RELAXING MY NATURAL WITH A BLOW OUT RELAXER

RELAXING MY NATURAL WITH A BLOW OUT RELAXER | TONDIE PHOPHI

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Hi guys, i finally relaxed my hair with a blow out relaxer
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Пікірлер: 191

@famous_gurlgenny4456 5 жыл бұрын

Honestly all the negative comments can go somewhere like shut up it’s her hair her life she can do whatever gosh!!

@bluebird1694 5 жыл бұрын

It's just a thing to do for the natural hair enthusiasts. The anti comments wouldn't be here if this was a big chop or a hair coloring vid instead. They just hate relaxers due to bad experiences and ignore how they help with managing hair more easily. Not everyone has the time to detangle and braid for hours.

@4079907 3 жыл бұрын

Man stfu

@velveta3278 5 жыл бұрын

Hair is hair!! Relaxed natural.all is hair

@mobutter2879 4 жыл бұрын

ada aneke did she shave her edges? She is so cute! Like why??

@lindabass2321 4 жыл бұрын

Hair is hair for real I don’t even understand why people call the kinky afro natural hair and don’t do same for the relax hair..... is the relaxed hair a wig 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

@kookiekakes713 5 жыл бұрын

Guys I sense relaxer-shaming going on here...😂 GURL!!! I relate sooo much. My hair is soo thick and dense, I’m bout to call in the creamy crack too. I also don’t wanna lose my texture but can I at least get a comb in and outta there in one stroke, damn!!! 😂 I feel ya hunny and well done! 😘

@alpoyao9758 Жыл бұрын

Uterine cancer breast cancer

@rescuingmyself6429 4 жыл бұрын

Those shouting Team Natural is just as ignorant as saying Team Light Skin... It’s a divisive speech... Meant to keep us comparing each other... Stay Woke...

@Ninofalls 4 жыл бұрын

Wut? All these faux-deep folks... annoying. Af

@thinadlamini4671 4 жыл бұрын

At the end of the day we are all black.

@daisyingrid618 3 жыл бұрын

Ok who cares as long as am happy with my hair be it natural, dreads weave, wig ,bald , with colour or relaxed... celebrate diversity we get all those options as black women it's should be empowering not a source of discord...

@evangelistf.davisr.n.2810 2 жыл бұрын

What is the name of the hair relaxer?could u please list the name of all the products u used, I was thinking 30 min would make it too straight but it came welll with a lot of body,Good job

@juliampshe5117 5 жыл бұрын

Wow gal u have such a beautiful natural hair I luv it so much and thnx dear for sharing your videos I luv them

@bigarie 5 жыл бұрын

Seeing her comb her hair with the relaxer in her hair made me so anxious 😩

@bluebird1694 5 жыл бұрын

Not all relaxer formulations are the same. This particular one is safe to do so because it's much milder than the regular strength ones that are meant to straighten the hair an not simply loosen the curl pattern.

@shxdow9807 4 жыл бұрын

I thought her hair was gonna fall out 😭

@fuxkluv.x2886 3 жыл бұрын

ShxdowX me to 😭😭

@lehlogonolomodiba5551 5 жыл бұрын

You motivated me to blow out my hair. i had my doubts but honestly speaking i have no regrets.. my hair feels great and i love it☺😀😁😄

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

Am glad you found it helpful, i also don’t regret it a bit ❤️

@alpoyao9758 Жыл бұрын

@@tondijohnston uterine cancer breast cancer

@vegassummer4116 5 жыл бұрын

Great video!! 💕

@queenblackdiva 5 жыл бұрын

that's kinda how my hair looked like when relaxed, i didn't like it bcz it wasn't straight and silky (like the hair of the girl on the relaxer box) and i had no idea how my real hair texture was (i was still a kid lol), so that was really frustrating. so i'm really glad i went natural (btw if you are happy with your hair relaxed that's fine for me)

@mpumephakathi6200 4 жыл бұрын

I have THICK THICK THICK hair and I won't be able to maintain it when I have my baby in two weeks. I can barely do that now. I can't even manage it now. I bought the sta soft fro and will get my bf to relax my hair later today. Glad I came across this video.

@tondijohnston 4 жыл бұрын

I helped me a lot when I was pregnant too

@meep2605 3 жыл бұрын

Same reason I had a blow out.

@elizabethmwihaki2399 4 жыл бұрын

Your hair styling is cool...i hope you'll be able to maintain it n avoid hair breakage.

@salsteven4484 2 жыл бұрын

This is what I want. Half baked hair .

@pearlj2991 5 жыл бұрын

Lovely!

