Rebuilding after divorce | How to rebuild your life after losing everything
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Күн бұрынMeet Pete. Pete is recovering from divorce and feels like he is on a treadmill struggling to make ends meet. Pete wants to start a new life after divorce but he has a sense of hopelessness and is unsure of what to do next to rebuild his life.
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@debbiesday8270 10 ай бұрын
I understand this man's feelings. I'm going through a divorce I didn't want. We were together forty years. I stayed home and raised our two boys and my niece after my sister passed away unexpectedly. My husband just walked away and told me he had been cheating for many years. He burned through our savings and has left me with no income. I'm 64, have very little family and no friends. I had to move away from the town we lived in and into a small home in a town I never wanted to live in, but at least I have a roof over my head for now. I have no resume, poor health and I'm afraid. I hope and pray that everyone else going through this will be able to recreate a good, purposeful life. God bless you all.
@violet9486 2 ай бұрын
Very similar story. I'm struggling to accept what God has allowed.
@EricDraven-qd9pu 7 күн бұрын
@@violet9486there is no loving god...just a cruel creator
@kpzza 10 ай бұрын
I recently divorced my wife of 8 years. I'm 31 and this was a tough experience. I still have adolescent children so its made it hard on me. It is always great to get experienced men share their knowledge and experiences to help us all get through this. Thank you for the videos Mark Waite
@noahzero9380 10 ай бұрын
At least you’re still young. Congratulations on making it out alive.
@SingleDadSurvival 7 ай бұрын
It can be tough as hell being a single dad... I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it may help you...just to share stories. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝
@Kauwa808 Жыл бұрын
Facing a divorce with my wife after a 30 year relationship. It was a "it's over, no contact" text. Been alone for 4 months now. Not drinking but having a hard time getting out. Work is still good, church is still good but don't have any make friends that have been through divorce let alone gray divorce. Worried about losing the farm litterly, and ending up homeless. Trying to figure out life again. Wish I never got married to begin with...
@enbutler9691 11 ай бұрын
Good luck my brother. You will be ok. One foot in front of the other.
@stevekostakis2983 2 ай бұрын
I am going through this now. She had me arrested three times and the Police slapped me with a current AVO which does not allow me to visit my house nor live at my Mothers house nearby. My limited exposure to my kids is now affecting them and I feel like an Uncle, not a Father. She also managed to recruit my 21 year old daughter against me, of which she assisted Police arrest me. I now live in a studio, still run my little business and plan for the future. I suggest exercise daily to keep your head straight. I would rather be in the gym not thinking about my kids than a prison cell. The system has it all against us. The woman you married, is no longer her. You have to let her go. For me, 29 years of marriage.
@markwegner6100 3 жыл бұрын
Don't get married again!
@Pachi4026 3 жыл бұрын
I could care less about her or my money...my son, I miss him every second.
@PeteyC_AZ 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. I cannot stand to be without them. It literally kills inside. Talk to them on the phone. Plan vacations etc. They miss you just as much. Stay strong bro.
@jeanettejamison1045 3 жыл бұрын
A Son needs you to care about his mother. You can regain your life again and your son will help you do this. What do you want? Be blessed to maintain your help and relationship with others too.
@matty6848 2 жыл бұрын
@@PeteyC_AZ yeh you’ve got to keep in contact with your kids. Even if it’s just once or twice a week, keep in contact phone them, take them out and be the best dad you can be..
@PeteyC_AZ 2 жыл бұрын
@@matty6848 oh I will. They are my everything. I've seen enough divorces and been a child going through that to see how bad and detrimental it is to kids. Even if the adults don't get along, the kids are left out of the squabble.
