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penguinz0

Жыл бұрын

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@RobertIDK
@RobertIDK Жыл бұрын
Telling an abuse victim they have to “just endure” is like telling a recovering coke addict that they have to “just finish the bag”
@azizcarvalho9908
@azizcarvalho9908 Жыл бұрын
Bro what
@DukeTheMonkey.
@DukeTheMonkey. Жыл бұрын
Didn’t think id see you here lol, just saw your last habitations video too haha
@DukeTheMonkey.
@DukeTheMonkey. Жыл бұрын
*haminations
@mouseonfirewhuite8580
@mouseonfirewhuite8580 Жыл бұрын
The bag always gets finished, addict or not.
@gabrielgalaxygh
@gabrielgalaxygh Жыл бұрын
What?!?! A coke head would be so happy to finish a bag of coke so idk what comparison you're trying to make.... Edit she added the word recovering because it didn't make sense before so stop trying to explain it to me now
@RyuKyu.77
@RyuKyu.77 Жыл бұрын
"Brooo why is everyone sooo sensitive, just endure abuse from your partner for the rest of your life" - definitely not abusive guy
@Ukraineaissance2014
@Ukraineaissance2014 Жыл бұрын
You can tell he didnt even believe that, his eyes lit up as he saw the chance to go viral for saying something idiotic which 13 year old boys will perceive as 'alpha'
@deadams8905
@deadams8905 Жыл бұрын
Are any of these guys even married or in a relationship?
@bryn1063
@bryn1063 Жыл бұрын
Also them "But as soon as a woman cheats, you have to leave because the bible says so, so it's worse than abuse 😡"
@alexandermeiering5216
@alexandermeiering5216 Жыл бұрын
@@deadams8905 I watch some clips of them and from what I see most of them arent. The guy 2nd to the left, i think his name is Chad, said one time that he expects a virgin as his future wife but he isnt a virgin himself. But he didnt have sex the last few years to save himself for marriage so that counts for him apparently. In general they have so many double standards and for the most part they just invite stupid women to their podcasts so they can shit on them.
@Ar1AnX1x
@Ar1AnX1x Жыл бұрын
when you think about it that is kinda how an abusive person thinks about it, they usually think they're just having the appropriate reaction and the other person deserves their behavior, they don't think of themselves as bad people.
@rikjamesguitare
@rikjamesguitare 5 ай бұрын
A summarization: 1. Divorce isn't a real thing 2. If a partner is being abused, they need to stay and endure violence 3. BUT...if the woman cheats, THEN divorce becomes a real thing, and then that's the only circumstance to leave. The fuck is going on?!?! Are these mfers from the year 1679?
@wiiplaya25
@wiiplaya25 4 ай бұрын
Extremely conservative “alpha males” with internet access and being surrounded by likeminded individuals
@nathangaspacio6128
@nathangaspacio6128 3 ай бұрын
Some people look to ancient philosophers like the stoics of Rome or great thinkers from past centuries like Kant or Nietzsche for wisdom on how life can be lived in a fulfilling way that benefits everyone. These guys read a biography of King Henry VIII to get their inspiration.
@Myhrrylyth
@Myhrrylyth 3 ай бұрын
I like how the idea of the man cheating was just never addressed in general, does divorce magically become an option or should the woman just endure?
@4ElementGirl
@4ElementGirl 3 ай бұрын
@@Myhrrylyth Just endure, of course! /s
@morph3301
@morph3301 3 ай бұрын
You don't know sh*t about 1679!!1!1!!
@ineededthat8865
@ineededthat8865 3 ай бұрын
My aunt was murdered in front of her children by her abusive spouse. Would love to hear their excuse for it.
@hgvffgyyf4423
@hgvffgyyf4423 2 ай бұрын
I'm sorry that this happened to you hope you're doing well
@racheldoxtator7964
@racheldoxtator7964 2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry 💔
@Rockyismydog7
@Rockyismydog7 2 ай бұрын
Just endure it?🙄 Jokes aside im so sorry for that
@Captainlevi777
@Captainlevi777 2 ай бұрын
​@Rockyismydog7 hey, we know it was that puppy that typed the joke and not you. You're excused but not that insensitive doge.. 🐕😡
@Lamonticus
@Lamonticus 2 ай бұрын
Their excuse would be something like "she should have known better" or "she should have picked a better man". Anything to absolve the man (or men in general) of any fault and push that on to the woman in question
@mrbekong
@mrbekong Жыл бұрын
I've gotten drunk and hammered before and never thought to myself "damn, my wife kinda looking like a...punching bag" these dudes are delusional.
@texas9871
@texas9871 Жыл бұрын
​@@skellybonz5467 😂
@KetchupColoredKnife
@KetchupColoredKnife Жыл бұрын
@@skellybonz5467 if that’s the case I’m putting on brass knuckles
@dolphin8397
@dolphin8397 Жыл бұрын
@@KetchupColoredKnife real talk tho I love using brass knuckles to cheat in gta online fist fights😈(I’m evil)
@duggyfresh8899
@duggyfresh8899 Жыл бұрын
Well unfortunately there are pieces of shit that do that. But there also a lot of Situations where it’s a 2 way street of toxic behavior. It happened one time with my parents and it never happened again. Now I don’t think In the real world You should never give the benefit of the doubt, but they worked It out and it never happened again they been together for a long time and would Do anything for each other. So I do think there are rare situations where it is more nuanced. Keep In mind I’m talking about them just beating each other brutally.
@lexfushi8504
@lexfushi8504 Жыл бұрын
⁠​⁠@@skellybonz5467Of course not, beat your wife whenever you want
@theonlyORNGguy
@theonlyORNGguy Жыл бұрын
Imagine being a father and able to look at your abused daughter and say "just endure"
@rainl4750
@rainl4750 11 ай бұрын
Fr, that's just disgusting
@abiswxllow1934
@abiswxllow1934 11 ай бұрын
or just any woman lol
@ShoutoutbarrnoneAkaGFC
@ShoutoutbarrnoneAkaGFC 11 ай бұрын
I’m not gonna lie destiny’s dumb wife made these people look dumb. You know there dumb if she makes them look dumb.
@dreamer9375
@dreamer9375 11 ай бұрын
​@@abiswxllow1934 The reason most men understand the gravity of these situations is by making it personal to them. Sad but at least it helps some of them to think and reflect.
@ellecimz6618
@ellecimz6618 11 ай бұрын
I can my dad basically did treat me like that and it was so hard to even tell him. He was like well I was abused too. Like no he was very likely the instigator from what I can tell
@The-Khatalyst
@The-Khatalyst 5 ай бұрын
Abuse is a phase huh? Ive been with my wife for 11 years and we've never gone through that "phase".
@feraltaco4783
@feraltaco4783 4 ай бұрын
No, terrible 2s is a phase. Abusive partners are rage lord assholes.
@nathangaspacio6128
@nathangaspacio6128 3 ай бұрын
Thought you were about to say "I've been beating my wife for 11 years and I don't plan on stopping, so it's not a phase"
@yesmyrealnameisprincess
@yesmyrealnameisprincess 2 ай бұрын
Because you’re not a sociopath
@hamzaj1127
@hamzaj1127 Ай бұрын
Lmao I first interpreted it as it isn't a phase as in you never stopped beating them 😂
@The-Khatalyst
@The-Khatalyst Ай бұрын
@hamzaj1127 Lmao, "It's not a phase. It's a lifestyle."
@helms5363
@helms5363 3 ай бұрын
I can’t remember who said it but it was a cop talking about abuse, and i heard it while In an abusive relationship and it scared me so much I started telling my friend about the abuse. He said (paraphrasing) “ if they’re willing to verbally abuse you they are willing to physically abuse you. If they’re willing to physically abuse you they are willing to kill you” . Abuse escalates if it’s not addressed.
@Ggold916
@Ggold916 2 ай бұрын
exactly someone died this way from accumulated damage and died in the hospital
@imushrooms5388
@imushrooms5388 2 ай бұрын
Yes if person has no remorse about abusement it will escalate
@kecym.4808
@kecym.4808 13 күн бұрын
@Beastie_boy123
@Beastie_boy123 Жыл бұрын
The fact that they were so quick to say someone should divorce after cheating, but not when you’re getting abused reveals a lot about their character.
@MeMe-tw4xb
@MeMe-tw4xb Жыл бұрын
They’re so defensive when abuse was brought up because they probably are abusive themselves.
@deovan98
@deovan98 Жыл бұрын
@@MeMe-tw4xb Most likely, or they have abusive thoughts about their partner/women in general.
@Joaopereira-dh3dw
@Joaopereira-dh3dw Жыл бұрын
They must be right wingers
@IvanOoze1990
@IvanOoze1990 Жыл бұрын
@@Joaopereira-dh3dw Broad brushstroke, You must be a Sith since you deal in absolutes.
