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@damariskaari8563 Жыл бұрын
Please raych will you bring a topic on toxic parents too it's something killing youth slowly
@everadesigns Жыл бұрын
am here
@teresiahnyokabi78 Жыл бұрын
MIMI kama mtu ni toxic I avoid you like a hot soup . Siwezi fumble na kusimp kwa watu hawanijui juu nimependana na kijana wao . My Mental health is very VALUABLE.
@wambuimachari1783 Жыл бұрын
I like that 😅
@josphinewambui7004 Жыл бұрын
I visited my in-laws for the first day with a big shopping and so tired they knew their son was coming home with his wife but I found them waiting for me to cook. I didn’t know but I overheard the mum telling Siz in law “ siachukue leso aingie kitchen apike “ I went and began to cook but I never felt home.. I stayed for 2 yrs without conceiving and the mum inlaw used to tell his son he lives with a fellow man. After giving birth to a bouncing baby girl and named after her, she never came to see the baby, I decided to take the kid during Christmas she told the son she won’t be home and I swallowed and left the son to go alone. The marriage could not work so after 8 yrs I left with my kid.. upto date the son hasn’t married, six years now I thought am the trouble maker but I realized later in life she had told her son am a curse because am an orphan.. I will keep sharing this story because I never wished my parents to die while I was barely 14yrs...😢😢😢😢😢😢
@salomewambuimwangi1907 Жыл бұрын
😭take heart it's not your fault
@salomewambuimwangi1907 Жыл бұрын
😭take heart it's not your fault
@josphinewambui7004 Жыл бұрын
@@salomewambuimwangi1907 Thanx darling
@emilymuthoni7022 Жыл бұрын
Be strong tuko wengi unajuwa nini kuna mungu mbinguni
@vincentndirangu8496 Жыл бұрын
Pole sana
@jenifamuia2286 Жыл бұрын
When it comes to inlaws I value my peace more than anything else.boundaries is the key to me.
@Glorianjeriofficial Жыл бұрын
Not only in-laws! We are also suffering in the hands of our toxic parents! It's very hard to address or even find a solution in this case😢
@annewangui6421 Жыл бұрын
And siblings too..
@melvismuthaka6997 Жыл бұрын
This one I relate
@wairimunimo9421 Жыл бұрын
Yeaaass too bad..
@faydeeomondi Жыл бұрын
Yes...😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@sonniekairu9644 Жыл бұрын
I relate too😂😂
@ABITOO1 Жыл бұрын
My opinion in marriage Kila mtu acheze game yake venye anataka ,juu family and wife it's hard to find a balance juu even if you love your relatives you can never marry them,na wife comes from another family with different values,naona Kila mtu achague venye anataka kuishi
@kuikagwi5240 Жыл бұрын
It has ever happened to us. When my husband went for my uthoni, my aunt said this after knowing what he gave "mtoto wetu kwani ananunuliwa kama kuku" meaning, alipeana doh kidogo according to her. My hubby didnt hear this and i will never tell him. But that thing hurt me and i always push my hubby further we try and be somewhere financially. I promise you guys that my next ruracio will be big. On the other hand, my in laws are never bothered about us. Av never met some of the sisters and they don't seem concerned. We put in a kasmall sherehe wakam tujuane and they never showed up either. I feel like they never wanted me in their family. They never even came to my uthoni which is my biggest pain. So the rivalries from both sides makes our marriage stronger. My husband always tells me, this is about us and not them. We move regardless.
@maryannkatunge2696 Жыл бұрын
assume you are in abroad no family its just you hubby and friends and life goes on.
@julietmwaniki4187 Жыл бұрын
My ex-mother-in-law broke the marriage with competition, false accusations, and abuses. She was forcing the son to neglect and abandon me and the daughter.
@lindamukami1503 Жыл бұрын
It's not easy kwanza when the husband is attached to his mum waah but I thank GOD I never disrespected her and GOD came through for us. Good topic .
