9 Reasons Why You Feel Lonely

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Loneliness is one of the most universal emotions of the human condition. But feeling lonely for a long period of time, also known as chronic loneliness, can be detrimental to your mental health. Are you wondering how to deal with loneliness? Well, in order to deal with depression and loneliness, we need to find out the root reasons why we feel lonely or even possibly depressed in the first place. Also, we made a previous video on 10 Things You're Emotions are Trying to Tell You here: • 10 Things Your Emotion...
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script editor: Rida Batool & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Cristina Benavides (new animator) ( / @misscbenav )
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References:
Gierveld, J. D. J., & Van Tilburg, T. (2010). The De Jong Gierveld short scales for emotional and social loneliness: tested on data from 7 countries in the UN generations and gender surveys. European Journal of Aging, 7(2), 121-130.
Dykstra, P. A. (2006). Loneliness and Social Isolation. Cambridge Handbook of Personal Relationships, 485-500.
Ernst, J. M., & Cacioppo, J. T. (1999). Lonely hearts: Psychological perspectives on loneliness. Applied and preventive psychology, 8(1), 1-22.
Firestone, R. W., & Catlett, J. (1999). Fear of intimacy. American Psychological Association.
Herrick, C. A. (1992, July). Codependency: Characteristics, risks, progression, and strategies for healing. In Nursing forum (Vol. 27, No. 3, pp. 12-19). Oxford, UK: Blackwell Publishing Ltd.
Condon, B. B. (2008, October). Feeling misunderstood: A concept analysis. In Nursing Forum (Vol. 43, No. 4, pp. 177-190). Malden, USA: Blackwell Publishing Inc.
American Psychological Association (2013). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders - 5th Edition. Washington, DC; APA Publishing
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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
We released a bunch of videos on the topic of emotions this week. Were they helpful? Also, please welcome our newest animator Christian B. Let us know if you like this style, and want to see more!
@crystalqueer7246
@crystalqueer7246 4 жыл бұрын
Could you maybe do a videi about autism ed and ocd your.video's are so clear that I can understand it better and I try to understand my.gf who has autism ocd and anorexia
@Mii.2.0
@Mii.2.0 4 жыл бұрын
@@crystalqueer7246 That is terrible. Hopefully your gf is having a peachy day. 😎
@sakshamvimal5951
@sakshamvimal5951 4 жыл бұрын
All of them were helpful and welcome Christian B. 😄😄😄
@joker-pj9lp
@joker-pj9lp 4 жыл бұрын
Hello, could you say how I could make more friends that are girls? Seriously, I cant make any Feminine friendship.
@rinekyo
@rinekyo 4 жыл бұрын
i like the animation :D
@knurdcantdrink8000
@knurdcantdrink8000 4 жыл бұрын
I feel lonely but I don't want people around me.
@whatthfuckyuwant1253
@whatthfuckyuwant1253 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@Theguywithspectacles
@Theguywithspectacles 4 жыл бұрын
Edit : understandable
@Nostalgicinquisitor
@Nostalgicinquisitor 4 жыл бұрын
Same idk why
@antoniovivaldi1
@antoniovivaldi1 4 жыл бұрын
Same here. Even though feeling lonely is bad for me, i can't find anybody who i can contact with. They're just... weird to me
@jex1689
@jex1689 4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 жыл бұрын
“The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.” ― F. Scott Fitzgerald
@Orange_Swirl
@Orange_Swirl 4 жыл бұрын
Happened to me when my mother got married, everyone moved away from each other and went to different places. My aunt was then living with my grandfather, and my grandmother was put in a nursing home. I then had to deal with my stepfather and mother's poor judgements of me and poor methods of discipline. As it turns out, constantly threatening to kick your kid out does really help then feel secure.
@drakesmith471
@drakesmith471 4 жыл бұрын
Orange Swirl I’m sorry to hear that. No person should have to deal with those kinds of underhanded things.😕 I hope things are better now.
@drakesmith471
@drakesmith471 4 жыл бұрын
For me this quote resonates with me as it describes the last 4 years for me since my mom lost her mind. You kind of watch as the world unfurls like a loose string on a poorly made shirt. One half of my family told me to not feel anger about it, it was an illness and nothing warranted anger, the other said that there was nothing wrong with her. I had only my dad and brothers who truly understood and with it came sort of being removed from people, a result of mom and the situation. I didn’t tell anybody until last year, and now, only one or two of the handful I’ve told have been actually helpful. All of my meaningful relationships have been sort of snubbed due to this whole situation at large for all of us and it leaves an already lonely guy lonelier. It’s not always that all you can do is stare, but sometimes all you can do is let out a pain that has nowhere to go. Needless to say though, this quote resonates with me, thank you.
@rynsummer1711
@rynsummer1711 4 жыл бұрын
@@Orange_Swirl That's horrible. I hope you're doing well. I've been through the same so I know how that feel. Since my parents got divorced, I live with my grandma and mom. They constantly treathened me to send me to him while telling me how he never cared for me, how he is a monster since I'm in elementary school. It made my head spun because father always kind to me, to think he acted made me feel hurt. Even today I don't know which one is the truth or not, but I don't want to listen such crude words anymore. Sorry for blabbering stuff. I do really hope you get better as time goes on
@SpectreBagels
@SpectreBagels 4 жыл бұрын
This rings true for me alot that it kinda hurts to think about😏. Especially since it's been happening since childhood and things continue to slip from me. Not really anything I can do to stop it or change things I just kinda have to do my best to find happiness while going with the flow🤗
@destroyer_-ry2jf
@destroyer_-ry2jf 3 жыл бұрын
“The mirror is my best friend because when I cry it never laughs.” ― Charlie Chaplin
@mrmightyj5202
@mrmightyj5202 3 жыл бұрын
Hits deep
@martinhebein6751
@martinhebein6751 3 жыл бұрын
I mean it's true I do that :)
@inumakisenpai
@inumakisenpai 3 жыл бұрын
Woah
@50shadesofcringe
@50shadesofcringe 3 жыл бұрын
But if it does cry, it’s time you said goodbye to the mirror
@hellohowareyou8396
@hellohowareyou8396 2 жыл бұрын
Oh
@BombBadChris
@BombBadChris 3 жыл бұрын
I swear this year made me feel lonely ,depression, anxiousness and to the point I feel like I’m starting to lose myself in all of this.
@alekot7105
@alekot7105 3 жыл бұрын
Your name starting with Christ that was meant to be your name before you came to earth. You have a good purpose to be here and it’s the reason why Satan wants to take away your strength. Stay strong
@christopherkevin9486
@christopherkevin9486 3 жыл бұрын
fellow christopher we have each other
@mariehaverty8209
@mariehaverty8209 Жыл бұрын
When we change the way we look @ things the things we look @ change👍🙏
@imgoodkinda
@imgoodkinda Жыл бұрын
Same I feel like I'll just not talk to anyone since nobody wants to talk to me. I'll only talk to online people
@Sophia.sunsun
@Sophia.sunsun 8 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that this year has brought you feelings of loneliness, depression, and anxiety. It's important to prioritize your mental well-being and seek support if needed, as you deserve to regain a sense of self amidst these challenges.