@jacksondbrophy9
@jacksondbrophy9 Жыл бұрын
@@Joaopereira-dh3dwI mean, they are like a red pill podcast so absolutely
@aliciabethnova
@aliciabethnova Жыл бұрын
He literally called women who have endured trauma "nut bags." Then the sreenshots of him admitting to numerous counts of assault against various women surfaced. Soo basically he wants to abuse women and then call THEM nutbags for living through it.
@neffyg35
@neffyg35 Жыл бұрын
I knew he probably abuses his partners. He is just trying to justify his own shit
@leocuatepotzo5225
@leocuatepotzo5225 Жыл бұрын
Crazy how much dirt you can find on a person when they slip up that bad live 😭
@T4RHUN
@T4RHUN Жыл бұрын
@@leocuatepotzo5225Self snitching is a thing. People become too comfortable on the internet and share too much.
@FlareStorms
@FlareStorms Жыл бұрын
that sounds about right
@renendell
@renendell Жыл бұрын
The venn diagram of men who hand-wave abuse, and men who commit abuse, is a circle
@yucatron76
@yucatron76 5 ай бұрын
When I was younger I was in an abusive relationship and I "endured" for over a year thinking it'd get better, and trust me, it does not get better 💀
@chaymartine1289
@chaymartine1289 27 күн бұрын
It always gets worse bc I don’t leave so they keep pushing your boundaries bc they know I won’t do anything about there actions w reinforcing the fact they can do these things to you
@royalrahman4681
@royalrahman4681 17 күн бұрын
Hope you're okay now!
@nathanielmathiasmajor2691
@nathanielmathiasmajor2691 Күн бұрын
Same, I tried enduring mine for four years.
@gokusage1130
@gokusage1130 4 ай бұрын
"everyone just gives up" MY BROTHER IN CHRIST THERE IS A HOLE IN THE WALL NEXT TO MY HEAD
@THEGurtiest
@THEGurtiest 3 ай бұрын
Window
@emiliehedelundemilie6304
@emiliehedelundemilie6304 3 ай бұрын
Literally 😭😭😭
@Cris-dm1nt
@Cris-dm1nt Жыл бұрын
"Don't be a quitter, find an excuse to keep going!" - my therapist regarding my gambling addiction
@wwemusicfanC
@wwemusicfanC Жыл бұрын
This gave me such a belly laugh. Thank you for that
@cyrusthegreat7030
@cyrusthegreat7030 Жыл бұрын
Nice joke 10/10
@echodec
@echodec Жыл бұрын
just remember: 80% of all gambling addicts quit right before making it big
@definitelyaToxicPanda.
@definitelyaToxicPanda. Жыл бұрын
@@echodec this is so fucked lmao
@r011ing_thunder6
@r011ing_thunder6 Жыл бұрын
​@@echodec bruh lmao
@thekid_clover
@thekid_clover Жыл бұрын
As a son who’s biological father beat my mother to a hospital bed. I’m really surprised she left and didn’t just “endure”.
@SamSciofficial
@SamSciofficial Жыл бұрын
Sorry about that man. Hope everyone’s fine
@skrumbobumbo3279
@skrumbobumbo3279 Жыл бұрын
My mom's ex pile drove her into the dirt fuckin driveway outside our house AFTER they had been broken up for over three weeks and he started an argument on their way home from their favorite bar. Full on picked her up and slammed her shoulders first into the ground. Dudes like your dad and my mom's ex should not be anywhere near other human beings.
@tfyk5623
@tfyk5623 Жыл бұрын
sorry. These podcasters are t he most shealthered kids known to man.
@Dr.BDover
@Dr.BDover Жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@lambertstarr1218
@lambertstarr1218 Жыл бұрын
a woman in my family has been on an abusive relationship for about 17 years. she hasn't divorced because of her children. her older kid grew up to be a total pos, and is very evident that the younger one, who i love very much, is going on the same path. it breaks my heart thinking what their lives would've been like if she had just divorced her. but she should just endure it, i guess.
@a7x_nomadiceagle482
@a7x_nomadiceagle482 2 ай бұрын
This rlly pisses me off cause I knew a victim of abuse who tried to “endure”. She married an abusive guy, the cops would be called to their house all the time, and she always declined to press charges cause she “knew he was good on the inside”. Everybody told her to leave, she didn’t listen. Then one day he got drunk and got so mad at her that he picked up an empty whiskey bottle and smashed it on her head which killed her. I hate that guy for saying “just endure” when you can get killed by your abusive significant other
@HyperactiveEuphoria
@HyperactiveEuphoria 3 ай бұрын
My husband was extensively abused by his ex. She would stop him from sleeping, hit him, force him to watch her send her nudes to other people, and force herself on him. She would hit their children and threaten him that she would hurt them if he didnt do what she wanted. She isolated him by spreading lies to his family and friends and would threaten him by saying she would make false statements to the police. She was aided by his military leadership who told him he needed to "man up" and work it out. This lasted for years until his mother saw the abuse first hand and he was able to divorce her. It was an extremely messy divorce and he and his children experienced a lot of things they shouldn't have dealt with and it all came down to people not believing a man can be abused and that you should always try to stay with your partner. That mentality is dangerous and outright wrong.
@StoutShako
@StoutShako 3 ай бұрын
I hope your hubby is doing okay. Terribly sorry he went through that. I know I'm some random dick online, but tell him that this anon thinks he's one of the strongest men ever to come out of that. The scars left on his heart are real, and it's totally okay that he works through that trauma and heals however he needs to and for as long as he needs to. Also I hope his bitch ex got locked up, though I sadly doubt it.
@qseit5140
@qseit5140 17 күн бұрын
When she threaten to hurt children he had every right to eliminate the threat.
@boostedrival5505
@boostedrival5505 7 күн бұрын
honest take if i lose everything because a women makes false claims like this about me, i swear to god himself those claims won't be false anymore, ive got nothing to lose so ill show them what would happen to her if i really abused her
@AOEliGaming
@AOEliGaming Жыл бұрын
Bro imagine building up the courage to finally tell someone your husband is beating tf outta you and you go tell your dad and he’s like “deal with it stop being so soft. He”ll stop eventually, it’s just a phase” 😭😭😭 some people just don’t need to have kids
@housemouseshorts
@housemouseshorts Жыл бұрын
zoomers should never have been born millineals should not have been allowed children without government tests and intervention. Millennials where the worst most degenerate unfit generation to ever exsit in society. Millennials have had no positive impact on the world at all. their children are basicly parasites who are futher destroying the world.
@strykrpinoy
@strykrpinoy Жыл бұрын
55 years ago this was a pretty average response if you want me to be blunt. Keeping the family together was important ABOVE people's happiness, that's unhealthy. Problem in today's society, people end a marriage over arguments (mind you we are just talking about arguing not anything physical because once its physical IMO THAT'S WHEN YOU LEAVE) and claim that is abuse, ignoring the trauma your kids will get from a broken home (if you don't have kids thou if your constantly arguing then you really didn't know each other IMO and never should have tied the knot).
@NeODeLeuX
@NeODeLeuX Жыл бұрын
All kids deserve to have parents but not all parents deserve to have kids, that's just how it is sadly.
@jabronijackpot
@jabronijackpot Жыл бұрын
@@strykrpinoy "It was normal in the past" is not a good justification for anything, really. Parents provide the model for relationships to their children. If that relationship is not healthy, even just at an emotional level, it will have lasting effects on the kids abilities for form their own healthy relationships. "Keeping it together for the kids" is a dated mentality for a reason, there isn't really any data that suggests its worthwhile.
@wildfire9280
@wildfire9280 Жыл бұрын
@@strykrpinoy This is a much more reasonable argument than the one they made in the podcast but at the same time not everything can be set in stone.
@Jacobbgross
@Jacobbgross 8 ай бұрын
Turns out the "endure" guy is abusive, shocker
@ricardo3011
@ricardo3011 8 ай бұрын
Wait seriously?
@Jacobbgross
@Jacobbgross 8 ай бұрын
@@ricardo3011 Aba N Preach did a video on MLD. Reddit also has stories about him
@sallylovests
@sallylovests 5 ай бұрын
wow so shocked.
@chicfridge4812
@chicfridge4812 5 ай бұрын
Literally not surprising at all
@johnleeka3282
@johnleeka3282 5 ай бұрын
So you mean to tell me that the guy who told people to endure abuse is abusive himself?😱😱😱 Yeah not surprising at all😂
@lilhedgehog8576
@lilhedgehog8576 3 ай бұрын
Do you know what happens when you endure an abusive relationship? You get put in a suitcase still alive telling your significant other to please let you out while they mock you from the outside, go upstairs and go to bed while you sit there and suffocate to death.
@jasmine8926
@jasmine8926 2 ай бұрын
I heard about this case and it’s so haunting to me. May he rest in peace.
@hoodieso8858
@hoodieso8858 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, she was nuts
@canondead1943
@canondead1943 2 ай бұрын
did not expect a reference to that case here
@V1DE0-STARZ
@V1DE0-STARZ Ай бұрын
I swear I remember this- what case was this,???