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@phephilenomhle1982 4 жыл бұрын

You always inspire me.. I also have a short hair but I'm struggling with my hair because I don't know what to do, but since I've started watching your videos I can also do my own hair thank very much ❤️

@tondijohnston 4 жыл бұрын

Am glad I could help ❤️

@candidapeier 4 жыл бұрын

So these particular type of relaxer is mild on the hands? Looking forward to perming mine

@morongwawaronamaswabi3935 5 жыл бұрын

OMG I'm so happy that my favourite hair blogger is relaxing because I've been so wanting to do it. I mean I love natural hair but my lifestyle doesn't allow for me to keep it they way I would like if I had the time and money

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

I love natural hair too but its too much hey

@morongwawaronamaswabi3935 5 жыл бұрын

@@tondijohnston it really is, I think I'll have a go again next year, plus with the festive season around d the corner it will be very hard to maintain.. While at it, do you think I could achieve the same texture using the common dark and lovely relaxer?

@leklekjasmine416 4 жыл бұрын

Yall just love following trends and these youtubers huh

@alpoyao9758 Жыл бұрын

Uterine cancer breast cancer

@charleyMcCaw 4 жыл бұрын

I understand why she would put in a relaxer I get it. I have been natural for 6 years now and i have kinky course thick hair but just like natural hair you have to care for it. Relaxers aren't permanent either you have to keep reapplying it. As long as your happy that's all that matters. I had my hair straighten and it was like that for 3 weeks plus it rained a lot that time

@happines12 5 жыл бұрын

Could have just blow dried it to get the same effect i heard that relaxing ur hair while pregnant isnt recommended. Did u talk with ur doctor to see if the issue you were current having with ur hair could be related to ur pregnancy hormones.

@mewtwomotherfuka 5 жыл бұрын

@FanGirlingForYou 19 but it has been proven that relaxers mess with your fertility organs.

@sademouton7391 5 жыл бұрын

@@mewtwomotherfuka sources?

@carenasmith7 5 жыл бұрын

That’s not true my mother relaxed her hair throughout her pregnancy with me. I’m completely normal. Inhaling the chemicals when you are pregnant is harmful to the baby yes.

@nebulizer746 5 жыл бұрын

Carena Smith well that's just you doesn't mean it it's not true

@carenasmith7 5 жыл бұрын

Jayjay 707 it does affect the baby at all unless the mother inhales the relaxer (chemicals) the chemicals can be harmful to the baby when the mom breaths it in but applying relaxers does nothing to the baby. So it’s a myth

@hassangooner233 4 жыл бұрын

i used to use this product on my hair, am a guy,,it made my afro kinky and soft,loved it,,could do any style with my hair..curly..kinky..etc...but chopped my hair,going natural but tempted to use it again, finally someone made a vid on this product..but i dont use a comb when applying this,might end up with a different typa hair pattern, but ey, we all got our ways

@manyara9528 4 жыл бұрын

How do apply it and how long do you keep the relaxer in your hair?

@hassangooner233 4 жыл бұрын

@@manyara9528 follow the instructions , i learnt from alot of mistakes applying this,,for starters make sure you shampoo your hair like 2days before applying it or even moredays before,it doesnt like shampoo, when applying it make sure your hair is combed out fully detangled,apply it with your hands i didnt use a comb cause might end up looking like a wet chicken after the process so i d just smoothly apply it even to my roots even tho not recommended but wanted my hair to look like its natually smooth,i leaved it for about 12-15mins then wash it out with warm water, then neutralizer like twice then a good conditioner after, i already have natural curls but ey dry so it made my hair super curly soft and long

@manyara9528 4 жыл бұрын

@@hassangooner233 Thank you very much was afraid it might turn out like a wet chicken lol

@hassangooner233 4 жыл бұрын

@@manyara9528 😂😂 if you over process it it might do that 😂 but it never did that to me..once left it for like 25mins i had forgotten but it did nothing..its not harsh but make sure you keep your hair moisturizied and stuff. .i stopped using it cause i wanted the natural texture back ..remember dont comb it much when applying. .anyway guess it depends on your hair type and what exactly you want..if you comb it i think you d get loose curls..but ey am not an expect ..like i said i learnt the hard way from my mistakes with this product😅

@rinalioness4965 4 жыл бұрын

Girl you pulling, yanking and combing with that relaxer in “I’M 💀

@sethumamba 3 жыл бұрын

Its the song choice for me😂😂😂

@nakanyikaannet4221 4 жыл бұрын

Guys I'm so happy for the videos.

