Polygamy in Africa vs America - Francis Ngannou Explains

Polygamy in Africa vs America - Francis Ngannou Explains | CLUB SHAY SHAY

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“Polygamy in Africa for men was a responsibility. It wasn’t to have fun.” - Francis Ngannou
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@rivaldomacbean4203 6 ай бұрын

This needs to go viral. Because a lot of men want polygamy and use africa as an excuse but don't know the truth.

@analyticalmindset 6 ай бұрын

Because they don't know our culture

@Globalsouthlander 6 ай бұрын

You can fit the US, China, India and western europe into africa and still have space. We speak more languages than the rest rest of world combined, a country like Chad has more genetic diversity than the rest of the world (combined), in some of the smallest countries in the world like Rwanda, you have the tallest people in the world (tutsi/nilotes), the strongest and most resilient people in the world (hutus/bantu) which is probably the case of both Francis and Shannon, and the shortest people in world (Twa/pigmies). Africa is too diverse to understand. But about family responsibility, he is spot on. Your wedding is not about you, it's a family union.

@rasheeddavis2938 6 ай бұрын

Africa is a whole continent with tons of different cultures

@Gkrissy 6 ай бұрын

Facts. First thing he mention is energy. And later on to build community, it is not about selfish motives. I saw all the time some guys desire it but can’t take care of multiple women.

@jimmygarrett9887 6 ай бұрын

The truth is the ratio of women to men is substantial. that's why men have always been obligated to take care of more than one woman.

@DJYTLCapital-nf6px 6 ай бұрын

The main point is responsibility to the community as a man. Something we’re definitely struggling with in America

@bohwe43 6 ай бұрын

I don't think Unc question was from a place of malice or anything negative he was asking a question in a light-hearted manner.

@jimbojimbo6873 6 ай бұрын

This is nonsense

@koryburdet1317 5 ай бұрын

Your a 🤡

@philipquist771 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for explaining to them that polygamy in Africa isn't what they think

@frenchiesfrenchies2979 6 ай бұрын

It can be but occidental people only think about sexe they cheat a lot and have no moral polygamy is only for real man not the fake man who only think with what they have between there legs

@TshumuKokgalagadi 6 ай бұрын

Which part of Africa?

@sindanonegongo1199 6 ай бұрын

In Cameroon.

@waitin4thateeeeeeeg 6 ай бұрын

@@TshumuKokgalagadi Also in Uganda. Is it different where you are from?

@michellekabanga3612 5 ай бұрын

Kongo as well it is all responsibily

@taf7ylandy913 6 ай бұрын

Finally a brother with sense and understanding of polygamy.

@myronbourne6937 5 ай бұрын

He said nothing that wasn't common sense

@taf7ylandy913 5 ай бұрын

@@myronbourne6937 sense is not common lately

@TristanMiller88 6 ай бұрын

The Way He Explained It... I Only Need 1 Wife 😂😂😂😂

@jonathanandrade8045 6 ай бұрын

No lie! 😂🥴🥴

@planetStreeter 6 ай бұрын

Ain't nobody need to explain it to me. I've been dealing with women romantically for awhile from all walks of life. I've learned true happiness comes from commitment to 1 while occasionally/intermittently having very short flings with others along the way.

@treysalter821 6 ай бұрын

@@planetStreeter😂😂😂😂👍

@Dipset415 6 ай бұрын

@@planetStreeteragreed💯💪🏿

@b9479 6 ай бұрын

@@planetStreeterYes indeed

@ALCanes73 6 ай бұрын

The dude was talking on a level that Shannon and most American men can't even comprehend. The dude said if a brother passes, one of the other brothers must take on the responsibility of his wife and children by marrying the widow for the safety and care of the CHILDREN. Of course I wouldn't want to marry my brothers wives, but under those circumstances I totally understand and would do it.

@TheRedTrucks 6 ай бұрын

You should educate yourself so you’ll understand that stereotyping is extremely uninformed. This is not hard to understand, sad you think it is.

@tdot8398 6 ай бұрын

You do know you don't need to marry & sleep with your brothers wife in order to look after her right? You could just make sure her & the kids don't have to worry about much.

@akeemmcafee4556 6 ай бұрын

I read about this in the Bible, I guess that rule is still common to this day.

@ALCanes73 6 ай бұрын

@tdot8398 The key word was "MARRY" my brothers wife. Neither I nor the gentleman in the video even remotely mentioned "sleeping with" the woman. I could never sleep with my brothers wives, but I'm not from their culture. In that part of the world, they don't take MARRIAGE lightly like we do in the west. To marry your brothers wife is to ensure his children are raised in the confines of a marriage under God and not some bs charity situationship.