@matty6848 2 жыл бұрын
@@PeteyC_AZ good on you Pete🙂👍
@indyd9322 3 ай бұрын
This video has sage advice! I appreciate that you really break it down into something conrete and actionable. This is do-able! I'm inspired. I took some notes during the video to help myself: 1. Change your habits. Break the inertia of the downhill slide with small wins. For example, exercising when you feel stressed, instead of eating poorly. Small wins help rebuild your confidence! 2. Write down what you DO want. If you're going through a hard time, don't stop! Consider what you want in the key areas of your life. For example, write down what you want in these 5 things: faith, family, finances, fitness, and fun. Understanding what you really want will change your thoughts, which will change your feelings, then we act on our feelings, and our actions will create our new reality. Vision/thoughts > feelings > actions > new reality! 3. Write your dreams/goals in 5 key areas of life. Develop a specific and written framework of your dreams/goals. See his template. Think where you want to be in 5 years, and work backwards. For example, you can then break it down into 1 year goals, then monthly, then weekly and daily action plans. We now have a plan of action!! 4. Plan your work and work your plan! Back it up with massive action.
@MohammadAtallah-nq3jc Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@CarlosAlvarez-gb7kc 3 жыл бұрын
I feel I might be going into depression losing everything
@MattaLac1987 3 жыл бұрын
My wife and I are separated. I'm living a sober living house. Life feels like it has no point. Trying to cope with depression and anxiety. Emotionally I'm a wreck.
@hannahrubinow 2 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@MattaLac1987 2 жыл бұрын
@@hannahrubinow well I'm a general manager have my own place and my vehicle is paid off. Me and my wife are working on our relationship. We're looking for a house so we can live together and be a family again.
@hannahrubinow 2 жыл бұрын
@@MattaLac1987 awesome to hear it!
@thexceo8592 2 жыл бұрын
I’m here right now 1 bedroom home after collapse of business and divorce.
@MultiWhovian 2 жыл бұрын
@@thexceo8592 Samesies. Holly shit, the amount of debt! But I will emerge leading the pack. 😄
@PeteBurns01 10 ай бұрын
Great stuff Mark
@peterredit9556 2 жыл бұрын
Well said Financial loss is devastating But just try to sort her out and move on. I am 58 and going through this right now but to be honest pleased to be away from her. Hopefully things will improve soon…. Good luck to all of you guys going through this super difficult time…. Stay strong…💪
@Tommy2stroke 8 ай бұрын
A man helping a fellow man makes it still a beautiful world.
@bbarnett7667 Жыл бұрын
He’s takes a while to say it but he’s spot on. 10,10,10 plan In the beginning it’s 10 hours, 10 days, 10 weeks. As you start to execute and recover you can stretch that out to 10 days, 10 weeks, 10 months. Also, a lot of people saw their relationships fall apart after the pandemic. You are not alone and you are not being punished. The sheep are being separated from the goats. Embrace it and grow and know that in its previous state your relationship was going to be a hindrance to your survival of longevity. The split was required for you to get back on track.
@John_Wood_ 10 ай бұрын
100%
@hal4192 2 жыл бұрын
I was 60 when she left. She was younger (and NPD). Just about destroyed me but managed to plod through Hell. Great advice but It's difficult to pick up the pieces when retirement is just around the corner. I had to remortgage to pay her out and that together with maintenance payments has all but crushed me. My mortgage runs for eight years after retirement. I'd almost bought my house outright when I met her. What a bloody fool I was. I'm trying to keep it together for the kids. Keep up the good work. 👍🏻👍🏻
@markwaite7805 2 жыл бұрын
Reach out anytime Hal. My details are in the description panel.
@hal4192 2 жыл бұрын
@@markwaite7805 Cheers. 👍🏻👍🏻
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems..
@TheSunshinefee Жыл бұрын
should have married someone your age. they are more wiser but i bet you wanted a young body to f*ck
@bro7269 3 жыл бұрын
3 days ago I was living in my very nice house in a very nice area in the Southwest. Tonight after 3 days of driving, I’m laying on a blow up mattress in a sh*t apartment in a sh*t neighborhood in the midwest. I don’t drink and I exercise so I need to keep that up. I have a job that I start next week so I’ll get by but holy crap, this is going to take a lot of f’n work! I have no furniture.......almost nothing. I am literally starting my life over again as it was 20 years ago. I’m getting too old for this crap. I am deep, deep in the valley like you said. I will try to focus on the good and not dwell on the bad. I know this will change.....I can do this! My ex-wife is texting asking how everything is. I really want to tell her to f-off.
