I’m getting top surgery to finally feel comfortable in my body

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We follow Stevie in the days leading up to their top surgery - a gender-affirming procedure to remove breast tissue. Subscribe to Re: bit.ly/subscribe-re
As a non-binary person, ever since puberty they have felt uncomfortable in their body and this top surgery will allow them to overcome the largest contributor to that.
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@pantspantsrevolution7
@pantspantsrevolution7 Жыл бұрын
I am sobbing. Thank you so incredibly much for sharing. I didn't think anyone truly understood how I feel, and from the moment the video started I realized... you do (did). The anger, the distress, the clawing at yourself, I thought it was just me despite everything I have read about the nonbinary and trans community. Seeing it was so powerful. Thank you, thank you, thank you
@mitchellcrane9809
@mitchellcrane9809 2 ай бұрын
do not do this to yourself. It is a social contagion spread by social media. It is common for this to happen in the female population such as anorexia and bulimia did
@gumoa2866
@gumoa2866 Ай бұрын
@@mitchellcrane9809 They should do it if they have body dysphoria. Top surgery doesn't impact your health negatively that much. It's basically just removing a ton of fat.
@mitchellcrane9809
@mitchellcrane9809 Ай бұрын
@@gumoa2866 They are more then just a ton of fat. They serve a purpose. Body dysphoria is a mental condition. IT should not be solved with a scalpel. There are people out there who have body dysphoria that feel they should not have a limb or their eyes. Should we remove the body part off these people that bothers them or should we work to solve the problem with their mind.
@cyborgwizard8923
@cyborgwizard8923 11 ай бұрын
There are people in the comments complaining about how this is "butchering" or whatever. What I'm curious about is if a cis woman gets a breast reduction surgery it's more than ok, but someone like this person gets it and it's suddenly a medical atrocity? It's literally the same procedure done for the same reason, so that person can be more comfortable in their own body. If that genuinely bothers you, then I don't understand why you're watching this in the first place.
@Qwertygerty123
@Qwertygerty123 11 ай бұрын
To spread awareness that they will be known as the generation of mass sterilisation. Having a reduction is a good argument, but ultimately a biological woman reducing her breast size isn’t denying her biology. If this women decides she wants breasts again. She’s outta luck
@LS-fe4ob
@LS-fe4ob 9 ай бұрын
Breast reduction is done for reasons like back and neck pain. And it’s a reduction not a removal
@ArAsDeCos
@ArAsDeCos 9 ай бұрын
​@@Qwertygerty123Mastectomy =/= sterilisation. And earth's population is still rapidly rising, so even if it did somehow cause sterilisation, it would be moot.
@Qwertygerty123
@Qwertygerty123 9 ай бұрын
@@ArAsDeCos I’ve also considered that. So what you’re saying is sterilising some people is a good thing?
@ArAsDeCos
@ArAsDeCos 9 ай бұрын
@@Qwertygerty123 Yeah. Those who don't want to have kids, for example.
@Savlie
@Savlie 10 ай бұрын
I'm glad you could have the surgery
@preet_tom409
@preet_tom409 9 ай бұрын
I also want to do the same ..and having same feeling
@bekahwhitlock2762
@bekahwhitlock2762 8 ай бұрын
I also identify as a woman but cried to this because I want them off.
@cashualpete
@cashualpete Жыл бұрын
So happy for them! I have a loved one about to do this and I’m so happy and look forward to the relief, freedom and alignment they’ll have with their body. ❤❤❤❤❤
@user-hu6lr3vr7g
@user-hu6lr3vr7g 4 ай бұрын
Okay, crazy person, it's a she, clearly.
@Ash-up9gl
@Ash-up9gl Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for helping so many of us to know that we're not alone
@Aster_NB
@Aster_NB Ай бұрын
This gives me so much hope
@meYogii_
@meYogii_ Жыл бұрын
Omg, what an exciting moment that was for u. This is me also. I'm not that close to get my top surgery. BUT I have an appointment with a doctor in the beginning of August. Hopefully it's not a very long time until I'll have my surgery. In november I've been waiting for almost 3 years... Hope ur satisfied with the upper body, now it's 6 months ago. Thanks for sharing your struggle and happiness.
