Referee dealing with a parent.

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Rafal Wlazlo

Rafal Wlazlo

10 жыл бұрын

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@drago2021
@drago2021 7 жыл бұрын
Don't be a dick and don't let anyone else get away with being a dick. This ref has my respect.
@HanifCarroll
@HanifCarroll 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, there was really a lot on the line, wasn't there, Pdot?
@radradkowski5187
@radradkowski5187 7 жыл бұрын
Drago, I'm not convinced you have ever played sports because this exchange was mild as fuck. The ref is the one that lost her shit. She should have called him to the side and gave warning but instead she put him on blast in front of everyone and elevated the situation. I don't agree with any criticism towards children that isn't constructive but her response leaves alot to be desired.
@drago2021
@drago2021 7 жыл бұрын
Pdot1336 Dude, there's a difference between a sports game with adults and with children. You're a dumbass.
@smylz4348
@smylz4348 7 жыл бұрын
Rad Radkowski she gave him a warning of sending off then he made a remark at :35 mark when she turned around hence the send off.
@radradkowski5187
@radradkowski5187 7 жыл бұрын
Are we watching the same video? She starts of by blowing the whistle and then called him out in front of everyone. Her "warning" was what I was talking about. This is another example of a irrational female on a power trip, who thinks she is the voice of reason. Her job is to call the game, not police the people on the sideline for every comment they make under their breath. I say under his breath because I could barely hear a word he said and could understand her completely. She seemed to be itching to boot him from the beginning. Maybe that wasn't the whole video but from what I saw she blew it out of proportion.
@benjaminlundback8394
@benjaminlundback8394 3 жыл бұрын
What a badass, her voice was trembling and shaky but it's an uncomfortable situation in front of many people, so I get it. She handled it great.
@JonDoe-007
@JonDoe-007 3 жыл бұрын
A shook, hypersensitive, emotionally unstable referee. Total badass.
@jakeogorman5377
@jakeogorman5377 3 жыл бұрын
@@JonDoe-007 A U10, probably volunteer or at most minimum wage paid ref doing a very difficult job so 20+ kids can have a healthy, safe place to get out their energy and have fun, who has to be the responsible one and an authoritative figure in an altercation with someone who appears to be twice her age and 3x her size. That's a badass if I've ever seen one :)
@JonDoe-007
@JonDoe-007 3 жыл бұрын
@@jakeogorman5377 she had a nervous breakdown. If you're going to snap because someone on the sideline sarcastically cheered the other team then you shouldn't be a referee. As authority figures, there supposed to keep their cool. Sarcastic sideline banter doesn't meet the standard for that kind of a send off. Keep drinking the kool-aid tho.
@jakeogorman5377
@jakeogorman5377 3 жыл бұрын
@@JonDoe-007 Honestly I haven't had a glass of Kool aid in years. I'm more of a juice guy
@JonDoe-007
@JonDoe-007 3 жыл бұрын
@@jakeogorman5377 notice how you avoid every other part of my comment?
@aidena43
@aidena43 2 жыл бұрын
As a soccer former referee, this is very satisfying to watch. And she handled the situation very well
@andrewkirch5920
@andrewkirch5920 10 ай бұрын
I've done a few games, both in center and as an AR. I honestly didn't like her here. It sounded like he quipped about a foot fault. Clearly it was a foot fault and I'd have called it even in U10. Our league placed special emphasis on throw-ins, maybe others are different. Personally, I'd have let him slide assuming he hadn't been chippy the rest of the game, which obviously I can't see. Happy to be corrected though if I didn't hear something else he said before she engaged. One thing we were clear on was you do not engage after you eject, despite this ejection being very soft in my opinion, I haven't seen the rest of the game so maybe this guy was a dick from the opening whistle. You call time, eject, walk all three refs to the center spot, and wait for the person to leave to avoid EXACTLY THIS ESCALATION. Anything further is a call to the Police and a trespass. They can leave in cuffs if needed, but that's not on me.
@andrewkirch5920
@andrewkirch5920 10 ай бұрын
I think I should probably expand on when I would eject a parent. I look for a pattern of comments or disrespect. I usually ignore it if it's towards me unless I'm the AR, then I report it to the center. My thinking here is that AR's can't get away from abuse, and need to be protected by the center ref. In center I just ignore the parents unless they go at one of my AR's, then it's a warning and an ejection. I've found that in 9 cases out of 10 listening and educating the parent works often they don't know every rule. I've been amazed at how effective "this is the rule, this is what I called, we've got 3 refs on the field, and if we missed it, we're human" is at defusing a situation. If you can teach the rules maybe they don't yell at the next ref. When they continue, I get the coach and go to the parent. "I've explained the rules and the call, and you've continued. It's time for you to go". I let their coach deal with it, and as noted take the refs to center circle to create distance. If the coach needs help then that's when a call is made to the local PD which is on site for games.
@sregginetahi999
@sregginetahi999 Ай бұрын
She did not handle the situation well. She'd need to empty the whole stadium if she were to officiate a serious game with that kind of attitude. If the guy was using profanity or obstructing the play, then ofcourse you can remove him but not for some childish banter
@meangene5104
@meangene5104 2 жыл бұрын
The silence of all the other parents observing this man's embarrassing behavior spoke volumes
@creekyknee
@creekyknee 3 ай бұрын
Exactly. What a bunch of cowards. If that was in my country, his fat lily white ass would have been kicked out by the other parents long before that young woman did it. What a loser.
@OwenLennon-lz1ki
@OwenLennon-lz1ki 2 ай бұрын
agree they should have shamed him for his behavior
@sregginetahi999
@sregginetahi999 Ай бұрын
I didn't encounter any embarrassing behaviour by that man tbh
@abmac541
@abmac541 23 күн бұрын
Agree then u hear another parent say sorry dude.... smh kiss his ass already! The ref was right
@guybrushthreepwood9071
@guybrushthreepwood9071 3 жыл бұрын
Saying "Your voice is cracked" and "you sound like you're gonna cry" what a pathetic bully the other parents should have told him off
@bongo2569
@bongo2569 3 жыл бұрын
@AmpEdition "The bigger question is why she got so upset over nothing, people are so screwed up nowadays"... Are you ok? If people aren't told off, the world is gonna get more and more "screwed up". People are less "screwed up" than ever now, just because people voice their opinions. Would you make that same argument regarding the Civil War? The only way to change something is to do something about it, like voicing your opinion. His comments ruin the game, so good on her for standing up, not only for herself, but for the kids playing. Also, if he would refuse to leave, she could call the police on him for trespassing...
@Jack-fc4sz
@Jack-fc4sz 3 жыл бұрын
@@bongo2569 i think he meant that people are so soft, i agree he shouldn't have said that but imagine kicking someone out for making a sarcastic comment your job as a ref, in my league a parent and ref will literally get into a shouting battle and the ref wont kick him out or give the team a technical foul
@blanketstarry7725
@blanketstarry7725 3 жыл бұрын
@AmpEdition Are you a bully too?
