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@Agumon5
@Agumon5 Ай бұрын
I sometimes have the opposite problem. I cannot stop blaming myself. I cannot stop pointing the finger on myself. I cannot give myself mercy or grace or compassion. I blame myself for my past mistakes to the point of paralyzing self-loathing.
@aureliofelix3335
@aureliofelix3335 Ай бұрын
The way I solved this was by learning from my mistakes, Every time I make a mistake, I think "how/what can I learn from this?". This way of thinking gives me peace, even when my emotions are running high, because I know that mistakes are a natural part of human life. I write in a diary and also make quick notes on my cell phone every time I do something I consider a mistake. I ask myself "what was the mistake, and how can I avoid it in the future". If I fail, I ask myself "what led me to fail, and how can I avoid it". It's a cycle, but it only takes you up, never down. It only takes you down when you give up and stop trying to improve. I also think that the most important thing is not to be ignorant and to see reality as it really is. I know I'm not perfect, so I won't be harsh with myself when I make mistakes. I know I can change, so I analyze every mistake I make and feel gratified afterwards. I know I'm not a psychologist, so maybe sometimes I misinterpret my mistakes. I know that learning is a slow process, so the only thing I can do now is to keep trying to improve.
@kalaiarasansk3573
@kalaiarasansk3573 Ай бұрын
U wrote this from my mind 🥺
@WisdomRoad-yr4ig
@WisdomRoad-yr4ig Ай бұрын
Keep practicing 🧘‍♂️
@divyasivakumar4116
@divyasivakumar4116 Ай бұрын
❤❤
@yogendra0606
@yogendra0606 Ай бұрын
dont point out at your self ..you have done mistakes unintentionally ..and you are not matured enough at that time and u accepted now it will heal u..dont worry everyp0ne makes mistakes...be pure from heart god will shower blessing on u
@bibhu939
@bibhu939 Ай бұрын
This channel is shaping my life. Thank you so much Namo buddhhaya
@ankitchaturvedi8802
@ankitchaturvedi8802 26 күн бұрын
Same vro
@akankshaawasthi3130
@akankshaawasthi3130 Ай бұрын
I don't know how i control my mind and concentrate on my studies. I feel sometimes empty or may be fully filled. Nothing goes right with me and I know it is all my things . daily i think that today I do it but I can't .i don't know what to do . But your videos give me positive strength may be today is not my day but I'll make it oneday.
@AnshkumarDubey-zq3vz
@AnshkumarDubey-zq3vz Ай бұрын
Same thing happening withe me. Which exam are you preparing for?
@Raina190
@Raina190 Ай бұрын
Same problem 😢😢I can't concentrate on my study because of regret.. but I have so many exams in this year.. and I have to pass any of them.. and 4 months are already gone from 2024😢😢
@traumagirlvalerie8420
@traumagirlvalerie8420 Ай бұрын
I know how you feel but we will get through this. Keep watching his videos and know there are other souls like yourself who are going through it too and are praying for the best for you too!
@felixd1831
@felixd1831 Ай бұрын
​@Raina190 there is no point in regretting because those are past events and you cannot change them. What you can do is, focus on the present moment, improve yourself, and create a better future for yourself
@RPSewminiKavindya
@RPSewminiKavindya Ай бұрын
"do not expect people be like you" I really felt it.Learning from others' mistakes is crucial for our own growth. It helps us avoid making the same errors.thankyou🙏🙏
@bobblebec12
@bobblebec12 Ай бұрын
I just let go now and try and be kind and if people aren’t kind walk away. ❤
@Echo_Canine11
@Echo_Canine11 Ай бұрын
Gosh man.... whenever I watch these videos, I'm seriously reminded that there are still some strong anchors in this river. Thank you for the wonderful advice.
@chandanaedirisinghe8732
@chandanaedirisinghe8732 Ай бұрын
My best friend uses her valuable time to talk to her boyfriend and meet him. But she cannot use that much time for those things because she has many lessons to cover. She is studying Biology, and she has lots of work. She has already missed so much work. I want to tell her all these things but I can't. I'm afraid that she would get me wrong . what should I do?
@pamodarajapaksha694
@pamodarajapaksha694 Ай бұрын
🙏නමෝ බුද්ධාය!☸️ ✨අප හට මහත් අනුකම්පාවෙන් අර්ථයෙන් ධර්මයෙන් අනුශාසනා කරන පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා..!🙏☸️🍃🪔 🙏සාදු.. සාදු.. සාදු..🙏 ✨පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මේ භවයේදීම උතුම් චතුරාර්ය සත්‍ය ධර්මය පරිපුර්ණ වශයෙන්ම අවබෝධ කර ගැනීමට මේ ධර්ම දානමය කුසලය හේතු වාසනා වේවා..!🙏☸️🍃🪔 🙏සාදු.. සාදු.. සාදු..🙏 🙏තෙරුවන් සරණයි පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස..!☸️
@T.M.SRathnayake
@T.M.SRathnayake 9 күн бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@mayuraovinda4731
@mayuraovinda4731 Ай бұрын
I watched your all videos and am sri lanka. and monks like you are very rare and also in Sri Lanka is even more . සාධු සාධු සාධු 🙏🙏🙏
@JA-eb2tj
@JA-eb2tj Ай бұрын
There are lot of them in the villages but in social media it's so hard to find someone like this thero..
