Fat fetish

What is wrong with you? This is some obese woman who refuses to stop eating McDonalds every meal complaining about a guy who is treating her well. Wahhhhhhhh.

@@charliebrown4035 what is wrong with you

I burst out too.... Laughing.

ughhh the feelzsxz

same

John Smith Are you aware of how unoriginal you are? I feel embarrassed FOR you.

John Smith that was great John. Lol

Have some dignity.

that resonated within me

damn, loving a woman with the lights on is so hard

I KNOW I WAS S H O O K

@@bunnie2568 You're far from being smart then, dear...

Laszlo Sandor Well, considering this is emotion we're talking about, I'm sure it's easy for you to say i'm not very smart :) Maybe you interpreted this differently, but I felt there was a little more underlying in that specific part.

Sil Fir awe that's so sweet, i hope your love story will last long

Hey you still goin out with er?

Fellow Human Yep, I'm really interested in knowing that as well

You are awesome!

I hope you guys are well and still going strong. Good luck!🌹

Same….. same.

Wow! Strong words dat hit home! Beautifully said!

I'm 6 years to late for this comment. But how did it go after the date? Did you two go on a second date?

You completely missed the point of my comment; that point being that being overweight is not healthy. You're right that being overweight does not necessarily mean unhealthy, but this girl in the video is not just overweight; she's obese. Her weight is unhealthy, and any doctor worth a cent would tell her that.

Nick Epstein You completely missed the point of the video so *bye*.

Nick Epstein Are you her doctor? No? How do you know she's unhealthy, then? Can you tell just by looking at thin people whether or not they're unhealthy? You completely missed the point of this entire video. You are exactly the kind of person that this video is talking about.

Nick Epstein And if she is? So what? Why is it any of your business what her health is? Let's ignore the fact that you don't know at all if she's healthy or not, and you're making unfounded assumptions on her life, and get down to , you have an obvious deep-seated problem with yourself in thinking that what you have to say should matter. It doesn't. You should have nothing to say about her body, because it's not yours to worry about. And let's face it, in the end, you aren't offended by her being unhealthy, you are offended that her body does not appeal to you, and it is sad that you believe that your preference warrants a degrading comment.

Holly H Because she's obese; it's obvious from her stature. There's a slim chance she has fine health as she is still young, but even in that case, unless she takes drastic measures to change her habits, then she will encounter health problems in the near future. There's a reason that the majority of over-sized caskets are sold to people in their 30s and 40s; obese people die young. It's a fact. It's more difficult to tell with "skinny" people as clothing can be deceptive and it's easy to make yourself appear larger. Not so easy to hide 50 to 100 extra pounds.

+Sthephany Rangel What does that line mean?

+lisanna32 it means that he isn't telling her during sex when the lights are off, that she is beautiful. he calls her beautiful in broad daylight for everyone to see.

+lisanna32 My understanding is similar to that of what Brooke said: Having sex with someone with the lights on is supposed to mean you aren't ashamed of them, as opposed to having sex in the dark where you can't see them/their body. So by saying 'I love you' with the lights on is meant to be more genuine

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Best line, i think

Stay with him

Congratulations

That’s beautiful

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Becky McLaughlin Keeper!

Would you use it to spew lies just like her

Its that strong tummy action

what you wish you sounded like and old harridan/battleaxe/fog horn. she sounds like she looks. awful, i mean really awful.

All these bitter comments are such tragic attempts at humour 😂 she’s got an awesome voice - she’s one of a few spoken word poets I can tolerate.

In singing terms, I believe she's a contralto or alto? Either way her voice is beautiful.

I disagree. Anyone who dates outside their race is thought to have a fetish, that goes for Black guys dating White girls, White guys dating Black girls, or any mixture thereof including a couple whose skin doesn't match.

Lolalambchop That's what we're saying, anyone who goes outside of what would be considered their sexual norm is said to have a fetish. Including (but not limited to) girls of color, white girls, and girls considered to be on the fat side. See, we're all on the same page.

Chloe King it would be great if people understood that there is no "normal", there is only what's common. What's common isn't automatically good, and what's uncommon isn't automatically bad. We need to just be ourselves regardless of what anyone expects of us or thinks is right.

Lolalambchop, yep... that's pretty much where I was going with my argument. Anything outside of the norm is considered a fetish.

I would love to see a response video done with that in mind and agree completely.

I love this so much! Thanks for sharing your story 😊

I think this is technically ham poetry not slam poetry.

Preach

Yes we should keep our mouths shut and let those fat pigs die young so we dont need to support them.

Too bad we don't live in a fairy tale. We can never change people, there will always be trolls, meanies, poopoo heads and stinkie willies. Grow a thick hide and learn to deal with mean shiT. Stop making excuses ffs.

