Yuav luag qub txiv ces tau luag qub mob los mas

You made the wrong decision when you decided to be a niam yau and married an old guy. What did you expect? I bet all his kids are your age. No matter how good of a person you are, you did wrong by marrying someone's husband already.

First into the story: “kuv yuav nws vim nws tus pojniam mob2” that is what’s wrong with people with no 🧠 Real man don’t go look for another when his wife is ill. Smart woman yeej tsis yuav luag tus txiv.

If you wanted more kids you should’ve married those young boys in Laos not this old man. He literally told you he married you to take care of his wife. He didn’t want anymore kids, what part of that did you not get? And it was your choice to be a niam yau in the first place, he didn’t force you. Oh well, you made your bed so you might as well lay in it.

Nco ntsoov tias nej cov hmoob nplog yog cov xav tuaj meskas teb ces nej lam yuav neeg ua dog ua dig tsuav tau tuaj xwb. Tuaj txog lub neej yuav iab thiab qab los nqos kom tas....peb yeej tsis nrog koj tu siab dabtsi vim koj xaiv txoj kev no lawm.

Twg kom koj zoo koj siab tuaj ua niam yau youv lawv tus txiv

Koj txeeb lawv txiv lawv tu siab los koj tsis nkag siab. Koj tu siab lis lawv tsis nkag siab. Nej cov neej ntshaw ntshaw tuaj yuav yawg laus tseem muaj pojniam ces txhob txawj tham kev tu siab. Koj rhuav cov menyuam lawv lub neej los koj tsis nkag siab. Qhov zoo mas koj kom cov menyuam tuaj tham ua kev rau May Vang seb koj ho phem rau lawv li cas thiab. Tsis ncaj ncees koj tham qhov koj zoo li zoo xwb, ho cov menyuam phem li phem xwb .

Tus me ntxhais aw koj tus txiv cov me nyuam tsis muaj hnub yuav hlub tau koj os nawb cia li muab koj tus Txiv tso mus os koj tau tsev neeg siab phem dhau lawm kav tsij mus thaum hluas os nawb

You have to understand the first wife's kids too. Do not expect the first wife's kids to love you. I feel bad that the kids mistreat your daughter. Your daughter is innocent, she shouldn't be treated like trash by her older siblings.

Es..koj puas nco qab tus txiv twb xub qhia rau koj tias nws tus niam tseem nyob no nes!!! Koj yeej txaus siab thaum koj tsis tau yuav niag txiv lawm laiv!!

Nej cov ntxhais hmoob nplog pheej xav yuav cov thaub laus ces yog li mo ntag mas

Cov hmoob nplog ntawm neb tus poj niam twb tsis tau tuag los twb tuag yuv luag tus txiv lawm

Kav tsij khaws nyiaj kom ntau ntau xwb. Txhob tos lawv cov menyuam hlub koj os koj tus hlub rau li cas yuav li ntawv xwb mog.

Hlub koj tu kheej txhob to lawv txoj kev hlub

Gosh, why do I not have any pity for this lady. She forgot that actions and decisions have consequences. I guess this is what happens when you don't know your worth. Plus I guess there's no more young men over in Laos good enough to be husbands so these young girls trade their happiness and future for an old dude. She knew all of these were going to happen but still took this road anyways. I hope she will make better decisions and take actions going forward that will lead her to a better future and happiness.

Hoyo koj txaus koj siab tuaj yuav thaub laus ces pab tsi tau! Koj twb tsis hlub lawm thiab es lawm yuav ua ca hlub koj thiab nawb.

Tus me viv ncaus aw cas kj txoj dab neeg es yuav zoo li kv thiab os tu tu siab kawg li o yom!

Koj xav yuam kev lamw qhov koj xav tau kev hlub ntawm koj tus txiv cov me nyuam. Koj yuav tau to taub tias lawv tsis yog koj yug lawv yeej tsis hlub koj li nawb. Txhob vam kiag, yus kav tsij hlub yus tus kheej xwb.

