Jesse tore apart a family. She doesn't get to speak at the funeral. That's like letting a serial killer speak. Sue her.

From where I stand I'm fairly confident that Jesse for whatever reason was trying to manipulate the original poster as a wife in her vulnerable state. Maybe Jesse was trying to stir up drama because she gets off on that sort of thing or maybe she wanted to put a rift in the relationship so she can get her friend back. Whatever the case may be Jesse had a very significant hand in what led to the original poster's wife killing herself.

That friend is the entire reason for it! Her friend was literally gaslighting her into thinking her man was cheating.

Story 2: Hell no. I would even forbid her from attending. She preyed on the wife's mental health that was deteriorating. And instead of admiting she was wrong she continued to push the idea meaning she doesn't want to be looked at as some manipulative pos. I would have sent her a formal letter saying if she showed up to the funeral she would be charged for trespassing.

Get a restraining order against Jesse immediately. Jesse should be away from op's daughter, the lies & delusion she can plant in her little mind if she's a part of her life it's terrifying

For the postpartum story, my speech would involve how 'her friend, jessie, manipulated her into believing I was cheating during her lowest point in life mentally, and unfortunately, that led her to dying that way, how she'd want to take the kid after punching me rather than the sensible way of spending time with a kid in that situation' and so on regardless of if jessie is there. As such, if she decides to show up, then that's her problem not mine.

She planned on killing herself and the daughter. I would sue the Hell out of Jessie and maybe worse.

What a vile person this Jessie is! She literally was instrumental in the death of this mans wife. I worked in a psychiatric ward with woman suffering from post partum psychosis , Not enough is known about the condition. Its horrendous for the sufferer and the family. Maybe with earlier intervention she may have been okay. Very sad story.

Story2: i wouldnt even let jessie enter the building after that. She was able to exploit the fragile health of the op's wife and stabbed them both where it hurts, including the baby. I would sue her for every single thing.

I would sue the crap out of Jessie for emotional damage.

Why deal drugs with kids and stealing someone's mail. I would not let Jessie speak at a funeral at all because she was using the Wife's mental issues to manipulate her into thinking that the OP was cheating on her which is just suspicious to me. The husband should have just told his wife before letting his friend live with them.

The post partum depression story. I feel bad for everyone *except for Jesse* and may God have mercy on her. Jesse lead the wife to her death. Jesse is trying to do that to clear *her* conscience for her actions. *Had Jesse not gotten involved like she did. The wife would have been still alive and better.*

what kills me about the last story is that when we hear about it on here it's been weeks since OP post it So chances are that Jesse got to speak at Op's wife's funeral do I think it's right no, Jesse effectively killed her friend for what ever reason. I have a feeling it's either she wanted her friend back or Jesse had feelings for the wife

I hope the guy in the second story is doing well... I feel so sorry.. (may God help this man and his family) (Amen)

Story 1. Friend was making it worse. Whispering in her ear. Nothing op did was good enough or would have change things because Jesse wanted wife to see the worse in him and their kid. Wife even left kid crying after ripping the house up for hours to go to Jesse to do hell know what. The wife showing up to grab kid to most likely kill herself and the kid that day. Glad op didn't allow wife to have the kid. If Jesse gets to talk at the funeral op should tell everyone his story before her because she will go up there to talk shit about op and blaming him for wife killer her self. Jesse was giving the gun to wife and blindfold her telling her everyone around her but her were demons.

Jessie wouldn't even be anywhere near me. She'd get a restraining order 100%.

Yeah I i would get security to tell Jesse to back off because i would lose my temper and snap and be shouting at her how much of a awful friend she was by pushing my wife to off herself

Story #1 the OP isn't the jerk the neighbors got exactly what they deserve. And thank you for keeping all of us entertained. Please keep the great stories coming.

It's sad that the girlfriends or partners thinks that their significant other is having an affair. Whatever happen to trust?

I'm glad the last story worked out like it did. Both showed compassion and hubby wasn't boning the Longhair.

jessie is the reason that woman is dead and the fact thatt she does not realize this and have a tqlk with the husband and apologise to him is the reason why she has no right to speak in that funeral

Story #2. No way would I allow Jesse at the funeral. Do your in-laws know what Jesse put their daughter through? If not, tell them. They need to know that Jesse drove their daughter to kill herself and possibly try to take her daughter with her.

The second story left me speachless

Someone said something that made me think. If op had given his daughter to his wife, I don’t want to even imagine how horrible things would be. Jessie is a horrible horrible person, and it doesn’t matter how long she’s known the wife, Jessie is the main reason why this all happened. She shouldn’t ever even consider coming near that family. How much y’all wanna bet she’s gonna make everything she says in her speech somehow about her too?

