If you're overweight you probably are careless and lazy...

being overweight is different to being unattractive, as the former is liable for change solely with willpower.

Alessandro Botti Not true at all. At least not in ALL cases. You even see it in some youtubers, like FouseyTube is a great example. He wasn’t careless or lazy, he was just really really busy with making a career on KZfaq and he went from pretty fit guy to overweight over the years before he started working out again. And another KZfaqd AfroSenju, he’s not fat by any means right now but because he put so much time into KZfaq and trying to start a career you can see his face is a little chubbier nowadays.

@@domo190 you act as though not all people are stressed out trying to keep food on the table, a youtuber's career is easy as fuck compared to others and it should be seen as embarrassing if you can't manage your time to get a workout in. Even if u just work out in the morning before you shower or choose a better diet, your employment has nothing to do with it

@@FilmerVicz hell nah. Being overweight i straight up unattractive. Big facts.

Reminds me of "You" on Netflix

Oddly enough that reminds me of the people who watched Suicide Squad and consider Harley Quinn and The Joker as a relationship goal not realizing that in the comics that was a rather abusive relationship. I brought up that little tidbit and that ended in one hell of an argument lol

Its the pretty ones you need to watch out for.

@@WeaponXSigma THIS. I had a friend who would brag about how her and her bf were "Harley Quinn and Joker". She would lovingly call him her Joker and he would lovingly call her Harley. I tried explaining to her multiple times that Joker and HQ were a super abusive relationship, but she would insist, "They're so cute though!!!"

tate langdon has entered the chat

Basically

Makes sense

Literally existing

Basically yes

Not cannibalism

If ur a beautiful woman being tall doesn't matter just as long as ur not a midget

I'm tall and average looking with a meh voice

@@kimmyseon46 *sighsin5'*

@@basmalasaad5228 5 feet isnt that bad midget height starts at 4 10

@@kimmyseon46 I know but it feels really small especially when I'm around my average height friends....I know it's a stupid thing to be bothered about but whenever I get dressed up i cant help but think "My face looks cute, my body looks cute, if only I was a few inches taller"😑🤦🏾‍♀️

I screamed .....I understand

*O H F U C K*

Hahaha i swear youtube coments are pure gold

*Mirror*

I felt this comment lmao

Then i'm playing on the Master difficulty

I think that's somewhat more true for men than for women. Both genders gain social advantages from being attractive, but for women that can also come with an increased threat of stalking, rape, and other violent crimes, and if you're an introverted person you might get stressed out from having a huge amount of sexual attention focused on you. Not to mention, attractive women are stereotyped as being unintelligent, so it could be hard to get people to take you seriously.

@@NomadUrpagi oh yeah, well I'm playing on impossible 😎

I always play on hard mode I still haven't unlocked easy mode yet

@@NomadUrpagi same

They don't even say 'sorry"!

In my case, I just don't give pencils to people unless I really, really trust them. Throughout most of my years in school, they would ask, I would give it to them, and they wouldn't return it, so at one point I just stopped unless I knew they would return it for sure. Coincidentally, well, mostly unattractive people were the ones asking, so I'm sorry to those who thought I wasn't giving them a pencil because I thought they weren't attractive, because that was just simply not the case, I just didn't trust them.

@@lrchahaha9642 BWHAHA THATS MEEEE

This is accurate, I asked for a whitener in school once and no one would give me one but when I said it was for someone else they gave me one automatically

"Hey, I need a pencil." "I don't have any." "It's for *Person considered attractive*." "Oh, I might have one on me, here you go."

yea cool until some ugly kid does it

Yup, while also making sure that they look stunning all while doing that. Maintaining their weight, hair, and skin. 😐🤦🏾‍♀️

I did that back in 5-7th grade, everyone hated me because of it, they never said it directly but i can read their faces being hella annoyed. I'm not that attractive person.

+

That school is on some next level favoritism shit.

Then they gave her a brand new fucking car.

damn she must me HOT AF like Damn.

@ɪᴅᴋ ʜᴏɴᴇsᴛʟʏ • 10 years ago Yes...I've seen ppl get away with disrespect and stupidity cz they're conventionally attractive

Nope, that's just gross no matter what you look like, sorry

Amen

EXACTLY

TRUE!

PREACH!

I mean girls do it too. We let guys get away with things because they are attractive, its not just this guy thing lol.

If any of the bullies say that to you, strike them down and be absolutely brutal. Those damned scum don't deserve to look at you much less talk to you.

same.is happening with me !