@maryannewangu Жыл бұрын
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@Jenesm Жыл бұрын
Rena is coming up so well...very courageous now days
@princessm2893 Жыл бұрын
I think that is what Milly wajesus is facing now. I don’t know what happened to the beautiful relationship she had with her in-laws. But that’s life
@Nancy-yy2pn7 ай бұрын
Exactly true
@Nkathab Жыл бұрын
The inlaws are used to being treated in any way either positive or negative before you got married or being married to that family and now that you are in the picture nothing changes instead they try to keep up with the changes abd if you aren't wise ,henceforth you will have issues with them...and also depend on how you react to their changes..which now is where the problem starts
@janemunyoli232 Жыл бұрын
When it comes to inlaws my mother is the best thing that ever happened to me...the rest wakauke wakikaukanga😂
@missmuindi965 Жыл бұрын
It get's worse of you are married to their breadwinner...wueeh 🤦♀️
@annemonderi5558 Жыл бұрын
Wueeh
@joycenicodemus310 Жыл бұрын
Wuee mother in law alisema nmpishe mtoto wake atafute Hela saiv nikama nambana Dana so nihamie kwake
@missmuindi965 Жыл бұрын
@@joycenicodemus310 anasahau pia yeye aliolewa vile umeolewa.
@everadesigns Жыл бұрын
am in this category but when you love your husband they can't stop you just stay away from your toxic inlaws
@joycewamucii29028 ай бұрын
Weuuh
@rispermuchiri5544 Жыл бұрын
I think we need such discussion more offen ndio we save the upcoming couples
@Rouze1 Жыл бұрын
Its all about boundaries. I am glad the new generations are having these discussions.
@user-je8gf1pj7x Жыл бұрын
When you dealing with inlaw you need to find a healthy balance..... Speaking from experience if pick sides whatever side you pick kitakuramba..... Be tactful.😅
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
Wisdom
@MissJackie254 Жыл бұрын
Mental Health is of importance avoid them and put boundaries sio lazima mtembeleane.....
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
True
@teresiahmunga2308 Жыл бұрын
True
@a_missqueen Жыл бұрын
I grew up knowing that living with inlaws is not a big deal cz me myself l lived with my brother and his wife for over 10yrs so when l got married l was so happy to live with my husband siblings but kiliniramba...as l speak now l can't allow inlaw both from my side and hubby's side to stay in my house for more than a week. And before coming to my house l must be told before ufike ama utalala inje
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
Good move
@maureenmueni5835 Жыл бұрын
Once we were having a conversation about meat with my mum in law and some other guys. I randomly said " kama vile so as so anapenda nyama ya mbuzi" The lady countered me haraka sana akasema. "hapana huyo anapenda kuku" I repeated that he actually loves goat meat and she said "mimi ndio mamake, nawaambia anapenda kuku".. When she pulled that card of "mamake" my ancestors spoke to me and said "Moh this is where you shut your mouth" 🤣 🤣 I was left wondering, I am the one who lives with the man currently. You lived with him as a child. How are we arguing about his likings???!!
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
😂
@nimachomeanddecor6722 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@TheMwaisCircle Жыл бұрын
Wueeh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@puritywanjiku4261 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@maureengachema2297 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@barbralinnet14007 күн бұрын
I love how Rena mdosi is minding her ouw business very cool woman❤
@michellemasha28843 ай бұрын
Raych ongeza volume hapo kwa mother's letting their sons go. especially single mothers. wueeeh mimi nimekapitia juu ya hiyo mpaka nikaoa nimpee mama ya wenyewe distance. naenda kwao only when absolutely necessary
@elizabethmodani1414 Жыл бұрын
They are jealous because they feel you have taken their beneficial positions from their son kwanza akiwa breadwinner
@edelquinnosir3782 Жыл бұрын
Halafu kitu ingine awe the only son to that family,heh....me I was discussed with my sis inlaws eti nataka kuchukua Mali kijana wao ameachiwa 😂.But I noticed pia I welcomed them to my house and bcz they got a good hospitality ni kama walinizoea.Somthing I will never ever do again
@elizabethmodani1414 Жыл бұрын
@@edelquinnosir3782 woooi sorry kamum ...mm I keep distance from inlaws kabisa naji..involve tu where necessary I also learned my lessons the hard way
@MissKiki9 Жыл бұрын
Mimi i got married and we lived with my father in law from day 1,i will say it has been the worst experience of my life,so uncomfortable and made me feel like running away from my marriage,
@serah32 Жыл бұрын
I thank heavens for my in-laws apart from one, but the good within that family outweighs my disdain for her. I thank God that my mum in-law isn’t trying to compete with me. It didn’t start out like this but my husband SET the BOUNDARIES early in our marriage. I think that if he was one to please his mother I may have encountered some of these issues. MY ADVICE, Set clear BOUNDARIES early on in the relationship.