@tdot8398 6 ай бұрын

@ALCanes73 I can still take care of my brothers wife & Raise my nieces & nephews as my own without marrying her bro. I can even move them I to my home as one big family. But marrying her prevents her from dating & finding a new husband. The Bible says she's allowed to remarry if widowed.

@ejay2075 6 ай бұрын

A wife is a responsibility, marriage as a whole is about responsibility not for pleasure.

@supermansinger2771 6 ай бұрын

Wrong. Marriage is Both. Your best friend you want to and need to take care of, to share memories and make a life with together. Growing together. There will always be stress but there should always be happiness and love. It won’t be all the time, but most of the time.

@RevealedFilms 6 ай бұрын

@@supermansinger2771Lmaoo enjoy divorce court Disney boy. You don’t know what you’re in for.

@mzansitrash 6 ай бұрын

@@supermansinger2771😂😂😂😂😂😂 Hollyweird has messed up a lot of minds.

@ericpowell4350 6 ай бұрын

The West corrupts everything.

@theancient1911 6 ай бұрын

@@supermansinger2771😂

@jamesbell739 6 ай бұрын

The things Americans don't know when they want to emulate other cultures. It's not always about fun. YOu have to be a Stand up man to do those things.

@issachaarwazulu1726 6 ай бұрын

"a stand up man" something you dont hear often,folks have forgotten about duty

@stevelumumbashabazzz5087 6 ай бұрын

Yup they be having multiple kids any how and then use Africa as an excuse to justify it.

@marcuselvard5922 5 ай бұрын

It is totally true. Americans do not realize that people from the economically weakest countries are in fact the mentally strongest people because they have no other choice for their survival unlike Americans who can benefit from numerous government aids in addition to the fact that they live in the richest country in the world.

@IamGodSon 6 ай бұрын

I'm a Cameroonian, Ngannou is from the bamileke region which borders the english speaking zone. He grew up not speaking english, mainly because his family couldn't afford it, but he learnt english so fast because to communicate with the english speakers in Cameroon ( his neighbors) pidgin english is used. Pidgin isn't english, but it has alot of english words therein it kind of prepped him up.. Now as concerns marriage in Cameroon (and most west africa) , it was a big deal about several decades back- period of our grand parents. This was because most population were agrarian and needed the extra hands and support to take care of their farms. That's why wealthy landowners married multiple wives: because they needed the extra hands for the labor. Today, most africans youth have shifted from agriculture to other industries. Life has become much more busier, there's less lands to cultivate as in several generations ago, thus big families are more difficult to support. Also in the present age, children are a greater responsibility since they now go to schools, need more clothes and toys, generally it's more expensive to raise kids today than before, hence many are backing out.

@jdong7527 6 ай бұрын

Ngannou spoke absolutely no English nor pidgin until he came to the US.

@IamGodSon 6 ай бұрын

@@jdong7527 He was speaking pidgin before he left Cameroon.

@ycshittu5412 6 ай бұрын

Yeah. You have the right information about the origins of polygamy in Africa. God bless u for setting the records straight

@magacop5180 6 ай бұрын

How much does learning English cost?

@jdong7527 6 ай бұрын

@@IamGodSonhe says in the interview (if you watch the whole interview) that he only knew a few words in pidgin which I assume he was probably referring to Camfranglais which has a few words in pidgin here and there and someone who speak Camfranglais would not be able to line up 2 or 3 sentences together in full pidgin.

@RastaAfricanGentleman 6 ай бұрын

Taking your brother's wife when he dies: Our brother's wives call us husbands by tradition and we call them wives in return. This lays the ground for such circumstances where if that happens, already we are mentally prepared for it. It is also worth mentioning that its not forced to do so but a convenient option which most widows take but also not shunned if they don't take it.

@conchobar 6 ай бұрын

In Jewish/Hebrew traditions it was called levirate marriage. There are several stories in the Bible related to the subject. Even the Biblical story story of Ruth and Boaz is based on the law of levirate marriage although Boaz was not a sibling of the deceased husband but a cousin.

@commanda3536 6 ай бұрын

@conchobar there was even a situation in the Bible where a guy didn't want to sleep with his deceased brother's wife so he "spilled his seed on the ground" so God killed him for it

@yawos9024 6 ай бұрын

Not every tribe does that. The matriarchal societies such as the Ashantis of Ghana where inheritance is from the mother side do not do such a thing. The Bantus of Cameroun are patriarchal societies. They inherit from the father side.

@caleb0388 6 ай бұрын

@@yawos9024 how many matriarchal societies are in Africa?

@yawos9024 6 ай бұрын

@@caleb0388 Very few! I know only in Ghana and Ivory Coast. There might a few somewhere. The Ashantis of Ghana are big time matriarchal.

@rashardstallworth9240 5 ай бұрын

This conversation shows the difference in maturity between these two men.