@thandonebe481 5 жыл бұрын

I love the song ur playing in the backround.

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@rosalinaalaya9362 3 жыл бұрын

Is it necessary to o put the oil after blowing your hair

@ntombibevu40 Жыл бұрын

Wow its lovely

@tondijohnston Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@ntombibevu40 Жыл бұрын

U welcome

@dorothy3586 3 жыл бұрын

Where can I texturing product especially in America back in South Africa we called it step one.

@elizabethmella9485 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve 4c hair and I used sofn’free Afro blow out just stayed for 6 minutes I think ! Hair came out curly 😀!

@tondijohnston 2 жыл бұрын

It’s amazing

@lizayskyy9871 5 жыл бұрын

It looks over processed but long as you happy with it😊

@Chilling_Charizard 2 жыл бұрын

Hey, I have been growing my hair for 5 months. I want to make it a soft afro so I will try as per your tutorial

@tondijohnston 2 жыл бұрын

Good luck

@theoceantunnel 3 жыл бұрын

Wow good work my sister.

@tondijohnston 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@theoceantunnel 3 жыл бұрын

@@tondijohnston My hair is so beautiful and my girlfriend just braided it today.

@mariaphale1107 5 жыл бұрын

The song😂😂😂😂😂

@isis6093 3 жыл бұрын

What about it?

@DIVANYHAIR 5 жыл бұрын

👍😘😘

@katlegotshehla8420 4 жыл бұрын

Nic 😍

@ThatiSelebano 4 жыл бұрын

Was there a burn? Since it's like a relaxer. I'm thinking about doing this but my scalp is sensitive

@ThatiSelebano 4 жыл бұрын

Lol nevermind

@snipergang7118 4 жыл бұрын

Onthatile Selebano i hate KZfaqrs like that

@vanessathomas7437 3 жыл бұрын

You don't owe anyone an explanation why you change up your hair! It's YOUR Hair and your business!

@tondijohnston 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@4079907 3 жыл бұрын

Ok bald head

@meep2605 3 жыл бұрын

Mine is still an afro Major regrets though 😭my hair doesn't respond to moisture now .. I'm struggling to have my hair take in moisture and my good quality hair products.

@tondijohnston 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry you had a bed experience with the product

@abuyaasir8006 4 жыл бұрын

😄😄😄😄 ooo my good

@kyliepretty5072 5 жыл бұрын

Cute!

@hurstnjoroge4176 2 жыл бұрын

Soo there is no problem with drying your hair using a blow dryer.... Wont it cut or something

@keitumetsekoloti7173 5 жыл бұрын

But I loved your natural hair. I copied your hairstyles and received compliments 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩. My hair is natural and I looked forward to your vidz and copying your hairstyles.

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, i used a blow out relaxer and my hair still looks natural just more softer. i can still archive the same hairstyles

@keitumetsekoloti7173 5 жыл бұрын

So the blow out didn’t strip the “natural” off?

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

My hair currently looks like the picture on the right, i took it today

@keitumetsekoloti7173 5 жыл бұрын

Tondie Phophi I cant wait to see the type of hairstyles that you are going to do with your new hair. 😁😁😊. I still love you nonetheless and I will keep on following. 😙

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@diannacannon7827 3 жыл бұрын

Where do i find this at. Not om Amazon

@tondijohnston 3 жыл бұрын

It’s a South African brand

@amandamnyandu8384 5 жыл бұрын

I also blow dryed my hair with a relaxer and now it's silkish😢How do I turn it back to natural?

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

I only did it once and its been 6 month, try avoid doing it often

@Purpletaste2 4 жыл бұрын

Wash it and live it to dry...don't use a hair dryer

@andilesithole2051 5 жыл бұрын

What's the name of the song you playing?

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

Diamond Eyes - Flutter [NCS Release]

@foralltypes9355 5 жыл бұрын

Nothing in this world can make me relax my heavy natural hair to be as thin as air. I'm sorry but our natural hair is beautiful and unique, can be changed to look so many ways and still come back for it's natural state. I recently braided twist with my natural hair without extension and still looked heavy and very nice. My African sisters please let's maintain our uniqueness.

@abbb8238 5 жыл бұрын

for all types Lately I see many 4C girls going relaxed. Idk Y. I’m 4C and I love it. It took some time but I can never relax it.

@kerenoparaugo6724 5 жыл бұрын

for all types congrats

@donij9853 5 жыл бұрын

My hair is relaxed and thick but I don't go hating on people because they have Natural hair I love natural hair and relaxed hair

@bluebird1694 5 жыл бұрын

Would you had posted this comment if she shaved her head bald?

