Remi, I’ve never commented on a KZfaq video before but the way your videos have changed my life over the past year or so is pretty drastic. Your attitude of gratitude has helped me fall in love completely with my life. I have such an incredible outlook on life now. You constantly pushing yourself to always do better has pushed me to go back to school even though I’ve been told not to bother. Your kindness and non judgmental nature continues to remind me to be kind to others always and pushes me to be kinder to myself. I know you probably won’t read this, but I wanted to try to let you know how much you’ve helped me. And how it really does feel like I’m listening to a friend, while I clean my apartment. You should be so proud of yourself. Thank you.

I'm probably in the minority of your viewer demographic but i just wanted to say Thankyou Remi! I'm a 30-something man who is a former British Soldier. Suffered with depression and aniexty for over a decade now. A byproduct of this is trashing my house to the point of no return and wondering how on earth a man who could previously be so Regimental would allow his home to get so disgusting. Your videos have helped me take back control of my home. And make it a place for my children to come and visit. Couldnt of done it without your honest videos. Cheers 🖤

When my children were small my Nan said cleaning the house while children are growing is like shovelling snow while it’s still snowing , a very true statment .

Hey Remi,Midwest cleaning gave you a shout out

Girl, you are SO hard on yourself! You're doing what you can - like the rest of us. Give yourself a pat on the back for making it through each day. XX

Remi, you are a God send, I am a 65 year old woman with 4 grown up children and 12 grandchildren. I work full time and look after my aging 85 year old dad since my mum passed away 2 years ago. I also have chronic rheumatoid arthritis and a heart condition...my tiredness gets the better of me every day, so instead of watching someone who has a huge home and has all their ducks in a row, with lots of ads about over priced products, i choose to watch you!...you are real, and caring and always make me feel good about my small achievements no matter what. It is not easy to keep up with everything and I am also a serial worrier when it comes to my children, grandchildren, work and dad, it gives me endless nights with very little sleep, so getting up at 4.30 for work exhausts me...I love to watch how you cope and still manage to help us feel good about ourselves and show us how to combat this tiredness into getting things done, especially when you do the speed clean..my house is tidy but could be so much cleaner..and your video on clearing and re-doing your cupboards has inspired me. My house like yours isn't large and is easy to clutter, so I love to see how you deal with these issues..I find you truly amazing and uplifting. I live in Australia so at least have a lot of sunny days to lift my mood, but you are second to that Remi...I always come away from your videos feeling good and inspired. Keep it up and I will always follow. Marjorie

I woke up this morning mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted. When I saw the state of the house I cried and couldn’t stop. I made myself a coffee and had breakfast, a feat in itself with how messy they kitchen was, and then I opened YT to put on some of your videos to body double with, as that really helps me. When I saw you had dropped a new video, especially with the title of this one, you have no idea how much of a boost this gave me. I cried a few happy tears, and I’m now about to watch and clean along. Thank you ❤

Your children are so blessed to have such a loving mum and dad, a safe, and creative home.

Remi, I am a qualified counsellor and I adore your wisdom. I am in awe of this wisdom and your mindset, as well as your transparency. You are such a beautiful, kind and compassionate person and a wonderful, WONDERFUL mum. Thank you for being MY therapist! lol ❤🫶

Minimalism saved my life when i had the little ones , buy paper goods, hire a cleaning lady once a week for the floors and bathrooms and change linen if possible, keep less toys , and avoid decoration objects . Its the only way i can keep sane...

“Some days I don’t know who I’m going to wake up as” OMG so accurate!!!

The awful WAITING MODE. How much of my life have I lost to this? I just can’t do anything when I wait.

My mom taught me that a perfect house is a lived in house. A perfect house is a house that you can tell kids play in, meals are made in, a family is comfortable and loved in. Our house was clean but lived in growing up and that’s how I am with my kids now and I how I look at my house ❤ it’s cleaned but lived in.