@wanjiruolive11 ай бұрын
It's not wise to tell your family members like mothers your problems lol very unwise you make them view your partners in a different cause now your secrets are exposed.....its better to talk to a safe friend ama a therapist your mum will go telling her friends and other family things you've told them you expose your family way too much cause hamkai kama mnaweza solve vitu
@hannahgitau1664 Жыл бұрын
Raych and brown lady very wise.. other two are just cool listening
@davidmwaniki637623 күн бұрын
when you take your wife for a vacation then your mum knows it,mmoja wenu ajifunze kunyamaza,and then give your parents the best medicare cause they treated you well
@janenjoki8308 Жыл бұрын
Mother inlaw always jealous she knows well why she does that
@Kate_Janet_Ogalo Жыл бұрын
Wacha tu niseme wueeeh😆😆😆 mimi distance inani saidia kwa in-laws
@emmslarry Жыл бұрын
Always mature conversation
@patriciakamara8906 Жыл бұрын
Ugandans with the good English. The lady in green introduced herself and I could tell she has a Ugandan background. I am here for it ❤
@MachanuleIvan Жыл бұрын
real conversations 100% 🔥
@agushthuo3578 Жыл бұрын
Boundaries is key.
@alicemuthoni9797 Жыл бұрын
wenye tuko single ,,hopefully well noted, ✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️
@sheillahsanau1189 Жыл бұрын
I support Kaymo hizi episode zenye si za kupika tupee jina kama Maskani with Raych 😂❤❤i enjoyed this episode
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
Nice one
@mariamohammed6367 Жыл бұрын
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR SISTERS AND BROTHERS IN LAWS, BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY ARE AGAINST YOU AND YOUR AGAINST THEM. I LOVED YOUR DISCUSSION
@graceldawakio54 Жыл бұрын
My Asha always with the wisest of words❤
@Gr9814 Жыл бұрын
I love this channel and your wisdom. One suggestion i have pls musijibu watu vibaya kwa comments, kuweni wapole and speak nicely when replying to a comment. God bless you guys.
@margaretm5070 Жыл бұрын
A son is mother’s first love hence why the competition between the wife and MI
@florencemalamu6960 Жыл бұрын
Hapo kwa single mother NO!
@lydiahkakushworld7653 Жыл бұрын
For inlaws it is a sensitive topic I choose to keep my space and keep my line no interaction greatings period. I learned through experience that was an eye opener. My take home is wisdom is key when dealing with inlaws.
@annieykiarii3133 Жыл бұрын
This is what finished my marriage
@serahngima265 Жыл бұрын
Mimi niko na experience where bro alioa bt bibi yake alikuwa anaona mama yetu kama matope...hakumtambua hata kidogo hadi akafanya bro aanze kuchukia mathe bt mimi juu niko well off wanataka tuwe close hadi mamake kunikopa hadi pesa until last year i decided to cut them off pia
@reenwambua9878 Жыл бұрын
Mimi ni distance unisaidia tena sana.
@tiberiusmaiko743 Жыл бұрын
The fact is your mother will always remain your mom she won't leave you no matter what but be wise when dealing with mother in law
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
True story
@Wgacheru Жыл бұрын
Vile mum in-law na fathe hawananga story. Ni siku Moja tu alinambia before niolewe alikua anaitisha 10k anatumiwa 20k otherwise hatujai kosana
@nyaxjosh Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂ulikuja kumpunguzia budget yake
@SECRETOFLAURA Жыл бұрын
Best episode so educating ❤❤
@TheMwaisCircle Жыл бұрын
Ukiona ii kikosi pamoja unajua tu Mushene is about to be liiiit 🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@damarlswanjlru6935 Жыл бұрын
Hamkuambia kina pekeeys kwanini 😢napenda vibes zao ❤nawapenda nyinyi wooooteeee❤❤❤❤❤❤
@sharonkanana6478 Жыл бұрын
Nakwambia Rych huwa haogopi
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
@@damarlswanjlru6935 Quote of the day: To succeed, jump as quickly at opportunities as you do at conclusions.
