There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all different. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've realized that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were on the verge of divorce because we had problems in our marriage, but we found a way to fix things. It was difficult, but we managed to overcome it.

If you can't afford a wedding, then get married in a civil ceremony and throw a party when you actually stayed married for more than 5 years.

Don’t get married if you can’t afford it. Stop it with this. I have been to so many weddings that people are still paying off years later. It’s not worth it. Especially with a 60% divorce rate.

Idk why so many people are coming after the defendant. The plaintiff clearly wanted to put it all on her because she hates her. He seemed like a loser anyways stiffing her with the bills. Stop using the disabled vet as an excuse to hold him liable too. Plenty of disabled vets still pay their bills!!!

If Shy is a disabled veteran he has an income. Trust that he gets a disability check from Veteran Affairs monthly.

He conned this family and tried to get her, glad she got out.

Shy is like a son, but she doesn't hear from him in months or even know they're getting divorced? Being laid up with an ankle injury doesn't prohibit you from using the phone. None of what the plaintiff said made any logical sense. The defendant did the best thing for her, she ran! She does need to learn how to live within her means, however. Don't go into debt over one day of your life. That's ridiculous.

Everyone needs to get real about this Shy character!

Disabled veterans DO get money … not sure how that lie slid by.

Shy is a lying thief and they think he can do no wrong

The ending with Doug speaks volumes. They’re not even going to try to go after Shy, because they love him and think he can do no wrong. They tried to get the money out of her simply because they don’t care for her, not because she owes it.

Yea Shy could get away with quadruple murder with concrete evidences and the Plaintiffs will still believe he's innocent. SMH

The plaintiffs view the husband like a son. So they are being vicious to the ex wife.

I bought a $100 dress got married in our backyard small family on both sides and hey what do you know still married 8yrs later 😉😁. We paid it all ourselves.

Rumor has it, the nature of Shy's disability is a paper cut from boot camp 😂😂😂😂

Being a disabled veteran doesn’t excuse anyone of being a liar

Shy's not shy about screwing up people's lives.

"he's like a brother to my daughter" tickled me😂😂😂😂😂

Why does the plaintiff think shy is so innocent? Because hes a dv? She’s so mad at the defendant but he is a hero.🤷🏼‍♀️

I would have thought they would have had Shy with them to be a witness to the phonecall. It just proves that they knew exactly what happened and they are helping their precious ConSon to get revenge on his ex-wife.

Take a drink every time the plaintiff says "I was laid up!" Ok, you hurt your leg. You can't make a phone call while your leg is healing?

A $1400 wedding dress she'll wear once. Once?! Spend the money on a cruise, instead.

If they didn’t have money for the wedding essentials why would she let them charge her credit card…KNOWING the husband Had no income?!

No money for a dress and wedding but will pay for a LAWYER! How cringe!

Don't plan a wedding you can't afford. Don't put costs of a wedding you can't afford on a credit card.

'We were going to charge it.' That still means YOU DON'T HAVE THE MONEY!

She so crazy about this shy guy and he didn’t even visit her once with her broken ankle.

3 month marriage and 3 yrs dating....😂😂😂 I dated my husband for 3 months, and we've been married for 15 years now. Moral of the story, you don't need to date anyone for a long time to have a good marriage. You need a big wedding or a wedding to ensure your marriage is blessed. I never did the wedding thing because it wasn't my thing. We went to the court and just got married. The plaintiff is ridiculous. She's ready to pin it all on The Defendant and allow this Defendant's former husband to just relax and not pay anything. The former husband sounds like a real jerk.

Sounds like Shy is a shyster.

Where is the ‘disabled veteran’ that I’m sure is mooching off his next victim. I bet he gets a great check from the Govt that he should’ve been using to pay his loved ones back.

Wow. These people shouldn’t keep any of the wedding gift money they received. They should return all the gifts. Low class Grifters….

It always fascinates me when people are together for years and than get married and get divorced immediately its like all the red flags werent that bad until the words forever were uttered

These parents made Shy the bratty spoiled person he is now. Sad.

