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Raising Boys Away From Women: Gender Segregation in India

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In some North Indian towns and villages, it’s an age-old tradition for unmarried boys to live in a room outside of the home called the "baithak", separated particularly from the women of the family. The boys, aged between 6 and 20 years old, enter their own houses only for meals and hang out in these "baithaks" during the day. VICE World News travels to Rajasthan and Haryana in India, to see why some villages follow this system of separating families on the basis of sex and understand the rarely documented "Baithak" System.
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@mallikarjunasubramanyamoru5048
@mallikarjunasubramanyamoru5048 3 жыл бұрын
India is that country where u can be an indian and still experience culture shocks
@anandisrocking007
@anandisrocking007 3 жыл бұрын
Holy shit so true lived all my life but not never heard about this
@yubi-kun958
@yubi-kun958 3 жыл бұрын
Same from gujarat
@rudrakshamukherjee8318
@rudrakshamukherjee8318 3 жыл бұрын
im from wb (but i lived in jaisalmer (a big city of Rajasthan ) for 3 years) ,i had no clue about this
@pchandu1995
@pchandu1995 3 жыл бұрын
this title they added for views, what a nasty way to get views on video. unsub this shit news.
@vijayasfitnessmantra6810
@vijayasfitnessmantra6810 3 жыл бұрын
@@anandisrocking007 same here,especially if you live in a mega city
@run4508
@run4508 3 жыл бұрын
Can we not treat men like they are animals and women like objects
@mokshajain8692
@mokshajain8692 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed
@stutikhanna987
@stutikhanna987 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed I think mostly there is society pressure on men making them to have $ex before marriage or even having with any prostitute just to experience it
@run4508
@run4508 3 жыл бұрын
@@stutikhanna987 then they turn around and shame prostitution, 🤦🏿‍♀️
@stutikhanna987
@stutikhanna987 3 жыл бұрын
@@run4508 Shaming prostitution I think they have already make all the girls prostitute just leaving there mother and sister
@cokser
@cokser 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly everyone should work together with each other, who in the hell wants to be separated from people just because of ridiculous and sad things, if I was an man separated from women and then go out in see an woman, I would definitely treat them different because I never would really grow up with them, but I did I would be more kind and treat them like queens. When you're separated form things and then see them u don't really know how to act or what to do so it will be uncomfortable.
@adarshseemasingh6603
@adarshseemasingh6603 Жыл бұрын
i still remember when i used to go to my village my relatives including women would make fun of me because i used to live inside the home and not in the baithak i did not really understood what was wrong with them , i am really thankful that my mother kept me away from that toxic environment and raised me and my sister without any discrimination
@prajwalsharma4621
@prajwalsharma4621 Жыл бұрын
Are you from the same village ? My relatives live in Rajasthan but, I never heard it before
@manvendra6714
@manvendra6714 Жыл бұрын
​@@prajwalsharma4621This happens in the districts of Rajasthan whose border is with Haryana and Uttar Pradesh. Dholpur, karauli
@knowledgeisablessing8767
@knowledgeisablessing8767 Жыл бұрын
Your mother is a lowkey hero
@violettracey
@violettracey Жыл бұрын
Thanks am sorry you went through that.
@Jimmy.Sun-Sq
@Jimmy.Sun-Sq 2 ай бұрын
early years village's lack security and close proximity to forest which invites thieves, flowers pickers, jackels, tigers, snakes that why males of family used to sleep outside for protection, one of main reason for segregation but time changed and this thing become gender discrimination.
@sameetpatil_5
@sameetpatil_5 2 жыл бұрын
"Stop Protecting Women, Protect Men from becoming evil" Hits hard
@aAverageFan
@aAverageFan Жыл бұрын
"Stop locking your house to avoid theft, Teach theives not to steal"
@abhaysingh-lg2cr
@abhaysingh-lg2cr Жыл бұрын
@@aAverageFan on point lmao😂
@masterkc
@masterkc Жыл бұрын
@@aAverageFan I died laughing at your comment 💀 😂 Here in Australia, disgusting news reporters were saying the Exact qoute to their male viewers. Female reporter - can you please tell your friends to stop raping? Male reporter - Hmmm yes I agree. I almost vomited hearing that 😐
@ingambsr
@ingambsr Жыл бұрын
@@aAverageFan theifs or men aren't born evil, they should just be raised right In a good environment (which is yeah,not possible, at least in this video)
@taylorsanders8742
@taylorsanders8742 Жыл бұрын
@@aAverageFan I don't see this comment as stop protecting women and start raising men right, but if you're going to protect women you need to also raise men correctly to truly protect women
@kriscollins1541
@kriscollins1541 3 жыл бұрын
traditions are peer pressure from the dead
@Oblivisci........
@Oblivisci........ 3 жыл бұрын
Not entirely. While this kind of practice is definitely not good for either sex or any gender, the idea that all practices from the past are systemically wrong is just stupid.
@lyngirasol5773
@lyngirasol5773 3 жыл бұрын
Most Jeep you healthy and are suppose to promote motivation
@user-bw8yn3zr1s
@user-bw8yn3zr1s 3 жыл бұрын
@@Oblivisci........ It is said that "peer pressure from the dead", nothing is in the sentence about it being good or bad. Value of every practice are to be continuously examined through all of the perspectives in the world, and that includes female as half of the population, male and queer people as the other half.
@samuraiboi2735
@samuraiboi2735 3 жыл бұрын
@@Oblivisci........ tbh the system for marriage is just too much for people in india thats why my friends in india are single because of it and never wanted to have babies
@chinmaya8813
@chinmaya8813 3 жыл бұрын
@Sam it’s not a tradition it’s kind of a science for mental and physical well-being
@aradhanahazarika2590
@aradhanahazarika2590 3 жыл бұрын
I am Indian but this is culture shock to me. Our country is in serious need of a culture and mindset reset.
@Manish_Kumar_Singh
@Manish_Kumar_Singh 3 жыл бұрын
Won't happen, only technology or industries will help
@bekindandpolite2158
@bekindandpolite2158 3 жыл бұрын
As a rajasthani i never heard of this shit lol must be common in villages but not in citiessz It is more like haryana as the village lies close to haryana lol
@bekindandpolite2158
@bekindandpolite2158 3 жыл бұрын
As a rajasthani i never heard of this shit lol must be common in villages but not in citiessz It is more like haryana as the village lies close to haryana lol
@hridaydang9789
@hridaydang9789 2 жыл бұрын
@United Provinces of Planet Earth thats not the solution. This problem can be change with time (maybe like technology and stuff) and education regarding "myths and cultures" in our society and explanation to youth about "why and what is the need for change". Tv channels can showcast this as their main topic instead of showing how to fight for temples over masjid or showing hindu as the dominant culture. Moreover, I m hindu too but i dont like what is going around here and i feel depressed
@aniketsingh2738
@aniketsingh2738 2 жыл бұрын
SHUT UP
@twilightincosmos
@twilightincosmos Жыл бұрын
A teenage boy needs his mother's warmth and closeness more than ever...a mother's presence in a boy's life greatly shapes his emotional intelligence too..we must not deprive them of this bond....
@GODolution
@GODolution Жыл бұрын
No! He needs mother BEFORE teen years. After teen years he needs to be with other males.
@rohithosamani36
@rohithosamani36 Жыл бұрын
@@GODolution l fully disagree! For me my mother is my entire world! This is cruel for both mother & son as this completely deprieve empathy shared between mother & son
@rosealvs
@rosealvs Жыл бұрын
​@@GODolutionwhat an idiot! A teenager still needs a mother's comfort and love. Until he's 18, he still needs both his parents to guide him. So go spread your stupid logic elsewhere.
@kaishoney9783
@kaishoney9783 Жыл бұрын
@@GODolution children will always need their parents in different ways. not only when you are still a kid but also, you still need them during your adulthood for mostly emotional support.
@calvinhoward3808
@calvinhoward3808 Жыл бұрын
@@rohithosamani36 Mama's boys are rarely useful in difficult times and places.