@kpperry784 6 ай бұрын

Polygamy is constitutionally legal in many African countries including Kenya.

@thirteen37rose 6 ай бұрын

Almost all African countriess.

@jumaabdul1271 6 ай бұрын

Probably the whole continent

@partingalano 6 ай бұрын

Good

@ElodreamXO 6 ай бұрын

I'm African and Polygamy was a Responsibility and Many Men Would've preferred only one wife as the responsibility of 50 wives being pushed on you was a lot.

@Alexander-he9rk 6 ай бұрын

Polygamy as nganou says it is responsibility it shapes the family In Ghana my father married 14 women but we living good

@Roberto-kc8tx 6 ай бұрын

In most African tribes if a married woman's husband dies, the custom is that one of the late husbands brothers must take on the responsibility of marrying the widow and adopting the children. This is done to ensure that the widow and her children are taken care of and to also prevent the children from being brought up by a man who is not of the same bloodline in order to preserve family identity, tradition and culture. Owing to Christianity, westernization and change in the economic and social structure, this is no longer as widely practiced as in the past. e.g. there were no orphanages in the past and women did not have the opportunity to work and live independently etc...

@IchigoKurosaki991 6 ай бұрын

they do this in China

@tdg3040 6 ай бұрын

Thats wrong though. You are only suppose to do that if a man dies without having any children

@n0213862 6 ай бұрын

Funny how today’s Christianity looks down on this, but one woman in the Bible married 7 brothers. I believe people started interpreting the Bible to suit their lifestyles, without getting the actual message.

@theblackgods4699 6 ай бұрын

This is pure nonsense you don't know anything about africa . Also africa is really diverse which culture in particular ??? You ignorant fools need to stop talking as if you knw

@fightsims1252 6 ай бұрын

@@tdg3040No. The wife marries a brother. The only exception would be if she doesn't have children..

@valentinefavour1240 6 ай бұрын

I am Nigerian and the everything Ngannou explained marriage is part of my culture and was what I learnt growing up. It's so funny how African culture of marriage has so much similarities across different regions.

@waitin4thateeeeeeeg 6 ай бұрын

Same thing here in Uganda- what he explained is also how we do it

@falaiyo98 6 ай бұрын

Mainly due to the islamic religion.

@valentinefavour1240 6 ай бұрын

@@falaiyo98 nah..Muslims practice something entirely different. This is an African tradition.

@bido573 6 ай бұрын

Bro, Cameroon and Nigeria share an arbitrary border. One people at the end of the day

@teddymurigi7064 6 ай бұрын

His explanation of the polygamy concept is relevant to 98% of African societies. Where I'm from (Kenya) very few communities practice wife inheritance.

@felixwessel52 6 ай бұрын

Very interesting. My Cameroonian girlfriend sometimes complains to me, saying she is used to Cameroonian traditions. For instance, that a man should pay for a woman’s living expenses. She never mentioned this part.

@RomeoFnV 6 ай бұрын

She left it out conviniently

@bigcohiba298 6 ай бұрын

Modern woman requiring traditional treatment? Run!! Get to the choppa. I ain't paying no living expenses for no working educated woman in 2023. You must have me fvcked up

@magacop5180 6 ай бұрын

Why not pay all her bills? What kind of expenses she got?

@xboxgamerhr 6 ай бұрын

well yeah, traditional women are used to traditional cultures it is tradition that a man pays for everything

@bigcohiba298 6 ай бұрын

@@xboxgamerhr just cos she come from a traditional country don't mean she a traditional woman. That's how men fall for the okey doke.

@WealthbuilderzTV 6 ай бұрын

I used to think polygamy was for me but in reality it’s not.

@bigcockedman714 6 ай бұрын

you gotta have the $ and patience

@GG-jn9fx 6 ай бұрын

Name checks out lol polygamy is the antithesis of building wealth nowadays

@kenstevens7855 6 ай бұрын

I'm the opposite. I used to think it wasn't for me but if I had the dough, I'd seriously consider it.

@blacklyfe5543 3 ай бұрын

It's for me

@JWFitness1 6 ай бұрын

On average, Americans tend to skip the part about the hard work and only focus on the fun or benefits on pretty much everything they do.

@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot 5 ай бұрын

very true...especially in relationships

@shewr4664 6 ай бұрын

Africa has 55 plus countries n over 1000 cultures…,why do pple address Africa like it’s one small village

@Boom38119 5 ай бұрын

b/c the cultural norms that he explained of polygamy are mostly, if not all, the same in Africa. Just read the comment section and you'll see people from African countries agreeing. That's your proof.

@mdcampbe 6 ай бұрын

Great explanation…and that tradition of the brother taking over for a deceased brother sounds a lot like an actual OT biblical tradition as well.