Your sweet boy folding the laundry with you was heart-warming. You are doing a great job of teaching those boys by your example. Thank you for sharing the honest and difficult parts of maintaining a home and a family. It's so refreshing to see a real home that looks lived in by real people. ❤

I really enjoy these longer videos with a day in the life. Keep up the good work Remi!!!❤

I'm in tears. I'm so thankful to have found you. I thought I was alone. You have given me so much encouragement. I'm a mom of 3 and a wife. I suffer from chronic fatigue and massive depression. I feel like my house is eating me. I feel horrid and guilty. Thanks for your candidness. I am not alone anymore.❤

Remi, I love that you take the time to read with your children! It is so important to their academic development. I’m a retired teacher with 35 years’ experience and I’ve worked with struggling readers for decades. While our brains are designed for language, they are not designed for reading. One way to help develop the pathways for reading in our brains is to be read to from a very young age. Add to that the priceless bonding that comes from giving your children your full attention. You are rocking being a mom! ❤❤ ❤

Remi, thank you so much for this lovely long video. I’m exhausted watching you! I’m 70 now and raised four children mostly on my own. It reminds me when they were little. Love when you threw the gold blanket over your wee boy. So funny! When you said you never know what is around the corner you spoke the truth. Cherish each moment with your children. I lost two of my children in the last few years. Angela, 35 and Daniel, 36. One moment we were happy together and now it’s heartbreaking. You are such a wonderful Mom Remi and I’m proud of you. Bless your heart for working so hard for your sweet family. I send you love from B.C. Canada 🇨🇦

Who just loves remi she's the best after watching her videos i feel better. These videos are reality, so please don't judge her if she's actually amazing. If u dont like her, don't watch. Stop being horrible take your comment somewhere else so stop being nasty leave her alone

Description of toddler as a cave dragon with all his treasures around him is SO ACCURATE. As always a very lovely look at the daily intentions you inspire in all of us.

Remi you are such a beautiful woman, mother, partner in a world that needs shining lights like you 😊Thank you Remi😘

Dear Remi, Magic Cleaning , Mack says Hi! He gave your channel a shout out ! And hun, the kids will turn 12 and the load of cleaning can be reduced as they can help plus spend time with you doing tasks. The house is small enough to be close without being in the same room. We used to sing popular songs together while cleaning. And dance on small breaks. So you do what makes you happy together while keeping the house livable and loveable . Just remember that the small toys go away as the kids get older. I hope that you continue with making videos of all types

Remi, you must start thinking of the time picking up with your son by your side as your TIME TOGETHER! He’s enjoying it. He’s learning. He still gets his cuddles whenever he wants one and you’re chatting with each other. It’s great! Don’t think of it as time wasted from doing fun stuff. It’s fun to him and we can see it. And productive for you! Win-win!

Remi you are SO pretty! I don't think I've ever seen an extended close view of your face before now but omg 😍

You sweet Remi are perfect just way you are And you looked beautiful on your date night ! Much luv from a non neurodivergent who loves your videos, all that you stand for and for the beautiful loving home and family you work so hard to keep happy and healthy 🩷

Please don’t ever stop posting! I stumbled upon your channel one night when I couldn’t sleep. Long story short, you are now my comfort channel. I’ll Throw you on when I’m about to go To sleep. I throw you on when I’m Cleaning my house, etc! So thank you thank you for these videos!! You have a forever friend and avid subscriber 🤗😋😊

Nodding away at everything you’re saying Remi! I’ve never heard someone else describe the “waiting mode” where you can think of nothing else but the thing you have to do later on! People always wonder why I do everything in the morning or straight away.

Remi, you help so many of us so much. Moan all you like! I have Traumatic Brain Injury from a car accident and it is very like ADHD. Your videos and chats have motivated me and helped me so much. Thank you for having the bravery to show what reality is for most people out there. ❤❤❤ Love from the US.