That One Guy I regret not seeing this sooner. This is such a sweet advice! 🥺💗

@@claria4620 why what happened did you cave in and went after them?

@@gabrielguzman6018 They basically saw my social media photos and gave me compliments. They were the ones that bullied me throughout high school.

👏🏽👏🏽

Our only ticket out 😂

Or: keep to ourselves. Ugly people (though I doubt you all look that bad, I just have no interest in 3D peeps), or those who think they are ugly when they could pass off as above average if tried, are generally either bitter and have learned far more often than those who were born beautiful while getting what they wanted. They worked harder(maybe), suffered more(most likely), and are the ones who are purposefully ignored (70% sure on this). Try disappearing, someone is going to start missing you. I don’t care whether you were/are bullied or someone else’s free therapist, try disappearing and people will start lashing out on each other. They could have been the most popular kids, the jocks, heck your teachers, and when you stop giving them your company or attention they’ll revert back to being emotionally unstable children. Has no one ever wondered *why* it’s usually the slightly less attractive best friend that makes the best listener? It’s because we can offer them that. Now imagine where a bunch of “ugly” people congregate for company, there’s so many things we could do: talk, find a corner to hide or just appreciate that there’s no one “good-looking” blocking the natural sunlight. I honestly don’t know where I lost track at, all I know is that, without “ugly” in this world, nothing “beautiful” would be worth it’s salt today. So be proud, and remember, that your presence could literally make or break someone.

@@a-disaster5285 preach... apart from the not liking 3D peeps part

@@markferreira8767 I just have no interest in them beyond the simple: “How you do?”

It's MA'AM

*Xa'm*

@@epicwisp7450 Maybe, but we don't know.

EpicWisp 😂😭😭😭😂

Yeah that was great, wasn't expecting it and it made me laugh. Cool sense of humor, or if that's how he dresses naturally, cool guy. Walk to your own beat dude. Don't let people bring you down. You flaunt that short skirt and flaunt it proudly.

I called a girl cheesy once online (I knew her irl too) and she freaked out and started giving a speech of how I'm a "petty stalker" and an "immature brat" for giving my opinion I even told her that it's my opinion and then she started giving me a speech about why you should not swear and it's like she didn't even listed to half of the things that I explained to her like how to internet isn't all cupcakes and rainbows, people are gonna criticize you and you just have to deal with it. Then she became the biggest hippocriye and started threatening to cut my dick off and called me a "motherfucker bitch fuck" after that i apologized to her. Even tho I didn't mean it

Don't forget the "you're jealous"

@@griffith8929 Shouldnt have apologized tho,but I respect you for doing it so

I don’t even know Jeez you must not live in the coasts! Sorry!

I don’t even know Ok idk what country you live in but if people behaved like this with ugly people for no reason in my country they would get beaten up. Idk lol

Exactly

This goes deeper and worse and makes sooo many women just grow up with these horrible toxic ideas of what a healthy relationship is and get into abusive and dangerous situations and relationships Why did you say they'd be canceled tho like what have you even been near the movie industry there are straight out rapists who dont look remotely attractive but people still like then

Like twilight

Me too

I like it because it makes it obvious it’s all about lucky and fortune to win the beauty lottery

Your pfp matches perfectly with what you said.

You forgot to turn your laughter into tears

Same bro, same.

Not to sound an asshole , but you all people saying themselves depressed are (i guess so) still able to socialize and function properly , must have some sort of attention from the opposite sex , meanwhile i on the other hand , have such an appearance that makes normal functioning really hard haha , just saying ....

@@talhaohshit6289 not all depressed people have friends just sayin some are introverts EDIT: if being introverted doesnt mean you enjoy being alone what is the term for someone who does?

@@mpt7295 Yes , i said some

I might be wrong, but at some point in time somewhere (idk where, might have been Fiji you're talking about) fat people were "attractive" (quote because of the reason I'm going to explain now) because being fat would most likely mean that you were rich enough to eat well. I'm not sure if it was physical attraction or the fact that most people like having money.

"Beauty," in terms of humans, is just how your instincts (though somewhat influenced by culture) estimate healthiness and sexual compatibility in a mate.

@SomethingScanning In Ancient Greece, the monobrow was considered beautiful as well. I also love them and try to cultivate mine. It adds a sort of austere, piercing elegance, in my opinion. Large penises were also considered unattractive in Ancient Greece as a mark of animalistic, thuggish and uncivilised nature or something like that. (Gotta say, I kind of agree with that one, too.) Psychologically, there's not much we can do to convince our minds that their assumptions are wrong. The most I can do is make an effort to ignore initial impressions and judge based on behavioural observation.