@bbswag5420 6 ай бұрын

Glad Uncle stepped out his comfort zone and interviewed Francis… Francis is super interesting , his mindset is that of a champion

@projectchantalson831 6 ай бұрын

That tradition is in the Bible. If a woman has no kids , and her husband die. Her husband's parents has to give her another son to get married so she can have heritage.

@crisbiz2754 6 ай бұрын

As an African, I can confirm and bring clarity that, in Africa there are multiple tribes and each tradition for each. Depending on what your tribe is you will be following tradition at least you re born in big Cities but if it's countryside, yeah, you're going to follow 100% you like it or not. Polygamy is not a game but a big responsibility and it's not for everybody. I can't be in polygamy you gotta love every wife at the same level.. what ??😅😆😅

@nickwaldman3487 6 ай бұрын

Ngannou is too smart to bring his romantic life out in the open, the opposite mindset of Ian Garry.

@CJM23 6 ай бұрын

Ian is a victim of a predator.

@chiquita683 6 ай бұрын

The fight community is too small minded to embrace LGBT like other sports. He secured his bag and can live his truth in retirement

@hairyprince4271 6 ай бұрын

@@chiquita683 what exactly are you eluding to

@ianditwin7443 6 ай бұрын

@@hairyprince4271Nothing. There are a lot of weak people with self esteem issues. They like to throw around rumours and nonsense to feel better about themselves.

@MJ-jf7zw 6 ай бұрын

@@chiquita683 Keep that western degenerate agenda to yourself 😂

@mkharris120 6 ай бұрын

It wasn’t for pleasure, it was for family and duty

@tshwarelopelle4532 6 ай бұрын

He spoke very well, proud to have you as a brother

@Mynister2Society 6 ай бұрын

1 woman is enough stress for me.

@tvs9978 6 ай бұрын

If your woman is giving you stress, she's not the one for you or you're not the one for her.

@mikehansen7610 5 ай бұрын

@@tvs9978 Exactly , a real man will not be stressed out by his wife because women respect real men.

@tvs9978 5 ай бұрын

@@mikehansen7610 nit necessarily. If you have a wife with a personality disorder or psychotic traits, she can and will stress you out in which case you didn't choose well cos you failed to screen properly for those issues before getting married. But then again many people don't know how to identify such traits in people

@mikehansen7610 5 ай бұрын

@@tvs9978 I knew someone would say that. I chose to say what I said because I'm pretty sure that applied to him as most women don't have a "personality disorder" - they're just women. In any event, a real man won't put up with a wife giving him a headache because he has options by virtue of him being a man of high value.

@UncleOut682 6 ай бұрын

Shannon on all platforms 💪🏽

@salex6309 6 ай бұрын

Ngannou is a beast. He makes Unc look small...and Unc is a beast.

@twotenwest 6 ай бұрын

false

@telmolicious 6 ай бұрын

Nah.. Unc has triceps and shoulders for days. Maybe the legs

@thetraveler9 6 ай бұрын

Disagree man they both look huge and Unc seems to have larger arms

@2011hwalker 6 ай бұрын

Sharpe is broader than him and he is 55...incredible really

@ianditwin7443 6 ай бұрын

Sharp actually seems to be a bit bigger.

@yashaofsauga 6 ай бұрын

what he is describing is the law of moses in the old testament of the bible deuteronomy 25:

@zuibeckpulezon4626 6 ай бұрын

Yep. Biblical

@proverbalizer 6 ай бұрын

I just read numbers 31, I'm done with Moses

@heavymixxin2344 6 ай бұрын

Shannon on a tear. Supposed to. Salute. It’s that mindset Nganou talking about

@TheRulersBack18 6 ай бұрын

you know, even though i like francis, i was still scared when he started to say something like 'the women in america' but then he brought it home so beautifully. this guy is a true great

@federalgodson 6 ай бұрын

You are better off marrying an African woman than an American woman. Even though western culture is taking over, they still have values and self respect to a certain extent

@shahid8545 6 ай бұрын

Many are doing this.

@stevelumumbashabazzz5087 6 ай бұрын

Duh of course. Because the culture is different

@nynty5 6 ай бұрын

These statements are what keep our people apart

@brimarie32 6 ай бұрын

Go with your best match. Just understand that respect and honor costs and requires a lot

@chey6073 6 ай бұрын

Passport Bro found 😂

@p.t.9709 6 ай бұрын

Thank you, Francis for sharing a proper explanation.

@jbk19xx57 6 ай бұрын

As a fellow African, I feel him when people are pushing him to get married.

@chrisodongookubasu134 6 ай бұрын

Well explained champ. 👍🏿 You put it down the right way.

