Kaisi Indian families mein guilt use hota hai

Kaisi Indian families mein guilt use hota hai | Emotional manipulation

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बेड़ियों को गहना समझ लेने से कैद की घुटन कम नही हो जाती। बल्कि यह ज़रूर होता है कि घुटन बहुत बढ़ जाने पर भी यह समझ नही आता कि हम घुटा हुआ क्यों महसूस कर रहे हैं। और उस समय, हम ज़िंदगी का क्या करते हैं?
Invisible chains are the hardest to break. If we don't even realize we are unfree, we will never know that our unhappiness is stemming from that. And then sadly, more people choose to end their miserable lives instead of ending their misery, especially in India where parents put a lot of pressure and make kids feel guilty.
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@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

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@prakash-ry9ot 3 жыл бұрын

What happened to yr sister@ Robin bhai

@vanitasinha4373 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true!And this guilt is very draining. Thanks .

@Newfunnycomedy1 3 жыл бұрын

आप ग्रूप बनाने की बात कर रहे थे उसकी लिंक भी शेयर कीजीए हम जूड़ना चाहते हमारे यहां बिशनोई जिन गावो मे रहते है वहा हर तीन गांवो के बिच एक गौसाला है जिन मे आवारा पशूओं को रखने की वयवस्ता है और हम भी बोहोत योगदान करते है लेकिन हमारे यहां जानवरों का डाक्टर नहीं है जिससे की हम जानवरो का ईलाज करवा सकें

@tradingwizard562 3 жыл бұрын

Bahut sahi aur badia baat ki aapne.

@neerajsoni3015 3 жыл бұрын

Main To jina chahta hoo mere Ghar wale bus paisa ke sath hai

@RajSachdeva 3 жыл бұрын

Elon Musk said in an interview “My children didn’t choose to be born, I chose to have children. They owe me nothing, I owe them everything.”

@vishalrathour2673 3 жыл бұрын

Indian Parents are just opposite..... Unfortunately!

@arushisharma32 3 жыл бұрын

@@vishalrathour2673 Ye log toh bolte hei. Ke Hum Bhagwaan se Khud poochke aaye hei ke aise family mei janam lenge. Matlab kuch bhi.

@vishalrathour2673 3 жыл бұрын

@@arushisharma32 Huh! APJ Abdul Kalam in his Wings of Fire said, "Your children come through you but not from you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts" They can never understand this!

@arushisharma32 3 жыл бұрын

@@vishalrathour2673 It was taken from a Poem on Children written by a Lebanese Writer. You should read the Whole Poem. Its really Good

@vishalrathour2673 3 жыл бұрын

@@arushisharma32 Haa. I surely will. When I quoted these lines to my mom.....Phir acche se gaaliya mili khane ko. Loose Motions ho gye ek dm 😶 She was like baap na bno hmare chaar kitabein pdh ke. I was like..... It's hopeless. Jhelte rho bs!

@truthwall 29 күн бұрын

A bad childhood is like a cage which never sets you free, even if you fly like a bird in sky

@crazycoolguy109677 27 күн бұрын

Exactly

@satvinderkaur983 27 күн бұрын

Sorry not true. All the wise people like Buddha, Guru Nanak Dev ji, Jesus and so many more went through a lot of pain to but they forgave and decided to leave the past in the past and lived in the moment. We must do this to. Carrying this baggage is like you will never be able to run away because the weight is so heavy. But if you keep looking behind you, you miss what's happening in front. Drop that bag and before you forgive others forgive yourself. No human is perfect so mistakes happen and if God is giving us another morning for a new chance we should accept it. I send this message in love, I to have been hurt and talk from experience. I pray all my extended family on this chat can drop the weight they carry and spread their wings and fly because every second we have is another chance to live🙏

@neethukr4500 27 күн бұрын

@@satvinderkaur983but unless we get correct guidance

@truthwall 26 күн бұрын

@@satvinderkaur983Rightly said, It is all about awareness and willingness to overcome the beaten path. It is a life long practice that can really help you to an extent, but will it heal your inner self, that is a matter of personal experience

@meeraahuja1594 26 күн бұрын

Children are brought up trained to be exploited, especially, girls. Life has been so painful to share. No relief anywhere

@samimanasrin5215 Жыл бұрын

he is so courageous to talk about imperfections in his life. other KZfaqrs fake happiness n create a so called perfect life

@balakrishan1219 27 күн бұрын

And it's fine.....he doing it a great thing ... doesn't make everyone obligated to speak up. People have their own way to deal with grief and shame its subjective...... kindly don't compare

@bindishathapa8735 20 күн бұрын

@@balakrishan1219well said dear. A good reminder for me. Thanks

@relaxation-meditation-calm7207 2 жыл бұрын

Indian parents should be taught before our generation born, if they would have given 1 year classes , it would have saved 100 years of future

@aryarai2962 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@earth2k66 26 күн бұрын

We can still make sure to be better parents. And save our future generations.