The "disabled veteran" is lying to that couple. Something tells me he's been playing the feelings of that couple for a long time.

So Shy apparently tells them he has "no money coming in" because he is a disabled vet. BS. I have 3 co-workers that have a "partial" VA disability and they receive $1,200 + monthly tax-free disability pay from the VA even though they work full-time in physically demanding jobs. Then he lies to them and states his ex-wife stole all the wedding gift money even though a court found evidence he did. The plaintiffs need to wake up. Shy is lying to them that he has no money so he does not have to pay anyone back for money owed.

This is sad and ridiculous, people learn to say NO

I think the Plaintiff's lost all credibility when they started off asking for the FULL amount. They lent it to TWO people and are only suing one because they're "family" with the other?? I'd feel a bit more sympathetic for them if they were suing for half since it was only one half of the party they felt the need to sue. But it's also quite clear that Shy was a big part of this whole issue.

Shy is a user. The plaintiff can’t see the truth he has her wrapped around his finger.

I got married at the courthouse. I wore a $150 dollar dress and was married 7yrs.

This judge never shuts. Up. She speaks more than clients.

If you dont have the money, dont have a big wedding. Just go to City Hall and get it done there. A good friend of mine got married when he was 18-19 and just about to go into the military, but having no money, they just went to City Hall. No shame in that. In fact, they’re still married ~30 years later and have raised 2 kids.

She should have paid half because they should both be liable for their wedding venue bill not that old lady it wasn’t her wedding

I think the defendant should have had to pay for the wedding dress.

Plaintiffs are delusional.

and how do you plan a wedding with no money 🤦🏽‍♀️ rely on someone else to fund it 🙄

People who loan money to other people who don't give a damn about them shouldn't expect much.

Who plan's to get married and expects others to pay and get into debt for the wedding?

plaintiff got robbed big time by both these thieves 😂

Why in the hell would you go to an older couple that you're not even related to ask to fund your wedding and then you basically took advantage of them that's crazy! And they used to DV status!

This Shai…WHY WASNT HE IN COURT? DIS-ABLE???

She's a good size to buy off the rack for a few hundred or check consignment shops for great buys.

The ex wife makes me sick. Give the woman her money back. Pay her for the dress and wedding. Veteran needs to pay half.

It amazes me these days how so many people live beyond their means. How small of a person would you have to be to ask somebody who is not even related to you to pay for your wedding gown and your wedding venue? I grew up being taught that if you didn't have the money for something then you went without it. Or you saved up for it. Everybody has to have instant gratification these days they have to have it right now. So let's just put ourselves or others in debt because we just have to have something right now and something that we can't afford

Exactly why I eloped lol

That’s crazy she ain’t have to help pay that loan it’s was both they wedding

My entire wedding cost less than $500. Spending thousands of dollars on 1 day is ludacris to me

dating 3.5 years, known each other for 15. And it only took 2 months of marriage to realize he was a deadbeat?

She should go after the shy guy.

Sorry Mama go sue shy😂😂😂😂😂

you can sue SHY!

3 months 😳🤣 That’s the funniest thing of this whole case.

How can you start a marriage under such a cloud of financial debt and sleep at night? On top of that ,collect the wedding gifts,wtf...

If the ex-husband is like a son to the plaintiff, that means she loaned the money based on his merit.. I feel like the defendant was lying about being on that call but the plaintiff is PATHETIC for going after the defendant and not the ex husband, when she knows that only he could have asked her for it.

If they could not afford the expenses for the wedding reception, then they could not afford to get married! They were setting themselves up for a marriage full of financial struggles

Plaintiffs: She looks like HIS mother, not her husband.

There are many things you shouldn't get a loan for or use a credit card for and a wedding is one of those things.

Why would she want a dress from a marriage that was so brief? To sell it and not repay her? I’d be offended as well. Shy also is a scammer…

Shy ain’t so Shy!🤣🤣

Seemingly they're so quick to ask for help paying for that they cannot afford. But so slow to pay it back, except with excuses as to why they can't. The plaintiffs need to quit making loans to those who are great at taking, & poor for giving back!