@mthunziphakathi4215 6 ай бұрын

The taking of your late brother's wife is to keep the family secure. It is called ukungenwa in Nguni/Ngoni culture (Zulu word). The wife is still considered your late brother's wife, you are carrying on the duties. Francis is correct about it being a sense of responsibility and not about feelings.

@mthunziphakathi4215 6 ай бұрын

Or ukungena (both verbs)

@Matshidiso_ 6 ай бұрын

He explained it perfectly. It's exactly like that in so many cultures all across Africa.

@alexgriffin1726 6 ай бұрын

Great episode with, a great explanation of the roots of polygamy.

@tutotutot5193 6 ай бұрын

polygamy of his people

@eddieogun 6 ай бұрын

@@tutotutot5193explain polygamy for others.....

@TheAdamSmasherMultiverse 6 ай бұрын

This was an excellent breakdown

@selahstrong1027 6 ай бұрын

As he says polygamy most of the time wasn't by choice, but was a man's responsibility. And in America amongst fundamentalist Mormons polygamy is an obligation and often the man doesn't even have any say in who the new wives are. The wives choose the women to add to their family. This means that the wives are compatible. So Shannon and his fantasies about polygamy are far from the truth.

@LeoBlight 6 ай бұрын

You’re right it is fantasies because he’s just thinking about it sexually and from a selfish point of view. That’s why the last comment he made was… I’m glad that’s not in America!

@kaydee1485 5 ай бұрын

No, when a man was extremely wealthy, he could choose the women he wanted. Depending on the type of husband he was he could decide to be a tyrant or a benefactor, as in take the feelings of the other wives into consideration or not. In almost every part of the world, wealth brought more freedom.

@ABCDEFGHI827 6 ай бұрын

Interesting 🤔 and helpful insight. Thanks 🙏🏻

@PrincipalSkinner3190 6 ай бұрын

Polygamy sounds like a headache anyway. 1 is enough, maybe some more for fun's sake but def not to marry.

@panafrican.nation 6 ай бұрын

There's some prestige to it, just like acquiring more stuff that gives you more of a headache than you need.

@MartianTane 6 ай бұрын

"More for fun" but not for the "dignified respect of marriage"! The west and their hedonistic ways.

@PrincipalSkinner3190 6 ай бұрын

@@MartianTane You say that as if one is intrinsically superior. Plenty of Eastern cultures would frown on Polygamy anyway. Leave it to the traditionalist that acts like wanting some fun is a crime lol.

@truth884 6 ай бұрын

Bruh, if my bro died leaving behind a family Id most certainly take on his family. They are my family. The way Shannon responded was intriguing. “Glad it didn’t happen in America.” If anything it’s more an indictment of the poor character and emaciated and dilapidated structure if the family in America.

@ericpowell4350 6 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯

@Ortigian4ever 6 ай бұрын

Well done!👏🏿..excellent post!

@tuneplan1392 6 ай бұрын

Facts

@tuneplan1392 6 ай бұрын

Without commandments and the law, the people suffer.

@TheRedTrucks 6 ай бұрын

The break down of the family was intentional and is a recent occurrence.(the last generation) No one athlete speaks for an entire group of people.

@YanYnwa 4 ай бұрын

This was so good to hear. 🙏🏽

@carltoncalhoun4431 5 ай бұрын

Best interview ever! Kat has always been upfront and consistent!

@dagoat2241 4 ай бұрын

this is not Katt

@edgood4321 6 ай бұрын

Extremely insightful

@sphelele4918 6 ай бұрын

Marrying your husband’s brother was also about keeping the children in the same family/bloodline if you’re young enough to have more children after your husband passes. It was also mainly about keeping the wealth in the family - you can’t have a wife just walk away with the family’s assets and potentially share them with another man/family in future. In Africa land, assets tend to be communally owned although a son would be the chief custodian. You need to keep the wives in the family fold and give them and your brothers children stability and protection. In the same way we don’t really believe in ‘cousins’. If your parents are siblings you’re siblings.

@anndeecosita3586 6 ай бұрын

I’m American. My “Cousins” include more than people whose parents are my parents’ siblings. As a child I played with cousins who our grandparents, great grandparents or great great grandparents are siblings. What you are describing we call first cousins but our concept of cousins doesn’t stop there in my culture. That would mean you guys could consider hundreds or even thousands of people to be your siblings.

@yawos9024 6 ай бұрын

Matriarchal societies do not do that. Cameroun is patriarchal.

@kaydee1485 5 ай бұрын

Actually, most African families are not allowing the widow to leave with anything substantial. Its more about the kids and saving face than it is about wealth. The family head and elders are the ones that control the distribution of wealth, no widow is taking a family's wealth and handing it over to another man.

@StrivingSoul00 5 ай бұрын

@@anndeecosita3586 1st cousins are siblings anything after that is relatives.