@-k1ts0-97
@-k1ts0-97 4 жыл бұрын
9 Reasons why you feel lonely: 1- You're lonely
@esteemedcharacteractressma58
@esteemedcharacteractressma58 3 жыл бұрын
No shit.
@layanna8702
@layanna8702 3 жыл бұрын
i never would’ve thought of that one, wow
@bootyshart
@bootyshart 3 жыл бұрын
i mean, thats a pretty good theory. ill have to think abt that later..
@JessieArt
@JessieArt 3 жыл бұрын
LOL
@citrus6663
@citrus6663 3 жыл бұрын
huh who knew?
@Ultimate23Dragon
@Ultimate23Dragon 4 жыл бұрын
I swear this channel knows me better than I know me.
@aidenorsomething4002
@aidenorsomething4002 4 жыл бұрын
welcome to world of psychology lol
@SpectreBagels
@SpectreBagels 4 жыл бұрын
I know right🤣
@abdi646
@abdi646 4 жыл бұрын
I feel u
@NotNinjatic
@NotNinjatic 4 жыл бұрын
True
@vincylavrencia1148
@vincylavrencia1148 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Why tho
@rayahasun720
@rayahasun720 3 жыл бұрын
Why do I feel lonely? Because whenever I get close or vulnerable with someone, it just feels like I'm a burden to them and they already have someone they like better.
@imogenowen348
@imogenowen348 2 жыл бұрын
Thats exactly how I feel
@womannn
@womannn 2 жыл бұрын
@@imogenowen348 me too
@saizampuiisailo5700
@saizampuiisailo5700 2 жыл бұрын
That's how I feel even to my best friend
@xuavrice2338
@xuavrice2338 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it seems like anyone who makes your top 3 closest people, you fall outside of their top 5.
@MakaylaCole123
@MakaylaCole123 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Simon0501
@Simon0501 2 жыл бұрын
0:39 You don’t know how to connect with people 1:09 You’re afraid of intimacy 1:44 You’re going through a lot of change 2:17 You struggle with codependency 2:50 You’ve lost touch with yourself 3:23 You’re feeling misunderstood 3:54 You’re struggling to feel worthy 4:23 You’re spending time with the wrong people 4:50 You may have depression
@noonegirl
@noonegirl Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@adamcohen7642
@adamcohen7642 6 ай бұрын
I think there's a chicken-and-egg situation here. What if you're depressed *because* you feel lonely, *because* you feel misunderstood and not validated, *because* you're not a part of something bigger than yourself, *because* you're frustrated trying to find the right group(s) to feel less alone.
@iisaniis726
@iisaniis726 4 жыл бұрын
“4. You struggle with codependency” - it all went downhill from there
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Would you like a video on that?
@TheMrFabian1
@TheMrFabian1 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Yes!
@tianchris_______3186
@tianchris_______3186 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go *raises hand* ✋ yes please..
@qckreplacementvideos7561
@qckreplacementvideos7561 4 жыл бұрын
Went downhill from 1 for me lel
@sagittarius284
@sagittarius284 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Pleeeaaaaaseee!
@baconatorrrrrrr
@baconatorrrrrrr 4 жыл бұрын
I swear this channel can read my thoughts haha. Whenever I struggle with something a video pops up on the topic!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
@indigofenrir7236
@indigofenrir7236 4 жыл бұрын
Confirmation bias.
@rainsolosmud9196
@rainsolosmud9196 4 жыл бұрын
Same, I sreached everything but nothing described what I'm feeling but psych just read me
@OverlandTT
@OverlandTT 4 жыл бұрын
Katherine Surur my partner passed away seven weeks ago, I miss her so much... I'm very alone
@baconatorrrrrrr
@baconatorrrrrrr 4 жыл бұрын
@@OverlandTT I'm so sorry to hear that 💕 Stay strong! This made me tear up a little. One of my greatest fears is losing my boyfriend and this was a reminder that I should always be grateful for what I have. Thank you for sharing 💕
@addivamp
@addivamp 3 жыл бұрын
I feel lonely because the people I felt so close with ignore me for other people when in a social setting...just acknowledge me... please
@ivythealiencat
@ivythealiencat 3 жыл бұрын
Damn nobody replied to you 😭
@Alex_Hernandez999
@Alex_Hernandez999 2 жыл бұрын
*hugs you*
@Alex_Hernandez999
@Alex_Hernandez999 2 жыл бұрын
@@ivythealiencat A lot of people can be afraid to say the wrong thing, I just took a leap with what I wanted to say and am just leaving it to fate.
@ivythealiencat
@ivythealiencat 2 жыл бұрын
@@Alex_Hernandez999 I feel bad tho bc they just wanted to be noticed yet was unanswered again lol
@jilliansfavoritepencil4104
@jilliansfavoritepencil4104 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah...I feel you :/
@felixneumayer9823
@felixneumayer9823 3 жыл бұрын
1. I always see people on social media doing cool stuff with their friends like going to concerts or visiting lost places or whatever... whenever I meet someone (most likely with my twin brother because on my own I never had the chance to meet others) we only sit in a room and play video games... 2. I am 19 and I never had a closer relationship to anyone... especially not to girls... and I think that wont change because I always have this unconcious feeling of not being good enough... I cant keep good conversations going for long because after a few words I just dont know what to say anymore... I am super shy around others and cant come up with fun things to say or to do... i can imagine that being around me is super boring. 3. well...not really... I started going to college a year ago but my loneliness started way back in high school. 4. Since I never had someone like this I cant really tell why but I still make others source of my happines... on my own Im sad most of the time and dont know what to do because everything bores me. 5. I dont really know what I want from life and I dont even know what I enjoy doing... my interests change every few days and I just cant do anything for a longer period of time... 6. Especially my parents dont really know me... I am kind of different when I am with them... I actually think of mysef as funny and I can make them laugh but I dont tell them about my problems because they end up belittling everything I say. 7. Well... like I already mentioned I dont feel good enough for closer relationships but I never experienced a break up... its more like whenever I tried to arrange to see a "friend" they always made excuses why they dont have time all of a sudden. 8. I dont spend much time at all with anyone... only place I see people is work. 9. since this is a problem for me since I went to high school first I honestly think depression is a thing for me. I dont know why I wrote that... noone will read it anyways xD but I somehow wanted to write it down...
