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Psychology of Control in Relationships | Interpersonal Relationship Malayalam | Dr. Mary Matilda

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Mary Matilda

Mary Matilda

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Throughout their life span, humans form many kinds of close relationships. Psychological well-being is also strongly linked to the quality of close relationships. The root of most human suffering is problems in interpersonal relationships. The factors affecting interpersonal relationships are numerous. Love, trust and control are a few of them. Among these factors, ‘Control’ is an especially sensitive area. It is very important to consider and find strategies to exert control in relationships in the right manner. Trying to control people without love and affection makes them rebellious. In this Malayalam video, Dr. Mary Matilda highlights 7 psychology tips we need to know about control in relationships.
#interpersonalrelationships #control #MaryMatilda #lifecoach
Dr. Mary Matilda is the former Principal of Maharajas College Ernakulam. She is a well known motivational speaker, corporate trainer & life skills/soft skills coach. She has Master’s degrees in Mathematics (MSc & M.Phil), Education (M.Ed), Business Administration and Management (MBA), Women Studies (MWS), Applied Psychology (M.Sc), and Ph.D. in women’s studies. She is also a Graduate in Law (LLB)
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@radhakrishnantirur7982
@radhakrishnantirur7982 2 жыл бұрын
കല്യാണത്തിന്​ മുമ്പ്​ ജാതകം നോക്കുന്നതിന്​ പകരം കൺ​ട്രോൾ സ്​കോറുകൾ മാച്ച്​ ചെയ്യുന്നുണ്ടോ എന്ന്​ നോക്കാവുന്നതാണ്​.....!
@sudhinvijayan9474
@sudhinvijayan9474 2 жыл бұрын
എളുപ്പം തീർന്നു പോയ ഫീൽ..ഈ വിഷയത്തിൽ താങ്കൾക്ക് ഇനിയും എന്തൊക്കെയോ പറയാൻ സാധിക്കുമായിരുന്നു എന്ന് തോന്നി.. വ്യത്യസ്തമായ വിഷയം തന്നെയായിരുന്നു..👏👏👍 Thank you for helping us grow ✍️
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
Your observation is correct. ❤❤🙏
@user-hc3kq9hp3q
@user-hc3kq9hp3q 2 жыл бұрын
Nice vedio👍🏻👍🏻 ഇതിലെ അവസാന കാര്യം ഞാൻ പരീക്ഷിച്ചു നോക്കിയിട്ടുള്ളതാണ്. ഞാൻ പച്ചക്കറി വാങ്ങാൻ മാർക്കറ്റ് വരെ പൊയ്ക്കോട്ടേ എന്ന് ചോദിക്കുന്നതും ഞാൻ മാർക്കറ്റിൽ പോകുന്നു എന്ന് അറിയിച്ചിട്ടു പോകുന്നതും വ്യത്യാസം ഉണ്ട്
@santhinips1576
@santhinips1576 2 жыл бұрын
അറിയാത്ത പല കാര്യങ്ങളും ടീച്ചറുടെ വീഡിയോ യിലൂടെ മനസിലാക്കാൻ സാധിച്ചു. വളരെ നന്ദി 🙏
@Midhun01111
@Midhun01111 2 жыл бұрын
സത്യം , എനിക്കും👍
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@sameeramajeed8400
@sameeramajeed8400 2 жыл бұрын
ആരുടെ കാര്യത്തിൽ ആയാലും ഒന്നിലും ഇടപെടാതിരിക്കുന്ന ആണ് അവനവന്റ ആരോഗ്യത്തിന് നല്ലത്
@lathikavenu5900
@lathikavenu5900 2 жыл бұрын
മാം എത്ര ലളിതമായി എത്ര മനോഹരമായി ഓരോ കാര്യവും പറഞ്ഞു തരുന്നു അടുത്ത എപ്പിസോടിനായി കാത്തിരിക്കുന്നു
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@jayaprabhaanilal9574
@jayaprabhaanilal9574 2 жыл бұрын
Very much true.... Thankyou maam. Enthinu mattullavar avarude ishtam adichelpikunnu ennu orupad chinthichitund. Controlling valare suffocating anu. Pala karyangalilum njan resist cheythu chila avakasangal kitti athinu orupad sahikendi vannu. Iniyum undayekum. Controlling ayitulla ammamar valarthunna aanmakkal kuduthal controlling avunnapole thonnunnu.