Wisdom

Who has more than 2 eyes?

yeah, totally agree

i feel like ugly people can be charming as well and it's pretty ok if people like charming people more because that's not a physical attribute more like they gained the ability to make people like them through their charm/attitude but judging based on attractiveness is completely different as we have no control over our face

@@maxi0613 Don't you know? Women hate confident ugly people, they're seen as "loud", "annoying", ain't that some shit.

A lot more nicer than normal and ugly folks like us I guess....

People are charming because they're attractive

I was waiting for this comment

Overweight people are unhealthy

I mean that makes sense you can lose weight easily

@@amari1368 what if they dont want to lose it?!

@@amari1368 that doesnt mean you have to make fun of them

If people accuse you of fishing for compliments then maybe you aren't ugly ? 🤷🏾‍♂️

Because it's annoying to listen to people complain about themselves. You're supposed to be out WITH that OTHER PERSON. They are the focus of your attention and vise versa.

@@ib1205 🤷‍♂️

@@kanteannightmare I don't mean it like that.

@Cybelle thanks for standing up for me

Not true all the time. I don’t care how hot you are, if you make the stupid duck lips in your photos, I will despise you

Isn't this basically tiktoks?

True lmao

bella poarch (?) is shaking

Reminds me of Billie Eilish, no hate tho

Ah yes, the irony.

Underrated comment

I don't care about appearance

😂😂😂😂

@Layla Cartelina so that means everyone does

@Layla Cartelina nice

Lol I wish people said I was mysterious or enigmatic ;w;

I think I am the most lucky ugly guy in the world, cause I was a *ball*, I mean, so fat that I could be used as a ball, but still everyone in my class tried to interact with me .-. ...I miss middle school. (I was also really silent and introverted)

Pretty much shows which people think im ugly

;-;

Also when someone who got into a healthy/stable relationship early in life says "Omg the right person will come along!!! U just have to wait!!!"

People rarely cherish what they have. Sad...

Catherine Vaz unless you go from broke to rich or ugly duck to swan. If you’ve had it your whole life you don’t cherish it

What they might mean when they say that is that looks shouldn't matter as much as they maybe do.

We all have oxygen, but it’s not necessary 😏😂

Same i feel you

It’s split in half for me One half: YOU’RE AMAZING AND HILARIOUS AND YOU’RE SO GOOD AT FIXING MY PROBLEMS BRO I LOVE YOU The other half: Why are you here... I didn’t- dude you’re too loud shUT UP-

Me: exists •Shit we don't do• Everyone:that shit right there

kinda btw nice pp tho ;D

@@Sumaria69 You too man :D

This is beautiful

only ugly people can feel it

@@Sumaria69 Nice pp ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

my self esteem is forever gone

flower gorl you’re pfp says it all

2k10 it’s been fucking dead

My self esteem fully disappeared before I started High school.

Me too and my friends constantly call me cute I'm like "no??"

absolutely, totally agree...you have to work for everything and even then you might not achieve what you want because some hot person will just have it handed to them without any effort.

Survival mode

I remember when I was 10 years old and asked a girl if she lend me a pen and her answer was she didn't have any, but when this other really beautiful girl asked her the same magically she had an extra pen. I confronted her but she couldn't give me a logical reason for not sharing with me. Now I understand that is because since that girl was really beautiful people would care more about her.

@@bratzboyz It's hard but I learned that when I was really young, but the positive side is I turned independent

frrrr,my grandma always lies to me that im pretty and that i should love myself....but when it comes to other people,im suddenly so ugly,that i cant even have friends

stan ateez you rat Me too

stan ateez you rat Well I do look pretty at night, in the mirror tho

My family can’t comprehend I’m not a popular pretty kid. It’s fine, I may be a extrovert, but I’m good with being alone, atleast I won’t be pitted.

I mean, bullies kind of do that thing, that classifies them as "bullies". And humans can just suck for the most part with other people.

Literally had that in the most obvious way ever. I was standing with a largeish group of other students just waiting around and I said a (admittedly fairly lame) joke, no-one laughed, but I DID get a great look of disgust. Handsome dude says the EXACT same joke literally five minutes later and everyone just cracks up. So annoying.

Ya that is true, but to me it sometimes seems different. I seem to associate attractive people with being generally unfunny, probably because someone that's "ugly" has to make up for their lack in an area. Maybe that's just me.