@pedroariza7892 3 жыл бұрын
She's looking for you to be her emotional crutch! I'm in the same boat, I had a big house, a nice car, a great neighborhood...now I'm a loser crashing on my dad's couch while he berates me about going back to my family...it's tough, there will be good days and bad days believe me...
@Bigbluecollector316 3 жыл бұрын
Just block her
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems..
@anbacynthia9881 4 жыл бұрын
Nice info
@markwaite7805 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@angelacunningham8153 3 жыл бұрын
So helpful. Thank you!
@markwaite7805 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@williamschmidt9384 3 жыл бұрын
She makes more than me, I lost my son, the house, a chunk of my 401k and got hit with all the martial debt. I thought that the nightmare was over after the divorce, only to be shook down monthly for daycare costs, which have now put me in poverty, while she is flush with cash. It sucks.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver..
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems..
@jaraf107 Жыл бұрын
Checking in. How are you a year later?
@ashedwards1311 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video.
@markwaite7805 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems.
@cadlac1533 Жыл бұрын
🎈 on ur rebuild Life.
@barry4140 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.Especially for the F's a 6th one I have added is Future,because I have to look forward,looking back is of no consequence other than pain.Thanks again.
@gandalfm.student4756 2 жыл бұрын
Pain...
@markwaite7805 4 жыл бұрын
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@rhoinaandy9698 Жыл бұрын
Where is the link mark?
@drummer856 3 жыл бұрын
If your a drinker, she can use that against you. I found that out when I sought treatment and got sober my soon to be ex wife was angry with me because she lost that leverage.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems.
@BobBob-uv9fq 3 жыл бұрын
Never ever use drink ,
@jeremyriley2102 3 жыл бұрын
Been divorced for six months and it's still painful. She's moved on and I feel stuck.
@pedroariza7892 3 жыл бұрын
You're nice and young, learn to be very picky about who you let into your life. My ex begged me to treat her right and be there for her when we first met.
@matty6848 2 жыл бұрын
Jeremy you have to move on brother. Cherish the good memories you had but move on and create a new life for yourself. Don’t feel like your a victim, think your a strong man who can rebuild his life..
@MultiWhovian 2 жыл бұрын
Half of the time, or more, it's pretend. Mean mind-games meant mostly to hurt you, and to assure herself she did the right thing. Just ignore and focus on yourself. You still may not be able to see this, but the ability to live with yourself, and focus on the here and now is bliss.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver..
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
@edgregory1 10 ай бұрын
I can't imagine genuine combat grunts relating to anything or anyone.
@adashing 3 жыл бұрын
Mark, Great calming video. Thanks...AD
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks AD 🙏
@adashing 3 жыл бұрын
@@markwaite7805 I have a few questions . What email should I use to contact you?
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
mark@themarkwaite.com
@ericcatherine7887 4 жыл бұрын
Great video
@markwaite7805 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Eric. I hope it adds some value to you mate.
@ericcatherine7887 4 жыл бұрын
@@markwaite7805 i has helped me with what I've been going through
@ericcatherine7887 4 жыл бұрын
It has helped me
@camelo1495 Жыл бұрын
She just disappeared on the kids and I. Said she is going to see her family overseas and just cut communication to us. She left with a kiss and a hug and then the information started coming in. That she had been planning this for sometime at least 6 months previously..... she had pictures and a video of another man masturbating in her emails. She demanded divorce ... she refused to contact our children despite my pleas. She cut communication from whatsapp once I established it then only emails. I told her everyday I loved her ...tried to hug her everyday...I didn't abuse her...stayed strong for her and she did this to us. I am lonely and it hurts and I am a giving person and I can't motivate myself to start on myself. I just want her out of my thoughts.
@jasonwest5656 2 жыл бұрын
I got divorced lost my house my business and yes Dog + cat. Having been kicked out by the judge. He gave me a date to be out. No housing would accept me because no job. No job would take me because i ran my own businesses for 27 yrs. I took a warehouse job and severely injured my shoulder. Workers comp screwed me . My ambulance chasing lawyer did an even better job at destroying me. Went homless now inly job can get is under the table work. My work skills are crap because of the injury. My lawyer made it impossible to get any kind of funding. The $ ran out 6months ago. Still no housing because I don't have a "job" on the books. Staying at the shop i work at which has no privacy, shower, and no ac (which is bad because i live in desert in s. California ). No friends locally they all mived outta ca. All that i own is in a 10' x 12' storage and two vehicles. Which one is dying. Bank one bill or paycheck late sends me in that spiral of over drafts. Ideas Jason
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver..
