Hi, I can't DM you bcs only people that you follow can 😕. No hate just informing, and BTW lovee your content ❤️ keep up the good work

Hey hope I can dm you plz if that’s okay 💗💗xxx

Hope how can I DM you ??

I don’t know the name but whenever someone’s in pain it’s kinda like a mirror and you fell the same as them

You're such a good person Hope.

That’s what I thought

no- not for all- i'm slightly a narcissist myself and it just means for me that I take literally everything seriously- you should've said it's not for everybody but you didn't say that so now people are gonna take it in the wrong direction and think well "I guess I'm just gonna shame people are narcissist because they're rude and un caring"

One day when I had broken my wrist, my best friend said she had her period when she didn’t cause she needed the attention-

@@zrl-rblx5948 There are two different types of narcissists; one, to take literally everything serious, two is the ones where they believe that the whole world revolves around them and that they're the only important one. like I said before, whenever you talk about narcissist you should mention the fact that not all of them are the ones where they think the whole world revolves around them. I feel like your friend would be in that region. Usually narcissists come out of people who didn't have a lot of attention in their life and they use narcissism is a sign of trauma. If you ever have a friend like that again I would suggest possibly getting them some help usually narcissism like that is a sign of trauma and not having a lot of attention from, parents, siblings, just in general family or friends.

@@xxclxudyboiixx7946 well they did say a part of it is and you jest slightly have it

People with mental disorders don’t like to admit they have a disorder…they get mad when people try to tell them they do…your friend was going through mental disorder is cool phase, a lot of people go through this stage…they think being psychotic makes them cool and hot

one of my old friends, who was also pretty toxic, once sought attention by saying: "Shut Up! I have so many mental health problems and all!". Well, I cut her out of my life, even tho I should've done it much earlier... she was always bragging abt things, and all were lies...

What does it mean?

@Elizabeth Acres people that have mental health issues don’t like to admit they have a problem…they can’t get help if they think there is nothing wrong with them….cause in their mind, you can’t fix something that’s not broken…in order for someone to get help, they have to first admit they actually have a problem, and actually want to get help…you can’t help someone who doesn’t want help they’re just going to fight you the whole way through. It’s easy to say have the mental health issue and just get help when in their minds they have no mental health issues, they’re perfectly fine…so instead of going you know what you’re right…they’re thinking, how dare you call me mental…and they tend to get aggressive and lash out at you.

Don't narcissists think it's fine to be a narcissist since they're better than people who arent?

As someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, it absolutely is. It’s just constantly trying to be good at everything and anything and taking every bit of criticism so hard that it leaves you in such a depressive state and hurts your confidence and self-esteem. It’s trying to care, trying to have a good relationship with someone, but just not having the chemicals in your brain to feel very much empathy and as a result of that, usually being left. It’s actual hell, and I feel like a failure. I am a failure unless someone says otherwise. And that’s not even all of it.

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Ur possibly the sweetest person ever 😭❤

@@Killer-rc8fk thank you 😊 remember I’m proud of you

You know that some people have a disorder that causes them to act like that tho? It might seem like that are just being selfish but the thing about disorders is people ofthen don't have controls over them.

@@Yaya-kl7pp Because it's a disorder. Narsastic personality disorder. "Experts estimate that up to 5% of people have NPD. Narcissism is one of 10 personality disorders. These disorders cause people to think, feel and behave in ways that hurt themselves or others."

@@Yaya-kl7pp They can't control their behavior and yes it hurts but without proper treatment they will never understand how they are wrong. People like to forget that some people that don't experience empathy and emotion normally actually cannot help it. You should try to keep that in mind sometimes even if you decide to cut them out of your life.

@@Yaya-kl7pp I understand how painful this can be, my mother uses me to and her boyfriend to regulate. I still live with her and she too refuses to accept that she has hurt me in many ways before. Although some people end up like this because of childhood neglect or being overly praised for everything. My mother's case being the former, my grandparents always seemed the sweetest people but knowing what I know now I know that they weren't. My mother is an sa victim, her grandfather got her pregnant when she was 16 and my grandparents blamed her for it. They kicked her out and told her to give up the child. They never confronted her grandfather about it and acted like it was her fault. That is why she is how she is.