Nrauj nws los muaj yawg nrauj ntau tseem tos hlub koj

Hlub koj tu kheej pab koj tu kheej ua ntej to lawv ua li rau koj lo vim koj tsi hlub koj tu kheej koj thiaj raug txom nyem tsi yog lawv tsi hlub koj vim koj twb tsi hlub koj tu kheej ua btej ne

I'm confused. At the very beginning she said the guy wanted to marry her to take care of his sick wife. And she agreed. At the end she's saying he never said that 🙄 No matter what, I don't feel bad!! she chose this life of being 2nd best forever.

Yus nrog yus ntshaws ntshaws txiv dev laus as! Tsis nyob twb ywm Tim nplog no? Niag poj hmoob nplog ruam Taub haus loj!!! Tsis txhob npav npav los txeeb tej mivnyuam lub neej os!!! Koj twb khwv tsis tau ib yam uas yog koj li li ne! Npav los txeeb luag li xwb es!!!

All the parents who thinks their children are going to take care of them in the future need to get a grip. More and more Hmong Americans are sending their parents straight to nursing home. If you want more children, have them because you want more, not for them to take care of you. It’s not happening. A lot seniors today are living on their own today.

Dag tiag2 niam mos ab yeej tsis tu tus niam loj 1zaug li

My message to cov me nkauj hmong lostsuas .menyuam hmong meskas thaum lawv g agree 1 yam dab tsi ces lawv yeej coj tus cwj pwm g forget leej twg li nawb .nej cov tseem niaj hnub tuaj tshwb tshaws los yeej yuav nkag tib lub pob tawb vim nej xum xaiv 1 tug thaub laus muaj 1 pab menyuam Es muab nej tus me hluas nraug phim2 nej tso cia quaj ntsuag 6 lostsuas teb

Nrauj kiag xwb txhob tos nws tuag lig2 kj lub neej os mog

No sympathy, she needs to know her dues have been paid, she should leave now and not wait until later. Leave him to his kids. See how they can take care of them.

txhob tus siab os mog yu tu yu yug thiaj hlub yu os vim yu twb tsis tau yug lawv

Tus niam tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas ua caskoj yuav mloog lus ua luaj nas av tsij nrhiav me nyuam yug los mas koj twb yog nyob Tim nplog lawm nas no yog mekas teb thiab koj muaj 18 xyoo lawm nas tus niam tsev

Yog zoo lis ntawm koj hais no cas tsis mus na lo nyob zoo dab tsis más lo . Lub neej tseem tsuab ntej na .

Ua cas tsev neeg twb tsis hlub yus li koj hais no koj tseem yuav ntsaw yug nws tej me nyuam los khuam koj Txoj hau kev thiab yus lub siab naw. Kuv mas nws muab los kuv tsis yug kuv mam mus yug rau tus tshiab os tus me ntxhais aw.

Thiab lwm tus txiv

Kuv muaj cov muam kwv muam tij tuaj yuav cov txiv laus laus tim no kuv yeej pab hlub lawv pab saib xyuas lawv mus rau qhov zoo qhov yog kom lawv tsis txhob raug lwm tus tsim txom

Tus ntxhais aws txhob tu siab os tus yuav hlub koj ces yog tus koj yug xwb mog, ua siab ntev thiaj taus lub neej zoo tom ntej mog.

Txhob nyob lawm cheem thaum nws tseem nyob koj mus zoo dua txhob tos thaum nws mus lawm koj yuav raug tsim

koj tseem xav zov niag dev laus thiab lov txiv neej muaj coob os

I'm sorry for your daughter. I don't understand why everybody hates her. She's innocent kid. It's not fair for her to get treated this way.

Rau peb ib tsoom Hmoob, tus phem ces cia nws phem xwb. Leej twg tsis zoo ces cia nws yog tus tsis zoo xwb. Cov me nyuam phem nyob rau hauv tsev neeg ntawm no kuj yog ib co phem kawg. Tus txiv ua tsis tau txiv ces muab nws los hais xwb. Txhob muab tas nrho lub zej zog los sis tas nrho ib sab ntuj los ev lub txim.

Ua cas es nej cov niag poj naim moob nplog mas yeej tsis muaj pheev xwm mus khw noj khw haus es cas yeej khw nyob noj luag tug xwb os lawv aw

Kuv yeej pom tias poj niam tsis sawm zoo tiag2. Yog tau tus txiv phem ces poj niam thiaj li nyob taus2 hos tau tus txiv zoo ces poj niam yeej tias kuv tus txiv ces zoo li niag me nyuam aub xwb. Yus kom ua li cas ces ua li xwb .