@bendavalos6309
@bendavalos6309 3 жыл бұрын
@@blanketstarry7725 are you soft too?
@jimmic4000
@jimmic4000 3 жыл бұрын
@AmpEdition You fragile fake tough guys are the herpes of this nation. Get a fckn clue, junior.
@rhoonah5849
@rhoonah5849 3 жыл бұрын
"You sound like you're going to cry" What a tough guy.
@themistoklestheodosopoulos6253
@themistoklestheodosopoulos6253 3 жыл бұрын
That drove me up the wall lmaoo. I would have been on him like white on rice if I was there. Like I'll make you cry douchebag how about that.
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
@@themistoklestheodosopoulos6253 *doubt* 🤷‍♀️
@lyricalmike7162
@lyricalmike7162 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think that was him trying to be tough, more like just an observation and he pointed it out to highlight that he thinks she’s being unnecessarily emotional.
@freaking_out
@freaking_out 3 жыл бұрын
@@lyricalmike7162 he was doing that to get under her skin. Everything he was doing was to antagonize her. You don’t call a grown women girl and point out that “she’s going to cry” without trying to demean her. Imagine if someone called a grown man boy and said he looked like he was about to cry. There would probably be hands thrown at that. Disrespectful
@lyricalmike7162
@lyricalmike7162 3 жыл бұрын
@@freaking_out I don’t think calling a woman “girl” is disrespectful at all, women constantly call their female friends and even strangers that word, I don’t see the issue.
@JammyDodger45
@JammyDodger45 2 жыл бұрын
"someone didn't raise you right". Beautifully put. Kudos Ref.
@MrBellsa61
@MrBellsa61 2 жыл бұрын
You could tell at the end she was really starting to find her groove, and the parent was the one getting rattled 😂 as someone who tried reffing and couldn't handle the BS from parents I respect the HELL outta that.
@alphamale3643
@alphamale3643 2 жыл бұрын
Find her groove? she was doing amazing until the end. Thats where she went completely wrong and could not handle her emotions. I wish i stopped watching the video before the end, because i was on her side.
@vitesse_arnhem
@vitesse_arnhem 3 жыл бұрын
Young lady is tough as nails. Don’t let the cracked voice fool you. She stood up to a bully and decisively won.
@hokespearman5647
@hokespearman5647 2 жыл бұрын
Wha
@LeStephanie69
@LeStephanie69 2 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@twentytwoapocalypse6695
@twentytwoapocalypse6695 2 жыл бұрын
she pulled the woman card because shes a coward
@jamesmorrison7989
@jamesmorrison7989 2 жыл бұрын
Lmfao no she didn't. She was literally about to cry. She can't handle criticism.
@Lxndon11
@Lxndon11 2 жыл бұрын
He seemed pretty calm, to be honest. I've seen so many parents get WAY angrier at the refs. Honestly, this was nothing.
@Shane4643
@Shane4643 3 жыл бұрын
She was nervous and yes, close to breaking. All the more reason for the parent to act properly. Calling her out like that made him look like the petty child, not her.
@JonDoe-007
@JonDoe-007 3 жыл бұрын
A referee is supposed to keep their cool and be professional. It's the main focus/ key to their job. I know because Im a referee myself. She literally had a nervous breakdown over nothing. If you were to stop a game and argue with a fan/parent over something so petty as sideline banter, than you'd be kicking out people every 5 min. If the individual is unruly, using profanity, or otherwise impeding the game to some degree, then you swiftly address the issue by issuing a stern warning and if he/she continues you expell them. You don't argue and you definitely don't breakdown emotionally. She's emotionally unstable and you're ridiculous for defending her.
@Shane4643
@Shane4643 3 жыл бұрын
@@JonDoe-007 She's probably a volunteer and it's a peewee game. She's not a professional referree. If she was and this was a setting between adults or even teens, i'd buy your argument. But it's not.
@kimberlyakin8908
@kimberlyakin8908 3 жыл бұрын
@@JonDoe-007 No Your a fool Because You Have No Idea what was said By him or if she has had to deal with Him and Like him or even if she was attacked before. Also she didn't have a Break down . she was nervous and Had a treble In her voice But she didn't scream cry or even swear. so Your saying that being Nervous is a break down Your a idiot. So I think Your" I'm superior Because I'm a ref bla bla" is BS. But as a ref and a Human Being I would think You Might be more charitable But Your Just a better than so I'm Not surprised. Your sexist comments show your probably Not even a ref. If you are Have You see the videos of ref's Being attacked at peewee football games or IN the Parking lot . Then You Might know why she is nervous.
3 жыл бұрын
@@JonDoe-007 If the reality is that you would be kicking people out every 5 mins, parental idiocy is still the bigger problem, not the referee. Hopefully those kids won't grow up to be adults that banter on the sidelines, and that's the lesson here.
@JonDoe-007
@JonDoe-007 3 жыл бұрын
@ the lesson here is as a referee you don't engage in a petty arguments with the fans. He wasn't even yelling or talking directly at her until she engaged him. She handled it like a stubborn spoiled brat and apparently you're an apologist for such.
@jack4640
@jack4640 2 жыл бұрын
So much credit to the ref. She’s obviously shaken up by it but she keeps her cool, resolves things quickly and gets on with the game. Nicely done.
@aaccrr78
@aaccrr78 2 жыл бұрын
She’s so awesome, standing up to a genuine grown-ass bully. I feel so bad for his kid, that shit’s gotta be embarrassing.
@stevenanderson8912
@stevenanderson8912 3 жыл бұрын
To hell with that guy. He is one of those dads who has to live vicariously through their kid because of their failures in life. I’m glad she stood up for herself.
@johnsimmons8456
@johnsimmons8456 3 жыл бұрын
He’s a loser. Losers stay losing and mad.
@jeshbates2993
@jeshbates2993 3 жыл бұрын
@@johnsimmons8456 exactly
@JonDoe-007
@JonDoe-007 3 жыл бұрын
Projecting much?
@fartrellcluggins
@fartrellcluggins 3 жыл бұрын
Poor kids got no chance
@jimmic4000
@jimmic4000 3 жыл бұрын
@@JonDoe-007 Nope. Just facts.
@seansullivan7928
@seansullivan7928 3 жыл бұрын
Having your voice Crack like that isn't a sign of being scared, the adrenaline does it to everyone. If you don't have adrenaline going through you there's something wrong with you. She held it together very good
@frenstcht
@frenstcht 2 жыл бұрын
Good point.
@fabriziob3553
@fabriziob3553 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah... but she was for sure about to cry. And she did for sure think about this for like a week while the man forgot when he got home
@frenstcht
@frenstcht 2 жыл бұрын
@@fabriziob3553 _snort_ That goon still ruminates about it today. He probably has nightmares about being put in his place by a girl.
@fabriziob3553
@fabriziob3553 2 жыл бұрын
@@frenstcht he was calm all the way wdym? She was the one stressed
@frenstcht
@frenstcht 2 жыл бұрын
@@fabriziob3553 Uh-huh.
