Brenden’s wisdom never goes unseen/unheard 🙏🏻

When Mpoomy said "dating is hard" I felt that 😏

This is so cute. I have been married 6years 2kids and it really gets sweeter especially if u guys are best friends

4 months into my marriage and it is absolute bliss.

Hey Fam Bam, Thanks for the check-in/ update/advice, etc...😅 Its clearly evident that more effort and “intentional loving” is required in each progressing phase of the relationship, in order to sustain the joy of having each other as best friends before being a married couple or parents.😊 That was very informative. Thank you once again... Oh and we’re transitioning to the “Marriage Phase”💍♥️ I think we need come over for some “Get ready for the next phase!” kind of advice.. 😅 PS: We take our green tea with no sugar. ☕️😁 Much love. #RegoDise

Honestly! Im still single. But im so intentional about the things I want in a relationship which means that I can wait as long as I can to meet a person who won't think my expectations are too high when I want him to take me seriously as a woman. But I am happy for this video, it is so important. I also learned alot about different stages. Thank you.

The smile on my face when I'm watching you guys, love you guys. Cute couple!

That broke phase after marriage, yoh guys not easy! 1st year def not easy, it took a lot of pruning and sacrifice. I celebrated my 1st anniversary on Sunday and thankful that God got us through and sustained us. I am also about to become a mum in 2months, so excited

Brenden with the shade 🤣🤣🤣 I can’t!

Every stage requires a different version of yourself and that's how we evolve. You can never be the same person as you were when you were dating, you guys are now parents so there's a shift from being Mpumi or just Brenden. You are now Nuri's parents. As for myself I'm married and I'm a mother.

The way you guys look at each other 😍😍

Brenden, thanks you reminded me of this scripture: Luke 12:48 From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.

😍omg for many years people have been telling me to wait till early thirties for marriage, so that it be successful and to avoid divorce but seeing you guys young love does exist and its ok to love young and marry thank you guys👊

Mpumi looking so much like Nuri...or the other way round... either way, semhle nono🔥😍 You guys are just cute mahn. God bless your family♥️🙏🏽

I'm happily in the single stage🤗 waiting on the Lord to transition me through all the other stages

😂😂😂 wow Brenden. I’m in the marriage stage transitioning to parenthood in a week or so 🥰. Thanks guys great video

I must say you guys inspire us (my girlfriend and I), yal are just goals in this life time. Thank you for the transparency, i feel like I'm a part of the conversation.

Mpoomy, your content always comes at the right time, you truly God sent

Ya'll are hilarious!😂😂😂 You always on a "shine on my shine" tip. And Brenden has literally turned this into his channel...luv u❤

I really appreciate how transparent and real you guys are about your relationship. This has been very helpful and quite informative. May God continue to bless your union, you have been called for such a time as this.

You guys are so sweet you are each others companionship. Your relationship, marriage and parenting life comes so natural cause you pray alot ❤️

The more responsibility you're giving,the more you thrive-Brenden Praise🔥

I know I'm 8 months late but just watched this and soo appreciated it when you said, "me first, us second and then baby". As wife and a mom, it just makes sense.

first time watching. I was smiling alone the entire time. I love this

wow Brenden's wisdom is low key LIT..

As for "phela we started dating at different times" lol

We are in the dating stage; it's only been 6 months so far and it is wonderful. We are already in parenthood🙈🙈 He and I each have daughters, so we slowly learning each others parenting skills, but he's an exceptional dad. We have been speaking of transitioning to marriage but finances dont allow as yet; but also it may be a bit too early... We are just hoping and praying for the best in our relationship. I truly believe he is it. Loved the video. You make love look beautiful.