@felixneumayer9823
@felixneumayer9823 3 жыл бұрын
@@redflower295 thank you, but nothing relly has changed apparently :/
@christalauracollection7391
@christalauracollection7391 3 жыл бұрын
I can't lie I also loose interest easily on things that used to be my thing
@froppy7526
@froppy7526 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know what to tell you 😭 but from my experience i tried to mimic how other people talk as a kid because i was that weird, shy , lonely kid in school. Surprisingly it worked a little bit! Overtime you pick up some stuff. But you need to mimic only “how” they talk and then add your own uniqueness to it . I also watched a lot of youtubers in high school just to know how they talk with strangers. I feel like an alien learning how to be a human 😂💔 Hope you have a nice day 🥳
@HiiHiiHooHoo
@HiiHiiHooHoo 2 жыл бұрын
So relatable
@Christian-mj7ti
@Christian-mj7ti 2 жыл бұрын
Point number 2 is so relatable man. I always see myself as uninteresting, i always fear that the words i say arent good, etc.
@night_hawk-278
@night_hawk-278 4 жыл бұрын
I almost cry watching this all the signs are so relatable
@entertainmentsection5053
@entertainmentsection5053 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my, i though it was weird that i cried watching this. Not alone huh
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Which signs did you notice relate to you most?
@entertainmentsection5053
@entertainmentsection5053 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go the "you struggle with codependency" and "you've lost touch with yourself" parts. The last part hits so bad
@shehzadthapa7210
@shehzadthapa7210 3 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@BombBadChris
@BombBadChris 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s hits you it hits you hard
@LuisFlores-tx4ee
@LuisFlores-tx4ee 4 жыл бұрын
When you realize you have all these signs: (chuckles) *I’m in danger*
@marbellacortez2554
@marbellacortez2554 4 жыл бұрын
Ah ha ha ha....same😭
@Karkitts
@Karkitts 4 жыл бұрын
Haha yeah
@andreiciotec9591
@andreiciotec9591 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@keitiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
@keitiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii 3 жыл бұрын
Same here 😅
@user-fh2zc9lh1k
@user-fh2zc9lh1k 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@sassylittleprophet
@sassylittleprophet 3 жыл бұрын
Why do I feel lonely? Because every single person I get vulnerable with hurts me. Literally. Every. Single. Person. Edit (7 months later): Okay, all except one. Good people exist, they're out there.
@nightsky9939
@nightsky9939 3 жыл бұрын
You’ll find someone soon who won’t hurt you after you get vulnerable with but if that never happens those people are cruel idiots. Have a lovely day
@sassylittleprophet
@sassylittleprophet 3 жыл бұрын
@@nightsky9939 ❤
@krischoudhury1896
@krischoudhury1896 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you man cause same :(
@sassylittleprophet
@sassylittleprophet 2 жыл бұрын
@@krischoudhury1896 ❤
@aqsashaheen1305
@aqsashaheen1305 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@lorilewlewis4915
@lorilewlewis4915 3 жыл бұрын
I'm lonely because nobody wants to spend time with me because I am Terminally Ill. My friends have told me that they feel uncomfortable being with me and don't know what to say. I have told them to talk to me about everyday things, the News, what they have been doing, etc and to laugh and joke with me.
@Moon-co7dc
@Moon-co7dc 2 жыл бұрын
if you feel lonely ... you can talk to me .. cause i am also alone
@fr334a11
@fr334a11 2 жыл бұрын
@abelq8008
@abelq8008 2 жыл бұрын
Hey I hope you are still around. Death is only a station on the tracks, not the end of the line.
@vsauce4350
@vsauce4350 2 жыл бұрын
Are you still with us?
@arpitaallenadams7730
@arpitaallenadams7730 2 жыл бұрын
That must be the saddest thing to experience, knowing you are terminally ill and nobody wants to spend time with you or talk with you. If you can view it as a gift to turn inward to find your best friend in your heart who is always with you, then you will be happy. May you be filled with the love and light that you are.
@andrewmetasov
@andrewmetasov 4 жыл бұрын
1: you're lonely That's it
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
:'(
@ssarah9292
@ssarah9292 4 жыл бұрын
Андрей Метасов mood
@CrescentPaws5000
@CrescentPaws5000 3 жыл бұрын
I just want like not be freezing in my room and not be lonely
@geckomangamin5316
@geckomangamin5316 3 жыл бұрын
I have a group of friends. We're all epic gamers. But whenever I'm not communicating with them, I am lonely and every time I wanna play a game, I have to be playing with someone. Or I have to watch a video with someone. That's why I like reaction videos, because it makes me feel like someone's there with me.
@geckomangamin5316
@geckomangamin5316 3 жыл бұрын
@Julya Flyer Ok.
@teodortodorov1662
@teodortodorov1662 4 жыл бұрын
Others think about parties, alcohole, smoking, girl/boyfriends I think about "How I need to live to be better person"
@Charmed_Ridge
@Charmed_Ridge 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@faithrenee9608
@faithrenee9608 3 жыл бұрын
Same, I guess there are other people just like me huh
@galaxydoughnut4538
@galaxydoughnut4538 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@soulful4558
@soulful4558 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@nandagopalr8246
@nandagopalr8246 3 жыл бұрын
yeah mee too
@hmidontknowyou1882
@hmidontknowyou1882 3 жыл бұрын
The only reason I fell lonely is because i don't have friends and im getting bored talking to my parents all the time
@Bella-xk5pl
@Bella-xk5pl 3 жыл бұрын
Atleast you talking to your parents 🥺
@officialreviews7
@officialreviews7 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate. I have friends online and in real life but I feel I am not close to anyone and it hurts to know that when I have problems I don’t know who to turn to. I try to be strong but I don’t know if I can handle it
@saloniupadhyay607
@saloniupadhyay607 3 жыл бұрын
Will you be my friend
@saloniupadhyay607
@saloniupadhyay607 3 жыл бұрын
@wham s hey
@SameerULZP_
@SameerULZP_ 3 жыл бұрын
At least you are able to talk to your parents
@MrAnimater_Vr
@MrAnimater_Vr 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I have a heart of an extrovert but with the soul of an introvert I want to be with others but I have no motivation to do it and just live the hermit life for most of the time
@AbbysalWarrior72756
@AbbysalWarrior72756 Ай бұрын
Me too bro it’s so frustrating
@marbellacortez2554
@marbellacortez2554 4 жыл бұрын
1: you don't know how to connect with people Me: well this is going great so far *sobbing*
@nO-ey3zn
@nO-ey3zn 3 жыл бұрын
Yep 🤣
@Blue_3987
@Blue_3987 3 жыл бұрын
😢it is true though
@GHOST-vy3cj
@GHOST-vy3cj 2 жыл бұрын
This is the most accurate thing I’ve heard all day
@fernandogomezdelatorre3296
@fernandogomezdelatorre3296 4 жыл бұрын
Feeling lonely is harsh, not gonna lie. Give yourself time to be sad but after that I think you should put yourself out there and really try to create meaningful connections with others :)
@HayashidaAkuro
@HayashidaAkuro 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'll try.