@@amigay1816 It's not just you. I've consistently found ugly people to have better personalities. I usually expect attractive people to have personalities of cardboard. I find that I have to consciously stop myself from thinking that way when conversing with somebody who looks a particular way.

legit happened to me a million times in 8th grade

I have noticed this many times too but mine is taken at a different perspective I am known in my school to be one of the best ‘roasters’ and once this one guy tried roasting me about one of my exes ( in all honesty she had a shit personality and i was too dumb to realise it somehow) and didnt really bother but kept it in mind since he did _try_ Basically fast forward a few weeks and i get news that he broke up with a girl and i happened or we happened to know her to be absolute poop, both in personality and looks so i say the same thing he said a couple weeks back She is as shit as your academic grades I know thats a shit roast because i just wanted to mock him the same way he did me No shit it becomes the most famous roast in the entire school And i cant, just *_can’t_* understand how such a shit roast became so famous but this video i guess explains it lol

Can relate. Several times I'd sneeze 3-4 times in a row (my nose is quite sensitive to dust), no one'd say anything, even tho my sneezes weren't annoying. The popular kid sneezed (that type of annoying sneeze followed by 'cute' voice), everyone said "bless you"; once I sneezed (accidentally, of course) right after her and I still got nothing :(

It was so painful I once tried to compress my sneeze and it took all of my living soul to not let it out. Instead this weird ass noise escaped my mouth.. which defeated the purpose of holding in my sneeze in the first place, I know lol.

Once I sneezed in class and one girl said "bless you" but then right after that she asked the class who sneezed so I raised my hand and she said "I'm taking it back" smh

Relatable

I can relate. Last year I'd sneeze and NO BODY would respond and 10 minutes later the popular girl sneezes and every on would say "OMG! Bless you!!" and I'd get pissed

you can if you have not always been attractive/rich and they have been with you the whole time

@@oliviasimpson1826 yup

Yeah.... but I'm turning 30 in two days, and I've never had a relationship yet :'(

@@shanamoens822 im 37, never have either, it's okay because I know that it's my looks, and I like honesty foremost, but sometimes it does hurt a little and I find myself a little jealous and lonely wishing i could be attractive just to know what it feels like to have someone crazy about you

@@shanamoens822 so what? youre probably a great person and the right person will come along for you soon.

x_Autumn_Leaves_x true but hopefully we can override that judgment as soon as it crosses our minds

Hannah X agreed

yeah,, my friends always say that appearance doesnt matter but they find the "quiet attractive guy" mysterious and cool and "quiet unattractive guy" creepy or scary

This is just so true

Unrelyrable Mochi Facts, I be laughing at eugenes

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

bro what my name is Daniel Hall....

DansGuts omg heyyy !

You look stunning in your profile picture tho

💔

then again I've seen attractive looking men harassing women on the street and pursuing them even after they said no... usually these men are pick up artists as a girl myself I find that creepy and not attractive at all.

Nah harassing is harassing. Ask once, and if no let it go

oh btw your username is disgusting lol

@@I_Ambrose I said that to this dude who believed in the red pill shit and he said "but you need to keep pursuing women, since they're illogical. when they say no it doesn't always mean no" I retched lol sad part is, dude is physically very attractive and I thought he was cute until he opened his mouth

@@larsswig912 god that's some scary stuff right there. I'm worried for any women in his life right now. Is just sad because harassment has been normalized so long that men actually think its a valid way to ask a women out. "You are not wearing her down" Edit- and not loli is life 😰omg lmao.

damn gotta write that one down

If this isn't the truest thing on the damn internet

No. It's sexual harassment when anyone puts their hands on soneone without their consent. Simple as that. Hot or not, that shit doesn't fly with me, and reinforcing the thought process that hot people can't sexually assault others is very dangerous.

50 shades of Grey sprung to mind

@@lydia6253 weeeeellllll we're not exactly just saying it for the sake of saying it m8......

Thank you

Thx *Humiliation factor X10*

Yes, Ima go in my Corner now

Jazmyn Elric your pfp fits

When was it ever in the chat

Jesus christ bro. I feel you.