I actually agree with your sentiment most of the time, but when so many people are tripping over themselves to tell some woman how inspiring and brave and beautiful she is for essentially rattling off a laundry list of complaints to society about being fat, I just can't help chipping my two cents in.

"For being herself" --> Implying being obese is the way she expresses herself, like her clothes, hairstyle, etc.? Obesity is not who you are. It's a disease. It puts your health at risk and lowers your quality of life. The fat stored in her body is not "who she is".

@Quasi Stellar Primate what the hell?

Oh so not only is everything she said wrong but also plagiarized from somewhere else

Awesome reflection! My gf is bigger than me and these are her worries

Love this. I can see both perspectives, because I have been both multiple times. I was chubby until about 2nd grade then I was rail thin until I was about 23. I was chubby for about 2 years again. Then I was rail thin again until about 30 when I had my second child, started school again and went through a divorce. I ballooned up. 50 lbs over weigh. Now down 15 lbs and counting, but wow, being fat is a whole new world. I have been treated like such crap by women and men alike. Everyone and their dog seems to think it's their business to let me know that I'm fat. Like I don't know. Like I don't have a scale. I went to a friends birthday party, (most of the people I know are skinny yuppies :/ )and I was the only one who wasn't offered birthday cake. The host just assumed that i must be on a diet, since I'm fat. I was so depressed that I went to the store after and bought a whole cake and ate so much that I felt sick. No one seems to wonder why I'm obviously self medicating with food. Judging people for being overweight only makes the problem worse. I am convinced of that. I don't know what is worse though that, or being constantly oogled at and sexually harassed by men when I'm skinny.

My story is the other way. I'm also a slim girl, but I've never actually been rude or nasty with fat women. My family taught me to respect people and not judge by the way they look, and so I grew up not even thinking about these matters. However, I had a couple of fat girl friends who treated me very badly, made my life a living hell to the point where I ended up taking an overdose, simply because they secretly hated me for the fact that I'm tiny and they weren't. I have little sympathy for fat women, although I respect them anyway and have no problem interacting with them and such. What I know for sure is that they aren't as innocent and helpless as they like to make themselves seem. Many of them are vicious and vile about slim women and incredibly sly and mean. I don't look down on them, why should I? And I also don't give them compassion, pity, nor do I reinforce their victimhood. They are not victims. To treat them like victims is to acknowledge that they have no power over their circumtances and that they are completely helpless, but they aren't. They have all the power in the world to be whatever they want, do whatever they want, all it takes is willpower and persistence. So, I don't feel any pity or empathy for them when I know that they have the power to change whatever it is that they are not happy with/about. Everyone has the right to feel happy with themselves, but women such as the lady in the video are clearly not happy with themselves and they deep down know that the only way for them to get happy is to put in the effort to change what it is they really want to change, and they know it, and that's what makes them bitter. They refuse to acknowledge the reality of their problem and choose to blame everyone else for their inner issues. Overall, I have no problems with them and I'm happy to make friends with them, but if they project their insecurities onto me and somehow make me feel guilty for the fact that they are fat and what not, then that's where I start having a problem with them. Yes, women do treat each other badly in general, and the reasons for which they treat each other badly are very stupid and trivial. I have a feeling of sisterhood with women in general. I'll always jump and defend other women where the case makes it possible and I always stay by my girl friends' side. Problem is, fat women have always seemed to have a problem with me and tried to make my days a little less than happy. So, it's not always us, skinny girls, the ones who are vile. They are, too.

ninjakid6 sorry, when I try to form a paragraph, it posts. lol

Tell her she has a pretty mind and she'll aim for that instead of always focusing on outer beauty but im glad that you could open your eyes, I dont hate people that used to make fat jokes. We all make mistakes and I too have probably said some shit even if I don't remember (i'm very skinny to the point where its not neccisarly good) but you have to look forward and be a better person, we all have our flaws :p love this post

i love comments like these :)

But it is, tell Ms. Piggy to lose a few pounds.

Morbidly obese, smart and beautiful? K. Gotta love these morons who believe they can change the world with empty, false compliments.

Maik Emanuel Noro there's a difference between being morbidly obese, and just being overweight. dumbass.

Don't care :D

Your name was what caught my attention, but I really hope you're happy with yourself now, and if not, I hope you are someday soon.

Thank you, I have somewhat imroved since then...

+Bad Wolf Be proud of that.

Star Whale Thanks! It hasn't been much progress at all- I just don't hate my reflection sometimes.

+Bad Wolf you're going in the right direction (: I hope someday you look in the mirror and know that you're happy with yourself

Los viajes de Rebe My mother (who has her own mental issues and self esteem issues regarding her own weight) has told me that a guy who found me attractive has a fat fetish... when I got in my first relationship (as well any sexual experience with men) and the guy has been so amazing to wash away my insecurities. Like it is possible to have someone like bigger people! Ha

It is though.....

