If our marriages are going to remain pure and intimate, then we have to have an effective system for processing anger and problems. A good marriage isn’t a marriage where there is never conflict. A good marriage is one where anger can be processed and conflicts can be resolved.
Watch this special sermon from Pastor Jimmy Evans that will give you biblical understanding of how to deal with anger and how to resolve conflicts so you can have the pure and intimate marriage that God wants you to have.
SERMON HIGHLIGHTS:
THE 4 “DON’TS” OF DEALING WITH ANGER:
1. DON’T DENY YOUR ANGER
2. DON’T JUSTIFY SIN BECAUSE YOU ARE ANGRY
3. DON’T GO TO BED ON YOUR ANGER
4. DON’T GIVE THE DEVIL A PLACE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
THE 4 STEPS TO RESOLVING CONFLICTS IN MARRIAGE:
1. CONFRONT IN A LOVING AND POSITIVE MANNER
2. COMPLAIN AND DON’T CRITICIZE
3. LISTEN TO YOUR SPOUSE AND BELIEVE THEM
4. FORGIVE AND LET IT GO
GOOD MARRIAGES AND GOOD PEOPLE HAVE ANGER REGULARLY TO DEAL WITH
IF YOU HAVE ANGER AND NEED TO RESOLVE CONFLICTS BETWEEN YOU NOW, THEN COMMIT TO DOING IT RIGHT AND GIVE YOUR SPOUSE THE RIGHT TO COMPLAIN AND BE HONEST
IF YOU CAN’T RESOLVE IT - GET COUNSELING UNTIL THE ISSUE(S) ARE DEALT WITH AND YOU HAVE THE SKILLS TO DO IT IN THE FUTURE