I've recently begun the process of getting help to recover, and I'm noticing that substance abuse seemed like a simple "solution" for some complex issues. Anything you could share about your own path?

@@kappanova1302 it gets easier the longer you do it, but id never call it easy. remember that progress isn't always linear. Remove people from your life that you did drugs with. Have a firm support system of medical professionals and friends or family. Therapy/psychiatry would be a great avenue to figure out what caused you to self medicate and properly treat it.

Sadly I’m not sure if it is. Her response she basically dodged mentioning of getting help or realizing she has a problem. She basically was like do I want to be minx or normal minx

@@kappanova1302 Sure. Got diagnosed with bipolar disorder in my mid 20s and sort of had a downward spiral from that combined with the end of a bad relationship. Ended up getting hooked on oxy and eventually heroin in addition to an already existing drinking problem. Then covid hit and I no longer had the responsibility of an in person job to keep me from being fucked up 24/7. Eventually had a few close friends and family tell me that even if I didn't care about myself and was suicidal, my actions were selfish and hurting them too. So I guess I learned that "self destruction" is a misnomer, it destroys everyone who cares about you too. Eventually got a psychiatrist and got my shit together. Breaking ties with people who sell/do drugs with you is also crucial. Good luck to you brother

@@bigtimebop I'm so happy you've gotten clean, and I hope your life keeps getting better and feeling more full💗 God bless you

She can't hide her responsibility behind a buzzword.

SHES GOTTEN THE HELP SHE NEEDED... but she did not take it and use it to better herself. There is a point where people need to stop blaming it on her "mental health issues" since she does have a choice to do better and strive to be better.

@@SUPERSTUDIO17 That Is what being an addict is all about. She does not or can not see that her addiction is a problem. Until she is ready to accept that fact, and be willing to change her life style and choices, she will always be in a cycle. Unfortunately, streaming and the fans that come with it make it difficult to change. Her drunk antics get her a lot of viewers, and that feeds into her addiction.

@@SUPERSTUDIO17 It is a mental health issue tho, and might be the reason she cant accept the help she needs. You do know how mental health issues can work, right?

​@@SUPERSTUDIO17 you don't know the person, tossing blame around doesn't do anything. Stop being parasocial and just leave it to the people who know her and her situation to deal with it

Yeah real change only happens when the person wants it and is willing to work for it.

I was a drug and alcohol counselor when I was younger and said to I can send someone to a 10trillion dollar rehab program and if they don’t want to get sober they won’t get sober

@@thetruth9952 From what I understand Minx has bpd and hasnt had a great relationship with alcohol in years so I doubt thats what is causing all of this.

Just like what Tyler1 said, keep helping even if they hate you. At least they are alive/still here to hate you.

Yeah. Even with suicide. I don’t like when people said “you should’ve tried harder” like who are you to say that? Who’s to say they didn’t try? It comes from both people. Its hard to help those who are so far gone that you can’t get through to them. No matter what you try. We shouldn’t blame either or. Everyone’s suffering differently. We can’t always depend on one person to be the one that fixes everything. Cause even they don’t know sometimes.

That's what I thought too. It shows how much she still cares about minx also. As she doesn't want to hurt her feelings too. Qt deserves alot of respect for all the work she does for everyone else but all she gets is hate and drama thrown her way 😕

Well it wasn't just QT's night being ruined either. I'm sure everybody else at the party was pretty bummed to have it shut down so early like that. I totally get being mad about Minx breaking her promise and ruining everything like that.

@@IGotNoJam both of them are dealing with something. Its hard to help others when you can barley get by yourself. People shouldn’t blame minx because it’s an addiction it isn’t that easy. But people shouldn’t also blame QT because she is as lost as we are. We shouldn’t be dependent on one person. That’s what causes mental break downs.

@@stellamariefanboy.6768 they should blame minx it was her fault lmao that’s how you enable an addict by saying it isn’t her fault

​@@stellamariefanboy.6768 You should always blame an addict, but you need to do it loud enough for them to hear. Addicts usually aren't aware they're addicted and deny it, they figure they just enjoy drinking or drugs, they're not addicted. You will not break through their thick skull with pandering. You HAVE to be mean to them. You HAVE to exile them if they do not listen to you. What QT did can be considered public shaming but Minx is responsible for her own actions, even when under the influence. It's on Minx for doing what she did, and she should be blamed for it. I agree, it isn't easy, but going easy on them is going to get you ignored. Separate note, What do you mean QT is lost? She doesn't seem lost. Seems like she knows what she wants - a friend who can uphold a promise even if the temptation is present. Minx couldn't do that, so QT exiles her.

sometimes people need to have a wake up call thats harsher than losing friends my best friend destroyed his whole friendship with our friend group due to addiction and it took him going to the hospital to finally realize he needs to change took him two years to finally hit me back up and apologize and im glad that i can say we are a least friends again and hope to be as close as we once were

​@@lildad559 that's awesome, I'm glad that had a healthier finish. I hope they remain free of their addiction, all you can do is support them and be there for them, make sure they don't fall back in it. But ultimately it's their decision, I hope for the best for both of you!

