It’s not easy walking away from an unequally yoked relationship. But we can do all things through Christ.. And it’s worth it

Can confirm that if you’re single, follow the Lord’s advice about being equally yoked. I was born again while married and this is a terribly hard path. I still love my husband, but I don’t have the same desires as him anymore and it’s put a huge strain in our relationship. Now I’m backslidden and it’s even harder to come back with someone who encourages me to conform to the world.

It's amazing how everything you say is truth and comes out so naturally and pleasing to hear. In my case my wife wanted our 2 children being baptised. This yoked me to church and now, 10 years later, I myself hope to be baptised in 2 weeks time :) God is patient but knows whats best for sure. 🙏

I had so much joy listening to what a great work the Holy Spirit has done in your life and within you, Jackie. There is so much truth in your words. We should be aware of how our heart works. The more time you spend with someone, the stronger your bond becomes, and the stronger your bond with that person is, the more susceptible your heart becomes to that person's influence. And whether we like it or not, if someone is not born again, his heart remains in the power of sin, and Satan can use such a person to poison our relationship with the Lord. I made this mistake and it cost me a lot, but by the grace of God I rose up and now I keep myself unstained from the world. Glory be to our heavenly Father, because although we loved our sin and did not seek Him, He found us and showed us what true love is by sending to us His Son, our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, who decided to suffer and shed His blood, so that He can make us pure, as He himself is beautifully pure. I am so happy that you have found grace in His eyes, sister, and you can experience His marvelous love 🙂

Hi Jackie Thank you for this wise and timeless message. I was born again in 1995. I gave my life to Jesus through earnestly surrendering, repenting, accepting Him, and then began the process of tension between the carnal man and my spiritual man in Jesus, through faith and grace. Over the years I realized that being born again does not mean you overcome your flesh and then fully walk with the Lord (although sometimes it does)…but rather it is a slower process over time. As His spirit deepens in you a transformation begins to align your heart and spirit to His character and values…and the tension between the relativism of the carnal, and the absolute of His spirit, begins the transformation…it requires unwavering faith over time…and the deepening and maturing of the walk with Him never ends. So, over the last 20 years, as I mature in Him, many friends and colleagues I had fell away…not because I prothelitized, but rather because our yolking became very unequal….It is like putting a fresh water fish in a salt water tank, or perhaps the flipping of two magnets so they repel versus attract. Perhaps ONE of the greatest barriers so many I know have relative to Christianity, a major barrier which stops them from accepting Jesus, is that they fear they will have to give up all the things they enjoy in the world, like sex before marriage, addictions, and unlimited entertainment. This needs to be better explained from those who have accepted Him: There is absolutely nothing you HAVE to give up, however by being born again you will willingly give so much up, in order to gain more of Him. The Holy Spirit’s help and incorporation in you through inviting Him in, is what over time begins the magnet to turn in the opposite direction, and takes you from being in and of the world, to becoming in the world but not of it. So Jackie, again thank you for your surrender and true acceptance of Jesus, and allowing His Holy Spirit to extend through you, not because you have to, but because you wanted to, not because you perhaps were brought to the bottom, but rather because at the bottom of a majestic mountain to be climbed, you need a “sherpa or guide” to accompany and help you (Holy Spirit) reach for the summit. And, along the way, through experience, you become a stronger, better, more agile climber, in the quest of the peaks majesty. The climb is never smooth, there always will be blizzards and ice, however what has changed is that you have a guide who has been there before, and the tools (back packs, pick axes, flairs, oxygen: Gods word, His Holy Spirit, and other that have also given their hearts to Him) to help you…and rather than be scared or filled with fear while climbing, you can climb in inner peace, regardless of the condition. Jesus is the Prince of Peace, that does not mean peace in the outer world, but rather peace in our inner world, the peace that is beyond understanding, the peace which endures and helps us through every storm…he does not quell the outer storms, but rather he gives us peace and wisdom while we navigate them. Jackie, thank you always for being the inspiration for so many, and giving words to the invisible, so those who fear it, can embrace it. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart Lean not unto your own understanding In all your ways acknowledge Him And He will make your path straight” (Proverbs 3: 5-6) 🙏❤️✝️

