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MIMI kama mtu ni toxic I avoid you like a hot soup . Siwezi fumble na kusimp kwa watu hawanijui juu nimependana na kijana wao . My Mental health is very VALUABLE.

I visited my in-laws for the first day with a big shopping and so tired they knew their son was coming home with his wife but I found them waiting for me to cook. I didn’t know but I overheard the mum telling Siz in law “ siachukue leso aingie kitchen apike “ I went and began to cook but I never felt home.. I stayed for 2 yrs without conceiving and the mum inlaw used to tell his son he lives with a fellow man. After giving birth to a bouncing baby girl and named after her, she never came to see the baby, I decided to take the kid during Christmas she told the son she won’t be home and I swallowed and left the son to go alone. The marriage could not work so after 8 yrs I left with my kid.. upto date the son hasn’t married, six years now I thought am the trouble maker but I realized later in life she had told her son am a curse because am an orphan.. I will keep sharing this story because I never wished my parents to die while I was barely 14yrs...😢😢😢😢😢😢

When it comes to inlaws I value my peace more than anything else.boundaries is the key to me.

Not only in-laws! We are also suffering in the hands of our toxic parents! It's very hard to address or even find a solution in this case😢

My opinion in marriage Kila mtu acheze game yake venye anataka ,juu family and wife it's hard to find a balance juu even if you love your relatives you can never marry them,na wife comes from another family with different values,naona Kila mtu achague venye anataka kuishi

It has ever happened to us. When my husband went for my uthoni, my aunt said this after knowing what he gave "mtoto wetu kwani ananunuliwa kama kuku" meaning, alipeana doh kidogo according to her. My hubby didnt hear this and i will never tell him. But that thing hurt me and i always push my hubby further we try and be somewhere financially. I promise you guys that my next ruracio will be big. On the other hand, my in laws are never bothered about us. Av never met some of the sisters and they don't seem concerned. We put in a kasmall sherehe wakam tujuane and they never showed up either. I feel like they never wanted me in their family. They never even came to my uthoni which is my biggest pain. So the rivalries from both sides makes our marriage stronger. My husband always tells me, this is about us and not them. We move regardless.

My ex-mother-in-law broke the marriage with competition, false accusations, and abuses. She was forcing the son to neglect and abandon me and the daughter.

It's not easy kwanza when the husband is attached to his mum waah but I thank GOD I never disrespected her and GOD came through for us. Good topic .

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Rena is coming up so well...very courageous now days

I think that is what Milly wajesus is facing now. I don’t know what happened to the beautiful relationship she had with her in-laws. But that’s life

The inlaws are used to being treated in any way either positive or negative before you got married or being married to that family and now that you are in the picture nothing changes instead they try to keep up with the changes abd if you aren't wise ,henceforth you will have issues with them...and also depend on how you react to their changes..which now is where the problem starts

When it comes to inlaws my mother is the best thing that ever happened to me...the rest wakauke wakikaukanga😂

It get's worse of you are married to their breadwinner...wueeh 🤦‍♀️

I think we need such discussion more offen ndio we save the upcoming couples

Its all about boundaries. I am glad the new generations are having these discussions.

When you dealing with inlaw you need to find a healthy balance..... Speaking from experience if pick sides whatever side you pick kitakuramba..... Be tactful.😅

Mental Health is of importance avoid them and put boundaries sio lazima mtembeleane.....

I grew up knowing that living with inlaws is not a big deal cz me myself l lived with my brother and his wife for over 10yrs so when l got married l was so happy to live with my husband siblings but kiliniramba...as l speak now l can't allow inlaw both from my side and hubby's side to stay in my house for more than a week. And before coming to my house l must be told before ufike ama utalala inje

Once we were having a conversation about meat with my mum in law and some other guys. I randomly said " kama vile so as so anapenda nyama ya mbuzi" The lady countered me haraka sana akasema. "hapana huyo anapenda kuku" I repeated that he actually loves goat meat and she said "mimi ndio mamake, nawaambia anapenda kuku".. When she pulled that card of "mamake" my ancestors spoke to me and said "Moh this is where you shut your mouth" 🤣 🤣 I was left wondering, I am the one who lives with the man currently. You lived with him as a child. How are we arguing about his likings???!!