@YvonneDearden
@YvonneDearden Ай бұрын
Thank you for your wonderful Buddhist Wisdom
@bob.hudson
@bob.hudson Ай бұрын
This is one of the most difficult lesson to learn... Once you stop focusing on others and you focus on yourself, you then realise that you have to forgive yourself for your own mistakes.
@julbro8451
@julbro8451 Ай бұрын
The Buddha was a great psychologist!
@felixd1831
@felixd1831 Ай бұрын
He had psychic powers. He can see your mind in this life, in all your past lives, and in all your future lives
@HaharuRecords
@HaharuRecords Ай бұрын
He wa way beyond that..But no God
@supipiaravindya2932
@supipiaravindya2932 Ай бұрын
ඔබ වහන්සේගේ හඬ ඇහුවමත් හිත නිවෙනවා හාමුදුරුවනේ..අපේ බුදුහාමුදුරුවන්ගේ ධර්මය,දර්ශනය ලෝකෙටම කියල දෙන්න,ලෝකයම සාමකාමී හැමෝටම සතුටෙන් ජීවත් වෙන්න පුළුවන් තැනක් කරන්න උදව් වෙන්න තව තවත් ශක්තිය ලැබේවා...තෙරුවන් සරණයි 🙏☸️
@andrewwater5836
@andrewwater5836 Ай бұрын
So wise words. Namo Buddhaya 🙏
@ramitamaharjan7458
@ramitamaharjan7458 Ай бұрын
Plz make a video on how to deal with people who intentionally cause trouble for you ( like roommates, tenants, in laws etc) how do you deal with such people?
@reachtosky942
@reachtosky942 Ай бұрын
Even I am searching for the answer everyday
@TusharChavan-gp1bu
@TusharChavan-gp1bu Ай бұрын
Love from India👌
@shubhasmitasahoo493
@shubhasmitasahoo493 Ай бұрын
Thank u so much . I will try to change my behaviour towards pepole who misbehaves me . May god give me the strength for dealing with them calmly
@RiyaJoshi-cm2fx
@RiyaJoshi-cm2fx Ай бұрын
Its a very big fault on us to find out the other fault you are give so good lesson for understand this mistake❤
@tikagurung9338
@tikagurung9338 Ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹Wandana Bhante jiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
@patriciawee5095
@patriciawee5095 Ай бұрын
It seems impossible for me to do house chores. Why is it? I tried so very hard on my mind planning. But, when come to doing it, i always feel overwhelm. Although when talk of Dharma or sharing n spreading your videos, no problem at all. And I love doing it. Thank you Venerable. I hope to meet you one fine day Namo Buddhaya🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@nickyjones2709
@nickyjones2709 Ай бұрын
I have the same problem. Mind you I have too much clutter and old clothes and post from years ago and I don't know where to start.
@deannag4581
@deannag4581 8 күн бұрын
@@nickyjones2709 My advice would be to just start somewhere. Do a little bit here and there and it will start to become a habit and you won't think about it as much. Make the activity enjoyable, too, like playing music while you're working. Don't be too hard on yourself and just see every little bit as progress and success. I hope that helps 💛
@surajmatta2544
@surajmatta2544 Ай бұрын
Namo Buddhaya
@MohammedAhmedAhmmy
@MohammedAhmedAhmmy Ай бұрын
Can you make a video on how to stop addiction of any drug like cigarettes and all? I really want to quit it but theres something inside me that brings me back towards smoking.
