Reacting To Your *SPICY* Assumptions About Marriage

Reacting To Your SPICY Assumptions About Marriage

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Reacting to yalls marriage assumptions was fun! We love doing our best to be transparent about what marriage is really like from our POV and when you choose to invest in your relationship! Definitely check out the resources below!
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Okay now for the encouragement! This one is short and sweet! It’s about working on stuff. Tori and I have both noticed ourselves becoming increasing frustrated when things don’t work out. We have this expectation that things should be a certain way and if they aren’t then we are let down. I can write an entire book on that alone haha but back to my point. We were living in a mindset that things needed to be a certain way and if they aren’t then something went wrong versus the mindset we should have had which is we are on a journey and God is constantly at work on us, through us and for us! Because that work is being done, why are we acting like we are finished products that know everything… we don’t. So let’s cultivate a mindset of being works in progress, not getting frustrated when things don’t work out the way we had wanted, and trying to see things from God’s POV versus try to force God to see things from our POV.
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@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

What assumptions do you have about marriage?! also 10pts if you like this video!

@shaughnsmit2076 Жыл бұрын

It’s probably easier and harder than I think.

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

you're definitely right about that!

@mariamangion21 Жыл бұрын

It was such a special ceremony 💕

@shaughnsmit2076 Жыл бұрын

Sex ain’t happening as often as hoped for lol

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

that may be wrong!

@carissarichardson9626 Жыл бұрын

Chad expresses his thoughts so accurately and clearly on these topics and you can tell he’s active on being a good human. Wow. Thank you for being a good example. 👏💓

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

You are very kind! Thanks for encouraging me like that... means a lot!

@nancydroge7682 Жыл бұрын

Carissa, Ditto! Carissa, you’ve inspired me in such a way that I that I want to add that~ we are all so, so blessed in that both Chad & Tori express & articulate in a way that is pure gift to those of us blessed to hear them! Gratitude’s ripple effect is a powerful one! Thank you, Carissa! Thank you, Chad & Tori! Thank you, God! ❤️

@nancydroge7682 Жыл бұрын

Oops! My apology for my, “… that I that I want to add…” Meant to read, “… that I want to add…”

@nancydroge7682 Жыл бұрын

“You cannot expect what you do not express!”… Thank you for this treasure amongst ALL of the others (every word) throughout this video! Amazing!

@smitholuwanifemi8016 Жыл бұрын

Expectations kill experiences🔥🔥. That is so true for every type of relationship whether friendships or marriages.

@canalawrence9878 Жыл бұрын

So good! I love your wisdom. And Chad needs to teach lots of things because he has THE BEST analogies! He's really good at setting up a mental picture to drive the truth home!

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

aww you are so kind! That really boosted my spirits today!

@brasengrizelda4713 Жыл бұрын

yep the 'under the rug' one was so amazing

@zoeynecherem Жыл бұрын

Honestly

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

That intimacy outside of physical stuff is just exactly what my assumption is

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

it's the best

@nancydroge7682 Жыл бұрын

My amazing husband & I have been blessed with joyful marriage (through unexpected twists & turns including physical trials) for 38 years; each of which we consider to be gift! “That intimacy outside of physical… “ …. We have found this to be true! ❤️🙏🏼🎁🙏🏼❤️

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

@@nancydroge7682 awww so good to hear bless you and your husband!

@kaylinworthington Жыл бұрын

@@ToriAndChad I’m SO excited for intimacy and I realize I’ve been looking at counterfeits but I always know what I really want is that safe intimacy in marriage. I think it’s scary though because so many people are very doomsday about “well that’ll only last for a bit” or “they’ll just cheat on you.” I want to trust God fully with it but the waiting is hard!

@vivaeuropa Жыл бұрын

@@kaylinworthington Honestly I don't think someone who is truly a follower of God and approved by God that you marry would cheat. The problem is in the Christian community most of the people believe in Jesus but don't truly know him so they're not even saved.