@lilhedgehog8576
@lilhedgehog8576 Ай бұрын
@@V1DE0-STARZ Sarah Boone The Suitcase Killer.
@ThatWh1T3MaN
@ThatWh1T3MaN 2 ай бұрын
This is one of those moments where you just sit back and say "hey pal, you just blow in from stupid town?" Argument is officially dead at that point.
@lex9468
@lex9468 Жыл бұрын
i never thought leaving an abusive relationship would be a hot topic question to debate about… this is depressing.
@Hugex97
@Hugex97 Жыл бұрын
It's not. Don't let this bafoons make you think it is. They are the minority
@zacharybrady2271
@zacharybrady2271 Жыл бұрын
don't be upset by it. They are either idiots or they are looking for attention. Regardless of what they actually think, the only reason it is getting attention is because its a stupid and ridiculous opinion
@mickeysweedhouse1430
@mickeysweedhouse1430 Жыл бұрын
yeah :c
@billykoyrtzis981
@billykoyrtzis981 Жыл бұрын
Depressing is not doing the will of God. Jesus has many times said to endure abusers. Once he said that whoever divorces one for any reason other than prostitution is a sin.
@kaiokendo
@kaiokendo Жыл бұрын
The problem Is not being divorced,the problem Is the motherfucker killing the pair even with restriction perder and things
@ultraslayer9255
@ultraslayer9255 Жыл бұрын
If your beliefs conflict with the idea of ending an abusive relationship, you got to re-evaluate them
@CyrikDub
@CyrikDub Жыл бұрын
@peppyyoz get out. nobody cares.
@BusinessZeus
@BusinessZeus Жыл бұрын
@@InstagramUser2 Only Instagram users speak gibberish.
@ronswanson1410
@ronswanson1410 Жыл бұрын
@Pepperman [YFGA] your mom xposes me shaftling
@DadsCigaretteRun
@DadsCigaretteRun Жыл бұрын
I don’t even think most Catholics would agree with their statements
@nestroit5010
@nestroit5010 Жыл бұрын
today everything is "abuse" "oh, he was so abusive and toxic" = 99% of the time made up BS and excuse to leave the relationship
@tuii_11
@tuii_11 2 ай бұрын
The fact they think cheating is too far but not abuse says alot, desperately clinging to power and control obviously.
@IndigoVagrant
@IndigoVagrant 11 күн бұрын
These trad-con fundamentalist Catholics are frightening. They give a bad name to all the chill Catholics out there.
@elijahlukejames
@elijahlukejames 5 ай бұрын
My rage became physical agony listening to these lads talk
@nathangaspacio6128
@nathangaspacio6128 3 ай бұрын
just endure it bro
@taylerkolin3075
@taylerkolin3075 Жыл бұрын
"abuse is rare" 12 seconds later, essentially, "If you're being abused, it's not special. Endure and don't be a quitter. You'd have to be a pretty special person to be worthy of not being abused" And "I knew lots of people in abusive households...""
@sanield2782
@sanield2782 Жыл бұрын
They really just be making shit up as they go lol
@opheliadays5803
@opheliadays5803 Жыл бұрын
I really love how you pointed out the contradiction so clearly
@stickman787
@stickman787 Жыл бұрын
They said suddenly becoming abusive is rare, not that abuse is rare.
@cyanscrewdriver2092
@cyanscrewdriver2092 Жыл бұрын
@@stickman787 how is “becoming abusive’ rare but abuse in itself isn’t rare 😭
@uncigirl
@uncigirl Жыл бұрын
Yeeeees!!! Finaly someone told that
@robertsullivan4172
@robertsullivan4172 10 ай бұрын
Imagine raising a son and watching him grow up to be one of these alpha male podcasters.
@Egirl_Jasmine06
@Egirl_Jasmine06 9 ай бұрын
😂
@noelani4101
@noelani4101 9 ай бұрын
I would call his ass over and tell him to get ready to “endure”; the abuse phase is beginning 🤜🏽🤛🏽
@KDB349
@KDB349 9 ай бұрын
I'd be so disappointed 😂😂
@shawnwilliam4653
@shawnwilliam4653 9 ай бұрын
He would be out of the family... He would have a choice immediately. Either stop the BS or he is out of the family.. this is the latest Trump supporter agenda is pushing ending of womens rights to no fault divorce..
@rhnbladehunter111
@rhnbladehunter111 9 ай бұрын
someones been watching too much andrew tate@@noelani4101
@metaldude4563
@metaldude4563 2 ай бұрын
"divorce is not a real thing" try claiming married on your taxes when you're divorced and find out just how wrong that statement is
@ScribbleBeats
@ScribbleBeats 5 ай бұрын
“You can’t divorce that’s not a real thing.” I just laughed out loud involuntarily.
@bowiehunter
@bowiehunter 2 ай бұрын
yeah I think thousands of people that went through divorce trials would like to disagree with him there, lol
@jomonrto6771
@jomonrto6771 6 ай бұрын
“Just endure” is like telling a homeless person to just buy a house.
@jamescooper3739
@jamescooper3739 6 ай бұрын
More like telling them to not bother looking for a home, the cardboard box is fine
@Dinguskhan5003
@Dinguskhan5003 5 ай бұрын
Yeah you kinda got that backwards
@oldcowbb
@oldcowbb 4 ай бұрын
he will say that unironically i'm telling you
@Aryzo
@Aryzo 4 ай бұрын
nah its worse. its like telling him "its not that bad" 😂
@bislama1
@bislama1 4 ай бұрын
@@jamescooper3739most homeless people aren’t looking for a home tho. they’re looking for $5 so they can buy some crack
@DeanBethel520
@DeanBethel520 Жыл бұрын
As someone who went through seeing their mom get divorced, cheated on, and abused, the abusive part was easily the worst and seeing her divorce him was the greatest.
@cookiegirl891
@cookiegirl891 Жыл бұрын
THIS
@Lost-mb1gj
@Lost-mb1gj Жыл бұрын
SAME. My dad would go on these “divorce brings nothing good” rants but wouldn’t put any energy into changing 💀 I haven’t seen him in almost a year but I finally no longer fear he’ll kill us in our sleep.
@billykoyrtzis981
@billykoyrtzis981 Жыл бұрын
He who divorces someone for any reason other than prostitution commits adultery. According to the Lord that is a sin. What's so great about that?
@King-eg2zl
@King-eg2zl Жыл бұрын
Sorry both of you had to live with and hope y’all are good now 🙏🏾
@vladimirgluten781
@vladimirgluten781 Жыл бұрын
@@billykoyrtzis981”he”. males and females usually have different roles in marriage, and are supposed to in the bible.
@latinsizer
@latinsizer 8 күн бұрын
If I ever met someone who says 'abuse is just part of a relationship' I am staying far far away from them.
@constellationorion8679
@constellationorion8679 2 ай бұрын
Also the fact that they seem personally defensive as soon as someone mentions “abuse” is a little concerning
@greatsage6317
@greatsage6317 Жыл бұрын
Telling "just endure" to abuse victims is like telling "just breathe" to an asthma patient
@RizzingUpUrGrandma9
@RizzingUpUrGrandma9 Жыл бұрын
Lmao fr just like telling someone thats in a coma “just wake up”😂
@marisamyth7587
@marisamyth7587 Жыл бұрын
I'd argue "just endure" is the same as telling an Asthma patient to "just stop breathing"
@rigelb9025
@rigelb9025 Жыл бұрын
But the main difference is, in the case of the abuse victim, leaving the situation is actually on the table as an option. Although even if they do leave, the trauma can indeed be permanent.
@jackygemme863
@jackygemme863 Жыл бұрын
Saying just buy a house to a homeless person
@AllesssKlar
@AllesssKlar Жыл бұрын
I have depression, pls help me. - Therapist: "sure, just endure" Definitely the best solution to all our problems
@okarulikestea9894
@okarulikestea9894 11 ай бұрын
telling an abuse victim to “just endure” is like bringing an epileptic to a disco party
@Username1nsertHere
@Username1nsertHere 10 ай бұрын
And saying “just don’t focus on the colors” like what
@michellevieiracordeiro
@michellevieiracordeiro 10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@SlimThief
@SlimThief 10 ай бұрын
I understand the metaphor but isn't there medication for epileptics?
@jelliebyte
@jelliebyte 10 ай бұрын
​@SlimThief what does that have to do with the metaphor
@johnfisher8401
@johnfisher8401 10 ай бұрын
the thing is, all it takes to be an "abuse victim" these days is just saying you were abused cause you got yelled at one time. Its a joke and the amount of dummies crying abuse but didnt actually go through it are just making it worse for the real victims. Disgusting.
@liz-uy7fy
@liz-uy7fy 5 ай бұрын
as someone whos witnessed both physical and emotional abuse, as well as a divorce from my parents, i promise the divorce was the best thing that could have ever happened for all of us.