@Raygeouspigeon
@Raygeouspigeon 3 ай бұрын
I hope everything went Not too problematical, did you get an appointment? (If you didn’t I’m sorry to remind you of that post and I want to tell you that every day Troy get a little step closer to top surgery, it’s gonna be great, you will feel great.)
@davefisher1840
@davefisher1840 3 ай бұрын
You are such an attractive person and it makes me happy to see you so happy! 🫶🏾
@fancyfeast4610
@fancyfeast4610 4 ай бұрын
Reminds me of a documentary I watched about people with body integrity identity disorder (BIID)
@itshollyw959
@itshollyw959 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I'm so incredibly happy for you :') Congratulations! Seeing your joy at the end is so wonderful!
@_JamesEinstein
@_JamesEinstein Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. I hope to get too surgery too soon. I hope it goes well for you!!
@SugarCubesMiki
@SugarCubesMiki 3 ай бұрын
So happy to see other people happy
@Benjamin-om3ih
@Benjamin-om3ih Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the fact they are doing this video. Helps me to understand something I have little comprehension about
@olivialipscombe3407
@olivialipscombe3407 5 ай бұрын
i have trans friends but seeing people get the surgery i want in nz, just makes me so happy to know people are getting it
@AleinWonderland
@AleinWonderland 4 ай бұрын
Why do people care so much about what other people do to make themselves fulfilled and happy? Whoever sees this comment I guarantee you you do something that is detrimental in the eyes of others. It doesn’t mean it’s not what you need.
@divrodricks2525
@divrodricks2525 Ай бұрын
wow this made me cry
@pomaranccia
@pomaranccia Жыл бұрын
i was crying trough the hole video. i have no hope but i really happy that non-binary people starting to get more representation, and i feel so happy but so broken right now.
@Rolando_Cueva
@Rolando_Cueva 8 ай бұрын
hole 😂
@johngirdler7505
@johngirdler7505 11 күн бұрын
I'm watching this video and my heart breaks for you as a father. You're a beautiful young woman and unfortunately, what's going on in your mind is causing you to do these horrible things to your body. I hope you get the help you need. God bless you.
@moongoddess1978
@moongoddess1978 4 күн бұрын
Yesterday, KZfaq showed me a video talking about The Black Alien project. Wow, he was handsome before. But his body, his choice. Angelina Jolie had her breasts removed because she has the breast cancer gene. It’s a bit extreme but one less thing for her to worry about. And she could afford it out of pocket. Good for her. Stevie was beautiful before. This is a minority of people sensationalized by the media where they want to change their body. Let them, I say. So long as they are consenting adults. Whatever makes them happy. Whether this actually makes them trans, well that’s debated even within the LGBT+ community!
@yudollia
@yudollia Жыл бұрын
I want to do this so bad
@DBoy176
@DBoy176 10 ай бұрын
I really hope you change your mind
@thelifesampler
@thelifesampler 10 ай бұрын
I hope you dont ruin your life. Dont buy progressisvism dumpster
@alvinjunior5426
@alvinjunior5426 6 ай бұрын
I want it too and even got an appointment scheduled. Screw what the transphobes say! They will never understand our pain and I will never change my mind. I know what I want.
@pamelamls
@pamelamls 6 ай бұрын
Me too. I just need the money. Donation link in my bio.
@gumoa2866
@gumoa2866 Ай бұрын
@@DBoy176 It's hard to change your mind when you look at yourself in the mirror naked
@violetviperbat6594
@violetviperbat6594 Жыл бұрын
Wish they have talked about the budget this surgery needs as some have to travel to Thailand to get it done instead
@preet_tom409
@preet_tom409 9 ай бұрын
I also want to do this... But i am scared of even injection, don't know how to face this
@mirandastephens4586
@mirandastephens4586 Ай бұрын
Don't do it.
@jesslester6970
@jesslester6970 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that people can get lifesaving surgeries like this. I wish them luck with everything ❤
@ZombieR4T
@ZombieR4T Жыл бұрын
Ayeee I’m non-binary too!! I can relate so much and it’s so cool to see someone like me transition :))
@okeydokey4523
@okeydokey4523 7 ай бұрын
I’m a frog. Thank you so much. I’m getting my voice deepened, mouth widened soon. I’m on my way to finally be accepted as a frog. I use the pronoun rebit.