@@Yaya-kl7pp As someone who has also been sa'd but by my uncle and my mother's ex boyfriend so ,both of which she didn't know about untill I was much older because I was afraid to tell anyone, I understand the damage that can do to a person and although I am not a narsasist because of it I do have other mental health problems because of that and because of my violent alcoholic father. To who I no longer speak for my own well-being. I have dissociative identity disorder, anxiety, depression and I am paranoid. People also often blame me for being depressed, anxious, paranoid and forgetting the smallest most basic things. They act like it's my fault that I am fearful of men that are muscular and quiet. They act like it's my fault that when I here loud nioses I immediately feel like someone is coming to harm me. But no, it's not I have mental health issues because of my trauma.

My friend has a huge lying problem like a huge problem she always gets mad when she gets called out for it because she lies and when I call her out l don’t say anything bc i already know she’s lying also she lies about stuff that I did when I didn’t even do it but everyone else is always on her side well she’s my ex friend now

​@@Rbxeditxso is it there flaut tbh

ur right and i’m not being rude but that’s also an autistic thing 🤭😶 i’m austistic and get told that i do that a lot haha

ur welcome lol@@123Asd-jj8we

Not quite. Narcissism is more of a “It’s all about me! I’m better than everyone else! Praise me! Give me all of the attention!” That’s what narcissism is, though they never say that stuff verbally, but more expressively. Yeah, sometimes narcissists will lie to get attention, even if it’s a situation someone just claimed to be going through. The narcissist will also exaggerate just enough to make their situation seem worse. So basically, the narcissist wants attention in general. Upon retrieving more information, a narcissist would provoke those who hate them to get that attention. I think my mom is a narcissist. She’s nice to me though.

Nah you don’t struggle with it lmao it’s just pure attitude 😂 It’s not a “disorder” it’s simple just a personality. Trying to one up u all the time lol.

Honestly that shouldn't give them an excuse tho, ik some people are like that, but I don't have time for them in my life

@@Sana-nl5ue Genuinely! Pretty much like I said 😭

​@@Sana-nl5ueshutup

This kind of attitude isn't usually caused by narcissism, just insecurity. Tbh, this video is a really bad representation of it.

thank you I'm one and there's no holding on to things for long enough it's like your dying inside

@@judas_mm2_4life sorry but just to ask what's the disorder

@@judas_mm2_4life your the same as me its like the whole world is against you

@@Violet_catzi same

I don't know why but every time I hear about some sort of pain related thing I will randomly start feeling that pain can someone explain why..

Its narcissism

@@swaggyyteacup9687 lol I have no idea

@@swaggyyteacup9687 superiority disorder has symptoms like narcissistic personality disorder

@@swaggyyteacup9687 Narcissists don't really act this way only, it's superiority

I think I might have it too

I feel u bro-ur in my thoughts. Tho rember that other ppl go through this too and that ur not alone.

Yeah that happens to me to and then I feel bad when they say I’m just trying to get attention, and I’m not really good at solving problems, i can only comfort, so I kinda feel you :(

yeah when my coach used to scold be everytime cause i have bad grades than other people but the other people actually my teammates they are like all classes top 10 and im only a top 15, but my coach is my atheletics coach, i started having narcissism and trying to be better

I’m probably a narcissist, most of my friends have said so. In my case it was probably caused by everyone always telling me that I’m “gifted”. It led me to believe that I didn’t have to try as hard as others to get what I wanted. It’s not really my fault, but it pisses me off that I can’t escape this mindset.

I had a friend like that and she made me sooo soo insecure, i dropped her and now i’m healed again.. it was horrible :/

Im pretty sure narcissism isnt a disorder, its just a personality trait. And a person can get rid of it usually just by talking about it with family/friends or in worse cases therapy.

