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Relinquishing my Independence

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Heidon In The Philippines

Heidon In The Philippines

4 ай бұрын

When you bring someone into your life you are no longer independent . There are kind hearted adjustments to be made. #foreigner #provincelife #teamwork

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@ce5752
@ce5752 7 күн бұрын
Well said 👏
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 7 күн бұрын
thank you i appreciate it!
@garylagera8048
@garylagera8048 2 ай бұрын
I'm at the part of your video where your"e preaching about the male role of a relationship. Preach it Brother! I"m 100% listening to you and behind you! I'm not a good ol'boy from the south but I honor those traditions of being a gentleman All the time, especially when she's with me. Walking on the outside, positioning yourself to protect going u po/ down the stairs etc.! We should offer a etiquette class to all the males in this country as well as the USA. Get this - I'm 1/2 Japanese 1/2 Filipino = flip/nip. That's a EYE OPENER even for a Asian!. Trying to keep up with your humor
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 2 ай бұрын
ty gary the women make it easy for you to want this role...it just feels natural!
@kathytradewell3950
@kathytradewell3950 4 ай бұрын
Good for you! It’s good that you are receptive to her ways. It’s important to her. Happy for you!
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
ty mrs .tradewell i am truly happy!
@MattSmith-pf5di
@MattSmith-pf5di 4 ай бұрын
Hello from Michigan. You look very good, this life agrees with you. Had a company party yesterday and thought of your Christmas video 😂. I went a different direction than you. Everything is awesome sir. Perhaps next year
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
thanks Matt...i treat people accordingly...you are very kind!
@TB-xx4gc
@TB-xx4gc 4 ай бұрын
Heidon, I'm 60 years old and I have lived alone most of my adult life, as well as have been single for the past 22 years. I decided 22 years ago I would remain single for the rest of my life, but when I hear stories like this it makes me question whether or not there is still hope. I decided, starting this year, that I am going to start spending my fall/winters in the PI for no real reason except to get away from these cold winters. I think when I get there I'm going to have to keep my eyes, and heart, open. Thanks for sharing your story.
@franklidgad
@franklidgad 4 ай бұрын
In the same boat as you and thinking exactly the same thing. I have never been but after watching i see all the more reasons to go. Have you been following any other channels that talk about life in the Philippines?
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
There is a kind hearted soul waiting patiently here for you....let the self imposed suffering end!
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
try Philippine info channel ....he has great practical content very useful
@TB-xx4gc
@TB-xx4gc 4 ай бұрын
@@franklidgad I've been following several channels for about 4-5 years.
@garylagera8048
@garylagera8048 2 ай бұрын
You have one life to live... One's enough, IF you live it... If you waste it, it's your OWN fault! Come to the PI and make sure you are humble, sincere and respectful. These people are very sensitive. If you come to exploit, disparage, or have a superior attitude - just stay home. There's too many expats giving all of us a bad name. There"s a wise expat who resides in Duma guete who states that we must: Adjust Adapt Accept the culture of the beautiful Philippines.
@dragonk362
@dragonk362 4 ай бұрын
So far, this is my favorite video. I'd also like to point out that the younger generation here doesn't understand the difference in the distinguishing roles with the partnership like yours. Filipinas are the best. I'm so happy for you brother!
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
ty brother tryn to keep it real
@garylagera8048
@garylagera8048 2 ай бұрын
Ditto! They deserve each other. Kudos to both of them.
@garylagera8048
@garylagera8048 2 ай бұрын
I can't choose a favorite ! I"m doing a marathon - viewership as we speak. Where did this gentleman come from?
@wrafl
@wrafl 3 ай бұрын
That's true, I was treated like a king by my Filipina woman she truly cared and loved me, except her jealousy broke us apart. I didnt like her extreme jealousy thus I n didnt come back to her.
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 3 ай бұрын
try again my friend your true girl is still waiting for you!
@RichLee2088
@RichLee2088 4 ай бұрын
This would take me a long time to get used to that, I’m so used to doing everything myself and actually enjoy it, but then I’ll probably be single anyway so doesn’t bother me doing everything ha ha
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
i'm for real still getting used to her taking care of me..it seems unnatural...but slowly i am converting
@franklidgad
@franklidgad 4 ай бұрын
GREAT STUFF! Liking the new studio. Please continue.
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
i appreciate your continuing support...i will do my best!
@Frank1life2live
@Frank1life2live 4 ай бұрын
Enjoyed it. Keep it up brother.
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
I try to create real content so I earn your view..ty!
@RichLee2088
@RichLee2088 4 ай бұрын
Sad to say there are very few men left, unfortunately there are a select few guys in the Philippines who have no problem letting their Filipina support the family ha ha
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
her family is very kind to me ,they have never asked for a dime
@wdj935
@wdj935 4 ай бұрын
Awesome!!
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 4 ай бұрын
ty my friend im doing best to create relative content
@wdj935
@wdj935 4 ай бұрын
@@heidoninthephilippines talking about your experiences and what you are learning is great. It would be good to have an external mic.
@garylagera8048
@garylagera8048 2 ай бұрын
Before I go any furthur listening to your video - she actually brought you a knife ? Where can you find a meal knife in the PI? I had to buy a small pocket knife to take to any resturant - they Never provide a knife anywhere you go. You have to use a tablespoon! That's equivalent to chewing jerky with false teeth! Ok I'll finish listening/ watching the video.
@heidoninthephilippines
@heidoninthephilippines 2 ай бұрын
in the home we have a couple knives i bought at diy...knives do not exist in the wild!
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