It baffles me every time I watch this show, & these women come on here whining, complaining, accusing him of cheating , how he does not help,out financially buttttt....." she wants to marry this dude” it’s like, reallyyyyy & whyyyyyy?

I'm always AMAZED at how beautiful women constantly run up after men who don't honor nor respect them!!

People will treat you how you allow them to.

The fact she was the only one working while pregnant, and had her baby prematurely as a result of the stress, I would have been out, right then and there. Idk why she would want to marry someone who's cheated on her and made it clear, he's not loyal and isn't in love with her. BW please stop the madness. It's men out here who would give us the world. STOP THE MADNESS.

He's not your man. He's only your son dad. Just haven't told you. Lady move on and quit wasting your young years. He's not married material. And will not change for you. Why must except to be treated like that and pay all the bill. Get yourself a real grown man and quit putting up with what he dish out. God bless you and your future.

Why did she decide to have a child before the marriage then afterwards ask for the marriage, makes no sense at all.

Breast Augmentation?? Please tell me you paying a mortgage and not renting! Because that's so DUMB!!

Ma'am if he ain't married you in 7 years he don't want to marry you. Like why do these women think that marriage is going to turn bad boyfriends into good husbands? I will never understand that. And I also don't understand why you would be with somebody for that long without marriage if marriage is what you want. Ain't no way I'm about to be in a long suffering relationship waiting on a ring. Set the time frame and if he don't make it he got to go! That's called standards, get some!

Just the "I'm perfect " is the sign to run. One thing is to be confident and onother to be arrogant.........

They both have a lot of maturing and growing to do.

The dude is a rolling stone, how much more evidence is she in need of to be convinced, he ain't the one. She is just another woman who will only end up in frustration, attempting to change a no good man, who has no intentions on changing, LADIES STOP DOING THIS IT DOESN'T WORK, SMH 💯

Woman: This man has been horrible to me in every way since we got together Also Woman: I want a ring or I'm leaving Make this make sense.

She bought a Hyundai expecting it to turn into a Lexus...

This is insane. Smh. They both liars and they both need to go their separate ways. But she ain’t.

You want a ring but he has treated you bad for 7 years. Make it make sense.

She didn’t even know him. She got pregnant within the first month of meeting him (in the club). And we all know nothing good comes out of the club. Dude will never marry her , the most he’ll do is give her another baby.

She's way too invested in him. He does all of these things because she allows it. She should invest more time in herself and her son.

I'm so disgusted by both parties I can't continue watching ..."I got pregnant after 1 month..."

Given he doesn't have a 9 to 5, what made her decide that would make a good father. Babies don't make men grow up if they don't want to. These females want the judge to make their men stop cheating and straighten up so they can get married...the insanity

Why are you having a child with a man who you knew for a month….

Hold up...she had a WHOLE laundry list of complaints about this dude and she STILL wants to marry him?? Am i missing something?? Are things that BAD out there that she's clinging on for dear life to this bum?? Lord have mercy😂😂😂

Nothing to do with the case but I love Judge Star’s laugh! It makes me laugh 😂🤣😁

Title should be, "Why buy the Cow when the milk is free."

Am I the only one who started loving Judge Star already 🙏🙏✌️💪💪💪💕❤️

SHE WANTED TO MARRY HIM! Is her psychology off? At least he admitted the truth “I was never taught to be a good boyfriend, I was taught to be a p…” Little Sis, by him admitting this now his behavior shouldn’t be confusing to you anymore. BELIEVE THE BEHAVIOR ALWAYS!

Didn't she say she was paying all the bills, then backtracked? They just wanted to be on the show. She's full of it, and so is he.

Auntie Star I'm gonna need you to always say "what say you", I really missed it 😅 I just love it.

As the Judge said.. why would you want to marry someone that doesn't treat you right? After 7 years, he just not that interested in marrying you. Hang it up sis.

He doesn’t love you or like you, Sis. Move on. You had a baby with a stranger and tried to force a relationship. It was over before it began.