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems.
@julialednicky7542 2 жыл бұрын
Looking at the channel for the first time. This video is encouraging and makes a lot of sense. Points back to hope and taking personal action. Good job!
@markwaite7805 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Julia… hope it helps.
@matty6848 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks I needed this. I’m recently divorced and started going down the route of drinking with my mates, and having no direction. Then I realised what I was doing, so pick myself up, joined a gym started eating healthier and making sure I had constant contact with my kids… no point dwelling on the past you’ve got to move forward and become a new you and just be the best dad you can be.
@markwaite7805 2 жыл бұрын
Nailed it Matt
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver..
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems..
@carolj7586 3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful video. Better than.talking to a therapist
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! MW
@RetiredandLivingthedream 3 жыл бұрын
Divorced 3 times and now married again. I know exactly how your feeling. There is a way forward,Mark has good advice. Learn from looking back but look forward to life.it’s hard but it can be done.
@MamaliFeshFesh 2 жыл бұрын
Mate, you're a champ! 4 marriages?
@scootypuffjr. 2 жыл бұрын
Why do you keep getting married? You know you are not required to be married ??!!
@RetiredandLivingthedream 2 жыл бұрын
@@scootypuffjr. you are 100% correct there is no need to get married it is a choice I made, 3 mistakes but I think number 4 is ok. The Reason, many but security for my wife so when I die she gets a pension for life, if we were not married when I die she would get nothing.then she would have to start working and have no income. This way she is assured a pension for life, my theory look after the one who looks after you. If I had doubts then I would not have got married. Thanks for your comment.
@scootypuffjr. 2 жыл бұрын
@@RetiredandLivingthedream so you didn't have doubts the first THREE times? Smh
@DVul Жыл бұрын
Geez man didn't learn the first 3 times?! Lol... statiscally the probability of successful long term marriage declines with each attempt, in North America 1st = 53% fail, 2nd 75% fail, I notice in nz they publish divorce statistics in a way that is misleading as they are measuring yearly stats and most marriages are multiple years.... odds are not great!
@Onlinesully 4 жыл бұрын
it is very helpful to hear this other man sharing his story and his efforts to move life along.
@markwaite7805 4 жыл бұрын
Many like him who can turn things around.
@DVul Жыл бұрын
I separated 4 months ago and still haven't settled the custody or separation agreement, listing the house for sale I designed and hardscaped for 100s of hours over years and yesterday just lost my 6 figure job right when the ex is claiming spousal support, just to add insult to injury... at least I have my health! Time to dust off and rebuild.. knowing what i know now there is zero incentive to want marriage ever - I guess thats why they changed the rules around de facto relationship laws because marriage rates were falling and instead write laws so that your automatically married in the states view after 2-3years of living together.. most men have no idea how much risk theyre taking in relationships until they find out too late
@SingleDadSurvival 7 ай бұрын
It can be tough as hell being a single dad... I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it may help you...just to share stories. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝
@876trader7 3 жыл бұрын
Thahks for this man, going through the same...been in the valley things are slowly turning...I can afford to go back to the gym, eat good, and pay my bills on time...but my income is not there yet. But it will slowly turn..we
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
It will @Romaine T. Brown well done on your comeback! Reach out at support@themarkwaite.com anytime you need a perspective
@HectorHernandez-wm4ey 4 жыл бұрын
I was married for 20 years just got Divorce last Monday officially. I feel lost I feel that God doesn’t understand me I m 41 years old and I’m confused 🤷🏻♂️
@markwaite7805 4 жыл бұрын
Feel for you Hector. Hang in there brother because time is your friend. You may find help with piece that helped me get through what you're facing. Go to www.themarkwaite.com and download my 10 Bold steps. Stay strong man. MW.