@@cringe_dev1809 It’s a personality disorder bozo. What most people call narcissism is actually just a toxic and self centered personality.

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Really.

Ppl like this..

@@random_n3 it's still a disorder, unfortunately.

@@random_n3 sometimes it can be uncontrollable, it’s no excuse but the disorder can really screw you over

Sorry for your loss

OMG MY DOG HAS STOMACH CANCER AND WE HAVE TO PUT HIM DOWN SOON 😭 WE ARE IN THE SAME BOAT HERE

@@Stupid-12346 thank you i miss him very badly ☹️

@@sarahpinckney8979 i’m so sorry 😭 i really understand how it feels, i wish you didn’t have to go through that.

999 like and no comments? Ill change that

@@lyngabog6626 same

same she always drew the attention to herself and was a pick me. she made me feel like i was nothing compared to her

@@ok-lo4ph wait what are u even talking about? (Not trying to be rude)

@@lyngabog6626 shes talking abt her old narcissist friend

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Same 💀

Same tho 💀

No narcissism

Me too

Same.. I try not to.

I dont think its part of the disorder it’s normaly just human instinct to think that. In the video tho its the pure dusorder

Same my mom doesn't understand

But your admitting to it so i do not think you have it.

@@swaggyyteacup9687 yea

Wtf lmao poor dog and

My dog stepped on a bee) someone fish the joke with me? 😀

@@DonatellaDelvecchio (continue it on until someone cannot think of one XD) but I got no money~ 👋😔

@@DonatellaDelvecchio I’m swimming in the crusty musty stinky sea

Bwahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣

I feel you. I had an ex best friend who would tell me all about her problems, and I would feel horrible, but whenever I would share something that hurt me, she would attack me and say everything was easy for me. Everything we did together was her choice, I had no say. Whenever I said I'd had enough and would walk away to cool down, she would chase after me, crying and saying I was making her want to... Self delete. She said her family abused her, but the examples she gave were things like them not giving her an extra slice of pizza or taking away her phone when it got late... I get that some of these people have problems, and I do too, but that hurt me too much. I feel you.

Please don’t say that about everyone with that disorder. We are all different, and people who suffer from NPD are not by default “abusive.” You had a bad experience with an abusive person. Please do not display it as though all people with this disorder is like your “friend.”

Haha

It's empath

@@noj802 did u copy me

@@blaz3798 just because someone knows the disorder doesn’t mean they copied you..

@@freyakennedy8506 nice

@Sara Zupanc I just lost my key

@Sara Zupanc then go to the toilet

@Harry potter, marvel universe Thank you! 🙏

@@randomchanel125 I'm finally free

@@user_536 I'm bored of life hee hee

We look alike

That is not what this is

@@katsukibakugou4295 then what is it abt then???

Yeah. I show signs of narcissism and I'm happy people fucking understands us. Dumb auto correct

@@gracie9146 I think it’s Narcissistic personality disorder. It is be is characterized by lack of empathy and is a serious mental health condition so pls do not call people with it selfish or rude or self centered bc they cannot control this easily and they are not trying to be hurtful to others.

Now that I think of it.. I kinda have that, but I hate everything being about me it’s just nobody ever gives me anything to make me happier only certain ppl, but just because of that reason, doesn’t mean that I’m lying that something is worse, I might’ve in my younger years but not anymore. I am trying to become the person I am and I’m always trying to give the best to ppl in need. Please keep in mind that everyone is absolutely beautiful no matter what opinions are opinions, don’t listen to the rudest ones because your beautiful, kind, amazing and loyal to everyone. I may not know these ppl irl but I know from the inside that everyone is loyal, smart and gorgeous from the inside and out. Please keep my words ❤ I love you guys sm and I hope everything gets better for you, if u rlly need something in life or feel u need someone to talk to that actually understands you, talk to me, or ask for a therapist. Love you guys. Keep up the great work x❤❤ Also remember that your extremely loved especially for who u r, just be yourself. Things change but that doesn’t matter, as long as us people around the world, bright, pale, tan, dark, rlly dark, nobody should care, we all have eachother. Pass my word guys I love u and I hope things get a lot better for you ❤ (Help that took so long 😂)

bro this is what everyone think i do they always think im attention seeking or just making everything about me that how i lost most of my friends but im not really sure

