I Worked In A Mortuary | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 54 | Season 3

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Relebogile Mabotja

Relebogile Mabotja

2 жыл бұрын

A guest shares his story on how he joined his family's funeral parlor and started working with corpse at a young age.
Studio Guest: Nakisani Murathi
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@lusaninakisanimurathi
@lusaninakisanimurathi 2 жыл бұрын
Good Day Viewers I would like to thank everyone for the encouraging messages really appreciate the support and the positive comments indeed I was involved in a car accident in the begging of November with 2 of my close friends we currently recovering and keeping positive the well wishes i just saw on my brothers post were very warm and I really thank you so much indeed God is great all the time .I get to live and share more stories Many Thanks Lusani Nakisani Murathi
@landilanimutuwawira2716
@landilanimutuwawira2716 2 жыл бұрын
Get well soon
@landilanimutuwawira2716
@landilanimutuwawira2716 2 жыл бұрын
I’m currently watching this on 10 mins now
@eunicethemba8512
@eunicethemba8512 2 жыл бұрын
Speedy recovery , love and light brother 🙏
@ntombiduma2066
@ntombiduma2066 2 жыл бұрын
Strength my brother
@nosiphomqaqa21
@nosiphomqaqa21 2 жыл бұрын
Askies, I hope both of you are well.
@refiloemachete1648
@refiloemachete1648 2 жыл бұрын
Yoh this is some scary iish. I have massive respect for people who are in this type of work. It makes you wonder what would become of us if no one was brave enough to do it.
@PHlophe
@PHlophe 2 жыл бұрын
Refiloe, girl you should not have watched at night, this scared you real good . switch the tv on and hug your husband really tight you'll feed good mama.
@oam4ever
@oam4ever 2 жыл бұрын
When you were born somebody had to bathe you and take care of you, people you don’t even know. Same thing when you die. This is very humbling and makes you wanna help where you can as a human being.
@mafokopetrusmokwena126
@mafokopetrusmokwena126 2 жыл бұрын
The person/people who comes up with these topics and finds the guests are really doing an amazing job. The presenter Relebogile delivers 🙌👏👌all the time.What an amazing host.For me on this episode what got me were her facial expressions😆😅. My wish is for the SABC 3 numbers grow,the KZfaq channel too.Nna yena I first watch on S3 then come back here 😀. Tonight's episode 😬😲😱🙆🏾I respect people working at the mortuary, I know for sure I would not be able to do this.
@katlegomagoleng6911
@katlegomagoleng6911 2 жыл бұрын
P P P
@katlegomagoleng6911
@katlegomagoleng6911 2 жыл бұрын
Pp
@eunicebaloyi933
@eunicebaloyi933 2 жыл бұрын
I watch all episodes on KZfaq, I'm not a fan of TV that much
@tshepialletta3482
@tshepialletta3482 2 жыл бұрын
17:28 my mom took her breath when we put her down i thought she was coming back
@sandra_dyosini5714
@sandra_dyosini5714 2 жыл бұрын
Same, I first watched on S3 🤣
@badiri1475
@badiri1475 2 жыл бұрын
I like how he doesn't rush to answer questions. He takes his time to think 1st. His narration is top notch👌🏾
@omphileprecious5159
@omphileprecious5159 2 жыл бұрын
I know we are unpacking but his voice😍🤞🏾❤😍
@Leeworld310
@Leeworld310 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, same here, but still andimubaweli 😂😂
@omphileprecious5159
@omphileprecious5159 2 жыл бұрын
@@Leeworld310 mara choms look at him😂😍❤
@noxiek
@noxiek 2 жыл бұрын
@@Leeworld310 me too never lol
@kennethnyangani2884
@kennethnyangani2884 2 жыл бұрын
Wuuuuuuuu shame... I was dying to say the same but I was embarrassed 🙊🙈
@philasandedladla5064
@philasandedladla5064 2 жыл бұрын
Ubufebe🤣🤣
@sandra_dyosini5714
@sandra_dyosini5714 2 жыл бұрын
This guy seems very humble and he is just loveable man.
@kgomotsotlhapane2076
@kgomotsotlhapane2076 2 жыл бұрын
What a brave young man I don't think I can survive working at a mortuary I wouldn't survive geez. You really have to be very brave to be able to.
@nyakadot.esq.2746
@nyakadot.esq.2746 2 жыл бұрын
It's the living that you should be afraid of the dead cannot do you any harm
@thatayaonedick1663
@thatayaonedick1663 2 жыл бұрын
This guy is just so lovable..A beautiful human being.iam so Proud of him like he's my own brother.Chilled ❤️👌😊
@rocka7339
@rocka7339 2 жыл бұрын
Nakisani is remarkable. He explained his work with so much respect, what a kind and gentle man. Thank you for sharing this very interesting story with us.