@anonyrm3915
@anonyrm3915 2 жыл бұрын
This problem is not limited to rural India… I am saying from personal experience In my school (day boarding school) which is so called modern with fees of 2.5 lakh yearly Our director (80 year old man) made a rule that girls will not talk to boys at all and he used to say this in assembly every 2nd or 3rd time…. Even evening games time of girls and boys was actually different When there was game time of girls boys were not allowed to go out of their hostels and vice versa I
@neetsuccess2261
@neetsuccess2261 2 жыл бұрын
In India you will get the most regressive mindset as well as the most open minded people 😂😂. I have been to two schools and never faced such a problem. I am in class 12 and still if I like I sit with my male friend and teachers have no problem 👍👍
@rojeesahu7922
@rojeesahu7922 Жыл бұрын
Same here, in our boarding school, boys and girls sat in different rooms even being in same grade/class.
@ilsagita5257
@ilsagita5257 Жыл бұрын
​@@neetsuccess2261it's so shocking my school specially in recess was filled with lovebirds everywhere 😂
@vivekjk6729
@vivekjk6729 Жыл бұрын
its not regressive its protective. this rule also existed in my college and many students opposed it but before this there were also multiple cases of pregnent female students living in hostel. now if the girls father comes and asks the college authorities that 'how did my daughter get pregnant?' , what should be the response of the college authorities? if you can answer this question, then you decide if these rules are important or not.
@ilsagita5257
@ilsagita5257 Жыл бұрын
@@vivekjk6729 it's not the college's fault if a female student gets pregnant unless it's a case of rape.
@willow9912
@willow9912 3 жыл бұрын
And then these men go to Delhi and can't handle their fragile male ego when they see women functioning like normal human beings. They commit crime against women and then have the audacity to blame the victim. Now I know why.
@SimranBajwa_
@SimranBajwa_ 3 жыл бұрын
Very true!!
@godsfavourite9956
@godsfavourite9956 3 жыл бұрын
You got it right....They can't imagine them exercising their basic human rights and think it is a violation of nature....smh😩😔
@somestranger175
@somestranger175 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. The whole concept of "modesty" is a stupid one. These young men are brought up with the belief that women are objects, so when they come to cities they think it's their right to do with women as they please, hence rapists are born.
@shubhamrathi5531
@shubhamrathi5531 3 жыл бұрын
@Indibox I think gender discrimination existed before the mughals too
@AbhishekSingh-dk3ks
@AbhishekSingh-dk3ks 3 жыл бұрын
@@shubhamrathi5531 yeaa but little
@andy8357
@andy8357 3 жыл бұрын
A child wants to live with their mom too. What about mom's and grandma's story? And same goes to girls they should also listen to their grandpas story. Both are important
@youtubehodol3989
@youtubehodol3989 3 жыл бұрын
Thats not your business then Western minded shiet.
@theobuniel9643
@theobuniel9643 3 жыл бұрын
@@youtubehodol3989 Oh look, here come the mindless traditionalists.
@vipultarlogta1037
@vipultarlogta1037 3 жыл бұрын
@@youtubehodol3989 Give me one reason that this kind of shit is going in India..?. Fucking western culture
@mrinalkiran7013
@mrinalkiran7013 3 жыл бұрын
@@youtubehodol3989 lmao wtf? If traditions make life toxic for people, they need to go away! Sati was a tradition too, pretty sure you wanna keep burning us women in the name of "traditions" then lol.
@youtubehodol3989
@youtubehodol3989 3 жыл бұрын
@@mrinalkiran7013 iam not a damnn hindu then
@jendickerson6530
@jendickerson6530 2 жыл бұрын
My best friend is in India, we met through phone app game and ended up exchanging hand written letters through the years. She is more like my little sister and I consider her as my family. We tell each other's cultures and traditions to educate each other and to better understand our different lives and respect it no matter how shocking some are.
@theemirofjaffa2266
@theemirofjaffa2266 4 ай бұрын
Nice 👍 👌
@Jimmy.Sun-Sq
@Jimmy.Sun-Sq 2 ай бұрын
early years village's lack security and close proximity to forest which invites thieves, flowers pickers, jackels, tigers, snakes that why males of family used to sleep outside for protection, one of main reason for segregation but time changed and this thing become gender discrimination.
@klila16
@klila16 Жыл бұрын
As an Indian I noticed this when I was in Rajasthan. I found it very shocking but no one could explain it to me. Thank you for making this documentary. Amazing how we can have just incredibly different experiences and have the same roots. From what I understand these communities have the most gender based violence and problems with rape and murder.
@ladycrillz
@ladycrillz Жыл бұрын
Of course they have problems with rape and murder because THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO ACT WHEN THEY'RE AROUND WOMAN.
@atulnayak5715
@atulnayak5715 Жыл бұрын
Depends on the strategy and education level. Historically, barbarians provoke and create borders. Nevertheless most people forget that our DNA is mostly Asian; bloodline clans have never remained constant. Hence the continent of Asia had Hindus in many territories.
@MrSdsok
@MrSdsok Жыл бұрын
This is only prevalent in joint family households in Rajasthan and haryana, it is not prevelant elsewhere, not even in Bihar.
@atulnayak5715
@atulnayak5715 Жыл бұрын
@@MrSdsok We do you think joint family units are about? Keeping it in the family more like. What kind of prejudices do isolated joint families have? Is their mindset fixed on a local imaginary border?
@MrSdsok
@MrSdsok Жыл бұрын
@@atulnayak5715 culture of a state differs significantly from other, like culture of West Bengal is very different from bihar and the rest of the North. As someone from rural West Bengal, joint families in the rural regions are like group of smaller families living close to each other. They have different huts with even different bath rooms and kitchens. Joint families can be huge to the point that a few families can compose a village. Both boys and girls do get married of early though, however there are no bifurcation brothers, sisters, along with their mother and father live in the same hut.
@Selena_2002
@Selena_2002 3 жыл бұрын
Fun facts: 99% of Indians dont know about this practice but all of us have experienced some kind of alienation (same shit different day) it reminds me of my school where boys and girls were forbidden to interact with each other 😂😂😂😂😂 if we did then there would be rumours flying around about dating
@sharathvasudev
@sharathvasudev 3 жыл бұрын
this has reduced a lot nowadays. my cousin only has girl friends
@kunalgupta8380
@kunalgupta8380 3 жыл бұрын
Bro it was not forbidden at all in my school Everyone talks to everyone Which school u studied
@dreamer9375
@dreamer9375 3 жыл бұрын
@@kunalgupta8380 Lucky. This used to happen a lot in the 90s and early 2000s.
@veryconfused9768
@veryconfused9768 3 жыл бұрын
It used to happen in my school too.i recently got out of school
@kunalgupta8380
@kunalgupta8380 3 жыл бұрын
@@veryconfused9768 maybe u are too shy to talk to girls Its not an official rule like u won't get punished to talk to girls
@Codetutor-DemystifyCoding
@Codetutor-DemystifyCoding 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I am stranger to my own country and countrymen 🤦‍♂️
@sowhat9579
@sowhat9579 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly 🙄
@SachinTube_
@SachinTube_ 3 жыл бұрын
You are. We all are 1.2 billion people don't form a monoculture, no matter what an old bearded prick would have you believe
@mid9327
@mid9327 3 жыл бұрын
@@SachinTube_ i see what you did there
@anunayak9910
@anunayak9910 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@bekindandpolite2158
@bekindandpolite2158 3 жыл бұрын
As a rajasthani i never heard of this shit lol must be common in villages but not in citiessz It is more like haryana as the village lies close to haryana lol
@neetsuccess2261
@neetsuccess2261 2 жыл бұрын
I am Bengali and here it means Meeting, I always saw baithak in Bengali television where all men and women have fun, play games ,and eat together during Durga pooja time. It's really fun to watch. So for me baithak is a very different thing It's more like a picnic to me but in a room 😂😂😂
@hassanmustafa53
@hassanmustafa53 2 жыл бұрын
This is common in Pakistan too, though not as an intent to separate male from female members of family but to show manly hood of male as it's said man should not stay at home for long rather stay out or else they are called "Ghar ghusla" that means who is afraid of world and takes shelter at home. Introverts like me, who like to stay at home and away from alot of people are called weird and 'darpook' (fearful) even by their own family.