@eeb1144
@eeb1144 4 жыл бұрын
Not when u have social anxietyyyyyyyyy
@Carricklie
@Carricklie 4 жыл бұрын
Feeling lonely caused from heartbreak is the worst. Last year i get rejected and until now i feel lonely and still cant move on. now i even more lonely because of coronavirus quarantine.
@carlyskanberg3272
@carlyskanberg3272 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t make connections my mom said I can’t talk to anyone until school starts up so I have no way of talking to anybody at all and I’m gonna lose the connections that I had with people bc I can’t talk to them from March-August lol (I made this yt acc as a secret)
@alexandra7293
@alexandra7293 4 жыл бұрын
It's quarantine😭
@nicoleyellow816
@nicoleyellow816 3 жыл бұрын
The only reason why I get lonely is when someone who I talk to every day stops talking. I get so used to it that I get so lonely even when I don't talk to them for just one day.
@amiattractive2293
@amiattractive2293 2 жыл бұрын
This is so relatable with me 😭😭😭😢
@melodyal3357
@melodyal3357 2 жыл бұрын
I can absolutely relate!!🙏
@LikeableAden
@LikeableAden 5 ай бұрын
Omg I can relate
@azryxthefolf6331
@azryxthefolf6331 3 жыл бұрын
I just can't make friends or give love anymore. I don't know why. I just can't anymore, there are so many reasons why. I'm constantly questioning myself about "Do I need friends?" "Will I live and die lonely? Unloved?" "What am I doing?" "Why?" "How?" And so much more. I'm just overwhelmed, but I'll never be able to make a new friend.
@LikeableAden
@LikeableAden 5 ай бұрын
I feel the same thing and idk how to do about it
@youremostage9217
@youremostage9217 4 жыл бұрын
I feel lonely a lot
@guiltyguy3931
@guiltyguy3931 4 жыл бұрын
Me 2 Sans, i just don't show it.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Do you want to be lonely together? =)
@alchemy-the-animated-series
@alchemy-the-animated-series 4 жыл бұрын
The Alternate Universe same all my friends hang out and go places with the whole friend group but don’t invite me. And my friends barely wanna text me anymore, heck most just stopped replying
@dacanation12
@dacanation12 4 жыл бұрын
I’m lonely every day
@FSSRKeyno
@FSSRKeyno 4 жыл бұрын
same here, ........
@Cheetahwarrior-wu2kg
@Cheetahwarrior-wu2kg 4 жыл бұрын
When you finally realize the mix of emotions you’ve been having was actually loneliness
@meep9231
@meep9231 3 жыл бұрын
Cheetahwarrior2054 Ah, so that’s why I’ve been cutting myself!
@melodyal3357
@melodyal3357 2 жыл бұрын
👌100% relating to this. :(
@user-gz4ve8mw9l
@user-gz4ve8mw9l 3 ай бұрын
@@melodyal3357 Hope your doing better now buddy, it's been a year since you commented this.
@shutupidiot16yearsago79
@shutupidiot16yearsago79 3 жыл бұрын
Look at the star in the night sky and notice how lonely it is yet it shines so bright all alone by itself but never forget you're not a star.
@mytsampa2044
@mytsampa2044 3 жыл бұрын
i m in tears while watching this, loneliness sucks
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 жыл бұрын
“All I ever wanted was to reach out and touch another human being not just with my hands but with my heart.” ― Tahereh Mafi
@stonksboi69
@stonksboi69 4 жыл бұрын
Reason one: I have no friends. Reason two: I have no friends. Reason three: I have no frien- Edit: How’d this get so many likes?! 😳
@stonksboi69
@stonksboi69 3 жыл бұрын
Cxco Floofs Oof, same. (tho I don’t have siblings)
@monke6166
@monke6166 3 жыл бұрын
I have five friends. One of them I’m about to lose..
@azzahranovaayasya5356
@azzahranovaayasya5356 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, we can be friends
@foziaazfar7747
@foziaazfar7747 3 жыл бұрын
@@3vangelist_art471 for me as well. Even my husband.
@LemonMatcha
@LemonMatcha 3 жыл бұрын
tbh i have many friends but im only friends with them just because we have the same interests, not because we share feelings to each other. no wonder why im lonely :/
@jiezhiwu7331
@jiezhiwu7331 3 жыл бұрын
That’s me. Even when I’m with my group of friends I feel like I don’t fit in and I don’t open up...
@Cherrycreamsoda1
@Cherrycreamsoda1 2 жыл бұрын
“Because the person you spend the most time with has become a complete stranger to you.” Wow. That hit different.
@HazeAbysmal
@HazeAbysmal 4 жыл бұрын
Basically, I fear making friends cause I always feel they will eventually turn on me. I get very excited and anxious around them, and now, I fear having friends sometimes. I've gone through 2 breakups with someone I still love, lost so many friends throughout only 2 years, and seemingly can't ever catch a break. Man, life just sucks sometimes.
@woomeebly
@woomeebly 3 жыл бұрын
Yep I've been down that road last year. someone turned on me because they told me to choose between my boyfriend and then going out and and were unreasonable when I did go out with them, expecting me to pay for everything, expecting me to nod my head and say yes to everything and I couldn't. I'm tired of people being friends with me to try and get stuff out of me. Im fed up with guys approaching me to exercise their mistaken right to try to treat me like a blow-up doll. I'd rather be lonely than with people and desperately unhappy.
@melanievega3469
@melanievega3469 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way…I lost my close friends less than a year plus at the time I was in a toxic and abusive relationship and they don’t understand what I went through so they drifted away from me. I had a boyfriend and he broke up with me after I felt like I had someone who I felt like I didn’t need to look anywhere else. Even with family I still feel so alone without friends. And it is really affecting me tonight.
@BrandoTheMando47
@BrandoTheMando47 3 жыл бұрын
I met a girl at work this past summer, we became pretty close. Now she's moved away and barely talks to me.... it hurts a lot more than I ever would have imagined, especially since making friends isn't easy for me (I only have a few) and have never had a girlfriend.
@melodyal3357
@melodyal3357 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that.:( if it makes you feel a bit better, I lost all the friends I was close with I considered real ones but it turned out they weren’t honest and real as I took our friendship to be (as I behaved towards them). In a matter of love, I ,lost’ 10 years with someone I loved deeply, my best years, the youth; we were breaking up for at least 10 times, I even moved out to another country for him (twice), and now? We are complete strangers, so the result is as if nothing that ever was really existed, result of it all is just a zero and he was the love of my life no matter result. I’ve heard thou he has a gf now, I am still alone (,,someone worthy” just didn’t come along). So what I meant to say with this my comment/ story to your story is that if it makes your pain a bit less heavier, I’m at least glad I could help.. ;)
@skylerp6356
@skylerp6356 4 жыл бұрын
4:06 I started crying with the lil plant dude 🥺
@Charmed_Ridge
@Charmed_Ridge 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@blackpinkkitty5636
@blackpinkkitty5636 3 жыл бұрын
Same here..