@camillacabello3084
@camillacabello3084 2 жыл бұрын
Let's unpack from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
@clonapsbethe1261
@clonapsbethe1261 2 жыл бұрын
I respect all people who work at funeral industry
@nokomapetla7860
@nokomapetla7860 2 жыл бұрын
He is so professional making us understand that it’s like any other job. You get there, do what you have to, then leave.
@mjrbomb116
@mjrbomb116 2 жыл бұрын
This is my elder brother. It's very sad that this interview was done on the 24th October and a week after he almost lost his life, he was involved in accident. It was almost broadcast posthumously. He is currently sitting at home he can't walk both his legs were broken
@lebonovember3006
@lebonovember3006 2 жыл бұрын
Sending love and hugs to him! He will heal 🌸and walk again
@zinhledludla9796
@zinhledludla9796 2 жыл бұрын
He is healed by the blood of Our Lord Jesus
@lolokhoza603
@lolokhoza603 2 жыл бұрын
😔 wishing him healing
@langutamacheke2412
@langutamacheke2412 2 жыл бұрын
He will walk again!! Sending more love and strength ❤❤
@dominicmokgatle
@dominicmokgatle 2 жыл бұрын
🥺💔 I wish him good health.
@teekay543
@teekay543 2 жыл бұрын
This is essential work. I salute those who serve in the funeral industry.
@claudiamela4040
@claudiamela4040 2 жыл бұрын
This young man just made me realize that they work under pressure and mistakes do happen. It's a lot for them too ❤️
@vuyelobaddy8088
@vuyelobaddy8088 2 жыл бұрын
The moment I saw the caption I ran str8 here🤣🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🤣🤣
@nolz9912
@nolz9912 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@REMEDIALDIY
@REMEDIALDIY 2 жыл бұрын
@@dm6547 😆😆😆😆😹😹😹😹
@nondumisondlovu2236
@nondumisondlovu2236 2 жыл бұрын
my girl
@thoughtist101
@thoughtist101 2 жыл бұрын
This guys is deep and it works for him. He does not involve his emotions and beliefs..in fact he feels nothing...if he felt everything it was gonna destroy him. Le nna if i was him i would have done the same 🤞
@koketsomalesolo7728
@koketsomalesolo7728 2 жыл бұрын
I was about to ask about this yoh I will be left traumatized
@leratojulialeseo1990
@leratojulialeseo1990 2 жыл бұрын
At this point I do not care about the story, I'm here for his voice 🥺😩♥️
@mbalimbatha9170
@mbalimbatha9170 2 жыл бұрын
You r not alone🥰
@PHlophe
@PHlophe 2 жыл бұрын
@@mbalimbatha9170 with that voice, when he'll say uMbati the flower of all flowers you'd be like wena , daaaamn !
@amogelangskosana2732
@amogelangskosana2732 2 жыл бұрын
He's a practical man. This industry is much like medicine, you cannot be there for everyone. You just need to do your job as objectively as you can.
@metheyhustler
@metheyhustler 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
Kennete seo
@scholasticasibanda8910
@scholasticasibanda8910 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah right !!!!??? Imagine how surgeons deal with failed operations etc.... They obviously have a number of people who've died in their hands .... But at the end of the day, the message needs to be delivered etc....
@AmandaWaseUK
@AmandaWaseUK 2 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@Leeworld310
@Leeworld310 2 жыл бұрын
As high school teachers, we need to come to terms with the fact that our kids have some much going on for them except just schooling. 😭
@mulalomercytshivhilinge4913
@mulalomercytshivhilinge4913 2 жыл бұрын
When I discovered this channel this year , it had just about 33k subscribers now is over 100k. It is growing fast. Well done Relebogile, you are doing great work. Actually you are born for this!
@Dino-ns9jx
@Dino-ns9jx 2 жыл бұрын
I learnt a two new words "Coffining" and "Mortician" 🙌 🙌
@florencemonama2953
@florencemonama2953 2 жыл бұрын
We learn everyday my dear,nd the interviewee is so eloquent and well composed young person,Bingo.
@skhumbuzomamba4587
@skhumbuzomamba4587 Жыл бұрын
Another new word for me is " Cemetery Master".