Thank You I needed to hear this and have it explained more! The push and pull of my inner conviction is very draining when trying to make something that is unequally yoked actually work. I need to stand my ground! ✝️✝️✝️

Hi Jackie sis, everything you said is correct and very important for Christians. Many make wrong choices because they follow what they want and like, rather than what God wants for them. It is important for Christians to grow and mature spiritually before making these decisions. I wish that all single Christians could hear your message and consider their ways. Thank you so much for encouraging single people like myself to totally surrender and to let God choose for us. May God bless you.

You touched on a subject that ruins more people's Ministries and lives in general more than anything else. Being unequally yoked can be devastating in many ways. Thank you for being open and honest and generally caring about other people. God bless u in the Lord Jesus and may he continue to refine and purify you, me, and the body of Christ.

I needed to hear this, thank you so much. I'm crying now listening to you telling me things I already know but don't heed. Thank you for your inspired words of wisdom. You have the gift of kindness on your tongue and eloquence when discussing these sensitive hot topics. I love all the scripture you keep quoting, reverting our attention and understanding back on God every time, and not on yourself. God bless you sister.

I am someone who has truly benefited from your story. Thank you Jackie, God bless!

I enjoyed the message! You have such a great way of articulating thoughts. On another note, you have such a beautiful voice and beautiful eyes. 😊❤

I need more people like you to be my friend. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

Brave and powerful testimony 🙏🏼 Real love will recognize and love the real you🕊️

Been going through a tough time lately, but still grateful for God getting me through this and your videos too. They're really helpful, soothing tbh. Keep doing what you love. Amen sister.

Hi Jackie. This is a deep message and I totally agree with you. Only God can fill our heart and soul! And only then can we know true deep love. It is done. 💛💛

This benefits me and others like you wouldn't believe, thank you for this, Glory to the Lord! Maranatha!

Jackie, you are correct!! I’ve failed at two marriages and it was because I wanted what I wanted, instead of seeking God’s perfect choice for me! God has a perfect marriage partner for all of us! I married two bad ladies, basically! The first one was full of her self! Big ego! The second wife I met online and she didn’t tell me she was no-polar!! Disastrous!! So, now, I will trust God to bring another mate! I don’t like being alone, but I’ve been divorced for 13 years and I’m enjoying the peace and quiet and living the single life for God! It’s really you and the Lord that makes you “complete”!! Not you and another person!!!

I’ve seen this with many people I know. You must be equally yoked and rooted in God for a relationship to work.

Current situation: plus with the same sex🖤 Thanks for your testimony. Needed this.

You have been filled with God’s wisdom, peace and love. It is evident and awesome. There is no substitute for being born again!! NONE. The Bible comes alive, and we are made anew. The Holy Spirit within us now makes the Scripture relatable. Our trust in Him catapults forward. Somehow your videos popped up on my feed today and I have watched a few of them. Whether you realize it or not, your testimony can be seen in every one of these videos. It is great to see another on fire for the Lord as you are. Just validates all that I have now experienced firsthand since the Holy Spirit paid me an unforgettable visit in 2020, whereby I quickly turned my life over to Him and abandoned a sinful lifestyle that had gone on far too long. Life has never been the same since, hallelujah! Thanks for sharing your heart. I know many will benefit from hearing what God is doing in your life. Blessings to you and I wish my sister in Christ all the best in whichever way the Lord chooses to have you minister to others! 🙏🏽✝️🤍🛐🕊️

I have been greatly blessed and encouraged by your explanation and teaching. I’m now praying for the “unequally yoking” of my brother. God help us all! Blessings on your ministry! Praise Jesus Hallelujah

Jackie .. this is the fruits of the Holyspirit .. Best wishes from Lebanon 🇱🇧 nice video keep walking Jesus soldier.