@justforinforevathyprasanth179
@justforinforevathyprasanth179 2 жыл бұрын
Teacherude ella videosilum enik vendathund....confused situationsil right timil teacher video upload cheyarynd..😊
@beenaajith6244
@beenaajith6244 2 жыл бұрын
ടീച്ചർ നല്ല അറിവുകൾ ഒത്തിരി പ്രയോജനം ചെയ്യുന്നു ഒരു പാട് നന്ദി
@pushpavalliammalv55
@pushpavalliammalv55 2 жыл бұрын
തീർച്ചയായും അറിഞ്ഞിരിക്കേണ്ടതായ കാര്യങ്ങൾ' തന്നെയാണ് ടീച്ചർ പറയുന്നത്. ഇനിയുമുള്ള എപ്പിസോഡുകൾക്കായി കാത്തിരിക്കുന്നു ടീച്ചർ
@girijakrishnakumar1527
@girijakrishnakumar1527 2 жыл бұрын
WHAT A MOTIVATIONAL VIDEO WITH EXCELLENT MESSAGES! NICE & LOVELY TALK BUT MOST POWERFUL. NO AORDS TO APPRECIATE...... GO AHEAD MADM, MAY GOD BLESS YOU ABUNTANTLY .... LIVE LONG LONG LONG LONG YEARS ...... THANK YOU🙏
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing motivator. ❤❤
@shaliini514
@shaliini514 2 жыл бұрын
ആരും ഇതുവരെ പറയാത്ത ചെറിയ വലിയൊരു കാര്യം! ചില അമ്മമാർ ഇങ്ങനെ over ആകാറുണ്ട്. husband ഉം മക്കളും നിസാരകാര്യങ്ങളിൽ പോലും തന്റെ നിയന്ത്രണത്തിൽ വേണം എന്ന പിടിവാശി. പിന്നെ ഭർത്താവിന്റെ വീട്ടിൽ ചെന്നാൽ പറയുകയെ വേണ്ട. അമ്മയിയമ്മയും അമ്മയിഅപ്പനും ഭർത്താവും കൂടി full restrictions. അവർ key കൊടുക്കുന്ന പാവ മാത്രം ആകണം മരുമകൾ. ചിലർക്കെങ്കിലും മാറ്റമുണ്ടാകാൻ ഈ video useful ആകട്ടെ.🙏
@paruparvathy4990
@paruparvathy4990 2 жыл бұрын
Hlo.. എങ്ങനെ ഉണ്ട്.. Ee restrictns overcome cheythoo...... ഞാൻ ഇപ്പോൾ nthcheynm ന്ന് ariynd ഇരിക്കുവാ... ഇവിടെ father in law... Unsahikable...
@shaliini514
@shaliini514 2 жыл бұрын
@@paruparvathy4990 illa. hus nte bhagath ninnum yathoru support m illatheyanu munnot pokunnath. ottakk. aa support m snehavum ottum illathathanu ella prashnangalkkum karanam.
@paruparvathy4990
@paruparvathy4990 2 жыл бұрын
@@shaliini514 ഇവിടെ over care and love ആണ്... Nthinum അമ്മ മതി... Chodikubo പറയും.. അവരെ kalayno ന്നു... അവർ allm അറിഞ്ഞു ചെയുന്നു ഞാൻ ചെയ്യുന്നില്ല... Atha... ഒന്നും mindn പാടില്ല parynth ഒകെ kelknm... മറിച്ചു parnjl ഉടനെ ammyi പറയും അവർ ved vitt pokolnn.. Kekubo monu പിന്നെ എന്നോട് kalipyy
@SJK96
@SJK96 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You mam ...it is most common in daily life ..very good explanation 😍😍😍
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
🙏❤🙏
@HADEESVLOG85
@HADEESVLOG85 2 жыл бұрын
Lots of love from HADEES VLOG ❤️
@krishnanvadakut8738
@krishnanvadakut8738 26 күн бұрын
Video a new matter, nannai avatharippichu. Thank you Thankamani
@seethalakshmiap4009
@seethalakshmiap4009 2 жыл бұрын
നല്ല വിവരങ്ങൾ നൽകിയതിന് മാഡത്തിന് ഒരായിരം നന്ദി.🙏👌👌👌🌹
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
🙏❤🙏
@sureshbabu3794
@sureshbabu3794 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative and useful. Excellently presented. Thanks Mam.🙏🏽
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@thundathiljames2174
@thundathiljames2174 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent message!😍 Control score is a new lesson to me. My sincere appreciation to you.