@rishikaraj6212
@rishikaraj6212 3 жыл бұрын
Teach your children to look at humans as an individual first not a sexual entity.
@xenon3659
@xenon3659 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@ektaagupta7048
@ektaagupta7048 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly this is where things go wrong ...
@sachins5784
@sachins5784 3 жыл бұрын
What can they teach children when they themselves think that way? These kinda people should just not have kids.
@aryakomal7622
@aryakomal7622 3 жыл бұрын
THISSSS
@aliengod2039
@aliengod2039 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed. Teach your children that s3x is for procreation alone and not for pleasure. Teach them that pleasure is a by-product of s3x. Teach them self-control. Teach them to be like a saint and never indulge in any selfish pleasures. Teach them that all pleasures lead to deep pain and suffering without any exception. Teach them spirituality. Teach them to be "Creators" and not to be "Producers" of children like all other humans and animals on this planet. That's the only way they can attain "Moksha" which is liberation of life energy from the body with least to no pain and suffering at the time of death. Earth is dying due to LUST and Greed of almost 8 Billion humans. Overpopulation is causing tears in the eyes of innocent animals and birds that go extinct and they do not even know that humans are the reason for their disappearance... Look at the amount of Karma humans have accumulated. I feel very sad to see there is no way to fix this world. There is no purity in mind, body and soul. There is no creativity. There is no respect for other life. More people eating meat and non-vegan diet causing more karma in the system. Spiritual education is the only way children of the future can truly and progressively evolve their DNA. Technology is only for pleasure and comfort of mankind. Core of spirituality is altruism. This means that every child is everyone's child. Every human has responsibility on the entire planet rather than themselves, their spouse, their child/ren their immediate family, relatives, neighbourhood, community, country. Spiritual education will ensure this level of thinking. Ancient monks, saints and yogis created Yoga and Meditation to evolve perfect humans with supernatural abilities. But modern humans squandered their potential through effortless pleasures and comforts. We relied on machines and now we can't live without them. More further we go in this "Kali Yuga", more harder it will get for the soul to detach from the material things as well as material bodies of other beings. I still have a ray of hope that the future will be progressive as envisioned by THE Creators of this universe. The reason humanity cannot see Them is because of their impure actions in every thought, word and deed across mind, body and soul. Only future will reveal the true path of humanity.
@lovelydeath04
@lovelydeath04 3 жыл бұрын
This isn't improving anything, if anything this makes things worse. Why not just teach boys to treat women like people instead and stop blaming women for men's actions?
@terintiaflavius3349
@terintiaflavius3349 3 жыл бұрын
Men are treated like they are animals who can't control themselves and women like sex dolls. We are basically destroying the lives of everyone
@frankabjh674
@frankabjh674 3 жыл бұрын
umm? where's the blaming girl part? society in general or pls give timestamp(if in vid)
@ifigetbannedagainyoutubeis2018
@ifigetbannedagainyoutubeis2018 3 жыл бұрын
Oh god stfu
@shubhamntpc543
@shubhamntpc543 3 жыл бұрын
@@terintiaflavius3349 I urge you to watch this video...not only u but all people should watch... there is lot of things which international media hide from u but international media won't show u this look what happening in western countries ...vice news won't show u this kzfaq.info/get/bejne/acqIqJxyu73Wg5s.html
@nayab6129
@nayab6129 3 жыл бұрын
Why not teach both to respect people with values not gender.
@VikasYadav-uv1yz
@VikasYadav-uv1yz 2 жыл бұрын
I am Indian and from North India. We also had "baithak" until my grandpa passed away. My grandpa was the only one slept in that or eat in that. We all had our own rooms to sleep in. I am actually shocked right now if all this is true.
@arunsaini2434
@arunsaini2434 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vice for this brilliant reporting, I am from Haryana itself....not very far from Mewat. Only in summer vacations(usually for 30 days) we used to go to our Grandmother house where we have this kind of 'Bethak' Concept like exactly shown in the video. From the childhood, I am seeing that the old gather around that area in the evening, the elderly do the hookah gathering like always and the other adults indulge in playing cards and all other fun stuff. But in our village, we don't have this segregation concept between a boy and a girl. I am too stunned as well, knowing about many villages in southern Haryana are following this discrimination concept in the name of Tradition. I think a good Government School may have the power to demolish this tradition within one generation. It is possible if the government starts spending at least 25% of their total budget in the Education Sector.
@atulnayak5715
@atulnayak5715 Жыл бұрын
A modern marriage based relationship and sex education is normal. Adolescent boys and girls develop emotionally and sometimes hyperactively. It is the lack of sports facilities and keep fit that increases undesired urges in both genders when young.
@punitthakur31
@punitthakur31 3 жыл бұрын
As a Indian, this also a culture shock for me.
@urvibhardwaj6685
@urvibhardwaj6685 3 жыл бұрын
Lol yeah exactly
@prismmioouu
@prismmioouu 3 жыл бұрын
yeah me too hehe
@hyleenpognaire8134
@hyleenpognaire8134 3 жыл бұрын
Mee too, I didn't even knew any the ng like this
@humanbng7123
@humanbng7123 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao yeah 🤣
@a_h_m_ed
@a_h_m_ed 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't even know India existed
@luxita3201
@luxita3201 3 жыл бұрын
This doesn't make any sense to me By making children's sit in these rooms these old men dilute their minds too
@hopeworldbaseline843
@hopeworldbaseline843 3 жыл бұрын
Yep. And indoctrinate them with the senseless patriarchy
@snaik9141
@snaik9141 3 жыл бұрын
Bai Rajasthan te
@centuragb
@centuragb 2 жыл бұрын
I accept that this might be a part of life in some parts of India, but it is wrong to say that it is the kind of culture which majority of India follows ....the title is absolutely misleading and it defames the rest of the country.....the actions of a few people should be used to villify the rest of us .....this is nothing but click bait to popularise your video......
@arch357
@arch357 2 жыл бұрын
@meghanath its decreasing
@tommo9208
@tommo9208 2 жыл бұрын
@meghanath which world you're living in??? Majority of villages aren't like this.
@anilavmania3732
@anilavmania3732 2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@ithinkiknowme6450
@ithinkiknowme6450 2 жыл бұрын
This is when we understand that we need to view people not only as men and women and but as human being
@DougOfTheAntarctic
@DougOfTheAntarctic 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a good way to guarantee that men don't understand women, and think of them as alien.
@nayab6129
@nayab6129 2 жыл бұрын
Retarted comment.
@DougOfTheAntarctic
@DougOfTheAntarctic 2 жыл бұрын
@@nayab6129 I think you intended to say “retarded” 🤣
@nayab6129
@nayab6129 2 жыл бұрын
@@DougOfTheAntarctic Yes sexist.
@shambhavichaturvedi4492
@shambhavichaturvedi4492 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@ZebbMassiv
@ZebbMassiv 3 жыл бұрын
They call it "dishonor" but in reality, its rape.
@ifigetbannedagainyoutubeis2018
@ifigetbannedagainyoutubeis2018 3 жыл бұрын
Nah
@himanimaurya5597
@himanimaurya5597 3 жыл бұрын
It is consensual sex or having a partner...
@crossgame9479
@crossgame9479 3 жыл бұрын
And dishonour to women not men people really only think about their izzat what can i say
@tanisha9732
@tanisha9732 3 жыл бұрын
U
@tanisha9732
@tanisha9732 3 жыл бұрын
L
@mahisharma5261
@mahisharma5261 2 жыл бұрын
I am an Indian and I traveled so much in village areas like very remote areas (because of my work) in rajasthan, haryana, himachal, bihar, Sikkim, orisa, and some of South Indian region but never witness this culture ever, it's really hard to believe like its a shock to me also.