Tu siab kawg os, but all hmong girls oversea have plan to come to this country

Koj thiaj tseem yuav nws os yog kuv ces nroj kiag lawm os

New cov ntxhais hmoob nplog yuav tau tseg kiag txoj kev yuav cov yawg nrauj nyob mekas nawb vim cov me nyuam yug nyob mekas lawv coj li mekas lawm lawv tsis hlub nej tej zaum lawv niam txw lawv ces nej yuav nyob nyuaj siab xwb tej zaum nej ua yuam kev ces lawv yuav foob raug txim qhov zoo nej txhob ntshaw cov yawg nrauj txhob ntshaw hmoob mekas xum yuav yawg ntsuag yawg ntsuag los yeej muaj ib co cov me nyuam yeej phem ib yam thiab ,

Tsis txhob ntshaw2 nyiaj, tsis yog yus nab thib tu.

Ntuj aw!!! Yus txaus yus siab vim koj yeej paub ntsoov tias tus txiv laus no muaj pojniam. Txhob cia siab tus niam loj cov menyuam yuav hlub hlub koj. Koj tseem khib txog pw hmo ntuj thiab??? Koj yeej tsis tsimnyog tu siab pojniam hmoob nplog yeej phem yeej xav tuaj nrhuav luag lub neej.......kuv tsis qhuas koj kiag, twb tsis yog koj qimuag yuav niag thaub laus ntawm ko

Tus me viv ncaus aw.. koj yuav tsum ntse thiab sab laj rau tej phooj ywg ua ntej thaum koj tus txiv tsis tau tuag mas muaj cov neeg siab zoo2 yuav qhia rau koj nawj

Txhob ntseeg2 cov niag thaub laus 65-75 xyoo os yu kav tsij yuav tu hluas2 25-30 xyoo tim nplog no phim2 tu xwb txom nyem lo mam 2 leeg khwv os zoo qhov kuv ho yug tau 4 tug me nyuam yog kuv li yog kuv roj yog kuv li ntshav zoo kawg

Tus ntxhais aw yus tseem hluas hluas thiab muaj plab yus kav tsij yug nawb mog do not listen to anyone else lawm os.. Kuv agree nrog koj muab nws lawb dab mus yus tseem hluas mog es mam mus yug rau lwm xeem xwb os. Tsi yog yus roj yus ntshav lawv tsi hlub koj nawb me ntxhais aw.

Tus mi niam tsev koj txhob vam yuav tau cov Vaj tsev yog tsis nyob koj npe, yog muaj npaum koj hais, muab thaub laus dho toj es kaj tsij mus nrhiav lib neej tshiab thaum tsis tau lig.

Es koj puas hlub lawv li koj hlub koj tus koj yug thiab mas los koj muab 100 rau koj tus koj tsuas muab 100 los faib tag nrho rau lawv xwb na los cas muaj ntsej muag luaj tu siab npaum li ko cas tuaj ua tag lawv pab niam tub hkib thiab mob siab rau koj tus ntsej muag ko na

Txiv neej yeej txawj dag heev xav kom nej cov ntxhais yuav yuav cov thaub laus hmoob meskas yuav tau noog kom paub nws lub neej tseeb tseeb tso mam li yuav. Koj niag thaub yeej siab phem txawm li cas los yuav tsum cia koj muaj 2 tug 3 tug me nyuam los khi koj txoj sia mas thiaj li yog pob.

Tsis tas yuav tuaj piav koj lub qe tsis muaj meeg qhuas nej cov me niam mos ab li os. Nej cov qhov muag rua pliav pom ib tug txiv neej laus npaum nej yawg xwb es tsis paub xu siab los tseem kam yuav thiab. Nej tsis tas tuaj tuaj piav nej tus txij nkawm tsis yog nej tus os luag twb muaj luag txiv nkawm os. Nej tsuas yog ib tug qev tuaj ua hauj lwm meskas teb xwb os. Nej rua nej qhov muag tuaj xwb ces nyuam qhuav phim xwb nawb. Thov txhob hais tias me koj txiv xu siab nrau heev li os

Kuv tsis txaus siab rau nej cov uas twb paub tias tus txiv neej ntawv tseem muaj poj niam es cia li rua muag tsuas los yuav…. Tim nej xwb

Nco ntsoov tias cov me nyuam tsis yog koj yug lawv yeej tsis hlub koj, hos ntawm koj los koj yeej tsis hlub lawv ib yam. Koj xav ntawm koj tus kheej tias koj hlub koj tus tshaj cov tsis yog koj yug. Es txhob tu siab rau lawv.