@queendenia8067 3 жыл бұрын
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@queendenia8067 3 жыл бұрын
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@alejandroquintana611 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This what you say will help me save my life.
@JoshuaSwan 3 жыл бұрын
God bless brother 🙏
@mgu1N1n1 3 жыл бұрын
With all respects be careful with the alcohol people, it really has a significant impact on your mental state and overall health condition. You need to be confident and in your best mental and physical and financial shape and in the ultimate reality alcohol is a setback and really does mess with your clarity. Trust me on this folks I've consumed a lot of booze over the years. Peace and health, people.
@wenders78 3 жыл бұрын
What he said.
@ESL-O.G. 2 жыл бұрын
I love alcohol, but you're right. Smoke weed? 😀
@MultiWhovian 2 жыл бұрын
@@ESL-O.G. It is funny, for real. But in all seriousness, this is what got me to go off weed. It was effing my clarity and holding me back and down. I started to resent it a little. But after a week without it, I "got hooked" on clarity and sharpness. The difference in my performance was SO dramatic! That was about two years ago. I don't hate weed. I have nothing against anybody who enjoys it. But I have been enjoying my life so much more since I quit.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver..
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems.
@Pier77Tampa 3 жыл бұрын
I am not the classic go-getter type of guy, and certainly far from being a social animal, but the learning experience for me is that I can’t do it all and alone. I know now that I can look for and deserve sponsors, mentors, experts to take the burden where they’re best at, and teach me where I can’t do by myself. As if almost driven by instinct, I went online and looked for bucket list ideas. I was surprised by how many things I wish I wanted to do. I have found a financial advisor, to counsel me on how I can achieve these goals. I have a therapist, to counsel me on how I can reach the best growing version of myself. I joined the gym to get fit. None of this eliminates the pain of a divorce. The only way out of the pain is through. Yet i can rely on others shoulders for support. One foot step at a time.
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Pier, well done on getting financial, emotional and physical support. It sounds like you have a great network of quality people around you. Time and forgiveness are great healers. MW.
@laurarodriguez2548 3 жыл бұрын
Did you initiate your divorce? I feel that since it wasn’t my choice, it feels much worse.
@mondayanor4205 3 жыл бұрын
Laura Rodriguez I know of someone that can help you reply if you need his help
@hannahking1984 3 жыл бұрын
There is a lot of healing before I can truly want to date again.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems..
@mgoodlin1 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Mark. Thank you for the wisdom.
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Michael. Hope it helps.
@CarlosAlvarez-gb7kc 3 жыл бұрын
I was married for 30 years I feel insecure and lost
@JoshuaSwan 3 жыл бұрын
God bless Carlos 🙏
@mrhunterf2869 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mark, today marks 1 year of separation since my wife left me. She could divorce me shortly. This really helped me as I'm not looking after myself.
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear man. All is not lost. I hope this content helps you in some way.
@mrhunterf2869 3 жыл бұрын
@@markwaite7805 wow thanks for the reply, really appreciate it. It's like a roller coaster of emotions isn't it...
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
No worries. Yes, on steroids!
@jackharper6448 3 жыл бұрын
The best thing to do is not get married. If you want to have kids, then just have one and pay the child support. It only last 18 years.
@irvingmartinez474 3 жыл бұрын
Great tips Mark - I'm in the middle of a divorce right now and have major concerns regarding life afterward. I am definitely going to implement some of your suggestions. Thank you
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the note Irving. Reach out if you think I could add some value.
@oswaldocardenas8982 3 жыл бұрын
GOOD FUCKING VIDEO RIGHT HERE !
@leanhnguyet71 3 жыл бұрын
The price of a marriage is expensive and the price of getting rid of it ( get a divorce ) is even much more expensive , that's why no one ever wanted to have some experiences of it ....
@lailaelkhatib2817 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your suggestions. I’m in a middle of divorce with three kids and no enough money after 15 years of marriage .. Your video made me feel positive and that there’s hope to stand up again and fight for my kids
@sherrymclean787 4 жыл бұрын
This was a wonderful calming on point video. I so appreciate a Male perspective and an understanding that they too have feelings. It helped me not to feel so alone. This video also inspired me to continue with my family faith fitness finance and fun goals that are all important to me as well. Thank you for the refreshing helpful video.