@mondocanemczee
@mondocanemczee 4 ай бұрын
I'm still baffled that these dudes are insinuating that they'll leave if the partner cheats, but will "endure" getting beat up every day
@arturosbuelz
@arturosbuelz Жыл бұрын
It's crazy how determined they are to embarrass themselves online
@NeuroDrags
@NeuroDrags Жыл бұрын
Yet they get paid for it and here u are making 0 dollars talkin about them lmao
@Sarnarath
@Sarnarath Жыл бұрын
These shows are just a bunch of stupid people trying to sound intellectual, i love it.
@Chaz-pm1jm
@Chaz-pm1jm Жыл бұрын
@@NeuroDrags 🍪
@arturosbuelz
@arturosbuelz Жыл бұрын
@@NeuroDrags You are so right my G, I'm not thinking about paper enough. Alright, every 5 dollars I get I'll say something misogynystic
@phoenixup1293
@phoenixup1293 Жыл бұрын
@@NeuroDrags Bro if you think they're making more than minimum wage for even a third world country standard you are cracked
@lautaroespora4920
@lautaroespora4920 Жыл бұрын
How the women managed to stay there without dying of cringe is amazing.
@fishy0929
@fishy0929 11 ай бұрын
They must be paid to be there. Because if not, they'd all just get up and leave.
@NihilistCoomerLord
@NihilistCoomerLord 11 ай бұрын
@@fishy0929they deffo get paid, maybe not destiny because this will get him attention but the women absolutely got paid.
@mr.nothappy301
@mr.nothappy301 11 ай бұрын
she did die she was just ENDURING
@iHomelessMonkey
@iHomelessMonkey 11 ай бұрын
​@@fishy0929I imagine they aren't the smartest and are just there to get a few more followers
@fishy0929
@fishy0929 11 ай бұрын
@@iHomelessMonkey My God, to have to be there and not even get paid, but just for some extra followers. Why torture themselves like that!?
@Hashbrown1682
@Hashbrown1682 2 ай бұрын
The ironic thing is the guy that says to endure has abuse allegations in Japan
@ChristopherJames1993
@ChristopherJames1993 5 ай бұрын
An abusive relationship is a phase in one way: it's a phase of their life that they later look back on once the escape from it.
@lun4r.h4ze
@lun4r.h4ze 9 ай бұрын
“You want to marry a lobotomized sex doll” that perfectly describes these “alpha” dudes 💀
@Egirl_Jasmine06
@Egirl_Jasmine06 7 ай бұрын
They’re absolutely horrifying
@RiverRat6996
@RiverRat6996 7 ай бұрын
Does that actually sound bad to you guys
@huhbooh
@huhbooh 7 ай бұрын
​@@RiverRat6996 obviously?
@A_C_E_R...
@A_C_E_R... 7 ай бұрын
Pffft its because they can't pull L mans not getting no play
@5050TM
@5050TM 7 ай бұрын
They wouldn't even be happy with that. They are not happy people. They hate anything feminine, they believe they're superior to it. Putting women down is the only thing that will actually get them off.
@guyanomaly
@guyanomaly Жыл бұрын
“Divorce isn’t real” is a galaxy brain take
@chriswilbur1356
@chriswilbur1356 Жыл бұрын
Hey now divorce is just as real as marriage
@alexs_toy_barn
@alexs_toy_barn Жыл бұрын
Divorce doesn't exist in a metaphysical sense, is what they were trying to say.
@___29069
@___29069 Жыл бұрын
@peppyyozcharlie* 💀
@owlfollower3759
@owlfollower3759 Жыл бұрын
I mean if the man has to pay alimony to the woman then he is still providing for her which he shouldn't because the marriage is over she is no longer his woman to provide for, but states make the man do it. Men should not have to take care of their ex spouse if you want to walk away then don't make me pay for your life anymore. So for some men divorce doesn't exist other than you don't have a romantic side, but she still be taking your money
@InstagramUser2
@InstagramUser2 Жыл бұрын
Retteb si tnetnoc ym esuaceb, pleh rof smaercs DNA seirc rieht raeh ot slrig elttil epar ot evol I!! 😂 👌
@KickKeegan
@KickKeegan Ай бұрын
As someone who grew up with a father who mentally and physically abused my mother (and myself as well), cheated on her, and then both parents got divorced AND REMARRIED, I can say with concrete conviction that “just enduring” is not only dangerous, but could be a death sentence. My father did unspeakable things to my mother, and then, because we was not stopped and my mother did not leave him (yet) he continued and then proceeded to carry out that abuse onto me as well. These guys need to reassess how they speak to human beings. I’d also like to tackle “divorce is worse than abuse”. This is, and I say this with confidence, one of if not THE single most lobotomized response I could imagine. That is like arguing that robbery is worse than genocide. I pray to Christ that the women these men are involved with are protected by God.
@sophiapeters8206
@sophiapeters8206 20 күн бұрын
If my mom didn't leave, I can confidently say she wouldn't be alive today.
@iank472
@iank472 Жыл бұрын
My father told me a story from his job that relates to this topic. There was an elderly gentleman (in his late 70s) who came to the attention of the authorities after a health checkup. He had bruising and welts all over his legs, thighs and groin. At first he made up a variety of excuses and lies before eventually breaking down in tears and telling the truth. His wife, who travelled everywhere with him when he left the house always kept a set of pliers with her. If he did something to irritate or annoy her she used the pliers to grab the skin of his legs and violently twist. She even had a set in their car for that specific purpose. He had been married to this woman for over 50 years. Every time I hear someone surprised or shocked that men can and are abused in relationships this story comes to mind. Noone should EVER stay in an abusive relationship and the statement "Just endure!" makes me feel physically sick.
@pamelam1101
@pamelam1101 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god that’s so fucking sad, poor man. I hope he’s doing okay now or was able to leave. He deserves to be happy and not fearful of the one who’s supposed to love him more than anyone else
@Lemonpie167
@Lemonpie167 Жыл бұрын
I genuinely teared up. That poor man ! What kind of disgusting evil you have to be to do something that vile. Hope she was put in jail atleast ?
@Lemonpie167
@Lemonpie167 Жыл бұрын
Am from India , so I have seen abuse in my own family Ofcourse but the absolute horrendous was that occurred in my servant quarters (we have one servant’s family live in the back rooms of our home). This man used to regularly beat the woman who was our helper. The man was unemployed and wasted all her earnings and one time when she refused, he took the hot rod (used for boiling water) and stuck it on her thigh. The absolute scream was animalistic. Not just that, he didn’t remove that rod it for quite some time. Her skin melted off, her thigh was blackened and pus formed when I saw it
@SoulFighter27
@SoulFighter27 Жыл бұрын
​@@Lemonpie167 may he rot for his actions
@Nothingreallytoseehere
@Nothingreallytoseehere Жыл бұрын
That's absouletly awful 💔
@christianborja154
@christianborja154 2 ай бұрын
"Discount walmart brand Sal from impractical jokers" LMFAOOOOOO I LITERALLY FUCKING DIED 🤣🤣🤣
@guppy90rl81
@guppy90rl81 15 күн бұрын
Damn one of those dudes has a daughter. Praying for her
@MoistRat.
@MoistRat. Жыл бұрын
Kid : Literally breaks all of his bones from his abusive parent Walmart Sal : *E N D U R E*
@lqvideos88
@lqvideos88 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 WALMART SAL 💀 💀
@nodontgloopem2680
@nodontgloopem2680 Жыл бұрын
Walmart sal is literally such a genius name 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@r3ddead597
@r3ddead597 Жыл бұрын
💀💀
@philmorrison2367
@philmorrison2367 Жыл бұрын
2 months later and walmart sal still endures
@flawless1237
@flawless1237 11 ай бұрын
now lets not forget how RARE this case is, so really yes of course the kid should just get the shit kicked out of him because he's a rare special case and how dare he think his problems matter, what if the parent kills themselves because the kid left, its all about ENDURANCE. what a fucked up argument, imagine pointing out how rare a scenario is before making the scenario even more rare to justify there points ( in reference to the part where he mentioned how the abuser is probably drunk when he abuses and that makes it ok somehow (which I also don't follow). not all abusers are drunk so therefore he only went and narrowed down the, what the claim, rare scenario in the first place.
@drdoomer8553
@drdoomer8553 Жыл бұрын
Gotta love the framing of “giving up” when referring to someone divorcing because they’re getting physically abused lol. In fact that almost sounds like textbook manipulation. “Babe, I’m leaving! You’ve hit me 20 time today.” “So what? You’re giving up? I thought you were stronger than that?”
@lrizzard
@lrizzard Жыл бұрын
it actually upsets my stomach how horrible and manipulative that is
@cngotham4111
@cngotham4111 Жыл бұрын
Like when Steven crowder tells his wife that she gives up to easy and trying everything for her to stay in the house.
@RandomStuff404s
@RandomStuff404s Жыл бұрын
Didn't that literally what happened in the leaked video of "change my mind" guy and his wife?
