What this man is saying that if not for the plastic surgery he would have gone to Laos. Ladies if a man truly love you for who you are, he would not turn you into a doll.

Maybe I missed something...I noticed most of the comments are criticizing the husband for being shallow. I thought his message was to help, love and pamper your wife whenever necessary instead of seeking another women. Plus, his own wife was the one that insisted on the surgeries. I think he's saying, a man should use his money on his wife instead of wasting it on another women.

Why do these Hmong men talk like they stay slim,full of hair and stay strong the same as when they were young. Men must not look at themselves in the mirrors ever. We women don't do that to our husband as we get older..only men do. Learn to love your mate unconditionally as you get older

Men; notice how everything is always "me" even when you're doing something for her but in actuality it is for him . Just my opinion.

Koj ua yog lawm o koj txawj hlub Koj tus poj Niam nws thiaj li zoo nkauj

Koj kom koj tus niam tsev kho nws tus kheej kom zoo nkauj rau koj yog li no koj yuav tau mus kho kom koj tus kwv loj2 nws thiaj g xav mus sim cov txiv neej sab nrauv vim Yog nws zoo nkauj npaum koj hais nws yuav nrog koj nyob g ntev os tus me txiv tsev, I believe in making myself beautiful for my husband but what you did I beyond the rainbow, Not healthy when you have to keep fixing it

Hmong women- please don’t do plastic surgery just for your husband to love you more. It is not fair for any woman especially Hmong woman . If he loves you regardless how you look after birthing his kids he should still love you that’s a true love. Plastic surgery is only a temporary beauty and it will fade away as you age and so if he loves you because of your plastic surgeries, oh boy! That means you are going to keep doing plastic surgery for the rest of your life to obtain his love in you? Forget it!!! This title isn’t suitable for this man’s description. This isn’t a true love in their marriage. It seems like this woman has no option in her marriage because he makes all the options in their marriage. Sorry for you guy!

What about healthy eating and regular exercise? Plastic surgery is not the answer to lasting beauty and happiness.

Ua tsaug rau tus nus no koj tau qhia peb cov txiv neej hmoob kom lawv tos taub yog vim li cas peb cov poj niam thiaj li yuav ua tau zoo nkauj vim cov txiv neej yuav tsum tau pab peb thiab

Yog lawm xav kom peb cov txiv tsev hmoob nkag siab peb cov poj niam li koj xwb os zoo siab nrog koj tu poj niam uas tau ib tug txiv zoo2 thiab nkag siab hlub poj niam li koj os

Tsis hais txiv neej kuv twb nyiam kom yus cob xub Zoo nkauj thiab

txawm zoo nkauj los yog tsis txawj ua hauj lwm hauv txaj ces txiv neej yeej yuav nrhiav kev tawm mus ua lub liam xwb os. Heheheh.

Cas muaj ntau tus neeg yuav hais li... thaub no os. Nyias muaj nyias kev xav na, txoj kev xav no los yeej zoo kawg rau tiam tshiab no mas. Ua dab tsi, yam twg los yeej muaj qhov zoo qhov phem od

These small minded men, all they think about is how their wife looks throughout life. Don’t waste your breath to tell stories of small minded people. It’s called nature and the cycle of life. Life is not based on looks in the long run. It’s how you lived and loved in your life and if you completed your purpose. Men always think they are perfect but there are so many things we’d like as our dream guy too - muscles, wide shoulders, head of hair, solid abs, tall, great personality, funny, has money...can they fix any of that? Beauty is not only physical but it’s who you are as a person.

I applaud you for speaking the truth about the majority of men's mind. Your look is what attracts the eyes first. Your inner beauty comes second. It's sad but true.

Txoj kev hlub tsis yog hlub thaum zoo nkauj xwb !!!! Tsis thas yuav coj poj niam mus txua , kho li ????? Yus yuav tsum hlub tiag 2 ,mas thiaj li yog pob. Coj koj tus me kwv ntxawg mus rau dr txua thiab ho pab tshuaj tawv nruj rau koj ntxiv nawb.