@markwaite7805 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to comment Sherry and I’m really glad it helped you in a small way. Stay strong and let me know if I can help.
@Onlinesully 3 жыл бұрын
watched some of your stuff. Your a decent person. you know what your doing. that's why it works for you.
@robertsanders2466 Жыл бұрын
Go Thailand. Stay hard
@hawhee 4 жыл бұрын
This is helpful to me, as my wife filed for divorce in January, 2020, and I have no idea what my financial picture is going to be a year from now. I have no debts, and I have a good paying job, but I have no idea how much I will have to pay to my wife. So I don’t know what my net income is going to be. As a Christian, I believe that God will provide for me, so that is all I really know at this point. I’m 59 years old next month, and I would like to retire at 62, but I’m not sure if I will have enough money at that age.
@markwaite7805 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Ethan. Once you know where you stand from a cashflow perspective you will know how your goal of retiring at 62 is looking. Stay focussed on that goal mate and exercise your faith by believing that He will provide all your needs according to His promise over your life. Stay strong. MW.
@queendenia8067 3 жыл бұрын
Ethan Carlson I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring my husband back within two days?
@queendenia8067 3 жыл бұрын
Ethan Carlson contact him on WhatsApp....
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@queendenia8067 3 жыл бұрын
Ethan Carlson his name is coach Dan
@terrancehenning5749 3 жыл бұрын
Just started going through a divorce, how do I rebuild and better my life
@markwaite7805 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Terrance, sorry to hear you're going through this. It's a big question. On this channel I have a number of video's speaking to that question in parts. These videos are clearly labelled for the relevant topics. Feel free to reach out via the links in the description panel if I can help you further.
@terrancehenning5749 3 жыл бұрын
@@markwaite7805 please do, it's a rough tough road ahead and i need all the guidance I can , I'm just starting to realize that after this weekend.
@moemassy8624 2 жыл бұрын
My ex common law spouse has my son in a homeless shelter with her when I can provide full time care and a Loving Peaceful home for my 2 year old boy. She's only in the shelter because she wants a free welfare apartment and dragging my son through for no reason. In fact I Separated from her and broke the relationship off and have zero feelings toward her, but to get me back in revenge knowing I love my deeply she won't let him live with me. I have one of the top lawyers in Toronto Canada helping me. Guys stop thinking about Ex only FOCUS on being the best father
@phabeondominguez5971 Жыл бұрын
Any updates? Also, Great life advice for sure, but any advice on the actual divorce process and the financials behind it? That's my only fear now since it's seems in the good ol' USA it's favored more towards the female side..
@moemassy8624 Жыл бұрын
@@phabeondominguez5971 divorce courts will always favor the mother no matter what, but has a man you must protect yourself so she doesn't falsely accused you of anything. So by have audio recorder on your cellphone on and if she gets abusive have that on video. As for lawyers it get very expensive fast so don't fight over little things like furniture etc... Get your 50/50 custody and that's major Win. Thanks for asking about my update. My Ex got her subsidized housing apartment in October 2022. And I currently have a temporary custody in order until our next court date of 50/50
@phabeondominguez5971 Жыл бұрын
@@moemassy8624 glad to hear you got the 50/50 even if only temp, that's a start. Tho I no longer have any love for her, Me and her have no beef and won't be fighting over little things like furniture.. My issue is that I made us debt free and would have paid off mortgage in 2-3yrs too. However the cost was my retirement future, I have NOTHING to show for that, meanwhile she is sitting on 6 figures.. She can keep the house, I don't care, I'm just worried about my long term future.. any input or advise welcomed..
@godislove7500 3 жыл бұрын
I layed my hand on my spouse's shoulder one day and said to him, "Be born again in the name of Jesus." And he's been changed for the good ever since, he started believing God has a plan for his life and he isn't always out with his friends anymore. He's more respectful and open minded ever since.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver..
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.
@agelinascott8197 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems..