@SayItWithASM
@SayItWithASM Жыл бұрын
@@RandomStuff404s He looked to be emotionally abusive from the clip alone but not physical to my knowledge
@Erinyes
@Erinyes Жыл бұрын
I’ll be honest, I had a similar mindset growing up as a teen. I didn’t want giving up in friendships. I always thought it was possible to make through anything if we were honest and talked it out. I don’t think it’s the same mindset as what these people do, but it did take me years to realize just separating is fine and you can’t - sadly - always make any relationship work.
@indirectobject7487
@indirectobject7487 5 ай бұрын
as someone whose dealt with abusive relationships, specifically my father to my mother and I, these guys have no idea what abuse even is clearly and they shouldn't speak on it AT ALL
@2Byorhax
@2Byorhax 4 ай бұрын
Do these guys not realise that most abuse victims DO endure for MANY years and NOTHING changes. Also when they do endure and later ask for help they’re told they’re at fault for not leaving sooner.. which one is it.
@mushybrains9843
@mushybrains9843 Жыл бұрын
the fact they keep calling it "an extreme 1% example" makes me so mad, abuse is so so common and the fact they don't believe that is so awful
@yonicepaprika7534
@yonicepaprika7534 Жыл бұрын
The highest cause of death for pregnant women is murder
@bot4hire202
@bot4hire202 Жыл бұрын
Domestic violence is literally in 1in4 intimate relationships. In California 20% of all police calls are for domestic violence. It’s like the entire manosphere sub genre is just “being ignorant” the podcast 💀
@Tzavaot
@Tzavaot Жыл бұрын
​@@bot4hire202 Considering women commit around 70-80% of non-reciprocal domestic abuse, you'd think they'd spend as much time researching and leaning on the subject as possible. The fact they could be so ignorant on a subject that benefits their point blows my mind.
@vincekalmar8689
@vincekalmar8689 Жыл бұрын
1% is pretty common anyway, 1 person out of 100 would mean at least 20 kids at my school are being abused, so yeah, they brain dead
@suspendedtwice4sayingrasis261
@suspendedtwice4sayingrasis261 Жыл бұрын
@@TzavaotI can’t take any man that gets abused by his wife/gf seriously and I’m not even a red-piller. I have twice/thrice her strength, what is she gonna do? 😄
@davey4775
@davey4775 Жыл бұрын
My father broke a door down trying to get to my mother, sister, and I. My mother got stuck under the door trying to block it. It broke her collar bone, shoulder, and bruised her face to her foot. The reaction from a specific aunt on my mothers side disgusts me to this day, and she has never apologized. My mother called her that night for help. My aunt told her “you shouldn’t have picked a fight” and then hung up….I don’t speak to this aunt anymore
@decodas
@decodas Жыл бұрын
I have a similar situation, especially with those kinds of aunts. I’m so sorry
@lishanimations9852
@lishanimations9852 Жыл бұрын
wow that must have been very traumatising for all of you, awful of that aunt to say that too, I'm sorry yall went through that! The hardest part growing up after my mom getting us away from my abusive dad was realising how many adults, especially adult family memebers knew we were being physically abused and literally did nothing and didn't even help us leave, realising that brought a lot of hurt back after years of just holding it in. Fuck any adult defending abuse and I'm glad you've cut your aunt out of your life, she doesn't deserve to be in it if that is her views! (sorry for any bad spelling, 2nd language andy over here)
@ccsx222
@ccsx222 Жыл бұрын
@@lishanimations9852 oh wow..this hits close to home, when you have family that knows but does nothing. I grew up in a very similar situation..im sorry you didn’t have anyone. The healing process is terrible at first but worth it, please go no contact with those who hurt you so terribly. They don’t deserve your presence. I hope you are doing very well now compared to them friend
@enzadeninospoosay9996
@enzadeninospoosay9996 Жыл бұрын
How about opening the door next time? Women ...
@seaweedaf
@seaweedaf Жыл бұрын
​@ENZA DENINOS POOSAY stfu. the only woman who's ever even been around u was ur mom and that was because she was obligated to 😂😂
@lilboicoen
@lilboicoen 3 ай бұрын
Crazy thing is is that almost all situations where the person being abused just “endures it” they end up dead most of the time
@juiceaintfree
@juiceaintfree 29 күн бұрын
"You gotta endure" is crazy bro
@articticcblu
@articticcblu 19 күн бұрын
Bro aint gonna endure the soaps in prison
@cassiea.9437
@cassiea.9437 Жыл бұрын
The fact that these men seem to see abuse as a normal relationship “phase” makes me wonder how they typically treat their romantic partners
@joshstubs2927
@joshstubs2927 Жыл бұрын
Nerdy girl coochie got me acting unwise
@becz9485
@becz9485 Жыл бұрын
It's like Crowder.
@aidsdoh8286
@aidsdoh8286 Жыл бұрын
They probably don’t have too many romantic partners
@ROG-123
@ROG-123 Жыл бұрын
You are all misinformed as to what the podcast is all about it’s about men who want traditional relationships and the women on the podcast are feminists and Charlie just so happened to forget to put that part in.
@roserose6418
@roserose6418 Жыл бұрын
@@aidsdoh8286 The only thing they love is the sound of their own voice. Probably pay for ass and complain when a woman wants personal freedom
@jbv97
@jbv97 Жыл бұрын
Imagine telling your daughter “endure the physical abuse”
@Hifuutorian
@Hifuutorian Жыл бұрын
That one guy got real fucking quiet when asked about his daughter lmao. Sad to say he probably wouldn't really mind though.
@tronovonflidder775
@tronovonflidder775 Жыл бұрын
@@Hifuutorian You guys are no better than the people taking Destiny's points out of context and giving him shit for it too. The man you're referring to is called Chase, and he himself did not condone physical abuse. You're treating all three men as if they're the same person.
@narc440
@narc440 Жыл бұрын
@@tronovonflidder775I think they are talking about the dude on the right in the suit
@powerthrustr
@powerthrustr Жыл бұрын
@@tronovonflidder775 they are all pretty worthless so its ok to join them all together
@ddawg3230
@ddawg3230 Жыл бұрын
​​@@tronovonflidder775 chase did a lot of evading though. Claimed it was rare, said it was hard to give prescriptions etc, but had immediate answers for third trimester abortions and cheating (they all immediately recommended divorce). I Don't think he did well in this part of the discussion. Literally said 'just a guy getting drunk and beating his wife occasionally' as if it was no big deal lol
@YeahSureLetsGoSeeYamcha
@YeahSureLetsGoSeeYamcha 4 ай бұрын
Do people actually think these are real debates? Having fake extremely unpopular opinions is apparently easy to monetize.
@Pelican07.23
@Pelican07.23 4 ай бұрын
The dude who's advocating for abuse was actually caught abusing a girl
@aidanshea5942
@aidanshea5942 3 ай бұрын
Guy in the middle sounds like Mac from it's always sunny, instantly bringing up the bible when someone challenges him
@USMFAN1996
@USMFAN1996 Жыл бұрын
Those girls did such a good job of asking questions to let the guys show everyone how stupid and horrible they are. Every follow up question they just dug a deeper and deeper hole for themselves and the girls barely needed to add anything. Impressive
@user_kH9bw3ns1
@user_kH9bw3ns1 Жыл бұрын
For real. I dare say, a bit of an epic prank on behalf of the ladies LOOL
@davep5698
@davep5698 Жыл бұрын
There is a saying about giving enough rope... Looks like the hosts followed through on it flawlessly. What an absolute clown, but that's too nice, it will be a good day when they get taken down for being outed as abusers themselves.
@Owlmare
@Owlmare Жыл бұрын
Hold on there, they might have messed up on this question, as in, there ain’t no way you gotta endure physical abuse, however, any challenges in a marriage, yes, you gotta endure those, but from I gather, they usually invite OF hoes to clown on.
@MechWarrior894
@MechWarrior894 Жыл бұрын
@@davep5698 giving someone enough rope to hang themselves is a form of art, really
@BloodHavik
@BloodHavik Жыл бұрын
@@Owlmare No one has to endure anything...Not even when it comes to marriage. That is up to everyone's personal preference whether they want to endure the situation at hand or not. To say "any challenges in a marriage, you gotta endure" is foolish.....This can be a very damaging mindset to have. In no way, do you have to endure anything you aren't willing to, as that can lead to lowering your own standards and goals. WHICH is ok to do BUT only if you WANT to.
@Lm8753
@Lm8753 Жыл бұрын
I am a male and was in a 5 year abusive relationship (i was abused). We got divorced about a year ago and its was the best thing we could have done. The fact that anyone could think of continuing an abusive marriage/relationship just shows how stupid and immature they are.
@DadsCigaretteRun
@DadsCigaretteRun Жыл бұрын
It’s sad you had to clarify you were abused because a few people would definitely might have thought it was you
@Crow-P5
@Crow-P5 Жыл бұрын
Fr. They're grown men with 5 year old mentalities.