When you really love someone. That person doesn’t need to do all that plastic surgery to please you. You should love all of her wrinkles and fat. That’s real love ❤️

Koj hais yog kawg tab si txhua2 tus poj niam lub siab tsis xav ib yam niaj hnub no cov poj niam khiav mus yuav khej dub yuav lwm haiv neeg thiab cov txiv neeg txawv teb chaws twb yog tib cov poj niam zoo nkauj nkaus xwb thiab cov txij nkawm sib2 tua nyob rau nej teb chaws meska teb twb yog cov poj niam zoo2 nkauj nkaus xwb os

Don’t know why y’all criticizing this guy. He’s encouraging his wife to look good for herself and himself. At least he didn’t leave her because her body naturally changed due to pregnancy and age. Plus, he took care of her postpartum and during her surgery recovery stage. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Men should learn from this guy.

Zaj neej neeg no ca tus txiv tsev yuav txawj xav thiab hlub tus nyiam tsev. Nrog neb zoo siab

People, these two deserve each other. Shallow is shallow does. Don't be giving advice to anyone.

Omg, women shouldn't have to go under the knife just to keep their husbands. How disappointing. This dude said if his wife isn't pretty and have a hot body, he would have cheated on her. How superficial are u? Don't claim that u really love her when u only love her beauty.

Zoo nkauj nruab thiab g yog cov mus hlais. Peb cov poj niam los yeej yiam cov zoo nraug siab hais lus zoo. Cov qig2 taub peb g nyiam ib yam hos cov pob2 txha los peb g nyiam ib yam

Take care of yourself ladies in a natural way. Plastic surgery is only good atm, its good now, but every 20 years when you have to replace the implants, it gets more and more complicated. They don't think of this. By the time you 65, Depending on your health at this time.. high blood pressure, sugar levels etc.. you either have another implant or strip it off and you have no breast like a man.

Koj hai yog tshaj plaw li os mog

As a pair wife and husband, no matter how each may looks in the future, we should love and appreciate each other. No need to change with plastic surgery we should still love and respect our wife for how they look.

Koj zoo nkauj heev..niam ntsuab teev..in this picture..

Women are beautiful regardless of their shape and size. This dude set such a horrible example for his daughters and his nyab. Looks is not everything. Love should be unconditional not fake plastic surgeries.

I think it’s great that you want your wife to look beautiful but I hope you keep up your looks too! She better not be all slim and beautiful but you having a beer belly with wrinkles!

Koj yog 1 tug txiv tsev zoo tshaj plaws li. Koj yeej hais yog kawg lawm os. Koj tus poj niam muaj mhoo heev li. Yog cov txiv tsev txhua tus coj li koj xwb ces lub ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj los kua muag iab kua muag daw ua luaj no os mog. 1 txhia poj niam los yeej muaj2 plhus es pheej tos luag lawb taj laj tag mam mus teeb khoom thiab ces nyuam qhuav ntxim thiab tiam sis feem ntau yeej yog cov uas tus txiv tsis pab ntau xwb. Zoo Siab uas tseem muaj tej tug txiv tsev zoo2 li no thiab.

Kuv tus me poj niam yeej zoo2 nkauj thaum hluas. Qhov tseeb tshaj ntawm yus 2 niam txiv, thov txhob ntxeev siab, mus nrog 1 tus ntxwg nyoog uas npaj siab phem rhuav lwm tus lub neej zoo2. Kuv txaus siab rau tus niam nkauj txhav qaib thiaj yog ntawv nyiaj keeb puaj txwm 1 txhis raug. Txawm yog muaj yam tsis zoo los raug nws 1 yam li plab txaij thiab zais los twb yog yus hlub2 nws thiaj muaj zoo li. Nws yeej yog tus kuv ntshaw2 thaum I. Thov sib hlub mog kwv tij Hmoob. Txhob mloog ntxwg thiab yesxus txoj kev rhuav tshem yus daim ntawv nyiaj keeb puaj txwm. Thov txim ntau2 ntawm 1 tsoom kwv tij Hmoob txhob nkag siab yuam kev mog. Vim kuv xav kom sawv daws muaj kev zoo siab. Thov ua siab ntev2 sib kho kom zoo, txhob tuag g muaj ntxa rau yus cov me nyuam mog Hmoob.

Ua cas koj yuav zoo nkauj thiab hais lus tshaj lij ua luaj li os me ntxhais.

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Tus txiv tsev no ma siab zoo kawg

Kuv nyiam ib tug txiv nkag siab poj niam li koj kawg

Tus aib txiv tsev no mas yog ib tug neeg khij xuaj heev nawb !!!! Nws tsuas yog paub luag thaum zoo nkauj xwb, luag tej laus tuaj ces tseem yuav fav xeeb tias tsis haib. Yus yog neeg zoo, hlub luag mas txawm yuav zoo li cas los yuav tsum hlub hos, tsis thas yuav tuaj qhia li os

Beauty is subjective. Whatever is beautiful to you is considered ugly for others. Look good for yourself, don't bother trying to look good for other people bc there are a lot of ungrateful people out there.

