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Real Talk On Experiences & Struggles In Relationships | Kingsley Okonkwo & Steve Harris

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Join Kingsley Okonkwo & ‪@SteveHarrisCompany‬ as they share 'Real Talk On Experiences & Struggles In Relationships'
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@mmachi477
@mmachi477 2 жыл бұрын
Blessed. Thanks P. K I've lived in triangle for the longest time. At a point I became intentional about going out. I attend conference, seminars workshops, take myself out. Its a great place to start...
@PeaceDesk
@PeaceDesk 2 жыл бұрын
I came here with an empty cup, I'm leaving with a filled drum. Thank you so much, GOD BLESS.
@godslovekosi4336
@godslovekosi4336 2 жыл бұрын
Ahh🙆‍♂️, the cup turned to drum, my God.
@orevaogheneireneatanya3068
@orevaogheneireneatanya3068 2 жыл бұрын
I loved the example Steve shared about his wedding. My husband and I had a similar experience/decision, we succeeded and both my first Car less than two months after our wedding.
@shuaibrashidat1101
@shuaibrashidat1101 2 жыл бұрын
Nice on Steve,most men are threatened by career focus women,my last relationship was hell and coming out of it and moving on is the best decision I made and honestly I have healed from it and my heart is open to love again and be ❤
@tobigloryy
@tobigloryy 2 жыл бұрын
Love the honesty from Mr Harris plus that celibacy part seems to be a major issue nowadays.
@omahchris60
@omahchris60 2 жыл бұрын
Overthinking is a problem too
@olunuadeoluwa5681
@olunuadeoluwa5681 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks , definitely didn’t go out a lot bse my head was buried in my books! Now here I am 🤣🤣
@Queenestherstrybe
@Queenestherstrybe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor K. Thanks for bringing Steve Harris. It was worth my every time and I gained a lot. I pray that God sends me His own son for me in Jesus name.
@emmanuellaoffiong7751
@emmanuellaoffiong7751 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@friends2ize
@friends2ize 2 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom from Steve, thank you pastor Kingsley for hosting him. My takeaway 'marry patterns not potential'
@sabugwuanyi7044
@sabugwuanyi7044 2 жыл бұрын
Great.... Harris i like ur shirt
@elishashappinesscampaign1597
@elishashappinesscampaign1597 2 жыл бұрын
20 Points. The triangle formula limits them. Home,work,church.🔥✌
@diyallthings
@diyallthings 2 жыл бұрын
I did home work church but God showed grace. He found me.
@iheukumerepearl515
@iheukumerepearl515 2 жыл бұрын
Going out is really stressful....in Lagos where we wake up by 4am to get to work on time.....we get home by 9pm or even 10pm...Monday to Friday....Saturdays and Sundays are my rest days...it would be really difficult to come out and start the process again on rest days.....😩😩😩
@SteveHarrisCompany
@SteveHarrisCompany 2 жыл бұрын
Start it oooo
@iheukumerepearl515
@iheukumerepearl515 2 жыл бұрын
@@SteveHarrisCompany It's in the plan Sir.....🤭
@ofonmbukbassey4406
@ofonmbukbassey4406 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what i face in Lagos too. Saturday and Sunday, i sleep and rest enough to buildup for the new week. I want to change sha, so help me God.
@positivesoul.9490
@positivesoul.9490 2 жыл бұрын
Don't you go to church? Aren't you in any service at church. Church is also a place you can meet with people
@iheukumerepearl515
@iheukumerepearl515 2 жыл бұрын
@@positivesoul.9490 You have a point tho
@paulineelotowa5791
@paulineelotowa5791 2 жыл бұрын
Our relationship has not been easy 4yrs now.....it's working me up Soo much
@faithfulcliffs609
@faithfulcliffs609 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much pastor K for this. Celibacy isn't easy but still worth it. 💯 Steve your wedding plan review is amazing too.
@chiamakaogonna2301
@chiamakaogonna2301 2 жыл бұрын
This is educative and at the same time pouring out the truth. No body has it all before they get married. Growing with each other is paramount.
@ifyama
@ifyama 2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom!! Pastor K Loved the way you fused in avoiding pre-marital sex🙌
@gloriaadebambo6143
@gloriaadebambo6143 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor for the message. I'm learning. I'm separated right now, I've realized my mistakes and I know it won't happen to me again. God bless you.
@nguverenande3074
@nguverenande3074 2 жыл бұрын
Please point us to the direction to go out to can't be aimlessly walking about.