This is one of my friends, everyone has been saying he is selfish when he’s not, he also has autism so yk he never has had true friends until now he wants to change but he can’t my best friend doesn’t see that he had is hard):

@@v3ni_x you have like the opposite of that, narcissism is about being self centered and everything needs to be about you that doesn’t really sound like you have it. Also just thinking you might have it probably means you don’t because most people with narcissism would probably say they are such an amazing person and it’s not them at all

@@Gamamations yea srry, my so called friend ‘friend’ (a hell of a thing) is a narcissistic 2 faced cow, lol sorry if I’m being aggressive but it’s true..

Bipolar disorder and copying everyone

omg same-

yea.. i believe im a narcissist myself, trying to get better these past few years after he left me for that reason. certainly is hard to control. i just wish he told me what i was doing to him before i left because i never realized how much of a bad friend i was being beforehand, i miss him deeply but he made the right choice in the end. i was a bad influence. :(

@@monkeball1874 I’m glad you’re learning and improving yourself for yourself and others. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll be a great friend!

Same she lied so much and spread lies about me

You were narcissistic when you were 3-11. And you had no memory of anything before 11. The how did you remember how you were narcissistic back then?

@Paul Allen so that’s why all the kids at my school who show EXTREME signs of narcissistic personality disorder doesn’t get help… ok so even after typical puberty stops (different for bio gender) doctors still wanna play footsie with the idea that young people can be the exact same way

This seems fake but alright

@Paul Allen what do you mean every kid?

You sound like an 12 year old trying to be special no offense tho

TYSM I KNOW SOMEONE WITH THIS

@@zaineecake912 you’re welcome

I have this, and I rly need to stop

My friend have this

Did you just call me mental

Yeah i get that

All my friends didnt care ehat the impact was on me or anyone else they only cared about themselves

get better friends

@@kendaldavis1843 lmao i did

I just wanna say that I feel your pain sometimes people really just have to be the main topic of the situation/conversation. It gets old FAST Anyways I just wanted to say find better people to live your days with. Life’s way to short to waste it on people that hurt you or make you feel bad

Thanks❤

and IM ALSO PROUD. If youre happy with yourself/your life right now, im SO happy that you can be happy. And if not I am SO sorry for you, that your life sucks right now and you're having to do more than you deserve. and that you can handle. But I am SO proud of you that youre trying your best You might not look your best, or feel at your best, because youre struggling but I KNOW youre trying your best. And I'm SO PROUD. Because youre so strong. For going through everything youve gone through, AND at your choice to keep going even though you know the pain isnt quite over yet. And if you need to cry, or rant, or be heard you deserve to. SO THIS IS A RANT CHAT NOW CMON GROUP THERAPY :D 👇👇

thank you. i really needed that.

This made me tear up…

Thanks❤️ I really needed that. I'm proud of myself for being 4 hours sh clean....

don’t you dare like this and ruin the 69.

@@kitkatalliekat1 why not?

@@kitkatalliekat1 someone liked it😔

You need new friends

@@-cherry_bear- NOOOOOO

Same but with my grandma

Damn, that’s sad 😔 I’m sorry to hear

One of me school “fiends” are exactly like this, they poke my friends stomach when he’s wearing a crop top even though my friend (lets call her ‘H’) knows he’s insecure about his stomach and doesn’t eat on purpose to loose weight then other times when I’m talking to H then I complain bout my leg hurting or something because I got hit or fell in PE and then she says something like “oh yeah? Well I have it worse, I have a metal angle, hip, and my knee like be amputated soon” and any time I try saying something to her that might just be a rumor then she always starts to panic and just tells me I’m making things up even though I know it’s true about her. I used to be fiends with her but we’re still in the same friend group and we’re partners for school projects so I’m kind of forced to be friends with her even though we both know we don’t like each other. She’s a very narcissistic person and our whole class doesn’t like her… and yet she still wonders why 😂 (that might seem like nothing but if I could I would list everything that makes her, her)