@atharvakulkarni3921
@atharvakulkarni3921 12 күн бұрын
I have personally broken 2-3 addictions of myself so if u don't mind ill give u some advice 1. Become aware that ur breaking your habit means if u already start smoking again and then u worry then there is no point the deed is done. 2. Don't think about sacrifice what u are sacrificing it will often backfire in ways for eg like one cigarette is fine and mind will play all types of tricks Instead focus on positive what you are getting from quitting for eg a better health and better life so we can provide for our family. 3. Hardest point is when we do realise we messed up but u should realise that the bad habit didn't form in one day so it will not leave in one day either it will take just as much time or can take twice as much aswell . 4. Most most important thing is to reflect everytime what u did wrong and identify the trigger what caused u smoke again and the more u do this every time u will improve. Love yourself as it is a slow process and don't give up
@nithya7201
@nithya7201 9 күн бұрын
When you thinking about smoking you start thinking about that disadvantages (dangerous)of your health what's happen when you smoke 💯
@tokyo8533
@tokyo8533 23 күн бұрын
I was fed up with my mindset my thoughts my view points....I support everyone but i alwaya blame myself ...Your vedios give me hope that I can fix my mind and it gives me hope to live..thank you so much❤❤❤
@sindhuudayakumar7979
@sindhuudayakumar7979 Ай бұрын
❤Karuna cheyvan enthe.......... thaamasam. 🙏🏻🙏🏻💗💗 Krishnaaaaaaa❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💐🌹💗 Loka Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu Namo Buddhaya ❤❤❤🎉🎉
@lipikathakur1150
@lipikathakur1150 Ай бұрын
Namo bhudhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻🌹🌺
@user-we7ki1qj1y
@user-we7ki1qj1y Ай бұрын
Thank you so much, very encouraging!!!
@dumeshiellawidana9486
@dumeshiellawidana9486 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much..!!
@gungun_arya.
@gungun_arya. Ай бұрын
you're amazing motivator 👍💛
@user-qn6qu3co3j
@user-qn6qu3co3j Ай бұрын
Wonderful. Thanks a lot sensei.
@sangeetanair3643
@sangeetanair3643 4 күн бұрын
Beautiful ❤️
@positivity_23
@positivity_23 Ай бұрын
Thanks for all your videos ⚡️
@ambikaupadhya431
@ambikaupadhya431 Ай бұрын
I felt so happy listening to you 😊
@potensvita
@potensvita Ай бұрын
You bring peace to me
@AnniePraveena
@AnniePraveena Ай бұрын
Thanks so much 🙏 stay blessed
@matarasriyani9256
@matarasriyani9256 Ай бұрын
Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .🙏🙏🙏
@samilarungapamestry6466
@samilarungapamestry6466 Ай бұрын
Beautiful..
@georginahuq9033
@georginahuq9033 27 күн бұрын
Thank you.
@SwarnapravaTripathy-rf8rd
@SwarnapravaTripathy-rf8rd Ай бұрын
Wow amazing explanation
@ravenmaniac428
@ravenmaniac428 Ай бұрын
Thank you.❤ 🙏
@yakshithrao9168
@yakshithrao9168 Ай бұрын
Tq u namo buddhaya
@reenachazhikulathil4116
@reenachazhikulathil4116 Ай бұрын
Jai gurudev.. Namo budhaya
@aishwaryamadabhavi939
@aishwaryamadabhavi939 Ай бұрын
Golden words 🙏
@nandhinirangaraj4045
@nandhinirangaraj4045 Ай бұрын
Wonderful reminder 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@pronunciationway8502
@pronunciationway8502 Ай бұрын
Great lesson🙏 Namho Budhaya🙏
@bindukdas7182
@bindukdas7182 Ай бұрын
Thank you❤❤❤
@sarithabalaji8572
@sarithabalaji8572 Ай бұрын
Thank you🙏🌹 sir be blessed by the divine
@uthpalasanjeevani7157
@uthpalasanjeevani7157 Ай бұрын
Thanks for share this valuable teachings in this new year...
@krishkrish9374
@krishkrish9374 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this message starting a special day😌 Happy new year 🎉
@sonali_0310
@sonali_0310 Ай бұрын
Namo budhhaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@saivijayalakshmi2312
@saivijayalakshmi2312 Ай бұрын
Thank you sir🙏🙏
@corlisscrabtree3647
@corlisscrabtree3647 Ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Thusith_
@Thusith_ Ай бұрын
Namo buddhaya ❤
@user-bn7gt9xf9b
@user-bn7gt9xf9b Ай бұрын
Lot of love from Bangladesh. Thank you sir.
@ManohariMalki
@ManohariMalki Ай бұрын
Namo buddhaya....❤❤❤
@Sllpp6909
@Sllpp6909 Ай бұрын
Bahot sadharan gyan tha...🙏
@ongleon4468
@ongleon4468 Ай бұрын
Thank You 🙏🏽 Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏽
@MM-vo1ij
@MM-vo1ij Ай бұрын
This teaching was what I needed!Thank you🙏
@jjamesbyerly
@jjamesbyerly Ай бұрын
This meditation is very relevant for parents, and how to correctly guide children. Thank you for this wisdom.
