Paul Merson Confronts Neil Ruddock Over His Drinking Habits

Paul Merson Confronts Neil Ruddock Over His Drinking Habits | Harry's Heroes: Euro Having A Laugh

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When Paul Merson tries to advise Neil 'Razor' Ruddock to change his lifestyle habits, following Merson's own fight against alcoholism and gambling addiction, Razor Ruddock is angered by Merson's advice which hits too close to home.
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@latchdoorlatch996 11 ай бұрын

A true friend telling you how it is even though you dont want to hear it is a friend for life

@karlfisher278 11 ай бұрын

I’ve done this to my friend before their been on some much drink complete stopped talking to me for trying to help him but now hanging around with shit people now for trying to help and now he’s still on the drink sad old world we live in

@stevenaitcheson6938 7 ай бұрын

one that has been through the same thing is amazing

@J88HNT 8 ай бұрын

Merson is a class act here. That is what you call love right there. True friends tell you how it is.

@Steve-he3cn 7 ай бұрын

Tough love…..👍

@minimumwage2millionaire 4 ай бұрын

Paul is projecting his past insecurities. Neil is obviously not ready to be where Paul thinks he should be. Good to see they are still tight x

@Ooth9999 Ай бұрын

Class act? Deciding to bring up his drinking on a tv show that millions of people will see? If merse cared so much he’d bring it up to him in private instead of doing it publicly so people think you’re a Saint

@minimumwage2millionaire Ай бұрын

@@Ooth9999 he's doing it publicly so people can learn. Idiot

@kaigarrity6546 Жыл бұрын

Such a top bloke Paul Merson, hard truths hurt, a true friend

@smith077906 8 ай бұрын

"The trouble is not in dying for a friend but finding a friend worth dying for" Mark Twain Merson is a good friend.

@redred9882 8 ай бұрын

It worked. As Razor is off the booze now and lost loads of weight. Fair play!

@robinhooduk8255 Ай бұрын

to be fair the surgery they mentioing was gastric band surgery, it was that that made him lose 9stone not afew bitchy snipes from paul merson

@unofficialleeds9084 8 ай бұрын

Not many videos upset me but this one had me bawling. What a great friend Merson is.

@mikehunt1528 4 ай бұрын

I used to collect money from charity boxes a few years ago. One particular shop in Walsall which had a box was always full to the brim with pound coins (a lot of money) and the shopkeeper used to say that it was Paul Merson who regularly put the money in. Yes a great friend indeed and a top bloke :)

@jamma6622 11 ай бұрын

Merson has always been a top bloke with a heart of gold!

@rorus9530 11 ай бұрын

Such a top bloke that he waited until the cameras were rolling to confront his friend over his drinking problem.

@jamma6622 11 ай бұрын

@@rorus9530 that’s not what happened is it? Did you watch the full thing?

@conraddsilva7425 11 ай бұрын

He should have had a bet on it probs good odds

@aidanbunce1934 11 ай бұрын

if you're worried about your mates you should do the same, seeing them upset for a couple of hours is worth seeing them make a change that will sort their lives out

@Mark-oy9lw 8 ай бұрын

👌

@stevenaitcheson6938 8 ай бұрын

Perhaps don't do it on tv.

@aidanbunce1934 8 ай бұрын

@@stevenaitcheson6938 but the more people who see it the better, they can take inspiration and then go help their own mates

@andrewmallard2301 8 ай бұрын

To become an addict in recovery has to come from within and you can see how much it hurts Paul. To get on that journey, is one of the hardest things you'll ever do, but so worth it.

@nickbrooker1411 8 ай бұрын

remember watching this when it was televised and even today upsets me - i LOVE this generation of England legends - they all still look out for each other especially Merse who has been through addiction - - true friends

@bitchslap3873 8 ай бұрын

When I was in my late 20’s my dad died and I came into some money, I very quickly developed an alcohol and cocaine problem, I had my best friend since kindergarten go mad at me one night after I smashed my flat up after a session, I had other “ friends” enable my behaviour particularly because I always bank rolled our nights out, I ended up having a heart attack and almost dying, when I woke up in the hospital the first thing I saw was my my best mate sitting in a chair next to my bed crying,friends like him and Mers come by once in a lifetime. Hold them close and don’t let go

@rezzaakbar7236 4 ай бұрын

Oh man, I don't know how and I don't know you in real life. But, I am crying now reading this. I am wishing you all the very best, man. Take care!

@christophertrevenenbrown5310 2 ай бұрын

So glad it turned out all right. Did you smoke and excercise?