@@JessieLoves_Cacti I’ve gone through something similar so I am so sorry you have also experienced this😢

Yeah one of me old friends was like this and to this day she talks sh abt me to her bf, who I consider my brother lol

I think it's all meant to be one single disorder

Second one is somatic symptom disorder. I used to have it but I'm recovering

empaths don’t exist, they’re all narcissists who want to be special. and it’s especially not an official condition 😭

@@ShrimpActivities no it’s all one disorder

@_ DINO X NUGGIES yea that’s called narcissism

That’s messed up. Hope you got help and away from your father. ❤

@King it took me until I was 15 to have the courage to speak up. He got to live his life freely for 5 years until January of this year. (In that time, he'd been able to have 2 boys with his new wife and got a new house built last year.) Sentenced 10 years. Not as long as I'd like for what he did to me and my younger sister, but whatever. Our victim advocate asked how long we would like him to be in prison, I said at least 10 years because that's about how long he'd abused me. I'm very much happy to be away from him, even if he got to have the sons he wanted so desperately and was able to live life without repercussions for 5 years. I'm engaged and have a baby of my own. She's 2 now :)

@@Auphira aww your daughter is so lucky to have such a strong mother. Your father should’ve gotten more time, unfortunately there’s not much we can do about these things. Hope his new wife and children get away before he can do more. You and your partner will be much better parents. Sending my love.

@@lucyw927 thank you ❤

@@Auphira your dad should be at jail

When my dog passed in 5th grade I was crying at school, a ‘friend’ came over and said, “well if you care so much why don’t you join them” they were telling me to kill myself while I was grieving

I personally don’t like narcissistic ppl, I even dealt with someone with narcissism

My parents Sold my cat. I know how it feals

@@AceLeGoose wow... I hope you feel better now. My dog bailey, passed away a long time ago and i understand how it feels to lose a dog you love. And i cant believe someone would really say that, how would they feel if they experienced that.

@@nikolinativadar1222 i lost so much cats, i literally had to give them away straight when they were born.

Narcistic people dont act like this

Also im pretty sure the disorder is superiority

@@enszaiy6141 they do really act like this lol

"HAD... WAS" are they dead?

@@sipstea4071 I have 3 narcistic people in my family and they act a whole lot different

How is it gaslighting

@@captaincone6254 gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition. Meaning in short: the gaslighter (abuser) makes the victim think that something maybe never happened or don't think it's "that bad" or "not a big of a deal" something a gaslighter might say is "oh but the war in Ukraine is worse" or literally anything where they completely ignore your feelings and your own needs as a human being If you're currently getting gaslighted by someone I'm so sorry try to not be around them as much as possible and remember you deserve to be treated like the person you are Hope this helped

It's because they feel like they need to get better though. They feel the need to be the best or they aren't good enough.

Yea I have a friend like that my dad went to prison lol only like a month ago and I was going through a rough time and she always says “ well I don’t get to see my dad cus he works around the world I only get to see him every other weekend

Thats true. I just realised that I have it, since im young. I often seek attention, and dont know what to do if my bestie is crying and I sometimes can just feel others emotions. If theyre mad, and are not showing it, im mad too by instinct. If theyre sad, im sad. I broke my ankle last year and my cousins cat broke theyre leg twice, one last year or before and again now. I kind of felt like mine was worser.

@@NorwegianForestCat2 you have Narcissism ?

