Rainbow Baby, Pregnancy Anxiety After Loss/Stillbirth
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2 жыл бұрынHey ya’ll! I have been MIA! But I am BACK and with the greatest news ever!!!
FYI this video was recorded MAY 1, 2021! So, I have tons of catching you guys up to do :-)
Some of your private messages to me on IG have really inspired me to get back on KZfaq and keep you all updated. I love you guysssss!!! 💜
@nonyaschabusiness412 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! I saw she's 13 weeks old now and I'm so glad your rainbow baby is earthside ❤ I just had my rainbow baby 2 days ago, it's such a relieving and wonderful feeling when they debut. Looking forward to seeing more recent updates 🥰
@itsmylifegranny3437 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations ! I hope you are doing well . I'm a grandma to a rainbow grand baby . He came to me after my daughter and hubby tried after 3 moms from the loss. He is a thriving 7 month old now. Naturally, like you I had anxiety while she was pregnant . Many people don't think grandparents are effected. I just wanted to share this in case someone in my situation reads my comment. I definitely understand how you felt indirectly about going to the same place. You had the same fear my daughter had when at the hospital . Congratulations and its great you shared this to help others.
@shaygiomari442 Жыл бұрын
This video hits so hard, I’m so sorry for your loss. Just had my son still born 2 months ago and as much as I want to try again I’m scared out of my mind! This gives me so much encouragement to be stronger 💕 so happy to see you delivered your precious baby safely this time and wish so much for a similar outcome soon 🥰
@Wildmiracles 10 ай бұрын
We lost our 2 month old infant in June. I ended up getting pregnant unexpectedly 3 weeks before her passing and didn’t find out til 2 weeks after she left us so i completely understand.. I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby. Congratulations and I pray your family is still growing and thriving ❤
@Wildmiracles 8 ай бұрын
Update- I ended up needing to go to the hospital for a hemorrhaging late term miscarriage at 18 weeks.. I will never know my son. I was so scared and now I’d do anything to know he was still secure in my womb. I love you my sweet Judah.
@lenaiyahtyranea2305 7 ай бұрын
@@Wildmiracles I am so sorry for your loss. For your son and daughter. I lost my daughter at 18 weeks as well. I went into preterm labor😔.
@lc1590 Жыл бұрын
So glad to know you have your rainbow baby now! I watched your other video about your first and my heart really goes out to you, you are definitely one strong Mama for sure though. You have a beautiful heart and will reap the many blessings Our Father has to give and bless you with. You deserve all the best... stay strong, keep your hope and positive attitude along your journey, your doing great!!
@TheDaniMilan 2 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful story I can’t wait until your beautiful baby is born!!!! My baby passed at three weeks old. But I have faith I’ll be pregnant again with the man of my dreams. Pray for me y’all 🙏🏽 I am sooo happy for you!
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
I am terribly sorry for your loss! 🥺 I just prayed that all of your desires come into fruition!! Keep your faith mama 💜 My baby was born in June! She’s 5 months now. I have to post an update soon 🥰 thank you so much!
@TheDaniMilan 2 жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai thank you so much beautiful
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheDaniMilan of course! 🥰 did you share your loss experience on your channel at all?
@BellaDamaTiana 2 жыл бұрын
🌈 I’m so happy for you and your husband! ❤️ I love how you advocated for yourself. You are so strong!
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 💜😭
@jordic.3621 2 жыл бұрын
I see the joy in your face here ! I’m soooo happy for your family. My second birth was an induction and it was so beautiful and healing for me. My first birth was absolutely traumatic. Congratulations again !!
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm so happy you had that experience with your second birth. Unfortunately, mine was traumatic as well. I am still soooooo very grateful. My baby means absolutely everything to me and I'd do it all over again! 💜
@BrownDoll28 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you! Congratulations! Babies are such a blessing 😇
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! Yes they are! I honestly didn't think it was possible to feel all of the joy my daughter brings me! 💜
@hidetolove 2 жыл бұрын
YES IM SO HAPPY TO SEE THIS!!!! SENDING SO MUCH LOVE TO YOU!!!! OMG
@hidetolove 2 жыл бұрын
Totally crying tears of joy for you omggggg
@dawnroberts8316 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Congratulations!!!! So happy for you and your family Your loss vedio helped me cope through my roughest days. As a matter of fact it is helping me cope. Just so happy for you. Can't wait to have my rainbow also.