@myownaccountable
@myownaccountable 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that all the things she stated in this video is what’s EXACTLY going on in my life rn , like everything relates to me
@DoRiFTo102
@DoRiFTo102 3 жыл бұрын
I really want to thank the narrator! Your smooth and calming voice helps to cope with all emotional turmoil I am in. And these videos really help and complement my therapy. Thanks to all who makes this content, I may not have friends, but I feel one in your videos.
@narcissistichealingforempaths
@narcissistichealingforempaths 4 жыл бұрын
Actually, if you go deeper into it, the feeling of loneliness stems from a feeling of being incomplete, not whole. Wholeness will come in a human only when the human integrates all parts of himself/herself - shadow integration. This will remove all sense of loneliness, even when a human is all alone, all the time.
@midnightblues9974
@midnightblues9974 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, well said. Do you have any articles or books you can share that go deeper into the subject. I'm looking to heal myself and become whole 😊.
@narcissistichealingforempaths
@narcissistichealingforempaths 3 жыл бұрын
@@midnightblues9974 I have some self help videos on my channel. Please feel free to check them out 😊
@melodyal3357
@melodyal3357 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds interesting. We would need more explanations, with more details regarding to your comment.. :)
@leonielisaleitner2505
@leonielisaleitner2505 2 жыл бұрын
Here’s it applied to me: 1. Yes, this really affected me when I was younger, since I was a lot at home and never really learned to socialize 2. I have a great fear of rejection and abandonment 3. I’m in my 6th school and move all the time with the only thing not changing being my mother 4. So yeah, I started feel very codependent with my mother 5. I think this is a thing most teens go through but loneliness makes it even worse 6. Since I am an HSP people often didn’t understand my emotions and needs 7. My fathers ex made me feel unworthy 8. I used to hang out with a lot of people who bullied me everyday but they were the only people I had at that time so I couldn’t break the relationship 9. not really depression, but other mental health problems
@novanebula8004
@novanebula8004 3 жыл бұрын
It's hard when the only person you've ever truly connected with leaves you after a year and a half essentially because they just didn't feel anything towards you anymore and there was nothing you could do about it
@brittanyv
@brittanyv 2 жыл бұрын
:( I'm going through something similar.
@novanebula8004
@novanebula8004 2 жыл бұрын
@@brittanyv It's okay. It gets easier I promise. Please take care of yourself my friend
@scourge392
@scourge392 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah … happend to my friends
@AdamarisCraftsss
@AdamarisCraftsss 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this hit hard. I’m the loneliest I’ve ever been in my 31 years. I was codependent on my sister for so long and now have had to cut her off due to her becoming abusive and toxic. I don’t even know who I am outside of her. I can’t relate to people. I crave human interactions yet I have social anxiety. I struggle to even have conversations with coworkers. I see them all get along so well, even hanging out outside of work and I am struggling to try to be someone they can be friends with. I haven’t had friends in over 13 years and I feel empty. I spent all of yesterday and today in bed sleeping because I feel uninterested in anything. Why did I have to be this way 😞
@harrycrime8836
@harrycrime8836 4 жыл бұрын
I'm almost 24 and I can see my life going this way. I was also codependent on my sister but she travelled and we were separated so we so each other less and less but still kept a very good contact. Then I was with a friend of mine without realizing it before he cut me loose. I'm now uninterested in most things and struggle to interact with people if it's not meaningful. I won't engage in conversation unless there is something really profound to discuss. Sometimes I try but it just comes out the wrong way so sometimes I just don't. Sorry to bother you with my story. I just wanted to tell you I can relate somehow. Obviously I'm suffering from this but I think it helps me know myself better. I believe that I shouldn't be struggling to be friends with someone because I know I can be a very good friend and if people don't care to discuss/interact with me despite me trying, I let go. They probably don't feel the need/want to be friends with me and that's ok. Not everybody can get along. At this point in my life, I'm mentally preparing myself to be misunderstood and alone forever and that's ok because I learned through all my hardships being alone is a lot better than being with the wrong people or passing for someone I am not. I will not invest time in people who won't do the same for me and that would be my silly advice for you. Of course I'm in no position myself to advise you but you should do what's best for you.
@QueenJessina
@QueenJessina 4 жыл бұрын
Ironically you’re not alone ❤️
@mjglover4013
@mjglover4013 3 жыл бұрын
You probably have got nothing in common with your co-workers. That doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you. It is possible to work well with people but not want a connection outside of work. That is fine. You have probably been let down by people so are finding it difficult to trust people again. People can have hundreds of friends but mainly “surface friends” (general chit chat friends, weather, holidays etc) rather than “deeper friendship” friends (meeting up, helping each other). Social networking can be misleading as people might have lots of friends but not who they know that well or people who have changed over the years. Hobbies might help you to connect with people who enjoy what you do, or eventually another line of work. Take care. It is possible to outgrow people or view people as “friendly professionals” rather than be “professional friends.” When people get divorced or face bereavement “friends” can easily disappear or even in an immature way take sides, or claim to want to “keep out of it” or “do not know what to say.” Well the problem is theirs. Good Luck!
@yourfavoriteperson3653
@yourfavoriteperson3653 3 жыл бұрын
the main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to fill up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
@macaroni1121
@macaroni1121 3 жыл бұрын
You're perfect in your own way! Hope you can get better and find some amazing ppl, sending my love and support 💖💕
@what9460
@what9460 4 жыл бұрын
Just figured out it was on unlisted XD
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
You must have found it from the previous video!
@what9460
@what9460 4 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go Yes I did!
@peachaesthxtic23
@peachaesthxtic23 Жыл бұрын
I am literally at a point of lonliness where I feel like I'm never enough for anyone and feel like a burden to everyone out there... I gets thoughts like I'm boring, or not interesting at all.. basically I feel inferior to others in terms of socialising because I have been enduring so much lonliness that I think I deserve this for being the person that I'm am.. basically I m sick of myself
@grownosis
@grownosis Жыл бұрын
It's not uncommon to feel like you're not enough, or that you're a burden to others, especially when you're feeling lonely and isolated. However, these thoughts are not reflective of reality and it's important to remember that they are just negative self-talk that can be overcome with time and self-care. It's also important to recognize that everyone experiences rejection and disappointment at some point in their lives, and that doesn't make you inferior or not worthy of friendship and connection. Consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional for support. They can help you work through your feelings and provide you with new perspectives and coping strategies. Remember to take care of yourself and engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Don't be too hard on yourself and focus on your strengths and positive qualities. You deserve happiness and support, just like everyone else.💜💡
@rajkumarmarichetty2737
@rajkumarmarichetty2737 3 жыл бұрын
You have the calmest voice I’ve ever heard. Somehow the video just adds to the calmness.