@ZoeyIndigoSky Жыл бұрын

I think fighting and arguments is so normalised in relationships that it's "weird" or "off" or even that something is "wrong" if you don't fight. There can be healthy relationships where you communicate, talk to each other about how you feel and your perspective about something than "fighting". Learning how to regulate your emotions, taking care of yourself and how to express your needs and expectations is something both parties have to learn individually before and as a couple. I think acknowledging/talking about your flaws openly and exploring each others love languages and insecurities helps a lot to understand someone's triggers and to limit/avoid big blow outs. P.S love all these videos that share insight into taboo/not talked about topics! We need to hear more of it so more of us don't get awkward/avoid these very important and needed conversations!

@redacted6580 Жыл бұрын

I think it’s important we as the church should speak about real world topics. Thank you for doing what a lot of Christians are too scared to do.

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

aww thank you for believing in us and encouraging us!

@nurturingwings3793 Жыл бұрын

“Always look to honor and edify our spouse”

@FairlightChristianna1Cor318 Жыл бұрын

You guys are right on! We've never fought. Hurt each other and cried, yes, raised our voices a couple times, yes. But heated arguments, no. We're able to talk it through and dig up the deeper issue.

@ninakaiser2930 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so open! It is really helpful to put things in perspective. Due to my upbringing unfortunately I had quite a few mindsets about marriage that haven’t been the most positive. Your videos help me to think and to look at those mindsets - and to open up about other ways/possibility. And you both have such a refreshing way about how you answer the questions. So it’s with more „lightness“ and still serious.

@Kiayamarieee Жыл бұрын

10 pts for me! And I really like how you guys said to not be afraid of akward moments in marriage, I’ve never heard that before and it helps. And you guys always say that sex is not a performance it’s a gift. Love you guys!

@nat2057 Жыл бұрын

Chad and Tori, you guys are such a blessing! I continually recommend you guys to all my friends and one day, if I'm looking to get into an intentional relationship with someone, you guys are what I want my relationship to look like. So Jesus centred, encouraging, continually improving and growing. I'd like to imitate you guys as you imitate Christ!

@allisonlucas018 Жыл бұрын

Just read the description and it hit hard. I like things to go my own way and I don't like taking criticism. It can get me very frustrated at times. It was encouraging to be reminded that I'm not a finished work of art, the master is still working on me. And I need to be more gracious when others try and come along to help. Especially when it's my family, boyfriend, or close friends.

@eggwonna Жыл бұрын

Completely agree about not venting about each other to friends & family, even before marriage. My bf and I struggled to to understand one another at the start of our relationship. I vented to my sister about some things and it really tainted her impression of him for a while. Same with one of my friends, although she was able to move past it sooner. Now my bf and I have been dating over 2 years with plans to get married and have established that we don’t bring each other’s garbage out for others to see. We talk through it ourselves and/or I work through it with my counselor.

@shaughnsmit2076 Жыл бұрын

Venting to friends and family and them not forgiving as easily makes so much sense, wow never thought of it like that! Thanks, learned something new today!

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

yeah! We are big believers in going to community, family, friends etc for advice, counsel, support, etc but if you are just going to them to vent frustration to to put your spouse down to them that isn't good haha

@annaguillen1631 Жыл бұрын

I love your answer on the shared bank account !! Totally agree. Ps. I look up to you both in my marriage ❤️ God is so good.

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

thanks so much for the love, Anna! We are lifting up your powerhouse marriage!

@shaughnsmit2076 Жыл бұрын

“Expectations kill experiences”

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

they do!

@FairlightChristianna1Cor318 Жыл бұрын

Loved this video!!! ❤️💯💯 You guys are right on! These are the things that I feel like helped my husband and I start our marriage off more easily.

@shwetav Жыл бұрын

You'll are such good human beings! Am just going to pray today specifically appreciating just how rare this goodness is met with genuine realness and still manage to look this good.. 😎 Some assumptions just cracked me up.. thank you you two for just about everything! You'll are the best 👏 Love you threeeeeeee ❤

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

we love you, Shweta!

@silvia135 Жыл бұрын

I found your channel on my research a few days ago and I am so thankful for that! You two are so cute and you are a perfect couple! Have a nice day. Love from Italy

@sierragarza2174 Жыл бұрын

So many good points, thank you for this encouragement 🥲

@sasscass22 Жыл бұрын

On the assumption of “fights”, my fiancé and I have not had a “fight” I like to call them “heated discussions” haha! And it’s only recently happened with wedding planning. Just two people who want things a certain way not realizing the other person may view it differently. Thankfully we have compromised really well.