THIS GUY IS SO SHALLOW AND SELF SERVING. ITS ALL ABOUT HIM AND HER HAPPINESS IS ALL ABOUT HIS HAPPINESS. This guy needs to know that happiness is more than SKIN DEEP.

Koj yuav kho npaum li cas los yeej tsis kav, tsis ntev ces yuav lwj yuav puas thaum ntawd koj haj yam yuav nyuaj siab tuaj. Qhov yuav kav yog koj lub hlwb, txoj kev xav, thiab koj lub siab. You just need to learn how to accept the reality of aging...learn how to love your wife unconditionally es yav laus luag thiaj hlub thiab tu koj. Eat healthy and take care of self for personal hygiene are important.

Poj niam zoo nkauj, txiv neej zoonraug leej twg los yeej nyiam yog muaj siab ntshaw ua xav kho kom zoo nkauj zoo nraug los kav tsij ua kom tau raws li lub siab ntsaw mog muaj mob los yog yus txoj hmoo xwb

Beauty is what lies within her heart, not her look!!! Look will fades, a beautiful heart will always stays beautiful forever.

This is their life story. If that's what they both like hey that's all good. Gotta take care of your spouse and also take care of yourself.

Tu txiv neej hais zaj dab neeg no mass yuav txiav kom cov koj niam lim him rau cov txiv xwb os

Don't be full of yourself about your wife's beauty cause sometime when a woman is beautiful she will cheat on you. Cause of her beauty she will feel confident and think she's all that and will look forward to other men

Koj tus pojniam yuav tsum zooNkauj es koj mam hlub... qhov tseeb, koj tsis hlub tiag2 os.

Cas yuav khav theeb ua luaj li os thaub old man 👴

Such a wasted time story. I love my wife the nature way, not plastic surgery. Feel sorry for those women such as the wife on this story who HAVE to go EXTRA miles such countless times to put makeup, painful plastic surgeries just to satisfy her man or men.

I can relate to ths story. I hve t had any plastic surgeries but kuv tus txiv yeej zoo li tus brother no xav thiab yus yeej yuav tau ua zoo zoo nkauj mas nrog nws mus ub mus no ib yam

Haig tau yog tiag2 li o njam laug aw pek ủa neej nyok leej twg log yeej xav kom yug zoo nkauj xwk o

Kuv ntseeg tias kuv pojniam tseem haib tshaj koj tus 2 3 npaug vim kuv tus tsis muaj plastic surgery li...Kuv pojniam wb twb muaj 7 tug me nyuam lawm na.

Poj niam txhua Yeej zoo Nkauj nyob ntawm yus txw > Poj niam lub PAJ hmo ntuj yog koj txawj siv.

Yog koj hlub hlub nws mas nws zoo li poj ntxoog los koj yeej hlub es thiaj yog hlub pob hihi

Wife is 44 and already went through so many surgeries to stay pretty. What's going to happen as she gets older and older and plastic surgery can no longer fix? Nothing is more beautiful than what nature gave us and growing old gracefully!

No thank you I'm happy with my body ☺ 😌 God get to me I have six kids too I want to stay healthy when I get old

Hello May. I love your stories and in my opinion you are the best story teller ever.. Please before beginning the story could you give us the title because my hmong's reading is really bad.... i can understand it but reading is really complicated for me. Thank you so much.. a big fan from France 😘😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰

Ntshai tsam lwm hnub laus tsis muaj neeg tu xwb. Ib txhia txiv neej thaum hluas mas xav kom tus poj niam zoo nkauj tiam sis thaum laus ces lawv yeej tsis hlub thiab xav tu.thaum mob laug mam xav txog lig. Yog koj hlub koj tus poj niam tiag koj yeej tsis muaj txoj kev tib nws. Txiv neej yog nws tib nws tus poj niam ces yog txiv neej phem xwb. Cov txiv neej lawv pheej kom peb poj niam mus kho peb ua cas lawv tsis kho lawv thiab ne. Lawv los kuj puam tsuaj tag lawm thiab. Kav tsij pab kho koj tus poj niam rau lwm tus hlub thiab tsam tsis muaj koj lawv ces tsis muaj txiv neej pab hlub thiab

Kuv ces tshaw ib tug txiv tsev li koj thiab mog

Kwvtij, muaj ntau yam peb yog txiv neej peb khua pab kom peb Hmoob lub neej zoo, koj ces tsuas kham kho koj tus pojniam lub cev zoo nkauj xwb. Khav tej yam muaj nuj nqi, txhob khav khav pojniam zoo nkauj, los yog txiv zoo nraug. Paub txaj muag thiab os Hmoob.