Your message is too late for me, I’ve been in an unequally yoked relationship for a while (19 years) but my 17 year old twins are a result. Both are saved but have not grown much in their faith as our parental front isn’t unified. My explanation of an unequally yoked relationship is two different animals on a yoke. A yoke is usually made from wood and can only go in one direction. So two different animals would be a disaster yoked together. I’m fairly certain in 2 Corinthians it also recommends if the unsaved in the relationship is stronger you must dissolve it. I’m sharing most of my videos with my twins, though they’re boy/ girl. Some of your videos I only share with her. Thank you for the genuineness you always have in your messages. God Bless you Jackie !! 🙏🏻✝️❤️

FACTS 💎💎 SO BLESSED

Thank you for sharing. Learned alot in the short video.

Jackie, I cherish your honesty about your born again experience. Testimonies like yours are becoming less and less apparent in our day. Your very fortunate that you were chosen to be His child. Never stop appreciating the fact he chose you at exactly the time he was ready to save you. How precious this is for you.

You are a blessing, Jackie! I have to tell you something: I was recently working in Tel Aviv as a foreign customer for my company. At lunch, a guy from a company was telling his "women stories" about his encounters with Israeli women. I'll leave it at that. Anyway, he was dating a certain girl the other night. He said they didn't come to "his goal", since she was a virgin and keeping herself for marriage! Such a strong testimony by this girl, who probably is Jewish ( not Messianic Jewish ) ! Intimacy truly belongs into marriage, but this Dutch guy was intimate with several women only when he was in Israel, who knows what else he does! Sex belongs into marriage only!

Thank you so much I needed to hear this and I benefited a lot from it 🙏🏿

Jackie you have been an absolute blessing. I feel like God is speaking to me through you. Thank You God and Thank You Jesus !!!

I really love listening to your videos. Keep walking and moving forward like Johnny Walker. Many blessings Mr KP

I am unequally yoked of 24 years. God says what we do for the wrong, God can use it for His glory.

Amen. You said it. Trust!❤

You are wonderful, you talk just fine,, don't think what you have to say and how you say it. It is A gift from God and you really blessed me today with just being who you are.

Good for you girl, God is so good and changes us for our benefits

The love of Christ cannot be explained it can only be felt, praise God Jesus, Hallelujah Amen.

BEEN THERE DONE THAT--- boy , did I!!!! THANKS my gorgeous GODLY young friend.. GREAT VIDEO!! Oh as to the committed part-- I WAS - she wasn't..... and I've been shark attacked.. and worse.. that failed deal cost me over 30 years of my life.. just pretty much wasted.. WHICH is why I said I WOULD LOVE to have been able to find one like YOU back when I was young and looking... Glad to see you so devoted- and wish many more were like you.. the world would be MUCH better off..

I really admire the ability you have to connect with your audience. You know your Bible. And one can tell that you are sincere. 💖

Thank you for sharing I Needed to hear that so badly Thank you God In Jesus name I pray Amen

Thank you Jackie, for this reminder😢

Amen thanks for sharing. I’ve been married twice and both marriages turned out to be a disaster. there’s a lot of things that I’ve surrendered in my life to God and they are blessed by God, but this one area has never been fully surrendered and my life has suffered because of it. My life concerning relationships is full of twists and turns abuse, tears and heartache. and I can only say that I brought it upon myself for not trusting and waiting. well right now I’m going through my second divorce. I have three young amazing children that are with me 24/7 and I am divorcing my wife to protect my children from her. it took me being forced to make the choice between my kids or my wife, and even though I wanted to be in a relationship so badly because it gave me a false sense of comfort. I chose the uncomfortable path I’m in the middle of it and it’s hard, but When my 8 year old daughter looks me in the eyes and tells me daddy thank you from saving me from mommy it’s all worth it.