@elizabethmiddlebrook5990 Жыл бұрын

Follow up on the question about venting to family: What is the difference between venting and seeking counsel/explaining a hard situation in your marriage to someone? These talks are so helpful! Love you guys!

@mirjamreynders2193 Жыл бұрын

Aaahw thanks guys, it so helped me! 😊 I’m going to get married at the end of August and it’s so good to have examples like you from who I can learn a lot!

@isabellalacy9901 Жыл бұрын

Love this so much and I would love a part 2 for this video! Happy Thursday!

@ivyevers8713 Жыл бұрын

So much wisdom & so well spoken. Great vid!

@creezhan Жыл бұрын

I am not less than for being single is something I needed to hear from someone especially a married couple. thanks chad!

@rachelberes59 Жыл бұрын

I love these types of videos!! Very helpful and informative. ❤️

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

you are so sweet to encourage us like this!

@twishamohin Жыл бұрын

Life's been really hard lately but the thrive Bible is getting me through it. THANK YOU CHAD AND TORI ❤️

@shonamcbride6200 Жыл бұрын

Loved this video!! You guys are just amazing and full of amazing advice! 💕 thank you! 👏🏻

@iuliaturcas4348 Жыл бұрын

You two are such a light and encouragement in the online space! Love watching your videos and getting to know your opinions about these deep topics! 🤍 Thank you for all you are doing for this online community! 🤗

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to do life with us sweet, Lulia! We love you!

@Greg_Orr Жыл бұрын

Loved this video! Appreciate you sharing your experiences and wisdom with us! You’re both amazing role models of what a healthy, Christ centred marriage is and I love seeing that so much! Also felt convicted by the encouragement in the description! Such a good reminder! Hope you have an amazing rest of the week! Love and praying for you three!

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

Thanks a ton my man.. means a lot! We love you dude! And thank you for taking the time to read the description!

@nancydroge7682 Жыл бұрын

Greg, 💯Ditto! And… when you concluded with “… Love & praying for you three!” it touched to my core! My prayers for Chad & Tori, & their son, are on flowing!

@rlee6052 Жыл бұрын

I like how you look at him with love when he speaks ❤️😇

@samanthadesouza2284 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing !! this is really a big reminder for me and my husband as a newlywed❤

@tanyadsouza1100 Жыл бұрын

Such a beautiful and helpful video. Thank you so much❤

@mlvabcd Жыл бұрын

Great insight really helpful and encouraging. Thank you guys for this!

@the_piano_diva Жыл бұрын

I understand the one about not venting. My boyfriend broke my heart on accident a few years ago when we weren't together, and my mom and younger sister still haven't forgiven him for making me cry 😂🙄

@hannahwood434 Жыл бұрын

On the topic of venting to family, in our marriage counseling our pastor said something that I LOVED, he said "Create a healthy relationship with your in-laws (which is a good idea anyway) and when there is a misunderstanding or issue, you can talk it out with your spouses parents because they will always love their child, and it is their goal to see them succeed and they will be able to help you understand them better and give you someone to talk to that can help resolve the issue without tainting the view of the spouse"

@tiffanyskinner4850 Жыл бұрын

Loved this video so much! So helpful!

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

aww thank you for letting us know!

@makalsiashepherd3275 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful sharing from a Biblical, Christian perspective. You guys are my fave KZfaq couple. Thank you for the inspirational encouragement.

@Abimbola.Abioye Жыл бұрын

Awwwww..... you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!! How am i not subscribed to this channel?????? You guys pop up in my head from time to time and i am like "i hope their prayer for a baby has been answered". I was so hopeful but i didn't remember yall's name on KZfaq so i couldn't search. I wanted to listen to something on dating today so i opened my dating playlist and found one of your videos i saved and i rushed to the channel hoping that the prayer for a baby had been answered and when i saw it oh guys my joy was so full. Guys your relationship is so beautiful. You are one of the few couples that have encouraged me on trusting God where marriage and meeting my godly partner is concerned. I am so so so so so so happy for your guys wow! God bless you richly and keep being ambassadors of Christ. I AM SUPER EXCITED AND OF COURSE I HAVE SUBSCRIBED. NEVER MISSING ANYTHING EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@marcywhitesell497 Жыл бұрын

Love how u answered the lust question

@simonevogel4411 Жыл бұрын

Love these type of videos - it's so fun to watch ;)

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

aww that means a lot!!!