@amanbirbthe4th967
@amanbirbthe4th967 Жыл бұрын
I don't think you needed to specify that you were abused. Nobody is like "i was in an abusive relationship, and i always enjoyed beating my partner"
@InstagramUser2
@InstagramUser2 Жыл бұрын
Retteb si tnetnoc ym esuaceb, pleh rof smaercs DNA seirc rieht raeh ot slrig elttil epar ot evol I!! 😂 👌
@koi5106
@koi5106 Жыл бұрын
​@@amanbirbthe4th967 im sorry i dont think i shouldve laughed at this LMAO
@Colorful_calamity
@Colorful_calamity 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being outspoken on this, I've had to get away from abusive parents and past partners and I appreciate your support. Hearing how you feel about this helps me understand my experience made me desensitized to abuse so now I can form healthy boundaries in relationships
@Rustywharf
@Rustywharf 11 күн бұрын
Trying to talk to the guy in the suit is like trying to talk to a brick wall. “Endure”💀
@gem9535
@gem9535 Жыл бұрын
My father had ‘phases’ of abuse where he would be more abusive and then less abusive. Notice how I said he never stopped abusing. He just knew when to stop being EXTRA abusive to gaslight my mom into staying. She immediately left when she realized he was also mistreating me.
@RandomStuff404s
@RandomStuff404s Жыл бұрын
Same situation here. They still married though but man I can still see how miserable both of them are and still we the sons and daughters are affected by it till today.
@SodaFlavour
@SodaFlavour Жыл бұрын
You are correct, the abuse never stops. My grandmother escaped her abusive husband, and cut out ties with his family members who told her to endure it. Her sister escaped hers when her husband died. Whoever says victims should endure, are often abusers themselves, who dont want to admit to their own behavour . Sounds like those podcast guys have abused someone before. Someone with a clean conscience wont have trouble saying abuse is wrong.
@gayjoebiden
@gayjoebiden Жыл бұрын
You mom is so dumb. Doesnt she know the marrige needs to immediately end if theres any abuse??? Maybe she should watch this video
@AnimosityIncarnate
@AnimosityIncarnate Жыл бұрын
What I will say is, the abuse my dad gave us did stop after the divorce, but only after years of therapy, which is often times not going to be a thing people end up getting, let alone men, let alone Narcissistic people.
@demifolk8940
@demifolk8940 Жыл бұрын
It sometimes does stop, this is more common in relationships where the person can leave easier than a wife with kids could. Or at least from the perspective of the abuser, its always difficult to leave regardless if you have kids or not. Just want to make that clear. But the classic love bombing, acting good and pretending you care but then abusing you when they’re sure you aren’t gonna leave again. Its not always blatantly abusive, they can even seem completely changed. Thats how abuse victims always come back. And why they get stuck in that cycle
@atas2561
@atas2561 9 ай бұрын
As a Christian, these guys do nothing to make Christianity look mighty. They disgrace my religion. If you’re being abused, get away from the abuser. Don’t endure.
@MrVargatron
@MrVargatron 8 ай бұрын
To be fair, every christian out there makes Christianity look bad. Same with every religion btw. This also is not saying non religious people are good, not at all. It just seems evil and ignorance go hand in hand with the religious bunch and yes, this goes for every place on the planet.
@Kelli-ru7yy
@Kelli-ru7yy 8 ай бұрын
Well as a Christian what I was saying is that if a man is abusing his wife, he's not in a marriage. He's in abuse. Jesus says to love you wife as Christ loves the church as he gave himself up for her. That means to go through all the scriptures and handle things the way Jesus would. Jesus wasn't a tyrant, controlling, manipulative, gaslighting idiot. He let people make their choice and taught them. He let people have their freedom to choose. When he threw tables, he threw tables to protect the church. He didn't throw table at the church. So men who abuse their spouses aren't in a marriage. They are in abuse. The women isn't divorcing a marriage. She's leaving abuse. The bible also says women need to respect their husbands. There's no respect for an abuser. A marriage is when a man loves his wife as Christ loves the church as he gave himself up for her and when a woman respects her husband. That's what an actual Christian marriage is. These guys seem to not know what a marriage is according to Jesus.
@hamburgerjones695
@hamburgerjones695 8 ай бұрын
As someone who was raised in a super Christian community I can tell you Christian’s do enough to disgrace themselves without these guys help
@ohnaw223
@ohnaw223 8 ай бұрын
Thats even what the bible says in corinthians and other New Testament scriptures lmao
@chrisd9700
@chrisd9700 8 ай бұрын
They forgot that to get married in Christianity you have to make a vow before God to honor, love, and take care of your spouse in sickness and in health, in good times and bad, forever. Abuse is an immediate betrayal of that vow to God and their spouse.
@Bluhbluh566
@Bluhbluh566 2 ай бұрын
One important correction near the end: cheating is also abuse. It is absolutely abuse.
@mai5151
@mai5151 Ай бұрын
“Men can’t be victims of abuse” these are the same ppl that are screaming about male loneliness and male mental health. They don’t acc care
@CasDaedan
@CasDaedan Жыл бұрын
I honestly just got divorced (April 28th) because of an abusive marriage. I am male. This was honestly the most hysterical crap I've heard in a while. Thanks for bringing this to light charlie lol. Edit: HOLY CRAP THIS BLEW UP. to all asking if I'm in a better situation, yes I am thank you! This means a lot more to me than you all think. I've been pretty broken ever since it all started and I'm trying to piece myself back together. I've dealt with the abuse for almost 5 years and that shit changes you as a person. Thank you all for being so supportive and caring! I've put a lot of effort into rebuilding myself. I've finally landed a stable job I like (ride mechanic at a Major theme park), I've put a lot of effort into my twitch stream hobby and finally hit affiliate (come on by if you want I'm CasBasko on there too), things have been looking up this year and seeing all these people (2.1k likes?! Holy shit!!!) rooting for me really put things into perspective. I've blamed myself for everything that's happened to me for years. I somehow thought it was all my fault. It means so much to see you all here, thank you ❤️
@felixdraws
@felixdraws Жыл бұрын
i hope you're in a safer situation now. best of luck.
@madonna4342
@madonna4342 Жыл бұрын
congrats and best of luck to you
@haleysalter90
@haleysalter90 Жыл бұрын
Congrats!! I hope things have been going well since then. Abused men are all too often overlooked but I’m glad there’s increasing awareness. Really happy for you.
@mattyorshin
@mattyorshin Жыл бұрын
Men are abused more then women
@E-A-Z-Y
@E-A-Z-Y Жыл бұрын
Good for you
@mattkewldude7542
@mattkewldude7542 Жыл бұрын
was genuinely speechless when he told her to “just endure it”, wow
@tmsplltrs
@tmsplltrs Жыл бұрын
I stopped watching instantly. I hope they see that millions of people are clowning him and he should be fucking embarassed
@uglyrobot1975
@uglyrobot1975 Жыл бұрын
Exactly where do you even begin?? How can I even convince someone so far gone
@tmsplltrs
@tmsplltrs Жыл бұрын
@@uglyrobot1975 You simply don't respect them enough to be worth convincing. I guess the jokes on him, cause he will have to endure the abuse of the internet now
@comeatmebro8120
@comeatmebro8120 Жыл бұрын
He has 100% abused one or more of his partners before
@spaceranger7674
@spaceranger7674 Жыл бұрын
so what, people should continue living their life in constant depression about one event in their potentially 80 years of human life? so we dont encourage them to not let incidents like these define them and not encourage them to continue the pursuit of happiness and being the best they can be? how is that at all beneficial for an abuse victim? we're not saying 'endure, its trivial and unimportant', we're saying 'endure, its not worth staying sad over because there's still so much beauty life can offer you which you should take advantage of'. everyone goes through shit, some worse than others, but who is the happiest is decided by who can get up from a bad situation and create something beautiful. to do with the dudes on the podcast, suit and tie guy and purple shirt i often disagree with. brian and chase i pretty much 100% agree with on most things. i am in support of traditional values and traditional roles of men and women and traditional familial values. i myself am also religious. i believe divorce should be a last resort to solving any problem in a marriage. however, if a relationship does get to a point where one or both parties experience constant abuse/one time abuse, i think a divorce should be done. its not healthy for the mother, father, and especially detrimental for the children if there are any. that being said, some abusive relationships can be avoided if you choose your partners wisely. if people took more responsibility, and took relationships as seriously as they should be taken, then there is less chance of ending up in an abusive relationship. when i say this also, i dont say that abuse victims deserve any abuse they may have received, no one does, im just saying there's a prevention method for this problem. (edit: yes, i stupidly wrote this comment b4 watching the actual video, im sorry about that)
@ethandoyle4522
@ethandoyle4522 Ай бұрын
Christian here. And the irony is that the Bible even says that a marriage should end if a spouse is abusive 💀
@blondetapperware8289
@blondetapperware8289 18 күн бұрын
It doesn't say that
@The-Omega-Blade
@The-Omega-Blade 2 ай бұрын
"Devorce isn't real" "if you're being cheated on you need to devorce" [Visible Confusion]
@Havyluvsya123
@Havyluvsya123 Жыл бұрын
I love that they’re like “this is so rare” and then also say “I know multiple people that have been in abusive families/ relationships”
@melinagoranson
@melinagoranson Жыл бұрын
I wouldnt be surprised if they are abusive to their partners
@Spagbolmofo
@Spagbolmofo Жыл бұрын
Just trying to minimalise everyone's point except their own
@ebdgr
@ebdgr Жыл бұрын
​@@melinagoranson they 100% are.