@sudhasusana4104 9 күн бұрын

Yes you are right

@devushkachannel 3 жыл бұрын

Heal before having children so your children don’t have to heal from having you as parents

@ravindrakale4214 3 жыл бұрын

सही है मैडम माँ बाप अगर सुलझे हुए नही होंगे तो बच्चों को उनका अज्ञान झेलना पड़ता है और जब तक बच्चे खुद सुलझते नही है तब तक बहोत वक्त निकल चुका होता है।

@rohitmehta1216 3 жыл бұрын

Wow... great thought devushka

@YogeshKumar-qo4zg 3 жыл бұрын

@SouravDey55500 2 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@YogeshKumar-qo4zg 2 жыл бұрын

@my opinion hi

@Askamusk 3 жыл бұрын

Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves a child.

@SouravDey55500 2 жыл бұрын

Kya baat boli hai bhai!!

@lalitkrai3328 2 жыл бұрын

क्या बात, क्या बात ! Original है ? या कहिं से lift ?

@nadiyashaikh3160 2 жыл бұрын

True 100%

@suryanarayan7263 2 жыл бұрын

True

@kritikasharma1221 2 жыл бұрын

So true

@Maitreya__ 27 күн бұрын

Emotional blackmail, manipulation, humiliation, Gaslighting, aggressive behaviour and the list goes on....😭

@piku8700 25 күн бұрын

Narcissism in one word

@bullseye6969 12 күн бұрын

Nobody talks about female narcissism in family.

@piku8700 12 күн бұрын

@@bullseye6969 narcissism is not related to one gender, both of my parents are narcissist Mother is a overt narcissist and father is a covert narcissist Although you are right Narcissism is more likely developed in females than males

@bullseye6969 12 күн бұрын

@@piku8700 again I said nobody talks about "female" narcissism. That does not mean it's gender specific in fact male narcissist are more prevalent also its been talked about openly specifically about male quite frequently and also its been linked to males. But there are also female narcissists.

@piku8700 12 күн бұрын

@@bullseye6969 I agree with you I think Mostly it's because we all glorify females and society always considers female as a victim without knowing the reality

@harpreetsingh1299 2 жыл бұрын

This is the dark reality of our parents and parenting

@hemrajranwa3367 3 жыл бұрын

ये वो ही बोल सकता हैं जिनसे वास्तविकता में जीना सीख लिया हो।

@harshadk3240 3 жыл бұрын

सही कहा. पर वास्तविकता मे हम ज्यादातर इंडियन्स को आता काहा हे. बस झूट की चादर ओढे जी रहे हे खोकले संस्कार, आदर्श, जात , धर्म की चपेट मे.

@1ns995 3 жыл бұрын

Ya shayad jise zindagi ne puri tarah se tod dia ho

@kuls43 3 жыл бұрын

या वही बोल सकता है जिसमें ये गहराई से सहा हो। लाइफ कॉम्प्रोमाइज और सैक्रीफाइस का नाम है। जब तक लोग इस थियोरी पे चलते रहेंगे, जीवन बर्बाद होते रहेंगे। मै शादी करना नहीं चाहता या चाहती लेकिन में अपने पैरेंट्स की खुशी के लिए कर रहा हूं या रही हूं। जब आप ऐसा या सिमिलर कोई स्टेप लेते हो तब आप अपने लिए क्राइम करते हो और उस क्राइम में अपने पैरेंट्स को भी शामिल करते हो।

@freethinker5670 3 жыл бұрын

@@kuls43 👍👍👍

@AmitKumar-ex5mu 3 жыл бұрын

@@harshadk3240 Bhai Mai aapki bat se sehmaht Hun par Puri bat se Nahi agar aap smaj Mai raho ge to nastik ko expect sirf sanatan karta hai or mahjab Nahi jab unki population yada ho Jaye gi ya to unka mahjab sabikar karna pade GA ya Marna or dharm par chalta kon hai Jo tum dharm ko jimedar dehra rhe ho kuritya smaj Mai hai dharm Mai Nahi .

@CrazyMantriOfficial 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Robin Sir! And, Well, most of the 90s kids are still facing the same thing... "Age ho gayi hai, Shadi karo, Tum jo kar rahe ho apne career me, usse tumhara kuch nahi hoga, self employed jaisi koi cheej ni hoti, 9-5 job karo, Govt job ki preparation karo, Jo hum keh rahe hain wo karo, and in the end kehte hain ki humne tumhe kabhi kuch karne se roka ni hai."... We need to understand that parents bhi insan hain and galti kar sakte hain, So even if it's hard to convince them, but don't wait for their approval... mann me aaye wo karo, sun lo unki but karo apni... Because nobody knows you better than yourself.

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@Jitendra_Rawat 3 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙏

@harshabhatia47 3 жыл бұрын

I agreee u said absolutely correct thing👍

@shivampatel2477 3 жыл бұрын

Bahut shi baat kahi bhai 🙌🏻

@sabyasachinanda0076 3 жыл бұрын

Yes ... very true

@yash1152 28 күн бұрын

3:11 _"ऐसी मुसीबतें हर किसी के साथ किसी-न-किसी रँग रूप में होती ही हैं; पर हम फिर भी परदे डालते रहते हैं"_ आपका बहुत-२ धन्यवाद यह साँझा करने के लिए!