Story 2: I've said this on a different video that had this story and I'll say it again I would hold Jessie completely accountable for OP's wife death with a friend like that who needs enemies she was already having a hard time due to depression, and Jesse fed the fire instead of helping her feel better. something new I just thought of Jesse may be one of those types of "mothers" who milk their Exes for child support so they can live off of it and wanted OP's wife to be like her. in my opinion Jesse belongs in jail for manslaughter.

13:24 - 13:28 Is it just me or was that a possible implication that Jessie was jealous of OP?

It sounds like OP's wife was miss diagnosed with postpartum depression and actually had postpartum psychosis. Same cause as the depression, but the resulting behavior changes are more extreme and including the affected women leaving their child in the snow instead of a standard crib.

This complete issue was Jessie's responsibility, yes wife had PPD but Jessie was manipulating her for some reason...

Story 2: Our lovely narrator mentioned post partum psychosis. Years ago a mother named Andrea Yates suffered from that and killed all five of her children. It's a heartbreaking story and I feel so much sympathy for her and her children. Story 3: There's an old saying, "Sometimes it's easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission."

Let’s go another story to listen to

PPD is so so serious and doesn’t get talked about enough. It can absolutely destroy lives and that story was just so incredibly heartbreaking.

As far as I am concerned, Jesse killed the wife

*Story 1:* Of all the people to move into the neighbourhood, OP had to get a mail thief and a junkie. What's next? I don't think OP's the jerk. I think it's the junkie neighbour who's the jerk.

Story 2: I fully admit that I am an asshole, but my first thought was: Sure, let Jessie come to the funeral. Speak at the funeral first. Start your speech with, "It's so good of you to all come to remember my wife. Including the woman who drove her to kill herself." *stop to stare at Jessie* "She wants to say a few words, so, Jessie! You're up!"

In the second story, I definitely would not allow Jesse to speak at the funeral. She took advantage of the wife and filled her head with thing in a very fragile state and that's not right.

For the Jessie story, I remember hearing it somewhere else, and my opinion hasn't changed at all! Jessie is the one responsible for the wife's death! She all but physically drove the car! I saw someone else suggest this, but he could let Jessie speak, just introduce her as the "friend" who manipulated her to assault OP, neglect their daughter, and eventually die.

In the last story I'm thinking there is still a possibility that the husband is cheating, but it's with another guy instead of a woman.

Man, I need an update. I need an update to tell me that Jesse paid for what she did. That she was sued, had her kids taken, was sent to jail, died painfully, anything! She poisoned the mind of OP's wife, destroyed her, and just sat back and watched as she ripped a family apart. I don't know what her goal was in all of this. Did she genuinely think that the OP were cheating because she went through a similar situation? Was Jesse in love with the wife? Or was she just a person that wanted to watch a person destroy themself? Either way, Jesse needs to pay.

Story 1: vengeance is best served with a side dish of karma

Second Story: Jesse is not a friend, she never was. Friends don't accuse a woman's husband of cheating just for having obvious overtime at work, they help her in her time of need. That woman was never her friend, she was only holding her back and using her depression to manipulate her. Jesse clearly never grew up, and wanted to have the man's wife to herself.

jessie is like a person that will pretend to be your friend to just take (example not true) your dog's/cats ashes

I Think Jesse was in love with the wife from her saying " your not the only one who loved her"

Second story: I would totally let Jesse speak at the funeral, only just to stand up mid speech and call her bullshit out in front of everyone. Just lay into it that she is more or less the cause of his wife’s death and both socially and emotionally bury her in a hole much deeper than the one she put his wife into. she deserves nothing less than every amount of guilt and shame that he would be feeling right about now

Jesse is the main reason OP's wife took her life, she will not speak at the funeral, that's a big no no

Jessie should be in jail for manslaughter. It's all her fault.

LMAOOOO "satan's minions"

Bruh even the most simplest stealing can ruin your entire life.

15:55 I would have literally told his in laws that her supposed friend made things worse and they would have probably still had a daughter if she had been a better friend. the fact those imbeciles would allow that toxic harpy to speak at the funeral she indirectily is responsible for is baffling

if i was in his shoes i would have filed a case against jessie

The first story about made me start to bawl. Holy hell.

if it wasn’t for jesse then his wife wouldn’t have passed. she has no right to speak at the funeral

Second story felt like a novel ngl and was kinda funny especially when it DID TURN OUT A HOMELESS MAN WENT THERE lmao

The baby stopped what he was doing and stared at him?? Lol

Jeesie was probably in love with the wife and didn't know how to get her to leave her husband but to insinuate him cheating.