It 100% is

everything is a fetish. if sum douche seeks out a fat girl its because he wants 2 bang a fat girl. same if a fat guy seeks out a skinny broad.

But of course it is! Of cooooourse!

😭😭😭😭

You should try watching something that gives you an opinion from the other point of view you know for educational purposes to have a full view of the situation understand the details

@@mikemorgan2211 or they can just enjoy the video...

John Smith how is calling anyone a whale helping in any way? If anything it might bring some people closer to death or to finding another way to slowly kill their self

John Smith NO shaming is not a good thing, maybe some people need that but I almost killed someone over that shit, this is probably the reason for mass murderers and school shooters, you can't just constantly verbally abuse somone and think that's ok. Especially when that person has issues, I had some very severe anger and still my anger can get out of hand. I was the happiest person ever until someone like you thought saying some disrespectful ass shit was gonna change me for the better. I started to starve myself for months, I lost weight, but it was like I was outta control and wanted to hurt everybody and not give a fuck. I had my issues, but I was always the quiet nice person, until the anorexia. I just wanted everyone to fucking die

John Smith you need help

@@BenSmith-jw8zy you wanna hear a secret.... ur gonna die alone with that attitude

because lack of health is not attractive.

that SUCKS. I hate assholes. and I hope she found her beauty!

yeah i think the people commenting those things are TRYING to be nice but have missed almost the entire point of what she was trying to say.

She's not though...

chazzatheninja & Deven Bottiaux, you might think she doesn't but I think she's beautiful. We think different things, that's our opinion

But she isnt

i bet her turds look like family size cans of refried beans.

Bullshit. With all due respect, love for oneself is a process that takes an enormous amount of inner effort spanning years. Your superficial contrivances of identity are merely decoys, not real effort. Do something real for yourself, and you will find self love, after which, if you're lucky, someone will love you for who you are, not who you portray. This isn't Hollywood, doll.

Why does no one read the "faith that I am justified in loving myself" part? It took me YEARS AND YEARS AND YEARS to learn to love myself, unconditionally, for who I am, inside and out. The point that I was trying to make was that Rachel's poem and self confident performance tells me that that there is HOPE that there realy ARE people out there who can see past superficiality, that I am justified in WAITING for the right person instead of being embarrassed (as so many jerks think I should be) of my weight and my illness, etc. It reminds me of how proud I am that I am confident, with or without a relationship. Also, please keep this in mind: In our society today, people with chronic illness are treated as if we were gross and crazy. I have been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, Sjögren's Syndrome, IBS, and Ankylosing Spondylitis. That list right there is enough to make most healthy people think, "hypochondriac!!!" It's just as much of a predjudicial thing as weight in our society. "No one can be THAT sick," has been said to me by family members and friends. My doctors gave me those diagnoses, not me. Now imagine telling someone about those illnesses on a first date, the whole list. How many guys would end the date there? And, of course I know that the guys who would end the date weren't worth my time to begin with, but that doesn't keep it from stinging, no matter how confident you are! One last thing: My "superficial contrivances" ARE PART OF WHO I AM. And I don't give a rat's @$$ or a rodent's rectum who you are, 99.9% of people are judged every day by their "superficial contrivances," whether they know it or not. Even you. You can either love those parts of yourself or hate them. I choose to love them.

That would make the word "beautiful" meaningless, and I don't know why anyone would care about having that kind of "beauty" if it's something everyone has. What word would you then use to distinguish people who are physically attractive and can get many girlfriends/boyfriends from people who are physically repulsive and cannot get a date?

weight and health are also separate :)

Exactly. :) You can't generalize. Everyone's situation is different.

I was thinking the same things! "Don't read the comments, they'll only make you mad" so, very nicely put :)

Robin Bat How would I know? lol

Preach Emily, preach! Lol. Jk:)

preach! what a lovely comment, I couldn't agree more! :)

Being fit is being healthy. Being fat is pretty much always unhealthy. It is like if you cut off your own arm. Don't do something obviously unhealthy and complain when people don't find you attractive.

I dont want to be with a fat person for the same reasons I wont date a smoker. I want my partner to be as healthy and live as long as possible with me.

Being fit is pretty attractive to me, though

Go to the gym dude. There's newbs beginning every year. Just start off with once a week and make that a routine.

Are you attracted to equally obese men?

I like how she isn't satisfied that someone appreciates her. Why does she expect so much more from him?

Milktube it's nearly 2014, you idiot. grow up

Milktube //-:

Or, "she has a really pretty face if only...."

Milktube bravo. just stop being fat and there wouldnt be these problems. calories in, calories out. a fat person who actively is trying to lose weight is going to get a lot more respect than a fat person who yells at people for finding her lifestyle unhealthy.

LOL. I haven't heard that one before. Much more creative than just calling her a whale. Gotta be subtle.

