in the world
@Conradluyten5 жыл бұрын
I get your point, but let's use Patrice's analogy of being a black belt in karate. You don't think a black belt had to lose some fights in order to become a black belt, you think a black belt can't lose a fight? The point is, if you don't ever want to lose, then you're only fooling yourself 'demoting a girl' for wanting to be with another guy, because at that point you have already lost, really. It's about loving the sport so much you're willing to lose cause it's part of it. The way I see it, Patrice was training himself to be able to let go of his ego in the most confronting way possible, that creates perspective... and perspective is needed in order to become master over your mind as a pimp. Cheers bro.
@Whodjathink5 жыл бұрын
@@Conradluyten Your second sentence is a bit of word salad, but not everyone wants to be a pimp. And you say that he's fooling himself and that he lost, but if you actually think about it being a Swinger isn't all that different than Friends with benefits. So he didn't really lose, but his girl did because now she doesn't get the benefits of being the Main Girl(like Free Time, Dates, and even the occasional special _expensive_ gift). So really, he's still getting pussy, which IS the main goal of what you and Patrice talk about!
@gns48384 жыл бұрын
Seeing a woman as your territory is where you will fail over and over. Control is an illusion.
@1kingbishop4 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way bro. If your mine,then no other man can touch u. But if your just a regular bitch them sure,do what u want. But my women are mine,if they want to be for another men then they will be demoted to a street chick and remain a street chick. Womem are possessions and we shouldnt treat them as equals becusse they aren't. They dont possess the mental state to be us as men. I dont agree with O'neal. Beimg a cockhold is a weakness n a man from my opinion. If a bitch want to sling that pussy then she will do it with out me being her god(Small g)
@haxballbestgame44443 жыл бұрын
@@1kingbishop extremely well put. Your the god and they must follow your religion, YOU MAKE THE RULES and SET THE STANDARDS, its leadership.
@ennobleone6 жыл бұрын
my brother Patrice.. real Negus!
@Operationalexcellence2633 жыл бұрын
I get where he's coming from. I can't really find any reference points from the audio or the comments, but I get it. I'd try to apply a % strategy to this as well. For example; keeping a woman satisfied you have to stay on your game, let's say 80% of the time. So, let's say you need to put that effort elsewhere and she gets 45% You might as well treat each other like your swinging. I think understanding how to accept the notion is the challenge
@dna82696 жыл бұрын
yeah no possible way i could watch my girl like patrice did. no way in hell
@mr.theodore64895 жыл бұрын
I can, without a doubt. No attachments.
@DatNiceDude4 жыл бұрын
Mr. Theodore well that’s different. He’s talking about being connected with a woman and watching her fuck another man. Personally I could but I’d rather not. I’m not a sharing guy, I don’t like seeing other people using my belongings
@rnunez24964 жыл бұрын
@@DatNiceDude that's your problem. She is not your possession
@justinr25644 жыл бұрын
rog nun Yes she is.
@rnunez24964 жыл бұрын
@@justinr2564 she is not
@Buli0n3 жыл бұрын
“I’m giving my BITCH 150% of LOVE” 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@Heavy.O4 жыл бұрын
"you cant possess anybody, this is not slavery" "thats bullshit" Lmao
@GoldStar-ol9eb3 жыл бұрын
Lol.😂
@Doomreb6 жыл бұрын
9th Dan Pro
@divinejacobmathew15035 жыл бұрын
@@gavinstutler2469 u don't know what cuck means. He was swinging. It's different.
@Kobrabiss5 жыл бұрын
Damn. I am a very emotional guy. Or at least I like to think and pretend in all honesty. And for me a VERY important point that's not been talked about is that giving your woman only 80% is NOTHING she will miss. Just everything will work better if you just give these 80%, even for her! And that's the 100% she gets. Your 80% are everything she wants. Also, "you have to learn how to learn with the pain and the ego" might be so true but damn I don't want to. I think he didn't want either, but he did..
@senseiii39862 жыл бұрын
"they copy YOU, they don't have their own thoughts!"
@ChuckImania5 жыл бұрын
HIS NAME WAS PATRICE O'NEAL! HIS NAME WAS PATRICE O'NEAL!!" Fuck, if he were a cult leader I'd join....
@johndoe-wt4ui6 жыл бұрын
Posses the mind that's pimpin mane
@BuckingHorse-Bull4 жыл бұрын
its 6:00 posses her mind and the body follows
@perrymason64704 жыл бұрын
4:29 I'm dead lmao
@justinnardine85644 жыл бұрын
Patrice was like Socrates
@atlntcostv72932 жыл бұрын
Facts
@matthewrivera4538 Жыл бұрын
I disagree with some of oneal's views like watching p*rn and having open relationships. Adult content is having a negative impact on mens well being, and an open relationship just sounds like Adam 22's situation and his marriage seems to be going downhill...
