Reigniting Our Intimacy (after several years + a baby)
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Chapters:
1:31 - Our ButcherBox (it's our anniversary!)
3:44 - emotional maturity
4:56 - passivity & clear communication
5:49 - how we make decisions now
6:50 - physical intimacy and how we talk about sex
10:15 - what can get in-between your closeness
10:37 - an honest and safe place
12:00 - a guy's struggle with opening up
13:50 - nitpicking
16:42 - resentment and unclear intentions
19:03 - looking out only for yourself
21:09 - highlight what you appreciate and love
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CHANNEL BACKGROUND // Nick and Chelsea are a 24 year old married couple living in South Carolina. They had their first baby, Hudson in July of 2021! Chelsea has made videos on this channel for years starting in the beauty world and now venturing into the lifestyle/advice/family world. They both spend most of their time writing, capturing photos, and planning content around the issues that young adults face. They both have a podcast as well that calls out issues in culture, real life struggles, and fun times most of us go through like getting married or graduating school! The podcast is called "Forever Changed" with Nick and Chelsea Hurst.
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@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
Chapter highlights are in the description if you wanna jump around to all that’s covered in the video! ❤️ There’s so much more than just the title
@MysteriousPerson1447 2 жыл бұрын
So why don't you do much challenges anymore
@taylorgraceee 2 жыл бұрын
love you guys SO much!! GOD BLESS
@aleycatish 2 жыл бұрын
I know I probably shouldn’t have but I definitely laughed out loud when Hudson put the whole pacifier in his mouth😂♥️
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
He’s a goof 🤣
@KAyLA_K 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for being open with us!! We really appreciate it and it’s always interesting to hear what y’all have to say😊❤️
@anniececil3112 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciated this video. I had my baby in July as well and my husband and I are working on a lot of these items. Your Godly perspective and honesty is a breathe of fresh air.
@madelynnhill5094 2 жыл бұрын
I’m getting married this fall🥰 this is all such an amazing perspective and I love how well y’all communicate! Communication is such a big part of relationship! Thank y’all for sharing!!!
@MILKandHONEY13 2 жыл бұрын
I would have loved to have found a vlog like this after I got married! It’s been over two decades now but this video popped up on my feed so I watched. I found it very insightful and I think it’s awesome you two are reaching out to other young people that want to have solid Godly relationships!
@victoriaadeniji2050 2 жыл бұрын
Love this, I love the equality in your marriage.
@tatumgarrisonqueiroz393 2 жыл бұрын
Always love your guys’ relationship videos :) loved the point towards the end about noticing the beauty in how your spouse is growing, and verbally telling them! It’s easy to get in the roommate rhythm, but it’s important to stay out of it! Thanks guys 🤍
@mckenzienorton5462 2 жыл бұрын
chels- i was just watching the new great inheritance movie… when i saw you i jumped up and told my whole family how i have met you. i have a signed ‘above all else’ devotional from when you came to midway church in carrollton, georgia. your videos mean so much to me. i see you as an older sister and you teach me so much. congratulations on the movie, thats amazing! keep being you. xoxo- mckenzie ❤️
@anumitha974 2 жыл бұрын
I always wondered how these things actually work in the life of a Christian couple! I couldn't relate much since I'm still in the "student/teen" phase. But I've taken note of your tips and I hope I'll get reminded of them at the right time, in the future. Thanks for sharing!!
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
Yes of course! Are you dating or single? ☺️
@anumitha974 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChelseaandNick I'm single but I'm really into Christ-centered marriages
@ShelbyN3890 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChelseaandNick dating me and my boyfriend Austin been dating for 5 years and 6 months today
@mohshii6672 2 жыл бұрын
Ya'll are saving and changing lives out here
@mariahwade2190 2 жыл бұрын
Thank-you for the great video. Wow, just a lot of good information. I definitely got some great things to take away and work into my relationship. I laughed with you guys about the scheduling part haha Have a good rest of your day ☀️
@breundisyoung1881 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video , I’m not married but always enjoy sound advice. Also Chelsea your hair looks so beautiful 😍
@krystalvazquez8673 2 жыл бұрын
Your baby is toooooo cute 😰😭😭😍😍😍😍❤️ God bless your family!!!!