@greshmas8182
@greshmas8182 2 жыл бұрын
Hello teacher.. Iam a frequent listener of your videos..Thankyou for your motivation😍it helps me a lot to move on.....
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@MySpacebyRajiSatish
@MySpacebyRajiSatish 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative video maam.. learned many lessons from hope. Will try my best to make this happen in my life ☺️
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@omanaroy8412
@omanaroy8412 2 жыл бұрын
Good video... സം സംസാരിക്കുമ്പോൾ speed വളരെ കുടുതലാണോ എന്ന ഒരു തോന്നൽ!!!???
@snigdhasunilkumar3510
@snigdhasunilkumar3510 2 жыл бұрын
Always inspiring maam. Waiting for the next video. ❤❤❤
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@jinshashivaram4580
@jinshashivaram4580 2 жыл бұрын
Very good presentation Mam...you explained all details very well. Thank you for this information 🙏
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@sarahjacob9237
@sarahjacob9237 2 жыл бұрын
Sarah Jacob : Congrats Ma,am on your wonderful presentations on positive thinking. Truly thankful to you for these treasured moments listening to your videos. Do keep up your good work ! 👍👍👍 🙏
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
You made me happy ❤❤❤
@sarahjacob9237
@sarahjacob9237 2 жыл бұрын
So glad to know Dr. Matilda you are happy with my comment which you truly deserve. Now iam happy too on receiving your response. 🙏
@sampvarghese8570
@sampvarghese8570 2 жыл бұрын
Control (നിയന്ത്രണം ) :- വേറൊരു തരത്തിൽ മനുഷ്യ ബന്ധങ്ങളിൽ എങ്ങനെ controll ആകണം. Thank you Medom.
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome. ❤❤
@lijasony944
@lijasony944 2 жыл бұрын
വളരെ നന്നായി കാര്യങ്ങള്‍ പറഞ്ഞു തന്നു . Thank you
@PriyaBalaB
@PriyaBalaB 2 жыл бұрын
Ma'am, Well explained.
@sindhukb5481
@sindhukb5481 2 жыл бұрын
Great in formative video mam 😍😍👍👍
@himadkumar4498
@himadkumar4498 2 жыл бұрын
Ammayiammamar control cheyyan varumbozha.. Aa Spoon edukkaruthu.. Aa patram edukkaruthu..purathu pokaruthu.. Etc..
@amruthas5740
@amruthas5740 2 жыл бұрын
Was waiting for you today....
@santhat3750
@santhat3750 2 жыл бұрын
Mam , Valare upakarapradamaaya vishayam valare simple aayi paranju thannu. Madathinu itharam vishayangal kandethunnathilulla kazhivu abhinandanarhamane Thanks Mam
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much.you can also suggest topics
@SureshKumar-kx2dq
@SureshKumar-kx2dq 2 жыл бұрын
Very useful information in simple way. Thank u madom
@amrithaaravindhakshan8244
@amrithaaravindhakshan8244 2 жыл бұрын
Super miss..keep going...really want to meet you miss
@neethuk1471
@neethuk1471 2 жыл бұрын
teacher valare nanayitundu ethrayum sensitive aaya topic sadharnakarku manasilakunnam vidham valre kuranja samayam kondu avatharipichu thank you teacher❤️
@anithakumari9312
@anithakumari9312 2 жыл бұрын
Very good information madam, I am very happy to see your video s,very useful 🙏 waiting for your next video
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@vidhyarenjith9348
@vidhyarenjith9348 2 жыл бұрын
ഇതുപോലെയുള്ള വിഷയങ്ങൾ ഇനിയും പ്രതീക്ഷിക്കുന്നു. Thank you ma'am 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@gayathryv.s184
@gayathryv.s184 2 жыл бұрын
Very useful ma'am.Thank you
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@suseelapillai4552
@suseelapillai4552 2 жыл бұрын
Very useful talk. Thank you madam❤️❤️🙏💐💐
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@preethasanthamma1336
@preethasanthamma1336 2 жыл бұрын
Great advices dear Amma.