@GloriousHustle5 жыл бұрын
How does one possess the mind....
@JiggyMcCue5 жыл бұрын
@@kirbyaugustine761 This is fantastic
@summerrunner17554 жыл бұрын
@@kirbyaugustine761 Ok but then how do u explain girls never leaving guys that treat them like shit?
@ultrararesabra61594 жыл бұрын
Summer Runner the emotional connection basically. But in all honesty, those relationships are highly unstable and eventually she does leave. Most long term relationships are built on mutual respect and appreciation. You can only treat her like shit for so long.
@guitarsANDcars394 жыл бұрын
LOGIC.
@musical_lolu48114 жыл бұрын
Summer Runner those girls are what the PUA guys called LSEs: low self esteem girls. If you get with one of those, you're screwed.
@QuietVillain4 жыл бұрын
I want to see women react to this today!!!!
@mikeg10325 жыл бұрын
Fuck everything about this I'll stay single im good
@gwrld2308 Жыл бұрын
Stay single dawg but this is for the pimps
@mpclepto1823 ай бұрын
@@gwrld2308 I'd rather be single than a pimp, what a weak way to go through life
@stoichysteria20424 жыл бұрын
I love my wife 65%
@darrylwoods14253 жыл бұрын
60/40
@terrencemilton50885 жыл бұрын
Wow!?...smh
@reginald_14584 жыл бұрын
Too many egos showing in the comments lol
@beeph18284 жыл бұрын
If men had no ego, we wouldn't give a shit about our women cheating, which means less divorce rates and stress.
@Dewane15114 жыл бұрын
They not ready for this conversation thoe ....lol
@se7ensiinz3 ай бұрын
I like O’Neal but swinging and sharing your woman is a massive L.
@Yellowsupercar4203 ай бұрын
Extreme L and the commenters are cucks, I just would love to see how they all look like.
@mrDeathtrooper6 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail is funny specifically if you know the circumstances
@emersonnashman55866 жыл бұрын
mrFalloutFan95 please elaborate
@mrDeathtrooper5 жыл бұрын
Emerson Nashman he just caught his wife cheating.
@crowistasty10935 жыл бұрын
Scene from movie Boogie Nights... A man can only take so much (according to that scene in the movie)
@chazikstan4 жыл бұрын
I am not a cuck
@divinejacobmathew15034 жыл бұрын
It's no cuckolding if both parties in a relationship get some action on the side.
@divinejacobmathew15033 жыл бұрын
@John Peaches no it's called an open relationship. Just to clarify, I'm not for it or against but it technically is not cuckolding
@Yellowsupercar4203 ай бұрын
@@divinejacobmathew1503 ok. Cuck
@rogersyversen36336 жыл бұрын
my guess is that patrice had a somewhat abusive mother that he had to develop a mouth to handle
@richardjamesclemo62356 жыл бұрын
Roger Syversen Nail on the head
@pmaii77075 жыл бұрын
Patrice didn’t get pussy early that’s why he learned all this he sat back and saw what it really was and he had talk his way into pussy he couldn’t just show up
@musical_lolu48114 жыл бұрын
My guess is you're a wannabe phychiatrist.
@rogersyversen36334 жыл бұрын
@@musical_lolu4811 its anyones guess I guess
@umarkamali22492 жыл бұрын
From what I remember, no she was never abusive to him, she did her best as a single parent to raise him. The reason he was so tough and funny was because how harsh his upbringing was around him, having to deal with a lot of racism and crime.
@royfr81364 жыл бұрын
I always wish that silly co presenting woman would just shut up....
@HansKlopek3 жыл бұрын
Patrice got a lot right but sharing your woman with another man is pathetic and degenerate.
@WWASHD3 жыл бұрын
From which Place do u speak! Dear mr incel?
@HansKlopek3 жыл бұрын
@@WWASHDincel...what's next you going to call me a snowflake?
@WWASHD3 жыл бұрын
@@HansKlopek nope, i think incel Is perfect
@Amanda5by52 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is capable of that kind of letting go / share. Doesn't make dude an incel. Different. Just can't be a general either. Those are fucking impossible to find.
@CeeDoubleU2 жыл бұрын
@@Amanda5by5I'm not sharing my woman either. If I gotta share then ol boy can have her. I'm moving on. 98% of these comments are die hard fans of Patrice that take everything he said before he died as law and any opposition to that law is met with lame insults and flawed logic because they have a bias. I loved Patrice but sharing a woman who agreed to be my girlfriend is bs to me. If we agree to be exclusive then don't come to me about sharing or I'm ghosting you. It's plain and simple but these "generals" as you called them are glorified degenerates..