@MoviesInAminute. 26 күн бұрын

I wish all the 90's kids heal and live a guilt free life

@samimanasrin5215 3 жыл бұрын

He is honest with his feelings. It take guts

@SRDumaga 2 жыл бұрын

आसान नहीं होता अपने घर की निजी बातों को सार्वजनिक करना पर आपने किया, सिर्फ दूसरों की भलाई के लिए ...🙏👏👏👏

@peepalfarm 2 жыл бұрын

🙏

@123rocker0071987 26 күн бұрын

@@peepalfarm real himmatwala havent seen another 1 like u in my lifetime!

@sunitao8 27 күн бұрын

"Mothers are not always right"

@snehagupta707 27 күн бұрын

And for this reason I just want to cut off all the relationship with my toxic family.

@mk67890 26 күн бұрын

Sorry to hear that

@bhartisatyaias4512 25 күн бұрын

but assa hota nhi hai specially for girls

@wowser2153 24 күн бұрын

@@bhartisatyaias4512she should not cut off completely, just keep some distance

@unsupported8104 13 күн бұрын

Don’t do this. Just try to avoid

@omkars9 3 жыл бұрын

बहूत दिनों बाद किसी सुलझे हुए इंसान को सुन रहा हु ऐसा लगा। 👍

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Omkar ji🙏🏽

@SumanSuman-lq1vg 3 жыл бұрын

Bilkul sahi kaha aapne

@raveenduhan4866 3 жыл бұрын

@@peepalfarm sayad m apko hi dundh rha tha.

@manoharpatelh435 3 жыл бұрын

बहुत सुलझे हुए 👍👍

@sushilbairwa5045 2 жыл бұрын

@@raveenduhan4866 ऐसे लोग पूरी दुनिया में हो तो कितना अच्छा होगा 🙏 🙏 🙏

@ganeshdivekar5042 3 жыл бұрын

This happens with good children mostly. We always think that it is our responsibility to keep parents happy always and forget about ourself but when we realise parents don't even care what we have done for them then things start getting messed up.

@nv2224 3 жыл бұрын

I know exactly how this feels 😭😭😭😭

@Peace_seeker02 3 жыл бұрын

100% true🥺

@priyankonmail 3 жыл бұрын

@neeturealvlog880 3 жыл бұрын

Yes .... U r right... Fir bhi log kahte he ki bachhe ma bap ki dekhbal nahi krte... Jb ki ma bap itne jiddi ho jate he ki kuch samajhna hi nahi chahte. . Sach kahu to mujhe to nafrat he in dono shabdo se bhi or riste se bhi

@IndianYoutuberKomal 3 жыл бұрын

👍👍

@bhupenderbhatia855 29 күн бұрын

बड़े भाई बहुत हिम्मत चाहिए ये सब बोलने के लिए और तुमने ये सब बोलकर ना जाने कितने लोगों को हिम्मत दी अपनी परेशानियों को साझा करने की एक दूसरे को ताकि किसी के दुख को कुछ हद तक तो कम कर ही सकते है सबकी जिंदगी में कोई ना कोई मजबूरी या किसी ना किसी तरह की परेशानी जुड़ी हुई है और दुख बांटे भी किस से कोई सुनने और समझने वाला ही नहीं है 😢 दुनिया में कितना गम है मेरा दुख कितना कम है

@peepalfarm 28 күн бұрын

@nishantb80 2 жыл бұрын

I can see the pain he suffered, seems like he still has hope to find his sister... I hope so as well...

@alishakashmirtoppo2473 3 жыл бұрын

Finally.. Someone talked about this.. Its so deep that almost everyone is suffering from this. Parents logic is that children are there to fulfill their dreams or carry their emotional baggage. And this goes on generation by generation.

@RSBPlus 3 жыл бұрын

Are you kashmiri ?

@shilpivlogs16 3 жыл бұрын

Really

@Rajvir363 3 жыл бұрын

Yrue

@vikassharma7520 3 жыл бұрын

All parents do this for us good life

@SamanwitaAcharya 2 жыл бұрын

@@vikassharma7520 not all are lyk this

@mohitkothiyal3481 3 жыл бұрын

You had a tough childhood,but you have brought happiness and comfort in the life of many living beings, and gave them a new life.

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

:) thank you! I try and now it's good to have a whole family at peepal farm dedicated to the same cause.

@amitojha9 25 күн бұрын

Very deep line "खुश रहना तो ईमानदारी से देखिए कितने लोगों को आता है?"

@itzryliegacha3564 18 күн бұрын

Jo bachpan se aise mahoul me pale badhe hote hain, unke saath poori life sirf aur sirf emotional chaos aur challenges rehte hain, maan sakte hain aise bachche aisi hi kismat lekar aate Hain

@Pooja-fk6or 3 жыл бұрын

Sbko lgta hai maa baap ki kbhi galti nhi hoti lekin kaise wo apne baccho ko irritate hurt or negative krte rehte hai ye wo hi smjh skte he jo ise salo saal sehte rehte hai.....har baar bacche galat nhi hote.....kbhi kbhi wo bahar walo ko apna alag bhagwan jaisa roop dikhate hai or hote rakshas hai

@ayrans1 3 жыл бұрын

Sahi bole ap ...bacho ko inse niklna hoga

@tejaswini3049 3 жыл бұрын

U r absolutely right. Mere parents b insaan k besh me rehne waale rakshas hai. Ghar k andar rakshas aur ghar k bahar sadhu santh jaise behave karte hai. Jaise k kisi ko bura karne k baare me pata hi na ho. Saakshath Bhagwan.