@jonathanrolle5118 Жыл бұрын

This video was so funny and honestly so wholesome👍

@mariamangion21 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being a huge inspiration to me 💕

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

thank you for being a huge encouragement to us!

@ChessieChess Жыл бұрын

You are both soooo likable. Happy for you!

@breno910 Жыл бұрын

Thank y’all for staying committed in creating content for us. Y’all are awesome 🫶🏽 also, I struggle with the concept of marriage as a believer. my parents marriage failed (super abusive relationship) and now my mom is remarried but her marriage is not the best due to not having a firm foundation in God. But y’all’s honesty and wise words have really helped me have hope that true genuine loving marriages exist . :) many blessings

@miak.pinelo9921 Жыл бұрын

I’m a new subscriber and I just wanna say I love your channel so much!!! I love the cute intro and awesome videos I enjoy watching

@maryalicelaub5615 Жыл бұрын

You guys had ne laughing surprisingly often. Engagement season was quite the experience for us as well.

@StylinSis3189 Жыл бұрын

So helpful! I think the biggest assumption for me is the independence one and the finances. I've been single all my life and like being single most days lol. But sometimes the thought of marriage has me thinking that I'll lose the freedom I have now. So how you handled that assumption was helpful to hear. On the finances piece (a.k.a sharing a bank account) I always think about the worst. Like what if he got abusive or something and now I can't access money to escape or whatever? Lol I know that's crazy but sometimes I think that and it's scary.

@elenabomfim665 Жыл бұрын

All of your answers = 🔥. So so good!

@rebekahkann1599 Жыл бұрын

thank you for this! Not married but I am saving this for when I do find the guy for me ;)

@sarahdavid147 3 ай бұрын

No one told me that I’d be sooo tired and stressed after our wedding. But the morning after was so fun !!

@danbarrett949 Жыл бұрын

I really like the one about bank account. My dad worked 3 jobs & my mom took care of the 8 of us. My dad always said 1st it's God's money. Then my mom & dad would put the money on the table, back then there wasn't auto deposit, & put the money by each bill. My dad never said it was his money & I'm glad I had that as an example.

@lukasstronghood2692 Жыл бұрын

Open communication yes. It should be 2 way on everything.

@mamaat5682 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this video, this will help my daughter when entering in her marriage. We are drinking the Kool-aid 😂. The conferences have help our marriage so much. We don’t have many healthy marriages around us so XO is helping so much 🙏🏼. Thank the Lord for the message they are bringing to us. God is good all the time. All time God is good. 😇

@nataliejaemartin Жыл бұрын

My ritual for watching yalls videos are to go on my hour lunch break….. drive to KFC….. and park somewhere with shade and eat and watch. Lol I thought you should know.

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

hahaha we love this

@skylarcawley Жыл бұрын

ITS MY BIRTHDAY TODAY!! I LOVE YOU GUYS

@anastasija9486 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this 🤍

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to watch it!!!

@Miracleshappentv Жыл бұрын

This was another great video. Love you all.

@janestonehouse2353 Жыл бұрын

Loved this!

@lukeroberts3464 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🍾🎊🎉🎈 on 125k subscribers.

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

almost at 127 I think!

@nancydroge7682 Жыл бұрын

‘Thank you God, for designing & making Chad & Tori (& their son), exactly as you did! (Thank you Chad & Tori, for being exactly who God made you to be!) Thank you God, for sharing Chad & Tori with us… exactly as you do! Thank you that the extraordinarily powerful, transformational & irreplaceable collaboration the 3 of you share with us… exactly as you do, is changing the world forever… for the better! Amen, Amen!’

@amandasandoval9237 Жыл бұрын

Q. In your engagement season, do you think it was difficult because spiritual warfare ? Can y’all do a video on seasons in your life where spiritual warfare has been a real thing- and maybe you didn’t recognize it until after the season.

@marian7215 Жыл бұрын

Love your videos! Chad, do you mind if I ask where you got your hoodie from?