@kevinmoy3752 6 ай бұрын

This was really cool to learn about. I was wondering why some of my coworkers had so many half siblings that they were close with.. You gotta do what you gotta do to survive

@stuart6478 6 ай бұрын

you mean to eff like rabbits

@maknavickas 5 ай бұрын

No you don't, its better to just move on from this life with no offspring than it is to force children into a state of need. Unless you are wealthy you should never have children.

@ulfkasuto5917 5 ай бұрын

"Half sibling" is borderline derogatory in most parts of Africa. There is no such a thing as half brother or half sister, it's just a sister or a brother whether you share one parent or both.

@kevinmoy3752 5 ай бұрын

@@ulfkasuto5917 good to know!

@dominicomusi8753 5 ай бұрын

Ngannou did a masterful job in explaining this 👏

@kmartin9135 6 ай бұрын

"You can't take a wife and not sleep with" lol sorry bro

@alphabogeyman7462 6 ай бұрын

You very funny.😂

@ChadWatkins 6 ай бұрын

Shannon thanks for THE GREAT SHOW....He's not a Westerner! so he will handle the influx well.

@magicframesproduxions 6 ай бұрын

Polygamy in Cameroon vs in America. Cameroon is not the whole of Africa.

@fredrickmutale795 6 ай бұрын

Someone has to say it... thank you. We can not generalise it like that

@oldmanjesus9855 6 ай бұрын

Out of 54 countries in Africa I can guarantee you that at least 45 are heavy on polygamy one way or another. It's ok to talk in general terms when the behaviour it's widespread.

@kpperry784 6 ай бұрын

Polygamy is constitutionally legal in many African countries including Kenya.

@thirteen37rose 6 ай бұрын

My brother, I'm in South Africa, I don't even know how many people I know with more than 2 wives. Where I'm from, it's common.

@kpperry784 6 ай бұрын

@@thirteen37rose Brother, I at one time wanted to visit South Africa 🇿🇦, but now I’m married so I don’t think it would be smart 😂💪🏾

@Bossmonting 6 ай бұрын

This is great!

@stanleymoumolua1446 6 ай бұрын

My African brother, u made my American girlfriend afraid of me after this interview 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 but that's true

@a.k.infinity1502 6 ай бұрын

I'm Cameroonian as well and a product of polygamy so I can tell you what he is saying is 100% accurate.

@Steve-390 6 ай бұрын

African cultures are a extremely different, they're big differences within tribes. We are not a country

@abs2ray 6 ай бұрын

There are more similarities than there are differences among sub Saharan Africans especially when it comes to family structures and roles and responsibilities.

@Abner-gu3ve 5 ай бұрын

@@abs2rayobviously but they still sum differences 😂

@Reveil_de_la_pensee 6 ай бұрын

Polygamy mostly was not by choice but by responsibility to help organize society and to protect woman and children. 💜🗝

@Faridbuza 5 ай бұрын

That's a beautiful and ACCURATE explanation of polygamy in traditional African societies on the continent.

@jasdpasd9597 3 ай бұрын

so nice hearing about such different culture , its refreshing

@andilegxelesha-maqashu7348 6 ай бұрын

I'm impressed, everything he said is true. I'm from South Africa, and it's the same. I love polygamy, it's good for redistributing wealth.

@cherryblossoms942 5 ай бұрын

These ninjas don’t have wealth. What are you talking about…everything they get is from a WM

@andilegxelesha-maqashu7348 5 ай бұрын

@@cherryblossoms942 which ninjas? What is wealth to you? I'm talking about a culture that I come from, a cattle rearing culture. That is our wealth.

@Mr.Oct___ 6 ай бұрын

Everything he said was to benefit the community. We are so spoiled here today that we’ve life hacked the institution & community building for the purpose of fun & self-centeredness. ..How interesting

@tresorkalima8710 6 ай бұрын

In my culture as well. The blood line is preserved and protected. It’s weird but some of us understand the principle. It’s like arrange marriage for some based on the cultural agreement.

@Gumborenzou 6 ай бұрын

Facts! 💯

@shahid8545 6 ай бұрын

Polygamy is not about having f*ck buddies its about dedication, care and support for your wives. The man must be hard working and financially capable to take care of his women and give them their needs under the unification of marriage. Its not a game! And if done right can be blissful for the women and the man.

@candorsspot2775 6 ай бұрын

It's never blissful. The female ego can never be satisfied under such an arrangement. Such a man would ultimately have to rule with an iron fist.

@prosperitylife5344 6 ай бұрын

@@candorsspot2775have you been in one? If not your opinion is not valid! Stay with what you believe in and we will keep what we believe

@candorsspot2775 6 ай бұрын

@@prosperitylife5344 Are you in one? If so how long?