@leelaird1544 11 ай бұрын

If you known each other since they was 16 wow it made me cry I've not had a drink for 5 yrs I feel good

@jayjay1drum1skate 11 ай бұрын

Well done Lee

@leelaird1544 9 ай бұрын

@@jayjay1drum1skate thx mate

@OzzieEratli 11 ай бұрын

I understand this. Im currently fighting an addiction and its hard and emotional. We all need help and with true friends who care and love you, we will get through it

@Seanc74 10 ай бұрын

How is the fight going? Hope that you got to the end of the 12th round and now have a unanimous decision.

@OzzieEratli 10 ай бұрын

@Seanc74 it's going well. I have my ups and downs where I have relapsed but I've been doing this for 5 months. I have gone much longer with sobriety which is good progress

@Seanc74 10 ай бұрын

@@OzzieEratli Exactly. Keep it going….

@OzzieEratli 10 ай бұрын

@Seanc74 thank you buddy. Are you also going through something similar?

@leedavies4589 9 ай бұрын

i'm fighting the beer its a life long battle ..i'm like ok done 3 days 2 months without but then i hit it again i need help

@burtybasset 8 ай бұрын

Merson Is a real friend made Me wish I had a friend like this amazing man

@stevenaitcheson6938 8 ай бұрын

It can be annoying because it can be a game of one-up. This has happened to me many times starting at 18. I wouldn't like it if someone did this to me on TV as it's very embarassing.

@user-mt9gb5lz4m 8 ай бұрын

The gift of honesty from a proper friend

@mangle41 8 ай бұрын

Been down that rabbit hole and it takes someone who has to make you realise what it’s doing True friend 💙

@kennethmunro7480 7 ай бұрын

Paul Merson legend on and off the park what a great mate to have 💚💚👏🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

@bollockchopps6291 Ай бұрын

This is one of my favorite videos on KZfaq. Merson is a class act.

@incognito3898 11 ай бұрын

Just saw this 💙 and respect tae Paul merson 👍 a true friend tells you the truth wae best intentions at heart 🙏 beware those that co-sign yur bullshit so big up Paul merson and the best of luck both of you on your recovery journey 🙏🙏🙏

@ianix3294 8 ай бұрын

I used to be a bouncer and once I was lucky enough to be watching Paul Merson while he was doing a public engagement gig , he came to the club after to hang out and after we closed he stayed and spoke at length to the team and all the young bar staff about how quickly alcohol , gambling and drugs can ruin your life from his own experiences , it was incredible and something I always remember whenever I see him on TV. Good bless ya Paul!

@sevans606 Жыл бұрын

Why are there so few comments? Addiction to alcohol, cocaine and gambling. Hope he can find happiness

@alanpotter751 8 ай бұрын

The thing is,there is only one person and alchoholic can help,and its himself,ive lost friends through drinking,and i mean they have died,it breaks my heart,but thats the reality ,and Mers,you are spot on.A true freind will always have your back.

@user-mt9gb5lz4m 8 ай бұрын

If you’re not careful later becomes never

@duanedurkan3565 6 ай бұрын

I love Paul Merson. He makes people want to get better. Beautiful human being

@Pavan-rz9uo 8 ай бұрын

Massive respect to Merson ❤️❤️❤️

@kevphillips02 8 ай бұрын

Telling hime he was drunk and making a fool of himself was a good thing . Well done Paul

@Nightstalker321 7 ай бұрын

I would have died if at the end she’d had said “shall we go to the pub”😂😂😂

@AB-sg5wn 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@leedavies4589 9 ай бұрын

i'm crying ..i have an alcohol prolem but i'm on my own ..i'm scared and don't know how to cope

@successor538 8 ай бұрын

Hey Lee, ive never reached out to anyone on the net before, but my dads just been diagnosed with Wernicke Korsakoff syndrome (if you dont know, look it up).. saw youre also a city fan.. so hey why not. If you need to chat, comment back and we can work something out. You don’t need to be alone.

@kevinconroy2014 8 ай бұрын

Talk too your doctor, the NHS are brilliant at finding you the help you need, or find your nearest AA meeting. Good luck

@leedavies4589 8 ай бұрын

@@kevinconroy2014 tried that no appointments they don't care

@steve-marsh 2 ай бұрын

I met Paul on a flight once and he was such a nice guy. Just sitting in economy as well, not up front. But boy is he scared of flying! Top bloke.

@garethmackinnon6782 8 ай бұрын

Well it's amazing what a few years does look at raza now looking healthy and merson on Saturday football keeping busy 👍

@charliecross5086 6 ай бұрын

"it doesn't matter if you're the richest man or the healthiest man, you only get today"

@NUFC2412 4 ай бұрын

Merson top lad. "Tomorrow never comes we only get today"

@ryanterry6547 8 ай бұрын

A true pal

@johnrider3749 8 ай бұрын

Sometimes too get through to someone you really care about you have to be brutally honest with them no matter how painful it is,

@Millennial_Mike 6 ай бұрын

It takes a real strong person to speak the hard honest truth.