I love how Rena mdosi is minding her ouw business very cool woman❤

Raych ongeza volume hapo kwa mother's letting their sons go. especially single mothers. wueeeh mimi nimekapitia juu ya hiyo mpaka nikaoa nimpee mama ya wenyewe distance. naenda kwao only when absolutely necessary

They are jealous because they feel you have taken their beneficial positions from their son kwanza akiwa breadwinner

Mimi i got married and we lived with my father in law from day 1,i will say it has been the worst experience of my life,so uncomfortable and made me feel like running away from my marriage,

I thank heavens for my in-laws apart from one, but the good within that family outweighs my disdain for her. I thank God that my mum in-law isn’t trying to compete with me. It didn’t start out like this but my husband SET the BOUNDARIES early in our marriage. I think that if he was one to please his mother I may have encountered some of these issues. MY ADVICE, Set clear BOUNDARIES early on in the relationship.

It's not wise to tell your family members like mothers your problems lol very unwise you make them view your partners in a different cause now your secrets are exposed.....its better to talk to a safe friend ama a therapist your mum will go telling her friends and other family things you've told them you expose your family way too much cause hamkai kama mnaweza solve vitu

Raych and brown lady very wise.. other two are just cool listening

when you take your wife for a vacation then your mum knows it,mmoja wenu ajifunze kunyamaza,and then give your parents the best medicare cause they treated you well

Mother inlaw always jealous she knows well why she does that

Wacha tu niseme wueeeh😆😆😆 mimi distance inani saidia kwa in-laws

Always mature conversation

Ugandans with the good English. The lady in green introduced herself and I could tell she has a Ugandan background. I am here for it ❤

real conversations 100% 🔥

Boundaries is key.

wenye tuko single ,,hopefully well noted, ✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️

I support Kaymo hizi episode zenye si za kupika tupee jina kama Maskani with Raych 😂❤❤i enjoyed this episode

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR SISTERS AND BROTHERS IN LAWS, BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY ARE AGAINST YOU AND YOUR AGAINST THEM. I LOVED YOUR DISCUSSION

My Asha always with the wisest of words❤

I love this channel and your wisdom. One suggestion i have pls musijibu watu vibaya kwa comments, kuweni wapole and speak nicely when replying to a comment. God bless you guys.

A son is mother’s first love hence why the competition between the wife and MI

Hapo kwa single mother NO!

For inlaws it is a sensitive topic I choose to keep my space and keep my line no interaction greatings period. I learned through experience that was an eye opener. My take home is wisdom is key when dealing with inlaws.

This is what finished my marriage

Mimi niko na experience where bro alioa bt bibi yake alikuwa anaona mama yetu kama matope...hakumtambua hata kidogo hadi akafanya bro aanze kuchukia mathe bt mimi juu niko well off wanataka tuwe close hadi mamake kunikopa hadi pesa until last year i decided to cut them off pia

Mimi ni distance unisaidia tena sana.

The fact is your mother will always remain your mom she won't leave you no matter what but be wise when dealing with mother in law

Vile mum in-law na fathe hawananga story. Ni siku Moja tu alinambia before niolewe alikua anaitisha 10k anatumiwa 20k otherwise hatujai kosana

Best episode so educating ❤❤

Ukiona ii kikosi pamoja unajua tu Mushene is about to be liiiit 🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂

Mother inlaw some are the worst human being imagine umeenda ocha the first day, mother inlaw anenda kwa butcher anasema nikatie nyama Niko na watu wamekuja kujipendekeza

I feel like mlikua mnaogopa kuongea not to hurt your partners

It's funny how our men tell us to relax, not to overwork ourself etc.... But then when we finally learn to relax, they get irritated kkkkk

raych God bless you.. you are too wise❤❤❤

The talk is one of the best aki

That was Great .... insightful!