@nidhisen8584 25 күн бұрын

Sahi kaha mere maa baap bhi aise hi hai or abhi bhi mis behave karte hai

@piku8700 25 күн бұрын

Same here My parents are narcissist both parents

@kryptoniangamex 24 күн бұрын

Wow .... Unhone Jo Kiya so kiya agar aap bade ho gaye ho to aapna rasta chun lo... Aur achey parents ban jao

@gargi606 3 жыл бұрын

Seriously yaar, this is so true. Mothers are not always right.

@thehuman2861 3 жыл бұрын

And family is not always there to protect you .. Be good and find good people, and you'll have your real family

@ektarai8691 2 жыл бұрын

एक साधु महात्मा की लिखी बातें बताने से अच्छी मुझे आपकी वास्तविक जीवन से जुडी़ बाते लगींं जिससे लगभग सभी लोग कभी ना कभी गुजरते जरूर हैं 🙏

@suneetamishra8768 27 күн бұрын

Very courageous of you to talk about your experience and bring out the ugly truth of Indian families. I also didn't have a happy childhood. Amidst too much dominance of father, helplessness of mother and brothers, a lonely, silent childhood was what I spent. No picnic, no visiting anyone, no sharing emotions with anyone. I have grown up to be a loner and don't trust people easily although in college, I got my first bunch of 'friends' and have evolved since

@peepalfarm 27 күн бұрын

Oh yaar!

@preetisheoran-kv9sr 27 күн бұрын

Same here, but i am still friendless and too numb to care about things like that now.

@nitupandey7534 3 жыл бұрын

My bf always tried to make me realize this, that I should think about myself too, but everytime I would brush it off, but now I understand what he was trying to tell from the past so many days

@raghavdixit6832 3 жыл бұрын

He is real love Never let him go

@abhinavpandey840 2 жыл бұрын

@@raghavdixit6832 what do you mean , run away from home?

@altabshaikh9385 2 жыл бұрын

@@abhinavpandey840 there are many things apar from this my friend...... focusing on career which we want to choose but not choosing because of family or anything there are so many things like this

@akkir3268 2 жыл бұрын

Girl are you in just 3 rd std ? And have a bf?

@palakjain1099 3 жыл бұрын

That "unknown" sent chills down my spine. Strength to you and your family, Robinji.

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

😔 thank you🙏🏽

@rahulnmarkam3036 11 күн бұрын

अब समझ में आया भैया आप इतने इमोशनल हो इतने दयावान क्यों है you are a such a nice person😊

@spr15 2 жыл бұрын

This has to be the most enlightened words ever spoken 🙏🏼. Thank you Robin. I am usually a person who expresses well but at the moment i am choking because how true are these words 🙏🏼 I hope if at all your sister is anywhere she is living the happiest life on behalf of all those people who are in similar situation & god forbid if she is in god's feet then may she be at peace. God bless you Robin. I happened to stumble on this video by algorithm but I am sure it's god sent for me.

@neelamsinghsuhagvlogs995 3 жыл бұрын

Guilt ki dor se humein katputliyon ki tarah nachaya jaata hai That line is so powerful and true

@vijikumar2088 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for opening my eyes I was emotionally totally dependent on my daughter who is just a minor . We need to provide every support to the kids so that can respect themselves first and live a dignified life 🙏

@ecom3019 Ай бұрын

काफी कम उम्र में आपने इतना कुछ झेला है। तभी आप बेजुनबानो की त तकलीफ़ समझते हो❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@jethalalnohara302 Жыл бұрын

It takes so much strength to open up in front of strangers... you're brave.

@mohitmaheshwari2168 3 жыл бұрын

Damn true, I cutted out from my family, neighbors and everyone to find out my happiness.

@gauravverma5692 3 жыл бұрын

Reading comments I can see I had a great childhood.... I studied science because I liked it and I was interested in computers.... family did all to support me... my brother enjoyed commerce and he did that... we married when we wanted and were ready and to girls we wanted to... Same with kids we had them when we were ready.... Parents supported us..... now we support them

@123rocker0071987 26 күн бұрын

my dear sir this confirmity as displayed in ur words is the cancer of Indian families which in turn has brought our nation to its knees.....kab tak apne aap se jhooth bolte rahoge, at least appreciate this peepal farm guy unequivocally for not pushing the problems under the capret and pretend to be happy......sorry 4 being harsh but we need to learn how 2 be honest with ourselves......

@celebs.multifandom8194 26 күн бұрын

@@123rocker0071987 par achhi baat h na ki unki zindagi achhi chal rhi hh...kuch logo ki sach me hoti h achhi ...air kuch logo ki bachpan se kharab....environment bhot matter karta h

@ank_kmr 26 күн бұрын

👍

@gauravverma5692 26 күн бұрын

@@123rocker0071987 Or you could be wrong

@reenagarg9770 26 күн бұрын

It’s good that you shared…. Kehte hain na dukh bata dene se dil halka ho jaata hai. We love you for your helping nature. You are really doing a lot of good work and your sister is blessing you from heaven.