@indo3000
@indo3000 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up playing soccer all through the 90s. I give props to her. As I’m older I could never imagine talking to the younger referees the way some of the parents did back then.
@bhamsoxfan72
@bhamsoxfan72 7 ай бұрын
Back then? It continues to the present, and will continue in the future. Until leagues, clubs, and\or other parents put the pressure on losers like this guy, it will not end. Now, some leagues and clubs are taking steps - suspensions for parents who get removed from the touchline, fines, even requiring parents who have been removed to officiate games before they're allowed back to the fields. It's a small number, but it's a start; and if it catches on, it could really make a difference.
@noschitt1
@noschitt1 2 жыл бұрын
The foot was over the line, “this isn’t Nam smoky, there are rules”
@simonjdouglass1978
@simonjdouglass1978 3 жыл бұрын
That is why I stopped working with kids... THE PARENTS
@drew7564
@drew7564 3 жыл бұрын
Yuppers, I totally understand that comment and I have been in her boots .
@BaffinSailor
@BaffinSailor 3 жыл бұрын
This is any kids sports. Don’t matter what the parents suck.
@stump1897
@stump1897 3 жыл бұрын
I’m looking to coach youth sports in an orphanage
@siriosstar4789
@siriosstar4789 3 жыл бұрын
This is why i stopped showing my great danes at dog shows ,, the humans .😂
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
I thought it was because you caught that charge in the rectory After school that day
@tomedodson
@tomedodson 3 жыл бұрын
Brave strong young Woman going up against a bully. The fact that she was obviously nervous about the confrontation is even more inspiring. Stepping up and out of her comfort zone for the sake of the kids.
@computerjantje
@computerjantje 3 жыл бұрын
absolutely right
@paddlefar9175
@paddlefar9175 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, she was awesome. That man child was pathetic.
@DougHinVA
@DougHinVA 3 жыл бұрын
I hope her boyfriend/husband tells her repeatedly how much he loves her and realizes how damm good he has it.
@adamhumphrey4084
@adamhumphrey4084 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree. Her nervousness should only add to the courage she showed.
@DELL.ACNT.
@DELL.ACNT. 3 жыл бұрын
For as nervous as she sounded, she didn't fumble her words and was quick with the comebacks.
@JDpowerpower
@JDpowerpower 8 ай бұрын
Amazing ref standing her ground. Super proud of her!
@seanwickham8905
@seanwickham8905 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing to see some people defending the dad like he's entitled to act however he wants. It's bad enough teenagers feel this way, but when people never grow out of it, shame on their parents. We have a referee shortage in all sports, but no shortage of asshole parents.
@theodorev666
@theodorev666 2 жыл бұрын
@Rachel Leigh Cook "When you forget to switch off from your troll profile"
@copperfish543
@copperfish543 2 жыл бұрын
Act like a ref not a cop.
@humbleopinion1499
@humbleopinion1499 2 жыл бұрын
@@copperfish543 what a silly comment.
@lavantwooten2581
@lavantwooten2581 2 жыл бұрын
I thought he just said "good call". There has to be some pretext to this. Problem I have is she removed him, but she was all emotion. Her own actions kept this going beyond what was needed.
@humbleopinion1499
@humbleopinion1499 2 жыл бұрын
@@lavantwooten2581 but, no doubt it would be a good lesson to the offending parent - and to others. Don't be a asshole - or you'll be removed. Simple direct lesson - and this display shows she means it.
@GlennMarshallnz
@GlennMarshallnz 3 жыл бұрын
The saddest part... only one parent spoke up in support. The other parents standing or sitting in silence are also part of the problem.
@piday9633
@piday9633 3 жыл бұрын
Although it would be nice of them to side with her, they shouldn’t be expected to enter an issue that doesn’t involve them. They have a choice to speak up and deal with the situation, but aren’t obligated to do so. I can agree with everything up until the part where they become part of the problem.
@LilSwag1
@LilSwag1 3 жыл бұрын
what problem? there is no problem and that man did not do anything. When I played soccer as a kid parents of both teams screamed all the time and none of us players gave a shit about it. snowflakes
@GlennMarshallnz
@GlennMarshallnz 3 жыл бұрын
@@LilSwag1 "What problem" The problem is that its not acceptable to yell abuse at a referee that is refereeing a kids game, and is doing so as a volunteer. Also think about the poor kid playing who would have been highly embarrassed by their parents actions. What happened back in your day when you played as a kid is irrelevant, because things change with the times. Youth sport is about developing the player and developing the person, which includes things like respect for the refs and opposition.
@hatch1892
@hatch1892 3 жыл бұрын
@@LilSwag1 your a snowflake if you think that boys behavior is acceptable. Referee was spot on.
@010151010
@010151010 3 жыл бұрын
@@LilSwag1 you know whatever someone says is cringe if they unironically use snowflake. U10 is under 10 and this guy's supposed to be a dad. Imagine defending this freak LOL
@rayrobinson6719
@rayrobinson6719 3 жыл бұрын
The disrespect that referees have to deal with is mind boggling
@andrewserrano921
@andrewserrano921 3 жыл бұрын
If they did their volunteer job right they wouldn't be told things. Just because you volunteer dnt mean you shouldn't know anything about the game. If I volunteer to go help feed the homeless but I dnt give them their FAIR share. Or start eating their food. Is it OK because I'm a... volunteer??? No... if I volunteer o better do the job RIGHT.
@w2l709
@w2l709 3 жыл бұрын
@@andrewserrano921 It's an under 10s football match. Is it really worth causing a scene and disrupting what's supposed to be a bit of fun for the kids, all over a refereeing decision you don't like?
@rhyangriffiths5398
@rhyangriffiths5398 2 жыл бұрын
@@andrewserrano921 so I suppose you haven't refereed a game before??
@andrewserrano921
@andrewserrano921 2 жыл бұрын
@LMTV it's not a job tho. It's "volunteer" work. Lmao sounds like you R the child. "Job" lol
@andrewserrano921
@andrewserrano921 2 жыл бұрын
@@rhyangriffiths5398 I know what the rules are lol
@randycassidy198
@randycassidy198 Жыл бұрын
She gave him exactly what he needed! Kudos to her.
@Gambit._.
@Gambit._. Ай бұрын
Ah yes, the “you look horrible” card because he couldn’t deal with being kicked out of a u10 game😂😂😂
@cyclesmoking
@cyclesmoking 3 жыл бұрын
Keep in mind, the was an “Under 10” years old league. Dad needs to get some perspective 🙄.
@FavreianVengeance
@FavreianVengeance 3 жыл бұрын
The U10 games are actually some of the worst to ref. The fields are smaller and the parents are on top of the action; and many haven't learned how to chill out yet like for the older kids.
@ecall1771
@ecall1771 3 жыл бұрын
Dad needed another Dad to come over and slap him off his chair.
@ianmarsden1130
@ianmarsden1130 3 жыл бұрын
This guy couldn't spell purspekiv.
