WE ALL NEED TO WATCH THIS CHANNEL. WE NEED TO UNPACK OUR JUDGEMENT,IGNORANCE AND SHAME. THANK YOU TO EVERYONE INVOLVED IN CREATING SUCH A POSITIVELY IMPACTFUL SHOW.

This story opens up so many conversations. 1. Cons of Having sex while young 2. Denying people safe abortion which increases the risk of them actually doing illegal ones 3. Unavailability of information when it comes to sex 4. the stigmas in the black community.

There is so much emotion in Lebo's voice when she speaks... I can literally feel her pain... I liked that her family was there for her thou

This channel needs to be 500k + subbies, this channel is really unpacking shame. Her family was so supportive, as a sister to a girl child. I am hoping to be the best Momkhulu ever. Our girls needs our support not to be thrown with stones and bad judgements.

I think that nurse was so wrong. No way. This is why I hate the “no one owes you anything” statement. We owe each other decency, empathy and kindness ALWAYS!

Yho shoutout to Lebo’s family for supporting her🥺

There's so much pain in Lebo's voice,I just wanna hug her and tell her it will be okay.

I also gave birth to an 8 month old boy. He died as well. I feel your pain... I really do. I'm so sorry. I'm really sorry. One never gets over the pain. I'm so sorry.

Abortion is indeed a medical issue. The real issue here, is women having complete control over their body. Aborting is the best decision I made.

My heart really bleeds for what Lebo went through. I know I would not be able to bring myself to talk to that old woman after treating me like that when i was merely looking for help. Her family is amazing for offering her that kind of support and never judging her.

Lebo's story is heartbreaking hle banna. You can just hear and see her pain hle. I can't imagine the outcome if her family were not that supportive. And so many young women go through the same over and over. The stigma has to go.

Ashhh Lebo's story got me so emotional. I just can't imagine what we go through as women...

Lebo thank you for Sharing your story, I have a similar one lost my Baby boy after birth at 17 never wanted to abort him ever. But it just shows that teenagers are not emotionally ready for sex. There is too much things to consider.

Relebongile's line of questioning is impressive. ❤️✨

I support sharing your story, it's shows courage and love for other people. It sad that when a baby is conceive there is 2 people but a woman get to deal with pain by herself. I'm 100% sure your story Lebo will help so many because tough times in our lives are there to help someone to do better. Shame doesn't stand empathy, forgive yourself love. God is the only person who can judge we have not right to judge no one is perfect.

This is so close to my heart because we have people in the rural areas who still go through what Lebogang went through because of not having information. The society is also judgemental without even understanding what one is going through. I am glad this conversations are happening and people can learn, open up and make informed decisions. Thank you Relebogile for caring this show with so much respect❤️❤️

I think the plastic Object used on Lebo is called an Amniotic hook, we use it in facilities to break the mother's water when she is 7 to 8 cm dilated just to help the process of labour to go quick and to release pressure from the Uterus

Information is paramount. You are right. Schools need to be able to give out contraception to boys and girls.

This topic is sickening to me when women are being judged as if they made themselves pregnant.😒😒🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

I believe this are conversations that need to had openly🙌

Things that woman go through,the pain in Lebo’s voice,and how she said thank you am good I felt that.

that traumatic day 4 years ago ,just came back folding like it happened yesterday .i need help

Wow Lebo your story is honestly gonna help so many girls who are going through what you went through . Thank you so much for sharing your story. ❤️❤️

Yho Lebogang. I literally shed a tear to this. I relate so much to her saying she was not angry at the nurse and that she has taken accountability. She is her own biggest critic and really dsnt need anyone else to judge or critique her coz she done that herself so ppl must stop with that self righteous mentality. It has no effect really🙄

Lebo's family is really supportive hey😭❤️. I wish most families were like this hey

This show is so informative and I love it.

As a society we need, we have to change and unpack sex, Abortion/termination for the sake of our Children cause the more we do not talk about such it will lead our girl child to take a wrong route of such situations. The Society mindset needs to be changed, in every angle.