@almas3427 4 ай бұрын

Polygamy??? lol, you will be lucky if you can get one women for 2 years. Women are no fools.

@dcipher9775 6 ай бұрын

It's interesting how you can hear the different perspectives. In the West everything is about pleasure or debauchery. In Africa, everything has meaning. 2 totally different concepts.

@thierrybenoit4182 5 ай бұрын

man francis is a force to be reckonened with. this man is a genius very insightful, very deep, hope he continues on his journey as the baddest man on the planet! great interview Shannon you ask the realest questions and create such an opened space we appreciate that Love, Strenght, Blessings in Abundance!

@mychaljames8025 6 ай бұрын

Very eloquently explained

@abdulsufi7894 6 ай бұрын

Huge difference between African men and African American men. Wish they learned from one another.

@Abner-gu3ve 5 ай бұрын

Agreed

@sunshinewellness3222 5 ай бұрын

Excellent interview and understanding

@andreacalianno5676 5 ай бұрын

Great content!!!

@darrendyson8347 6 ай бұрын

It used to be like this worldwide but then the Romans took over and implemented their ways of doing things. We went from Lion like mentality to Wolves which should make sense if you think hard.

@raissa4260 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for explaining the African culture

@lybanrivera213 6 ай бұрын

btw this also goes the other way 'round. if the wife passe and has sisters, often one of the sisters will marry the widowed husband to again "ensure the children aren't raised by a stranger". the culture is more interested in the children's well-fare and also there is an economic element. if the widowed spouse marries from the outside that means the kids' inheritance is no longer guaranteed.

@drich9634 6 ай бұрын

I just learned a lot

@wemovingback 6 ай бұрын

Awesome insight!

@777Sol7 6 ай бұрын

We need more discussions on Wife inheritance in the community. I don’t hear many people talk about it although I know it is practiced

@fengshuimma9160 4 ай бұрын

At first when he said a brother would take the wife it sounded wrong but when he explains that some random man wouldn't see the kids as his but someone in the family circle would see it as keeping the family together, it made sense to me. Very interesting, I learned something new today, thank you gentlemen.

@canaday2k 6 ай бұрын

What he's talking about is based on Scripture - Israelite culture went into Cameroon - Deuteronomy 25:5

@odoyoaghaye 6 ай бұрын

Ngannou dropping gems, secrets and bombs

@EATffortlessCooking 6 ай бұрын

Dope perspective

@winjira 6 ай бұрын

very well explained 🫡🫡🫡🫡African ambassador

@vicg3206 5 ай бұрын

He's a good man. Definitely husband material. And a high value man. His head is in the right place. Men like this is so rare these days. Intelligent and wise. Nice that he also explained the reason for multiple wives and where that came from.

@thedeuceResOWlute 6 ай бұрын

Very interesting take

@proverbalizer 6 ай бұрын

Real convo

@onsea7005 6 ай бұрын

Africans here feeling happy 😂😂😂😂😂

@TrayM512 6 ай бұрын

Shannon 👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾

@misterejire 6 ай бұрын

My great uncle had 4 wives in Biafra/Nigeria. It was a cultural sign of status for those that were doing well or a Cheif. It creates a lot of wahala when you have 12 kids and you try to split your time and resources.

@thewanderingtraveler2290 6 ай бұрын

Whala I haven’t heard that saying in years lol

@kaydee1485 5 ай бұрын

Thats the part people in the comment sections are not mentioning. They’re painting it like it a purely cultural action but as long as it people in the equation there are going to be issues.

@neteretstar0000 5 ай бұрын

Some people are just naturally polygamist it has nothing to do with culture though it may take place in most of u constantly getting cheated or or is cheating they ask your self why u dealing with someone that naturally poly some of y'all get lied to cause y'all don't accept the person u claim u love and want to spend the rest of your life with so u expect them to just settle and that's just what it is settling im not religious at all but I feel as thought instead of u charging u should be poly or get with the same people who want what u want instead of settling living a lie

@tracienatural2405 5 ай бұрын

Unrelated question: in Nigeria, do you call the siblings of your grandparents "great aunts" and "great uncles"? Or, do you use those terms for the siblings of your great grandparents? I ask because in the Caribbean, many of us call the siblings of our grandparents "grand aunts" and "grand uncles"; great aunts and uncles would be at the great grandparents level. I've only heard Americans use "great aunt" and "great uncle" to refer to the siblings of their grandparents. I was wondering if Nigeria uses the same terms as the British Caribbean, and you are just choosing to use the American terms in your comment. Just wondering. No judgment 😆

@diligenceeke3023 4 ай бұрын

@@tracienatural2405 Grand Uncle and grand aunt is what I used when I was in Nigeria. I don't know for others.