@heartbreakersclub7948
@heartbreakersclub7948 4 жыл бұрын
🥺🖤i know what it's like to wake up everyday and feel like you dont belong, you can be in a room with a million people and still feel alone .
@komolinabage4276
@komolinabage4276 4 жыл бұрын
Here is the summary of the video 1. You don't know how to connect with people 2. You are afraid of intimacy 3. You're going through a lot of change 4. You struggle with codependency 5. You've lost touch with yourself 6. You're feeling misunderstood 7. You're struggling to feel worthy 8. You're spending time with the wrong people 9. You may have depression
@M30A
@M30A 4 жыл бұрын
no thanks
@lumino6508
@lumino6508 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@simona_sigmund1001
@simona_sigmund1001 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 3, 5, 6, 7 and 9...... damn
@komolinabage4276
@komolinabage4276 3 жыл бұрын
@@simona_sigmund1001 don't worry things will get better
@wermthewerm
@wermthewerm Жыл бұрын
Man.. 1, 3, 5, 6, 7 AND 9. I am not okay :(
@jdcoyote9331
@jdcoyote9331 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reminding viewers that people with those symptoms might want to to seek professional care, because sometimes, it could be none of the above. I know of at least two people who complain of feeling lonely, but they will never recognize that they are the problem. Others may not want to be with them too long because they are constantly talking about what a poor, lonely victim they are. No body understands them or loves them even thought they are so loving, so on and so forth. A lay person such as myself, should never even imply they need help. But when they hear it from some one outside their circle, they might, just might take the suggestion seriously. Thanks.
@jeffinachristy598
@jeffinachristy598 3 жыл бұрын
I think it's better being lonely rather than having a relationship with toxic people who use us.. I don't know why but I'm convinced that every one is not trustable.
@xadomlollp
@xadomlollp 2 жыл бұрын
I have that feeling too even though ive never rly been betrayed after elementary. Since high school i alwqys had platonic relationships with people because its hard for me to trust someone. Ive ended up with 2 close friends. Now im in university. wasted my first two semesters doing nothing during quarantine. I started to mistrust everyone even my close friends. I started to imagine which scenarios could happen and how my friends really are ln the inside. This got to a point where i have an attack of fear about my future literally everyday. Im always imagining the worst scenarios possible so that i cant get caught offguard and now im prepared for every bad situation and im an extremly good liar to the point where i pass the lie from one person to the next so that theres no chance of me getting exposed. This has caused many attacks of sudden uncontrollable fear about my future and about the worst outcomes of everything. The worst thing is that i can rationalize almost everything. I know that some fears are just downright stupid and really unlikely. Im always aware of what makes me feel a certain way and that most my negative thoughts are just psychological reactions to things. Im aware of all this because i always use logic and reason for everything but it only helps so mich knowing that and it mostly helped a few months ago. But ive got the feeling that the negative thoughts became mich more frequent and that even being aware about it doenst help anymore. I just want this to end
@CatOfTheYearuWu
@CatOfTheYearuWu 4 жыл бұрын
Relates to almost every reason* “Eh I’m fine”
@Absolhunter251
@Absolhunter251 4 жыл бұрын
My life in a nutshell. I guess I'm not alone in this video, by the lists here. Thank you for the video... I'm a lonely person who is hurting.
@damian_sankaran
@damian_sankaran 3 жыл бұрын
It helps to reach out, even to random strangers on the internet ( which is what I am doing now).
@kennethcochran5277
@kennethcochran5277 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for showing this video. It means a lot for me.
@sarahjade5854
@sarahjade5854 3 жыл бұрын
These videos can see into my heart and soul with more clarity than I can.
@axisignition
@axisignition 4 жыл бұрын
ive been lonely since 13...and i'll laughed so hard cuz i know the "friends" that i had they just don't want me as a friend. but for all of you who more lonely than me, you guys have the strongest will and spirit. let yourself be true and be awesome what you do. cuz you are an awesome person. Stay safe and stay awesome
@yourfavoriteperson3653
@yourfavoriteperson3653 3 жыл бұрын
The main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to feel up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
@mesh7342
@mesh7342 4 жыл бұрын
I see myself as an emotionally intelligent person, I love those around me and appreciate them but the fact that I have my own beliefs and interests and simply a different mind since there are things that I see okay but the people around me never see them acceptable always makes me feel lonely. People misunderstand me even though they see me as a great kind person, and it's like no matter how hard I try to be myself, my closest friends don't see it, they misunderstand it and interpret it in a different way (not as in rude or things like this). I feel like I understand those around me but there's no connection. That's why I want to study uni in another country (after I finish high school next year and hopefully get into astrophysics or an engineering major) meet new people and maybe find a new friend who would understand me! I'll try to make online friends from different places and religions to maybe understand people more and make great friends 😊
@tranquillite1351
@tranquillite1351 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I had a close friend when I was able to help them with their problems, but they could not accept my problems when they tried to listen to mine. It hurts that I lost someone so valuable just because they lacked patience with me. It's like the busier you get in your life, the more distances or changes you see between you and your friend (whom you thought would actually be a long term friend) I can understand emotions and also have a high EQ, yet still struggle in a world that only cares about the contributions you put to work or to help a team in project build-up. People need emotional connection, and a lot just take it for granted, or they cannot believe something good is happening to them hence they push the possibility of a decent friend. We humans are so complicated of what we want and when we want something. All the best for your future. Best to clear out some of your goals and naturally you may get the friend/s you have always needed. You look like your in the process of making decisions for your future and that requires a lot of planning and research. As long as you have good intentions, you shall be fine :). I am currently a college student in the field of Animation and design.
@drakesmith471
@drakesmith471 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, there is something disappointing in understanding others so much better than they could begin to try understand you.😕
@mesh7342
@mesh7342 4 жыл бұрын
@@tranquillite1351 Thank you! And I hope the best for u too ☆
@mesh7342
@mesh7342 4 жыл бұрын
@@drakesmith471 True, there's also something disappointing in not being able to do something about it, this world is so big yet it makes me feel like there's a pattern for emotions and that there's not much to do about it.
@avocat7736
@avocat7736 4 жыл бұрын
I feel a similar way. I do have a few friends but I’m only partly emotionally connected to them (if that makes sense) . I have a lot of different interests that they don’t share so I only can talk about very few topics with them. I can’t really show them the person who I really am because I rarely show them my true emotions. I genuinely like them but I still feel lonely 😔. I hope someday I find a person who I can really talk to about my feelings and interests!
@theartist2235
@theartist2235 3 жыл бұрын
this totally helped me understand... everything. this is probably my main sad emotion
@arpitaallenadams7730
@arpitaallenadams7730 2 жыл бұрын
This is a great video delivering a lot of awareness on loneliness. We are lonely because we have abandon our hearts and forgotten our true self, the Love and Light that we are. There are so many tools to get us back to connecting to our true self and let love in. Meditation is one of the best ways to heal our brokenness.