@Bozojimmy 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like pond scum after divorce. My child acess is not smooth. I don't get dates and at work im at the bottom of the ladder. Sometimes I don't know why I'm alive
@CoreyB777 2 жыл бұрын
Well I'm divorcing my narcissistic wife. Done being a victim! I do not regret this loss at all and in fact I feel better and relieved now that I'm going down this path. I know there is light at the end of the tunnel. It'll be tough having to start back with absolutely nothing but I will rebuild myself. I'm just fortunate that I didn't have any kids with this woman.
@withiermorin3148 2 жыл бұрын
To fix your broken relationship I can recommend you to a problem solver..
@withiermorin3148 2 жыл бұрын
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@withiermorin3148 2 жыл бұрын
He fixed my broken relationship with my husband who left me over two years ago .he have solutions to all problems,
@CoreyB777 2 жыл бұрын
I don't have or intend to use WhatsApp.
@moemassy8624 2 жыл бұрын
Rebuilding without kids in between your marriage is very very easy count your blessings my friend
@robertsanders9127 Жыл бұрын
Go thailand
@samailaibi9048 Жыл бұрын
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@godislove7500 3 жыл бұрын
Pray for her salvation and spiritual maturity every day, pray in Jesus' name every day. Always love and respect the Father God and others, no using His name in vein. Always be a faithful Tither, make sure you're Tithing to the right ministry. One of my pastors tells us to preach about Tithing to Voice of the Martyrs ministry. He said it heals families and marriages, you can try that if you want to. CBN has great utube videos about marriage healing.
@redleaderone8429 10 ай бұрын
Quit the booze get a real fun life oh and do not be repeat do not chase any woman.
@julierichens4218 Жыл бұрын
Gentlemen, on behalf of the fair sex (and let's be honest. Unless she's a genuine born-again believer, Very few women have any interest whatsoever in fairness on any level) I'd like to apologize to all of you going through divorce. I realize it's horrible for you. Perhaps I have a different perspective from most women because I have sons and brothers, but honestly, I'm sorry for your plight. I'm not making excuses for men who have legitimately done wrong and shot themselves in the foot, so to speak, but I am painfully aware that all too often, women are just hard-eyed, hard hearted, harpies just out to destroy, to practice a vicious game of parental alienation, and to take, take, take.
@alisonf6478 Жыл бұрын
I am absolutely not born again, and have complete empathy and love for those going through divorce. I asked for the bare minimum in child support, since my ex makes about twice what I make. I asked for zero of his 401k, even though we had cashed in my IRA because we needed money. We put the kids first, and we both have cozy, safe and calm homes for our kids. And split custody 50/50. Don’t diss the “fairer sex”, please.
@lindasharp8523 Ай бұрын
Don't put us all in the same boat. Most of us just want love and happiness. If your partner is narcissistic then nothing works.
@josepha9313 Жыл бұрын
It's a devastating experience esp. if you did not want the divorce. This time last year I was a millionaire with a paid off modest townhouse. After 20 yrs of marriage she decided she'd had enough. Loneliest Christmas away from my kids. I retired at 62, no longer in the workforce. It's just day after day of "what next". Plus rejection and no words from her. I did try to reconcile, she completely shut me down. It has been Hell on Earth.
@phabeondominguez5971 Жыл бұрын
How long were y'all together and what reason did she give?
@lindasharp8523 Ай бұрын
Funny how in all these video's not one man says what happened.
@TheSunshinefee 3 жыл бұрын
that's why i don't want to marry a divorced man. all their resources go to their ex wife and children, there is nothing left for you.
@rudy1999 3 жыл бұрын
Why would man even give u his money? Earn it yourself, you are grown up person.
@thecaptain8279 3 жыл бұрын
And no man would want to marry you if your first concern is what he can provide, very selfish outlook
@pedroariza7892 3 жыл бұрын
Perfect, say this to any divorced man and he will most certainly not want you either.
@matty6848 2 жыл бұрын
Well you don’t marry a man for what finances he can give you, you should marry him irrespective of what his finances are. If you love him that should be beyond money..
@sunbox4700 Жыл бұрын
@@matty6848 Not many women desire poor, greedy and homeless men for sure. If man loves a woman then he will want to provide and care.
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