Koj hais tau zoo heev

Kheev lam vaj tswv Yawm saub tsim kom muaj cov Txiv neej li koj kom coob me ntsis los pab hlub cov poj Niam tsis muaj neeg hlub xwb.

He should be a plastic surgeon because he seem to be obsessed with beauty.

Koj yog ib tug txiv tsev zoo kawg tiam sis koj muab qhov zoo nkauj saib loj nrhau heev lawm. Yog yus hlub ib tug tib neeg lawm ces nws txawm zoo li cas los yus yeej yuav hlub. Es koj twb laus lawm thiab... yog koj tus poj niam kom koj ua surgery es koj puas kam ua mas?

Yes ladies! Take care of yourself! Don't let yourselves go!

Hnub nyoog laus lawm ces leej twg los yeej tsis zoo nkauj lawm Qhov ntsaw tsaj plaws ces tsis xav kom txawj muaj mob li

Yog yuav npav lub kho xwb ce neb kav tsij mu kho peb tsi khos os

Tej zaum koj vwm loj heev lawm os Kwv tij..laus lawm ces kawg yuav phem tuaj lawm xwb..yog neb tsis txawj laus li no ces hais li koj hais ntawm ko kuj yog thiab mas kwv tij

Tiam no e yu po mj zoo li no

Kuv thov qhuas koj os tus nus kuv hnov niam ntsuab teev tham txog neb lub neej mas koj yog tus txiv neej hmoob uas xav tau zoo thiab coj zoo thiab hlub koj tus poj niam heev es kuv qhuas koj os tus nus aw.

Peb cov txiv neej thaum tawm rooj plaws mas tham lus zoo npaum vaj tswv hais rau noob neej tab si poj niam nyob tom tsev mas poj niam kua muag poob yam dej ntws kuj zoo rau muaj cov txiv neej txawj2 hais lus li koj los ua credits rau cov txiv neej thiab

Love comes in all forms, but true love only exists in those who truly love you for who you really are. If the lady should happen to lose one or two of her arms or legs, would he still truly love her? The beauty that stays within will always be the heart. (Just an example, not trying to curse) It's a nice story, but I still wouldn't marry a man like this. This is just in my opinion only.

yog koj.hais yog.lawm yus xav tau poj niam.zoo nkauj.yus yuav tsum tu yus tus xwb.txhob.mus ntsia tus sab nraud

Kj yog tu txiv tsev zoo heev li od

Tus txiv tsev zaj neej neeg no yog ib tug txiv zoo lawm os txiv neej cov zoo zoo li no

Hais tau zoo heev li sib pab nawb

Koj mas thiaj yog ib tug txiv tsev siab zoo heev li os nrog koj tus niam zoo siab tau ib tug txiv txawj2 xav hlub2 poj niam kawg li

Haha cov txiv neej hmoob uas nyiam zuaj mis yas os you are absolutely crazy, poj niam zoo nkauj tsis yog coj mus ua nawb, yug los li cas yuav li ntawv nawb ua mis yas ib ntus xwb mon cancer lawm nawb ib cov mis yas twb tuag tag lawm

Vuag, kuv poob qab lawm dej heev.. tsis muaj lub nco tias yuav tha tshuaj li os. Nrhiav npluas noj npluas haus xwb. I believe love is not about looks. Especially after so many years and so many children together, let alone the male also age as well. And yes, the new dish is always better.

Am I suppose to applaud this guy? It's sad that you could not love your wife the way she is, the real her, not the fake her... Really? About how nasty your wife's nails and toes are, that just tells me she's lazy and doesn't care much for yourself. It's a waste on money if she continues not to stay in shape but just wait till next needed surgery. I laugh at this story.

I am blessed to have my wonderful husband ❤️

What a guy try to get all credit haha

Cas es lawv pheej yuav muab peb cov poj hlais npaum ub npaum no thiab pheej yuav kom yuag xwb thiab hlub es ua cas lawv twb rog2 zais2 plab thiab es lawv ho tsis hlais lawv thiab. Hlub tiag tsis zoo li cas los yeej hlub tsis need mus hlais. Puas li no xwb ces txhais tau tias nws los yeej pauv tsis ntxiv cov txiv tsev phem to thiab.