@jamespicklehead5610
@jamespicklehead5610 4 жыл бұрын
When the guy at the Apple Store was helping me set up my new phone he looked at my contacts and said, these are ALL your contacts?
@ivythealiencat
@ivythealiencat 3 жыл бұрын
F
@scourge392
@scourge392 2 жыл бұрын
F
@celestee3766
@celestee3766 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to found someone that really loves me, I hate being in my house it's like being trapped with people who want to destroy who I am
@hamdibazian2495
@hamdibazian2495 3 жыл бұрын
I'm quite lonely actually but feel more lonely when I'm surrounded by my immediate family. I've moved out of my parents house and I refuse to go back, even that they're begging me to do so. I hope you get what you want ☺️
@voicegirl6997
@voicegirl6997 3 жыл бұрын
The animation is perfectly on spot. It's amazing how simple looking animation can give so much emotion. Give out your appreciation for the creators of these videos also.
@halohaihola
@halohaihola 3 жыл бұрын
grateful to find this content. very deep, everything is absolutely right🤧
@strwb3rri_s0ap83
@strwb3rri_s0ap83 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to all of these unfortunately :(
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Which ones do you relate to most?
@user-sw5zq6wf8o
@user-sw5zq6wf8o 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go from 4 to 9
@Amber-hw1zw
@Amber-hw1zw 4 жыл бұрын
Me too😔
@strwb3rri_s0ap83
@strwb3rri_s0ap83 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go the last couple from 4-9 your videos help me out alot and have helped me realize alot of mental health problems I have like anxiety and depression and showing me I may be in a toxic relationship or friendship thank you for these videos 💞💕💖
@yunhosboo7522
@yunhosboo7522 3 жыл бұрын
Same :
@motomarrk
@motomarrk 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for telling the reasons why I felt so lonely.
@yourfavoriteperson3653
@yourfavoriteperson3653 3 жыл бұрын
The main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to feel up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
@motomarrk
@motomarrk 3 жыл бұрын
@@yourfavoriteperson3653 wonderful... 🤩🤩🤩
@sanakuchan1435
@sanakuchan1435 3 жыл бұрын
I am so lonely, i cry. I wish people in my life could hang out with me more, but everyone is just too busy for me. I sit at home and don't have any friends, and my family is pretty distant and hard to relate to, except for my cousin whom i have a sibling like relationship with, but even he is too busy for me due to him being in college. I have no life, and been lonely for a long time, much to the point it makes me depressed.
@Lele-bf9fz
@Lele-bf9fz 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could meet somebody like you so we could spend time together since we know how it is to feel like everyone is too busy for us
@lilstephany837
@lilstephany837 3 жыл бұрын
Reason 2,3 .. It felt so real.. you can read our minds.. you exactly know what's going wrong in our life.. Thank you for this video🙃
@user-sw5zq6wf8o
@user-sw5zq6wf8o 4 жыл бұрын
When you are an hsp and feeling lonely for more than 9 years and not sure if you have depression 🙂💔
@mewluvr
@mewluvr 4 жыл бұрын
too relatable HAHA
@waving7083
@waving7083 3 жыл бұрын
i felt this comment, not even lying a little bit. are we the same person? finally someone i can relate to
@mayak8131
@mayak8131 3 жыл бұрын
Oh god yes , I’m also an HSP
@arorasaakshi
@arorasaakshi 3 жыл бұрын
same omg
@cloudieskye5130
@cloudieskye5130 3 жыл бұрын
@@mayak8131 every one hates me at school because I am a HSP
@mellowmelone7752
@mellowmelone7752 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, the animation is beautiful!
@yourehereforthatarentyou
@yourehereforthatarentyou 4 жыл бұрын
thanks
@ScarletSheldon-pr3iq
@ScarletSheldon-pr3iq 3 ай бұрын
mate you didnt evne do shit@@yourehereforthatarentyou
@grandma1592
@grandma1592 2 жыл бұрын
wow.. you really understand more than myself, this makes me feel a lot better. you're the best channel we all need you always make me feel less sad when i got no friend to cheer me up:)
@casscat7
@casscat7 3 жыл бұрын
I have been feeling very lonely for a while... and it's been getting to me. thank you for this video, it really did help me understand things better.
@souminda
@souminda 4 жыл бұрын
I always try to be like them in front of them so that they talk to me. And later feel confused about my self. *I just don't know what I'm doing*
@Senacesn
@Senacesn 3 жыл бұрын
Same, doing that with every group of people I've ever interacted with made me lose my personality and I'm so angry at myself for that
@auraliax1323
@auraliax1323 4 жыл бұрын
OMG i have never felf this alone in my life and with the pandemic things got worse😣
@lfamvs5520
@lfamvs5520 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I struggle from ‘misunderstood loneliness’ at the moment. So knowing that helps
@amandaacevedo987
@amandaacevedo987 3 жыл бұрын
After n°4 i started crying. It was like everything came clear in my mind at damn,it hit hard. I love this channel cuz is like that friend who you can always count to say your feelings out loud. ♥
@OPPSATO1
@OPPSATO1 4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t feel lonely until my ex dumped me and my freinds moving away. On top of that, i’ve been suffering from depression and anxiety, my medication for my bipolar disorder had to be increased, i’ve barely passed school, i’ve spent hours in therapy and despite all of that i’m still not been taken serious by my parents who just thinks i’m overreacting. How’s your 2020? :)
@lekireddylavanya3910
@lekireddylavanya3910 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong.I really hope you get through these hard times.
@OPPSATO1
@OPPSATO1 3 жыл бұрын
@@lekireddylavanya3910 I’m better now. I’m living comfortable in Oslo nowadays and 2021 is looking brighter for me. It’s been nice lately :)
@lekireddylavanya3910
@lekireddylavanya3910 3 жыл бұрын
@@OPPSATO1 I'm happy for u 😄 Have a nice year ahead . Happy Christmas!!
@OPPSATO1
@OPPSATO1 3 жыл бұрын
@@lekireddylavanya3910 Thanks and you too! Marry Christmas :)
@LikeableAden
@LikeableAden 5 ай бұрын
Your definitely not alone for this
@lucia19397
@lucia19397 4 жыл бұрын
6 you feel misunderstood "As an introvert I can relate a lot"
@lucia19397
@lucia19397 3 жыл бұрын
@Adrian R People say that they believe on what do i say, but i feel that they are believing on the oppositive.