@auroralshine6176
@auroralshine6176 Жыл бұрын
Mfs who spent 5th-10th + 11th-12th on boys hostels : "This sounds like an issue I always knew but never knew"
@theuniversaltruth7208
@theuniversaltruth7208 2 жыл бұрын
The relationship between mother and her child is considered the purest and most beautiful relationship. Uprooting a child from its root affects mentally a lot and segregating just on the basis of gender is most illogical thing.
@ASHISHSHARMA-cg4nc
@ASHISHSHARMA-cg4nc 2 жыл бұрын
In gurukul time. Boys leave their house and family and goes to gurukul. But it actually happens after certain when kid become enough matured to learn something.
@LL-oq5sf
@LL-oq5sf 2 жыл бұрын
@@ASHISHSHARMA-cg4nc it wasn't the case everywhere Every place was different
@GeorgeCarlin-gr2im
@GeorgeCarlin-gr2im 2 жыл бұрын
No
@blue.orangeade
@blue.orangeade 2 жыл бұрын
From the age of 8-10 or depending on whenever the child matures, then no its not "uprooting a child from its roots" as their mother is not necessary anymore. They can continue with their dad from thereon and other family members, and it's not like they never see their mom, they're just not in the same regular living quarters.
@GeorgeCarlin-gr2im
@GeorgeCarlin-gr2im 2 жыл бұрын
@@blue.orangeade Yeah
@FakruddinAli7777
@FakruddinAli7777 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so fortunate to be a North East Indian....never saw such gender discriminations....even in the most remote villages
@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777
@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777 3 жыл бұрын
@@ayushsingh4574 at least they are happy people with safe and healthy environment..less pollution .. quality of life is good there
@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777
@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777 3 жыл бұрын
I am an haryanvi myself born and raised up here and Never seen anything like this lol..
@idunnomanseemskindagaytome1493
@idunnomanseemskindagaytome1493 3 жыл бұрын
@@ayushsingh4574 atleast they breathe clean air.
@AbhishekSharma-rp3vx
@AbhishekSharma-rp3vx 3 жыл бұрын
@@ayushsingh4574 north indians are suffering from corona and most of uncivilized regions enjoying the corona
@ayushsingh4574
@ayushsingh4574 3 жыл бұрын
@@AbhishekSharma-rp3vx Kerala a southern State is still contributing 30 percent of cases with such a small population North east isn't suffering from Corona because anyone rearly goes there as compared to ncr, Gujarat, Mumbai, Haryana it's a secluded place
@evilsensei8262
@evilsensei8262 Жыл бұрын
Visited India on vacation. The difference between the North and south was immense. The North should change the way they treat their women. Learn from the south.
@mdzaid5925
@mdzaid5925 2 жыл бұрын
I have seen baithak system in my Grandma's Village, but it was never so strict. Like men can go in / out of house, sleep in house as normal etc. It was basically a men-only place to hangout.
@fatfetus7449
@fatfetus7449 2 жыл бұрын
A wise woman once said- "don't protect women from the evil of the men, protect men from becoming evil"
@Abhishek-ux3or
@Abhishek-ux3or 2 жыл бұрын
Not possible
@andhnamaziyokabaap1716
@andhnamaziyokabaap1716 2 жыл бұрын
nope for protecting civilization you had to become evil.
@DesiCat789
@DesiCat789 2 жыл бұрын
​@@Abhishek-ux3or Kaafi defeatist
@waterlily5901
@waterlily5901 2 жыл бұрын
@Alexandra Daddario Fanboy my father is a polite and shy man, he is also my friend and makes a clown of himself so i can laugh when i cry , and about myself ive been graped a lot by other men without my consent, if your father is a shitty dude dont asume that all the fathers are as shit as yours is, lady.
@natto6606
@natto6606 2 жыл бұрын
@Alexandra Daddario Fanboy where did they say that? 💀
@Ahmad_9134
@Ahmad_9134 3 жыл бұрын
Basically every Indian problem boils down to "Log kya kahengay".
@debarjandatta2170
@debarjandatta2170 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously, in their quest for protecting their "honour" all they do is dishonour our country and hold it back
@anjali8906
@anjali8906 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 4 log dekhng ky khng I never saw those 4 log
@LL-oq5sf
@LL-oq5sf 2 жыл бұрын
Same with japan and other countries too
@LL-oq5sf
@LL-oq5sf 2 жыл бұрын
@@debarjandatta2170 yes, people who dont respect equality are against our country's development.
@Orcvingball
@Orcvingball 2 жыл бұрын
Delete your social media then see
@buglover7400
@buglover7400 Жыл бұрын
As an anxiety ridden mother of a little boy, I could never let my baby be surrounded by men like that to many opportunities for a predatory behaviors
@saurabhkapse697
@saurabhkapse697 2 жыл бұрын
Hat's off to this boy for showing reality of his village 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@enlightenedtwisha
@enlightenedtwisha 3 жыл бұрын
The woman said a very good line If the woman is the wife of landowner then you're segregated if the woman is of a worker there's no segregation It's about rich and poor
@mogleesh-22
@mogleesh-22 3 жыл бұрын
And how it is a good line 🤔
@mdahsenmirza2536
@mdahsenmirza2536 2 жыл бұрын
@@mogleesh-22 the educated discriminate while the men of the soil stay true to nature
@noamchomsky729
@noamchomsky729 2 жыл бұрын
That woman is dead now. She was a legend, a hero
@girlontheedge2636
@girlontheedge2636 2 жыл бұрын
@@mdahsenmirza2536 this is true to an extent Poor are discriminated against rich all the time
@bereal3095
@bereal3095 2 жыл бұрын
So True
@sagarikabaruah6228
@sagarikabaruah6228 3 жыл бұрын
Being an Indian I never heard about this until now.
@rshawon1982
@rshawon1982 3 жыл бұрын
There is always something new to know.
@syedasalma1229
@syedasalma1229 3 жыл бұрын
Me either
@sagarikabaruah6228
@sagarikabaruah6228 3 жыл бұрын
@@rshawon1982 I agree
@Anonymous-lw4nq
@Anonymous-lw4nq 3 жыл бұрын
@RM I'm myself from that area, and I never heard about all these. Kaha se dhundte yrr ye log ?😂
@QualityInfo4
@QualityInfo4 3 жыл бұрын
@RM i from nort area but i also didnt know this practice until now
@AnaliseFrank
@AnaliseFrank 2 жыл бұрын
ive seen several. it like a parlour room in those families now, but the generation before used them. it was used only once in a while when I was in India. several homes that were more affluent that is a couple inherited them. its really cool to know what they were for besides, "not used anymore, older generation" In that community, a person 10 years older than I was married at age 12 to a 22 year old. they all have government issued cards that say "backwards class" There was still a whole lot of gender separation though... so many freakin rules all the time everywhere. One of my friends were so terrified of being burned alive by dishonoring her family in such a way. the women even younger than I dont even question this system because they havent experienced the freedom in the first place. But when one has had some freedom, its super hard to go back
@veronicapark2783
@veronicapark2783 2 жыл бұрын
It's very nice of u to bring these type of stories to light and educating them is more important
@bhataktiatma1080
@bhataktiatma1080 3 жыл бұрын
I feel shamed that this is not covered by indian media so the world media shows us the mirror.
@joshuatheunkownuniverse.2475
@joshuatheunkownuniverse.2475 3 жыл бұрын
Diversity is the reason.
@veryconfused9768
@veryconfused9768 3 жыл бұрын
Our media never show anything
@Niki-dc2hn
@Niki-dc2hn 3 жыл бұрын
Shh... Don't say anything. Didn't you hear their names or saw their long beards and talk of namaz. Mewat is Muslim majority. Secularism.
@alokozay300
@alokozay300 3 жыл бұрын
Indian media is controlled by the government
@abhisheksumanAS
@abhisheksumanAS 3 жыл бұрын
@@alokozay300 far from it...the left controls it! Since USSR era no less!!
@jordanw2300
@jordanw2300 3 жыл бұрын
Sex isn't evil.
@rayyanali4471
@rayyanali4471 3 жыл бұрын
They're all family lol. Its still weird.