@aabhabajaj4643 2 жыл бұрын

Once shri shri Ravi shankar ji said... Happiness will definitely makes your life beautiful, but sorrow and pain will make you more compassionate and empathetic about others. Which i found is so apt in Robin's case. Very less people get the courage to talk about emotional burden, neglectance of their parents or just understand that it is very common in our society. We all have childhood phases where such things happened that our own parents treat us like a property and not a sensitive human being. And yes, if we get successful and settled now, we too behave as if wr had the best childhood and parents. But, our parents live a bigger lie that the they are the sole reason of our success and our parenting has been the great.

@kunalroy232 3 жыл бұрын

आपकी अभी तक कि जिंदगी बहुत संघर्ष पूर्ण रहा शुक्रिया हमसे साझा करने के लिए, बहुत कुछ सिखने को मिला आपसे।

@MK-te6kg 3 жыл бұрын

@deveshagra27 3 жыл бұрын

This man was telling story while he was crying. I can feel that ❤️

@dharmendrapatel3383 2 жыл бұрын

Bhai yaar, You are good person, reality ko ita khul ke accept karna or publicly logo ke liye bolna, har kisi ke bas ki baat nahi 🙏 thanks a lot bro

@sidb9257 26 күн бұрын

Thank you, @ROBHIN Sir, for opening up about your journey. It's heartwarming to see your resilience and positivity even in tough times.

@DM21217 3 жыл бұрын

It takes courage to share such personal things ....you earned my respect 👍

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽

@scienceofspceearthoceans1676 3 жыл бұрын

Nothing is personal . If every body accepts every one with love nothing becomes personal.

@lightmystic3792 3 жыл бұрын

yes its sad truth of our society....most family play this guilt and blame game.....and by the time we understand its too late...you are brave enough to share it.

@jalpabhimani2539 2 жыл бұрын

Robin Singh aap jitni sacchai se har baat kehte hai, vo sidha Dil ku chu jati hai.. ye jo baatein hai itni critical hai, Thank you for doing so 🌻🌻🌻...

@adarshsrivastav2445 2 жыл бұрын

hats off to you man...the way you talk and share your feelings and in a way motivate us is really commendable...lots of love and respect

@mostlyyhuman 3 жыл бұрын

Sir I almost cried after listening this. Mai vo didi hu jo apni iss "normal" life ko badalne mae lagi hu. Aasha hai badal lungi jaldi he!

@simaraman05 3 жыл бұрын

Realising that change is needed itself is the start of change.Good luck.

@mostlyyhuman 3 жыл бұрын

@@simaraman05 thank you so much!

@afsarshaikh7086 3 жыл бұрын

Allah aapki madad kare. AAMIN

@mostlyyhuman 3 жыл бұрын

@@afsarshaikh7086 Shukriya

@mr.himalayan6258 3 жыл бұрын

I m male so I can't understand what u think. But I am very much supportor of "Survival of the Fittest". Choose it or loss it.

@Akashkr008 3 жыл бұрын

It takes a lot of courage to stand up to your family. It took me 26 years to be free. I hope whoever reads this it doesn't take u that long.

@soaringraven1199 3 жыл бұрын

It's taking long. Due to this pandemic

@Akashkr008 3 жыл бұрын

@@soaringraven1199 I'll pray it goes well for you. Be brave and be free. It's the only way to live. Btw love ur username.

@soaringraven1199 3 жыл бұрын

@@Akashkr008 thanks

@HC_111 3 жыл бұрын

Be emotionally detached. Be more patient with yourself. In this pandemic situation these cases are increasing. Just keep yourself sane. Don't be too much emotionally invested that it leaves you empty and Hollow.

@learnersparadise7492 3 жыл бұрын

This pandemic has made things worse, you can't do anything but be together and have more clashes and bear stress

@samayjain2929 3 ай бұрын

रॉबिन जी आप सही मायने में लोगो का भला चाहते हैं। आपके ये बोल मेरे मन में गहरी छाप छोड़ते है हमेशा। धन्यवाद एक अच्छे मानव का उदाहरण प्रस्तुत करने के लिए।

@saraswatiyadav3764 2 жыл бұрын

Deeply moved. Heart wrenching. I think all of us have gone through this stage at one or the other point in life. It's only our positive attitude that keeps us going. I consider myself blessed that the divine power stopped me from taking disastrous steps to end life. Keep motivating the younger generations they really need loads of good advice

@10ON10 3 жыл бұрын

*Deeply touched by this message and himmat chahiye to convey it publicly, I think it is very much essential to bring out this guilt factor to be discussed as it eats up many people from inside and they end up sacrificing their life, And it is more common than we may think...yet it shouldn't be a norm*

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. That's the reason I talked about it. A lot of us have similar experiences and we all stuff then down. I think a few of us have to initiate sharing deeply personal experiences so normalize having a dialog about these problems.

@10ON10 3 жыл бұрын

@@peepalfarm certainly! And also as few people take the lead as you have taken other people would get the confidence who are on the borderline of thought process wondering whether to talk about it or not...