@Emma4dfuture
@Emma4dfuture 2 жыл бұрын
You can start by going to open and safe spaces. Make a list of areas you are likely to find your type of man in. Visit areas in the list that you also like, before visiting the other areas on the list that don't appeal to you (ensure they are open, safe, and don't go against your faith/values.).
@billionairejumzietopbabe3304
@billionairejumzietopbabe3304 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.... parties, restaurant, church....etc
@FavourFAjayi
@FavourFAjayi 2 жыл бұрын
This is the exact question I asked months back when I was advised to start going out more. I asked, so where exactly do I go to?😁😍😘
@ogechaakor3202
@ogechaakor3202 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@oyinkansolaoladipupo
@oyinkansolaoladipupo 2 жыл бұрын
Don't go to your church alone attend services and singles meetings in of other Christ-centered Churches
@charlysection822
@charlysection822 2 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite Mentors and Pastors... You are saving souls Pastor Kingsley... God bless you Sir
@gemanwaneri
@gemanwaneri 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so so much!
@chiomaugwuomarima9054
@chiomaugwuomarima9054 2 жыл бұрын
I need 52weeks book too for me and my hubby
@paulineelotowa5791
@paulineelotowa5791 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk....am struggling with my fiance parents accepting him to marry me. Need your help PK
@audienceofone9842
@audienceofone9842 2 жыл бұрын
Whoooooooooooooshhhhh!!! Impactful.
@ogemona9014
@ogemona9014 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much pastor K This section had a lot in it .
@her800
@her800 2 жыл бұрын
This was so good! Practical wisdom. More with Steve . Thank you Pastor K
@Eberethelma
@Eberethelma 2 жыл бұрын
This was refreshing to watch❤️
@attahprosper3610
@attahprosper3610 2 жыл бұрын
Lesson well taught and learnt living legends 🙌
@adiimimi
@adiimimi 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor K, I'm actually very very open with building with a guy and all that. But the truth also is that some men feel threatened when you are doing better than them; with a little dash of inferiority complex. How do you handle such people? Even when you are being kind, genuine and humble as much as you can be. It's really really tiring.
@adiimimi
@adiimimi 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Pastor K and Steve Harris
@marknyami4451
@marknyami4451 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so pastor K... This is so inspiring
@FavourFAjayi
@FavourFAjayi 2 жыл бұрын
Coach Steve dropping some hawt perspectives here....learning a lot
@Barnabas_Akinrinola
@Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, Pastor K and Sir Steve Harris.🙌🏾
@ghosting4213
@ghosting4213 2 жыл бұрын
That's me'triangle' setting.
@chiamakaogonna2301
@chiamakaogonna2301 2 жыл бұрын
hahaha so me, sometimes I think my life is boring 😂😂😂
@ghosting4213
@ghosting4213 2 жыл бұрын
@@chiamakaogonna2301 that is ehn! Had the same friends for years. Where person wan go sef for this boring 🇬🇧
@chiamakaogonna2301
@chiamakaogonna2301 2 жыл бұрын
@@ghosting4213 😂😂
@tumininu9572
@tumininu9572 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting patiently 🙌🏾
@christobelugwuokpe
@christobelugwuokpe 2 жыл бұрын
Very insightful I learnt a lot
@davidmtonga1422
@davidmtonga1422 2 жыл бұрын
Can't wait 🙏🙏
@uchechiiyeghe1699
@uchechiiyeghe1699 2 жыл бұрын
Very good session!!! Thank you Sirs
@chiananuelmagha9563
@chiananuelmagha9563 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video Pastor K
@stephanieagbe9255
@stephanieagbe9255 2 жыл бұрын
I need to start going out for real...
@mollysue6588
@mollysue6588 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for you powerful messages on relationships. But what do you think of the book Principles of love and life?
@francaehie5846
@francaehie5846 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Pastor k I enjoyed this video. My husband is a Man
@olmasfootballchannel7889
@olmasfootballchannel7889 2 жыл бұрын
Really blessed PK and Sir Steve, especially on practcal experiences
@aderonkeadebowalealabi
@aderonkeadebowalealabi 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this video was really good for me Thank you
@lucy6066
@lucy6066 2 жыл бұрын
I live in this triangle. How do I intentionally create a circle as someone that enjoys my own company?🤔
@Emma4dfuture
@Emma4dfuture 2 жыл бұрын
First off, do you need a man, since you enjoy your own company at the moment?
@alexandriajereel7401
@alexandriajereel7401 2 жыл бұрын
@@Emma4dfuture Aren't you meant to still enjoy your own company, regardless of having a man or not? Does being miserable by yourself mean that you need a man?