Koj kho nws koj twb tsis kho koj ces thaum kawg kawg pab tsis tau

I seriously don't think I can marry a guy like him. Don't he know how hard it is to put makeup on every day?.. lol

Tus txiv tsev Aw... kav tsij coj mus kho kom zoo2 nkauj npaum tus yug dua tshiab lwm hnub muaj mob koj mam tu txhob cem koj thiaj paub ...

Thaub ruam aw zoo zoo nkauj es ua li cas ho mus tw ub tw no naw. Cov zoo zoo nkauj zoo forever tsis need mus tw li os

Poj niam ces, yog leej twg xub muab nws tsuav ntsuag ces tus ntawv yeej 2 xwb.

Poj niam tsis zoo nkauj ces koj txawm tsis hlub ntag vuag koj siab zoo tiagtiag yom hwj hwj

Peb cov pojniam thiab cov mi ntxhais na, ua ntej yuav mus yuav ib tug thaub twg, paub kom meej ua ntej nawb. Yog thaub tsuas ntshaw nej zoo nkauj xwb ces seb nej puas ntshaw mi nyuam. Yog nej yuav xav tau mi nyuam ces tsis thas tham tsis thas yuav thaub li, vim yug mi nyuam ces kawg piam. Yog thaub yuav ntshaw me nyuam ces nws yuav tsum tsis ntshaw nej kom zoo cuag roj hmab barbie doll txog hnub tuag mas mam tham mam yuav nws. Tsis li ces seb nej puas yeem raug hlais thawm niaj thawm xyoo tsuav tuav tau thaub tsis mus nplog teb or nrhiav doll tshiab?

Zoo mloog heev lis os sister awesome thanks you for sharing

This man is correct. You women in here admit to yourself you want the same as what his wife got. Beauty is what all men wants. So be nice to this guy who’s telling the truth. I respect what you said in your story

Yeah one day she will cheating on you man txhob qhua2 ma los tos nyob twg nws nrog 120 nyoo Tso ma koj muab qhua dhau lawm pb

Haib ua luaj li

Peb ib txhia poj niam tsi yog tag nrho nyiam2 cev yiag txias nyiam zoo nkauj nyob ntawm tej tug poj niam txawm tus txiv kom ua zoo2 nkauj no los poj niam tsi kam ua zoo nkauj tab mas ntawm kuv nav...kuv ntshaw2 zoo nkauj txawv yuav ua tag nyob 3 hnub tuag lawm los yeej txaus siab rau qhov yus zoo nkauj kuv yug los ua ib zaug neeg xwb kuv ntshaw2 zoo nkauj

Glad he fixed his instead of aimed on other women out there.

From what I’ve seen in comment section: when the lecturer gets lectured 😂 By all means, you better look good like a mes nraug suav if you preach about how your significant other who is willing to go under the knife for you to make you proud. I’ve seen nothing wrong with plastic surgery but I think it’s time for you to promote a healthy lifestyle for you and your wife. Y’all both sound insecure. I’ve met Hmong women with body dysmorphia before and it ain’t a cute look on anyone bc they become ugly with all the work they have done and they lose everything after their men leaves them for someone younger and “hotter”.

This man his major issues! I would hate to have a husband like him, constant criticizing my looks! No one wants to wear makeup everyday! Women are self conscious enough already, we definitely don’t need our partner to criticize us on a daily basis. I actually feel sorry for his wife!

Thov qhua thb os

Cas yuav khav koj tus poj niam uas luaj li ho yav laus ces yuav lo uas hmob rau koj tus ho mog

pab koj tus me niam tsev zoo siab uas tau ib leej zoo tub roog uas txawj xav pab tej tab zag li ko. tsi zoo li ib cov txiv neej es tab txawm nyob tuav Remote control es flips channel to channel tos tab zag ua tau zaun mov ces mam los noj, noj tag rov mus zaum khaum ko taw tsi nco txog tias nws leej tab zag tsi yog lub machinists es tsi paub sab nws thiaj txawj sab xwb. cov txiv zoo li no yeej tseem muaj coob nawb. 😞😞☹️☹️

Glad this husband pamper his wife. As long as they love each other and accept each other. They aren't cheating on each other. He may be shallow. But... the wife is ok with it. And she wanted to do the surgeries. And he took care of her through it all. To each their own on this subject.