@mpirirwefiona9104 Жыл бұрын
i love how real you guys are
@hari7591 2 жыл бұрын
Hudson is such a cutie 🥰 (Also, great video as always)x
@ladybethia5457 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for your honesty. I love Hudson's pajamas!😊
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
Aww he says thank u!!
@ladybethia5457 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChelseaandNick 🤗❤🙏🏻
@beckyprebeck8787 2 жыл бұрын
When Nick said that alot of guys don't feel safe being open and honest because no one really cares anyway, that broke my heart🥺. I hate that our culture tells us that men have to keep their emotions and struggles to themselves otherwise they're weak. I haven't ever had a boyfriend (still a tennager), but when I do, I'm going to make sure he knows that he doesn't have to keep everything to himself just to seem strong.
@NickandChels 2 жыл бұрын
truly! im so glad youll be a safe space for whoever you end up with!!
@taylorgraceee 2 жыл бұрын
i totally agree with you. i'm a sixteen yr old and never had a boyfriend and i can't wait to start a relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage one day. i have someone in mind and seeing him this saturday at a prom, i'm just hoping and praying he'll feel the same. i'm praying!
@shal313 2 жыл бұрын
Greetings from Kenya 🇰🇪 Appreciate your heart in all this ♥️ The Lord bless your little family to grow in all things 🙁✨
@mwflossy 2 жыл бұрын
Another Kenyan here!
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
Ahh hi!! ☺️❤️❤️ so glad you’re here
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
@@mwflossy glad you’re here too☺️🤍
@JanaeCrawford 2 жыл бұрын
👋🏽 Fellow mama here - I’m only at 1:30 mark of this video but for like 10 seconds I was having a mini heart attach when Hudson put the whole pacifier in his mouth 😭😂 I’m like omg they’ve got to notice soon - over having a mini heart attach because my daughter sometimes does that too - Chelsea you just noticed now I’m laughing 🤣 ok back to the video 😂
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
Girrrrl he does it every day 😵💫🤣
@stephaniealaia769 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video guys, I appreciate your insights on things. I just wish there was more guys out in the world who wanted the same thing I want it’s hard to find.but I’m done looking and just having god do his thing for me bc by the end of the day who else can we trust and look up too
@taylorgraceee 2 жыл бұрын
it's great for y'all to talk on this topic. this can be a very important thing for couples and i'm glad y'all talked on it! i'm sixteen and can't wait to start a relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage one day
@victoriaadeniji2050 2 жыл бұрын
Oh I remember being that age. It is not easy but you are dping the right thing by subscribing to Godly channels. I waited until mareiage and don't regret it. May you be blessed in your journey.
@danieldelahaye 2 жыл бұрын
Guys, this video, for me was useful to realize that I'm nowhere near ready for marriage😅 (It's not a great shock, I'm 20, but previously I thought I was ready) God bless your family!
@destinyherron1340 2 жыл бұрын
I can't Chelsea is so pretty.
@kar4244 2 жыл бұрын
It's so important for couples to mark off or set aside time for eachother. The block of time doesn't have to be an expectation of sex, just time to be intimate in whatever way u and ur partner need that day. Maybe it's curling up on the couch, or going on a date, whatever it is, actively spending that time with ur partner is so meaningful and important. And hey if it leads to sex then amazing 😉
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
Aw I love this 🥺
@kar4244 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChelseaandNick I'm glad 😊 It really makes a noticeable difference for me and my partner! We aren't married but have been together quite some time now and got lazy at having real dates/ setting intentional time together. 😅 So planning dates like we would earlier on in our relationship has made me fall for him all over again! Anytime there's a lul in our relationship, intentional time reserved just for us always picks me right back up. 😊And physical intimacy after a date where we talked and laughed about everything and nothing for hours is honeslty so special! It's like wrapping the fun of the night/date up with a really fun bow 😝
@kar4244 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChelseaandNick Also if the goal is just to reserve time exclusively for bonding with one another, then there isn't any guilt or disappointment if one person is isn't in the mood. Because you've achieved your goal of ensuring that youre maintaining an intimate relationship with eachother 😊 which will lead to more sex and other forms of physical intimacy happening naturally 😉 ❤️
@KAyLA_K 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so sad guys struggle with opening up, but I definitely see how culture has made it difficult!! To the guys out there don’t settle!! Find someone who genuinely cares for you and know that there are people who you can truly trust❤️ I unfortunately will say it’s harder especially for a guy, but guys don’t settle and know there are people who genuinely care how you’re doing❤️
@presleyanne3876 2 жыл бұрын
Okay…that jumper!!?? Link please! 😍
@KatieJane31 2 жыл бұрын
Man, I really wish SOMEONE would do the dishes... Lol have me cracking up.