@womannn
@womannn 3 жыл бұрын
I wanna share my pain.Today I've went to outside with my mom and brothers to taking a breath. I've promised me to delete toxic people instead of them meet new people and make friends a few month ago. Unfortunately, everything is the same I'm deceiving myself with different excuses. I was going to talk a boy sitting on the bench but this time I used the curfew as an excuse and mom was calling me. I just can't go and say hi to a person like something is preventing me I didn't figure it out yet but I guess it's a self lack of self-esteem from the past. I was a shy child people make fun of it and laughed at me. My middle school was also bad we bullied with my ex friend and a few weeks ago she doesn't answer my message and I block her bcs I couldn't stand it. I'm in high school now but even last year our teacher knowing that I couldn't solve the question she was putting me on the board and that it was stressing me out. I even was happy when the quarantine starts bcs of I've not surrounded by people and no stress. I felt in school like I'm hating. But now I feel the loneliness so deep and I'm thinking go to a psychologist . I have to go to a psychologist? (Sorry for english)
@OldBase
@OldBase 3 жыл бұрын
It's so hard =/
@jaivaidya7571
@jaivaidya7571 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to all the videos on this channel. Thank you for saying my thoughts. I'll never be able to express them like this.
@teaganlambert1443
@teaganlambert1443 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Psych2Go with all of these videos this week. I've been going through a depressive episode and being emotionally numb all week. Your videos really help and I always enjoy watching them. Thank you for helping me learn and feel better. ❤️
@MB-nb7yq
@MB-nb7yq 4 жыл бұрын
Late night thoughts 🙃
@Mcnycrum
@Mcnycrum 4 жыл бұрын
Yep, wanna be instagram friends?
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
What time was it? :)
@Mcnycrum
@Mcnycrum 4 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go I don’t even remember
@CalliePossum
@CalliePossum 4 жыл бұрын
+Mcnycrum I be like that.
@yoshi3819
@yoshi3819 3 жыл бұрын
from the bottom of my heart, thank you!! It really helps me🙂
@kushikushi1010
@kushikushi1010 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos just make me feel so much better , they are just so calming
@_-classy-_8145
@_-classy-_8145 4 жыл бұрын
Dang these comments look lonely
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
We'll help you be less lonely by commenting below ;)
@_-classy-_8145
@_-classy-_8145 4 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go, lmao it helped a little. Thanks for brightening my day 😂
@Oridemic
@Oridemic 3 жыл бұрын
I swear that this is the most wholesome channel I’ve ever seen.
@mikeyaharkel1537
@mikeyaharkel1537 4 жыл бұрын
I REALLY got called out in this video. I’m forever grateful for this channel. They know me, and can explain me better than I ever could.❤️
@linementos
@linementos 3 жыл бұрын
I feel very lonely, i dont have any friends to hang out with. When i see the other people in my class talking and hanging out with each other i get so jealous and that makes me feel even more lonely. How are they so close, i really don't talk to the others in my class. They seem like they are all friends, i wish i could be closer to them and talk to them more.
@minniev5993
@minniev5993 3 жыл бұрын
This is soo accurate, it can literally read my entire story of loneliness and the cartoons are so cute I'm in love with them.
@xero9333
@xero9333 4 жыл бұрын
My god, these kinds of videos that just hit all the points (not all, but every reason I personally feel lonely were here) that align with who I am in graphic detail terrify me and I love it so much.
@drishtiyadav4259
@drishtiyadav4259 4 жыл бұрын
You all help me get through my difficulties even when I think it's hard. Thank You!
@soph2cool4u12
@soph2cool4u12 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This has helped me a lot. Keep up the great work!
@Lonewolf-uk2rj
@Lonewolf-uk2rj 3 жыл бұрын
reason why im lonely: "my girlfriend is the reason why i gain confidence until she broke up with me. Until 1week i found out she has another boyfriend even thou the boyfriend was our group friend. They keep their a relationship a secret that even my friends havent notice. I was depressed that day and so lonely. 1month has passed, i cant connect people anymore so i started being myself. People doesnt like me because im too bored to because i am a shy person and does not good communicating or should i say It depends of who im talking with. Its been 7yrs now and still idont have friends anymore. My ex got pregnant when there relationship went up to 6months so both of them drop off to school. And i was continuing schooling. And i found a girl that was the same as me. We talk all and shared out secrets we've been through and she said to me *"no one has ever know what ive been through except you. thank you for understanding my past, she hugged me and cried"* same as mine.. Until 3days we started to hangout but until tomorrow. she died of suicide. That was her last concerning message to me. I feel so much depressed to that time that i could even stab myself with a knife but life must go on. Keep going until you find yourself the real you. And a year past. I found out myself that im still depressed
@randomvidz8742
@randomvidz8742 3 жыл бұрын
Dude I'm so tired I cba what I say anymore
@min5893
@min5893 4 жыл бұрын
Guys , wear your earphones . It’s relaxing to hear her voice and explaining on loneliness
@cynthiaseet2206
@cynthiaseet2206 4 жыл бұрын
I am crying because these reasons are so relatable. I'm tired of listening people saying that "If you think you are lonely, just walk out and make some new friends!" It isn't easy for me... I think the main reason of mine is unable to find my soulmate... The person who makes me feel comfortable talking with, instead of complaining I'm too quiet and boring... The person who accompany me to do the things that I really love, rather than forcing me to adapt their interest... Actually I just want someone to listen, not just giving me a textbook solution...
@sweetdaemon
@sweetdaemon 3 жыл бұрын
This channel knows what I need☺️
@lizbethsalander3668
@lizbethsalander3668 3 жыл бұрын
Great video as always a soothing voice.Put this video into my saved video
@yaesvlove
@yaesvlove 4 жыл бұрын
Video: 8 mins ago Comments: *10 hours ago*
@wowidjduq
@wowidjduq 4 жыл бұрын
Nice pfp btw
@yaesvlove
@yaesvlove 3 жыл бұрын
I found Chaeyoung in my closet- thank you
@EchthelionII
@EchthelionII 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with number 1 wholeheartedly, and I'm unsure about number 9. I think for me I just don't want to feel like I'm alone. Even though I'm an introvert and like being alone, I feel like I've been alone most of my life, and I don't want to be alone anymore.
@kyle_mk17
@kyle_mk17 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@dougarnold7955
@dougarnold7955 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks. This channel has great vids! 👍
@benazirmendoza325
@benazirmendoza325 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating this type of content. Now I know a lot more things of myself that I didn't know before and that helps me understand my mind and my world much better. I mean this thank you more than words could tell.
@PowerMatrixAnime
@PowerMatrixAnime 4 жыл бұрын
This happpens when a person allows others to play specific roles that they should naturally fulfill for themselves. Find what that person stands for and take responsibility for it.
@ryanwong7054
@ryanwong7054 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go: People misunderstand you Me: I have no one to misunderstand me :’)
@BeasT-ii8bf
@BeasT-ii8bf 2 жыл бұрын
Sed
@andreapenu7468
@andreapenu7468 3 жыл бұрын
I really felt this, I’m currently in a relationship and I can feel it drifting away. My partner doesn’t really have time for me anymore and I’ve always been a shy individual and I can feel my guard starting to pop up again. As I get older it’s definitely gotten a lot better but it’s really difficult.
@LINSENT
@LINSENT 3 жыл бұрын
these videos really hit where it hurts. someone wanna be friends?
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