@sofiakingma2606 Жыл бұрын

Love this! Also loving Chads hat, where did you guys get it from?

@danbarrett949 Жыл бұрын

I really like your response to the venting to family. I like to say if it leaks out it doesn't get to the problem or the solution. Our side family/friends are not in the intimacy of a marriage. Imagine if we vented all the time to friends/family about God not doing something for us or we had disappointment w/ God. How would God feel? He wants a relationship w/ just us not our family/friends at the same time.

@Cc-lf8de Жыл бұрын

Could you guys talk about internet safety? I noticed you talked about a internet stalker - and that’s one of my biggest fears of putting myself out there on the internet, but I don’t want that to stop me. Tips would be helpful!

@uzeebu Жыл бұрын

Love you Masters fam

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

we love you!!

@lukasstronghood2692 Жыл бұрын

Agree too with question number 2.

@kisskiss6866 Жыл бұрын

Super fun video as always, guys! 😊 Just a quick personal opinion on the joint/separate account thing :) I respect everyone's opinion and I know every couple is different, so I'm not trying to "promote" the way we do it haha, if I would promote anything, it would be to discuss it with your spouse openly and honestly, and choose the method that works the best for specifically you two :) For us, interestingly, it was the separate accounts that helped us communicate honestly and effectively about money and finances, and it really brought us closer. We learned how to cooperate with the common spendings (rent, groceries, holidays etc), we are talking about how much do we earn and spend, we have a little budget planning journal, so we really handle the finances hand in hand, except for that little personal freedom about how we spend our separate money. Obviously we discuss the big spendings so it's not like one day I'm just coming home with a TV I bought lol, but I can buy all the books I want or I can get my nails done with my own money, and my spouse can buy all his PC games and other electronic gadgets that I personally would never want to spend money on, but since he's still able to pay our common expenses and he has extra/savings, he's free to get anything he pleases with his own money :)

@greenbutterfly2421 Жыл бұрын

This I love ❤️. I agree with you, there’s no one way to deal with finances in marriage save for accountability on earnings and savings and expenses. I believe in financial accountability and independence. You said exactly what I think.

@aubreyidleman Жыл бұрын

Please do talk about the issue of marriage and lust!

@mallorygodslight Жыл бұрын

I adore you guys 💛

@k62407 Жыл бұрын

tori… girl… what is the skincare routine (apart from the pregnancy glow✨)??

@vfjohnston Жыл бұрын

Chad, where’s the hoodie from?? Looks super comfy!

@katariinakuronen944 Жыл бұрын

sometimes we think that life changes a lot after getting married, but does it really change? Anyway you guys are awesome

@nadinepotgieter9594 Жыл бұрын

I think you as a person change..Just my opinion what happened to me😉But change for the better

@angel-fk6rn Жыл бұрын

love you both so much.

@belleingersoll6240 Жыл бұрын

sweet tori && chad , thank you for this beautiful God oriented video ! thank you for ALWAYS leaning into His calling for your lives && just sharing this beautiful assumptions video . i hope you both have a beautiful day && can lean even more into Him today ! ✞ ッ ♡

@FairlightChristianna1Cor318 Жыл бұрын

Make the wedding night easier, wait till the next day and get some good sleep that night. 😅

@Chydova Жыл бұрын

How do you know if your boyfriend (or girlfriend) has a problem with lust?

@RagnarLothbrok2222 Жыл бұрын

Would y’all be able to timestamp the questions for us? Thanks!

@orielinIsrael Жыл бұрын

I have a slightly different opinion when it comes to venting. It can be super lonely to not be able to talk about what is going on in your life, and counselors aren’t in the role of a friend. I think if you can find ppl who are as forgiving and graceful and mature as they are wise then that can be good as long as it is honoring of your spouse and not instead of talking with your spouse first 🙃🌺❤️

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

Totally see your point! I think it comes down to the definition of "vent". Because if it is an expression of our spouse in anger or rage, then that isn't a good look. I mean I would be so hurt to hear if Tori were talking badly about me behind my back instead of communicating with me to resolve. But if she was working through an issue with friends in a healthy way then I love that! If you simply are going to talk to friends about stuff to get advice, prayer and support then there is nothing wrong with that and we love that! I go to my guy friends all the time for advice on how to handle things. I guess venting and going to friends/family for support are two different things. From our POV when you vent you are angrily expressing frustration about someone that can lead to gossip and that is what we are trying to avoid here. But like we said in the video, if you can do it in a way that is honoring to your marriage, your spouse and to God then that is an amazing thing to do! Hope that helps clear up what we were trying to say!