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@parvathys2866
@parvathys2866 2 жыл бұрын
Good topic ma'am very useful and informative
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@bincysuresh4188
@bincysuresh4188 2 жыл бұрын
Hi ma'am parajeth correct aaun. Nammale oral over ayit control cheyan vannal enthucheyanam ma'am
@314jesnatreesajiji6
@314jesnatreesajiji6 2 жыл бұрын
Very good👍 and very practical message
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@ismailramla9913
@ismailramla9913 2 жыл бұрын
First, super talk
@josephgeorge9589
@josephgeorge9589 2 жыл бұрын
It's really a controler , express control wanted control, Thank you mam, 🙏
@swapnasiju6748
@swapnasiju6748 2 жыл бұрын
Very useful ma'am. Thank you.
@aiswaryas8627
@aiswaryas8627 2 жыл бұрын
Well said teacher🙏🙏
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@Aaron-pg3fp
@Aaron-pg3fp 2 жыл бұрын
നിങ്ങൾ ആണ് യഥാർത്ഥ ടീച്ചർ
@Aaron-pg3fp
@Aaron-pg3fp 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving your like
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@premam4488
@premam4488 2 жыл бұрын
Well said Mam
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@yogamalayalamasha
@yogamalayalamasha 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@joshyjoseph6440
@joshyjoseph6440 2 жыл бұрын
Very good talk mam, Thank you very much🙏🙏🌹
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
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@rajankotha4380
@rajankotha4380 2 жыл бұрын
Teacharinte videos 4 masam munpanu njan kelkan thudangiyath .Munpu cheytha ella videokalum kandu .ith ennil valere athikam matengal konduvanu.Thanks
@rukminimooss9429
@rukminimooss9429 2 жыл бұрын
So impressed, ma’am
@kalyanielankom5853
@kalyanielankom5853 2 жыл бұрын
Very good knowledge and useful
@chinmayi18
@chinmayi18 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative 🙏
@midhunsr3131
@midhunsr3131 2 жыл бұрын
മാം...ഒട്ടു മിക്കവരും മറ്റുള്ളവരുടെ നിയന്ത്രണം ഇഷ്ടപെടാത്തവർ അല്ലെ? Express control level maximum ഉള്ള ഒരു വ്യക്തി ഇന്ന് ഡിവോഴ്സ് ന്റെ വക്കിൽ വരെയെത്തി നിൽക്കുന്ന സ്ഥിതി കാണാൻ ഇടയായി. അവരുടെ ഭർത്താവ് അധികം കണ്ട്രോൾ ചെയ്യുന്ന വ്യക്തിയും ആയിരുന്നില്ല. നല്ലൊരു വിഷയം വിശദമായി വിവരിച്ചു തന്നതിന് നന്ദി...😊🙏
@kumariissac2634
@kumariissac2634 2 жыл бұрын
👍❤
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@kochumolgeorge3087
@kochumolgeorge3087 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent message
@shimjithadilraj9189
@shimjithadilraj9189 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u mam very informative....
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@anumani9880
@anumani9880 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative.
@sulathasambasivan9301
@sulathasambasivan9301 2 жыл бұрын
Good explanation 👍🙏
@rajesh2021knr
@rajesh2021knr 2 жыл бұрын
നന്നായി അവതരിപ്പിച്ചു.👌
@sonygeomonsony256
@sonygeomonsony256 2 жыл бұрын
Simple presentation.....
@mohamedthaha1538
@mohamedthaha1538 2 жыл бұрын
Madam parayunnathu, oru paruthivare shariyaanu. Pakshe oro manushyarudeyum,character muthal control vare noorukanakkinu, svafaavangal vyathyasthamaayathinaal engineyaanu aduthavane niyandhrikkaan pattuka.