@jyotideshpande3593 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you completely

@sandysandy418 2 жыл бұрын

@@peepalfarm It's miracle that I gave up idea of ending my life. My mother and brother always make me feel guilty for what I am. I am a reputed foreign law school 🎓 but still has no right gave a look into full mirror. I was not allowed to keep the door of my room closed (unlatched). My brother used to barge the room anytime. Woman has no right to have privacy. I belong to progressive Hindu family who are double faced people. I ran away from home after brother beat me up when I took a stand after crossing 40 yrs. Police helped me in this. Still family members call me and trying make me feel guilty. How a brother and a mother kill the personality of a woman to utilize her!

@satishsain3698 2 жыл бұрын

Bhut vishsl dil h aapka

@atulxess5565 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I'm feeling right now, I'm studying so hard to get a job so I can move out from this house. 🙁 I might probably never return that's the level of suffocation I feel here.

@pallavisinha1004 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@rvn7218 3 жыл бұрын

@@pallavisinha1004 you will get rid of the day you get married

@pallavisinha1004 3 жыл бұрын

@@rvn7218 it will become worse , you have to face same thing in some other unknown house .

@atulxess5565 3 жыл бұрын

@@pallavisinha1004 it's better to Get a job and move out ASAP and marry the person who understands you. Life would be much easier then I guess 🤔

@pratikbari1714 3 жыл бұрын

Are you preparing for govt job If you are then i can you man

@seujparankakoti 9 ай бұрын

Sir you are a strong man no one can say by looking at your eyes that you have gone through so much, i respect what you are doing for innocent animals🙏🏻

@dr.aashnasharma5598 7 күн бұрын

Thank you for coming out and letting it all out 🙏 huge respect 👍👏

@hemantpandey8627 3 жыл бұрын

I wish ur didi is alive and watching you doing amazing work. Keep doing what you are doing and make her proud.

@shipraasaini 3 жыл бұрын

Living life on our terms is difficult in our country. These social pressures like marriage, children, career kill people's aspirations. Getting married at right age, children at right age....but what is that right time? When we feel like and not when it expected out of us. Thank you for putting this across.

@makeitsimple1099 3 жыл бұрын

This is the right time.....

@shilpivlogs16 3 жыл бұрын

True

@magicianvirgo5304 3 жыл бұрын

Middle Class HATE And Make THEM Look Stupid Who Actually lives without such Pressure of society.

@Meghana2611 2 жыл бұрын

इतनी ईमानदारी के लिए शुक्रिया🙏🙏 आपका ये वीडियो बहुत लोगों की जिंदगी बदल देगी ।

@pylmttl 2 жыл бұрын

Heads off to u sir ke aap is bare me publicly baat krre ho bcz bht rare hota h log aisi btein krte h.... India me sab log aise hi jeere h kahi na kahi.... So true story sir

@mahendralour3216 3 жыл бұрын

मैं पहले आपके द्वारा किए गए प्रयासों का प्रशंसक था लेकिन अब आज के बाद आपके लिए एक आदर भाव भी मेरे मन में होगा। यह अब तक मेरे द्वारा यूट्यूब पर किया गया पहला कमेंट है।

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

महेंद्र जी, धन्यवाद 🙏🏽 अच्छा लगा की आज तक आप सिर्फ सुनते आए थे, पर आज आप ने सुन कर बोलने पर मजबूर महसूस किया।

@Walklikeaduck111 3 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry for your loss. I lost my own sister to suicide. Its something i could never get over completely. Perhaps your sister was a victim of severe depression as well. My therapist told me recently, no one thinks or plans for suicide unless there is depression or other mental illness. Its sociological factors that affect us psychologically... But the decision to end her life must have happened because she couldn't see a way out.. This is what depression does to us. You are an inspiration for all of us, bhai.

@deadpoolgaming8161 3 жыл бұрын

I've been through it and there's a WAY OUT

@deadpoolgaming8161 3 жыл бұрын

@Jehangir Hussain Yes

@Ydv987 Ай бұрын

Same

@abundant224 8 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing this vulnerable incident. It takes a lot of strength❤ May God watch over you 🙏🏻

@Pasadena14 Жыл бұрын

My god...this is such a meaningful story. Thank you for sharing.

@aarushvats958 3 жыл бұрын

Bhut badi baat bhi aap bhut saral aur sidhe sabdo m samhja dete ho ..robin sir 🙏.. thanks for giving us a life lesson...

@user-gv7lp7pb1z 3 жыл бұрын

Ek video mein Robin ji ne kaha tha, ki loog unhe Robin sir bolte hain jo unhe bilkul acha nahi lagta. Agar koi unhe guruji ya kuch aur shabd se bulaye toh acha lagega.

@user-gv7lp7pb1z 3 жыл бұрын

Toh aap Robin ya Robin guruji, ya Robin ji ya kuch aur bol sakte ho toh acha rahega 🙏🙏

@rajorshitapas1623 3 жыл бұрын

Bahut badi baat kehdi aapne

@AshaAsha-lt8nv 3 жыл бұрын

आप एकमहान पर्सनाल्टी के मालिक हैं जिसने जीवन की वास्तविकता जिया और समझा ।आपने अपने जीवन को पारदर्शी बना कर उस बोझ को उतार फेंका जिसे आज भी बहुत से बच्चे सामना कर रहे हैं।आपने ऐसे बच्चो को जीने की राह दिखाई इसके लिए आपको बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद।ईश्वर आपके लक्ष्य को पूरा करे आपकी राह में कभी कोई बाधा न आए।

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

आशा जी धन्यवाद। मैं भी चाहूंगा कि ईश्वर आप की बात सुनें और हमे शक्ति दे की हम ज्यादा से ज्यादा लोगो की चेतन होने के सफर का भाग बन सकें!