@24HK340
@24HK340 Ай бұрын
Namo buddhaya... 🙏
@martacabrera5026
@martacabrera5026 Ай бұрын
Thankyou 🙏❤️
@hsmint
@hsmint Ай бұрын
The habit of finding fault on others. When we point one finger towards others, we are pointing 3 fingers at ourselves. We should find what good or bad we have done ourselves. We always think, "Why cant they behave like me?" But no one can behave like us and act according to our wish, people are behaving from their perception. Understand that everyone is suffering, so do not find fault on others. That said, there are people who we should find fault on, ie those that we love. But use the correct approach, never use anger and violent. Speak to them privately, also to praise the good things they have done. That way, the listener will be more receptive of what you suggest to him/her to improve on.
@Users370
@Users370 Ай бұрын
Such wise teaching ,thank you 🙏🪷
@akashkv6135
@akashkv6135 Ай бұрын
Best of the best
@apekshadandi7767
@apekshadandi7767 Ай бұрын
Namo buddhaay bhantiji 🙏🙏🙏🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️
@imashanimasha7728
@imashanimasha7728 Ай бұрын
Namo Buddhaya !🙏🙏🙏💐
@huongNguyenL
@huongNguyenL Ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
@ARSAGAMING69
@ARSAGAMING69 Ай бұрын
Namo buddhaya ❤🙏
@ChamilasanthiKanapathi
@ChamilasanthiKanapathi 20 күн бұрын
Idea what
@nandanialgoda880
@nandanialgoda880 Ай бұрын
Very valuable advise. Namo buddhya!
@sarthakstudy5147
@sarthakstudy5147 Ай бұрын
I can't explain , I am going through the problem now but today you unexpectedly uploaded the video ❤
@user-gu9qz5ns7v
@user-gu9qz5ns7v Ай бұрын
sadhu sadhu sadhu...! Namo buddhaya..!☸️🪷🙏
@M.Ojha9435
@M.Ojha9435 Ай бұрын
Thank you❤❤❤❤ Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤❤
@sanyamraman383
@sanyamraman383 Ай бұрын
Thanks sir 😊
@lovadesi
@lovadesi Ай бұрын
Perfect teaching at the right time .
@user-lh9id7ee2c
@user-lh9id7ee2c Ай бұрын
Good msg thanq for doing the video
@rod2623
@rod2623 Ай бұрын
Thank you
@flyme2009
@flyme2009 Ай бұрын
i will keep it in my mind namo budhaya
@wangchusherpa3085
@wangchusherpa3085 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the teaching.❤ Really helpful. Namo Budhaya
@rashmipoornima584
@rashmipoornima584 Ай бұрын
New year with a new lesson...
@rasikasurendragamage5860
@rasikasurendragamage5860 Ай бұрын
Thank you for all these videos I really appreciate these videos thank you🙏🙏🙏
@user-gx6rr8gf4l
@user-gx6rr8gf4l Ай бұрын
Namo Buddhaya. Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
@MasterBuddha001
@MasterBuddha001 Ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@OmBirajdar
@OmBirajdar Ай бұрын
Thankyou really for making such videos , one understanding them can really change his way of living and perspective
@Aizen__sama__99
@Aizen__sama__99 Ай бұрын
I listened your words seriously.
@nileshmedhe2212
@nileshmedhe2212 Ай бұрын
Vandami Bhante ❤
@jessicabillone2643
@jessicabillone2643 14 күн бұрын
I wish I found this channel two years ago
@aravindadharsh
@aravindadharsh Ай бұрын
Thank you... Right message at the right time.... Namo Buddhaaya.... 🙏🙏🙏
@arunamurugesan2125
@arunamurugesan2125 17 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. Your words means a lot to me.
@Steveoaudioandstuff
@Steveoaudioandstuff Ай бұрын
Inspirational
@Eshadow..
@Eshadow.. Ай бұрын
namo buddhaya 🙏🏻
@ratnabahadurgurung9850
@ratnabahadurgurung9850 Ай бұрын
Excellent advice thanks a lots.
@orrphase77
@orrphase77 Ай бұрын
Wonderful advice. Thanks alot my dear❤💓💗
@Maahir397
@Maahir397 Ай бұрын
Thank you every time ❤😊
@mamatachhetry3225
@mamatachhetry3225 Ай бұрын
Namo Buddhaya❤
@user-nl1wt3ux1c
@user-nl1wt3ux1c Ай бұрын
Namo buddhaya😊
@crimped357
@crimped357 Ай бұрын
thank you for this wonderful advice, namo buddahaya 🙏
@karenstephenson
@karenstephenson Ай бұрын
That's very true!
@BandulaSarath-fv3cy
@BandulaSarath-fv3cy Ай бұрын
Namo buddhaya 💐 💐 🌹
@sisiradeshapriya2348
@sisiradeshapriya2348 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤ I’m very happy after watched this video. I’ll try to do so. ❤
@shahivida
@shahivida 23 күн бұрын
❤❤ THANKS
@kpopsweetie8106
@kpopsweetie8106 Ай бұрын
Namo Buddhaya! 🤍🙏✨
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