@Seanc74 10 ай бұрын

How many of us need a push like that? How many of us would take that push, I’m guessing most of us would get the raving. Yeah, we’d be stuck in a rut and accept that fact. If we just try, and without the excuses we just might make it. How great would it be to be able to say “I wish I did this years ago” rather than it being too late and we’re lying in a *BYE BYE BOX* If at 1st we don’t succeed, you know the rest…

@StaleFiish 7 ай бұрын

As much as I don't like Paul Merson as a pundit, as a person, he's an amazing person who cares for people.

@Monty-kr7py 8 ай бұрын

It only hurts because it's from someone you respect

@jack-ew1us Ай бұрын

Needs to have a chat with his mate ray parlour next

@stefangrant1989 8 ай бұрын

Love how Razor kicks off and then stand outside with a “see throw “brolly” when it’s hardly raining 😂😂😂.

@ChadPlainview_ 10 ай бұрын

2:32 where did Razor get that umbrella from? LOL

@Bale4Bond 8 ай бұрын

By the power of editing

@Tianton1 8 ай бұрын

Razor has since got a gastric band and has lost a load of weight and looks really healthy at the moment

@115ffpandthephantomtreble 5 ай бұрын

Powerful

@ben_imaging 11 ай бұрын

100% right to raise it. It was done out of love, but probably not the best way.

@tommymercer9174 Күн бұрын

Merson. Arsenal legend, soccer Saturday got the giggles. But let’s admit, Friend of us all xxx

@Casey-Jones 3 ай бұрын

I remember when Neil Ruddock deliberately elbowed Peter Beardsley in the face so hard that he fractured (shattered) his cheekbone. This was in the first 2 minutes of a pre-season friendly. Ruddock had a good laugh about it. Good to see him suffering now

@fridrich4769 3 ай бұрын

2:04 Mark Wright!

@lisas6787 6 ай бұрын

His old pal looking out for him, but razor is looking good and had taken note of merse

@AaronBallistic 14 күн бұрын

Merson is not only telling Razor, hes telling himself.

@tonypaul3205 7 ай бұрын

Truth hurts bruv don't forget, Paul isn't judging, he's been there!.

@michaelmcgill-uu5ox 8 ай бұрын

Well if u lk at tht vid and now see razor it works truth hurted him but got his act together now looks picture health so well done guys fr all sticking by him esp merson whos had his troubles

@DT-rb7ro 11 ай бұрын

David left them to it. Come on Seaman you are better than that!

@si-scapessprayart1673 5 ай бұрын

this got an old Chelsea lad bawling of a Gooner and a Millwall geeza, both PROPER CHAPS - Merson is a true friend, lovely telly.

@tonyhew8482 7 ай бұрын

I've been an alcoholic 20+ years I'm coming up 3 years sober in January if I can get clean and maintain sobriety anyone can. My wife supports me 100% she hasn't touched a drop in 3.5 years in order to support me and the fact she hates alcohol.

@fwwryh7862 7 ай бұрын

You don't ''ave a word'' in front of a room full people. Talk to him alone.

@petegonad 8 ай бұрын

Good bloke merse

@davidmt23 11 ай бұрын

I really do hope that merson doesn't have a relapse. I found the first bit around the table, really patronising and annoying by merson, obviously everyone with a drinking problem knows it, and most wouldnt appreciate the lecture by merson, especially in public. Sometimes if someones doesnt want to talk you have to let it lie (or your 'through the window"!). Ive been in recovery for almost 2 years (i can tell you the time and date to the second!), and wish both men well, its a bugger, alcohol

@Valhalla88888 4 ай бұрын

Merson needed correct guidance but got lost in the chaos of football Drugs, Alcohol, and lost everything to betting what a shame!

@HighNLo Жыл бұрын

Paul Merson's manged to state the obvious. It's almost like he should be a pundit doing the same thing.

@paulk8275 8 ай бұрын

Nothing worse than a recovering alcoholic telling a drinking alcoholic to stop drinking the best way is step back and let them come to you I'm a recovering alcoholic 14 years now never preach its attraction not promotion

@DarrenGibbons-xi9fq 11 ай бұрын

DAvid seaman was thinking didn't sign up for this nonsense

@niplanningpermission-belfa2948 11 ай бұрын

😂

@fridrich4769 2 ай бұрын

Мои любимые футболисты Англии из 90-х уже старенькие стали старые алкаши🤣🤣

@carforumwanker 9 ай бұрын

Only good mates tell you the truth .The rest are all pricks

@fridrich4769 3 ай бұрын

Funny clowns🤣🤣

@stewartcurtin9590 8 ай бұрын

theres a guy i went to school with who is friends with paul merson

@squidwardjtentacles 8 ай бұрын

He talks some amount of crap about Man Utd but for once he was bang on😂

@Rivelino824 8 ай бұрын

I actually think Paul merson does give a toss ? He's been through pure hell himself so they can help each other.