*F E E L*

We had the same experience but I'm a girl. I remember it was in highschool. All of us had to participate in a dance, there were also too many girl and boys at that time. The teacher allow us to choose partners by ourselves. I remember like there we're also 4 girls who got left out, me included. The teachers told the boys that if someone would like to have a double partner means that they'll have to partcipate again just to dance to those who doesn't have any partner yet. No one answer. The teacher then instructed us to ask one of them to be our partner in their free time then I remember it was during our breaktime, I ask this one guy if he would like to be my partner because it was breaktime he was obviously with his friends, he's friends giggle and look at each other and they were tapping him on his shoulder, one of them was even raising his eyebrow. They look like they were joking and then one guy whisper to him "you have to deal with it". Eventhough I clearly heard that I still wasn't taken aback, I just stand their and politely smile because I'm also shy. During our dance he had to hold me by the waist and he look so uncomfortable doing that, it felt like he's not touching me, he's just placing his hands but he's not completely like holding me, it's like his hand was floating and all that touching my waist is his palm only and his finger wasn't like bended and holding me (if you get me), he's also not looking at me, his diverting his eyes unto somewhere and I also felt like his friends was watching laughing at him. After that I thank him but then I got home and think about that and got really hurt to the point that it keeps me up that night. I still think he's nice because he did keep that up with me eventhough his friends was teasing him but seriously after that I felt like I never want to dance with a guy again because I think I'll only make them uncomfortable. I also think to myself after that happened, "am I that ugly?". Yeah sorry for this long text.

@@jm8837 being ugly sucks

im so sorry :((

It should make you mad, but it should also light a fire under you to be the best you can be and to work with what you have. All this "beauty stuff" is all in the attitude and the way you value yourself. Do you boo!

I don't blame you

Same

Yeah it pissed me off too. No idea why I even clicked on it

i stopped the video 1/4th of the way to look at comments and cool down lmfao

@Eaxl damn you're good!

I was just playing football with the guys and then a kid's sister called to us from the 1st floor window. I tried to be polite, and said "Hi". She said "Bye" like I was trying to hit on her and shut the door. I just turned to the dudes and said " Didn't expect that reaction, but that's okay."

Trasher nah people like compliments genrally

Marx Galactic Ambition Thanks for reminding me of the trash dumb animal crossing became.

What mode am I playing on? (Am I ugly?)

So why didn't you become his friend but you became friends with the attractive guy? You're not better!

That's alotta damage!

I also paused, for the same exact reason.

Relax guys. He's a "ginger" and so it's okay. They have no soul...

He looks like he is having a good life tho

Poor “seen”

Garbage Human IM WHEEAZING

Dont worry this specie is going extinct anyways. We dont know when but for damn sure we'll go extinct

ugly people can use gene therapy to become hot in about 10 years.

Apocalypse is not a fear anymore, but a hope

What did you expect? Humans are still just animals, just with highly idealized expectations of themselves.

@@markmurex6559 really? Can they do that allready

I am skinny, and everyone calls me skin and bones, and they force me to eat, and when i overeat, they say that "as you should skeleton, you should always do that" :/ That only works for pretty skinny girls, i am not that good looking so yeah.

I finna agree on that one 😎🤚

This.

@Duribethin aww cmon you can wear a cute pj with slippers even if you're a guy, the problem is it would be acceptable for the majority of people only if the guy was attractive

@Duribethin yeah i agree with that. i still think it kinda sucks though ahah

Pete Mcfucks unless it’s during finals week, at least at my college.

Attractive people, and more specifically thin/fit attractive people, get away with dressing more sloppy/bummy. An attractive girl running around in joggers and a messy bun is cute, but a bigger or more unattractive girl wearing the same is a lazy slob.

Same thing happened at my school

"Popular kids" are of two types. 1.The attractive ones. 2. The friendly ones who try to make friends with everyone and also get bullied in the process.

Ritwik Reddy I was the latter one. I knew everyone and everyone knew me but I don’t think they liked me the way I thought they did. I think I was the clown everyone could laugh at.. man now that I’m thinking about I feel like shit.

@@mr.extraordinary442 can relate, ma dude. And when i tried to become friends with this person that everyone hated, i became their target and all the hate was directed at me.

I got honor roll once, and I remember about 3 or 5 people clapping for me in my class. Might as well go commit toster bath now.

At our school When your popular: **lots of cheering and clapping** When unpopular(and ugly): **nobody cares** (at least my friends do, the others though, they're like "I dunno who is that, I don't care")

This is true. Dutch people generally hate goths, but they consider it slightly more acceptable when the goth is conventionally attractive. I'm sure it's the same for other alternative fashions as well.