Lebogang I pray for your healing you were so young and I hope you are getting counseling even now

This got me so emotional 😭😭Lebo is a strong girl.

This interview was an eye opener and so heart breaking , its really sad how some people would put money first and risk people's lives by performing illegal procedures

Thank you for Unpacking this topic Relebogile🙏🏾 As a young girl, these videos are so informative & needed amongst us to help us even spark these conversations.

Something to ponder on as we all watch this video. We are very good lawyers for our own mistakes, and very good judges for the mistakes of others. Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone. Dont judge people because they sin differently from you. That's all.

I miss the days when life was sacred. Now personal choice trumps the sanctity of life and people now make excuses to support sin. The strong victimising the weak. Quite heartbreaking. And the saddest part is it's never a happy ending for both mom and baby.

This is why parents need to stop making sex a taboo topic. If she had been educated about contraception, pregnancy, abortion, adoption -- none of this would have probably happened

This show is so informative 🥺 Thank you so much for creating this platform sis Lebo❤️

The stigma stems from religion ... The arguements are rooted in the doctrines of religion and 'God' and morals according to our religious beliefs. We must start Looking at it from various lenses... mental stability, fincancial stability, emotional support from People around us, how a woman gets pregnant. A Child is lifetime commitment.

Argh I’m so sorry you went through that. May you heal from the trauma❤️

I won't throw any stones but... Everyone has a right to live. We are becoming an amoral society. These innocent souls are defenseless. May God help us...

Rights goes hand in hand responsibilities, instead of us teaching the young ones that it’s their right to abort let’s teach them safe sex and avoid killing

The law and constitution prohibits schools from discriminating against pregnant girls and preventing them their right to education. Lebo's school was going against the law.

The Judgement in the comments is sickening, at times I wish the comments under these videos could be turned off.

Thank you all for this conversation.🙏❤

We need family like Lebo's in our society,thank's mom for supporting her.

Women go thru so much. That nurse definitely did not have to be mean during such a sad moment.

Today I'm early 🙏😭Dis show is everything

"I'm proud of you" 🙌🙌🙌🧡😭

This is so sad 😭😭😭😭😭 Thank u Soo much for sharing ur story Lebo .....it has made me realize staff I nvr knew and also this is like my second home now .....the content ,this is such an amazing show ❤️

The object is an amniotic hook. It is normally used in women in labour to break the waters

That's no ones business but your own. Your body, your rules

Relebogile just said "when it comes to life and death it shouldn't be about personal views, it should be about duty" I know she was talking about saving Lebo's baby's life but then it also means according to her words that she doesn't respect the rights of medical workers to refuse their services when it comes to termination becauseof their personal beliefs. When it comes to ending a life all that matters according to her logic is performing duty.

Tjo this show is the best🤞🏿🤞🏿🥺🥺🥺

I am in health i don't have perform termination of pregnancy but i can't stop someone to go ahead for termination but will ensure person get perform legal and professional and do best support psychological

Oooooh so sorry that happened, the baby wasn’t yours, only to teach you the power of unconditional love and your emotions say it all, hope you heal

I always hear this saying careful what you wish for. Hearing this story is sad ☹️

Communication is the key that open many doors. Families and friend's need to dialogue be open speak the truth, and share experiences, to hopefully prevent negative scenarios. 🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋

Sometimes it's a rape situation, but some people are just not responsible at all.... it's a sad reality!

Thank you for this informative show

Oh my God, I love Relebogile ❤️

My favorite girl Gao

Lebo May you find total restoration from God. God didn’t want you to part with your son at the moment you expected having known how it was going to affect you. He gave you extra time with him. You met him, you named him, held him and buried him. Be comforted in the knowledge that you will meet him again in heaven. I speak as a mother who lost her first baby 6 days after she had to be delivered at 6 months due to higher blood pressure in pregnancy and lost my third born who was born at 35 weeks due to a placenta abruptio . He was recovering in NICU but left on the 15th day of his life. For me to have had those few days with my babies came as a blessing as I know Satan meant to hurt me or drive me into depression by killing my kids but God was ahead of him. What took your son is called Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. It’s unknown what causes it. You are not to be blamed. Do not doubt yourself as a mother ever. Love and peace to you.