@BaljinderSingh-xy4ik
@BaljinderSingh-xy4ik 3 жыл бұрын
It is if u can't control your lust..
@snaik9141
@snaik9141 3 жыл бұрын
It's Rajasthan what do u expect
@rashidhussain5977
@rashidhussain5977 3 жыл бұрын
But not knowing who ur father is.... Is a big evil 🤣🤣
@jordanw2300
@jordanw2300 3 жыл бұрын
@Mo Khalid anything can be done in an evil way but sex between two consenting adults, in any fashion, is never evil, at all. Also, evil doesn't exist. There are just people with brains wired to do horrible things as a result of genetics, environment, and circumstances. Free will does not exist.
@rakhikaushik2159
@rakhikaushik2159 2 жыл бұрын
I belong to one of the village of Haryana and in my village Baithak means a room for guests, a room inside my home only,which is more clean, with sitting arrangements, I mean a room which is ready to receive guests. We receive our guest in that room no matter male or female, where we serve them snacks. And we sit and eat together there and talk, chit chat.
@fgg6263
@fgg6263 2 жыл бұрын
snacks nhi hukka bol😂
@rakhikaushik2159
@rakhikaushik2159 2 жыл бұрын
@@fgg6263 why should I call namkeen, samosa, biscuits with chai hukka, for majority of People this is what we call snacks.
@mr67777
@mr67777 2 жыл бұрын
Nah bro seriouslyy we most of the time serve snacks
@sshovelyjoe
@sshovelyjoe Жыл бұрын
Now I understand why my nanaji never came inside the house and why my aunts wanted me to serve the food outside to them as being a little girl I could still go out without being judged. It wasn't this extreme but I can relate to the spirit. I am from Madhya Pradesh.
@muhammed6893
@muhammed6893 3 жыл бұрын
Social education is more important than basic math, reading and writing especially in rural India.
@subhashishbagchi3191
@subhashishbagchi3191 3 жыл бұрын
That is why Indian students are good at solving math and writing essays but when comes to debate or demonstration, 90% won't be able to speak properly.
@mandystop1077
@mandystop1077 3 жыл бұрын
@@subhashishbagchi3191facts right there
@pawanjoshi2505
@pawanjoshi2505 2 жыл бұрын
@United Provinces of Planet Earth after all the West still mostly thinks of these conservative idiots only when they hear of India
@abhisheksumanAS
@abhisheksumanAS 2 жыл бұрын
Especially in Islamic Madarsas and among Muslims.*
@doremifasolatee6258
@doremifasolatee6258 2 жыл бұрын
Spittin straight faccs
@arthasastra5075
@arthasastra5075 3 жыл бұрын
In 21 years of my existence in northern India I've never of this practice. Why would anyone go to foreign lands when u can experience culture shock in your own country!!
@maymay5600
@maymay5600 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 bruh, true imagine living in a place for years and you're like wait i never heard about this at all, man you learn new shit about your country/state everyday
@veryconfused9768
@veryconfused9768 3 жыл бұрын
Same for me
@abhimanyupundeer4500
@abhimanyupundeer4500 3 жыл бұрын
It is very common . I'm from Haryana i know this
@BeingBhumika
@BeingBhumika 3 жыл бұрын
Same and especially living so close to Delhi, then too I had no idea.
@BeingBhumika
@BeingBhumika 3 жыл бұрын
@A genuine Atheist did they say that it doesn't exist? lol
@fresh_animator79
@fresh_animator79 Жыл бұрын
Not to this extent but I have seen something similar in my village. I was myself taught in an all girls school, even now I'm not completely comfortable around guys after graduating from my college. Fun fact is the same family who told me to stay away from guys are looking for guys for me to get married 😏. It's funny how they expect us to learn something new while they raised us to become something else, when they are themselves not ready to unlearn those old practices
@arieswoman824
@arieswoman824 2 жыл бұрын
I've heard my mother tell me that a brother and sister would not allowed to be st home on their own back in the day. Once I was staying at my uncle's. I was 19 and got on well with my cousin brother. Our bedrooms were next to each other. My uncle came over and reassigned me to a room downstairs. I understood why he was doing that but was horrified that he would think something would happen with my cousin. I kind of get that without access to the opposite sex, things happen within the family.
@criptik5208
@criptik5208 2 жыл бұрын
I dont knwo to support his action or go against it
@covenawhite4855
@covenawhite4855 Жыл бұрын
@@criptik5208 Teach boys self control and women deserve respect
@eaglemgtow2789
@eaglemgtow2789 Жыл бұрын
​@@covenawhite4855 Teach GIRLS self control to wear proper clothing and Not Act like a hoe
@arvindsinghchauhan7496
@arvindsinghchauhan7496 Жыл бұрын
@@covenawhite4855 are boys always wrong
@covenawhite4855
@covenawhite4855 Жыл бұрын
@@arvindsinghchauhan7496 Boys are capable of being respectful to women and still be manly.
@jasonwaghela4437
@jasonwaghela4437 3 жыл бұрын
this practice start the alienation of women and girls in general which raises the ideology that the forbidden fruit is always sweeter, making it rather more prone for the women to be abused
@thatipuditeja9367
@thatipuditeja9367 3 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eaiBrJh6rryVqnk.html true
@aarush3603
@aarush3603 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatipuditeja9367 As I said, whataboutism is not a great argument. So stop it, get some help.
@mariaaceves2856
@mariaaceves2856 3 жыл бұрын
Freedom is not free and that the hard truth
@infinite5795
@infinite5795 3 жыл бұрын
U seem to be frm Rajasthan.
@jasonwaghela4437
@jasonwaghela4437 3 жыл бұрын
@@infinite5795 uhm no?
@janettucker3196
@janettucker3196 3 жыл бұрын
The burden of dishonor is put on the women, not the men.
@niggy.
@niggy. 3 жыл бұрын
Why can't we see each other as Humans?😖😖
@gfxgcggsggvdvgddg6223
@gfxgcggsggvdvgddg6223 3 жыл бұрын
It is tho, sometimes even the males are killed.
@thesmartone2735
@thesmartone2735 3 жыл бұрын
lol such sexism
@rini9325
@rini9325 3 жыл бұрын
@@gfxgcggsggvdvgddg6223 isn't that more of a Haryana thing? honor killings?
@gfxgcggsggvdvgddg6223
@gfxgcggsggvdvgddg6223 3 жыл бұрын
@@rini9325 depends on the status sometimes.
@mohitramana
@mohitramana Жыл бұрын
I was also raised in a similar culture. I can assure this is really an exaggeration. The male from other homes go in baithak but male of the house freely go to home. Even friends and relatives can easily go to home. Baithak is mostly for stranger and even this system is changing very fast.
@3o9afa
@3o9afa Жыл бұрын
I've read and watched a lot about different cultures. The importance of family as a unit seemed to be a shared human value until I watched this. Very surprising and sad.
@meh4972
@meh4972 3 жыл бұрын
Ages 6-20 have to live there? What the hell, what if the older boys prey on the younger ones?
@hijack69
@hijack69 3 жыл бұрын
According to them gay men don't exist in India
@chaitan98
@chaitan98 2 жыл бұрын
@@hijack69 point he
@koobifossils7495
@koobifossils7495 2 жыл бұрын
@@hijack69 which is far from true 😂🙏 i’ve seen more closeted homosexuals here in india than some other developed and open minded countries
@dv9239
@dv9239 2 жыл бұрын
@@hijack69 that only exist in cities where men get feminized a lot
@justawlwwholikesshygirls5704
@justawlwwholikesshygirls5704 2 жыл бұрын
@@koobifossils7495 praying on kids isn't homosexuality, it's pedophilia
@kaushikkumawat2888
@kaushikkumawat2888 3 жыл бұрын
I am also from Rajasthan, India even I didn't have any knowledge of such orthodox tradition. Childhood is a tender period in which mother's love and grandmothers wisdom and stories are required .
@overlord2066
@overlord2066 2 жыл бұрын
They are showing very remote areas in particular places.