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💜 I am so glad that you felt seen from me sharing my story. If you ever want to chat, reach out to me on IG! I am hopeful for the debut of your rainbow baby soon :) sending lots of love!
@ExoticWinter26 2 жыл бұрын
Omg congrats! I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby as well! So exciting!!! 💖💖💖 Best of luck to you hun ✨
@ExoticWinter26 2 жыл бұрын
@@BriaBarrows Thank you! ❤️
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for you, sis! 💜 please keep me updated! Wishing you and baby all the blessings!!
@ADot1330 2 жыл бұрын
I just saw your other video and as I was watching I was praying that God blessed you all with another baby. I said, let me check to see if she’s posted another video and sure enough this is here! And I see in the comments that the baby is here now. PRAISE GOD!!!!! Glory to His name! I thank you for sharing your testimony and showing us how faithful God is! I’m reminded of God’s goodness because of you-through the good in the bad He is present and keeps His promises. Whew! Soooo very happy for you and your family!
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜💜💜
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 🥰 So glad God has been here for us everything step of the way!
@flowerchild_7530 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video I recently lost our daughter in September and it’s been really hard for me. But this gave me hope that we will have our rainbow baby some day ❤️
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! I am so hopeful for you and your family! 💜 sprinkling baby dust!!!!
@cerysgriffiths8516 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations hunny❤️
@BriaBarrows 2 жыл бұрын
Look at God pretty mama 😘😘😘😘🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 don’t make me cry. I’m so happy you for you. God is good
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜💜yes!!! Thank you so much 😘😘
@sheltonceleste 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you 🤗🤗🤗. Wishing you many blessings and happiness 💖😗💖😊😊💞
@mirduhh13 2 жыл бұрын
I was just watching your videos! My baby girl is 6 weeks old today 💗🥰 congratulations mamas ❤️
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! & Congratulations to you!! My girl is already 13 weeks now! lol I've just now had the time and space to edit and upload this! 💜
@lifewithlacy7190 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. I am so happy for you. With my last pregnancy I also felt like you when my MFM Dr informed me that we would induce at 37 weeks. I was told to check into the hospital on Monday morning. That Sunday I announced to my husband that I didn’t think I was going to go in on Monday. That she would come when she was ready. He thought I had lost my mind. My water broke Sunday night at 7:45 and I delivered her at 12:11 am. Funny how God and these babies work. Good luck and I will be praying for a safe and speedy delivery ♥️🙏🏻♥️
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
That is so awesome! I love how things worked out for your family! That had to be an amazing feeling for you! Congratulations. & thank you! Baby girl is already 13 weeks old :) Just now getting around to posting this video!
@lifewithlacy7190 2 жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai Awwww congratulations. I know you are getting all of those sweet baby cuddles and kisses. I wish you nothing but the best on your mom journey. Cherish each moment because they grow up in the blink of an eye. Can’t wait to see videos of you and your precious rainbow baby 🌈
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithlacy7190 I honestly can’t get enough of her! Everyday I feel so grateful! I can’t believe she’s growing so fast lol I can’t wait to share her with you guys! 💜💜💜💜💜
@Sheislizettemukasa 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 👏🎆👏👏!!! I am so happy for you🙂.
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! 💜
@vina8651 2 жыл бұрын
Yayyy thank you for sharing ! I can’t wait to have my rainbow baby ❤️. I experienced a stillbirth earlier this year. 40 weeks and 3 days. Both of us were healthy. My angel baby boy.
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Of course!! I can’t wait for you!!! 🥰 I’m so happy to be on this side of motherhood 💜
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
I thought I said this in my initial reply but I’m terribly sorry for your loss, Vina! 💔 if you ever want to share more, I’m here💜
@vina8651 2 жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai thank you I would love to share my story with you ❤️.
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
@@vina8651 here? If you prefer more privacy , you can DM me Instagram?
@vina8651 2 жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai hey 👋🏽 I’m not in social media anymore. I can share on this platform just don’t know how that would be done outside of posting under your post when I’m ready.
@mykariisajohnson2483 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations I’m so happy for you !!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏽
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 😇😊🥰
@mykariisajohnson2483 2 жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai 🥰🥰🥰
@mykariisajohnson2483 2 жыл бұрын
Told you god got you!!!! ❤️
@faytheloops 2 жыл бұрын
So happy for you atavia!! 💓
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 💜
@lindseylindberg6287 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎉!!!!!