"His provision will always match the responsibility" I like that😊okay, I'm in the waiting phase and enjoying being single and exploring who I really am and finding my purpose and identity in Christ. For now I just want to be secure in knowing who I am. At the right time I know God will bless me with my perfect match. 😊 I love you guys so much. Stay blessed❤

Recently transitioned from single phase to the dating phase... Really excited to start this phase especially because I’m using my previous mistakes as a lesson for the new phase... I can’t wait to see what is has for us both. Loved this video 🙌🏽

Hi guys! 😍 I usually don't comment because I always have alot to say. Let me try Nd keep this short: @Brenden Unto whom much is given, much is expected and He who is faithful in little will be faithful in much. I liked that. @Mpoomy I admire you, I think I can relate with you on so many levels (if distance wasn't an issue we'd be those married friends yall were talking about) Loved the topic Nd the whole talk, encouraging. I'll leave it there... Thanks

I love your channel. You two are amazing My marriage is in the parenthood stage, 2 kids under 5 shuuuu. Like Mpoomy said, routine is important!

Nuri's screams 😃😃😃,think she wants to be featured 💛💛

love love this episode, well I am currently in the dating phase, planning the future together, trying to find our feet career wise (fresh out from university), about to start a business and become billionaires. It is actually tough but I am enjoying all the ups and downs of it, pretty confusing phase I tell you WOW.

I really love you both so much. Brenden is funny 😂 You inspired me to start my Christian channel. Journey.

You guys are so perfectly real and raw 💕 love the advice you give 🙏🏽

When you guys do a video together I always wait to watch the video till my husband is home and now we are watching together and I love how he is always engaged in your videos right now he said he disagrees with mpoomy dating is easier but I personally agree with mpoomy dating is hard work God bless you guys you are so genuine 💖

Your content is absoulety amazing. You guys are the deftinion of beautiful and faithful young love

I am single and patiently waiting to transition to a relationship stage ☺. I love you guys and always keeping you in my prayers

i agree with Brenden yaz when you have a lot on your plate uyaphaphama and get wiser nje...

When Brendon said "okay Oprah" at the end 😂😂😂😂😂💖

Whenever I watch the two of you in one video I always find myself blushing. Thanks

Brenden's point on responsibility just spoke to my situation/doubt about what I've been planning to do 🙏🏾 truthful and encouraging words from a man of faith, thank you.

Love the new background. Also your husband is shady as hell shuu🤣🤣

I'm at that single stage of my relationship😂😂😂Lovely video guys, stay amazing!

You guys are amazing. I would say I'm in the broke phase, calling each other by our names and babe the next day, butterflies present one minute and the next I'm like wow I'm so grateful phase. It's an interesting beautiful imperfect journey.

Flowers my guy!!! Taking notes!!

"You were a plus 1...." 😂😂😂😂😂

We still dating lol, we still broke lol, and we are still dreaming and dreaming big. Thank you Mpoomy and Brenden my heart is full.

Thanks Brenden for taking over..😄.. we appreciate you..

Can't wait to be in love🥰

I love y'all... that one couple that is rooted in God's word. That's one thing I wish for when I'm old lol. Could you please feature RegoDise to your channel tu

I absolutely love you guys, you definitely are an inspiration. I'm in the honeymoon face(2 months into dating) and so far so good, even though it's a long distance buh we definitely making it work, and as a women I am highly appreciative of the effort his putting into our relationship coz normally it's us women who always put more effort into relationships than men. Thank you once again for a lovely and informative video

Love how you guys are are so open and comfortable with each other

im not in any stage ,im single lol,but i love how you guys put all these stages into perspective and i couldnt help but smile the whole video.

Awesome.. lively.. colorful.. glorious..

Nuri's dad with shade😂😂😂

Yaaaay! Just started but so excited already

Honestly the most beautiful couple. May God just continue to bless you guys and keep you together for a loooongest time❤❤

I love u so much 😍. Ncoo n u keep on looking at it other, it's so adorable.💃💃💃

Wow a friend introduced me to this Chanel, you guys are a whole mood, thank you. I'm currently married for four months

This video just blessed me. I like how transparent you guys are.

Love love love this...learnt so much! Thank you so much for sharing

Great video yet again 🤗🤗 I am currently in the dating/courtship phase, next month is our 2 year anniversary. Just embracing and enjoying every bit at the moment.