@deepakgaur3933 3 жыл бұрын

🙏❤️❤️ आप बहुत ही नेक दिल इंसान है । परमात्मा आपको खुश रखे मेरे प्यारे भाई । आप एक हिम्मत और बहादुर इंसान हो ।🙏🙏

@dhansubba4876 2 жыл бұрын

You have told the story of the human being. It exists in all of us in different forms, whether he is a coolie or a millionaire. Beautiful. Thanks.

@aniketsonpethkar8888 3 жыл бұрын

Respect sir. I have never seen anything like this on KZfaq. Everyone wants to show that they lead a very normal life but in the hindsight these issues happening at home hammer everyone

@riteshmajumder5168 3 жыл бұрын

It was so courageous of you to share this. We all suffer from some sort of pangs in life, which is so deep shit and can’t be resolved but still have to put a fake smiling face and carry on with life.

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

Haan Yaar, and that takes a toll on us...and I find it ridiculous that we all do it to pretend to be "normal" ... but asal normal to bahar hi nahi aata as everyone pretends to be okay!

@naruti3992 3 жыл бұрын

@@peepalfarm true😭

@SANTOSHKUMAR-yd8wt Жыл бұрын

Aap ke wazas se society me bhaut positive change aaya hai..... logo kaa soch animals ko leke badla hai.... mai unme se ek hu

@Mohit-gg2vd 25 күн бұрын

Bravo Robin ! To bringing out these kind of facts. Courage and happiness to you !!!

@darkknight9209 3 жыл бұрын

This is the story of most of middle class families in India.... Salute to u brother u dare u tell urs.

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽

@studyclub4854 3 жыл бұрын

@@peepalfarm mera dil kehta hai apki didi ne suicide nhi kiya vo abhi bhi Zinda hongi aur kahi na kahi hongi

@thehuman2861 3 жыл бұрын

@@studyclub4854 mujhe nahi lagata, agar mai bhi aisa kuch karu to mai aisi jagah (I've it in my mind😉) aur aise tarike se karunga ke unko meri body bhi na mile

@amanverma8881 3 жыл бұрын

@@thehuman2861 bhai mujhe bhi shoot karwa do kisi se. Choti moti keemat bhi de dunga is kaam ke liye

@sanjanasiswas 3 жыл бұрын

@@amanverma8881 kya????

@aarogyadham 3 жыл бұрын

इतिहास साक्षी है जिन्होंने इस दुनिया में कुछ बड़ा किया, आसान नहीं थीं उनकी राहें, ये दर्द ही धकेल रहा था आपको मंजिल की ओर इसलिए आज आप लाखों का दर्द समझ पा रहे हैं,और उनके लिए कुछ कर पा रहे हैं 🙏 मैं मिलूंगी आपसे कभी , मैं भी आप की तरह दूसरों के लिए करना चाहतीं हूं। अपना ध्यान रखना भाई। God bless u

@madhumitaruidas4655 4 ай бұрын

Apki bat sunkar meri Dil baith gaya ..aankhe var aai ...ap v kitna kuch apne sine me dafn karke rakhe ho ...har kisi ki jindgi me kuch na kuch bura samay hota hai....meri v thi ...unhe to yaad na kar na chahu v to or yaad aate hai...par apne to apna rah chun liya hai...ap to iswar ke karib rehte ho...sayad ap nhi iswar apke karib aane ke liye tadap ta hoga ...ap wo kar gugar rahe ho jo insaan soch v nhi sakta...itna bada hriday ? Sat sat naman apko ...

@ajayparsoia1679 18 күн бұрын

You are absolutely right sir. Also you as a child faced situations bravely. And today also you are brave to confess and understand the truth.

@mukulkumar5600 3 жыл бұрын

Never seen a video with around 700 likes and 0 dislikes, it leaves very less to say anything. Robin sir u are a real inspiration, hope to see u soon.

@roadtohome3527 3 жыл бұрын

जज्बातों की गहराइयों में छिपे अपने डर का सामना बड़ी सहजता से कर लिया । शायद हम सभी ना अपने उस डर को छुपाये बैठे है । आपको धन्यवाद की आपने साहस शब्द को परिभाषित कर दिया

@JBvlogs-nj3iz 3 жыл бұрын

Yaar khus rha kro duniya bhut acchi h. Aap bhi bhut hi acchy ho. Dil ke ak dum saaf. Be happy

@jitenjr798 25 күн бұрын

It takes a lot of courage to talk with honesty, many have to lead such lives ……. Sad that some adults do more harm because for their imperfections ! Kudos to you !!!

@prathagaur9198 3 жыл бұрын

I had the same story😔 but now everything alright from when I left home.Sad reality of this world.