@jf5618
@jf5618 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah…U10 is when the kids are supposed to learn the rules of the game rather than simply make them up as they go. Imagine the kid who threw the ball in a clear foot inside the playing field, simply ran the ball towards the goal and threw it into the net. Gold star?
@themistoklestheodosopoulos6253
@themistoklestheodosopoulos6253 3 жыл бұрын
Dad needs a time machine to relive his youth apparently.
@daveclaude1412
@daveclaude1412 2 жыл бұрын
Good job. I’m a referee and she handled it like a boss. There’s times where I’d like to give them a piece of my mind. I have had this happen a couple times.
@jCd1058
@jCd1058 2 жыл бұрын
I reffed soccer for 23 years as an adult. My training taught me to have the coach deal with the parent. I admire her composure, but she spent too long talking to dad, almost goading him. Giving pops a piece of her mind is dangerous nowadays. I mentored many young refs and would have told her to instruct him to leave, halt the game, advise the coach of her decision and have him/her make sure pops left the area. For her sake, she better have documented the incident objectively and completely and presented a full report to her ref assignor/coordinator and to the league or tournament director. That's the only way she can cover herself and ensure that someone in authority deals with the problem.
@daveclaude1412
@daveclaude1412 2 жыл бұрын
@@jCd1058 yeah you’re right.
@daveclaude1412
@daveclaude1412 2 жыл бұрын
@@jCd1058 I do basketball and so I don’t know how they handle other sports but I normally would have administrator do it. There have been times where it’s been hard tough. I meant she did good at maintaining her composure.
@kezminnufc
@kezminnufc 2 жыл бұрын
She was mint Dave
@aidena43
@aidena43 2 жыл бұрын
Same, usually parents who act like this are trying to live through their kids. It is quite sad to see knowing their kid will be the exact same.
@ntfuller1163
@ntfuller1163 2 жыл бұрын
Good for the ref! That guy was a clown. Glad she stood up to him.
@yb3604
@yb3604 Ай бұрын
the outplay was cemented when he told her to keep waving her hand and she happily did it
@johnnyleaf788
@johnnyleaf788 8 жыл бұрын
Good ref,protect our children playing. Grown up's acting like fools in front of the kids. Fair play to the ref.
@BeeHash
@BeeHash 6 жыл бұрын
johnny leaf here here
@isuckinschool501
@isuckinschool501 4 жыл бұрын
When you realize that the children tackle each other and injure each other
@netherking3622
@netherking3622 3 жыл бұрын
true wut could she done is go to the coach and say coach this guy needs to leave you have three minutes then go to the center if its not done after three minutes games over
@jonylawson73
@jonylawson73 3 жыл бұрын
Well no ..she was a shit referee..he has a point ..either referee or don't ..don't dress up like one
@johnsitek3836
@johnsitek3836 3 жыл бұрын
@@jonylawson73 because she missed a foul throw in during an U-10 match? Get real
@jayseaborg3895
@jayseaborg3895 3 жыл бұрын
Could not help but notice that not one other parent told that guy to shut his mouth and get out. As an ex-coach I can tell you that the old joke about the best coaching job being for the Orphanage team is not a joke. it's how most coaches feel. It has to be even worse for the officials.
@mikereppert97
@mikereppert97 3 жыл бұрын
We had a father like this at one of the youth football orginazations I coached with, we (the coaching staff) ended up forcefully removing him from the field and eventually he ended up in the back of a police suv.
@briansimpson8116
@briansimpson8116 3 жыл бұрын
It's not the job of the other parents to get a beat down from an immature one. It got handled correctly by the correct person.
@vancouver4sure
@vancouver4sure 3 жыл бұрын
Ya that would make it better...
@hhusko1458
@hhusko1458 3 жыл бұрын
What did he say? I didn't hear him speak before she started the dialogue.
@captainlanguste
@captainlanguste 2 жыл бұрын
@@briansimpson8116 it is and it's called beeing a decent human. if you would get your ass beaten, would you like to get help from people or should everybody just say "nah it's a job for a cop"?
@winksongs
@winksongs 4 ай бұрын
Good work ref. The only thing she did wrong was to get into a conversation with this fool. Send him off, walk out of earshot, stop the game until he's gone.
@Spec62
@Spec62 2 жыл бұрын
Great job. She handled it professionally. Proud of her.
@aydan0161
@aydan0161 2 жыл бұрын
The fact he thinks getting someone upset/angry is a win at his age is actually so embarrassing. It’s not her fault you got a sad life bro
@aydan0161
@aydan0161 2 жыл бұрын
@Miguel Cisneros crying is involuntary in some… hardly a maturity thing when it can’t be helped.
@alida1734
@alida1734 2 жыл бұрын
You frixking Idiot😂😂😂😂😂 Theres multiple Versions in Jesus crying in Cross, crying with His people and YOU fool think crying ist for little Girls😂 pathetic
@aydan0161
@aydan0161 2 жыл бұрын
@Miguel Cisneros referencing Jesus Christ to try and advance your argument is 100% a sign of intellectual immaturity
@daviddavis8965
@daviddavis8965 2 жыл бұрын
@Miguel Cisneros Yes he did he cried out in a moment of weakness and asked his father why he had forsaken him.
@zjp28
@zjp28 2 жыл бұрын
@Miguel Cisneros thats some retarded shit dude. $10 he cried like a little bitch...another $10 says this boss chick would of made the Sanhedrin, Pontius Pilate and the romans go the fuck home.
@BrazenBullXXX
@BrazenBullXXX 8 жыл бұрын
She's incredibly nice for even the giving the warning and he makes a smart ass remark two seconds later. What class.
@Ben-qu8pn
@Ben-qu8pn 3 жыл бұрын
Seems to me she threw a fit and made a scene because he pointed out her mistake. She was clapping her hands at him while he remained calm and reasonable as she demanded he leave.
@excelsiorcroissant
@excelsiorcroissant 3 жыл бұрын
​@@Ben-qu8pn So to you poking at someone, making snarky remarks and overall acting like an entitled brat at that age... _is_ being 'reasonable' and 'calm'? He's gonna stand up for himself, sure, but that's not being 'reasonable' or 'calm'. When in the first place you were being rude to someone else who didn't deserve it, someone that you don't even know, and you defend that, you're just being an assbrain. 0:52 You call that being 'calm and reasonable', or being a clown?
3 жыл бұрын
@Imgladandrew gillumisnotmykang She's a kid. He is immature.
@matthew6905
@matthew6905 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ben-qu8pn agreed
@rhut7243
@rhut7243 3 жыл бұрын
She was being a bitch.
@YEA_right_M
@YEA_right_M 2 жыл бұрын
Good on her. As much it would’ve been awkward and embarrassing we need more people like this to stand up and have their say
@joeyfarris2543
@joeyfarris2543 Жыл бұрын
I'm proud of this young lady for standing her ground and also for being a great referee. She's got a very bright future ahead of her and I see her becoming a professional soccer referee in the future 😎👍
@drew8914
@drew8914 3 жыл бұрын
He kept calling her "girl" trying to get under her skin 😂 as that "girl" is kicking him off the field because he couldn't compose himself for a U10 game lmaoo
@Jen-lc5yc
@Jen-lc5yc 3 жыл бұрын
Noticed that too. Then said " relax" and tried to insinuate something about her body language. Nasty parent.