@TheMrbc74 7 ай бұрын

Hard to believe these guys was at the pinnacle of their sport, now they just seem like the guys you see down at the park benches squabbling over a can of kestrel

@PlayMoreGolf-RipOff 8 ай бұрын

STEPHEN LEE

@DJObiSmalls 5 ай бұрын

The only time a cockney accent sounded cool… “get the hump wich ya and shove you out the fackin door” 😅 And… Man Seaman was one of my heroes… always calm and collected and swagged out.

@phanthomshadow920 4 ай бұрын

I think merse has the right cause he has been there himself so sad😢

@shaunpritchard5656 7 ай бұрын

Hope Ray Parlour has watched this , he's another one in denial

@chrisjonson3820 8 ай бұрын

It’s kind of sad but what’s happening to these guys it’s all they talk about now no one knows Paul for being the good footballer that he was this addiction thing is all he ever talks about maybe focus on the positives a bit more he played pro football not many people get to do that I’m sick of keep hearing it.

@Timetomakeytgreatagain 10 ай бұрын

Bruh dont say the stuff to neil you solve your own issues before bringing others down people can have fun without following a scrip

@corbuzchristi365 8 ай бұрын

Takes a true friend to tell you to stop being a pr*ck! 👌

@zeeshanakhtar233 6 ай бұрын

😂😂

@MUSIC4TRUTH.... 2 ай бұрын

Ruddock is one of those characters I always try to avoid.

@NorfolkRed 7 ай бұрын

Sad.

@fridrich4769 2 ай бұрын

My favorite English football players from the 90s are already old and have become old drunks

@awesomefrankrapid 7 ай бұрын

We paid for a cameo from razor a while back and he was shitfaced, called us all cunts, was funny but a little concerning

@bobbytetlowmcfc4619 Жыл бұрын

Is Neil alright now

@AL-wm6ni 11 ай бұрын

Yh lockdown sorted him right out he said

@bobbytetlowmcfc4619 11 ай бұрын

@@AL-wm6ni good

@philiphudgens4726 8 ай бұрын

He's doing guilt-trip ads for life insurance...so financially, yep!

@brentinnes5151 3 ай бұрын

Merse, the second coming

@007heaven 7 ай бұрын

Watch Dr Berg , and Acv and eating healthy intermittent fasting and stop being silly lol 😊 you can turn it all around watch 😅 thank me 😊

@bobbypukes605 3 ай бұрын

Whats this, big brother

@oliver69cork46 8 ай бұрын

Merson walked into that with ruddock-ruddock should know better but for all his macho behaviour hes too weak afterwards. Them merson with the waterworks-grow up,its pitiful. He means well but his experience isnt unfortunately taken.

@garystyles4151 8 ай бұрын

2 prats

@aquariumaddickuk 9 ай бұрын

Result wasnt surprising.a logical man trying to speak intelligently with an illogical, unintelligent man 😂

@tomjones3208 7 ай бұрын

You wouldn't get it these days....they're too up their own egos.but these lads were proper footballers and normal people.they came to the end of their careers and broke down...nothing wrong with that at all.more so they were great footballers playing a man's game.good for them for being normal people

@007heaven 7 ай бұрын

Imagine if poor n got no food n all worse childhood n life , ffs man up , you had dreams given fkin get on with it n listen , stop thinking material shit is it lol , life nature living , caring what goes in you , where from , organic bang 😊

@justthetruth1 8 ай бұрын

Staged

@michaelkaley9075 Ай бұрын

It’s all about you isn’t it Paul Merson? You and your suffocating self pity

@mikenewbold1699 8 ай бұрын

pathetic for a man of his age to behave like that

@DollyTtam 8 ай бұрын

Like what?

@sugarcan1110 3 ай бұрын

Talking about addiction in resurant is hillarois

@garybuller5656 8 ай бұрын

What you do wiv yer own bra is up to you, if you wanna put it on yer head...🧐

@mastercontrol469 8 ай бұрын

At least Mark Wright was there to add some testosterone To that room.

@davidhird3382 3 ай бұрын

Saw ruddock at a charity do last night. He was a dick. Couldnt put a sentence together without using c word, playing up to his hard man character. Lots of interesting storys he could of told but we got usual macho garbage