@mbasamaqekeza
@mbasamaqekeza 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing dead bodies from the age of 14? 🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️ This guy is BRAVE!!! Mna i don't even look inside the casket at family funerals, imagine now working with dead bodies?! Yho! I'd faint! 😭🤣
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz
@Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz 7 ай бұрын
Andizi I’ve never gone to look at any funeral because what am I looking for
@tererayimapfumo1356
@tererayimapfumo1356 2 жыл бұрын
Well-done boy, you turned out well remain in the right direction. Thank you Relebogile
@ribamamokgethi6982
@ribamamokgethi6982 2 жыл бұрын
Lol 😆🤣😂relebogile's face today I can't stop laughing at her,she seems so scared 🤣😂😆😅
@sbongadubazane
@sbongadubazane 2 жыл бұрын
Mina i will work ngoba it's work, plus these are people dead or alive who desperately need dignity, plus they wont hurt you ngoba they not coming back.... People have made seeing a dead person something so scary.. Which is not because umuntu who what's alive 2 minutes ago and dies 2 minutes later is still the same person ukuthi nje it's painful knowing the person dead..... I won't lie seeing corpses isn't pleasant... Vele
@lorrenzom
@lorrenzom 2 жыл бұрын
I remember when I had to dress my own brother, for some reason I was brave to do it and I just felt like it's was my way of saying goodbye and thanking him for being an awesome brother
@innb28
@innb28 2 жыл бұрын
You might have been in shock to give you the courage to do it
@loriamohlafase5271
@loriamohlafase5271 2 жыл бұрын
That's wonderful.
@bd3825
@bd3825 2 жыл бұрын
You're very strong. I could never do that.
@zunaiandre2341
@zunaiandre2341 2 жыл бұрын
Yes with family is bit easier.
@bongitshabalala8330
@bongitshabalala8330 2 жыл бұрын
Eish sad
@BlackPanther-zn5jo
@BlackPanther-zn5jo 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like this guy has blocked off so much and I’m so worried about the day he’ll wake up and start processing all those emotions it’ll be overwhelming! He is dissociated , in future he could experience ptsd , anxiety,depression and all that he’s putting up a strong face but he needs to be in touch with his emotions and possibly seek some psychological support just for the future . He talks about how he doesn’t react to certain aspects of this job eg the rituals and comforting, he’s blocking all those emotions off . I hope you see this and try to avoid future mental health issues because it’s real, you’re still a hero in my eyes but take time to take care of your mental health dear.
@LadyT06
@LadyT06 2 жыл бұрын
The day you start watching morticians videos,you begin 5o understand that they do take care of their mental health especially if it's their passion😊.There is one on YT who's based in America and the other one in India who retrieves dead bodies from rivers,lakes,seas.He says that he enjoys the work so much.
@siphokazinkosi4650
@siphokazinkosi4650 2 жыл бұрын
If you think of it as any other career, as he explained it so well himself, you'll realize that he has not dissociated. He is working professionally and is so respectful of his career.
@lesegoyv
@lesegoyv 2 жыл бұрын
I respect him, I don't think I'd last an hour, I'd always be jumpy when someone walks around or in my operating room.
@REMEDIALDIY
@REMEDIALDIY 2 жыл бұрын
It’s scary 😳😳😳
@thembisilenkosi9353
@thembisilenkosi9353 2 жыл бұрын
Not really if you think of it because it's part of our journey that is why i respect morticians🙏🏾
@fariraimapiye9491
@fariraimapiye9491 2 жыл бұрын
From this discussion, I have come to appreciate everybody that's involved with attending to dead people .
@Mabsknows
@Mabsknows 2 жыл бұрын
I know I’m going to get nightmares after this but I can’t stop watching 😩😩😩😩
@TshegoMalakaje
@TshegoMalakaje 2 жыл бұрын
Dudeeee
@silobuhlencube6257
@silobuhlencube6257 2 жыл бұрын
Me tooo telling myself im older than this guy but m shaking
@lawrencemanaka7391
@lawrencemanaka7391 2 жыл бұрын
Same 😭
@keamogetswellale5087
@keamogetswellale5087 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂aish
@sineguguvilakazi6502
@sineguguvilakazi6502 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@xolanin3020
@xolanin3020 2 жыл бұрын
Damn this bruella is strong & wise about it all. The managing of his & other peoples emotions, respect for the activity & stuff. Dope interview questions as well from Relebogile
@queenteline1015
@queenteline1015 2 жыл бұрын
I love how his face lights up when he talks about his dad. Community is so important in an child's upbringing. I'm so glad he made an effort to know his extended family.