@relic69
@relic69 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, seen it way too many times. Handled like a true professional. House league under 10, seriously. That young lady deserves an award and certainly will be successful in life.
@checkoutmyobnoxiousallcaps4940
@checkoutmyobnoxiousallcaps4940 3 жыл бұрын
He called her girl three times, the first time was totally harmless, the second time was responding to her asking him what he called her, the third time was to annoy her when at that point it had become a pissing contest
@checkoutmyobnoxiousallcaps4940
@checkoutmyobnoxiousallcaps4940 3 жыл бұрын
@@relic69 I don't know about all that... She implied that she should get special treatment because she's young and a lady, and implied that he was corrupt due to bad parenting and she was far too hypersensitive about being called girl. All of that kind of stuff has the potential of escalating situations like that where they're out of control. Here's where people say what's she supposed to do, let people walk all over her? No, that's the opposite extreme. There's just better ways that she could have handled it. The way she was acting, I think she was having a panic attack or perhaps a manic episode
@pianoman4967
@pianoman4967 3 жыл бұрын
@@checkoutmyobnoxiousallcaps4940 You're getting a bit carried away with all the "implied" palaver. You're doing a lot of guessing and missing the point. He was obnoxious (maybe you're related) and got called on it. You, like him, are a little miffed coz a "girl" can put a thoughtless loser in his place.
@davidred1809
@davidred1809 7 жыл бұрын
In my experience in officiating for around ten years; the younger the kids, the worse the parents are.
@cjsteg3623
@cjsteg3623 3 жыл бұрын
And the worse they are
@albertol9654
@albertol9654 7 ай бұрын
That Dad got treated 😂. Im proud of that lady not taking any crap from that miserable parent.
@Sleepingporchdog
@Sleepingporchdog 2 жыл бұрын
God bless this young lady. It’s not easy to be an agent of change. I hope others have followed her example on how to add value and class to sport.
@MinionMcgee
@MinionMcgee 7 жыл бұрын
best ref i've ever seen
@potter3439
@potter3439 3 жыл бұрын
JHY - TheBlackPanther Yup, She’s one of the best. If this ref were my daughter, I’d be damn proud, plus I’d be helping her officiate, if she tossed someone, I’d make sure they leave
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
I was on her side at first, then she started acting like an entitled, sensitive little baby and attempted to antagonize him further, when he was complying. The guy was being reasonable and leaving, but she couldn't shut her mouth long enough to allow him to do so- so she ended up almost causing herself to cry because she had to be a sensitive l I l feminist. She's just as immature as he was being at the beginning.
@jdmahurin
@jdmahurin 3 жыл бұрын
@@lockandloadlikehell You have GOT to be kidding. You'd be well served to remember the words of 'ol Honest Abe. You could have gone about your life, pretending not to be a worthless jackass, with none of us being the wiser. But you just HAD to go and open your mouth...and now everyone knows.
@chrisharbutt8497
@chrisharbutt8497 3 жыл бұрын
@@lockandloadlikehell I agree. She handled it perfectly at the start... then she carried on. Kick the guy out and get on with the game.
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
@Gregarious Your little tantrum was funny- just like the two little babies featured here.
@anonymoussources8803
@anonymoussources8803 3 жыл бұрын
What a professional way to handle a man who never learned how to behave. Young lady, that was well handled. 👍👍
@dkz1302
@dkz1302 3 жыл бұрын
Um no.. if she can’t handle the slightest pressure from the bench at a regular game, then idk what kind of good job she’s doing as a ref. Can u imagine refs in professional football leagues sending off every single fan they feel offended by? She needs to focus on the game and learn to deal with people not agreeing with her decisions instead of turning her focus on them... bruh
@anonymoussources8803
@anonymoussources8803 3 жыл бұрын
@@dkz1302 Um, apples and oranges bruh. NFL games have grown men playing the game with numerous police providing security and professional paid refs. And even in NFL games, when fans break the rules they get kicked out. Happens fairly often for many reasons. And those fans paid big bucks to get in. This is a young woman ref in a kid's league with no security of any kind. Apparently you have never been involved with these kid's leagues but they have rules governing crowd behavior. A fan who breaks the rules can be asked to leave and the guy left. He was warned before being kicked out. I'm not sure why you think this guy should be allowed to violate the rules and disturb the players and other fans. This has nothing to do with the ref being offended, it has to do with the kids playing the game, being able to focus and not having one fan disrupt the game which required the ref to enforce the rules. If the ref didn't have the authority to kick the guy out, he wouldnt have left.
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
@@anonymoussources8803 you can say whatever you want to players or refs as an NFL fan- difference is the players don't bitch and almost start bawling
@anonymoussources8803
@anonymoussources8803 3 жыл бұрын
@@lockandloadlikehell NFL players would have to jump the wall to get to fans. I have seen a few NBA games where players went after fans, mostly for shit like throwing drinks on the players.
@p.sandratangkulung6451
@p.sandratangkulung6451 3 жыл бұрын
@@dkz1302 this isn't a regular game, and it's about a disrespectful attitude, a sarcastic comment to a KID'S GAME.
@nordelander8896
@nordelander8896 2 жыл бұрын
She handled that like a champ! This is one of those dads who get in the way of their childrens future. Good coaches and programs recruit parents too buddy.
@davidhackett7106
@davidhackett7106 6 ай бұрын
You tried so hard to look like a bad ass in front of the other parents, and you got tossed by the ref. I loved every second of this video.
@johnvandemark7490
@johnvandemark7490 Ай бұрын
I've watched this video 5 times now and still have no idea what the ref was mad at looked like the parent was just into the game what did I miss
@curtmcguire5431
@curtmcguire5431 2 жыл бұрын
She handled that extremely well. And at her age, outstanding. I can guarantee you, that parent has never officiated a game of any kind in their life.
@copperfish543
@copperfish543 2 жыл бұрын
You sure about that?
@AmenYeshua
@AmenYeshua 2 жыл бұрын
@@copperfish543 Sure hope he hasn’t!
@krishnan-resurrection714
@krishnan-resurrection714 2 жыл бұрын
the old guy is Abraham Fienstein and he has officiated on many Little League baseball games over the years ...but never soccer
@Robert-Downey-Syndrome
@Robert-Downey-Syndrome 2 жыл бұрын
She handled it terribly
@patrickobrien8851
@patrickobrien8851 2 жыл бұрын
@@Robert-Downey-Syndrome She did the right thing. Get him out of there. He is unable to shut up, so that speaks volumes about his character, in this situation. No graciousness in him, period. 99 to 1 he wouldn't have picked on a guy that way. He is a "big guy" in every way that doesn't matter.
