I agree! At our age we've done all the manifesting things, have a huge houseful and beautiful cars.....there's SO much more to life at this age. Like living in a constant state of LOVE, which is, I know their real message understand it all 🤗❤️

​@cheriexavier7231 beautiful, I believe older beings are wise not only from experience but from enlightenment, acceptance and being able to embody compassion, empathy and love. ❤ Enjoy the rest of your time in this physical body! I'm only 42 and I realise that I'm in a building phase of life... we often get so caught up in that I try to meditate as much as possible to pull myself back to here and now.

@@candislubbe3249 Thank you! I love what you say, and I'm more energetic now than I was at half my age - 30 - too, another bonus of getting to the other side of worldly achievement 😁 Sending you all the love and happiness in the world!! Have fun, enjoy every day ❤️

I'm so happy for you. Age is just a number. When you love yourself and perform daily acts of self-care it is so much fun..... chasing your passions and your Joys and doing what you love..... your physical body will Thrive because you will choose pure diet and fluoride free water, pure thoughts and high vibrational behaviors and habits and activities❤ anyone can come in at any time in life, I've seen people at the nursing homes get married in their 90s, you're here to have fun and enjoy😊 you can absolutely attract the same frequency that you are no matter what age

You need to focus on yourself. You need to heal by taking it day by day. Exercise helps a lot. Setting short-term goals and focusing on them. Trying new things. We are all connected. We all struggle, but we are here on this earth to heal one another.

@@sunlight000 🙏

@@Jsbido thank you for the kind words.

I think the choice of wording may make it feel trivial for you to "get over it", the words may sound harsh and at no point did Abraham say it was easy. We are all on the path bother, whether we know it or not. The advice give here is solid advice

You get over the lack (of a relationship for example) by focusing on a topic you can feel good about (the beautiful flowers you just bought for yourself for example). You have to think about something (and anything can do!) that makes you happy.

Happy everyday.

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OMG... you are so focused on the wrong thing and you are going to attract what you are focused on!! You need to change that now or that's going to be your outcome!! Keep listening to Abraham's videos and when the negative thought comes, say cancel, cancel and then make yourself shoot a rocket of desire of what you DO want !! 💪 We have to work at changing our thoughts. It takes a little time but keep doing it and in not too long things will start to change. I find reading lots of comments very helpful. You will find gold Nuggets in what people say about their own experiences. You can do it!! 🫶

It's just a stream of thoughts with a lot of momentum that keeps you hyperfixed on him, don't worry it's changeable! My #1 tip for you I learned from Abraham is focus as much as possible on your desire to feel good. Meditate every morning (breathing and focusing on that and on finding wellbeing inside is practicing feeling good in a powerful way: it will get you more powerful and it will have the effect that over a little bit of time it will get easier and easier to feel good!) Why is this important? The better you feel, the better thoughts you will have! The things we think about depend on our state of being. The next thing I would tell you if you were my friend and had this situation, is to really think about that what really brings joy aren't the people around us, it's our state of being. You don't need anyone, you're not lacking anyone, and you're worth of your highest happiness and of someone who is happy and healthy like you and into you, who chooses you and likes you a lot!!! You're not a failure, this past relationship has aspects that you want in a new relationship and that's good to keep in mind, because you can manifest that, but remember: what you're really yearning for, what you want and need, is not the man, it's being 100% fulfilled and connected to the universe, to the source of all power and joy that you're part of and that you're able to sense from inside you when you're feeling cheerful and happy, that's where all of your love comes from!!! You don't need reassurance, love or anything from any person, all of those things come from the source energy you're a part of, and then, when you're connected to that, your relationships will flourish because your life is a reflection of your state of mind. Yes you deserve and will have a beautiful love realtionship, as soon as you understand that you may be mistaking a person for your source of love, and thinking that you missed some sort of chance. Your whole life in a way thats beyond your wildest dreams is before you, don't look back but also never ever blame yourself for anything and don't worry of for a little while you still think about him, it happens because of a habit of thought that has gained momentum and it's not a bad thing!!! Every thing that hurts brings us a blessing that we can access by training ourselves to look on the brighter side and feel as best as we can: from sad things we grow desires for amazing wonderful things that we are meant to have, you created a wonderful relationship with a wonderful man, that's being held for you vibrationally by the universe, whose unvivided attention is always on you, the universe your source loves you, appreciates you, cheers for your success, and the only thing you have to do (all of us must do it, once we want to know how life works and live with intention, we learn that we must manage our own mind, it's our greatest power and a skill that's very wonderful to develop, the skill of soothing our minds and focusing it on positive things) is balance your mind and keep yourself happy. Be easy on yourself, be nice to yourself, go on Pinterest and collect beautiful pics of things you want to live, listen to music that makes you feel good, talk little about what makes you sad and focus on things that make you feel better, remember that no matter what you're doing very well, you're fulfilling your reason for coming to earth by simply existing, you're very important, good things will happen to you the better you feel. I hope this helped!!! We're all in this together. You're for sure doing a lot better than you think!!!!

Obsession is not love. It's a repeated thought that you've chosen to fixate on instead of moving on. Let go of the past and welcome a fresh, new Today. Decide to be happy. ❤

@@CallMeGailyn remember that without knowledge that there is a choice, it's not a choice. Plus we have to take momentum into account!! Since she probably really wants this, the disappointment created big contrast, and she feels obsessed because there's a lot of momentum, which is normal because no one teaches us to feed positive momentum!!! She's got this.

Maybe what you might have to be concerned about is attracting the experience of having your own husband do the same thing to you! Think about actually being happy with a person that loves you!

@ChristianTorch363 I believe he does love me,I dont want to come between them if they are happy together, but if they aren't wouldn't it be freeing her to find the one for her?

How are you typing so well? Seriously.

@@CallMeGailynI can type a little bit. I can think ok but only in total quiet snd about to be sent er then nursing home bc I can’t stay in $4500 apt in sf w my old parents care taking me longer.

Make good choices. Allow yourself to make choices that serve you.

I Hope you find peace with the conditions you are currently facing! For sure you are facing severe challenges but you Will find sunshine again! ❤