@@BobSmith-pm3wx They don't call me The Creative Douche for nothing.

Fatness and skinniness actually happen to be some of the few aspects of physical appearance that can be EASILY CHANGED WITH SUFFICIENT WILLPOWER. Now, I know there is a genetic disorder that causes some people to be fat, but you really can't expect us to believe that even a MAJORITY of fat people are suffering from that, given the statistics of obesity in the U.S. versus the rest of the world, right? Fatness or non-fatness is therefore not JUST a "physical appearance". It can be an indicator of: Motivation/determination, willpower, caring about health, caring for oneself, etc. What really makes my blood boil is how there's so much focus on this obviously changeable and unhealthy trait (fatness) while the TRUE LEGITIMATE CAUSES OF INSECURITY ARE OVERLOOKED. What about ugly people? People with noses too big, eyes too small? Short men (who receive on average less salary than tall people, and can't keep any girlfriend)? Girls with less curvy bodies? Guys who work out a lot but can't get toned muscles? These UNCHANGEABLE, NON-UNHEALTHY CHARACTERISTICS go on being judged while you people sit on this video and scream "JUSTICE FOR FAT PEOPLE"

***** 1. Obesity cannot be "easily changed". Yes, of course people can lose weight through diet and exercise, but it is a long and difficult process; don't pretend it's "easy". 2. You seem to think that skinny people shouldn't be expected to have enough willpower to simply refrain from insulting fat people, but fat people should have enough willpower to dramatically change their bodies simply for your approval. Logic Fail. 2. Why focus so much on the supposed insecurity of fat people while giving a free pass to the OBVIOUS insecurity of those who are motivated to publicly denigrate them? 3. I am not screaming "Justice for fat people". I am screaming "Respect for ALL people!"

WhyNotSing247 1. It may not be "easy", but it sure is a lot easier than changing one's height, sex, sexual orientation, or color of skin. As well, being overweight is probably the only attribute society makes fun of that's actually proven to be UNHEALTHY. Drastic differences of obesity rates between different cultures (particularly the fact that everywhere other than America has lower obesity rates) proves that maintaining healthy weight is in fact quite doable with willpower. 2. I don't think anyone should be insulting anyone. But I do think fat people should have enough willpower to dramatically change their bodies if they care about their own health. Just look around you: College students have the lowest obesity rates. They care about health and dating. The evidence is clear that when there's a will there's a way. For "our approval", you say? No one is requiring them to change for "our approval". It's their choice. If they care about how people perceive them, especially as potential dates, they should in fact be working towards a goal of maintaining a non-unhealthy weight. If they don't care, then that's okay too. I don't have ANY problem with fat people who simply don't give a shit about how fat they are. I do have a problem with people who feel ENTITLED. That doesn't mean I think they should be INSULTED.

***** Anyone who gets up on a stage and attempts to manipulate an audience into thinking that being obese is "in the eye of the beholder," and is therefore normal, is begging to be insulted by anyone with a modicum of sense. It's a psychological problem, and a disaster for entitled cultures. What this really is is a cry for help. Someone needs to help this poor woman if her only respite is the love of some scrawny, desperate virgin.

THIS SHOW MADE ME LAUGH AND CRY SO MUCH

Stefani Hall love that show so damn hard

+Ron W That's because she needs more muscle to keep herself from falling over or breaking their legs from the sheer weight.

+Jackal bro how much energy do you expend on finding people just to be negative to them? like just the effort? are you ok like do you need to talk to someone about all that negativity or something because bro, dude that can't be healthy.

Nymph Blood Nor is being obese. I'm the healthier one in this case.

+Jackal are you happy in your life? I'm actually curious, like a happy person probably wouldn't be so negative to people they don't know. so are you happy?

Nymph Blood No, not knowing that idiots think being obese or overweight is healthy exist on the same planet as me.

I love your icon!! :-)

thanks! he's lovely:)

ash n. he really is(:

Certainly, not possibly.

@@leannchiarelli1046 Haha! Purple hair and tiny penis argument. She's a feminist! And that's all they got.

Its just strange that there are morbidly obese people such as rachel who are so jaded that they can't see they have a health issue. They take is as as attack, even when its coming from a doctor .I would love to see a better, happier version of rachel, but its not going to ever happen until she acknowledges she has a problem and takes action.@@leannchiarelli1046

Its not about what you know. its about what you do with what you know. Just listen to her monologue. You can tell that she has no interest in doing anything productive about losing weight; and still wants the world to accept her as she is. She's triggered by her own physician for christsakes; does her doctor also hate women??@@leannchiarelli1046

Also why would i want to kill myself if we are having a disagreement. I think you rock with Antifa and hillary clinton!!@@leannchiarelli1046

Aaaand this is kind of my life I guess for now???

'heroin addiction'