Yeah, if they would just admit or acknowledge this truth, people would respect them more...

yeah but the only way we could get “attractive” ppl to acknowledge pretty privilege is if we magically transformed into a meritocratic society where ppl are rewarded solely for what they know and can do to benefit society. Otherwise, we just have to accept that EVRYONE’s experience is truly subjective. A white person will never know what it’s like to black person-does it make them inherently a horrible person? No, they literally cannot speak to an experience they’ve never had, rather all they can do is take someone’s word for it. (the race thing as an example btw.) But if we want things to change, I think we need to A. Stop rewarding pretty ppl for being mediocre B. Acknowledge that a part of us instinctually responds nicer and faster to ppl we find attractive. It’s almost biological response...

me too, i wish they could see everything for what it really is...how much easier life is for them

,👏🏽👏🏽

Nah, hate the pretty people more!

Good for you.

Good that you got this experience. Pretty girls don't understand how much they are getting away with just because they are hot

@@mennatullahmohammady4182 since when wishing goodwill is considered rude?

@@cruisingwithoutsail6585 that phrase is considered passive aggression these days. Because it's usually used that way

@@Zellonous well my intentions weren't that way. Nowadays everything is considered aggression ffs.

Everyone thumbs up this comment when you scroll by!!

Thumbs up to support the cause

How do you have so many bullies?

@@jaggeriscoughmedicine I don't

Bullying in schools is obvious idiots

Beauty fades

@@laurawilliams4087 at an age where you could have already achieved you want.

Not really .....l know some beautiful people with nothing special

Go to therapy

@@bigytutoshd5146 Not everyone can afford therapy

Donald Trump this is why i voted for you

INTELLIGENCE 100

if u mean that if im on fire, does that mean youre more frozen than me then yes

if you're hot, you should see a doc

sans thanos its better when pepsi in mouth

Abhg😭😭

@Eaxl I mean no ones gonna do a study on this shit

That's a shit opinion lmfao

@@Spectator9672 I agree, that's ridiculous

@@Spectator9672 nope. It's 100% true. A skinny, pretty girl wears baggy clothes and a messy bun: she's quirky, effortlessly pretty and chill. A fat or ugly girl wears baggy clothes and a messy bun: she's lazy, careless and has no style

Exactly, looks always comes first. There is no way you can know a person's personality without spending some time with them. Even in schools little kids tend to like good looking kids at first.

**cough** Sebastian Stan. **cough** **cough**

Not in my book

Why god

"If you're ugly it's harassment. If you're attractive it's flirting."

Denis Henrique dos Santos I call it being a THOOOOT

girls will find it easier to not be a virgin, it's proven

I don't like my name being Sean and knowing this is my future

Anime Really? That’s interesting! Based on what evidence?

@@NotSandhorst I'm about to mention that key and lock being special shit

69 likes 😂 im not liking

feels like home we've never had before, isn't it :')

Naah, for this, I am definitely NOT agree, maid outfit alone is 7/10, so if you maybe 2/10, you wear maid outfit you will automatic become 9/10 and that is enough for people to cheers for you

Bold of you to assume I am ever outside of my room

Bold of you to assume I have seen human faces that aren't on this screen

Bold of you to assume I actually exist.

Bold of you to assume that I am. -Philosopher

Bold of you to assume.

yeah i'm glad grades aren't affected by looks or else i'll fail every test i took lmao

•Hunny• I agree with both. When I was in high school I had a crush on a guy considered unattractive to most ppl but I liked how he was smart and sensitive but also kind of bold-he was in personality similar to me because I was sensitive but he was my opposite in being bold. I really liked the idea of how we balanced out personality wise. But I’m kind of ugly myself so I don’t know if that makes a difference, to me he was physically attractive in some ways (he breakdanced once which was fun and he didn’t make a big deal of being overweight). But being not pretty myself I know that it’s true that life is more difficult when you’re ugly and agree with everyone on that. I was afraid of confessing to that guy partly because I thought he might not like my appearance. (Mainly because I didn’t have guts, was ridiculously shy.). I was kind of a coward, and always waited for him to ask me out but he never did. And that’s how that story ended. I can say though that Hunny you’re not the only one who likes ppl based on interest/personality. I just wonder if guys can also like girls based on that too-so far I still question if a guy can like a girl that isn’t pretty. But yeah, it’s not easy being ugly.

@@nafsii04 they are, but on a lower degree and more restricted scenarios. There was a experiment, they gave an essay to a control group and asked the people to evaluate the quality of the essay. Then they gave the essay to two other groups, each with a picture of ugly and cute girl who allegedly wrote the essay. The ugly girl got an average lower than the control group. The cute girl got a higher evaluation. It was the same essay.