@sadinahrafael9700 2 жыл бұрын

Shut up

@monicahwatetu409 3 жыл бұрын

If I may ask does relaxed hair need treatment

@tondijohnston 3 жыл бұрын

Yes all hair types need some sort of treatment, I use the ORS Hair Mayonnaise ones a week

@nwabisajula2935 3 жыл бұрын

I did this last year and it came out looking like hers. I couldn't deal with the disappointment so shaved it all of 😭😂. I'm never doing it again 🤣

@mrsmylove8448 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao you shouldn't have shaved it actually strengthens with time, it was going to get better 😂😂😂

@nwabisajula2935 3 жыл бұрын

@@mrsmylove8448 😂 I was so disappointed that I didn't want to live with it for that long 😂

@alexianicole7268 5 жыл бұрын

You're so cute 😭

@4079907 3 жыл бұрын

Cap

@alexianicole7268 3 жыл бұрын

@@4079907 Shut up musty

@4079907 3 жыл бұрын

@@alexianicole7268 Wash yah ass...... bald head.... these videos will not help you......

@gbafafrancisca6850 Жыл бұрын

Pls the name of the cream u used

@tondijohnston Жыл бұрын

Sta-Sof-Fro Blow Out Relaxer

@bongiwecapa1080 5 жыл бұрын

Hey Tondie!big fan❤🔥. Quick question!does this mean u will have to keep relaxing ur hair every time ur natural hair grows underneath coz i did the same blow out and im stressing .

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

Thanx, i plan to do it every 4-5 months it will also depend on the growth

@phyllisjohnson3793 5 жыл бұрын

Where's your towel and gloves Ma'am? That is the way I used to put a relaxer on my hair when I was a teenager. Before I went to hair school and learned the proper way to apply a relaxer to virgin hair. But that's me. It is your hair, I'm just waiting for the final outcome. Natural hair is not my friend. Relaxers are my Besties.

@oliviarogers9617 5 жыл бұрын

That explains why a lot of people have no edges... dont comb a perm through your hair😐

@Inseezie 4 жыл бұрын

No mam. Its the weave and braids and lace fronts and sew ins and quick weaves that cause edges to fall out. Facts

@charmingyoutuber2408 3 жыл бұрын

@@Inseezie Can we all just agree that combing a perm through is a no go?

@4079907 3 жыл бұрын

@@Inseezie yet 90% of bw got no edges..... yet dude's like me have longer and healthier hair..... plus we have ALL are edges

@Trezn 4 жыл бұрын

Dear whoever reading this, be more confident in yourself

@burgerqueen6022 4 жыл бұрын

You sound dumb

@4079907 3 жыл бұрын

@@burgerqueen6022 hit dogs holla

@nicolemugabe6 3 жыл бұрын

Can u tie it up for us

@dragonsanddinosaurs6833 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness 🤦🏾‍♀️

@rotondwa94 5 жыл бұрын

It only takes less than a second to hit the like button. 🙄

@aalbertadu6243 5 жыл бұрын

✋🏽 see you back for the big chop😘💇🏾‍♀️

@nubianmoiselle3797 5 жыл бұрын

😅

@4079907 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@singleavailablenazaalawash6500 Жыл бұрын

Cream name dear??

@tondijohnston Жыл бұрын

Sta-Sof-Fro Blow Out Relaxer

@memeMeme-tn2mp 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Iam new Subscriber, I also have Natural Hair 4c type& its Thicker and Health ,honestly l love my hair and I can Mantain my hair , I dont mind spending for my Natural hair But lately due wash day routine I spend almost 3Houhs just being busy with my hair, Natural hair Demind so much time 🤥, it's worse my Hair its shrinky to the Bush🤯, I sometimes think of Using Blow out cream, just to make it manageable 🤔, buts the process seems as you have overyprocced ur hair dear. If u wanted it to still looks Natural 🧐, thanks for sharing

@favour9020 5 жыл бұрын

whats the point relaxing it. I went natural and my hair grew more faster than I having it relaxed. I love my natural hair and I will never get tired of it because I love the results and it made my hair more thicker

@tondijohnston 5 жыл бұрын

Good for you, it didn’t work for me

@manyara9528 5 жыл бұрын

To each his own

@Alicia_W413 5 жыл бұрын

If you notice your comment was filled with I's. It's as though you took her choice personally. Let us be more empathetic.

@kyliepretty5072 5 жыл бұрын

It’s hard to maintain natural hair, and it’s expensive. Everyone’s hair type is different and has different levels of care needed.