Oh shit I didn’t know about this… but I have seen her on other streams absolutely sloshed and acting really weird and bad

It feel horrible to wait for a friend to stop destroying themselves, but it's the only thing you can do. You often have to stay away from them, for years.

@@legueu I am familiar with exactly that, had to deal with that. Last I saw my friend has cut down a lot of the addictions he had, so I'm hoping progress is still being made ^^

She does need a vacation. But like Minx she's addicted too. She's said in the past she strives and lives off the stress of being the organizer of the events. She probably wouldn't do well as a guest with her anxiety. She just needs a event that she plans that is secretly held up by everyone attending to make sure it goes perfect.

I meant more along the lines of an event of her caliber where she is allowed to just be a participant. To your point you would have to have her bring something more significant than a normal person would bring, such as an extravagant cake or baked goodies for the event or else she probably would be stressed about how little she is doing.

I get what you mean, but other streamers aren't obligated to do something for her just because she did something she wanted to do

Fuck no, what other streamers do for her is give her exposure, which she gets because the events she hosts are great her personality isn't though so I wouldn't focus on her that much

​@@songschannel9059 this!

Yeah, sometimes I forget how involved minx was with everyone in the room (except maybe rae), thinking back to when they did name your price, and when QT brought minx to hasan's

Thats rajj

@@Brian_Gonzales Bro not for years...

@@SnailMan63 he'll always be rajj, just waiting till people realize how many N bombs and other stuff he said in the past when the new gen finds out since they just love cancel culture

@@Brian_Gonzales bro that's completely irrelevant...

lsf has the biggest hate boner for Qt and even they're on her side for this one.

I mean im just surprised QT even invited or was concerned when she was thrown out. At that point she should have told security to make sure shes gone.

​@@barodrinksbeer7484 coz she considered her as a friend at that time. But now she had enough.

My sister was a drug addict, similar but also slightly different, still an addict, and it all depends on the person, sometimes cutting the person out of your life is the best decision for them, most of the time it’s the worst decision you could make and will ruin that person even more, either way I would never ever talk about her publicly in front of millions

@@smellprophet6606 They are content creators that were attending a content party. They are allowed to speak about their experiences, especially where public social media "unfollows" can start their own rumor mills. Whether or not cutting someone out of your life will ruin their life or not, it's not and should not be a factor when you cut them out. You have to prioritize your sanity and energy.

everyone always say that addicts needs help. But the thing is its not that simple because even if help is provided, it is still up to them. Its hard thats why most addicts fails. only few get fixed in the end. For Minx's case though, i think its also mental issue. I think she is just anti social person and a little bit of alcohol amplifies it. I watch her and QT for so long. She did mess up multiple projects of QT that im surprise QT still let her in the party. I Like Minx in loveOrHost and her behaviour in that show is funny because its just a bit and not real life

Did you see the discord messages?? She was def drink when having a conversation about not drinking

​@@jeanmuyuela8112 the fact she didnt even apologize says it all

@@jeanmuyuela8112 The problem is that it's impossible to help someone that doesn't want to be helped, and if not that, someone who doesn't want to take the steps in order to be helped.

She definitely needs help, and that's why I have a problem with QT blasting all over the face of the internet after the biggest award show for the circle this is all in. She should have talked to everyone in the circle before shaming Minx in front of basically the whole world. I think QT is still in turmoil about the Atrioc shit and is redirecting that anger towards Minx. Call me out, agree, idc. Shouldn't invite an alcoholic to a situation where drinking is like, the THING, and you shouldn't shame them for fucking up in a situation they got obligated to join. Minx already had tickets. Minx already had a plan for the night. Sometimes being kind fucks the routine up big time I mean come on we've all experienced stuff like that

Exact same situation, I ended up driving my car to the Appalachian trail one day, breaking the spark plugs and hiking the trail for a year. Haven’t touched the needle in 4 years since I did that. It took complete isolation from people and suffering from living in the woods and reconsidering why I “relied” on drugs like I did.

it's amazing both of you guys were able to kick the needle. for a short time, i was addicted to melatonin and benadryl, but that's no where close to heroin. continue to stay strong and live well! remember you're all loved and cherished by those around you !!

Congratulations that can’t be easy

Bro shot heroin for seven years lmao

Who cares lol

Right after she does good on her behaviour. Her mental state is not for the public to handle.

Lol that's the spirit

SHES GOTTEN THE HELP SHE NEEDED... but she did not take it and use it to better herself. There is a point where people need to stop blaming it on her "mental health issues" since she does have a choice to do better and strive to be better.