@mainardlarkin8377
@mainardlarkin8377 Жыл бұрын
amazing ^^!!
@isismoreau7775
@isismoreau7775 Жыл бұрын
So happy for them!
@thenman23
@thenman23 Жыл бұрын
her
@ZombieR4T
@ZombieR4T Жыл бұрын
@@thenman23 Have you even watched the video??🙄
@vidamariaixchel4962
@vidamariaixchel4962 Жыл бұрын
For them? There’s just one girl here: one who hates her breasts.
@sicksickBacon
@sicksickBacon Жыл бұрын
@@ZombieR4Tthey think they're funny.
@sicksickBacon
@sicksickBacon Жыл бұрын
@@theharshtruthoutthere bullshit
@preet_tom409
@preet_tom409 9 ай бұрын
Could anyone tell me who is non-binary means🤔
@ArAsDeCos
@ArAsDeCos 9 ай бұрын
I'll use shapes to see if it helps. A man is a square and a woman ìs a circle. Nonbinary is an ever changing shape. Non(t of the man-woman exclusive) binary
@shamusteakiawa
@shamusteakiawa 8 ай бұрын
It's nothing. It's just made up by people looking for attention.
@ArAsDeCos
@ArAsDeCos 8 ай бұрын
@@shamusteakiawa *eyeroll* tell that to the thousands of varied genders throughout history
@larissalaureneovaghatomo9238
@larissalaureneovaghatomo9238 7 ай бұрын
it means if am a woman and i dont identify as such and if am a man i don't identify as such iam just floating between the two
@eneedham789
@eneedham789 6 ай бұрын
It means you’re brainwashed
@timothylaws4549
@timothylaws4549 11 ай бұрын
Awesome ❤️
@febrisalfie1649
@febrisalfie1649 8 ай бұрын
Gymnomastia
@weird-experience-123
@weird-experience-123 Ай бұрын
Can you employ a modicum of common sense? It is NOT okay to normalize a young person hating their body *especially* a part of the body that is sexualized since childhood. It takes TIME for individuals to come into themselves. This is a non-medically necessary surgery that carries huge risks, not just physically but emotional. More than that, it is so weird how this is turned into a spectacle and a weird pity party celebration.
@mirandastephens4586
@mirandastephens4586 Ай бұрын
The medical industrial complex is making a lot of money
@emeranthe
@emeranthe 5 ай бұрын
you don’t need to remove part of yourself to be comfortable, instead address the psychological issues & body/gender dysphoria rather than putting more money in the pockets of these corrupt surgeons.
@rebekahwestwood
@rebekahwestwood Жыл бұрын
Is this napier nz??.😮
@bonkers9357
@bonkers9357 8 ай бұрын
Why aint this age restricted tho
@fluffgirl9812
@fluffgirl9812 7 ай бұрын
It is
@ToanLe-vv4mw
@ToanLe-vv4mw Ай бұрын
Sad, looks like she regrets it.
@christineborowy9374
@christineborowy9374 Ай бұрын
Looks like she recovers from cancer. What a nonsense.
@grantcross6709
@grantcross6709 Жыл бұрын
Loving yourself is accepting the reality of who you are. Those who cannot accept themselves are more likely to engage in self destructive behaviour. Drugs, alcohol, and self mutilation are common modes of self destruction. I was an alcoholic for a number of years and damaged my body to make my mind feel more at ease. We all make mistakes in life and I hope you can find peace and happiness.
@reiga9589
@reiga9589 11 ай бұрын
What a nasty comment
@shayyahalomi9719
@shayyahalomi9719 10 ай бұрын
They do this surgery so they will never have to harm themselves again
@thelifesampler
@thelifesampler 10 ай бұрын
​@@reiga9589ok anime boyo. You all need kids have to face reality gender dysphoria is real.
@Qwertygerty123
@Qwertygerty123 7 ай бұрын
@@shayyahalomi9719yet the self hate and suicide rate doesn’t go down. This isn’t the key to accepting yourself.
@L-tb9kk
@L-tb9kk 6 ай бұрын
such a privledged person to say this
@h6hfelie
@h6hfelie 5 ай бұрын
If these people stopped being self obsessed they'd stop obsessing over themselves. Self hatred is a sign of being self-absorbed.