@user-bp1my3bg8z
@user-bp1my3bg8z 9 ай бұрын
Thank u so much ❤❤❤
@shamlabeegum5854
@shamlabeegum5854 Жыл бұрын
Thank you and love you teacher ❤❤❤
@nithinkumar6048
@nithinkumar6048 2 жыл бұрын
Good video Madam.Thanks
@unju7110
@unju7110 2 жыл бұрын
Madom e paranjadoke jeevdathile ororo situationsil ororo stagesil palappozhay thonniyadum chindichadumaya karyangal anu..njnidoke evdeyenkilum samsarikkumbo njnor dhikkariyay palappozhum chithreekarikkapedumayrnu.pinne ente prayakkuravu kondum arum idonnum chevikkollan koottakkarumilla.orupad sandosham idupolor mudirna vyekthi KZfaq polor platformil idoke pArayumbo koodthal aalukalil idu ethukayum prethyekich mudirna aalkar e niyandranareghaye kurich chindikkayumcheyyum
@dhanyarose3119
@dhanyarose3119 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent teacher👌
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@pk3371
@pk3371 2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful 🙏
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@anilar7849
@anilar7849 2 жыл бұрын
speech 🎤👋👍/expressed control 🙄&wanted control
@Midhun01111
@Midhun01111 2 жыл бұрын
Video kaathirikukayaayirunnu 😍
@shynijayaprakash2994
@shynijayaprakash2994 2 жыл бұрын
Very good motivatoion 🥰🥰🥰👍👍👍
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@suranjinis8096
@suranjinis8096 2 жыл бұрын
Mam contact ചെയ്യണമെന്നുണ്ട് 'എന്താ ചെയ്യണ്ടത് ' ഇന്നുതന്നെ Plz
@rajalakshmibabu4392
@rajalakshmibabu4392 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much teacher
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@sobhansframe9403
@sobhansframe9403 2 жыл бұрын
നന്നായി.. ടീച്ചറെ 😊🙏💕
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@SanaKunhimoideen
@SanaKunhimoideen 2 жыл бұрын
Nalla video mam👍
@tubescan2471
@tubescan2471 2 жыл бұрын
Well said maam
@Shobha-sq7qe
@Shobha-sq7qe 2 жыл бұрын
Chechi njan ente husband nodu ente veeduvare povanu ennu paranjaal adhehathinu adhehathe maanikkaathathu pole aanu thonnunnathu. Pakaram pokkotte ennu chodikkanam ennanu parayunnathu. Illel.prasnam aavum
@jobinakj5028
@jobinakj5028 2 жыл бұрын
Different subject thank you mam
@MaryMatilda
@MaryMatilda 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏
@user-gw7wd4bm1q
@user-gw7wd4bm1q 2 жыл бұрын
Communication skill കൂട്ടാനുള book എന്തെങ്കിലും ബുക്ക്‌ suggest ചെയ്യാമോ teacher (introvert നു പറ്റിയത് )
@mercyjacobc6982
@mercyjacobc6982 2 жыл бұрын
Ee vedio adhikara sthanathullavar kanendathaanu
@babysumatp5271
@babysumatp5271 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u maam...
@sebeenaraoofsebi3977
@sebeenaraoofsebi3977 2 жыл бұрын
Suuuper class teacher.... 👏👏👏🤣
@sherlysasi6961
@sherlysasi6961 2 жыл бұрын
Corrct maam, thnku❤️❤️
@geethasasidharan601
@geethasasidharan601 2 жыл бұрын
Great 👍
@thamburattiarts7633
@thamburattiarts7633 2 жыл бұрын
Very good 🙏🙏🙏
@manjujayakumar977
@manjujayakumar977 2 жыл бұрын
Great👍
@astin_editz
@astin_editz 2 жыл бұрын
It is super good
@sureshkonangath8225
@sureshkonangath8225 2 жыл бұрын
Good 👍
@athiraarun4248
@athiraarun4248 2 жыл бұрын
Ithokke engane neridam mam oru video cheyamo
@babithababu3858
@babithababu3858 2 жыл бұрын
Mam parenting nai kurichu oru video chaiyamoo
@pankajakshankornath438
@pankajakshankornath438 2 жыл бұрын
Good Morning
@balkiisyasiin4524
@balkiisyasiin4524 2 жыл бұрын
Good🙏🙏
@vijithavibeesh473
@vijithavibeesh473 2 жыл бұрын
I need your help
@dhanyabibin2551
@dhanyabibin2551 2 жыл бұрын
Tq teacher amma
@nishasprakash4064
@nishasprakash4064 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent one madam👌👌👌😍
@vijisunil2539
@vijisunil2539 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@teenathambi8790
@teenathambi8790 2 жыл бұрын
👌👌👌
@ajithasoundar1611
@ajithasoundar1611 2 жыл бұрын
👍
@devikarani2755
@devikarani2755 2 жыл бұрын
Madam, I want to talk.how can I contact u
@kumariissac2634
@kumariissac2634 2 жыл бұрын
❤👍
@binduanil2986
@binduanil2986 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
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