@mfanimpelamaseko2946
@mfanimpelamaseko2946 2 жыл бұрын
I salute you my brother so young yet so strong, calm and collected
@obertmlauzi-wz1xr
@obertmlauzi-wz1xr Жыл бұрын
Great respect for you young man , l never enjoy collecting a deceased family member from the gov hospital
@mahlatsemasha2308
@mahlatsemasha2308 2 жыл бұрын
We need an interview with a paramedic ausi Relebogile🙏🏾
@bambotinzi8485
@bambotinzi8485 2 жыл бұрын
I worked at the Hospice where we were losing patients more often, now i'm working at the Hospital, i am still dealing with dead people, meaning to clean and to wrap the body, ready for undertaker. I don't get used to see someone dead. It is heart breaking to see a person suffering from pain, at the same time it's not nice to see a person passed. I think a lot and i picture the deceased for a long time.
@thembekastuurman739
@thembekastuurman739 2 жыл бұрын
You really help me by saying this i already pay money i wanted to do a diploma in nursing but if it involves dead bodies i really cant manage i wanted a breakthrough in my life as i have been hustling an office admin job and i dont get it so i wanted something that can give me jobs but honestly im not a strong person eho can close somebody s eyes wash dead bodies oh i wonder what can i do in order for me to get a job
@sbongilemxabo114
@sbongilemxabo114 2 жыл бұрын
Where you based
@pikatee767
@pikatee767 2 жыл бұрын
Your Bravery and Wisdom is everything. Much respect for you. My Granny passed on early July and as the family we were afforded an opportunity to see her for the last time inside the coffin and I knew from that moment I'll be dealing with crippling trauma. The sight of a casket creeps me out, now a dead body is a whole different story even though it was of a person I knew and loved dearly. Since that day, I haven't been able to sleep at home let alone be in the house alone. It breaks my heart but it's my reality and people close to me do not understand it at all.
@lightkheswa6600
@lightkheswa6600 2 жыл бұрын
Your granny was a spirit in a body, just like you and the rest of us. She used that body to express her love for you, to hold when you were a baby, to hug you when you fell trying to walk for the first, to hug and hold you when someone hurt you as a such. Through the same body she continued to express her love, support and protection throughout her life with you. In the later years of her life she didnt have to do much but her presence through that body was everything. The lifeless body you saw represent an end of a journey, an end to her expressing herself through that body. She is loving you now from a distance. For a while her energy or sense of her spirit or the emptiness left by her departure will still feel the walls of her house. Accept her passing and surrender, she still loves. Why would allow yourself to be tortured by an image of a body that was used to express love for you? You wouldnt have known your granny except through that body. Life is stages, in one stage she was in a body in another she is a spirit connected with the divine. Loving you from a distance this time around. You can also be grateful for mortuary people who tried their best to give you the best possible last image of her. Celebrate her life.
@Leeworld310
@Leeworld310 2 жыл бұрын
Pika Tee, you and I are one thing😭
@mokwenaeva9936
@mokwenaeva9936 2 жыл бұрын
@@lightkheswa6600 this! !!this right here made me feel so much better and erased the fear I had regarding the dead😢💕well articulated. .I felt warmth of love and my whole perspective changed, ,,thank you so much ☺
@innb28
@innb28 2 жыл бұрын
You're not alone I felt that way but you get over it eventually.
@nomse
@nomse 2 жыл бұрын
@@lightkheswa6600 Thank you. Most profound.
@rejoicedenhere3854
@rejoicedenhere3854 2 жыл бұрын
That was true kindness, when he helped the deceased lady.God bless him and you reading this:)
@moipone9822
@moipone9822 2 жыл бұрын
I really want to thank such people who are doing great job, I personally don’t think I can manage to that 🙏
@moipone9822
@moipone9822 2 жыл бұрын
As I was commenting on this topic I didn’t know that in few hours I had loose my loved one 😓😓
@neomohlamonyane7934
@neomohlamonyane7934 2 жыл бұрын
I wish the best for him👍,#Respect. We have a lot traumatic stories from this industry, I used to work at a funeral home/mortuary as well as forensic unit and I honestly feel that I felt a sense of purpose during that period in firstly handling the deceased with dignity and dealing with the grieving families and give comfort. It’s imperative to be patient, peaceful and project strength when in this type of business as you dealing with families in a vulnerable state and you need to take a role of pillar.