Jesse wrecked that whole family. I feel so bad for the op. Oh my heart the update. 💔😭 I'm so sorry. Thats horrible. Jesse caused this. Not okay.

I feel like the revenge in the first story wasn't harsh enough

Jesse is evil

Dang two revenge stories in one day victory!

I love how Sonic Heroes is the visual. That was my favorite game on ps2 back then.... I feel old. I'm 29 to. Lol

The story is just tragic.I think Jessie is just a Psychopath who enjoys grief and misfortune of others.

"I own this town." and just choose to live with 4 other people in a one bedroom trailer in a questionable part of town. Checks out. 😄

Your not the jerk the neighbor is the jerk because you had every right to fight back to that

The OP should be pressing charges against Jesse, she manipulated the OP's wife and caused her to unalive herself. Who else thought that for the last one the OP husband was cheating?

Story two: *NO.* Jessie can go mourn (doubt it) OP's wife somewhere else. If I was OP, I'd let the in-laws know how Jessie kept entertaining/fueling the wife's mind with suspicions of infidelity, when he was just working. If they still want Jessie around, that is on them, but her attending the funeral is out of the question. *That's not a friend. And I believe she was never a friend, or at least a good one, to the wife.*

Jessy should not be allowed to speak at all, she was like the devil whispering in Eve's ear, the mom was depressed and vunerable, and she took everything Jessy feed her to heart because of it, spiraling her into a deeper depression. I see Jessy as having unintentionally performed murder by going to someone in a very dark place and then pushing her even deeper in withoute proof or a single care about how badly it could affect her.

Wow he lost his kids to the mail intresting 🤔

I feel really bad for that kid I grew up in a sorta similar environment I really wish that kid the best same with the father I hope they find happiness

Story 2: I would definitely not let her speak at the funeral. If I was OP then knowing that she was one of reasons for the tragic incident and them falling out was due to Jesse shows that she didn't deserve the wife as a friend. That definitely doesn't let her speak at her funeral

The 1st story is so sad, i feel heartbroken. At least, if the op believes in the afterlife (doesn't have to be heaven or hell), his wife now knows the truth

This is very sad, I've experienced getting accused of cheating by my wife's best friend as well when she gave birth to our daughter due to the fact I took overtime and even worked during Saturdays and Sundays but was wasn't I just took more work just to cover the added expenses due to our baby. Thankfully my wife didn't fall to her best friend's accusations as her best friend does like spreading gossip around though I did say I wasn't let her look at my both phones and offered to call my supervisor at work then talk to wife cutting ties with that friend. So if that were me, I would totally exposing Jessie and that I will be filing for a restraining order for what she did. The OP's wife was fed misinformation and lies then believed as she was very vulnerable due to her post partum disorder and worst of it all was she took the OP's wife leaving an infant alone.

The tough guy rolled up and stole some mail so the poster rolled up and destroyed his life

In the last story the wife had every right to think that her husband was cheating

Story #1: You are not the jerk for getting a psychotic drug dealer arrested as well as his kids getting taken away. No child is safe with drug dealers. Story #2: You shouldn't allow Jesse to speak at the funeral, since she seemingly took advantage of your wife's postpartum depression to try and tear up your family. You should speak your mind at that funeral and when you do, make sure to tell EVERYONE the truth, no matter if it brings you backlash.

Tbh I think it's Jesse's fault that the wife died. She knew she was in a bad mental state, she knew she was struggling but instead of being a supportive friend she kept pushing the OP's wife. No way in hell would I let her speak

Jessy is the reason the OP's wife is dead. She doesn't have the right to be anywhere near that funeral. She should be thrown in jail. But man, that story was really horrible. When the OP's wife punched OP I thought: "wow, this escalated quickly" but little did I know that things had only gotten started.

The op in the first story sounds like some eric cartman revenge

Story 1: I SAY YOU AIN’T THE JERK! THEY STOLE STUFF THAT YOU RIGHTFULLY ORDERED!

For that second story, it's best how he's separating with his wife. Abuse is never okay.

Jessie I would honestly sue for child endangerment. She took the wife for a drive and left the kid at home for possibly hours. Last story had an oddly wholesome ending.

Jesse is the murderer. OP should highlight to opposing people to imagine what would have happened if Jesse was not in the picture. The death is totally unnecessary because of someone else's stupidity or evil intention.