@favour9020 5 жыл бұрын

@@kyliepretty5072 Aren't our ancestors have the same hair type as us?yes they do. back then they weren't not hair products or relaxer so y'all need to stop complaining or making excuses of how difficult to manage try braiding even better

@lesliecador-kidd1212 5 жыл бұрын

I disliked this video not because I'm a natural but because the application was disastrous and I think you just don't know how to do your hair. Sometimes it's better left up to the professionals.

@joeysasscheeks5215 5 жыл бұрын

Leslie Cador-Kidd “just don’t know how to do your hair” excuse me but do you not know how hard it can be to manage certain hair types?

@khadijahkhalidgh 5 жыл бұрын

Well, in Africa, Ghana, the so-called professionals comb your hair while relaxing and u can't complain cuz that's how they do it in almost every salon in Ghana

@vivalavida5713 5 жыл бұрын

Joey’s Asscheeks is I agree with the original comment, I have 4a hair and I understand how it feels to have hair like her and their trying to not be rude but their being straightforward and true, it’s true the application sucked and I also disliked not because I’m a petty natural or anything but because she applied it that’s all

@keikei1943 5 жыл бұрын

Dude they do it differently in Africa. There is no right not wrong in the method. My word🙄

@arismobileroblox3468 5 жыл бұрын

Joey’s Asscheeks she has type 4 hair ;-:

@GL0UPS 5 жыл бұрын

I had relaxed my hair thinking it was a bandage for me really just going through it....I didn't even leave it in for 10 minutes, I got scared cried and then cut all my hair off.... Here I am 2 months post chop. Never again.

@Ffygjjccdffhb 5 жыл бұрын

Weave

@Chance754 5 жыл бұрын

It look like you just blowed dried you hair.

@bluebird1694 5 жыл бұрын

That's why it's called a blow out relaxer and not the normal straightening kind lol.

@umabakongoaroundtheworld4390 5 жыл бұрын

relax is not friendly

@Lindamorena 2 жыл бұрын

No gloves? That's not good for you hun.

@alicecheese7130 5 жыл бұрын

This look could have been very much easily achieved with your natural hair 👀

@bluebird1694 5 жыл бұрын

But it wouldn't be permanent. She wanted a loser texture for manageability, not a temporary fix.

@ellaoshinkanlu8590 4 жыл бұрын

@@bluebird1694 thank u

@bluebird1694 4 жыл бұрын

@@ellaoshinkanlu8590 you're welcome hon. I get the hesitation to use strong chemicals but most of the negative replies seem to come from those who were overprocessing their hair. This is the safest way to relax because you're underprocessing the hair, leaving strength and elasticity.

@desireedesi8151 4 жыл бұрын

I Just subscribe i mean y not

@tondijohnston 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@thandekamalope5848 3 жыл бұрын

There’s just no way 😞

@SheillaSibanda 5 жыл бұрын

How could our baby do this to us lol😊😊😊, natural hair is a job and a half shame 🤦🤦🤦🤦.

@obadiahgyedu4129 5 жыл бұрын

Sheil

@kellygoodman6167 5 жыл бұрын

I have no problem with you relaxing your hair but please do not do it while you are pregnant think about your baby please.

@jess2bad962 5 жыл бұрын

she’s putting relaxer on her hair , what does that have to do with the baby .....yall just be saying anything.

@bluebird1694 5 жыл бұрын

Id have to check this particular brand to see if it's lye or no lye, but if it's lye then the ingredients aren't much different from bar soap, just different concentrations. The difference between lye Relaxer and soap is petroleum and mineral oil are used instead of tallow or vegetable oils and the concentration of lye is slightly higher. Since it's only left on for about 16 minutes, the baby shouls be fine. Plently of pregnant women have had chemical services done to their hair with no negative effects to their babies.

@janelouw402 4 жыл бұрын

@@bluebird1694 tx for the info

@bluebird1694 4 жыл бұрын

@@janelouw402 you're welcome :)

@4079907 3 жыл бұрын

@@jess2bad962 don't have kids please.....

@tatianaburke7800 5 жыл бұрын

Cut it cut it cut it... looks extremely damaged

@snipergang7118 4 жыл бұрын

tatiana burke for real

@mynafa2320 5 жыл бұрын

Oh no mama why 😭 (you still beatifull 🤗)

@ginanelson4716 5 жыл бұрын

“I have air flowing all over my head” yeah that’s how it feels when ur so close to being bald .😂😂💀 cringed every time she ripped that pick comb through her hair .

@zeeeefineass1930 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