@@cristian-bull that's suck.

Yeah, like my face is really asymmetrical especially my eyes, and I’m definitely not the most attractive of my friends and I was talking to my friends about like looks and stuff and this girl at my school (she’s very attractive) told me something about how, it really doesn’t matter. As you can imagine, she’s super sweet so she probably really believed that, and was shocked when I even mentioned that, it’s not really true.

Apex nigga welcome to the real world, some of us have only ever had the ‘ugly’ treatment, but at least u got some years of nice people!

Exactly. I can't stand looking at the mirror anymore

Same here bro. Girls used to like me before puberty. I couldn't gain the masculine features of height and face in my puberty and Kudos Kudos I started to lose my hair in my early twenties. My attractiveness went pretty much downhill

Oh God I don’t know which one people have said to me. Why can’t people just be honest and save me the embarrassment of misunderstanding their lies?? 😬

@@unionunicorn6776 frfr

Life is goooooooooooooooooooooooood. The best part is when you tell someone who is insecure that they are beautiful or amazing, and seeing them all flustered.

A lot of my friends compliment my looks often but if I’m being honest I can’t really see anything besides average in the mirror.

Even ugly people find someone

@@evanw2195 no they usually don't

@@Xelights luckily i can see through the lies "your smart" and "you look good" they are insults telling me i cant hide my suicidal tendencies

prob comes down to them being seen as being special/worth more and kinda get treated like nobles lol. it's a human mentality that can't just be solved by saying "stop judging people by their looks"

Basically what Salt Bag said, it's an evolutionary trait that's been hard-wired into our psychology

My friend from 8th grade was the guy who wears supreme and blasts mumble rap in class, and even tho i was friends with him and other classmates were he was always the alfa of any situation. He was often rude and set his own rules (blasting music for example) but everyone seemed to be ok with it cuz he was the cool dude. He was attractive, and wore expensive clothes and that gave him the "rights" to be as he was. Although he was too dickish to have a girlfriend.

>8th grade >Using mommies credit card to buy expensive clothes >Alpha lolno

@@enlightenedgroyper2956 haha yeah

Yeah,I think so too.

YES YES YES YES I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU. THIS IS THE MOST LOGICAL EXPLANATION, EVER FOR THIS VERY IMPORTANT TOPIC. That's what I also said to people who think that at least looking "presentable" doesn't matter in trying to find a partner.

That's true.

I kind of agree. But pretty girls that wear sweat pants still look cute and ugly girls look lazy.

Luck -5 Charisma -5

Just sounds like you've dealt with shitty callous people, I'm sorry:((

@@surprisedpatrick5933 ...um no. Well, you're lucky that you get to socialize with seemingly decent people. Most don't.

Carol A A I never understood why people cared so much. I often have trouble remembering any of their names.

Like Kim Kardashian! She has absolutely no talent yet got famous over a sex tape.

Nobody would have bought Kylie’s makeup if she wasn’t a Jenner

Well. She’s right lmao.

@@zeffez8161 plastic surgery and make up, ud be so fucking suprised by what make up alone can do .-. I saw some remove their nose 😱

Well you should take notes and try to improve yourself haha...being attractive is not an excuse for being a bad human. Not trying to be rude.

mila just saying ,there’s always room to improve yourself but okay

@The Heretic chill dude. If your were a girl then there's ton of thing you can't help it at all. Like, scary looking guy hitting on you or something. Besides, you got "the guys strength". Be grateful that you're a guy. Lol

True. I would say the employer know well the importance of look, you can always teach someone the materials but you can't buy a new face.

Depression 101

Yep....

to me it was funny bc at least i can relate

Fiona has stuff here lul true

I’m 14 and in my S.C.H.O.O.L I’m not super fat like but i still am overweight and people assume I’m bad at all sports and assume I’m bad at fighting The skinny guys are assumed to be good and assumed to be good fighters I’m actually pretty good at some sports and have even been on my country’s team for 3 separate sports (Northern Ireland) they are swimming, diving, kickboxing So that last one clears up the fighting thing I don’t like to try and show off though because if I act as though I don’t care no one cares if I actually mess up they laugh and all but that’s it the rest is done behind my back also in school we have no pool so right off the bat 2 sports are gone and the other can’t be done as our S.C.H.O.O.L is 0 tolerance and doesn’t like any fighting Although when I hit the asshole who all the teachers knew bullied people but never got touted on cause well touts are targets No teachers complained about me despite being told countless times Which is another Ugly no one cares if you get your ass beat Pretty everyone takes their side and tells the teachers Legit I hit him cause he was annoying my friend who is suicidal and they ruined his work and everyone still took his side Wtf