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

:| i hope things worked out Pratha.

@thehuman2861 3 жыл бұрын

Are you okay ...?

@ashutoshaswal5745 3 жыл бұрын

आपने पारिवारिक संबंधों व जीवन की परिस्थितियों का बहुत सटीक आकलन प्रस्तुत किया और उसको बोलने की हिम्मत जुटाई इसके लिए आपका धन्यवाद🙏👍

@chitradwarkesh105 26 күн бұрын

Respect. You spoke for millions, so grateful I'm sure we all see ourselves in you Pranam

@powertester5596 25 күн бұрын

Aapka message dil ko chu gaya dost. Bhagwaan aapko khushiyan aur peace of mind de.

@naveenchandra7632 3 жыл бұрын

आज के बाद आपकी छवि मेरे लिए और बेहतर हो गई है । आप करोड़ों में एक हो , कोई तुलना नही आपकी किसी से ।

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

धन्यवाद नवीन जी🙏🏽

@yogijangid3262 3 жыл бұрын

आपकी ‌कहानी‌ सुन के बहोत दुःख हुआ 🥺😣🙏🏻📿 बहोत सारा प्यार भाई आपके ओर आपकी बहन के लिए ❤️🥺

@sushilbairwa5045 2 жыл бұрын

कुछ शब्द नहीं आप के लिए बस आप हमेशा स्वस्थ रहो और दुनिया को अच्छी राह दिखाते रहो

@chitrabhushan2124 25 күн бұрын

Bahut Sahi initiative h Aur logo ko bhi aisi bate share karnı chahiye Emotionally itna manipulate ho jata h ki Sahi galat ka faisla bhi nahi kar paya Vo insan

@amitbelwal8552 3 жыл бұрын

मैं भगवान से प्रार्थना करता हूँ कि आपकी दीदी ये वीडियो देख कर आपसे मिलने आ जाये।

@PriyankaKumari-qj8tj 3 жыл бұрын

She died how can she come back.

@jafree95 3 жыл бұрын

@@PriyankaKumari-qj8tj no body knows...

@aloksrivastava2797 3 жыл бұрын

She's gone

@PriyankaKumari-qj8tj 3 жыл бұрын

@@jafree95 but she wrote like ki meri maut ka zimmedar koi nahi hai baki pata nhi jo gaya sach use hi pata hoga...

@jafree95 3 жыл бұрын

@@PriyankaKumari-qj8tj hope one day she will be back... I keep always hope

@sharadgovind1126 3 жыл бұрын

Most needed platform. We lose most of the happiness and peace in life in this race of looking 'normal'. Thanks bro for sharing 🙏

@Kindred_spirit0 4 ай бұрын

Ahh! Idk why i found you so relatable... Have no words ! But you are wise man who definitely changing our thinking and helping us to be a better person ❤️

@1986nitya 3 жыл бұрын

You should read more about narcissistic parents and parents with Cluster B disorders. It is the responsibility of parents to raise kids. It is not the responsibility of children to raise their parents. Wish you a healthy and happy future!

@peepalfarm 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Nitya! That's a great line and I will look those up.

@vishalvinayan3375 3 жыл бұрын

What is cluster B disorder?

@preethamsmrc 3 жыл бұрын

My mother too suffers from cluster b personality disorder which destroyed my life, still is. My brother committed suicide because of it. My father deserted when we were too young when he could not take her abuse any more. I didn't her disorder until recently, but I have stuck with her for life as she manipulated me financially, emotionally, and socially that now even my husband and children are facing the consequences of it. Let this be a lesson. If your parent is not behaving normally, find out the reason and if it is cluster b, get out ASAP. Save yourself. They'll never change. Don't worry about society. If you're stuck noone will ever help you. Get out!!!

@siddhijoshi8759 3 жыл бұрын

True

@thehuman2861 3 жыл бұрын

So damne true, I'm loving with Narcissist father and yeah my life is ruined cause of him But I'm trying and hopefully will get much better And that line.... I feel it

@hikercomrade5728 3 жыл бұрын

😭😭Kitna dard hai ....bhagwan unki aatma ko shanti de... Aap sab sahi keh rahe hai ..🌷🌷har shabd

@anchalgupta7769 Ай бұрын

Pta hai robin bhaiya ap mere ideal ho bcz apki sari bate meri thinking same hai ..... aur ap ekdm shi bate hi smjhte...

@roshniroshni8088 20 күн бұрын

Thankyou to spreading Humanity and thankyou to share Sir...

@neerupaintola8064 3 жыл бұрын

Each and every words is soo true. This is the story of almost every family, its just that we dont wantvto except it or we are use to it.

@Gamingboy-uk3gp 3 жыл бұрын

World needs this kind of honesty ..

@ruchisingh4675 13 күн бұрын

Very courageous of you to speak of this man. Many of us need to hear this. More power to you. Thank you dost.

@avantisinghal1212 13 күн бұрын

Apka bahut bahut dhanyabad ki apne is baare mein baat ki Yeh bahut hi problematic situation,jise koi ni samjhna chahta Aur sun ke bhi ansuna kar dete hain Apne bahut hi simple aur sorted tarike se is baat ko kiya Thankyou