@Botshapa
@Botshapa 7 жыл бұрын
It didn't sound like she wanted to cry it sounded like she was full of anger and tried to speak as calmly as possible. She handled it with pure class
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
She was about to break down, have a tantrum, and cry- you could feel the humidity breaking
@Spookrider100
@Spookrider100 3 жыл бұрын
Pure class 🤣🤣🤣 she behaved like the triggered Karen she knows she is, pathetic.
@AviatorJohn70
@AviatorJohn70 Ай бұрын
Wow, this young lady has my respect. She handled the situation very well. The grown man is a bully and an absolute embarrassment.
@charlesbunten2588
@charlesbunten2588 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be like that when I was young , I would get so angry my voice would crack and I would come to tears but it was still on. Haha
@bubbledreams6382
@bubbledreams6382 3 жыл бұрын
Calling her “girl” was to make himself feel bigger. He didn’t like getting reprimanded by a college kid half his age.
@kellychamberlain6093
@kellychamberlain6093 2 жыл бұрын
Bubble Brain you mean
@KittyDipper
@KittyDipper 2 жыл бұрын
no older person wants a younger person to tell them what to do or anything. they act like age is a badge of higher authority
@kellychamberlain6093
@kellychamberlain6093 2 жыл бұрын
@@KittyDipper What did he do to get ejected. I watched it at least 10 times. If he was rude OK but I didn't see him do anything. Just a rude Ref.
@tedunguent156
@tedunguent156 2 жыл бұрын
@@kellychamberlain6093 You are as dumb as a post. "Watch it at least 10 times." What happened BEFORE the video starts?
@kellychamberlain6093
@kellychamberlain6093 2 жыл бұрын
@@tedunguent156 That is what I am asking. Everybody is commenting without seeing the whole video. This is how the people jump on bandwagons. Of coarse if he was rude BEFORE than OK, but that's not what we see here. Stop making up what happened before the Vid started
@matthewaltman8698
@matthewaltman8698 9 жыл бұрын
Ref was 100% right to dismiss but weakened her case by continuing the dialogue.
@kevinherndon5072
@kevinherndon5072 9 жыл бұрын
***** what 'racial remarks'?
@grahammurdock5111
@grahammurdock5111 8 жыл бұрын
Kevin Herndon The exaggerated head swivel, for one
@JordanBeagle
@JordanBeagle 7 жыл бұрын
Matthew Altman Yeah, she should've just told him to leave and called that that. Instead chirping him back and forth, either way, bravo to her.
@potter3439
@potter3439 7 жыл бұрын
Pdot1336 She did right, the old man was taunting the ref and just couldn't stop so she cracked down on his behaviour like a boss
@Deac-wn8vn
@Deac-wn8vn 3 жыл бұрын
@@SkinaBowah The head and neck movements are meant to mock black women mannerisms and calling her "girl" was sexist. He would not have called a male ref "boy"
@joshmuggleton
@joshmuggleton Жыл бұрын
She is my hero!! That is a young woman who has been brought up right
@BobGymlan
@BobGymlan 2 жыл бұрын
This would’ve been front page news if it happened in the last 5 years. If you know what I mean…
@jessefry2266
@jessefry2266 8 жыл бұрын
"Somebody didn't raise you right" - damn straight girl well done
@bobharold86
@bobharold86 3 жыл бұрын
Was she something other than a girl?
@jjleggs744
@jjleggs744 3 жыл бұрын
@@bobharold86 he said it disrespectfully
@danielsanchezaldana7255
@danielsanchezaldana7255 3 жыл бұрын
@Dane Name it just is boy.
@danielsanchezaldana7255
@danielsanchezaldana7255 3 жыл бұрын
@Dane Name triggered you enough to give me a whole backstory.boy it’s one thing to have your dad say it when your actually a boy and another to have a stranger tell you that when you’re a grown man. Obviously you got the point.
@danielsanchezaldana7255
@danielsanchezaldana7255 3 жыл бұрын
@Dane Name it’s common sense no grown man wants he called a boy use your head for once boy. I assume your a boy because you clearly don’t think like a man.
@oilcanboyd1557
@oilcanboyd1557 3 жыл бұрын
It was more adrenaline in her voice than anything. I have six sisters....she was not intimidated by any means 👍
@hotlavafse6932
@hotlavafse6932 3 жыл бұрын
keep telling yourself that
@TheCrittercam001
@TheCrittercam001 3 жыл бұрын
Yep and it worked...made the dumbass do the walk of shame in front of everyone LOL♥
@streettravelxxi
@streettravelxxi 3 жыл бұрын
@@hotlavafse6932 bruh why are people defending the fathers actions thats just morally low to ruin ur kids game by not being able to stfu
@rhut7243
@rhut7243 3 жыл бұрын
When I played footy the crowd was always cheering and saying shit, I used it to play better. Been to a under 15s game recently and it was so quiet I hated it.
@jamierose3464
@jamierose3464 3 жыл бұрын
@@hotlavafse6932 yes, defend the toxic masculinity
@TheMacC117
@TheMacC117 2 жыл бұрын
The most disrespectful part of this was that none of the other parents stepped in to help her.
@Empyre210
@Empyre210 8 ай бұрын
She held composure even thought you could hear her voice. Good for her and shame on the other parents for not saying anything
@_xXBillyXx_
@_xXBillyXx_ 9 жыл бұрын
Dad: your voice is cracking Referee: goodbye
@lgarcia67
@lgarcia67 3 жыл бұрын
My son played competitive soccer since he was 8 until the end of high school. He played up to the state level and several international tournaments with other academies. Matches were very competitive. We always had situations like this one. There is ALWAYS a parent who is trying to live through his/her kid. I was the manager of the team for a couple of years and never did it again. It was really nice and very special to work with the kids; parents, on the other hand, were an awful thing to deal with. I think I could write a book! It always amazed me that it was the other way instead of being easier to deal with the adults. Absolutely crazy.
@-BuddyGuy
@-BuddyGuy Ай бұрын
"Someone didn't raise you right, see ya." Absolutely correct
@skeemarty
@skeemarty 2 жыл бұрын
Shoutout to whoever raised her
@magicpony9
@magicpony9 2 жыл бұрын
Very impressed with the way the young lady handled herself. Someone raised her right.
@victorvalladares571
@victorvalladares571 7 жыл бұрын
Bad father, bad adult, bad person. Oh I forgot poor excuse for a man.
@danielmoorefield5371
@danielmoorefield5371 3 жыл бұрын
Your sorry stupid ignorant opinion
@beastywild
@beastywild 3 жыл бұрын
@@danielmoorefield5371 Were you the dad in this video by any chance?
@calebsdad0315
@calebsdad0315 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. He's a complete asshat. If I would've been there I would've told him to shut his dumb mouth
@namastezen3300
@namastezen3300 3 жыл бұрын
you also forgot as-wipe
@andrewf.1598
@andrewf.1598 3 жыл бұрын
I think that’s maybe a slight overreaction
@teddyhickey4484
@teddyhickey4484 2 жыл бұрын
Proud of her. Glad she removed the clown from the game.
