correct me if am wrong...indipendence really sometimes has nothing to do with money....it is a mindset!

Independence is not about the money one makes, but it’s really a state of mind. Women become independent when a man fails to lead. Most women want a man who can lead, but men these days have taken a back seat/a passive role, so most women have no choice but to step up and take the reins. If she doesn’t her family will suffer. Talking from experience.

Kalekye I love the way you have represented us grown up successful women. Proud of you. Love you outfit too

A lot of misconceptions about independence in todays world. We are so much defined about our careers and other weird stuff (I chuckled at sitting at the pool lol). Independence is a state of mind what happens after your career is not anymore or something unfortunate happens. Thats why depression is so common today. Marriage is a complimentary situation, if you feel too independent, both man and woman, you have no business to be in it. Just like any institution even a company, its based on teamwork and each member knowing their strength and weeakness. It has taken me almost over half my life to come to this realization. If you feel the need to reassure your position as independent in a loving institution, its either you have insecurities or your partner feels threatened and doesnt let you grow.

Wow,kalekye you articulated the independent woman character very well You represented us very well! Good topic guyz. As for men,times have changed.Culture elvolves.Stop hiding behind ancient traditions that were relevant in the past but not relevant in the world of today.

Just watched this from US and what a fantastic discussion ! I discovered your talkshow recently RB, convinced I'm your biggest fan now!. Kalekye, u rock, I'm your fan now too, you're simply amazing, so graceful, you represented well!, yes we're independent humble women!, it's really a thing!, God bless.

This sister is a natural beauty Queen who speaks from her heart. I still don't think there's such a thing as independent women/ independent men. We codependent on each other in order to make a team.

Sure I loved the show but as for me independent woman is one who has a whole understanding of herself, one who knows what she's living for and will always walk in pursuit of her magical dreams; She endeavors so much to becoming the 'ideal woman' the bible talks about and she spends little or no time talking negativity about other women; She listens to her kind conscience and implements that which is right. I don't view independence as acquiring much money and wealth to giving a woman a ticket to maltreat or just take control over a man she's truly suppose to love and have good upright children with. @Kaleche more love, u nailed it 🥂

In this generation our ladies may not experience physical abuse but rather emotional torture or abuse.....Whatever ABUSE is a NO .........thanks for your show

I a gree with you Kalekye.Some of us ladies we are looking focused person and straight forward.

💯 kweli he will really Remain a King no matter how blessed i am.

this is why i cant leave a kamba lady pass on my way.. asii kalekye your so sweet in you openess

@Kalekye you took the words right out of my mouth....RB great show

I love this show you are both soo awesome!

RB and kaleze big up guys show is wow

Arrogant is shallowness.

Need more of this...Coach, upload more. Great content

This show is by far the best

love this show very educational

My hubby thinks I am expensive but he always try to take me to those expensive restaurant. Love him for it.

I love you kalekye I LOVE YOU. You are so me

Awww,my lovely kalekye,what a nice peace

i just desire the man to take the lead..........lead me and i will be satisfied. if you always say "i dont know" so what? and you are the man, the head of the house, like really?

I love this show.burale we want more of this.

She just described Robert in the man she would want.

Hahahaaa! Kalekye, you are just amazing

Waaw RB show watching frm doha qatar

I agree with Kalekye. No time for play ground games.

Waaaooo.... Nice show. Watching from +974.

Mmeambiwa if you dont fit the lane stick to your panya route.... walalalalala

Kalekye Mumo great insight here...

robert i love the show..

Deep talk, asanteni sana

Hi Rob did I hear you saying you schooled in thunguma? I did and would love to find my school mates.

Kalekye brilliant response.

Men style up and just take up your positions

Nyc show

Fathers are busy with mpango wa kandos...poor role models

I agree lazy men

Oh my God Burale....let the woman talk.

Piece

Some men are arrogant as well

The name of the song please

Well said Mumo.. Great show Mr Burale.... Can you pls do without the google translation. ? It's really wrong and mixed up..

i should adimite am crushing dis man he

You so wrong about Nigeria men.. because Kenya women likes controlling your men...lucky u Kenya women

Kaa hapo ukichangua miaka zinaenda

It's a pity she is still talking about dating issues while women of her age are dealing with how to raise teens and make their marriage work. Kalekye ulijicheza