It sounds like Jessie wanted to get with OP's wife and was pushing to get them to divorce. People be crazy

His voice when... 1-....telling the story =😐 2-....giving opinions/advice =😀 3-....telling us to like and subscribe=☺️🥳

For the second story - honestly OP should have spoken with the parents and explained why he doesn't want Jesse to talk at the funeral, she is in part responsible for his wife spiraling like that. And Jesse, I have no idea what went through her mind but she is without a doubt a disgusting human being that is in no way shape or form a friend. So Jesse can attend the funeral; but to speak ABSOLUTELY NOT! But that's just my opinion.

Lmao this guy loves telling hindsight 😂😂😂😂

Jesse would not get to speak if it was up to me, she would get sued or served a restraining order. She was a demon on the wife's ear, encouraging her to make wild assumptions, lash out destructively and abandon her responsibilities to her daughter. She deserves no respect or sympathy, because this tragedy is the direct result of her actions.

Jesse's an absolute monster and deserves nothing. She took advantage of a vulnerable and sick woman until she was literally driven into a tree. Because of Jessie, a husband lost his wife, a mother and father lost their daughter, and a baby girl lost her mother. Jesse is a terrible human being and not only should not be allowed at the funeral but should never be allowed near the baby ever.

Holy crap...I can't believe I actually _predicted_ how the third story would go. Long-story short, I watch an Internet Reviewer with really long-hair, so I know there's a precedent for men who like to grow it out. So when it came to the woman suspecting her husband was cheating, I sarcastically said to myself, "Maybe they've got a long-haired neighbor whose water has been cut-off, and he's been sneaking into the house to take showers?" I mean sure, I was wrong about it being a neighbor, but I find how close I was to be quite eerie.

it's mail, he's a psycho over mail? YOU TOOK HIS KIDS

I spent weeks thinking my husband was cheating on me. Like OP, I have a very short pixie cut and my husband was completely bald. I would find black hair in the shower, quite long. Longer than mine, and I have light red hair. I was mortified. A few days later, I found them again. I was becoming a wreck. The only person I trusted enough to talk to about it was my BFF. Her marriage has had ups and downs and she’s just not a judgmental woman. I put some of the hairs in an envelope and took them to her house to show her. She was blown away, too. This went on for weeks. Every few days I’d find the black hair in the shower. One day I took my long haired cat to her groomer. She always looks for mats first. She used a comb and went backwards up her spine. I had no idea how long her was on her spine! It was impressive! I get home from the groomer and I go to use the restroom. My sweet, gentle longhaired BLACK cat got in the shower and started playing. (My cats like to parkour in our deep soaker tub.) I finished me business and grabbed the hair scissors out of the cabinet. I lifted the fur on her spine snipped one. She was confused, but she went with it. I pulled the envelope out of my purse. Perfect match. Yep. My husband was cheating on me with my cat. I don’t think I’ve ever felt so stupid, or felt that stupid since. She had a fluffy, cottony coat. I never even thought about her. This looked so much like human hair, and it was REALLY long. I still laugh at myself about that. Lol. I almost ruined my marriage over cat hair. I don’t trust my judgement anymore. I just can’t adult properly.

In the second story I would explain to the inlaws how Jesse killed their daughter by manipulation

I knew it was a guy using the shower

“One baby and one girl” My mind instantly: bAbY gUuRrL😩💅💅💅

I'm surprised at the amount of self control these people have in most of their stories. I would've probably knocked jesse out in a blind rage. Losing my partner to something like this would probably enrage me to the point of homicide but that's just me.

Can we talk about how Jesse pushed op's wife so far to the point that she had trust issues and eventually committed suicide, Jesse should of been in jail not at rhe funeral

1st story, the neighbour was an absolute jerk but the OP was the person that i respect for not being scared of a male karen that eats dog poop for a living 👽

He should warn them about Jesse.

Not only would I not let Jessie speak at the funeral, but I would also hit her with not one, not two, not even three, but FOUR LAWSUITS! First and most obvious, liability for the death of my wife, because no matter how you look at it, it was ALL. HER. FAULT. Second, pain and suffering, not just for me and my wife, but for EVERYONE in BOTH our families. Third, defamation of character. She had ZERO evidence that I was cheating, while I had ALL the evidence that I wasn't. Fourth, and probably the most minor one, negligence. She took my wife and whisked her away to who knows where, leaving my INFANT daughter all alone.

Almost living in the walls

Story 2 made want to cry a little I think Jessie was the fought for this a little bit it might be post depression but man that was too sad for me

Jesse literally drove OP's wife into insanity. You can basically say she egged her on until she couldn't take it. If I OP, I wouldv'e done way worse. There's no way she could talk at the funeral, even if a million people backed her up, you should stand your ground.