@tinyikochauke5123
@tinyikochauke5123 2 жыл бұрын
Ncooh.. Thats so sweet ☺️☺️. Very true
@sheilamabitsela
@sheilamabitsela 11 ай бұрын
Qq
@TJ-my9nh
@TJ-my9nh 2 жыл бұрын
A very smart and matured young man he is. Keep the good work
@metheyhustler
@metheyhustler 2 жыл бұрын
Nchooo he is smart 💆‍♀️😍😍😍😍😍😍first time hearing someone admitting he works at the mortuary 😇
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah there really ain't no shame it
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
A tag on the tie😂😂
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
Her facial expressions tho😂
@enduranceholdon4932
@enduranceholdon4932 2 жыл бұрын
Thendo you want him?🤣I’m only kidding
@PHlophe
@PHlophe 2 жыл бұрын
women would be scared to date him
@sineguguvilakazi6502
@sineguguvilakazi6502 2 жыл бұрын
I relate so so much to this guy's experiences shame because my mom also owns a funeral parlour. My highlight of this video was Relebogile's facial expressions 😂😂😂🤞🏾. My face was always like that until I also got involved in the family business, mind you I'm a girl. It's really a sad reality shame. One thing I always pray for is to never come across a corpse that has eyes wide open😩, I think I would die or pee on myself in that instant.
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sineguguvilakazi6502
@sineguguvilakazi6502 2 жыл бұрын
Hay I can never be strong for that shame askies
@Presidentmakzana
@Presidentmakzana 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂😂
@eunicebaloyi933
@eunicebaloyi933 2 жыл бұрын
You are strong, I don't know how I would cope
@notmylanguange9266
@notmylanguange9266 2 жыл бұрын
Yoh😭😭
@bellatalkssa405
@bellatalkssa405 2 жыл бұрын
I can't stop watching mara ke chogile lechogo le lengwe😱😱😱 when he said body takes last breath I looked around me to see if I'm fine😕
@Mabsknows
@Mabsknows 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@lovickn5403
@lovickn5403 2 жыл бұрын
Well spoken and seems educated.more power to you my brother because many of us would just lose it lol
@nonhlanhlamoyo8136
@nonhlanhlamoyo8136 2 жыл бұрын
The guy is so brave and collected, I lost my dad 10th of November, I thought I understood death but NO!!! I always hear his voice and his face is always with me, I am failing to sleep 😭😭😭I break down everyday it's a month now, death is traumating,
@makhadzicuba
@makhadzicuba 2 жыл бұрын
It is indeed, the trauma stays for a long while. I would also hear his voice calling my name, but with time you begin to embrace the thoughts and images that brought the trauma. A month is still fresh, one day the tears will dry up and rather you will have a smile on your face remembering the precious moments shared.
@nonhlanhlamoyo8136
@nonhlanhlamoyo8136 2 жыл бұрын
@@makhadzicuba am so heart broken and it's affecting my kids and husband, I try to be strong but it's hard, my dad was my friend,
@thapelomorare1484
@thapelomorare1484 2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the services he's offering. Something not many people would do. And you still dignify the family that lost.
@victoriamokoatle8241
@victoriamokoatle8241 2 жыл бұрын
I have a cousin who does this job and he is now a little mentally unstable and is highly addicted to drugs .... In reality we all need this services and they need our prayers this aint easy
@hellenmamabolo2447
@hellenmamabolo2447 2 жыл бұрын
This guy is just so humble..
@tia_childofthemosthigh836
@tia_childofthemosthigh836 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this was VERY interesting!!! enjoyed this interview thoroughly... I never knew the nittty gritty of this kind of job, the details... man! Shocking now and then. He walked us through it very well. Thanks for this topic!!! Great job to Relebogile. Great to know what actually happens behinds these eerie scenes.
@nosiphomqaqa21
@nosiphomqaqa21 2 жыл бұрын
After dealing with a mafia funeral parlour in 2019 that kept on threatening us the then grieving family, I researched more on morticians jobs and I think I can do the job for the sake of giving people a decent farewell. I believe that dead bodies or spirits cannot hurt anyone who is trying to help them.
@LadyT06
@LadyT06 2 жыл бұрын
There's a channel of a mortician I like watching and makes it look fun😊.She says even if she had another career being a mortician fulfils her as it's her passion.So,go for it girl and never look back😊.
@natashamochitele7988
@natashamochitele7988 2 жыл бұрын
@@LadyT06 please name drop the channel
@IGGYSASMR
@IGGYSASMR 2 жыл бұрын
@@LadyT06 please drop the channel name tuu
@LadyT06
@LadyT06 2 жыл бұрын
@@IGGYSASMR kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qst2drNnntrWf30.html Let me know what you think😊!
@lesaaaaaaaaaaa
@lesaaaaaaaaaaa 2 жыл бұрын
@@LadyT06 oh Haha! I knew it would be Kaitlin! I love her!
@kgomotsomaja6576
@kgomotsomaja6576 2 жыл бұрын
Yoh, what an episode. I had to be the one dressing my mom at the funeral parlour the day before her burial. I remember being so upset about the 2 men who worked there who were supposed help me. They just carried her like they didn’t care, they didn’t show any emotional concern when I cried, I mean not even give me a hug and I was in that room alone. I understand maybe they remove themselves emotionally but I wish they could be trained to learn to learn how to deal with mourning families.