@marywairimumuthoni64307 ай бұрын
Mother inlaw some are the worst human being imagine umeenda ocha the first day, mother inlaw anenda kwa butcher anasema nikatie nyama Niko na watu wamekuja kujipendekeza
@margaretmutuku21597 ай бұрын
Hio ndio sababu hio shagz Mimi huwa na fika , n nyama yangu , tissue, soap hata karibu Nike n choo yangu😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@rahab1918 Жыл бұрын
I feel like mlikua mnaogopa kuongea not to hurt your partners
@githinjigee Жыл бұрын
I agree esp where Raych where was giving her experience with some of her inlaws, they edited that out haikuisha. But it was a great convo all the same
@marywamuyu4418 Жыл бұрын
Noticed the same.
@amputeeinfluencer Жыл бұрын
Ni ukweli. It's not an easy conversation. I wish they shared the worst experiences they've had of their friends.
@malumbombezuma2482 Жыл бұрын
It's funny how our men tell us to relax, not to overwork ourself etc.... But then when we finally learn to relax, they get irritated kkkkk
@dynahgakii9699 Жыл бұрын
raych God bless you.. you are too wise❤❤❤
@gmaverinepatrick4143 Жыл бұрын
The talk is one of the best aki
@wahinyaserah9081 Жыл бұрын
That was Great .... insightful!
@claremenywa2139 Жыл бұрын
This is so educational....nipitieni guys
@didos160 Жыл бұрын
As for me I don't think my dad has accepted that am married, he invites me for lunch most days when am not busy 😢😢though I miss him too since he was my best friend ❤
@philomenanjenga8906 Жыл бұрын
boys from single mums are the best wa both parents ndo wanasumbua
@puritynjenga7001 Жыл бұрын
They are good if they have been raised well🥰
@rahabkimani2583 Жыл бұрын
Nice one😍....The next should be about sister in law aki
@shilamichaels9378 Жыл бұрын
This was so educative,I’m a silent follower but i had to write something today.Continue with the same gear,much love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@fladinakawira5404 Жыл бұрын
Hii kuna watu wameguswa mahali😂😂sijui kama mnanipata...ama wacha tu
@faithnjeru-dr4es Жыл бұрын
Hehehe ile ya my biolojikol😮
@rukiambesa4337 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅Mbiolongical
@puritykarani5137 Жыл бұрын
@@faithnjeru-dr4es😂😂😂😂
@Famous-Neighbour Жыл бұрын
Nipitieni nifike ata 1K THE FAMOUS NEIGHBOUR KZfaq CHANNEL
@theheavenlyminded1100 Жыл бұрын
Just yesterday I was discussing this issue of in-laws with my husband and we were wondering why is it that in-laws have no room for forgiveness incase they err. Incase an inlaw makes mistake however small they are viewed differently from that time forever.
@Sashellray Жыл бұрын
Wueeehh za inlaw I'll talk when I'm too old😅😅...is there a more bad word than toxic????
@beingannie9516 Жыл бұрын
New sub amazing, amazing content ❤
@doreenmumbi6635 Жыл бұрын
i feel you have need to do more on toxic in laws more need to be spoken and consider bringing either a therapist on this issues
@judywanja2512 Жыл бұрын
My favourite pika na raytch💕💕💕
@Sallykamum Жыл бұрын
The Best Team Good Vibes❤❤❤❤❤Lets learn hapo kwa competition naelewa sana
@polinewaruguru Жыл бұрын
Me niliwapee bwanangu juu nilona kam a tunasindana na wao .Na juu hayuko kwa magirl friends ako kwa mama na sis zake sina shinda,who I am to separate them, na time ilenyingi tuko na yeye, stress free
@monicaedukon8888 Жыл бұрын
Mi karibu nipeleke wangu citizen redio coz ilikuja ikiwa mixture of childishness
@icequeen86007 ай бұрын
This is the best conversation.......am loving this channel
@estherwanjiku145 Жыл бұрын
Rena is coming up well😂.. Good job and nice content Raych.
@feliekamara3308 Жыл бұрын
Best episode so educative❤❤
@g.w.s8585 Жыл бұрын
A new subscriber for my own personal reasons.....
@sarahnjoki Жыл бұрын
Just loooove this gal Raych❤
@mzuribeauty42873 ай бұрын
Mine likes to argue. I never join those aurgements. I always give none commital answers to her.