@mikedobson5308
@mikedobson5308 2 жыл бұрын
Guy wants to comment but probably would never have the balls to ref. Props to her for handling him
@abbacheese6797
@abbacheese6797 9 жыл бұрын
YOU GO GIRL. Guys, I am sooo sick of parents at my soccer games yelling at the ref, and at a couple of my games, parents were yelling at my team, and the ref. It's about time parents start acting like parents, because right now, the way they are acting is not okay. This world needs to do something about it.
@smegoffgoogle7294
@smegoffgoogle7294 9 жыл бұрын
Nothing happened you halfwit.
@potter3439
@potter3439 7 жыл бұрын
I umpired my brothers games a lot and one time I had to toss my mother for chirping at me and threatening to slap me, so I laid the charge of threatening an official. Dad understood because he played ball so after the game he just ran me and a friend to my friends house after we got paid, Before he did drop us off, We decided to go into Burger king for a bite and we further discussed the situation, Dad asked me what I figures would happen so I told him that we'll know when the head league officials, He assured me that I was in the right, mom should not have been causing a disturbance at the game. My Brother started going to games with his teammates. I apologized to my brother for moms behavior, my brother told me no worries. I didn't go back home until the league disciplined my mother.
@noneofyourbuisness3573
@noneofyourbuisness3573 3 жыл бұрын
Her response made him look like such a clown😂😂😂
@Larry-tl6vw
@Larry-tl6vw 2 жыл бұрын
Ref did great, she handled it perfect…..
@networkbike543
@networkbike543 2 жыл бұрын
Finally somebody had the balls to call him out.
@jamesmccarn7775
@jamesmccarn7775 2 жыл бұрын
I have 30 years of youth sports experience from 5yrs old to college baseball...either as a coach, Director and umpire/referee. Parents got worse year by year and sadly so did the kids. I never enjoyed tossing a kid from a game but I sure as hell enjoyed tossing an ignorant parent or spectator.
@rickkimball6125
@rickkimball6125 2 жыл бұрын
Same here. I was always a little sad when I had to toss a kid but tossing a belligerent coach or parent? I saw it as doing community service. Oh and BTW, the other parents who sat there and let this guy bully the ref? They should take a long look in the mirror, too. Right is right and what that guy was doing was straight bullying. He's VERY lucky that girl's dad isn't at the park because he'd rightly take a butt whipping if so.
@jakesully5402
@jakesully5402 2 жыл бұрын
@@rickkimball6125 This referee handled the uncomfortable situation PERFECTLY ! Asshole parent got his butt whooped; ref didn’t need her dad to help handle this idiot. (Although, a physical whooping would have nicely accompanied the verbal one he got…)
@chrishayes5755
@chrishayes5755 2 жыл бұрын
I'm the director of a youth sports organization for the past 55 years.. I maybe an old chunk of coal in the eyes of the youth but I still enjoy refereeing from time to time if my arthritis isn't flaring up. Parents and kids can really act out of line during the games. I never enjoy tossing a kid from the game, but I do enjoy throwing them over my shoulder, spinning around in circles real fast, then throwing them up in the air and as they drop down I hit them with the stone cold stunner.
@davidcurtis5398
@davidcurtis5398 2 жыл бұрын
While working a young ladies middle school game there was a fan that was using such profanity that I just had to ask him to "cool it' at half time. I was low key about it but he decided to cuss me out. I quietly went to the AD and asked him to eliminate this fan. He did and that was the end. I found out later that a man 2 rows up from him was his principal. I have always wondered what happened after the game.
@kojomack2512
@kojomack2512 2 жыл бұрын
Oh you're that guy... Me: I just got back from vacation You: meh I just got back from Mars....
@streettravelxxi
@streettravelxxi 3 жыл бұрын
Ive been reffing 7 years now started when I was 13 unfortunately there are many parents like this who are super rude and ruining the game for no reason she handled it very well much better than I did my first few times. Now whenever this happens I give them one warning or I tell them I wont continue the game till they leave. She did an amazing job U10 can be difficult not because play level but because of parents bitching and no ARs to help
@towritemichelle210
@towritemichelle210 2 жыл бұрын
I think "someone didn't raise you right" is an under statement. Very well dealt with! Glad it's on tape.
@emmareid8693
@emmareid8693 2 жыл бұрын
shes amazing!!!! good on her for handling it so well!!!
@boomer3434
@boomer3434 4 жыл бұрын
Typical parent- Sits there and passes judgement- Hey buddy why dont you umpire since you know it all. You rock girl. Way to give it to him.
@incomingc9111
@incomingc9111 3 жыл бұрын
@@clydefloyd8751 girl
@clydefloyd8751
@clydefloyd8751 3 жыл бұрын
@@incomingc9111 lol I was gonna troll but not enough traffic here to do that
@omarbaca3435
@omarbaca3435 3 жыл бұрын
Dad, your kid must be sooo proud of you. He’s looking forward to see you in all of his games 👍🏼
@MannixM
@MannixM Ай бұрын
Respect to the ref and she handles it well
@northwestprof60
@northwestprof60 2 жыл бұрын
the ref was SO insecure, her voice was shaking, she knew she was in over her head
@johnwalker2826
@johnwalker2826 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is a sad example of parenting.
@hurpaderpp
@hurpaderpp 2 жыл бұрын
he literally said "nice try" in a non sarcastic tone and she blew up and started going off on him
@finnkdy
@finnkdy 2 жыл бұрын
assistant low-level low-level corporate anti ~ dude. ( the pair prob.)
@KonadorAuchindoun
@KonadorAuchindoun 2 жыл бұрын
meh i wouldnt call him a bad guy, hes there to support a kid but he just got too into it like dudes usually do with their football teams even tho they could never achieve the physical or fit aspect of the sport lmao
@jimreadey4837
@jimreadey4837 2 жыл бұрын
We don't know what he did to warrant her warnings and ejection, do we? I know he got petty in this video... on the other hand, so did she.
@bigboymatthew7471
@bigboymatthew7471 2 жыл бұрын
He literally didnt even do anything, but at least he’s not a virgin like you
@Realbillball
@Realbillball 2 жыл бұрын
She's a badass! The right stuff. I want her to be a referee at my club.
@LionelMessi-ct7tu
@LionelMessi-ct7tu 5 ай бұрын
Well done to her! This bully was totally embarrassed.
@etxn7598
@etxn7598 2 жыл бұрын
That referee was doing a great job. That parent on the other hand... I had a game vs a really good team and they were nice. And a parent on the team (me and my friend think they were insanely drunk) tried to have a fight with my coach because my team mate accidentally missed a tackle. And the referee handled it like a champ then and here. Good job reff!
@seanwickham8905
@seanwickham8905 2 жыл бұрын
Dad is pissed that his son isn't putting on a helmet and slowly working towards developing CTE.
@MichaelClark-uw7ex
@MichaelClark-uw7ex 7 жыл бұрын
Great ref, she should get a commendation.