@overlord2066
@overlord2066 2 жыл бұрын
@Pavan Kumar well yes
@prakxyz
@prakxyz Жыл бұрын
They are victims of islam
@overlord2066
@overlord2066 Жыл бұрын
@@gangasudhakaran4182 ?
@RedFlyingFox007
@RedFlyingFox007 2 жыл бұрын
Getting different bedrooms from the girls when you hit puberty makes sense, but I don't see why it has to be in a completely different house....
@MonochromaticBlues
@MonochromaticBlues Жыл бұрын
My heart is broken for these young men and women this wrong on so many levels. I grew up with my brother, father and mother. Although my parents had a little bit of the backward mind set they tried to escape that life! Bless every parent who escape from these weird country and their satanic leaders but one thing we must do one day is visit our mother land and cleanse the evil. First of all these men need to stop being ignorant. Thank God my grandparents escaped India and its weird mindset.
@aerosolistic
@aerosolistic 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who came from a tribe, i also used to live with rules that are unnecessary, random, or even dangerous. After i got proper education, I realize that not everything cultural or done by ancestors is good. Ancestors are human too, no man is perfect.
@LL-oq5sf
@LL-oq5sf 2 жыл бұрын
People who defend sati, deserves to be puished
@lizg8055
@lizg8055 Жыл бұрын
“Ancestors are human too” you hit the nail on the head I couldn’t have said it any better
@haruk2312
@haruk2312 Жыл бұрын
I like how you disregard women and say 'no man is perfect'
@imyourrealsensei
@imyourrealsensei Жыл бұрын
@@haruk2312 when someone says “no man is perfect” it includes both genders most of the time. Wo”men”
@Richmode1000
@Richmode1000 Жыл бұрын
so called most educated community also dont want to change (accept) their ansistor mistake ..and spread their bullshit system even in Forign countries 😂
@darthashpie3370
@darthashpie3370 3 жыл бұрын
I have been living in India for 22 years i have never heard of this , i mean who knows everything about India any way
@shreyadey5519
@shreyadey5519 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@Mayfan44
@Mayfan44 3 жыл бұрын
International news channels keep showing the worst out of India, making it seem like ALL indians live like this while only 5 percent are as regressive as they portray to foreigners. They want people to have a very bad image of India.
@darthashpie3370
@darthashpie3370 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mayfan44 this baithak thing is not even 5% of Indian population, more like .1%
@shreyadey5519
@shreyadey5519 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mayfan44 they got something real issue with us.Even they made funny cartoon of india when we Went to Mars mission.This proves how jeaouls they are.They followed leftists ideology and they are scared that India may overtake us in future.
@Mayfan44
@Mayfan44 3 жыл бұрын
@@darthashpie3370 exactly. We NEED to speak up and stop promoting these kind of content online. They're making us hate our own country. Wtf.
@princess-hd7io
@princess-hd7io 2 жыл бұрын
So thats why they act like they never seen a woman before!! 😂🤣🤣
@eaglemgtow2789
@eaglemgtow2789 Жыл бұрын
and females act like they never seen a MAN BEFORE
@rizwinkp9641
@rizwinkp9641 2 жыл бұрын
This feels so strange as a South Indian
@demonslayer2548
@demonslayer2548 3 жыл бұрын
Then we think why Delhi is unsafe for women
@thatipuditeja9367
@thatipuditeja9367 3 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eaiBrJh6rryVqnk.html
@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777
@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777 3 жыл бұрын
@Shreya Sharma Delhi is surrounded by these states and when these people come here to work they get cultural shocks about women walking freely and rape them.
@bekindandpolite2158
@bekindandpolite2158 3 жыл бұрын
As a rajasthani i never heard of this shit lol must be common in villages but not in citiessz It is more like haryana as the village lies close to haryana lol
@bekindandpolite2158
@bekindandpolite2158 3 жыл бұрын
This system is more prevalent in haryana even the place is located in haryana up delhi border i mean
@hamza_ali_
@hamza_ali_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777 sup aspirant I'm neet aspirant too Btw I agree with u
@Celinestu333
@Celinestu333 3 жыл бұрын
Need serious education. Not only education but mindset changes all around India
@seventhuser904
@seventhuser904 3 жыл бұрын
You got the point that many people didn't get. It's just not Education, but also mindset for which our upbringing is responsible along with moral values.
@Ant4_7
@Ant4_7 3 жыл бұрын
Here highly educated people in india still believe in black magic.
@tautikagrahari489
@tautikagrahari489 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ant4_7 nope i guess...but yeah there are some exception....here politicians are playing with religions...thats sad :(
@narxes
@narxes 3 жыл бұрын
For that you first need to change the conservatives in power.
@narxes
@narxes 3 жыл бұрын
@@anujyoutube58 yeah, and I am the emperor of the universe. What other made up stories are we telling ourselves?
@aswathyreena1963
@aswathyreena1963 2 жыл бұрын
I think i was living in India in a parallel universe...😵‍💫
@rishikabharti1789
@rishikabharti1789 2 жыл бұрын
I am also north indian,i have never seen anything like this. We literally can't define India by these exceptions. I am proud to be indian.
@OoiPaul
@OoiPaul 3 жыл бұрын
Mistrust and self doubt in the man of the house is apparent in this practice.
@thatipuditeja9367
@thatipuditeja9367 3 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eaiBrJh6rryVqnk.html
@s_maiya924
@s_maiya924 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatipuditeja9367 Why are you replying with this video on comments? Accept the wrong as it is. Stop justifying the wrong with ‘look this happens in other countries too’ card. It wont change anything.
@soraeverblue
@soraeverblue 3 жыл бұрын
"If she doesn'twant to wear a veil, we will support her" "If it's suffocating (to wear a veil), then don't do it" "But if the in-laws asked you to do it (to wear a veil), then do it" "Her family is respected if she respects her in-laws" Somehow it's heartbreaking to hear that a woman's in-laws seem to have more power than her own family, and having power over her own family
@vysharra
@vysharra 3 жыл бұрын
It’s easy to offer support when it changes nothing. They’re not supporting change, they’re just pretending to be progressive.
@01Crown
@01Crown 3 жыл бұрын
Muslim rule in India brought these kinds of customes 😔
@ssg1885
@ssg1885 3 жыл бұрын
@@01Crown again blaming muslims for something that is caused because of illiteracy and stupid customs created by humans and has nothing to do with Islam
@milkandspice1074
@milkandspice1074 3 жыл бұрын
@@ssg1885 religious practices do bring in a lot of harm (some good) but a lot of harm.
@dreamer9375
@dreamer9375 3 жыл бұрын
@@ssg1885 The person wasn't blaming Islam. It's the customs and traditions that some religions(not just Islam) bring along.
@hiimempty827
@hiimempty827 2 жыл бұрын
And I used to think that my dad, grandpa and brothers used to sleep there because our house was too small 😅
@nishantb80
@nishantb80 Жыл бұрын
Living in India since 40 years , this is the 1st time I heard this. 1.4 billion people, can't even imagine how different ways they live !! Westerners do a good job finding these inconsistencies and highlight them internationally ... Maybe out of curiosity or maybe to tarnish the image of India . However, I take it no more than entertainment watching it like just another documentry. 🙏🇮🇳
@sumitchopra9905
@sumitchopra9905 Жыл бұрын
They MUST be highlighted.
@atulnayak5715
@atulnayak5715 Жыл бұрын
So puberty is abnormal in village life eh?? Adolescent boys and girls develop emotionally and sometimes hyperactively. It is the lack of sports facilities and keep fit that increases undesired urges in both genders when young.
@eyelandgal
@eyelandgal 3 жыл бұрын
This is so harmful, young kids need positive influences from both sexes to grow into well-rounded adults.
@Eikenhorst
@Eikenhorst 3 жыл бұрын
6:55 "If there is no break in the car, it's bound to get into an accident. This tradition is the break mechanism for men." It sounds to me more like removing the whole engine from the car to prevent any type of accident to occur....