Can you spot the red flags. 1. She gave a boyfriend a baby before marriage 2. She met him at the club 3. The relationship has been toxic for over 7 years 4. His income isn’t consistent & he doesn’t support the needed bill for his child & home 5. She is forcing him to marry her or else. Benefits of marriage for women 1. A man can not just leave you with the financial responsibility with the baby, you and your child are protected. All women of other races know this and only many men that can actually provide for their entire family.

A ring will not change anything! He is who he is. Past behavior is an indication of future behavior. Pay attention to the red flags 🚩

Girl you doing 7years of this and looking to do more? You can't be serious!

She lying first she said he dont pay the phone bill then she said he do come on now let a person talk long enough they tell on themselves

So he's cheating and not helping but you want to marry him🤔

Whew Child! Judge Star is slaying with that outfit ❤

She's a liar and I feel like he's one of those guys that will be there financially but he's not there for you any other way. He doesn't even seem like he has emotion. Her sister a damn liar too 💀😂

he said he bought her a ring and it ended up in the trash. That wasn’t questioned. I wondered what happened cause he not proposing again.

U MET HIM AT THE CLUB🤔🧐🤨🕵🏾‍♂️🗣

I'm side eyeing the sister. He was too confident saying it was her sisters. Hell, it could've been. Who knows...

I feel so sad for the kids in these type of relationships. Toxic, immature sperm and egg donors. A mess.

It’s better to have that money 💰 conversation first before jumping in the bed 🛌

A man who can't say I love you, tends to have attachment issues. Sis plz run. Something is unhealed in him and HER!

The big sister has a crush on her little sisters boyfriend.

This is on HER. Women act like they have 0 control over there bodies & fertility. Who has a baby 30 days after meeting somebody? Too many women do this BS. She got lucky that he’s a good dad. What exactly do expect when u do NOT know a person.

Baby please move on…. You paying the bills, begging him to marry you… no! You’re to young for this!

Robert!!!! You missed a good #BOMBA when she mentionned the pic..😂😂😂😂

Pregnant after one month. Once she said that game over

The sister setting up the boyfriend is dirty! That sort of thing always causes someone to get hurt in the end.

People are quick to have kids which is a life long commitment and are nonchalant about marriage which might be temporary.

imagine there are all these problems and you still wanna get married to him crazy

If I have to complain about what my man is doing and the lack thereof, even before marriage. I'm out and ending the relationship.I'm running.

"Well, you see what happened was someone hacked my phone and sent pictures of my you know what to a woman that I don't know". 😂

She's sooooo beautiful!! She looks just like a Barbie 😍

I am sorry but, does she really believe that this guy is going to be what she wants him to be when and if they get married. This guy is showing her who and what he is, she knew that from the start.

I want him to change.this is the dumbest thing anybody can say.

You are a beautiful young lady, you should never allow a male to make you feel insecure. You admitted he's a cheater and gets money from other women, this is not someone you should settle down with in a marriage. Co-parent and release yourself from this young man.

The judge’s makeup is finally perfect. Her outfit’s perfect, hair perfect and absolutely matches her personality. She’s a super sweetheart with honest conclusions/assessments. Love the way she enunciates, computes and carry herself.

Finally someone with some receipts!! Literal receipts proof of payment

Why would she want to marry him? Her sister is right even if she's wrong. He admitted that he's for the streets.

She needs to build some self esteem up. Ain’t no way! Why you want to deal with heal. Get some self love

The world has so much more to offer,why do they move so fast,in a hurry to have babies and no marriage.i was born in 1949 and we did not have access to what they have now,SAD😢😢😢

I’d keep an eye out on that sister 😂👀😂

Don't complain now....

I know them personally and not a lie was told Bfree ain’t worked in years 😂😂😂

How did they last long enough to come to even be on the show? She should’ve left his cheating ass 7 yrs ago!

Yah...he definitely shadey as hell. She don't need a live in boyfriend for 7 years! He would have married her if he really wanted to..😩😠😠😠😠😠😡

Wait a minute he says he pay half she says he don't. Who the hell is lying? He said I have receipts but only showed one for like 330.00 how much is rent?

She has two children and she is inadequate. She trained him well to mistreat her and be irresponsible. He is not even a man!