@Cikukagz7 ай бұрын
I pity my hubby,my mum is super toxic...she wants to control every coin in our house...
@ellie756777 ай бұрын
If u living together with yo mom just find a place for yoselves n u thrive in yo marriage ....toxicity is so draining so it's better to be far from the implicators no matter who they are in our lives
@puritywanjiku4261 Жыл бұрын
Wueeee this topic its touching that ka point ya competition ya wife and mother in- law wueeeeeee it happened to me bt i solved it ilikua if something is brought in my house my mum in- law would come and want it to use it first imagine ikakua too much hdi viberiti just akuudhi so ikakua i told my husband anything that goes out of my house hyo ni yange and then go and buy mine wiiiiii alinunua akachoka until he decided we have to leave their home
@fraciahmwihaki3151 Жыл бұрын
Same wozzap..ilibidi tumeleft
@marykanyo62110 ай бұрын
Aki pia unga ya uji alikua anakuja kuchota na Niko bed wheeh mambo ni mingi
@Iam_kawiraah Жыл бұрын
But pia wives wakikuja pia hawataki ata Mathé ananunuliwe mchele😂😂aaai am tired
@malkiaaggie2837 Жыл бұрын
I had to download this akh😅😅😅😅
@charitycharity58832 ай бұрын
Part 2 pls
@aymar47 Жыл бұрын
Aah Milka angekua hapa...but nice content
@AliceDiscoveriesKenya Жыл бұрын
Good topic there
@beatricewangari1801 Жыл бұрын
Talk to yourselves and your agemates too to be respective to your parents and siblings too
@slyviahWambui1779 Жыл бұрын
Weee me i need a seat ....I hosted three in laws ..1 sister in law and two bros ...mmoja alikuwa wakukam na kwenda but this two i stayed with them for 5yrs ......sema madharao...one day walipanga and sisters inlaw was telling me 'chukuwa watoto wako undee hapa hauna say' lemme tell you maina 😂😂😂😂😂since yy ni mschana in laws wake najuwa wanamfanyia press up coz nikizembe atajuwa hajui
@PIKANARAYCH Жыл бұрын
Utoke Kwako? 🤣🤣🤣
@roziegachau602 Жыл бұрын
I really love you guys ❤❤❤❤
@user-xf6pp8qc7r Жыл бұрын
I love this I just decided to live my life and do away with some things
@celinepaul84 Жыл бұрын
Nnnkloljiiiill
@wambuilucy8100 Жыл бұрын
What of the mother inlaw mwenye ansidaga kwa msichana wake mwenye ameolewa...alafu wana confuse huyo kijana wa wenyewe kushinda kwao akiwa njengea..akiwapeleka all over .aki dance with all of them including that mother..
@mourinekaimuri199 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂hello raav😂😂
@puritykarani5137 Жыл бұрын
@@mourinekaimuri199aaah raav 😂😂😂😂😂
@candiceranza1513 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@joycegitau168 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤aki raych unafanyanga nicheke every time you laugh
@marywathithi8817 Жыл бұрын
Nice topic ❤
@eldabettanabucha9130 Жыл бұрын
Youve earned a new subscriber
@KidjoK Жыл бұрын
There are people who get married with a preconceived mentality that the in-laws are not good. Somehow they actually become toxic.... Not the in-laws, wao wenyewe.
@missngai6135 Жыл бұрын
Richie is so funny🤣🤣🤣
@winskitchen.6027 ай бұрын
Always😅😅😅
@Faith-jr3uf7 ай бұрын
I love you so much you have teacher me alot my dear friend more ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@judynjeri8120 Жыл бұрын
Mine were from heaven,sahi they are from hell
@kennedymwiti1169 Жыл бұрын
Amazing❤❤❤
@eveishawna7934 Жыл бұрын
my house was closed....i lived in my inlaws ....sahii natafta hata bedsittee...they are toxic nd narcicist😢
@winskitchen.6027 ай бұрын
Ghai😢😢
@eveishawna79347 ай бұрын
@@winskitchen.602 God has come through fr me....I'm now in a one bedroom....
@winskitchen.6027 ай бұрын
@@eveishawna7934, Allamdhulilah
@Edgybhthjklew19 күн бұрын
@@eveishawna7934And what did your husband said about it aki