@bossycoconut847
@bossycoconut847 Жыл бұрын
100% they are abusive man children themselves
@basedbrit4206
@basedbrit4206 Жыл бұрын
Abusive relationships are rare, their not the normal behaviour of humans. Doesn't mean you don't know someone it has happened too.
@janedeauxxx
@janedeauxxx Жыл бұрын
The endure guy actually has multiple charges of physical assault and got charged with bottling a woman in the face in a nightclub in Japan.... it's fucked and the victim refuses to speak about it cause how traumatized she is 😢
@hazelmint6671
@hazelmint6671 Жыл бұрын
Makes sense
@bonniesentyou50usd4
@bonniesentyou50usd4 Жыл бұрын
UP
@franisthebest1234
@franisthebest1234 Жыл бұрын
wtfffff
@obamaisamooncricket950
@obamaisamooncricket950 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@DubstepGuru420
@DubstepGuru420 Жыл бұрын
Bump
@aaabirdman
@aaabirdman 5 күн бұрын
"I can excuse abuse, but I draw the line at cheating!" *You can excuse abuse?!*
@LoopTrippyCinema
@LoopTrippyCinema Жыл бұрын
“You have to endure” and then later your spouse is then pronounced dead due to “enduring” the abuse, but divorce is the devil a sin, but going to jail for murder isn’t lmao I’m glad Charlie is pointing it out this lunacy from these boys
@eligiobuscema6829
@eligiobuscema6829 Жыл бұрын
and how the concept of divorce for those guys is some type of schrodinger cat kind of shit where doesnt exist for abusive but does existe went the women cheats, tf?!
@PK88.
@PK88. Жыл бұрын
Lets also give credit to Destiny and Malena for getting them boys to walk into contradictions.
@yashchaturvedi864
@yashchaturvedi864 Жыл бұрын
@@eligiobuscema6829 that was a brilliant way to explain that.
@KLondike5
@KLondike5 Жыл бұрын
"For better or worse" doesn't include abuse. These guys would really like those extremist imams creating all sorts of made up religious rules to control women.
@CosmicAnteater
@CosmicAnteater Жыл бұрын
@@KLondike5 You're looking at the American Taliban.
@thatguyLucius
@thatguyLucius 11 ай бұрын
The first words out of this man's mouth... "Divorce is not a thing.." I'm legitimately speechless that in an age with so much knowledge and information widely available we still have people like this.
@darkhorse381
@darkhorse381 11 ай бұрын
That guy's a theocrat. He meant "according to my religion" or "in the eyes of God you are always married to that person." Obviously in reality marriage is just an agreement and you literally can break the agreement, and stop being married
@nateb917
@nateb917 10 ай бұрын
​@@darkhorse381BS cope
@simply_biance
@simply_biance 10 ай бұрын
@@darkhorse381 also good to note that not all religious people believes divorce is not a thing
@barnowl2655
@barnowl2655 10 ай бұрын
@goldengucci2275 As a Christian myself, I can confirm this. God, in no way, tolerates abuse. It's a sin to do so. It's even right there in the Bible, clear as day, "Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them,". If someone is physically abusing their spouse, they've dishonored their wife, and their marriage, which dishonors God. Disrespectful on all accounts. Divorcing an abusive spouse is absolutely necessary in those situations, especially if they refuse to shape up, you have children or both.
@poopyeater6488
@poopyeater6488 10 ай бұрын
​@@nateb917your name is literally Nate
@phantomwarrior8686
@phantomwarrior8686 5 ай бұрын
14:35 I love how he ALWAYS use all the words possible when referring to this concept lol 😂 😂 😂
@J0shuWa2491
@J0shuWa2491 4 ай бұрын
8:45 some dude dropped $100 to have a comment advertising the Bible and using it to justify abuse 💀
@misstlc3
@misstlc3 Жыл бұрын
When charges were laid against my father and we went to trial, my family showed up and stood with him. Afterwards my own grandmother said to me “ how can you put your father in jail?” I just looked at her and said “ I didn’t, he did” I broke the circle of abuse that occurred for generations and I would never tell someone to just “endure” 😡
@pepekek1878
@pepekek1878 Жыл бұрын
I hope your father gets out and finds you. I really hope and I hope that he will make your belly swell after pumping you full with white milk. What you did is absolutely despicable
@evangingerson1271
@evangingerson1271 Жыл бұрын
and how long do you have to wait for the phase to end and you all go back to normal 😂
@claudiaj2138
@claudiaj2138 Жыл бұрын
That’s very courageous of you
@adamgreenhill110
@adamgreenhill110 Жыл бұрын
That's a really important comeback. He put himself in prison. You didn't do anything
@labfire8964
@labfire8964 Жыл бұрын
You did the right thing sadly my mother didn’t go through prison but I did get taken away from her still get shit in my birthday cards like “I miss you” and “I’m sorry” and “I’ve changed” they never change and I’m glad you stopped him
@KyrosTheWolf
@KyrosTheWolf Жыл бұрын
Dude really treated genuinely traumatizing, life changing abuse as if it was just a married couple arguing over who takes George to the soccer game
@SergyMilitaryRankings
@SergyMilitaryRankings Жыл бұрын
Another day, another devaluation of the word trauma, remember when trauma used to mean things like going through WWI, seeing people blown apart every day, or losing your entire family, or watching a loved one being tortured. Now it's literally just "someone punched me" "someone calls me bad names" "I'm unhappy with my body image" "someone touched my pp" But that's the culture of victimhood these days.
@KyrosTheWolf
@KyrosTheWolf Жыл бұрын
@@SergyMilitaryRankings Take your AR15 and lifted pickup truck and go back to the red states
@arbusthurmapoly6049
@arbusthurmapoly6049 Жыл бұрын
​@@KyrosTheWolf you said that like it was a burn lol
@duckified.
@duckified. Жыл бұрын
@@arbusthurmapoly6049 it is though. americans are fucking obsessed with trucks and guns
@61936
@61936 Жыл бұрын
Ikr like that’s what I was thinking acting like abuse is arguing over who was supposed to take the trash out
@vcyberia
@vcyberia 5 ай бұрын
as someone who witnessed domestic violence between parents, divorce is definitely the lesser of the two. hell i was jumping for glee when they broke up for the first time
@peterpuzas1801
@peterpuzas1801 2 күн бұрын
I can’t believe to took me this long to discover you. I was laughing through the whole video😂
@nashitherin1821
@nashitherin1821 8 ай бұрын
My dad hit my mom, my older brother, my grandmother and myself. My parents divorced and I was never more thankful. I want these idiots to be stuck in a simulation of an abusive childhood for the rest of their lives
@bobbydanger529
@bobbydanger529 4 ай бұрын
I watch “alpha male” podcasts but that thing as your dad really needs help and be investigated on.
@IRunYou
@IRunYou 4 ай бұрын
Your dad was beating the whole bloodline huh
4 ай бұрын
@tyelencolon1228You just have to endure
@uselesssession83
@uselesssession83 4 ай бұрын
They would never understand because they lived in privilege and you can hear it in every word they said.
@BritishFrenchman
@BritishFrenchman Жыл бұрын
I'm happy there are people like Charlie to call out this bs
@NickG1010
@NickG1010 Жыл бұрын
100%
@Potnoodle123
@Potnoodle123 Жыл бұрын
same
@Anime_Moments_99-p7u
@Anime_Moments_99-p7u Жыл бұрын
me too, i watched accidently one of those jerks podcasts and the amount of brain damage argument ( not even one ) they give is hot boiling like how mysogenistic can u be to think like that ? bruh
@Eric-jk3oi
@Eric-jk3oi Жыл бұрын
I RIPPED ASS so hard goddamn you should have seen me. just start tearing it up in here. CAN'T BREATHE RIGHT NOW ITS STINKY!!! l'm probably going to go blow out the toilet right now god damn Lord have mercy. hate shit in my pants. Life's not fair
@BritishFrenchman
@BritishFrenchman Жыл бұрын
@@Anime_Moments_99-p7u FR! How can they even believe what they're saying? This whole thing started with the Chad trend and the "men stop simping" thing tbh, and like feminism, like wokism, like religion, it always starts from something good then it goes way over the top and people start doing or saying stupid shit...
@assyrianprincess3
@assyrianprincess3 4 ай бұрын
The Pope himself even said it was ok to divorce
@freakypoopsock
@freakypoopsock 2 ай бұрын
People like this make me lose hope in humanity
@amberwolf5371
@amberwolf5371 Жыл бұрын
That conversation around divorce was so awful. My dad used to beat us. Kicked my mom with the spurs on his boots, choked my sister out, even broke my arm once because he got annoyed with me being a kid and doing kid stuff. According to my mom he was completely normal until he joined the army and returned home from Desert Storm. After that he became insanely physically and mentally abusive. I'm so glad she chose not to stay with him because who knows if it could have gotten worse and wound up with one of us dead. Telling victims of abuse to just stick it out is so disgusting. NO ONE should be made to endure abuse.