@@Marilyh yea i do

My friend does to she did the same abt her dad I was saying how my dnace teacher was horrible to us and she said oh well, my dad was worse he abandoned me. I said ok well I never said it was worse than ur dad and she have me a dirty look. Now I understand she has difficulty at home and we get along

@@NorwegianForestCat2 lose it then 💩

Yea me too😂❤

That's emotional control

Did you actually cut your pinky off

i am passing through it

You probably didn't have narcissism then. It's a serious disorder which rarely goes away, symptoms may start disappearing after your 40's. It's normal for teenagers to be self absorbed, but also people under 18 can't get diagnosed with personality disorders because they are still young and changing. You were probably like that too

NPD can’t be cured or corrected… You can only make yourself more self-aware with therapy.

By passing through it you would’ve known what I meant lol. Not being cured but being ability to know when it’s happening.

Narcissism

I'm sorry.

@@chocobear2024 no need to be, but thank you ! 🤗

As someone with borderline personality disorder, I know what it feels like to not be able to control yourself and how frustrating it can be. I really wish I could be someone different. So I feel you, I hope you'll manage to build strong relationships despite this problem. And if you feel like you really can't get better, consider getting some help. No one should have to deal with this alone, it's scary. Stay strong!

@@beatrice_penna Thank you! I appreciate it, I hope you have a wonderful day!

@@donteventrymelol2827 You too kind stranger!

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It’s ok I said “asshole”

Damn 😂

@koki_chi don’t blame me. I got my brain surgically removed

Dog wtf

You gotta get better friends not trying to be mean but you need friends that support you when your sad instead you just minimizing your problems

​@@brinarules yeah I agree

@@brinarules it's a disorder that causes them to act that way

those aren't your friends

Same :(

So it means it's normal?

Yeah my sister has it. I used to get really annoyed by it until I realized it isn't really her fault.

Aw :( that sounds sad, I feel like I don’t have this, but to anyone who does, it’s not your fault, your beautiful and it’s ok, you can’t help it ❤

My brother has narcissism not NPD let’s hope he never sees this comment because he’ll say it’s NPD that he doesn’t have

I don’t have this specific condition, but I am on the autism spectrum and one symptom of ASD is a bit of “narcissism” (I prefer the term ‘self centric’). At least, that’s what the people around me tell me lol It’s okay to be self centric. You still care about others, it is just showing in a different way. 💛

she has, there’s a compilation here on yt

They/them pronouns I’m pretty sure btw

I think they go by they/them pronouns

I think they go my they/them pronouns

@@Mika.123. i just typed and somehow I says the same thing lol

Sounds like borderline personality disorder more than narcissistic personality disorder tbh

@@toyaoren772what is borderline personality disorder ?

Hope someone will understand this.I know what it feels like I am in a similar situation.

I feel really bad for you, and I hope those people that are mean to you will see that you are really trying to help.

SAMEEEE i try to be kind but i get so angry that im always the one who people vent to, yet if im upset they never even ask whats wrong. i dont feel comfortable telling anyone anything, because if i try to be honest, people leave me for someone better. i was replaced and left out, and i dont want it to happen again. and im tired of a few people who make it about them.

I don’t think that sociopath is a disorder

@@CuteTeddyDog I know, you’re born with it. But it’s just what came to mind 😅

As someone who lost my dad at a young age, i do not under ANY circumstances compare him lien its a competition

Probably just MTS

I really appreciate that. I'm so sorry for your loss, but it really frustrates me when people try to make pain a competition. Everyone's pain is valid. That being said, again, I'm very sorry for your loss and I hope you're doing well.

No it's not a rude thing it's a disorder.

@@ajsanfelipe5204 narcissism isnt a disorder. I’m convinced it’s by choice

Omg i thood that to

Lol this is my bff too.

Then yalls bff’s are narcissistic

Omg same wth

My so called bff is like this too. She lies abt everything

Me too,it sucks 😔

me three! best to get out asap

Explain?

@@jimins_jams.97 what do we have to explain??

@@trinitypaul7590 u don't have to but i would appreciate if u do , umm could u explain what nercissism is and how they act , like a little more than the vid , the vid is not helping that much since idk anything about narcissism

Hm

no you dont

I do the d First part too although it definitely depends how close i am with them

Are you sure it’s not an extreme case of BPD.

I do this too