@florencemonama2953
@florencemonama2953 2 жыл бұрын
Remember men naturally are instrumental not emotive like women,they want to see the work done,especially dealing with the deceased that's why they seem impersonal,my dear..its sort of adaptive mechanism because it's not nice to deal with the deceased,weshu.
@khanyisaqueenshandlale9413
@khanyisaqueenshandlale9413 2 жыл бұрын
I think these people go through a lot...they need counselling. Their emotions are numb. It is not that they dont care🥲
@madimetjapoto7075
@madimetjapoto7075 2 жыл бұрын
Remember you're NOT the ONLY customer they see, imagine if they were to hug, cry and comfort 10 people a day, ijoo! You were expecting a lot from them.
@missnontokozo
@missnontokozo 2 жыл бұрын
Or They were honestly giving you space to say your goodbyes. And some families have rites they need to perform so that also gives them a minute if they stay out of their way. In a sense . They also do this on a daily. From 9-5. Sometimes longer. Perspective, Sometimes a different set of lenses frees us. Keep well
@PHlophe
@PHlophe 2 жыл бұрын
@@khanyisaqueenshandlale9413 i wouldn't say numb, but you can't go thru this day and day out and let it go thru to you. you've got a life to live .
@nenesibanda4171
@nenesibanda4171 2 жыл бұрын
I love how his aunt and uncle treated him. We always remember how adults treated us when we were children.
@maambomuleya3063
@maambomuleya3063 2 жыл бұрын
I am sad to read a comment of his accident and subsequent inability to walk. He has such vast experience and knowledge to actually start his own practice.
@LufunoMuhali
@LufunoMuhali 2 жыл бұрын
I'd have sleepless nights. I appreciate people like this man for what they do.
@agnespililao2660
@agnespililao2660 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s unpack from Mozambique 🇲🇿
@petronellachabeli10
@petronellachabeli10 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that you guys even decided to wear black, it made the whole thing soooo spooky😲. But I love your topics well thought of.
@langutamacheke2412
@langutamacheke2412 2 жыл бұрын
Great observation! I never looked at it that way...🤣🤣🤣
@naleditendanimoloi
@naleditendanimoloi 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@boitumelokutlwano1716
@boitumelokutlwano1716 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@magogesenong7912
@magogesenong7912 2 жыл бұрын
😹😹😹
@zukiswajikwana3678
@zukiswajikwana3678 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤣
@zukozuko9690
@zukozuko9690 2 жыл бұрын
Yho the young man is so humble; eloquent n calm. M sure from now onwards people must respect their jobs. I salute you man. God gives his strongest soldiers tough battles.
@dimakhoele6058
@dimakhoele6058 2 жыл бұрын
Bathong, what an interesting one. I watched so many videos to learn what happens post death. The smelling part wow. He mentioned so many times that the body smells. No matter how beautiful we are, we going there. Yhonnnaaa
@sibonginkosinyathi7580
@sibonginkosinyathi7580 2 жыл бұрын
African child angeke uhlulwe yinto yasekhaya okhule isenziwa kokwenu no matter how hard it is 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️💔
@sineguguvilakazi6502
@sineguguvilakazi6502 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@refilwegiventheys3381
@refilwegiventheys3381 2 жыл бұрын
Lost my partner 22 October and I have been wondering and asking myself googling and not getting what I wanted...This video made everything so clear...I have been struggling and I can't stop thinking and wondering i still can't get picture out of my head when I went to see him at the morg. ..and I have not had the time to sit and let out 🥺 being 25 and with kids I don't know how to move forward
@tebogomutle681
@tebogomutle681 2 жыл бұрын
Been in the same situation in 2016.. I lost my mind
@ninawolf2344
@ninawolf2344 2 жыл бұрын
My God give you strength my sister. And protect your children.
@patiencebasimolodi8241
@patiencebasimolodi8241 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs and kisses to you sister. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@lesaaaaaaaaaaa
@lesaaaaaaaaaaa 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for all of you here. I really wish I could give you all a hug.
@Chilidzy247
@Chilidzy247 2 жыл бұрын
Go for counseling, it will help you if you get a good psychiatrist. Get well
@ncumisanoludwe3856
@ncumisanoludwe3856 2 жыл бұрын
You are so eloquent and so comfortable with the topic. Scary but I understand the importance of people like you in our society
@lolagrant3171
@lolagrant3171 2 жыл бұрын
Wishing him a speedy recovery ,he is smart and handsome nice voice hope he gets support in this difficult time praying for you.