@orielinIsrael Жыл бұрын

@@ToriAndChad absolutely! I guess I didn’t think of the word vent as a negative thing, maybe my English isn’t the best haha 😆 but yes I agree. I love all your videos, you guys are great!

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

No no, you did so amazing! Your english is great! thank you for being willing to read our response! Also we loved looking at your channel! Great content!!!

@orielinIsrael Жыл бұрын

@@ToriAndChad aww thanks. God told me to open it a in October a year ago and it was confirmed because of a video of yours talking about planing a KZfaq channel 😄 you get a credit percentage

@vivaeuropa Жыл бұрын

@@orielinIsrael Wow you're from Israel and a Christian?

@sarahfreire9324 Жыл бұрын

can you guys recommend some devotionals for christian dating couples to do together?

@unapologeticallyromel7096 Жыл бұрын

Hey guys❤

@alainalogan8534 Жыл бұрын

Y’all are so cute in case you weren’t aware

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

haha we receive this! I'm getting grey hair so I'll take my compliments where I can!

@uzeebu Жыл бұрын

Lol not Chad touching Tori on 12:27 😂😂😂😂😂♥️

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

hahah she definitely felt that

@belleingersoll6240 Жыл бұрын

the daily encouragement like always was ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 ! so beautiful written && thank you for sharing so i can be encouraged in my walk with God ! ♡ ✞ ッ

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

HAHAH i can't with the finger on your shoulder

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

I am literally like that whenever someone says they're physical touch I touch them and am like 👀👀👀

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

My girlfriends are like are you for real right now 😂

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

hahaha

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

hahahah

@annakarina6999 Жыл бұрын

Hey Chad, this question is for you: Did you had mentors in the beginning of your relationship that spoke gossip about your now wife? And intended to pop your bubble and ruin your honey moon stage with your newly girlfriend?

@yellowrose13 Жыл бұрын

Married people: what caught you off guard after getting married? I bet marriage really is as great as it seems but what did you wish you knew before getting married so you weren't surprised?

@promiseblanchard4468 Жыл бұрын

I’ve realized as a young married woman that sex is really not talked about within Christianity. I do understand why not, but it feels like it promotes shame even within a marriage because especially when you’re young people make honeymoon jokes and it can just make it feel icky

@Mikhayla_raine Жыл бұрын

Yeah

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

hi!

@Mikhayla_raine Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

@zz7889 Жыл бұрын

12:20 🤣

@000bullets Жыл бұрын

What does "neked" mean chad?

@shaughnsmit2076 Жыл бұрын

Get the algorithm going!

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

I wish...hahah

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

Yesss

@Joh316BeBlessed Жыл бұрын

@Chad.. You say you gain so much more than just loosing independence.. But what so you gain then? Cuz everyone seems to talk about its worth it but not a lot of ppl talk about why its worth it or what you gain..

@jennabonnichsen Жыл бұрын

Like what if one of the partners is really good at making money and the other partner is not so gifted at naturally making money? What if the monetarily "well off" partner sees money as independent from partnership and sees the partner who is not so gifted at making money as lazy or using them for money? How can a "poor" person find love? Or how do see that kind of situation?

@greenbutterfly2421 Жыл бұрын

Jenna, just thought I’d say something even though I’m not tori or chad 😆…. That’s not a healthy partner to be with I think. Because why would you be with someone who clearly makes you feel “less than” because they make more money? We can’t all make the same amount because different circumstances and capabilities. A “poor” person can indeed find love, there are plenty of people out there who have a healthy mindset financially and are looking for someone for not only how much money they make.

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

This is the perfect video for y'all tho lol

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

it's real lol we love this stuff!

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

The beginning 😂 👀... 👀..

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

lol sweet Ang!

@angelavanoosten1 Жыл бұрын

@@ToriAndChad love this little corner y'all filmed in

@ToriAndChad Жыл бұрын

aww really? We tried to change things up a bit!