@strayiggytv
@strayiggytv Жыл бұрын
To the dudes on this podcast the abuse was still your mother's fault. Never forget that these people are malicious. That to them a man can never do anything wrong unless it's not buy the absolute sh1t they're selling.
@obama2747
@obama2747 Жыл бұрын
@@strayiggytv women tell eachother there perfect even if there fat ur projecting feminism is what ur talking about
@EmperorDxD
@EmperorDxD Жыл бұрын
​@@obama2747 and what is wrong with that exactly why can't they tell each other there perfect how does that effect you how does that compare to telling people to be. Abbused
@tcsprynce5748
@tcsprynce5748 Жыл бұрын
⁠​⁠@@obama2747what are you talking about lmao you just shouted out some talking points that you’ve wanted to say even though they don’t pertain to this
@msjkramey
@msjkramey Жыл бұрын
​@@obama2747fat acceptance is not the same as abuse acceptance. Gtfo troll
@nolimi7_
@nolimi7_ 9 ай бұрын
The way she ran circles around those dudes and they didnt even realize... hell those dudes are morons. Kudos to her.
@TheNadroj10
@TheNadroj10 8 ай бұрын
Some of the dumbest dudes on earth. This is what happens when certain people want to argue and have a debate on literally everything
@fca3464
@fca3464 5 ай бұрын
she didnt react ! thats why ! she just got them to expose themselves for the ingrates they are
@juliams-
@juliams- 9 күн бұрын
If child abuse is so rare, why does it seem like everyone knows someone who has been abused or has experienced abuse themselves
@newasaleh2427
@newasaleh2427 3 күн бұрын
What do u consider Child abuse
@Datadog-1
@Datadog-1 4 ай бұрын
Anyone else see the ghost next to that lunatic? I think it’s a grudge situation. Hope she gets him
@FirePuncher183
@FirePuncher183 4 ай бұрын
Anybody know her name?
@eliaspietila_
@eliaspietila_ Жыл бұрын
"You wanna marry a lobotomized sex doll?" Charlie ALWAYS makes me laugh
@Tarz2155
@Tarz2155 Жыл бұрын
What do you think about that Stat tho your chance of divorce or likely higher with a College educated girl 80-90%?
@equidistanthoneyjoy7600
@equidistanthoneyjoy7600 Жыл бұрын
Only issue with the statement is that I feel like these guys would have just responded with "yes"
@Tarz2155
@Tarz2155 Жыл бұрын
@@equidistanthoneyjoy7600 😂 did you no that when guys see a woman the part of the brain that lights up is the same when they see a tool like a screwdriver or a knife . We really are different.
@drygimangdrminjak8177
@drygimangdrminjak8177 Жыл бұрын
​@@Tarz2155source?
@Tarz2155
@Tarz2155 Жыл бұрын
@@drygimangdrminjak8177 don’t be lazy search it upon. I’m looking at it right now. I don’t wanna have to read through all of the studies to give you the one that’s reputable cause there’s a lot here. You do your homework. Keep in mind a lot of the stuff that humans do are subjects of nature, not social.
@ashleylove6840
@ashleylove6840 7 ай бұрын
Abuse is 100X worse than cheating. Hitting your wife and kids deserves years of jail time.
@brockrock2359
@brockrock2359 7 ай бұрын
is this why western kids are more disrespectful than kids in non western countries who are actually disciplined? In my country growing up I was hit a lot even more in school by teachers than at home and i turned out fine. We all did. I come to the west and see how disrespectful most young people are to elders and their parents
@lyndonbauer1703
@lyndonbauer1703 6 ай бұрын
Cheating can be a form of abuse, not a strong argument tbh
@ashleylove6840
@ashleylove6840 6 ай бұрын
@@lyndonbauer1703 I am talking about physical abuse. I think its pretty obvious. Cheating with someone else, is not physical abuse.
@nathan2917
@nathan2917 6 ай бұрын
@@ashleylove6840it can be emotional abuse though
@EarthC111
@EarthC111 6 ай бұрын
From where I'm fore the abuser are beat up and sent to jail
@connorarnold7429
@connorarnold7429 7 күн бұрын
Instead of going to like a sporting good store to buy a punching bag, the lead host seems to go on dates to find a punching bag
@attackthem8908
@attackthem8908 2 ай бұрын
Why are they even asking these men? Who the fuck cares what they have to say?
@amiraa_...
@amiraa_... 14 күн бұрын
fr the shit that comes out their mouth is fucking worthless😭😭
@hajarmai4403
@hajarmai4403 11 ай бұрын
never seen so many braindead men in a room, they got me speechless. the lady asking the questions definitely knew what they were on, she asked the right questions to let everyone know that theyre insane.
@tedtheodore5715
@tedtheodore5715 10 ай бұрын
The way you said that makes it sound like you have some kind of agenda lol
@ilikedragons6710
@ilikedragons6710 10 ай бұрын
@@tedtheodore5715????
@danielflanard8274
@danielflanard8274 10 ай бұрын
​@@tedtheodore5715 What is the agenda behind your reply?
@starkjet2197
@starkjet2197 9 ай бұрын
@@tedtheodore5715what? What does an agenda have to do with this 😂
@bryanmoyna9715
@bryanmoyna9715 8 ай бұрын
Thats why they call it the manosphere, because its a safe space where this wackos can exist without being ridiculized by the whole room. Its like the whole room being elephants and not a single human in sight.
@penelope205
@penelope205 6 ай бұрын
"There's no such thing as divorce" is very "there is no war in Ba Sing Se" of him
@RickieGutierrez_034
@RickieGutierrez_034 4 ай бұрын
Underrated comment 😂💀
@nathangaspacio6128
@nathangaspacio6128 3 ай бұрын
ATLA reference + funny, I hope my future kids grow up to be like you
@valeriekatampoi216
@valeriekatampoi216 3 ай бұрын
What do you mean? There _is_ no war in Ba Sing Se
@hotcheetopuff.3838
@hotcheetopuff.3838 2 ай бұрын
@@valeriekatampoi216 soon youll see, young bender
@BreaBee1006
@BreaBee1006 2 ай бұрын
True people of culture in this reply chain I see.
@yuyulliz
@yuyulliz 3 ай бұрын
It's the "just endure it if I'm the perpetrator, but if you do it to me I'm calling the wambulance"
@GolfcuBebe
@GolfcuBebe 4 ай бұрын
These shows always makes me feel like going back to elementary school where I learn these questions and answers for the first time
@christonadams9046
@christonadams9046 Жыл бұрын
Continued proof that not everyone should get a podcast mic
@gracek4503
@gracek4503 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@AnonUmos-r8u
@AnonUmos-r8u Жыл бұрын
I say let ‘em. Their stupidity can then be held up for all the world to see. Not to mention allowing the rest of us to laugh at their idiocy. 😁
@oldstump1628
@oldstump1628 Жыл бұрын
When you cut a man’s tongue out you don’t prove him a liar. It’s always best to let idiots speak publicly.
@LordMegatherium
@LordMegatherium Жыл бұрын
The more people you have in an discussion the lower the chance of productive dialog.
@Maca68
@Maca68 Жыл бұрын
​@@LordMegatheriumnot always true The more people you have, higher the chances you have an idiot in the discussion
@shroomyk
@shroomyk Жыл бұрын
It's ironic for them to think abuse victims have to "endure" when a lot of victims will indeed try harder and harder to please an abusive partner to make them stop. But it doesn't work; it never works.
@kaitlinkilleen4664
@kaitlinkilleen4664 Жыл бұрын
THIS! Oh my god I tried so hard to endure and make it work and it just made everything so much worse. I literally forgot what I liked to do or what my hobbies were or what kind of person I was because he acted so annoyed by anything I found joy in and I silenced everything he hated about me. The years it took to find myself again were so hard and I still have a lot of missing pieces 3 years later. I wish I saved myself the grief and just left the second it got bad. It truly never gets better and their definition of love is almost always messed up in some way shape or form
@TheDantheman12121
@TheDantheman12121 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, never never ever ever. I don't even just mean where one is being abused either even if the relationship is super toxic from both parties it never gets turned around into a healthy relationship. As you say it also especially never does if there is one abuser in the relationship.
@uniquegod1997
@uniquegod1997 Жыл бұрын
@@kaitlinkilleen4664 im sorry.
@abbyz13
@abbyz13 Жыл бұрын
These clowns don’t comprehend that “enduring” ends in death. My parents had to get divorced bc my dad was going to kill my mom, it was never going to end. The victim can’t fix anything so putting that expectation on them is such a mindf*ck
@uniquegod1997
@uniquegod1997 Жыл бұрын
@@abbyz13 and yeah true in most cases if the abuser dont gets help
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