@jay012345678912
@jay012345678912 7 жыл бұрын
Why did the guy filming say "sorry dude" that ref had more balls than the guy filming
@bobe3250
@bobe3250 3 жыл бұрын
The guy filming was a wuss
@HulksterRunsWild
@HulksterRunsWild 3 жыл бұрын
He was scared of the shit talker and wanted to cowtow to him
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
Because she started being a little baby when the guy was complying- resulting in almost making herself cry, because she wanted to try and show off. Didn't work out for Miss Antagonistic
@chunkybuttz844
@chunkybuttz844 3 жыл бұрын
@@lockandloadlikehell you’re making assumptions. “because she wanted to show off” you are a dick that’s my assumption. Bet you money she cares about them kids and let that sincere care/concern show when dealing with a complete IDIOT parent.
@vicjose
@vicjose 3 жыл бұрын
@@lockandloadlikehell no no no stfu, that woman stood up for herself and for the kids. That dude was a piece of sh** , and yes it did work out for her.
@richardsampson4256
@richardsampson4256 2 жыл бұрын
Why isn't this guy famous? Unbelievable!!!! I don't care how old this video is, wtf bystanders?!
@RonArtisII
@RonArtisII 2 жыл бұрын
She handle it like a champ. Respect.
@mac7083
@mac7083 2 жыл бұрын
When I first started coaching kids I was told “The hardest part about coaching kids is managing the egos of the parents”. This arse hat parent proves that.
@adrianmacgrath5814
@adrianmacgrath5814 2 жыл бұрын
The only really good coaching job with kids would be managing a team from a fucking orphanage
@mac7083
@mac7083 2 жыл бұрын
@@adrianmacgrath5814 absolutely!!!!
@mac7083
@mac7083 2 жыл бұрын
@@adrianmacgrath5814 p.s. I'm going to use that quote mate. LOL
@grantwileyesq.5962
@grantwileyesq.5962 3 жыл бұрын
I coached grade school basketball, and I'm telling you that these kinds of parents are the worst kind 0f people!
@grantwileyesq.5962
@grantwileyesq.5962 3 жыл бұрын
@Dane Name It's a figure of speech there genius.
@grantwileyesq.5962
@grantwileyesq.5962 3 жыл бұрын
@Dane Name You're just a bit too cool for me there man. Good day.
@pianoman4967
@pianoman4967 3 жыл бұрын
@Dane Name You need to change your name to @Dame Inane. Suits your IQ Level.
@slowinq8110
@slowinq8110 3 жыл бұрын
@Dane Name salt man lmao
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
@@pianoman4967 UP- and here you are AGAIN, Mr Troll channel Irony Man With your trolling And your Whining And your IRONY Your estrogen levels have obviously been peaking
@redphantom2104
@redphantom2104 2 жыл бұрын
I worked a regional semifinal behind the plate last High School softball season. One father was incessantly complaining and insulting, while comfortably hiding in a group of parents. I took my mask off, turned to them and posed the question whether he wanted to to go home or not. No answer, I stood my ground, and after 20 seconds of Silence his spine broke, he collapsed his chair and left the scene. I'm glad that organizations and even lawmakers are cracking down on abusive Behavior. Forfeiting the game is obviously the last resort, but it is on the table and I'm definitely not afraid to use that nuclear option!
@mattbrowncrownbrown
@mattbrowncrownbrown 2 жыл бұрын
“You need to start acting like a parent.” Right on!
@boernsi2000
@boernsi2000 3 жыл бұрын
As a non native speaker, I did not hear hear the crack in her voice and the nervous tone. Sounds pretty normal to me. She handled it great.
@blusafe1
@blusafe1 3 жыл бұрын
You can see her eyes tearing up, it was frightening and stressful for her. Other parents should've stepped in for support.
@minarosered6699
@minarosered6699 2 жыл бұрын
@@blusafe1 parents are not allowed to be making cat calls or demeaning any of the plays or moves, especially the referees because they are supposed to show a good example to the kids
@stump1897
@stump1897 3 жыл бұрын
And these types of parents are why we face a shortage of umpires, referees and other people that make youth sports run.
@johngy40
@johngy40 2 жыл бұрын
Well done putting him in his place and thanks for being a ref
@westlondo3312
@westlondo3312 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent. Glad to see this referee remove this immature parent. He should have to write a public apology and pay for it to be printed in the local newspaper before he's allowed to return to any more sporting events.
@TheBumblebee481
@TheBumblebee481 8 жыл бұрын
good on you ref, only advice I would of said is once you inform them to leave, then walk away and dont engage them in what they want (an arguement)
@LoganShell123
@LoganShell123 8 жыл бұрын
What did he say that warranted an ejection?
@TheBumblebee481
@TheBumblebee481 8 жыл бұрын
Hard to tell exactly from the video, but after she warned him about the sarcastic comments he was making he definatly says something about her voice, and I guess that was the final straw for her.
@mrmc9278
@mrmc9278 7 жыл бұрын
+Cory Clark The guy had been complaining about her not calling handballs the entire game. She had already warned him to shut up repeatedly and he kept on. I feel bad for the ref, but feel worse for his kid.
@critter2
@critter2 6 жыл бұрын
look we found the loser father
@trentsavage4533
@trentsavage4533 2 жыл бұрын
She did good for a minor confrontation although you could could tell she was holding back emotionally.
@albertol9654
@albertol9654 7 ай бұрын
When he moved his head trying to stereotype her and she said im not like that, he felt really dumb.
@TheCleanTech
@TheCleanTech 2 жыл бұрын
The man was gracious to leave. He didn’t have to . But did it for the sake of the children .
@jedimastersnowball9639
@jedimastersnowball9639 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never commented on a KZfaq video , but the referee got my support 200% , thank you for setting the correct behavioural standard to that parent
@steverenom.299
@steverenom.299 2 жыл бұрын
The scary part is that he's a "parent".
@sisiwuau3716
@sisiwuau3716 2 жыл бұрын
@@steverenom.299 not really cause hes parents must've been worse. Happens when people aren't challenging themselves. He was legit sitting like ig he was in a couch in his living room. An adult who was supporting their children would be standing proud.
@steverenom.299
@steverenom.299 2 жыл бұрын
@@sisiwuau3716 I'm sticking by my statement that the scary part is he's a parent.
@sisiwuau3716
@sisiwuau3716 2 жыл бұрын
@@steverenom.299 yes it is and unfortunately there are worse parents out there
@AN-cy7xm
@AN-cy7xm 3 жыл бұрын
His kid must be so proud.
@hubster4477
@hubster4477 3 жыл бұрын
Most kids think it's funny their parent gets kicked out, I'm in the middle of soccer now.
@gayracistretard
@gayracistretard 2 жыл бұрын
she is right to stand up to parents. as a former referee, it is important you call fair games for the kids
@jonnyb70
@jonnyb70 7 ай бұрын
I'd like to see how's she's doing 10 years after the video was shot. Well done, lady.
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