This is so educational....nipitieni guys

As for me I don't think my dad has accepted that am married, he invites me for lunch most days when am not busy 😢😢though I miss him too since he was my best friend ❤

boys from single mums are the best wa both parents ndo wanasumbua

Nice one😍....The next should be about sister in law aki

This was so educative,I’m a silent follower but i had to write something today.Continue with the same gear,much love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Hii kuna watu wameguswa mahali😂😂sijui kama mnanipata...ama wacha tu

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Just yesterday I was discussing this issue of in-laws with my husband and we were wondering why is it that in-laws have no room for forgiveness incase they err. Incase an inlaw makes mistake however small they are viewed differently from that time forever.

Wueeehh za inlaw I'll talk when I'm too old😅😅...is there a more bad word than toxic????

New sub amazing, amazing content ❤

i feel you have need to do more on toxic in laws more need to be spoken and consider bringing either a therapist on this issues

My favourite pika na raytch💕💕💕

The Best Team Good Vibes❤❤❤❤❤Lets learn hapo kwa competition naelewa sana

Me niliwapee bwanangu juu nilona kam a tunasindana na wao .Na juu hayuko kwa magirl friends ako kwa mama na sis zake sina shinda,who I am to separate them, na time ilenyingi tuko na yeye, stress free

Mi karibu nipeleke wangu citizen redio coz ilikuja ikiwa mixture of childishness

This is the best conversation.......am loving this channel

Rena is coming up well😂.. Good job and nice content Raych.

Best episode so educative❤❤

A new subscriber for my own personal reasons.....

Just loooove this gal Raych❤

Mine likes to argue. I never join those aurgements. I always give none commital answers to her.

I pity my hubby,my mum is super toxic...she wants to control every coin in our house...

Wueeee this topic its touching that ka point ya competition ya wife and mother in- law wueeeeeee it happened to me bt i solved it ilikua if something is brought in my house my mum in- law would come and want it to use it first imagine ikakua too much hdi viberiti just akuudhi so ikakua i told my husband anything that goes out of my house hyo ni yange and then go and buy mine wiiiiii alinunua akachoka until he decided we have to leave their home

But pia wives wakikuja pia hawataki ata Mathé ananunuliwe mchele😂😂aaai am tired

I had to download this akh😅😅😅😅

Part 2 pls

Aah Milka angekua hapa...but nice content

Good topic there

Talk to yourselves and your agemates too to be respective to your parents and siblings too

Weee me i need a seat ....I hosted three in laws ..1 sister in law and two bros ...mmoja alikuwa wakukam na kwenda but this two i stayed with them for 5yrs ......sema madharao...one day walipanga and sisters inlaw was telling me 'chukuwa watoto wako undee hapa hauna say' lemme tell you maina 😂😂😂😂😂since yy ni mschana in laws wake najuwa wanamfanyia press up coz nikizembe atajuwa hajui

I really love you guys ❤❤❤❤

I love this I just decided to live my life and do away with some things

What of the mother inlaw mwenye ansidaga kwa msichana wake mwenye ameolewa...alafu wana confuse huyo kijana wa wenyewe kushinda kwao akiwa njengea..akiwapeleka all over .aki dance with all of them including that mother..

❤❤❤aki raych unafanyanga nicheke every time you laugh

Nice topic ❤

Youve earned a new subscriber

There are people who get married with a preconceived mentality that the in-laws are not good. Somehow they actually become toxic.... Not the in-laws, wao wenyewe.

Richie is so funny🤣🤣🤣

I love you so much you have teacher me alot my dear friend more ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Mine were from heaven,sahi they are from hell

Amazing❤❤❤

my house was closed....i lived in my inlaws ....sahii natafta hata bedsittee...they are toxic nd narcicist😢

Love u guys nice topic

Awesome Content!