Thank you for discussing a very tough subject. I truly believe this subject needs talked about much more. It is remarkable to see your transformation through Christ Jesus. May our Lord and Savior Bless you. 🙂

✝️💯🌇needed to hear this today 💯In Jesus Name Amen and Amen🎇✝️

Thank you, Jackie. I believe this will be very helpful to my son who is currently living with a non-believer 🙏

AAAMMMEEENNN !!! ! !!! And That Is The Right Path : To Love Him Above All !!! ! !!! And that is why i will never again be able 2 love Anyone so much as i did it before . And, if Anyone still loves his spouse or parents more than Him, than he/she is still NOT Worty of Him !!! ! !!! Amennn !!! ! !!! Only He Is Life !!! ! !!! Peace with you, until His Second Arrival , immediately after the End of the "world" .

May the lord bless u my sister u are very special and god wants u to know that what ever u are going through he is with u and he loves u. keep moving forward new season 🙏

Really the lord teach you.I think you speaking to me right now and I'm the one who victimize by many lustful relationship but now I'm done with all I want the lord to lead me to the right person.Thank you we need more story like this sister.

Thank-you for everything you said praise God very encouraging in the Lord Amen.

Blessed by your words of wisdom 👭

I don't feel like you rambled on. Perfect length video. I've been in 2 unequally yoked relationships. As you pointed out, it only complicates things when you're not just on different pages but entirely different books. We hit rough waters and found out that we didn't share the same vision, we had different destinations. One relationship had a greater impact on me so the breakup was Rough, painful and took me 4 yrs to heal from. After that I vowed to never have sex again unless it was with my wife. That being said, I also decided to change the way I do things and to only date with the purpose of finding my forever lover. I appreciate your encouragement. The wait and journey can be arduous but I believe God is faithful to keep his word and the trials we endure will be worth it when we get there.

Psalms 34:14 Depart from evil, and do good; seek peace, and pursue it.

Im going to comment on this not because i disagree completely with what youre saying but i would like to speak from my own experience as someone who is currently in an unequally yoked relationship. First thing i would say is that my partner who is not a Christian does not force me to do things im not okay with like s*x or drinking or anything that doesn't align with my beliefs or values. She is very respectful to me which i appreciate and she always pushes me to work on my own relationship with Christ and even reminds me to pray before we eat, go to church and put Christ first because she knows thats important to me. I would say also that it is not your responsibility as a believer to change someone else, it is their choice and they are the one responsible for their own decision. Now we are not planning on having children and honestly with the way school systems are heading and laws on parenting that is outside of Christian values, I'm not comfortable having kids in the states. I will say that in the relationship, you have to learn to become spiritually single. I would like to make it clear however that this is not Gods will to be unequally yoked and be in a partnership where both of you are not pursuing Christ. God wants a marriage to glorify him and to serve him which in return would being a lot of fulfillment and happiness in the relationship. So i would say in conclusion if you want a spiritually fulfilling relationship, dont be with a non believer.

thank you for this sis 💯

Jackie I liked what you said about God in your heart. Yes even I gave him first place 23 years ago, when everyone discarded me the only one who accepted me with all my sins was the Lord. Now he reigns as the Lord In me. I don't belong to me but to the Lord. He chose me, he qualified me. I am nothing. That's how it is now. Power walks with you jackie. The Lord will use you greatly. God bless you.

Please teach me all these things. I m still immature in Christ. Teach me how to maintain relationship with wife in marriage, LordJesus Christ and the world. Love you ❤

I'm going through this ATM and i wish I knew what I signed up for, it's a tug of war and I feel myself compromising a lot..I don't want it, but it's hard. Pray for me

You did a fantastic job with this video and all the rest it was perfect and sweet. Give yourself credit. You are helping many many many people with your words. Be encouraged God has more in store for you

And keep up the Good work little lady

Thanks!❤

Amen! You are amazing 👏

It’s sooo different if you’ve only been born again AFTER you’re already married and have kids with the person…

You are so absolutely beautiful sister! Inside and out, the Lord’s doing a work in you!