@kagisokaypodile1148
@kagisokaypodile1148 2 жыл бұрын
Morbid but informative, I once wanted to become a mortician.... this peaked my interest in it again...
@KMazibuko
@KMazibuko 2 жыл бұрын
I have the biggest respect for people who work with the deceased. We all need help getting into this world. Leaving this world is no different.
@rosegallus4048
@rosegallus4048 2 жыл бұрын
When he described the last breath the dead body give after being put in a stretcher I almost threw my phone with horror 😱, but after he described the situation where he had to hide in a grave.. ...that lifted my spirit with laughter 🤗🤗🤗. Honestly the job he does is commedable, requiring a lot of bravery.
@normakay9244
@normakay9244 2 жыл бұрын
What bravery 🤣death is a natural process of life
@neomalete5832
@neomalete5832 2 жыл бұрын
As if everyone works with dead bodies 😏
@sibahleyonelatiya1629
@sibahleyonelatiya1629 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂 Rele's facial expressions. I kind of relate in some way. I'm a medical student so for the first 2 and a half years of my studying atleast once a week, we had to work with cadavers(bodies donated to science by families and unclaimed bodies from government hospitals). The room was ALWAYS cold and you had to literally touch and cut different parts of the body depending on the system we're studying. And we were taught to always respect those bodies cause they were someone's family. It truly was a humbling experience.
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@dominicmokgatle
@dominicmokgatle 2 жыл бұрын
😳 shuuuu! I think I'd drop out. I believe being a doctor is a calling. I respect doctors for dealing with such.
@lydsM
@lydsM 2 жыл бұрын
@dominique yooo lmao
@mathabo343lethabo8
@mathabo343lethabo8 2 жыл бұрын
Your voice my buddy ❤️❤️❤️❤️😍
@ayandal4744
@ayandal4744 2 жыл бұрын
Lol you are something else, he's traumatizing us and you noticing his voice 🤔🙆‍♀️
@tshiamobolelwang9715
@tshiamobolelwang9715 2 жыл бұрын
What would we death-fearers do without these folks. This is more than just a business. It is more of a calling that one gets ordained for somewhat in this life ,an undertaker family friend once remarked to me. I guess most us we hardly express gratitude to these service providers once the funeral is over simply because we believe it was a business deal, finish. May I use your platform to express my gratitude to these fine gentlemen and ladies. In my parents' family I have seen them literally bury everyone from parents to siblings. Out of a family of ten, I am the only one still alive. Thank you for the show Relebogile...
@sontomtolo473
@sontomtolo473 2 жыл бұрын
Sis Lebo or whoever suggested this topic. Thank you so much! I cannot wait to watch, this is something I've always been curious about.🙏
@Siba93125
@Siba93125 2 жыл бұрын
He is such a calm excellent storyteller. Big up lad...you're wise.
@sineguguvilakazi6502
@sineguguvilakazi6502 2 жыл бұрын
He's gotten used to the stuff.
@nokwanda_maphumulo
@nokwanda_maphumulo 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so strong brother! Keep up the good work 👏🏻
@GK222_
@GK222_ 2 жыл бұрын
Yessses 🥶 Eh Nakisani la spana mfana! Thanks for sharing your experiences with us. You're probably gonna wash my dead body one day, thanks in advance
@thuliendlovu719
@thuliendlovu719 2 жыл бұрын
Haibho🤣 Thanks in advance 😂
@sineguguvilakazi6502
@sineguguvilakazi6502 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@jabukatshwa
@jabukatshwa 2 жыл бұрын
Aibooo🤣🤣🤣😭
@trudynchabeleng270
@trudynchabeleng270 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂alreadyyyyyy
@meltamafuma4793
@meltamafuma4793 2 жыл бұрын
Already 🤣🤣
@molymocumi5510
@molymocumi5510 2 жыл бұрын
Rele's facial expressions 😂🤣
@mukombozirigobert7026
@mukombozirigobert7026 2 жыл бұрын
I AM INSPIRED BY THE STORY OF PEOPLE WHO DIGNIFY HUMAN BEINGS EVEN IN THE FACE OF DEATH. NO EVERYONE HAS THE HEART TO WASH & DRESS THE DEAD. I HAVE RESPECT FOR THIS EPISODE.
@nenesibanda4171
@nenesibanda4171 2 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is power. This show has made me feel so fearless.
@chotachota3536
@chotachota3536 2 жыл бұрын
this satisfied my curiosity at a considerable level.