@gumoa2866
@gumoa2866 Ай бұрын
I mean. It's hard to not look at a mirror in your life you know.
@minjaeelio
@minjaeelio Ай бұрын
Preoccupation with what other people do with their bodies is a sign of being an asshole :)
@DBoy176
@DBoy176 Жыл бұрын
its sad. this women needs help, not removing parts of herself. she will never be comfortable in her body no matter what surgery she does
@blackshards3415
@blackshards3415 Жыл бұрын
You need help from a mental health care specialist. They are not a woman. Just get in your head that there is more than two sex and more than two gender identities.
@Elsie_0n_yt
@Elsie_0n_yt Жыл бұрын
No one cares though
@shayyahalomi9719
@shayyahalomi9719 10 ай бұрын
U mad lol
@DBoy176
@DBoy176 10 ай бұрын
@@Elsie_0n_yt you don’t care about her well being ?
@Elsie_0n_yt
@Elsie_0n_yt 10 ай бұрын
@@DBoy176 I do care, actually. Very much so. Which is why I'm letting them choose what they want to do. If it makes them happy so be it. It's not others concern at all, even if its for the "best"
@atheistbewildered2987
@atheistbewildered2987 Жыл бұрын
body dysmorphic disorder
@Qwertygerty123
@Qwertygerty123 11 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you did this to your beautiful body. I hope your life is good, and you don’t struggle too much. Adults shouldn’t be allowed this.
@taylorsanders8742
@taylorsanders8742 11 ай бұрын
if only you were trans for a day you'd know
@quekbridget5988
@quekbridget5988 9 ай бұрын
Some people breasts are too big for their body they remove it
@oliver4146
@oliver4146 7 ай бұрын
adults shouldn’t have bodily autonomy? knee surgery patients have a higher regret rate than top surgery patients, should people stop getting knee surgery?
@Qwertygerty123
@Qwertygerty123 7 ай бұрын
@@oliver4146 I have a lot to say about medical practice and the way we are told it’s the best thing. I believe each person should do their own research into surgery. What we are talking about here isn’t just a person having a surgery. We are talking about people who have mental health issues that aren’t being addressed. Instead they are being affirmed. It’s impossible to be the opposite sex that you were born as. After all the hormones and surgery they are not even 1% closer to being the opposite sex. They are just changing their appearance. I also have a problem with how this effects Women. The reason for separate spaces is because women ARE more vulnerable.
@alvinjunior5426
@alvinjunior5426 6 ай бұрын
Screw off. It's not your decision. 😊
@cosmic-creepers9207
@cosmic-creepers9207 Жыл бұрын
She needed therapy not butchering
@OlliMonke
@OlliMonke Жыл бұрын
go screw urself homophobe.
@Delousedinthecomatorium
@Delousedinthecomatorium Жыл бұрын
@@OlliMonke lol
@jacobharding5843
@jacobharding5843 11 ай бұрын
lmao u sound like my dad. the fact that u said something so awful as that, shows me that *you’re* the one who needs therapy :) and their pronouns are they/them, it’s like u don’t know how to listen or something lol 😂😂
@eneedham789
@eneedham789 6 ай бұрын
Thank you. There are so many brainwashed and deluded people in this comments section who are somehow happy that she removed perfectly healthy breasts because of her mental health issues. She needed help, not to be mutilated.
@UpsideDownWorld
@UpsideDownWorld Жыл бұрын
How do these doctors sleep at night & how are they able to keep their medical degree? Unreal. 😡
@thetruepatriot7733
@thetruepatriot7733 Жыл бұрын
This is another evil perpetrated by the medical community...someday we will look back at these procedures the same way we look at lobotomy. This doctors need to be jailed...the fact that they do these procedures on 13-15 year old girls is disturbing...
@MustyUnderboob
@MustyUnderboob Жыл бұрын
"First do no harm." Removing breasts is definitely a harm.