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
🤣 the slight “plz do it”
@sunnijacksonshortschannel 2 жыл бұрын
Nice video 😊
@jakeglendon9206 2 жыл бұрын
OOHHHH good video idea
@taylorgraceee 2 жыл бұрын
IKR i love them
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
Most of the video is about bridging gaps that cause disconnect! 🤓
@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын
@@taylorgraceee ❤️
@taylorgraceee 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChelseaandNick
@abelinyahoakforest4577 2 жыл бұрын
Chelsea you and I are the same age my husband of 5 years passed away can y'all talk on that topic
@markgregoryrugman7136 2 жыл бұрын
I'm in a relationship right now. My Girlfriend Mary is very confiding in me . Unfortunately she has not have a very good upbringing because her dad in prison for something and I dont know about her mom and she has been living in Canada for 3 years with her uncle hew has been treated her not right at all and things of me as a real gentleman. She has the desire to become a catholic and is willing to learn to pray and I'm going to teach her. What other advice can you give me to help with how to help her out as well
@dacelynmoore9220 2 жыл бұрын
Did you guys live together before marriage, also how did you resist all the temptations before marriage? Also, do you guys have Bible study time together just you two?
@fatemehtalaiezadeh8411 2 жыл бұрын
I love you
@russpeters4467 2 жыл бұрын
I am 38 years old, and I have something to say in regards to the sexualization of children at such a young age. Due to what is happening now in the world, I feel it is necessary to lend my voice and experinece to this current issue so that anyone not concerned by what the leftists want to do in our school systems and what our media systems are also trying to do, can hear first hand the damaging effects of children being exposed to sex too young. My first experience happened when it shouldn't have, much before puberty. I cannot explain all the things that led up to the experience but understand this, it was not rape by an adult. We were two kids of the same age and it happened together. The details don't matter, and no one needs to hear them anyways. What does is this. One experience at such a young age led to another, then another. To this day I struggle with identity, sexual and personal, and often feel at a complete loss of how to fit into society. I want desperatly to be normal, but I am aware that the start I had is not normal and not healthy. It is likely why I have struggled so much since and I would not wish other innocent child to be subject to the same insecurities and lack of identity that I had suffered with and still do. Please gaurd your children. Be sensitive to what they see, hear and are exposed to. They will not think of these things if someone doesnt introduce them to it. Be proactive. If my pain can help any parent activate and be more cautious, then my suffering was for a purpose. Please help
@user-el1vq9te5x 2 жыл бұрын
Nine years ago like literally the makeup
@ari9525 2 жыл бұрын
The elements of the gospel are clearly stated in 1 Corinthians 15:3-6, a key passage concerning the good news of God: “For what I received I passed on to you as of first importance: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Cephas, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time, most of whom are still living.” Notice, first, that Paul “received” the gospel and then “passed it on”; this is a divine message, not a man-made invention. Second, the gospel is “of first importance.” Everywhere the apostles went, they preached the crucifixion and resurrection of Christ. Third, the message of the gospel is accompanied by proofs: Christ died for our sins (proved by His burial), and He rose again the third day (proved by the eyewitnesses). Fourth, all this was done “according to the Scriptures”; the theme of the whole Bible is the salvation of mankind through Christ. The Bible is the gospel.
Chelsea and Nick
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