@mudauthabelo8089
@mudauthabelo8089 Жыл бұрын
Same
@gracenovie
@gracenovie 2 жыл бұрын
It’s Lebo’s facial expressions for me 😭🤣❤️ Great topic as usual 👌😁
@keletsobaloyi4982
@keletsobaloyi4982 2 жыл бұрын
Much respect for him 🙌
@vuyokazi1797
@vuyokazi1797 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s unpack from The Netherlands
@selinamanhica1386
@selinamanhica1386 2 жыл бұрын
Found my dad in a bad condition when he disappeared and he was discovered inside a river😥😥 i still cannot unsee what I saw since 2017 till today but thanks to guys like him my dad was dressed properly and the wounds on his face were covered so that we could see him for the last time 😭😭😭 its so scary xem the cold room is hell on its own🤞🤞
@nomvulairene4177
@nomvulairene4177 2 жыл бұрын
Askies hle Selina 😭💔big hug for u sesi
@selinamanhica1386
@selinamanhica1386 2 жыл бұрын
@@nomvulairene4177 thank you 😊 💖
@dominicmokgatle
@dominicmokgatle 2 жыл бұрын
So educational. This is what I'd call dirty jobs that not everyone would do. I commend these type of people for doing what most of us wouldn't on a daily basis. They'll never run out of business because death comes everyday.
@madampraises4450
@madampraises4450 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Dominic. May I kindly get your email address? I wanna contact you for something very important
@khozamasechaba
@khozamasechaba 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful man.
@mokganyetjimphahlele7383
@mokganyetjimphahlele7383 2 жыл бұрын
I respect people working in this department
@ratiwabammekwa4219
@ratiwabammekwa4219 2 жыл бұрын
The gentleman can go on talking, he speaks so well, he is doing a great job and it is good that he is studying.
@blaqfunk_sa9654
@blaqfunk_sa9654 2 жыл бұрын
He sounds like he is traumatized already...😢but Big up to him💯
@nosiphomqaqa21
@nosiphomqaqa21 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nakisani, he is a brave hero.
@mulaloratsiku6533
@mulaloratsiku6533 2 жыл бұрын
This boy is so sweet and funny at the same time. Hiding in a grave 🤣🤣
@noxblablabla3866
@noxblablabla3866 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@judaisaacmugomba7710
@judaisaacmugomba7710 2 жыл бұрын
Wamorhata Naa
@thatoramahotsoa7462
@thatoramahotsoa7462 2 жыл бұрын
Hes so mature n intelligent I like his voice also so humble
@MaeleMothapo
@MaeleMothapo 2 жыл бұрын
okay can we appreciate how handsome he is
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
His voice is so cool
@Lalaundercover389
@Lalaundercover389 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all you do sir❤,also thank you Rele and the team!
@luckymagomarele3356
@luckymagomarele3356 2 жыл бұрын
Naki so proud of you man, you are so brave We went to same college . Big up 🥰
@Dklady
@Dklady 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing related to this episode but can we have a topic about witchcraft please
@dineonthoba5823
@dineonthoba5823 2 жыл бұрын
Yoh this guy is brave. And thanks for inviting him I've been asking myself how do they work there but my questions are all answered and I was wishing to work there and to start this business, so since I got this information 😂😂I will never work there I'm brave enough but I'm too emotional 😅so I can't
@nomasontomahlaba9685
@nomasontomahlaba9685 2 жыл бұрын
Excited and scared at the same time 😩😂
@sediman1662
@sediman1662 2 жыл бұрын
Me2
@nomasontomahlaba9685
@nomasontomahlaba9685 2 жыл бұрын
@@sediman1662 I didn't finish it 😂😂 I guess I'm not that strong
@MissLinks99
@MissLinks99 2 жыл бұрын
Yes it's scary but sir your voice 🥺🥺☺️
@zunaiandre2341
@zunaiandre2341 2 жыл бұрын
You're a man of Empathy and everything is possible with us.I do it in hospital daily,now during pandemic here in USA we are doing it more.You even learn to talk to the dead.Nothing scary.
@pridecele6606
@pridecele6606 2 жыл бұрын
Like communicate with them spiritually and they respond?
@zunaiandre2341
@zunaiandre2341 2 жыл бұрын
@@pridecele6606 No, there's this fulfilling feeling like you are doing something right.It's very weird though
@PM-xd6nv
@PM-xd6nv 2 жыл бұрын
This young man looks wise beyond his years!
@xolanin3020
@xolanin3020 2 жыл бұрын
YOHH! The part about government mortuaries!! Fakhi! Imagine your loved one piled up with no bag!!
@conquer7259
@conquer7259 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah Government facilities are overcrowded with less resources
@perfectlyimperfect1095
@perfectlyimperfect1095 2 жыл бұрын
It's a sad reality.
@kennethnyangani2884
@kennethnyangani2884 2 жыл бұрын
I had that thought too.... Bloody hurting
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