@@SUPERSTUDIO17 It has nothing to do with mental health issues, it has to do with the power of addiction which is extremely hard to beat. People making comments like that have no idea what addiction is or is like. It's not something people can just "choose not to do." They have to work on it for years, sometimes even the rest of their life. Getting clean from heroin is the hardest thing I have ever done in my entire life. I'm sure that sentiment is shared for any addiction that exists.

To me it’s not when they don’t get help themselves, it’s when they lie about actually getting help to friends but than doing the complete opposite. That’s what makes it hard cause you have no idea what to believe, at any moment they could just start again suddenly and you wouldn’t know. Unless of course you are aware and are available

addiction isnt a self control issue babe

​@@F0URL34FCL0V3Ryeah but you can't help a person that doesn't want to be helped, and it's just so emotionally draining to have a friend like that

She’s right to set boundaries, but making a video like this? I don’t think this is helping anyone. The guilt Minx will feel along with a plethora of other emotions will send her further down the spiral. Cutting off is fine, and her behaviour that night perfectly warrant anyone wanting to cut ties, but this public stunt does nothing.

@@effmltalks She has the right to address this in public when the other person is destroying her reputation in public.

Shes trash for airing this out onlime tho. Thats not helping anything its just showing people not to fuck up around her.

The line is different for each person and the only way to know what your line is when someone passes it. It is a hard thing to go through.

Did you quit entirely or are you now able to drink like a normal person? Asking as someone who is currently struggling with alcohol

​@@DaemonJerky you just need to quit completely. Cause you're just making an excuse of just "drinking a little". It happened to my dad, who always has a promise on everything but eventually leads to the same thing.

@@DaemonJerky you gotta just quit my guy. Once I figured out that I was allergic to alcohol and understood that everytime I drank I broke out in handcuffs, and other bad choices that made piss poor impacts on my life. Life has been nothing but awesome since I gave it up.

@@DaemonJerky I cant drink at all. When i realized that this might be a problem, i stopped drinking during weekdays and would let myself have a beer on friday and one on saturday. Then i started buying both of those beers on friday and of course drank them both immediate. Then on saturday i would buy two because i got two on friday. Sounds insane but it felt perfectly fine back then. Took maybe a month and i was drinking daily again. At the peak i would buy a case (24 pack) on friday and drink like 16 beers and pass out. Then i would ''only'' have 8 for saturday so i would make any excuse to go out so i could buy a few more. Eventually i had to sell my car and even my phone to pay rent. Last thing i could lose was my gf and first kid. Shes the kind to pack up, go and not look back so when she told me that she might leave if i keep drinking, i knew she meant it. She didnt pressure me though and let me make my own choices which was exactly what i needed. One night i just said im gonna take a break. I knew then that im never drinking again but i didnt want to say that incase i relapse and disappoint her and myself. That was about 4 years ago and I havent drank since and life is actually good. Boring but good. Sometimes its hard to deal with the loneliness but it is what it is. From the moment of realizing that this is a problem, it took me nearly 7 years to quit. I wouldnt recommend trying to control it. Just quit completely and get your life back. There is a lot of great things and most importantly people out there but you have to decide on how you spend your time.

@@ville6338 yeah. Thanks for your story. Did you use a group like AA or one of the secular ones, or was this just with the support of your loved ones? Your story is pretty different from those I've heard before so I really appreciate your insight

Thank god I didn't have friends like you. If all my friends cut me off, when I was an addict then I would've killed myself.

I think drifting apart and cutting someone off your life is very different

yeah but this is literally an addiction and not changing the fact that you like tennis instead of football.

yes, but this is an addiction were talking about here

@@pinacolada2273 are you trying to say qt is in the wrong? Pinacolada?

​@@pinacolada2273 so let me get this straight. If someone is going to hell and dragging you. You just accept it coz it's the right thing to do?

congrats on the 10 years!

very happy for you and your healthy recovery, i hope you keep the fight going strong

Lol heroin is so much fun though! It only killed a friend and damn near killed me... glad you pulled through. I wouldve drowned in vomit one night if a miraculous situation hadnt occured and someone showed up at that very moment (2 in the morning). Wow.

I felt so bad doing it 😭

@@fearandclips Murat only cut when?

Who cares

@@Brian_Gonzales wow you seem very compassionate

@@degrassi420 Only the people who didnt care about me and just told me to fuck off, really helped me beat my heroin addiction. The people who were trying to “help” would just let me steal or use them to get more.

is this in a video?

@@hana-rv6ru you can probably find the vod somewhere

@@hana-rv6ru literally can just search the ''minx jumping table'' or whatever on youtube. 2 seconds of time

Unfortunately you’re right. And then people get upset when you reveal that you’re an alcoholic or let them down in some way.