What's wrong with $200 every occasion? He had to ask 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can't even take these men seriously.

Girl, put a twin bed in your son's room and move that dependent into the child's room. And why do you want to marry someone that cheats and doesn't support his family?

Her opening statement made me wonder why she even wanted HIM to put a ring on it.

What blows me about these women? They always act like they don't have a decision. You can make the decision to leave if you are unhappy. Stop talking about somebody made you do something you're a grown human being.

Bish stop complaining & continue to be a door mat, if you don't love yourself you can't expect somebody else to do it!

😁 I think the older sister want him for herself... He paying the bills, she just cheap and want him to pay allllll of it but he not going for it... He do seem a little sneaky though... Yeah I said it...💯

Cheating for seven years, don't give you enough money..why you with him.

We need God in our relationships, marriages & families. Teach our children about Jesus & raise them up the right way. Without him this is why so many issues remain in relationships

Judge Starr. That was a whole bar of advice knowledge that I am going to put in my mental rolodex. "Excuses are tools if the incompetent that build monuments of nothingness". 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥

He doesn't have any problem with his marriage according to him 😅😅

For all of the haters ! She’s actually not with him anymore & She’s glowing more than ever 🫶🏾✨

They are cute sisters though. You go family!

These two are not mature to be in any relationship with each other.

This is why i live by myself

He has been the same since the beginning!! She said they got pregnant early on and had her baby early because he didn't work and help contribute enough!!! Women better wake up and see what's in their face and stop wishing for someone that they don't have and never will in that person! She talking about she want to be married to him??? Wtf for??? He is going to be the same if not worse!! Believe what someone shows you.... want more for yourself!!! Don't set your whole life up to me miserable!!!

I left my child’s father when my son was 3. Was it hard yes…… Leave with your dignity or it’s going to haunt you everyday .

He knows you’re not gonna leave him. It appears like he is going to waste your time and leave when he find someone else.

This is the outcome when women date men almost the same age as them or below 30 years old age. They are not ready to be a man or husband.

He can only treat you the way you allow he too. After seven years you need to count your losses and move on yourself. You don't need his approval to go. He's comfortable and not going no where or providing any more then he doing. You stay there and continue to be used.

These women thinks that marriage is supposed to help everything because once a cheater is always a cheater

I don’t understand the “ I want him to change so I can marry him.” All of these men out here that will treat you like a queen without asking and women go around acting like they don’t have options. He’s cheated. He’s cheap. He’s trifling … according to her, she has no reason to marry him. But yet she wants to.

3 minutes in and I'm disgusted! You had your pregnant gf working so much with your baby that she went into early labor?! He couldn't even step up to have a healthy child! She was in a delicate state and needed to be taken care of... Idk how he could feel like a man seeing his son in the NICU knowing it's b/c he wouldn't help his mother... That put both their lives in danger. My 1st husband had his issues, but even he came home from work and ruined my women pregnant feet. I didn't have to work nor want for nothing! This is shameful to hear in this case!

She is beautiful ❤. She won’t have any problems getting another man.

Okay, it technically sounds like she trying to keep the wagon in front of the horse, and he joined her at the club, with no protection 🤦‍♂️.

He was raised that way! Lol!

MAN RUN, THIS WOMAN IS A WEIGHT AROUND YOUR HANDS MAKING THE MONEY.

Gaslighting though. Men who cheat or have questionable behaviors in these streets alwayz say their woman is "insecure". Just they way he carries himself and his facial expressions tell me he thinks he's the sh*t.

Pregnant after knowing him a month. -_-

Why she could wait 7 years for a ring with a man that cant pay the bills? What was she hoping to accomplish with a cheater? I have a role: after ever 3 months, if the relationship dont improve, is time to start remove yourself emotionaly.

Robert said, Wow! lol The sister was totally OUT of line. Going forward, I'd feed her with a long handle spoon! The girlfriend needs to keep her sisters out of her business and out of her ear! And furthermore, I understand she doesn't want her time invested to be a loss, but sometimes we have to lose in order to gain! (gavel)

And you want to still marry him . Com on girl 😳😳😳😳

I went to school with him 😂