@gudisatufa6187 6 ай бұрын

Although the comments saying that Francis doesn't speak for all of Africa are correct, I can assure you he's speaking the truth for how Oromos (the largest ethnic group in East Africa) traditionally treated polygamy - not so much the part about a successful man having the responsibility to give opportunities to different communities (though an unsuccessful man is discouraged from having multiple wives), but moreso that regarding the procession for widows to be remarried (we call it Dhaalaa) and how marriage was more of a socio-economic contract where a man provides for a woman, and a woman, in turn, bears his children.

@lizmodupe5801 6 ай бұрын

And this host thought polygamy in Africa was all fun and games. 😂

@drejohnson8421 3 ай бұрын

This mimics the old testament.

@Roberto-kc8tx 5 ай бұрын

Even though African Americans, like Shannon , find these cultures strange and alien this is exactly the way their forefathers lived this is also their history and authentic original culture - visiting Africa is like cultural time travelling for the African American

@Abner-gu3ve 5 ай бұрын

@almas3427 4 ай бұрын

Yes, your ancestors also had slaves so do you want to copy them too? People used to live in a hut so why don’t you go live in a hut with no electricity? Not everything is worth keeping.

@MimiSteel 5 ай бұрын

He speaking the Book

@amck72 6 ай бұрын

This was very interesting.

@MrLong-mb3pk 6 ай бұрын

Don't get an American woman, or you'll be crying like Tyrese

@IanJames_4 6 ай бұрын

😅😅😅

@damnnerves24 6 ай бұрын

😂😂

@1yungez 6 ай бұрын

Nah those are called superficial women looking for a lick. Theres alot of women professional looking to go half

@albertfarleyiii3750 6 ай бұрын

😂

@sophiawyatt3049 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂Be quiet😂😂

@LambSauceWill 6 ай бұрын

Imagine that there’s probably a lady that curved Francis back in the day when he was working the mines and now she’s watching him on top of the world

@OEThe11 6 ай бұрын

Reality can often be unpleasant for some 🤷🏿‍♂️

@oldmanjesus9855 6 ай бұрын

African women, for the most part, don't really curve men that work hard regardless of their profession, looks or social status. That's a western thing.

@Mdmeskywlkr007 6 ай бұрын

@@oldmanjesus9855 Ehhh. Even in the West wmn don't leave a hard working man WITH a purpose and plan.

@alfordelliott6943 6 ай бұрын

@@Mdmeskywlkr007that's not true, you got women saying they don't want a 9-5 dude they want a six figure earner or a scammer. Women curve nerds with IT jobs all the time

@OEThe11 6 ай бұрын

@@alfordelliott6943 That's just social media. Outside of Social Media, they're out there.

@kene6753 6 ай бұрын

Francis didn't explain the taking over of a deceased relative's wife correctly. Yes, one of the surviving brothers would be expected to take over or marry a deceased relative's wife and all. But, they do not have to consummate the marrige or live under the same roof.

@utteero 6 ай бұрын

Perhaps not in your culture. In many cultures they are expected to...furthermore if the deceased was wealthy, he takes over the estate as well. Many have corrupted this aspect of culture and used it as a pretext to appropriate a sibling's wealth and attimes not use it to take care of the widow and her children.

@rsKayiira 5 ай бұрын

Ngannou is exceptionally smart. I cant believe I never listened to him talk outside of MMA

@princearthur5532 6 ай бұрын

The thing he talks about marrying from your vicinity is true. Ghanaians are fond of setting their kids up with successful people. If you get money they don't mind you dating in their family and finally marrying them 😂. Nice interview

@mokaLARE 6 ай бұрын

There are lot of nuances to what he said and that is not the case everywhere in Africa (not even everywhere in Cameroon).

@naucha 6 ай бұрын

Please Elaborate

@CJM23 6 ай бұрын

He's talking about his village, not making a broadstroke statement for Africa.

@mokaLARE 6 ай бұрын

@@CJM23 I wanted to say that since a lot of people people in the USA have so many stereotypes or preconceived ideas about Africans and apply them to everybody and to all parts in Africa. They even think Africa is a country with villages to begin with.

@mokaLARE 6 ай бұрын

@@naucha you have parts in Africa’s countries where what Francis was talking about happens. Not everywhere. The precision is important to be underlined because of the stereotypes that people from USA and even Europe have about African people. Furthermore and he highlighted that during the interview, this tends to happen less and less where it used to be a thing and he explained the reasons.

@Mdmeskywlkr007 6 ай бұрын

Agreed. Christians forbid polygamy. Many Africans are strict Christians. Also (where I'm from SE Nigeria) African wmn (wives and daughters) are not allowed to inherit their father (family) assets. Which pressures wmn to keep producing babies, and/or allowing their husband to bring an additional wife to increase the likelihood of the husband producing a son/sons to carry on the family business/inherit the assets.