It appears they don't want to hold Shy accountable for anything. If he is disabled, he gets a Veterans check and should at least make payments. They have clearly taken Shy's side on it and only blame her. Really sad.

My wedding dress was $14 😂 my cheap ass would NEVER

Seems like Shy had a habit of lying and very quickly both plaintiff and defendant were finding out they were lying, but the plaintiff didn't want to believe Shy was lying to them.

The defendant said she didn't input it and then sent a message that Shy told her she could. That's contradicting, but I guess that didn't matter. She also stated she wasn't initially on the call but was added.

We got married at city hall and I don’t regret it. We’ve been married 51 years now. If you have to take a loan or use credit card to pay for your wedding just go to a justice of the peace. Save, save, save.

the defendant said shy came home with a credit card and asked her how to use it and she helped him. So she did charge it.

Husband and I had our dream wedding at the court house, my dress was $60 and I got a ton of compliments. I guess thats why we own our home and the car in the drive way😂

Disabled vets are compensated by the VA

WHERE IS SHY? SUE SHY.

"No comment" then proceeds to run her mouth😂 The plaintiff and her ex should've went to the courthouse to get married 🙄

So sad at the end, that Bailey couldn't stop laughing at the whole case & her divorce. What a lack of empathy. 🙄

Beyond the stupidity of don’t plan a wedding you can’t afford; especially when it takes 3 loans, a gifted $1300 dress and still can’t afford the venue. It was obvious the plantiff went after Bailey because one they don’t like her, and two; she has source of income and three she’s the one who left. Shiloh clearly lied the entire way or the plaintiffs were trying to paint themselves as victims taken advantage of. Bailey had proof her ex had taken all the wedding money and they were pretending she was lying. But man, think of your piece of evidence that will prove your case and it costs you the case, because they thought it was her admission to accepting the loan. And yes, I totally believe she did insult her; she just probably thought it was low enough that Bailey wouldn’t have heard her muttered insult.

If you get divorced after a few months you either have terrible decision making skills or are insanely gullible.

I love ❤ This Judge...very easy to speak too!

The plaintiffs should look to their son. I fully believe the mom said nasty things to her. The defendant is lucky that she’s not related to these nasty people.

It's a fact that couples who have big expensive weddings break up more often.

I love the glimpses into their lives afterwards 😂😅

If you can't even afford the wedding, go to a JP, sheesh.

How do you date someone for 3 years and not know they're crazy? Guarantee there were many flags.

Their love for Shy is blind! He used them, took advantage of them...

Why, why and why. There is no need for a wedding when you can’t afford it.

I believe she should have been held responsible.

It never makes sense to me that people willingly accumulate so much debt for a wedding. That’s the worst way to begin marriage lol. It’s a big red flag for me if someone is that foolish with money.

My wife and I were married in church afterwards the reception was held at the local steak and buffet restaurant where everyone who attended payed for their dinners. The whole wedding and reception cost us 35$.

The defendant is lucky THEY are out of her life. So frustration watching boomers coddle their grown “son” and get nasty with the women he dates and uses. Good riddance Karens!

A properly labeled 'Disabled Vet' does not mean he doesn't have any money, especially if he is rated 100%. I feel both defendant and "Shy" are responsible for re-payment of the money. They really had no business having wedding like this as they couldn't afford it. For the plaintiffs to go after this woman and not Shy too, is wrong.

Judge Milian be slick dissing her husband he don’t even be catching on.

WOW !!!!!...Theres more STIFFING on Peoples Court then a Massage Parlour !!

I wonder why Judge Millian's husband has his own chamber at the people's court 🤔🤔🤔

Honey, 22 years retired military here; if he is a disabled Vet, he is receiving $4,000 a month!!!! He ain’t broke!!!!

Our wedding was less than 800$ and majority of that was food.