I am now nearly 50. My 3 sons are grown up. I have a 3yo grandy son. I want you to know older mom to younger mom...you are doing SO well! You are enough, just as you are. You are amazing, and the love you have for your sweet family shines though all you do!❤

My goodness I wish I had your sensible and caring outlook on life when I was your age!! I was so depressed and hard on myself for not being able to do the most simple things, and it makes me happy that - unlike me at the same age - you understand how ADHD works and can give yourself a break. That is half the struggle!

You are my absolute favorite KZfaqr. Your videos are the only ones I watch the entire thing. Thank you for all the hard work you put in ❤

Remi, thank you for a new video!! They bring me joy and get me motivated to clean. As a fellow neurodivergent mom, I love your talks and they seriously help me so much ❤️ Love you friend!

Gosh, every Mum or Dad should find this channel. Thank you for the honesty, I see myself in all of this.

You actually are so pretty, you looked gorgeous for your date night. This is a season in your life and it will go quick so relax and create memories. My husband of nearly 50 years just died and I have children and grandchildren who love me and we all miss him so much.

Remi Clog, you are losing weight, your entire body is CHANGING before our eyes! You look amazing, keep up the excellent work it is hard, daunting, excruciating. DON'T GIVE UP! And I heard Midwest Magic Cleaning gave you a shout out last week, I was so excited for you! ❤

You’re amazing Remi ❤ When my 3 kids were little I felt so overwhelmed with splitting myself in half for everyone and everything that needed me. I remember at one stage feeling so bogged down I considered that being in jail would give me a break and peace 🤣 30 years later and Im now a Granny and I lost my eldest son several years ago. Id give my life to have all my mess back again and children on earth You are doing amazing. Your kids are loved and happy, well fed and clean. Your home is lovely and it looks so warm and cosy just like it should be Be kind to yourself xx

You are one amazing human being. Watching your videos is like having a friend talking to you while you tackle those hard life messes. I appreciate all the work you do for us but I am glad you get time for yourself and your family. Your date night makeup was perfect and seeing you sitting in the cupboard was just adorable. It is awesome that you got to go on a walk, play with the kids and see family members out and about. Staying inside can feel like prison at times. Getting out is hard but very worthwhile! If no one told you today I am bloody proud of you! Stay safe and stay sane! ❤❤❤

Girl, I feel ya! Being a parent with small children, you're CONSTANTLY battling against the chaos! And it's ok to feel frustrated at how quickly the house goes to shit when you take a day off from housekeeping duties to focus on other things. You are absolutely not alone on that front. Thanks as always for keepin' it real, Remi. That's why I love your channel so much

Why do you think about yourself in the negative? You are awesome and strong. You push through but please stop when you need to. If you feel better then do something, if not take time out. If you have small children, it’s like a never ending Circle or circus. I have been there. You be yourself. We love watching you and rant all you like, we’ll listen.

You are the best judge of what works for you, not other people. We all have limited time and energy, but you manage to work, raise two small children, look after the house and garden and, on top of that, make and edit videos for this channel. It is really impressive, but it is not surprising that you get tired and fed up sometimes.

Remi, I so appreciate and enjoy your insights into Mom life! ( I would pay you serious therapy money for advice!!) You are delightful and I am very glad to hear you say that the idea of balance is in the works! Your garden is lovely! Your hard work has paid off! Your boys are making memories and enjoying themselves outside! KUDOS to you!👍♥️

Loved this video Remi! I like the longer videos and particularly seeing other aspects of your family’s life. Please remember you are doing a great job. Keep your family your priority; you will literally blink and your little boys will be grown. Remember you are enough.

I had to comment and let you know how much your videos mean to me! I'm a senior citizen with joint pain and lack of motivation to keep a clean house! I have two dogs inside and one is 15 yrs old and has bathroom accidents I'm always trying to run behind him and clean up. I have clutter everywhere and two extra bedrooms I just keep the doors closed because of the junk piled up in them! Your voice is calming to me and you make me feel like I'm not crazy..I'm just over whelmed sometimes. The way you work cleaning inspires me and I have done much more than I thought I could. Thank you!