Also she is Irish not British, where the problem is somehow even worse

@@Mogeli Shoot sorry idk why I assumed she was from Northern Ireland

Tbf the drinking culture in the UK and Ireland are extremely similar so I think your example still stands

I’ve been to the country that drinks more alcohol per capita (Korea) but honestly felt like Ireland had more of a drinking problem. It seemed like everywhere we went, at any time of day, you could meet someone who was functionally drunk. The actual “start of the night” seemed to be around 3-4PM and people were already hammered by 6. I loved Ireland but man….that was crazy. (I’ve also been to the UK, it was nowhere near close)

yeah, Minx has made several comments about how she drinks to deal with her social anxiety on her stream, I know she also has other mental health problems and addiction in her family. I hope she can get some help before things get any worse

*kill anyone but herself that night lmao. Sorry but if I saw my mate so smashed they're not in control, I'm not letting them swim the pool. Sykkuno did the right thing if that's true.

@MrDucktastic Truee, though I'm saying that Minx attempting to swim would have been really bad. It's a good thing Sykkuno stepped in, I just feel bad since I guess people misread the situation

It was Connor (CdawgVA) who stoped her, at that time sykkuno was talking with conner just chilling when minxed joined in clearly drunk, at some point she kept insisting that they all go get in the pool and both sykkuno and connor kept telling her that it was a really bad idea but then minxed tried to run for the pool anyway and thats when connor grabbed her to stop her, thats when word got out that minxed was trying to push someone in the pool cause that was what it looked like from the other people watching them. Connor already mentioned this to carify on what actually happend when people asked him about that incident during one of his streams.

Is this Minx that way back when played TTT with PewDiePie, Markiplier and Jacksepticeye?

@@goonerOZZ nope. I used to think that too but that Minx did a face reveal eventually and looks nothing like this Minx, not to mention sounds nothing alike. Must just be a popular internet name

@@rynnmedia oooh okay, thx... It may sound horrible, but somehow I am relieved that this is a different person than the one I thought this was.

@@goonerOZZi think the one you’re talking about is TheRPGMinx

@@j.ourney oooh yeah! That's the one!

For me it’s when they lie about whether or not they’re getting help. Like bro I want to help you but it’s like I can’t look away for even a second because every time I do, you just revert back.

@@stellamariefanboy.6768 very well put. my feelings exactly.

Yeah happened to my dad too. Promise to not be drinking again, let it cool down for a week then gets hammered everyday. Constantly lying. Constantly making excuses.

I thought so too, she wasn't black out, but definitely seemed drunk

Woah, absolutely do NOT diagnose other people on the internet. It's incredibly harmful, and misinformation helps no one

@@Gladiva19no, like, she’s literally come out n said she has bpd. They aren’t diagnosing her

Even harder when you’re dealing with your own shit. Everyone expects QT to just know what todo but she doesn’t know herself especially since she’s dealing with issues of her own.

Honestly alcohol does more bodily damage than heroin by far my mom was a heroin addict turned alcoholic, and i got addicted to opiates as well. alcohol ultimately ruined my moms body and killed her.

It isnt. Most alcohol drinkers arent addicted. All heroin takers are addicted.

@Armin that sounded to ignorant it's not even funny. Have you experienced to be with an alcoholic? Or someone that had an addition before?

@@eternalgamers10 Bro Most people in the world drink alcohol. For the vast majority it is no big deal.

@@eternalgamers10 Think about it if the same amount of people on this Earth that so much as tried alcohol once in their lives, had done heroin instead, imagine what that world would look like… This shouldn’t even be an actual discussion or comparison between the two, but at the end of the day all long term addictions can lead to destructive and fatal repercussions, stay safe kids

You can become dependent on weed. Just don't make the mistake of thinking that the same kind of behaviour is okay because it's weed.

Almost like streamers don’t make very good friends.

As someone else on the other side, don’t do it unless you are sure you won’t hurt them again. I lost my childhood best friend from mental illness/drugs. If she came too me confident that she was better and did ANYTHING to break my trust that would be the end of it. Point blank. He’s already past the point where he doesn’t want to interact with you. If anything I would wait for him to come to you, if not, then you need to learn that sometimesyou fuck up and people don’t need to forgive you. As much as it sucs

@@lillybee2951 thank you for your words. helped me understand his side a bit more. we talked about it and he wants some distance which is healthy i suppose. 2 months or so until start of 2024 which i suggested. at leasts we say hello again and we don‘t look at each other sad / angry anymore. he knows i would do anything for him and i will help him get through school grade-wise whenever he needs me. i will work on myself so whenever he decides to approach again he can trust that i will be there for him and reliable no matter what! so far i‘m doing well not causing drama and giving him space. still a lot of work ahead but he promised he‘d leave the door a bit open if he notices that i‘m making a change for the better. best dude ever

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