Tus d viv ncaus cas yus tsis mus yus nawb. Tso nyob zov niag tsis laus ntawm ko li os.

Peb cov hmoob lam tuaj nyob rau teb chaws vam meej los muaj ib co yeej tseem tsis tau vam meej li tseem coj li nyob puag tim teb chaws nplog

oyo yog lawv tsis hlub koj es pheej yuav nrog lawv nyob tiv kev lwj siab os.. Tej tug niag thaub laus ko pheej yuav uv nrauj hlo mus ua dua neej tshiab kiag xwb os..

You married a married man. What did you expect? You don’t see your wrong? These people are delusional.

Menyuam ntsuag tebchaws no lawv siab phem heev. Kavtsij ua raws li koj siab ntshaw.

Peb tsis qhuas koj vim koj tuaj txeeb lawv tus txiv thaum lawv muaj mob xwb. Mob niam loj siab tshaj. Koj los piav rau peb mloog peb tseem pab hlub nws cov menyuam. Koj yeej liam. Koj thiaj li qhuas koj tus kheej xwb. Koj hais yog tshaj peb yeej tsis qhuas koj os.

Txhua yam yog tim koj tus txiv xwb vim nws tsis hlub koj tiag thiab nws ua tsis taus txiv koj thiaj tau tuaj ua lub neej txom nyem yog muaj npaum li koj hais ces peb los yeej pab hlub koj kawg li os

Kam tsij mu nawb txhob nkim kj lub neej ib sim rau tu neeg tsi hlub kj ko li os

Koj ua rau koj xwb koj tus txiv cov me nyuam lawv tub mus nyob lawv lawm tseem tshuav dab tsi rau koj ntxub lawv tseem muaj dab tsi rau lawv ntxub koj. Tiam tshiab no menyuam yeej tsi nyiam niam tshiab txiv tshiab li lub neej qub yog koj yuav muab tej ko los ua teeb meem mas tsi yog lawm

Why are you complaining? You agreed to this arrangement.

niam hluas aw....nej cov me niam tuaj tshiiab nas ua cas tus phem los tos tsis hnyoo ib qho nyuag xwb ya plho mus yuav tus tshiab cas koj ho yuav ruam npaum ko thiab mas yus mus nrwb yus mo tos tus j muag kav ywm hlab ko ua dab tsi mas kav ywm hlab ko ces kab me nyuam tuag tag lawm los mas tsis txhob khi nyuj tos zaub hlob os txhob tos thaub laus tuag koj mam yuav txiv os kav tsij mus ua ntej nws nkaw hniav los mas

Koj tos nws tuag ces,koj yug tsis tau me nyuam lawm os tus me ntxhais aw. Koj xav tau me nyuam ces mus khwv tam sim no xwb mog.

Qhov zoo ces tsis txhob tuaj yuav txiv teb chaws no kav tsij nyob twj ywm tim nplog xwb. Tus txiv no nws yeej musj tug lawm ne.

Nw lam dag koj muab koj laug kom nkim kj lubneej xwb kav tsij rau siab khaw nyiaj mu pib koj lub neej xwb

Koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj muaj nws tso mus

Ab npaum ko ces muab lawv cov txiv tub lawb xwb mas cas yuav ntev ua luaj na kuv ces khiav ntev lawm

If I were you I leave him, and let him suffer since he can't even get his kids to love you.

Txhob qi qhovmuag uaneej mas tus me muam

Vuag... nws twb hais rau koj tias nws yuav koj tuaj tu nws tus niam loj no es koj tseem kam yuav nws thiab. Koj twb paub tias nws yuav koj tuaj ua qhev xwb no es koj twb txaus siab yuav nws. Nrog koj tu siab vim txoj kev ntshaw2 nyiaj dollars. Yog koj ntshaw kev hlub li koj hais ces koj yeej xum yuav tus hluas2 nyob tim nplog.