@InsightGrid620
@InsightGrid620 2 жыл бұрын
With different perspective in reality breaks helps car to move faster If there was a no brake in car not anyone can drive car faster.because of insecurity But if break is always on the car will not move
@Eikenhorst
@Eikenhorst 2 жыл бұрын
@@InsightGrid620 I see where you are coming from and in a way you are right. Breaks help to go faster :) So in this case the question remains does it actually go faster due to this practice. Of course as a western outsider I don't think so, but that is also very much a cultural thing
@MistyBlueMoon
@MistyBlueMoon Жыл бұрын
Tell your son to come home early !! Daughter's will be more safe......
@namangautam45
@namangautam45 Жыл бұрын
💯
@dhinakarroy4907
@dhinakarroy4907 2 жыл бұрын
North India still has lots of weird practices.
@endisnear306
@endisnear306 3 жыл бұрын
These guys took sigmund freud too seriously
@kritirajput6800
@kritirajput6800 3 жыл бұрын
Haha exactly 😅
@aahhooh2639
@aahhooh2639 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂damn
@mrithulmkumar5263
@mrithulmkumar5263 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah.
@cigarettes_and_lollipops
@cigarettes_and_lollipops 3 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@rafreyes1190
@rafreyes1190 2 жыл бұрын
🙂
@heaven9447
@heaven9447 3 жыл бұрын
Being a South Indian and never knew these things still exist in our country. 😱 In my opinion India has a long journey ahead to catch up with rest of the world
@vip129870
@vip129870 3 жыл бұрын
It is predominantly in the areas of India that were ruled by Muslim culture. Gender segregation, veils, etc. came from that part of the world.
@simiedulay
@simiedulay 2 жыл бұрын
Most north Indians also didn't know
@LL-oq5sf
@LL-oq5sf 2 жыл бұрын
@@vip129870 well, even japan and Korea have gender discrimination We should stop blaming everything on Muslims (Even though their leaders were awful, the people aren't) And no one should force a woman to wear hijab, it's her choice...you have no right to force her
@ramumanickam1643
@ramumanickam1643 2 жыл бұрын
@@LL-oq5sf Muslims started it first why come to India in the first place
@Ssookawai
@Ssookawai Жыл бұрын
@@ramumanickam1643 I'm from a muslim country and we NEVER HAD THIS, NEVER. No matter how segregated it was, a brother, uncle, father, grand-father, step-father, son-in-law were never segregated within the same house. The video shows all faiths practicing it, so it's proper to the CULTURE OF THAT AREA. If you just shove off the issue under "yeah it's the muzzies" logic, you won't solve the issue for them.
@varsharaos294
@varsharaos294 2 жыл бұрын
India is a strange place… Being an Indian I have never seen or heard of these traditions. Again I have faced myself some bizarre traditions when I explain to my other Indian friends from other states they wouldn’t have no idea. India is so diverse even in these bizarre traditions, not so many would know what others experience.. 🙃
@tajmahil8515
@tajmahil8515 Жыл бұрын
Holy..!!?. This is entirely new to me even though I am from India !!! India is soooo diverse even the Indians get cultural shock from merely crossing the states to states or even districts to districts.
@allenmaa7064
@allenmaa7064 3 жыл бұрын
"This tradition is the break mechanism for men." - Oh humanity, the lengths to which men have gone to control the live's of women, their bodies and their minds. Family honor is only found between a young girl's legs.
@ThePadmaj
@ThePadmaj 3 жыл бұрын
The mere walls that we build to protect ourselves also becomes our prison.
@pramita1400
@pramita1400 3 жыл бұрын
👏
@joshuatheunkownuniverse.2475
@joshuatheunkownuniverse.2475 3 жыл бұрын
Jaher bhai jaher
@Stickery
@Stickery 2 жыл бұрын
"No road left but the only one that leads to end"
@atulnayak5715
@atulnayak5715 Жыл бұрын
Historically, barbarians provoke and create borders. Today we exploit others weaknesses. We all bleed the same colour at the time of major conflict. Nevertheless most people forget that our DNA is mostly Asian; bloodline clans have never remained constant. Hence the continent of Asia had Hindus in many territories.
@rituparnarooj5388
@rituparnarooj5388 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this during the whole vtime made me sad and depressed af... i hv born ang grown in Northeast.. we never had this things here.. women hv been given equal rights here.. its like totally opposite to Haryana or Rajasthan or any conservative north,,northwest or east indian states in specific.. i specially feel bad for the women..they are not allowed to even walk here and there,,talk to anyone..they only hv to stay in their houses.. whch affects mind causes mental illness ... i will pray that this things gets evolved with time and asap.. people should interact with each other...that won't make them aroused or won't cause dishonor ..its a conservative mentality they hv through ages.... Thankyou VICE ASIA for covering this....
@4729Punisher
@4729Punisher Жыл бұрын
I heard a horn beep and looked outside. I realized it was in the video lol
@jomygeorge1287
@jomygeorge1287 3 жыл бұрын
I never knew such a thing existed… im a south indian.. still its unbelievable .
@saurabhmishra2363
@saurabhmishra2363 3 жыл бұрын
I'm from Delhi even I didn't know
@jomygeorge1287
@jomygeorge1287 3 жыл бұрын
@@saurabhmishra2363 damn 😅
@arshsingh1205
@arshsingh1205 3 жыл бұрын
@@saurabhmishra2363 bro iam from punjab i live near rajeystan boder its not even 70km never heard of this shit before
@devanarayanpraveen1589
@devanarayanpraveen1589 3 жыл бұрын
Our "cultural" system is fucked ain't it
@arshsingh1205
@arshsingh1205 3 жыл бұрын
@@devanarayanpraveen1589 it should be on how fucked up is fucked up memes
@GauravSingh-pk4qw
@GauravSingh-pk4qw 3 жыл бұрын
I am from India[ Rajasthan] and I had never heard about this. I am in shock right now that such type of things are still happening. I don't know when not only India the whole world will stop discrimination on the basis of sexuality , religion ,color and race we all are human beings.
@LL-oq5sf
@LL-oq5sf 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, people who dont support equality, is gaianst our country's development
@prakxyz
@prakxyz Жыл бұрын
They are just victims of islam
@shivamrode9504
@shivamrode9504 Жыл бұрын
I am from Maharashtra, here we don't have any systems like this even in the most rural villages. Males and females do talk and sit in the same rooms. even stranger males and females have conversations, not an issue
@sadaqatali6393
@sadaqatali6393 Жыл бұрын
They couldn't sleep at home but still managed to have 8 children.
@cinnamonroll6473
@cinnamonroll6473 3 жыл бұрын
That old lady was so wise.
@indulgentquagmire
@indulgentquagmire 3 жыл бұрын
Her frustration you can see, she's studied gender inequality in India for 50 years!
@chrisg869
@chrisg869 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a mommas boy, barely having any real relationship with my father or step father would drive me crazy if I had to live like this
@bournetofeel3023
@bournetofeel3023 3 жыл бұрын
@J N nothing positive comes out of this. Even though I live in a major city myself, there's this rural area close to my locality. So, at some point, having to interact with some people from that area is inevitable. Back when I was in school, I used to go this tuition class where it was common for a few kids from this rural area to come as well. Every word that used to come out of their mouths was pure filth, they didn't have any respect for any female, the only reason they used to respect the elders in their family was because they were their providers. They had no regards for human lives either. Crime rates in rural India are staggering, so they used to tell us city kids a few stories of actual crimes they witnessed themselves and for them, watching someone taking somebody else's life was a completely normal phenomena, in their words, the victims "asked for it" and the list of shit they used to preach goes on and on. Whom do they learn to become humans like this from? The men of their society, who cut them off from the females who have some sense and empathy. And these were early teens I'm talking about, imagine what kind of adults they'd have become now.
@Chetna444
@Chetna444 3 жыл бұрын
@J N why don't you agree that it is a bad practice and need to be abolish. I cannot even think about leaving my father, I learn from him.
@bournetofeel3023
@bournetofeel3023 3 жыл бұрын
@J N hard to judge, how? If they've presented their thought process through their speech and show no remorse or the need to assess themselves if they're on the right path then what else is to be interpreted if not that they are raised badly by bad people in a bad environment? Are you on the same page? Are you down the lines of sympathising with them and saying maybe they're not that bad?