Thanks beautiful woman of God.

Bless you sister❤

I'm jumping in all day forever

leather boots lol... i was one of those who definitely benefited from this

Jackie, something is happening on my cell phone when I click on your video, my cell phone gluing and brightening up

Blessings story buetiful

Very nice ❤

You have to be in the same path together

1 Corinthians 7:34-35 (34) An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world - how she can please her husband. (35) I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.

BEautiful!

Thank you!

I’m in the same boat myself, only we have a child together. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to live with him unmarried anymore because of the sin, but I don’t know if we should get married or not because we are unequally yoked. He believes in God but he’s on the fence about who Jesus is. He doesn’t understand the depth of it all. And it’s so hard to talk to him and explain it to him. I’m stuck!

THANK YOU SO MUCH

Gracias!

Yes. A yoke is actually a stiff and thick piece of wood that binds two oxen together so that they can pull the same load equally. If two oxen want to go in different directions the only thing they can do is break the yoke because there is no stretch to it, but was designed that the two might pull together. In the same way two humans are made one by a yoke, sex makes two people one body, the yoke is forged in their souls and flesh. Only by breaking that yoke, damaging body and soul can sexual partners be separated. This is why paul says it is the only sin within the body, because it damages the work Christ is doing within our physical and spiritual bodies to bind us to him. This is also why sexual purity is a huge key to christian victory, because as Christ gains influence in the body he subdues every desire of the flesh but the transformation starts with sexual purity because that is the mechanism he designed to bond us to himself (the source of all transformation power) first and to our God given spouse second.

You have alot of style

Thank you madam

THANK YOU ❤❤😊

Thank you for sharing from your heart

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Fear is a liar God is love ❤ 1 John 4:18 “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.” Matthew 22:40 👻 ALL the law and the Prophets beloved 1 John 2:22 “Who is a liar but he that denieth that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist, that denieth the Father and the Son.” John 5:22 “For the Father judgeth no man, but hath committed all judgment unto the Son:” John 8:15 “Ye judge after the flesh; I judge no man.”

Sis I was same issues but now I'm free from locifer I'm from Pakistan my English is not good but try to, one night I challenge locifer that I can't choose you any more ,I choose Jesus Christ and I was leave my girl friends and sin ,today I leave so much pretty girl friend now I'm happy in Jesus Christ ,every night and every day I try to beat locifer because I'm son of jesus Christ , my message meaning are it's not a difficult just need faith , Pray , and desion , Thank you Jesus Christ you are my saviour

God will bring someone in yr life

Great content 👍🏾

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Good girl no more ring come here

when is your birthday?

I disagree with something but I respect u

Good spoke

Thank you ❤

Amen. Only God can truly understand else and heal us completely, you actually just quoted my favorite bible verse (2nd Corinthians 5:17) I had to break up with someone because she wasn't a Christian years ago, that's why I'm so passionate about my finding a biblical Christian woman to be married with like it says in proverbs 31. I feel like you're on that path now Jackie. So glad God saved one of the most women on this earth that's You. (Jackie) I do however want to know what do you look for in a man biblically speaking?

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Mathew 13 😊

Be yoked to Jesus and God and the holy spirit the devil wants you be yoked to world and the wrong person he wants you to get sidetracked he wants to be distracted from the Lord and having a relationship with him that is a good word be not unequally yoked thanks Jackie love 💕 you by

Nice one Jackie I have no doubt about it but you could make a wonderful wife and mother some day. But if you got a clear message from Jesus Christ asking you to be his bride and enter a convent, could you and would you answer this call?

Nevermind I see now lol

Do you parents also believe?

Dont kid kid lol