Nco ntsoov nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj Leej twg uas yuav hlub yus yog yus mus nyob deb yus niam yus txiv lawm ces yus yuav tau hlub yus tiag tiag xwb koj twb tuaj tau ntev lawm koj twb paub khwv noj khwv haus rau koj lawm ces tsis nyuaj siab lwm tus hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog

WOW…bad family tree…Hmong people are always live in backwards. Love the living not the dead…😩!!!

Tsis tas yuav yog koj tsev neeg los tsis yog es thiaj pom koj ua zoo. koj twb paub tseeb tias nws muaj poj niam los koj twb kam yuav ua niam yau, qhov no twb yog koj ua kev txhaum lawm ne. Koj yeej paub lub neej ua niam yau yeej tsis zoo tsis kaj siab sav. Yus txaus yus siab ces zoo phem los yuav tau uv lawm xwb tiag.

Hais zoo heev tsis ta li tseem ntxim hlub ntshaj li

Hau yau hais pojhmoob nplog xwb. Tsis mloog os

If you want kids, you don't have to wait for him. Wink wink.

Tu siab npaum ko ces kuj khiav? Pheej nyob ma? Tsis tim koj 100% los yeej tim koj tus kheej li 70% nawb, vim yeej tsis muaj neeg muab ib rab qws khoo koj kom koj yuav lawv tus tiag thiab ne?

Ua cas tuaj piav tau ruam ua luaj li lau. Xav xav tuaj ces leej twg los yeej tsim pom tsis paub lub neej tom ntej na. Ua cas yuav xav txog yus tus kheej xwb lau. Ruam rhau lawm os. Peb nyob tim mekas no los lub neej nyuaj siab Tom ntej peb twb tsis paub thiab os poj hmoob nplog! Yog nej nyob tim nplog es nej ho pom pom lub neej yav pem suab ces nyob twj ywm tiv txhob tuaj tuaj xwb mas!

Koj yuav tus txiv hluas hluas phim koj heev nyob tim Laos tab sis neb ho ua lub neej txom txom nyem. Koj yuav tus laus tim Meskas thiab tau tuaj nyob lub teb chaws vam meej tab sis nws ho tsis phim koj thiab muaj ib hnub twg nws yuav ua koj ntej rau koj txom nyem rov tom qab. Koj ua siab ntev thev txoj kev txom nyem tam sim no tos thaum twg koj tus txiv ncaim koj lawm, koj mam nrhiav tus kom phim nyog koj ua lub neej tau zoo rov tom qab kom txog hnub kawg. Nov yog koj lub neej tsam peev, tsis yog poob peev.

Ua Neeg nyob es tsis yog koj yug es cas thiaj yuav hlub koj ma? Muaj tej txhia es yus yug kiag es twb tsis hlub na, es pheej hais dab tsi na? Txhua2 yam tim koj tus kheej xwb tsis tim leej twg li os.

Yog koj twb tsis txaus siab nyob ces kav tsij qev kauv txhais xwb. Koj tus txiv ntxias koj so nws quav xwb. Nws cov me nyuam yeej tsis hlub koj.

Khaws luag qub teb ua CES yeej yuav Tau khaws luag qub teb ua xwb, nej Cov nkauj hmoob nplog txhob xav tias nej yuav tuaj khaws luag lub neej ua no nawb,ua neej nyob CES yuav kom koj nyob ua lub neej kaj Siab CES txhob mus yuav Tus muaj tej pab mi nyuam, txawm koj yuav yawg nrauj yawg ntsuag los yog yuav txawv li nej yuav tus nraug Laus xwb 🙅🙅

Tu poj.niam no Liam dhau.lawm.os

Nrauj kiag mam mus yus rau yus o me nian hluas aw.