I'm in dating phase, the phase of getting no good morning babe and he texts after he knocks off at work but hey i'm used to it now 😂😂😂... thank you guys

Marriage phase, n soon going to parenthood phase. I'm happy yet so scared but by God's Grace all will be well

I relate so much to this video, it’s as if I’m watching myself and Hubbs . Beautiful!

Been smiling throughout this video, urgh thanks for sharing your journey.

When you have more responsibilities you become more focused and wise with your time and resources...

The more one grows and standards/purpose sets in, dating truly is hard... Loved this, thanks for the update guys... love & light 🤗

Enjoying your videos. Love your "openness"

I really loved this, so real, and pure! Thank you guys.

Love the the topic already 💃

This is so reviving and amazing . May God continue to bless you guys

I love this video... can say that I can relate to most points mentioned here

What i appreciate about this video is the general authenticity thats really coming across. It's real man, from the genuine laughs right to those micro moments where you get the sense that "okay, they are still working on this part". But thanks for being so open. It's good to see.

Loved this you guys!

Love you guys I love how you are genuine about sharing you life with us. From Kenya. 😍

Your honesty and transparency is amazing❤ Thank you for the amazing video❤

I'm back at a single stage and wow I'm loving it and God has been good

You two give me so much life! I am utterly obsessed. I LOVE YOU GUYS!!

Mpoomy am so like you , when am mad at my husband I want him close by 🤣 but he prefers cooling off in his own space

Such a beautiful couple... I admire you guys. God keep you strong and strong... Amen

I love the two of you ❤️ I haven’t watched the video yet, I had to comment first because I never do but I’m always here watching. So from my heart. I love your content. You and your husband are one my favorite local content creators. I love what the two of you do here on YT. You put your heart and soul into it and I feel so connected to every piece of work that you share with us. Keep inspiring and don’t ever stop giving your best because we see it and we appreciate it ❤️

Totally related to this video. We've been married for 6 years, have 2 kids under 6.. so yeah! It's been a journey. There have been tough times but u are right about the importance of prioritizing yourself. Fill your cup before pouring out to others.. You guys are too cute!

You guys are such an inspiration to young love ❤️

This was so beautiful and true and real. Thanks for being real guys - appreciate it!!!!

This topic is so fruitful.

💕 Your Wisdom guys, we are really learning thank you💞💞💞

I love this. Thank you for sharing guys. Knowledge is key, I needed this.

Thanks guys, I love that you are a family of Faith. May God bless you

Prioritizing myself is something I’ve started doing and it does a huge difference to the day and my wellbeing in general. Especially when everything has been about the family, and being so soaked in “mommy-land” All thanks Mrs Mom and the 5am club, the hour before the rush and buzz of juggling work, family, life nje in general has done such a great deal to my self care. Also being intentional about your acts👌🏽 #transitioningtoparenthood gang

Great life update if I can call it that... I kinda relate to back when you were newly weds and didn't have money... Hubby and I got married March 2017 and had just moved to Cpt so things were tough but we good now. I've watched you guys grow and seeing you so comfortable and happy is just beautiful to witness. Please feature princess Nuri next time I'm sure I'm not the only one who misses her... Stay blessed ❤️

What a different way to look at responsibility and having much. Wow ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Love it!😍

This was absolutely beautiful. I am single, happily so. I started this year on a rocky phase but then I journaled down everything I want to see this year. I eventually dedicated this year to me and calling it me-year. This means that everything I do I ask myself if it is beneficial for me and how so. I must admit it's not easy but it keeps me aware of everything happening and I've found it even helped in my relationship with friends and family. The only way I believe I've even been able to do everything is only because God is God. Love you guys

Thee Ledwaba's ❣

When I saw that you upload I left everything 😍 you guys are cute

Love u guy's 🤩😍

Thank you guys for this. I really needed it. We have 2 kids (5yrs and 11 months), it's always about the kids. Thanks for reminding me that we need time to ourselves so that we don't become strangers.

I love love you guys, i'm parenting and i agree taking time off it's really great for the soul