@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856
@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856 3 жыл бұрын
You would have been with your mum till your brother got married and brought a wife home then you would be out ,
@hopeworldbaseline843
@hopeworldbaseline843 3 жыл бұрын
@J N ew live with old bags who smoke all day .no please.
@dhartiputraproduction
@dhartiputraproduction Жыл бұрын
How can they keep a child away from his mother and grandmother? Even if he is a teenager or even married, he is always a child for the mother.
@nainasharma2805
@nainasharma2805 Жыл бұрын
If these people are aroused by their sisters and sisters in law and moms then this whole village has a bigger problem than the baithaks..😅
@geetanegi2246
@geetanegi2246 3 жыл бұрын
When men don't trust themselves even with the women in their own homes.
@Helloswan
@Helloswan 3 жыл бұрын
@Ali al-Dulaimi علي الدليمي But marrying your cousins is wrong too..
@nayab6129
@nayab6129 2 жыл бұрын
Shut up sexist.
@universe5379
@universe5379 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@isabella_potterweasley8268
@isabella_potterweasley8268 2 жыл бұрын
I actually know someone whose mother separated him from women/girls for the 1st 15 years of his life. And even later in life he went to an extremely male dominated field: Mathematics. And studying in a male dominated college where no one was a female in his batch. Surprisingly, my sister got a chance and got in the college getting AIR:2. He was chosen to be her mentor in college. And that was extremely difficult for him. But now, our family and him became extremely close. And currently, he is in America. Its surprising how we grew up in two different conditions, me and my sister in a female dominated home while him in a male dominated one. And yet we managed to be close.
@Michelino_M5
@Michelino_M5 2 жыл бұрын
Why was it difficult for him to mentor your sister?
@isabella_potterweasley8268
@isabella_potterweasley8268 2 жыл бұрын
@@Michelino_M5 Because he had never really been around a female before and he felt like he was going against his past.
@Michelino_M5
@Michelino_M5 2 жыл бұрын
@@isabella_potterweasley8268 Hm, I think I understand a bit better, though I can't help but wonder how he felt exactly. Was he just uncomfortable or did he feel like he was doing something wrong? You don't have to answer that of course, in fact thank you for answering my previous question, and for sharing this in general. Cheers
@isabella_potterweasley8268
@isabella_potterweasley8268 2 жыл бұрын
@@Michelino_M5 That's something I don't know either. Sorry. Haha you are welcome :) Thank you for asking a question : D
@justicethedoggo3648
@justicethedoggo3648 Жыл бұрын
Bad for him , f3males bring chaos and pain in men's life . And good thing is he in America . I'm also American Indian and Ik how terrible Feminism is there , now men over there especially the younger generation are rising and are about the totally dismantle gynocenterism
@geethaarivazhagan5508
@geethaarivazhagan5508 2 жыл бұрын
I am a south Indian and this is the first time I came to know that such culture existed in India.... Even only few years before I came to know about the veil system of India because in southern part of India women won't wear veil... My India is really a very diverse country....
@priyafiji4449
@priyafiji4449 2 жыл бұрын
Which world are they living?
@mannurajput7969
@mannurajput7969 3 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, this exists in India but most of the times it is not as hard and fast. It exists in my family too but I realised it just now. It is very subtle like very chill.
@andreidieor5387
@andreidieor5387 3 жыл бұрын
so y'all men don't want to hangout with females ?
@boomborgoyari5781
@boomborgoyari5781 3 жыл бұрын
@@andreidieor5387 not always. Baithak is supposed to be like a man cave where you can hangout. Im sure this exist in similar forms around the world. We just don't realise it.
@anthonyalexander6266
@anthonyalexander6266 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like not very chill. With the women being like not able to chill? You feel me?
@allinonehub677
@allinonehub677 3 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyalexander6266 this type of rituals are the reason India is no. 1 in rape of females..fuckin disgusting
@Niki-dc2hn
@Niki-dc2hn 3 жыл бұрын
@Rohan Dick did you see the whole video. Nasim (a muslim) is telling the story of his family. He specifically says about the practice is prevalent in both Muslim and non muslim family. Mewat is Muslim majority. So don't blames Hindus ?
@imacoon
@imacoon 3 жыл бұрын
Completely different in Alabama .... Me and my cousin been together for 2years 🎉🎉
@Rockstarmade224
@Rockstarmade224 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@sidharthcs2110
@sidharthcs2110 3 жыл бұрын
I just watched some sweet home Alabama memes
@mcpeguru4060
@mcpeguru4060 3 жыл бұрын
@@sidharthcs2110 lolllll
@theghostofspookwagen4715
@theghostofspookwagen4715 3 жыл бұрын
Hol up.
@humanbng7123
@humanbng7123 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♂️
@ShailendraSingh-ex6yj
@ShailendraSingh-ex6yj 2 жыл бұрын
Typical vice adding wrong translations to lead the viewers into their way of thinking.
@m_1230
@m_1230 2 жыл бұрын
I'm an Indian and I had no idea this existed.
@doomerc
@doomerc 2 жыл бұрын
Kinda knew about this. But okay this is a fr fr thing.
@nukiy8442
@nukiy8442 3 жыл бұрын
But why is it always the woman's honor that's questioned? It takes two hands to clap, doesn't it?
@hijack69
@hijack69 3 жыл бұрын
Because back in olden times, there was no way of knowing for a man whether its his child in the woman's womb or some other man's child. And unfortunately as a consequence of this, such gender segregation started to develop
@m_1230
@m_1230 2 жыл бұрын
Patriarchy 🤷‍♀️
@shamikghosh7197
@shamikghosh7197 3 жыл бұрын
I'm from West Bengal and baithak, as we call it 'boithok' means a totally different thing...it is not permanent but temporary. It's when all the people are called in for a serious discussion about something between a family or two families, maybe even more idk...but females are also allowed to join if they want....but there are some exceptions to that, especially if u go to a rural area...but baithak is held in someone's house not in a separate space
@orkkojit
@orkkojit 2 жыл бұрын
Baithak means living room in Bengali. There is no concept of separation of women and men or any kind of shit like that. It all went away after Raja Ram Mohan Roy and Brahmo Samaj.
@nyxx_andra3187
@nyxx_andra3187 2 жыл бұрын
Dude u said "women are allowed to join" Do u get how messed up it sounds. I lived in West Bengal as well as Delhi, and lie me tell u women ate definitely more empowered with basic rights in West Bengal that in Delhi. Also there is no separation between men and women there. Yes I have heard about some kind of oppression in the rural areas but that doesn't go this far. And
@triple7536
@triple7536 2 жыл бұрын
@@nyxx_andra3187 Both of my maternal and paternal families are in villages in WB. (Paternal ones are even more poorer). And still there is nothing like men and woman. They all support both of my brothers and sisters to study and make a career. Both my grandparents too. No taunts or anything. Both men and women work on the fields and also do household chores by their time. While in the city I was told about the sexism my friends have to face, I couldn't relate to it. And I absolutely agree that women in WB are more empowered than in Delhi.
@nyxx_andra3187
@nyxx_andra3187 2 жыл бұрын
@@triple7536 I have visited some places in the rural India where I have seen a kind of oppression. I won't name the place put the NGO I was volunteering in stopped a total of 6/7 forced marriage in just a week. Most of these villages are near the India -Bangladesh border and most of the people are not indian , they crossed over from Bangladesh. But it happens.
@nyxx_andra3187
@nyxx_andra3187 2 жыл бұрын
@@triple7536 and u have to agree that the original comment of the guy saying "Allowed " Is wrong.
@rajdeepmandal1556
@rajdeepmandal1556 2 жыл бұрын
I pity those women who are forced to live with these monsters 😔
@margerymanukau3821
@margerymanukau3821 Жыл бұрын
I know of families that also segregate males and females due to historical molestation/abuse/rape within the family unit,sexual abuse cannot be undone once the damage has been done 😔
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