Ema Haq lmao this is so true I can’t do anything without getting shit for it

Yeah because there's this slightly attractive guy in my class and whenever he just breathes all the girls just laugh at him and look at him like

@@siboneyhernandez1592 rip. I'm nerdy and not attractive so I make sure I'm nerdy enough to not have to ask questions :)

My brother gets that all the time it’s fucking pathetic

Dumb girls....they never get it

Oh well, that's just life. Life is unfair; we just have to deal with it, or kill ourselves.

Lmao that happened in my middle school too, except it was a girl instead of a guy

@@KaushikBala333 hey this issue lies with both genders

Holy crap I feel so bad for the 2 guys, society an be fake these days:/

That's terrible. Honestly he deserves better. I hope he learns that one horrible person doesn't mean everyone is like that

Thats pretty messed up

I'm sorry about your brother, but the girl has the right to feel uncomfortable. It's not part of her job to make friends with strangers, and if she feels harassed that's valid.

Pablo Velásquez Campos she has the right to feel however she wants but the point is that she lied and was eventually fired bc of how she was treating customers. He approached her one time. She didn’t say she felt harassed she said he was harassing her...huge difference.

i understand, but honestly don't blame the cashier. she probably felt threatened because of how he always talked with her, and then just randomly asked for her facebook when he came back. that's pretty creepy

I call people out for being shallow, only talking or tolerating me for being attractive.

Not sure about in the US, but im from london and there is a guy my age who goes gym a lot, is tall and really not bad looking but is still one of the most bullied people in our year because of how socially awkward he acts

Same here

Woah same.

The problem with that is some can be attractive to one group or one person but not another. Attractiveness is based on many factors and not all of them include being physically appealing. Beauty isn't something concrete, it changes depending on person or persons. No one is universally beautiful.

For me it's the second scenario, I don't even need to do anything they do the first move, which mostly turns out to be annoying and creepy (no matter if the guys approaching are goodlooking or not), I'll probably be super cool with floods of girls hitting on me if I was a man though

You know, I'm not a stellar-looking guy. Hell, I'd say under average, even, but the one thing I've never seemed to have an issue with is integrating myself into a group. At least, not since I got out of high school. Maybe it's a skill I've acquired, such as reading body language, getting a feel for personalities, or it's just enough confidence to show what kind of person I am from the get-go, but there is certainly something there that one can learn to do to overcome the aesthetics. At least, to a pretty good degree. P.S. Nailing someone in their humor bone doesn't hurt, either. Making someone laugh is a great way to break ice.

I'm living my life on super hardcore mode. So I will keep myself in this way because I'm enjoying it.

Your experience was SUPER similar to how I grew up and what I experienced. I’m 26 now, so I feel compelled to tell you that one of my biggest life regrets so far is believing the mean shit that other kids said to me growing up. Internalizing the mean comments kept me from thinking anyone could even be attracted to me pretty much until I was about 22 years old. So much wasted time, and for what? In retrospect, some of those kids probably don’t even mean what they say, they just want to fit in, so they tease alongside other kids. And the ones who do mean it, they’re assholes who will likely grow up to not do much with their lives anyways. Anyways, know that you are beautiful!!! Don’t listen to others and don’t be afraid to let your light shine 🌞 peace, love and power 💕

Lunataari, when I was younger and lived in japan, I thought all humans were beige.

@@sanfransiscokitty2471 'I love blacks" it sounds so weird.

😂😂😂

WhAT d0 I believe OP is a transgender woman, and they were misgendering her. Either that or it was an insult regarding OP’s unattractive/non-feminine appearance

@@Hirundo-demersalis orrr that was the joke

Yes I'm pretty sure they're saying she looks masculine and she's the butt of their joke

"pulls out scalpel" you wanna go for job interview or 10/10 gf

think about it, when you get plastic surgery you're basically paying somebody thousands of bucks to make everyone treat you better and your life overall easier... you like making a deal with the devil?

@@mastertrey4683 wait, paying to make life easier?... EA™ made our shitty lives and niw they want us to pay for easy mode

@@mastertrey4683 But also if they mess you up then your life will be worse

TWrecks ha ha wut. you don’t make any deals with the devil. you just get an aesthetic improvement. can confirm people are way nicer, even when i don’t wear makeup