Thank you for making these. I struggle with all the mental stuff you do, and of all the cleaning channels I watch to coax my brain into letting me do stuff, yours is the most soothing. Also I love the drawers Charlie built. They look very sturdy and well made!

My younger son is autistic. I have had so many people tell me if I would just be a better mother he would be perfectly normal. And usually while they are raising spoiled entitled brats. Everyone thinks they have to right to judge but don't want to be judged themselves. It is hard to ignore such people but your family is your priority. Do what you need to do for you and keep posting videos. Sometimes it helps just to know someone else is also not perfect.

Aww I look forward to your new videos all the time, your smashing it Remi ❤✌️😊xx

Remi, you are such a breath of fresh air. I am 60 years old and have truly come to understand that we all deal with things differently and that we ALL have thinking issues. I don’t struggle like you do to keeping the house tidy, but I do understand how it’s the thinking, the what’s going on inside my head, that can rob me, and has robbed me of enjoying life. My life always seemed to be orderly, my kids well behaved, friends always asking me how I do it all. When I was your age I was quite puffed up about it. But now I look back and have regrets, and then the guilt can set in, because I can clearly see that I did not pay attention to giving my children, or my husband the attention they deserved. They were neglected. And, I can get really wrapped up in believing that the issues they struggle with are directly tied to my neglect of them 😢. But that too is unproductive on many levels. So, once again it’s the thinking. I have apologized to both my children, we have a great relationship, and they are doing so much better than I did at their age. I am so proud of them both ❤…. Anyway, I am rambling. So much to say, so many ways my mom-heart wants to reassure you that YOU ARE DOING GREAT. You’re dealing with and learning to change your thinking when you realize it’s not realistic. Life is a journey, and you are travelling it well 🥰 Avoid the compare snare - don’t ever wish you were like anyone else. Like you’ve said, “We never know the whole story of anyone.” This comes with love, from a person who has learned to let her house be messy 😊 …. at least, once in a while.

I think it’s sweet that you give Charlie his due, and that you let him you know how important he is to you!

Nearly a full hour 😍 time for a cup of tea with this one, love all your videos Remi ❤️

Hi Remi! I agree that cleaning is NOT a one and done activity. Thank you for reminding us that cleaning "is NEVER done and NEVER complete." I agree that this is all a part of "self care." ❤️

As always, I adore you and your chats. It feels cozy and real. I discovered a cool mindset that might be a fun challenge for anyone who feels discouraged or overwhelmed at chore time. I look at the task, such as dirty dishes and think, “WOW! Look at all this evidence that I had food to eat today!” When I put a gratitude spin on it, suddenly it doesn’t feel like such a drudgery anymore.

Hello Remi, I loved your week in the life of video so much! I'm so glad I found your channel. I struggle with anxiety, depression, distraction & procrastination daily. I lived with my parents and lost my mother four years ago and my father two years ago. I live with my cat now. I have been sorting & organizing since my parents passed. It's still a work in progress & each day seems like a challenge. Some days I put on one of your videos & that helps motivate me and I feel less alone. I love your channel so much! Thank you & blessings to you and your sweet family. ❤😊

Thank you. I needed this today. I'm 29 weeks pregnant and just tested positive for covid. I feel absolutely horrendous so this was comforting to watch and listen to. ❤

Remi, looking at this video I can see quite the improvement. Don't be so hard on yourself. You're definitely not alone. Love your content very much and I watch videos over and over and over again, so I'm very happy when u post.

I could listen to your calming voice all day! You are one smart cookie, no doubt😊 you have a wonderful way of explaining things that are going on in your life and mind. Thank you so so much for your honest, transparent share. Your are a wonderful human being! Blessings to you from the Great Pacific Northwest, Lakewood, Washington! 💛🖤💛

Something incredible about littles is how much of the world they learn so quickly. Honestly, I imagine by two, it's overwhelming. Nothing surprises me about young ones in that age group anymore; at the end of the day, they have good hearts, and as any adult does, they have their moments, too. Thank you again for such an inspiring video.