@Emma4dfuture
@Emma4dfuture 2 жыл бұрын
@@alexandriajereel7401 Having some "you" time and space is necessary in marriage. So yes, you can still enjoy your own company but not to the detriment of your partner's attention bank. You can't keep your partner hanging around like some toy you pick up when needed. With marriage comes some form of adjustment (call it vulnerability or exposure if you may). One core purpose of marriage is to serve each other in honor unto God. Acting in each other's interest FIRST before yours, is a primary duty in marriage (hence the adjustment I talked about.).
@alexandriajereel7401
@alexandriajereel7401 2 жыл бұрын
@@Emma4dfuture oh, I understand it better now, the partners emotional needs are paramount, regardless of a person's prior disposition. Thank you for the clarification. 😊
@Emma4dfuture
@Emma4dfuture 2 жыл бұрын
@@alexandriajereel7401 You're much welcome. Balance is at the heart of these things.
@chiomaugwuomarima9054
@chiomaugwuomarima9054 2 жыл бұрын
Plz I need the praying journal,it's over 2years now plz sir. Thanks
@veratwinztv6413
@veratwinztv6413 2 жыл бұрын
I love this message, thank you so much sir...
@jenniferakonye608
@jenniferakonye608 2 жыл бұрын
Love you so much Pastor K. Thanks for this
@anitaike9031
@anitaike9031 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful stuff
@jiteobumneke9698
@jiteobumneke9698 2 жыл бұрын
I really really love this program 👍💖 God bless you sir
@foyinlolasworld6072
@foyinlolasworld6072 2 жыл бұрын
Bless u sirs 🎈
@patiencemagoola101
@patiencemagoola101 2 жыл бұрын
T h a n k y o u. I really have to work on my small enclosed life.
@impactmen
@impactmen 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely
@onomuefechristabel7361
@onomuefechristabel7361 2 жыл бұрын
Great content 👍👍👍
@kingsleyugwu9399
@kingsleyugwu9399 2 жыл бұрын
Learning a lot PK my gee
@FavourFAjayi
@FavourFAjayi 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love how God cares about the seemingly minute things; I mean He had Coach Steve's mother send him money just because it was needed. Whoosh, tell me that's not love😁😍😘
@giftedapparels
@giftedapparels Жыл бұрын
Lol. It's the DHL for me
@dbisfashionhub
@dbisfashionhub 2 жыл бұрын
I think I need new friends to stop this triangle lifestyle
@ariseshinewithchido
@ariseshinewithchido 2 жыл бұрын
Be the example your child will look up to.
@lacy4035
@lacy4035 2 жыл бұрын
I think the reason is the rich are always busy to pay so much attention to their marriage plus they begin to treat their relationship like business and work ....from the way they talk to the way they want things done ....a lot of men and women with power struggle with that balance .....u become a trophy to them and if the woman or man is somebody u knew or fell in love when his has nothing, u would struggle in adjusting.... 2) if the man and woman is on the same level of power then they both need to make sacrifices to be their and support each and keep work from home ...example is jay z and Beyoncé , every since the infidelity they are always their for each other big event , attending and supporting each other ...it’s sacrifice and lot everyone has that time
@lynnmothibeli325
@lynnmothibeli325 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this😍
@moseserhiga7092
@moseserhiga7092 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@omobee1598
@omobee1598 2 жыл бұрын
I'm more like on a straight line😔😔
@solomonikhuoria1526
@solomonikhuoria1526 2 жыл бұрын
Mmm... Match your fantasies with your realities.
@janetchiwetelu3939
@janetchiwetelu3939 2 жыл бұрын
Single ladies should go out.... Where can they go?
@Eberethelma
@Eberethelma 2 жыл бұрын
It takes a strong man to say No to many women and yes to 1 woman... Interesting
@inuolabenjamin3520
@inuolabenjamin3520 2 жыл бұрын
Guilty as charged; work, church, home🤦‍♀️ (Triangle)
@Life_of_Nasa
@Life_of_Nasa 2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@AdaAda_
@AdaAda_ 2 жыл бұрын
🔥🙌🏼🙏🏼🔥
@henriettaobioha438
@henriettaobioha438 2 жыл бұрын
TriangularMeeee Ah Gawd
@FavourFAjayi
@FavourFAjayi 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love how God cares about the seemingly minute things; I mean He had Coach Steve's mother send him money just because it was needed. Whoosh, tell me that's not love😁😍😘
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