@sleepySnowpoff
@sleepySnowpoff Жыл бұрын
Please listen, this isn't harm. This was medically necessary for them. Their chest was causing a lot of mental pain and this was the most effective way to treat it. It is like knee surgery. Most trans and nonbinary people (including me) have to go to therapists and get letters that aprove us for this kind of surgery. I ve already spent 200 dollars for one letter and I'm going to spend another 200 for a second letter. You don't need that for knee surgery, this should be recognized as any other physical problem. The doctor really did help them and improved their mental health greatly, how is that a bad thing. All we want is to be happy in our bodies
@MustyUnderboob
@MustyUnderboob Жыл бұрын
@childishpixels7750 By what measure is their health improved other than their say so? Should we start removing other limbs that cause people mental distress? What if someone feels they should be in a wheelchair or they should be a quadriplegic?
@thetruepatriot7733
@thetruepatriot7733 Жыл бұрын
@@MustyUnderboob that's actually a real issue... their are people with a disorder that makes them want to be disabled. For example, their was a man with two working legs who "felt like an amputee". He lived his life in a wheelchair although he could walk. He went to a doctor and begged to have his legs amputated and they refused because it was unethical. Their was a woman who desperately wanted to be blind, she lived her life using a blinfold. the doctors refused to remove her eyes so she dumped bleach into her eyes and blinded herself... trans surgery is no different! It's unethical and doctors should be held accountable. We don't operate on people who don't have the mental capabilities to consent.
@thetruepatriot7733
@thetruepatriot7733 Жыл бұрын
Someday we look back at sex reassignment surgery the same way we look at lobotomy... this is another evil perpetrated by the medical industry. They need therapy not surgery.
@MustyUnderboob
@MustyUnderboob Жыл бұрын
She's clearly got sensory issues.
@reiga9589
@reiga9589 11 ай бұрын
The only evil here is people who think lile you do
@Gadsdenflag
@Gadsdenflag 7 ай бұрын
The amount of trans people who have taken their own lives has increased dramatically after they get surgery. They are killing themselves by the thousands because they regret their choice to mutilate their own bodys and they realize that it was a huge mistake and that it’s permanent.
@L-tb9kk
@L-tb9kk 6 ай бұрын
too bad there is nothing you can do about it 💋
@yourpalfred
@yourpalfred 4 ай бұрын
You think this person hasn't had any therapy??? Please
@mitchellcrane9809
@mitchellcrane9809 2 ай бұрын
heal the mind, stop butchering bodies
@kiwi-toaster4332
@kiwi-toaster4332 13 күн бұрын
Conversion therapy doesn't work. Gender affirming care does. So shut up
@jack_3.5mm
@jack_3.5mm 10 ай бұрын
I bet we'll see her again in few years time saying she regrets it, watch
@fluffgirl9812
@fluffgirl9812 7 ай бұрын
Most likely not because not everyone regrets it
@LS-fe4ob
@LS-fe4ob 9 ай бұрын
Very sad. No doubt this woman has experienced sexual assault in her past.
@ArAsDeCos
@ArAsDeCos 9 ай бұрын
As an AFAB person who wants top surgery... no. SA isn't the reason for it. Dysphoria is.
@evanware
@evanware 8 ай бұрын
You don’t understand anything fr
@mitchellcrane9809
@mitchellcrane9809 2 ай бұрын
She is not nonbinary ( a made up nonsense term). The fact that she does not feel “safe” tells the issue. Something has happened to her or she has seen something that has traumatized her. Having breast should not influence your feeling of safety as it is a natural state of they body. Rather then mutilating the body she needs proper therapy to get her past/desensitized to the source of fear she has.
@mirandastephens4586
@mirandastephens4586 Ай бұрын
Sad to see this
@TatianaAntonuk
@TatianaAntonuk Ай бұрын
Poor brainwashed lady😢
@miinovio
@miinovio Жыл бұрын
girl what? you feel right but you won't in the judgement day :)
@Elsie_0n_yt
@Elsie_0n_yt Жыл бұрын
who
@Elsie_0n_yt
@Elsie_0n_yt Жыл бұрын
@@miinovio asked
@miinovio
@miinovio Жыл бұрын
@@Elsie_0n_yt you did :D
@Elsie_0n_yt
@Elsie_0n_yt Жыл бұрын
@@miinovio I didn't ☺️
@miinovio
@miinovio Жыл бұрын
@@Elsie_0n_yt no one cares.
@VarnaVenu-ob9wy
@VarnaVenu-ob9wy Ай бұрын
I'm happy for you
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