Cas koj tsis muab tso tseg thaum koj tseem hluas na lawv yeej tsis hlub koj li os

Ua ntej koj yuav tuaj yuav koj tus txiv. Nws twb yeej qhia koj hais tias nws yuav koj tuaj tu nws tus niam loj no es koj twb txaus koj siab ne. Thaum koj tau lawv tus txiv es koj tuaj txog thaum kawg koj twb tsis kam tu lawv tus niam loj lawm ne. Luag cov menyuam yuav ua cas hlub koj. Tus niam hluas koj hais koj sab mas tub koj siab kawg. Kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg no mas kuv xav hais tias yog vim li cas koj tus txiv thiaj tsis kam neb muaj ib tug menyuam ntxiv li lawm yam koj tus txiv yeej paub zoo tias nws cov tub twb tsis hlub koj. Hnub qab nram lub ntsis nws cov tub lawv yuav tsis kam los tha koj ov. Koj hais koj sab zoo xwb tab sis yuav tsum yog koj ua ib yam dab tsi rau koj tus txiv pom los yog nws tu siab lawm ua nws xam pom tias xyov nej lub neej qhov kawg nws yuav zoo li cas. Koj tus txiv thiaj tsis kam muab menyuam rau koj xwb nawb. Yog tias phem npaum koj hais ces nrauj xwb. Yog tseem nyob tau ces yuav tsis phem npaum koj hais thiab ov.

Yeej yog los mas vim nej yeej txaus siab ne nej tsis paub xwb cov ntxhais hmoob mekas twb tsis yuav lawv na tsuas yog nej thiaj tseem khaws cov yawg zoo li no xwb vim dab tsi es nej cov me ntxhais pheej ntshaw tuaj mekas tuaj yuav cov niag yawg Laus yeej pab tsis tau nej es kav tsij yuav Tus kom phim nej tseem txom nyem me ntsis los tsuav tau Tus hlub yus xwb ,

Vidncaus, txhob nkim sijhawm nyob ntxiv. Nws tsevneeg tsis nyiam tsis hlub koj, nws tsis pub koj muaj menyuam ntxiv. Txhob siab zoo uv, tsam koj laus ces dhau caij yug menyuam. Yog nws cia muaj nyuam ces nyob ntxiv mus, tsis kam ces tsum xwb.

Mus aim ib tug thaub sab nrauv kom muaj menyuam kiag xwb mas.

Niag txiv laus es youv ua cas thiaj qaub koj thaj

Don't expect much from the children. They were hurt when their dad married you! Their dad cheated and married you when their mom was sick in bed. And you agreed to take care his wife when you married him. So not feeling sorry for you.

Cov niam tsev hmoob Mekas Nim tsis yog tawm Tim av nplog tuaj los cas nas. Kuv yeej tsis respect cov neeg pheej hais tias lawv Yog hmoob Mekas

Ugh I couldn't finish this. Lady what do expect marrying a married man. Of course the first wife's (your step kids) will not love you. Don't try and justify your actions. You choose that life knowing dam well he was married and had kids.

Sister Yus txhob kev ruam xwb os. Txhob mus ua niam yau. Lawv cov txiv tsis txim txiaj, tsis sib hlub, txhawj txhawj dag, lawv muaj muaj teebmeem hauv lawv lub neej. Txhob mus cuam tshuam, yus tabtom mus kis lawm tus mob xwb. Ua lub neej niam yau ces yeej zoo li ko. Koj yeem ua niam yau mus tu lawv tus niam loj ua dabtsi!? Not every niam yau will be lucky, dont risk it. Tsev neej muaj niam loj niam yau ces tus twg los tus muaj kev tu siab kev chim. Cov txhawj xav ces thiaj li lam nyob lam uv. Qhov twg los lam xwb yeej tsis muaj qhov kaj siab li os. Tsis yog poj niam hmoob mekas xwb thiaj txhawj phem. Ua hmoob niam yau ces nyob tebchaws twg los yeej zoo ibyam xwb os.

Koj ntsos, koj ntshaw luag lub neej zoo thiab ntshaw tuaj mes kas es muab pim los pauv qau los

koj mas tseem yog txua muag pliav los yuav luag tus txiv . yus nqa tsawv ib sab pob ntseg nloog ntxoov luag muaj lub neej muaj poj niam ..yus ntshiav yus kev txom nyim nyias nqa nyias ob sab tes mus khwv tsi tau lov npav yuav lawv tus txiv xwb kuv mas tsi paub hais cov hmoob nplog li tiag 😂😂😂😂txiv neej tuag tag lawm sub as😂😂😂😂

Koj niag txiv thaub laus ko, tsis yog laus tu tsis taus menyuam, nws yog ib niag neeg tub2 nkeeg na, cas koj tsis muab nrauj,