Wow! What a beautiful dresser! Thanks for sharing your life with us. You are a wonderful mom and human being.

Everything you are saying in the first segment is exactly how I feel!!! Can't take a day off without everything going to hell with the house!!! And picking up as you go along is possible, but also pointless when every time you turn around there's another mess, which means you're CONSTANTLY cleaning!!! 😭

Hi Remi, I’ve been watching you for a while and I can honestly say your videos are helping me so much; 1) keeping on top of everything around the house and 2) helping me feel less alone. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.

A friend recommended I watch your video and I’m so sorry I didn’t find you sooner!!!you are a breath of fresh air! It’s inspiring to see a real woman with a real home!

Always love to have a new video from you. Happy, upbeat and positive ❤😊

She posted🎉 New subscriber here, I am currently binge watching all of your videos. You have no idea how much impact your videos have. I feel so much less alone and less ashamed. Finally someone whose house I can actually relate to.I live with husband and 2 kids in a 85 m2 (outdated) apartment. With a fulltime job and mental as well as chronic health issues I have struggled tremendously in the housekeeping department. You’re chats and videos have inspired me so so much. I can’t do anything with most of the advice other cleaning channels give (multitask, batch cook, etc). I agree with them but I am unable to do it myself. I also wanted to say I was especially touched by the videos you made about your dad and aunt. These were so insightful and sweet and lovely. You truly deserve 1M subs❤

Your videos and perspective are so healing, Remi ❤ and the comment section always makes me cry. It’s all very humanizing and special ❤

I could watch you and listen to your wise and loving words every single day. You are inspiring people all over the world. Down South USA

You will never pls every1 Remi , all these ppl that keep a tidy home 100% of the time kudos to them 😊 if you have a messy house your lazy or a bad homekeeper , if you have a clean house your too particular and should be spending time making mess and memories with your loved ones , you will never win 😂 so my advice to you my lovely is keep being you cos you are doing a bloody marvellous job just doing what your doing ❤❤❤

Hi Remi. Your lawn looks fantastic. You did an awesome job. I really enjoy your videos. I am a newly retired 64 yr old from Canada. My kids are grown, no grandchildren. Keep it up.

I’m overwhelmed with stuff. There is a lot of truth to the adage ‘the more you own,the more it can own you’.

A couple of tips for anyone - may not be helpful but may. I use collapsible wash baskets when I tidy. Everything that belongs in another room gets popped in one basket, saves me going back and forth too much. In the other one I carry my cleaning bits from room to room. I also use tidy up bins/ baskets in each room so of an evening anything that doesn’t belong in that room goes in it - can just focus on one room if you like. Then in the morning everyone can go to it and find their stuff to put away - easier with older kids and at the weekend :)

Hey Remi, you were looking gorgeous on your date night. But, you know what? You inspired me to stay in my PJs on those hard days when my to do list is longer than a roll of toilet paper. It helps so much with feeling comfy. So, you're my style-icon. ❤

Your channel is a delight. You remind me not to be so hard on myself. Thanks so much for your honesty.

I am a 55 year old woman who was finally diagnosed with ADHD in Dec 2022. I have learned so much about why I am the way I am in that amount of time. But watching your videos last few weeks has made things make sense - the puzzle pieces are all dropping into place. And your voice is one of the most soothing I’ve heard. My inner dialogue has picked up your accent (I’m from the south in the US). Thank you for creating this channel.

Hi Remi, your videos just popped up one day ;I started watching them and love listening to you talk. How you put forth the everyday struggles of a stay-at-home mom like me is so heartening. A lot of what you say resonates with me and I also feel so relieved you show us a normal home and not some aesthetic ,unbelievably clean and shiny house like a few other youtubers do.

Yesss, a new video. Please do more like this behind the scenes x

Thank you Remi 😊 ❤ your Videos Help Me as I just Moved & My Energy Levels are Up & Down Past 2 Years! But Not Many KZfaqrs That I Watch Helped Much as They Was Too Tidy lol And Bit Fake some of them , But Your Videos Are The Real Deal & Your Voice Over Is The Best!!!! ❤❤❤ You're Doing Great Remi Trust Me, Everyone That Don't Say it Are Hiding it!!! You Say it How it Is!!! Oh and if You Do Go Behind in Your Housework Then Your Videos Will Be So Good When You Do it & Video it!! And Help Me & Many Others lol So Please Don't Stress As it Means You Will Have More Stuff to Film For Your Cleaning Channel & It's Not All Bad 😊❤❤❤ LOVE & BLESS TO YOU XXXXXX

You said, "I just don't feel good about the way I look," just as I was thinking "Look how adorable she is!" I know we don't see ourselves the way other people do, I was just struck by the simultaneous contradictory thoughts. I love your vids. I watch them because I am calmed and comforted by your narration. You give me hope. Rooting for you! ❤

I have never felt so heard! This should be Remi therapy channel! Side note, I run a lawncare business, nematodes are definitely the safest way to treat leather jackets. Most of the chemicals ars banned. It takes about 18-24 months of treatment, well done for persisting, a massive achievement ❤

Oh dear Remi❤❤❤ thank you for always putting a smile on my face!!! On no tombstone stands "she kept a neat household". I am a follower from early on, and I see how much you improved your tidying muscles. Whenever feel guilty, remember that tombstone, and what your children will remember of their childhood. It better be the books you read and the fun you had 😊 sending hugs from Luxembourg 🇱🇺

I really relate to the problem with waiting for things and then going on with other stuff, such as the time I spend awaiting the doctor appointment.😅 From a young age I was a "clothes collector". I always had a problem with gaining weight and throwing clothes, especially "If these clothes fit me, I shall keep them". Now after I lost my mother and needed to move, the stuff i own do not fit in the current space. So every piece of clothing always keeps migrating around the home 😂😂. I'm slowly decluttering with the help of my partner but I have a long way to go! Thats why im thankful for your content, as it reminds me it is about the small steps you take everyday to improve the situation for yourself and your family. Best wishes from Poland ❤🎉

You are absolutely seen and heard, my friend! I wish you could be as patient and kind with yourself as you are with everyone else! ❤ As a mother of 3, I can assure you that one person cannot keep up with the clutter of 4! Especially when they're still little! You just can't. And you are 100% right making the time with your kids as top priority. My kids are all grown now. I have more than enough time to clean to my heart's content. And when they visit, they never ever say "Remember when we were kids and the house was so cluttered?". What they say is "Remember when we used to make the blanket fort and read books inside it? Remember you used to give us 10 minutes to get all of our toys into the toybox while you played funny music, but every time you paused the music we had to freeze in whatever position we were in? "

As someone with chronic pain, I really appreciate you saying we all have stuff going on! Giving each other grace is such a loving thing!

My house is piles upon piles. I do what I can when I can. My boys are all grown, but still need to be done. I remember when my boys were small and you can only do so much. You are doing a marvelous job!!!

It's absolutely lovely to watch a video that is absolutely genuine. I know your videos help so many mums who are struggling feeling overwhelmed with family and work balance. Thank you for being you showing not everyone has a Pinterest worthy life but a busy life which is full of love. Well done,you're obviously a fantastic mum doing the best you can!!

I have spent my whole life feeling like a failure as I love it when my house is tidy but I struggle to keep it tidy. My house isn’t dirty but I get embarrassed when someone comes to visit, as between being a mum, employee and student, I feel like my home is neglected but watching you helps me feel motivated and happy 😊

you have no idea how helpful you have been. relatable, humble and motivating❤

How wonderful, I love it when you release a new video. I'm currently off my feet, due to a snapped ligament in my left ankle, so I will be thinking of all of the things that I can do when I'm back on my feet while I watch this! Much love, Remi. Xx

Oh Remi, As newly diagnosed with Adhd.. this is just exactly how I feel. I have been spiralling with overwhelming emotion this morning and you have snapped me out of it and soothed me. Love your videos xx

Thank you for sharing your days video.This gives me courage to go through another busy repetitious day knowing I am not the only one dealing with chaos at home. I loved your date night look which was very lovely. Looking forward to watching your next video. Love from Japan. 😊

Dropping everything to be attentive to your family is far more important than your dishes, especially when you have been up and down all night with your toddler. ❤ You're so amazing to me. So honest, so truthful ❤ love and hugs to you, Remi

Helping Ike put his Spider-Man costume on made me smile so much! 💕

Hi Remi, I thank you a million times over. You have been describing so many of my problems that I have to deal with every single day. I feel when I watch your videos that I am not alone and things don't have to be perfect. Spending time with your family is so important and it doesn't help being hard on yourself because things aren't tidied away. I just want to say many thanks for your videos I find them very encouraging. Please keep them coming xxx

I dont clean without your voice going on in the background, evergthing is real and i relate to everything ❤❤ thank you for your videos

💙💜💙💜. I LOVE these longer videos. For the last probably month or so I fall asleep listening to you talk. I find it so soothing ( not in a creepy way!!) 😁😁

I find the sunshine makes me feel so much more motivated. Glad to hear the iron is helping you and you looked lovely for your date night

I love your videos and your attitude of gratitude Remi! You're a great mum and doing a wonderful job 👍 Hello from Australia 🦘

Hi Remi. I love your ability to speak easily and not scripted. That is a skill lots of people want but unfortunately may never achieve. Honestly, it’s as if you are just talking with a close friend over a cup of coffee. I love it. ❤ so glad I found your channel.

Thank you Remi. I find your videos so comforting and inspiring. I couldn’t go by my day without you.

I love your videos and I am the exact polar opposite of you - I am obsessive compulsive and I cannot deal with disorder or mess. So as much as you wouldn’t understand my way of doing things, I don’t understand your way either. But it doesn’t matter because we’re both on a journey trying to survive and care for everyone/ ourselves the best we can. I’ve become better at dealing with my OCD so that it doesn’t completely rule my life like it used to, but it’s still challenging. Something as complex as a crooked picture on a wall can drive me crazy if I don’t manage it and I’ve had to learn to be gentle with my husband and son when it comes to messiness because it’s not fair to them if I get upset when it’s me who’s got the issues to work out. They help me and they try their best, which has to be good enough. I can’t flip out because everything isn’t exactly the way I think it should be. But it’s hard to control. I’ve had to work so hard at it. I cannot feel comfortable or productive in a messy or disorderly environment. It gives me anxiety that can spiral quickly if I’m not careful. I have absolute love and respect for you because you’re doing the best you can and it shows. I understand it gets overwhelming and can feel so counter- productive, but here we are, doing all the things and doing those things to the best of our ability. Just remember to be kind and gentle with yourself. You’ve got this and you’re doing an amazing job ❤❤❤❤❤❤

It’s nice to see and hear from a normal person instead of the perfect social media image we are used to

Darling, you are amazing! More then you know. You have kidos that meeds your attention more then the house needs at that moment. And you do your best when you can. I have my days when I don’t clean because I am so tired after work and my kids and making dinner ect. And there is days where I’m cleaning freak like you in the videos. We do what we can when we can. One thing I learned (finally) other people don’t live my live. So I won’t listen to them as long as I’m not hurting them. My messy home won’t hurt them. But I am sure your kids are happy to have mummy with them ❤

Hi Remi! You’re just precious! You do you! Taking care of little kids is EXHAUSTING. Watching and analyzing, asking myself what are some major areas that are draining so much of your time? It’s not being able to install a dishwasher or clothes dryer. I wish you had these, it would help alleviate SO much stress and time. Literally, these would change your life. …And you do deserve it. ❤