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥰💜
@lauramcdougal3952 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations.
@Hitdog105 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎊🎉
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😀 ☺️
@tizetize2341 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks love! 💜
@alexandraz.9488 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience. I just lost my full term daughter a month ago. I am in a scary place mentally. Does it get better with time? I can't imagine doing this a long time. My mind just plays and replays and I'm desperate to hold a living infant in my arms.
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
I am terribly sorry for your loss. It can be a very dark, isolating place. Please trust me when I say eventually, you will be able to breathe again and it won’t be such a crippling feeling one day. You never forget or stop grieving. You just find ways to keep going and live through the pain! You can do this mama! 💜 I’m sending you so much love & light. You’re not alone!
@kerrylewisRN Жыл бұрын
Yes it does get better. My brother & his wife took 3 yrs for their rainbow baby. Their first was perfect & no medical reason could they find for their loss. God bless you & keep you.
@amyrerenese9981 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️ love you!
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
I love you!! 💜
@lawyer12381 2 жыл бұрын
I love you, you're so strong and beautiful 😍❤️
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
I love your beautiful self too, sis! You made my day! 💜
@naturalmunchkin 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@BriaBarrows 2 жыл бұрын
Side note? Where did you get your background? Amazon?
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I did find everything on Amazon.
@MariaJose-zv4dq 2 жыл бұрын
Hi atavia, I also lost my baby at 41 weeks. Can you do an updated video on how was your birth, we're you induced earlier?
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Maria! I am terribly sorry to learn of your loss🥺 so sorry you’re also experiencing this horrible pain. I have actually shared my birthing story on my channel. I hope it brings you some comfort. You are not alone, mama. If you ever want talk, I’m here! I’m also on IG where you can message me privately. Sending love 💜
@kiwib8646 2 жыл бұрын
🌈❤️
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
💜💛💗💚
@itsmylifegranny3437 Жыл бұрын
How are you and the baby? I didn't find any more content .
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
Hi! We are doing well! Thanks so much for asking... I was contemplating on updating, but haven't been sure about it. I guess I should :)
@itsmylifegranny3437 Жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai You should . I am a grandma of a rainbow baby. I held my first in my arms and I couldn't believe he was stillborn, but God sent his brother whose much stronger , fat , greedy and makes my day each and every day. 😘
@irinaaacabral9751 2 жыл бұрын
How long did it take you to get pregnant after your loss
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
conceived four months later and found out before my missed cycle the fifth month.. It was a longggg hard pregnancy!
@tesha22 2 жыл бұрын
🎉🎈🎊🎊🎊
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜💜
@shreebhumi Жыл бұрын
How long you waited before conceiving second pregnancy?
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
We technically conceived again when I was 4/5 months postpartum! Wasn’t the plan… just happened that way.
@shreebhumi Жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai lots of ❤️ and blessings to ur child. 1 question: any complications due to back to back pregnancy? I m in similar situation.
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
@@shreebhumi thank you! And same to you mama! No, we didn’t have any complications at all. Just allowed fear to steer us this time and it resulted in a non medically necessary c-section. I was induced at 37 weeks like we planned but wasn’t progressing as fast as they would’ve liked for me to and had all types interventions which led to another traumatic birth. Hope all is well with you. Do your research and advocate for yourself! You can do this. 💜
@lawyer12381 Жыл бұрын
We miss youuuu sis.
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
Aw, I needed this!! 💜💜💜Promise you’ll watch my update whenever I post again! I had another baby this year in January 🤭
@lawyer12381 Жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai You've no idea how happy I am for you sis👏❤️. I'm praising the Lord on your behalf. Yohhhh congratulations 🎊 my love you deserve this my beautiful sis!!!!!.
@Ebbi3 10 ай бұрын
How soon after you got pregnant again?
@ataviaskai 10 ай бұрын
I was pregnant 4/5 months after our loss. I was terrified. They usually recommend waiting 1-2 years to allow your body time to heal. I was actually cleared to “start trying” though. We had no idea it would be that soon!
@aleesharenea8565 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations💜 Do you mind sharing how far along you are?
@ataviaskai 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! ☺️I’m so behind with editing & posting this. I was 31 weeks in this video! Baby girl is now 13 weeks old 🤭🥰
@hilarisiitula3178 2 күн бұрын
Have you seen a therapist?? How did you cope with grief…?
@damonsworld281 11 ай бұрын
Congratulations you will be fine, God has you...
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