This episode was very much needed

I would like to her the story from the woman who was performing the illegal abortion for Lebo ,just so we know are this ppl affected by this procedures they perform .Like are they affected psychologically?

Abortion is not a form of contraception. Abortion can lead to serious mental health issues. Can cause infertility. Please use contraception so many types out there. Some women have even thought of suicide post abortion. Please use available contraception far safer emotional, mentally, physically well being.

Lebogang please be okay .you are crying internally and stop blaming yourself

abortion is a moral issue first then becomes medical when someone decides to have an abortion

I am so sorry for what you went through

I am just wondering why Lebo got censored when she said vagina? Is it a vulgar word?

As a health practitioner there are alot of concerns in Thato's story

We should not be judgemental as a people, situations do happen in life and people have to do what they have to do. It's sad but sometimes women have no other choice but to terminate the pregnancy.

Much respect for Lebo

Your family is a blessing dali.

Ask Christ for forgiveness if you're suffering form abortion guilt and he will free you. Don't relabel evil as good to cope with what you've done. Pro abortion women are lost and need prayer. Unborn children deserve protection too.

Love and light to you Lebo❤

I feel so ashamed now watching this. There are young women that ive met through school that went through abortions that i feel ive judged, maybe not verbally but still. Ive allowed people to speak ill of them to me nd i said nothing. i am so sorry

When does this show play on SABC?

Rele man😍✊🏽

Deep stuff

Abortion is a moral issue not a medical necessity since you're taking the life of an innocent human being. The main reason for having an abortion is that the child is the inconvenient outcome of irresponsible sex.

Ladies plz as a Christian it doesn't matter if it's fetus it's a human in the future don't have sex at all may God forgive you here I have a frnd who wish she can have a baby she has tried everything but now we just trust God for a miracle this is so sad my neighbour who is also a nurse at a hospital she worked with abortion and oneday day she couldn't do it anymore she collapsed and left her job she had to go for counseling plz ladies use something plz

Shame Lebo really went through a lot at a young age. And worse she had to take care of a premature child while she's still a baby herself. ...I wonder where was the father of the Baby, one day we should have a conversation about how abortion affects the father. ..... That nurse is pure evil, there's no excuse for such cruelty.

Lebo🥺❤❤❤ strength to you sis

I can relate to your story cc

I personally think the object was a BALLON CATHETER for induction of labour 🤔 . Thank you so much guys for sharing your stories this could save more lives🥰

Sorry for your loss thou 😭

Learnt a lot here yho

Lebo 💔 Love and Light to you sis ❤️

ABORTION THIS YEAR ALONE. 19 MILLION.PLUS. N STIL COUNTING.. JUS COZ IT LEGAL DONT MAKE IT RIGHT.. ALL LIFE IS PRECIOUS.

There is nothing to applaud here,what kind of a mother allows her 16 year old to have an abortion at 6 months? This is going too far. She could have died. They lived in Linden, they could have found a family to adopt the child.

Relo where do u buy your wardrobe plis help

Yooooooo Lebo :( So painful. I am so sorry.

Is she regretting????

My heart 💔

At 6 months yoh!?😨

Your body your rules? who told you you that this is your body to begin with, where did you get it from?

😭😭😭😭😢

This is heavy 😪...

You gave birth on my birth date 13 may......❤️

Lebo i.m sorry this is so sad 🥰🥰

Please, my plea to anyone considering abortion...think about your child, the pain they will go through and the absolute fact that it is a killing. Being pregnant is not a death sentence (even when its through rape or incest). Since the baby is already alive in your womb, consider adoption, open up to someone. Your life matters and so does the life of your baby❤

IF WOMEN ARE NOT SHAMED OF HAVING ABORTIONS. WHY ARE MEN SHAMED FOR NOT WANTING TO RAISE THEIR KIDS... BOTH GENDERS ARE ABANDONING THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES.