Resentment After Divorce

Resentment After Divorce | Ask Ganjiswag

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00:00 - Intro
04:01 - Feeling Resentment After Divorce
20:03 - Divorce Awareness After Marriage
34:00 - Can Moving Abroad Go Wrong
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@Blenditmahnoor 7 ай бұрын

Your videos are a blessing for us💗 because whatever issue you discuss connects with someone or another

@human650 7 ай бұрын

Very Informative Video Alots Of Love We Need These Type People ❤

@mtalhakhalid1679 7 ай бұрын

I've observed that there's a religious perspective suggesting that the more one is a sinner internally, the more apparent it becomes, and I have witnessed individuals fitting this description.

@hunter62207 7 ай бұрын

Yes its their guilty conscience at work, easiest way is to see their views on rights of wife, Children or parents.

@duaasohail6666 7 ай бұрын

25:13 - 25:47 wise words 🔥

@mtalhakhalid1679 7 ай бұрын

Not everyone, but a significant majority of individuals who relocate abroad, particularly to British territories, seem to exhibit psychopathic tendencies and feel a sense of affinity as if they have found a community of psychopaths gathered under one metaphorical umbrella. This isn't the first instance I've encountered such narratives; I'm acquainted with a woman who married someone from abroad, only to have her hand broken by her husband, resulting in the necessity for a prosthetic hand. These are instances involving educated but illiterate Pakistanis. It's almost like a Pakistani adaptation of "50 Shades of Gray," where I've observed these psychopathic individuals moving abroad and engaging in disgraceful actions. My question is, why do these psychopaths choose to relocate abroad rather than seeking help in a mental asylum? You made the right decision to divorce that individual. Some individuals require a mental health evaluation rather than entering into marriage. My advice to all women is to carefully consider the person you are marrying.

@uzone8571 7 ай бұрын

Problem is very clear.These guys go to the Salafi mosques where the Imam preach hatred and bigotry.Just see Amjam Chaudhry and such scumbags.You will see a lot of them joining ISIS,Al Quaida and other such organizations.

@GoodBoyFx 7 ай бұрын

my story: 36 yr old new yorka nika's 23 yr old krachi khala's daughter in 2020 in khi, precovid, comes bck to usa nex day to file her papers .. mantains long distance relationship thru watsapp, daily chat/weekly calls.. 1.5 yrs go fine. then small disagrement girls immature, guy's religous n man of principles but let her slide due to her being young n sheltered life.. aftr 1.5 yrs girl block hubby on watspp, he lets her parents know they tell her to behave but refuses to listen..tells guy to visit pk sort it out.. guy visits, girl stonewalls him, ignores him like she doesnt know him.. everyone advises girl but she ignores all.. rumor spred she is having affair, parents brush it of as ''rumors'' guy after being treated like dirt, return to US with no change..girls mom/girl make fake promise that she will comem for interview n all will be sorted out.. soon as guy returns USA, girls tantrum attitude on watsapp continue putting up love quotes n status...when guy confronts she clearly says these are for SOMEONE ELSE.. n that someturns out is her cuzin whom she plotted to run away with.. hands him nika nama to file unilateral khula in guy's name from court( parents knew this all along hid this) n make guy come 7 seas across stay 30+ days in PK visiting her every other day n her showing him her BACK ..while guy feels disrepected but sabr's.. guy waited n wasted 4yrs in US, working hard to start family etc.. even after realizing affair is true (likely emotional affair) he gives girl another last chance..that he will forgive her if she repents etc.. but NOPE girl stubborn as rock.. wants guy(badboy type) who is a drug addict/womanizer/has no job, but makes tiktok with false image of being rich n etc.. so girl false for his social media fake images n videos.. betraying her husband whose support her all these yrs financially,emotionally.. n girl ends up being this bad-kirdaar lerki All from watching tiktok junk and pkstani nee-age faaltu dramas of divorces/affairs pure toxic garbage turning women into TRASHY like western girls.. So in short my advice to guys in west looking to marry in PK? BE VERYYYYY CAREFUL..dont think just cuz she is from low-middle class n shareef gharana, girl will be shareef.. no, harami-pun full max pro chalra thanks to social media n neglectful lazy parents who dont hold kids responsible n treat em like princesses.. sleeping 5-6am daily..waking up 2pm..talkin to anybody n everybody on social media.. prayer or not prayer.. Allah bachaye in shaitaanu sai.

@TheDartholiver 7 ай бұрын

and most of them are religiously inclined

@TheDartholiver 7 ай бұрын

there's a lot of influence of Hijab and Dawah group

@moonaibrahim5638 7 ай бұрын

To the first email, I'm so so sorry you have gone through this but my sister, people are like this (your relatives speaking to the Aunt & his son👎) I can understand how much painful & inevitable it can be for you but the reality is people never ever disturb their terms with someone regardless of how much bad he/she is, if they haven't suffered on its own, or if they have some kind of benefit by keeping the relationship with them, or simply if they are close knitted big family including relatives (they all come to rescue the culprit & start victim blaming). As soon as you accept this reality of world & people, things will get easier for you. Just build your personality strong that nobody can speak nasty about you, Pray to Allah to give you peace & courage to deal with all this. Also, it's okay to cry but don't show your miserable side to the unreliable people, don't give them the power to destroy you by using your weak side. At the end of the day it's only You & Allah and if you are lucky enough then your family, who truely understands your pain but rest of the world will never harm their relationships with someone just because YOU have suffered. May Allah help you, Ameen🍀

@ajum89 7 ай бұрын

The point you make for the last question about cheap/inexpensive life in Pakistan is so poignant. There is so much exploitation in Pakistan with the working class. And our parent's generation is so ruthless with how much they dehumanize working class. I hope younger generation is more empathetic.

@IAMAliIbrahim 3 ай бұрын

It is a lie that life is cheap in Pakistan, 1) start filling your car fuel tank, lose half of your income 2) start paying house rent, lose your income 3) start educating your children in expensive private school, say bye-bye to your income 4) start buying good food, lose your salary in it ABOVE ALL, You get into the hands of religious extremists, and lose your life. Is your life this cheap?

@CueMasters123 7 ай бұрын

Excited!!!

@shazeelparwazrajput2761 7 ай бұрын

Every morning waiting for this

@aqsaali2670 5 күн бұрын

Financial independence is a must have thing for women ❤

@yusraansari1721 7 ай бұрын

Sleeping in other room is the biggest red flag. Please all the woman out there, please get out of the relationship asap. Otherwise you will suffer the most and eventually your children will also suffer.

@hiraafzaluddin8174 7 ай бұрын

Movie is MARD 46:00

@shubhamthapliyal8832 7 ай бұрын

45:16 the film's name is 'mard'

@pkroninverse7307 7 ай бұрын

The word is "strait jacket" You can see an example in zack Snyder's JL nightmate version where joker talks with Batman he was wearing a white jacket

@user-sp8oc2xt4o 7 ай бұрын

BTW the movie was "Mard" you are talking about.

@mitalicops8538 7 ай бұрын

The last question, i have only one answer to that. Whoever agrees with the last question. Catch a flight to Pakistan for a short trip let’s say a week or 2. When u return back from your trip, trust me you will work real hard after that.😂 What i said above is something only a Pakistani that is born and raised in some foreign country can agree upon. The last question is something that all Pakistanis have in the back of their mind once they leave Pakistan. Well ik and i can understand that many Pakistanis that are abroad cant remove pakistan out of their mind. But you will have to kill the thoughts because thats the only way. You are now over it. You have evolved and so will your generation. You wont only cause de evolution in your life but potentially cause it to your generations thats to come. You have the opportunity that someone is right now dying for and you are just willing to destroy it like that. CMON GET OVER IT!

@alisyed5915 3 ай бұрын

It's still a shocker to me that you only have 140k subs. You should be in the millions by now. Really valuable content, but unfortuantely not as appreciated as it needs to be. Keep it up, bro. hope to meet you one day inshAllah

@zohraali674 7 ай бұрын

Regarding these first 2 emails i think you should make a video for all those girls who are getting married and going abroad so they can find resources around them if something goes wrong

@legendaryhound5261 7 ай бұрын

He has already made videos on this

@HarisThePatient 6 ай бұрын

@Logicalsane 2 ай бұрын

What if they do the wrong to their husbands??

@batsy941 7 ай бұрын

40:00. Lahore ka bhi yehi haal hai. I got sick of dealing with departments regarding gas electric gatar choke and 3 feet sewerage water in front of 30 crore properties. Same mobile snatching and people hitting each other on roads in middle of day light. Lahore is at par with karachi right now. You cant walk in lahore and not fear for your life

@umakandpal 6 ай бұрын

East Punjab (48%) became part of India, while West Punjab (52%) became part of Pakistan. Sara masal hi is said or us said ka hai ... you are right ham jaanna hi nhi chahte ak dusre ko..... i think related kr bhi nhi payenge .... because image set hai na mind main !

@ARaza-oz2xq 7 ай бұрын

40:00 Same situation is in Lahore

@sagarsahil786 7 ай бұрын

45:15, I believe the name of the movie is "Mard (Taangy wala)" including Amrita Singh.

@user-sw1ez3jv7l 7 ай бұрын

Feeling dumb now… why I chosen this video to listen while im going to sleep

@abdulrehmanazhar9481 7 ай бұрын

Salam! How can I send my query to Junaid Akram?

@frzamno0r691 7 ай бұрын

Bhai KZfaq music me b dalya kryn iski episodes

@faizanbutt2176 7 ай бұрын

Every country has multiple culture, it is NOT only in Pakistan. Spain has multi culture and they fight for separate lands, People in Barcelona wants themselves separated from Spain. India is multicultural country (You praised them in this episode). Quebec in Canada is different in culture than rest of the Canada. Even USA has southern states which are different in culture than northern states or western states. so STOP commenting that 5 different countries are made into one. I am sure you'll do some research on what I have said above.

@kamranhussain2044 7 ай бұрын

Agr ye UK ma incident hua tha to inko usi time report krwana chahye tha is se use saza hoti or inko citizenship b mil jani thi. Mere ek janne wale hen jinke sath same incident hua tha unho ne report krwaya or us larki ko UK govt. Ne protect b kia or citizenship b de di. Ab wo apna business kr rahe hen...

@RiyaKaur414 7 ай бұрын

If my any indian friends are listening can you suggest me any youtuber who is making same kind of videos . Junaid bhai is doing great work we also need someone who can talk to us like this. And dont suggest youtubers like Elyish Yadav , Beerbeceps , etc

@saitandale8482 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 beerbicep se kya problem hai bhai 😂😂😂😂

@saitandale8482 7 ай бұрын

Elvish toh Chu hai 😂

@RiyaKaur414 7 ай бұрын

Don't know but he is super irritating.

@saitandale8482 7 ай бұрын

@@RiyaKaur414😂 woh toh hai .... but uske host toh accha hote hai

@abdullahakram1 7 ай бұрын

Bhopender Jogi

@user-lc4vg7kc1o 6 ай бұрын

I need to ask something how can I ??

@unwanted0907 7 ай бұрын

Junaid bhai don't you think the religious text in Islam is interpreted according to once convenience and need.

@user-oi7tk6mc8q 7 ай бұрын

Salam sir, it's really important for u to respond to black magic and declining of wealth at next episode sir. It will help save lives

@badart88 7 ай бұрын

He is not a black magic expert If you really want to, recite surah baqarah every 3 day in your house , no magic would be able to touch you.

@user-oi7tk6mc8q 7 ай бұрын

Bhai jaan, this comment wasn't meant for u. It was meant for junaid bhai only. If u do not know the reality behind someone situation or if u do not know what the other person is experiencing and goin through. I kindly suggest u to dafa Hoja yaha say and do not reply to this comment for unnecessary bakwas. Thank you

@badart88 7 ай бұрын

@@user-oi7tk6mc8q Allah aap ko hidayat day or itnay taqabur say bachaye

@TaimoorAlam2 7 ай бұрын

43:00 6k 7k bhi ap ny zada bataya hai 3000 dety hai Karachi mai

@samawaatzahid283 7 ай бұрын

I don’t know why women try to become victim in every relationship that she doesn’t want to pursue And try to put everything on men. This is not right

@omarriaz3322 7 ай бұрын

French Designer i think ‘ Bhatti saab’ 🇫🇷

@SameerKhan-lv6zg 7 ай бұрын

Shahid anwar wala podcast kb upload ho ghaii

@user-jc2tg4ps5k 7 ай бұрын

How to send the questions to Junaid Bhai, I have few questions and really depressed , need some guidance and motivation.

@TitanXxX97 7 ай бұрын

On his Email

@user-jc2tg4ps5k 7 ай бұрын

@@TitanXxX97 do u have his email , can you share it

@arson30 7 ай бұрын

Depressed? How can I Help

@shafishafique6412 7 ай бұрын

Make video about men getting abused by women, no one talk about this....

@alyshbaaaSss 7 ай бұрын

I just FUCKING agree with uuuuu 💯💯💯💯💯💯

@shazeelparwazrajput2761 7 ай бұрын

Mard movie ka nam hn

@dominus_falchion 3 ай бұрын

The point u made is right, The crime should be reported that's what our The Messenger of Allah, Prophet (S.A.W), said, “Whoever among you sees evil, let him change it with his hand. If he cannot do so, then with his tongue. If he cannot do so, then with his heart, which is the weakest level of faith.” The problem is our women's are oppressors cuz they r hiding the real oppressor and oppression, I don't understand why people don't read about Islam and understand it most specifically females they don't read about their own religion why, for how their religion protects them.

@jules3597 6 ай бұрын

There are nutjerks in canada also, in october 35 domestic violence cases were reported in desi community over there,... My ex ( a marriage which he ended in 8 months by sitting in canada) also said i want to play wrestling with you, i told him i dont think we can because i am thin and fragile and he's obese and tall so i told him u need to be careful, but he said no i will do it, i want to play like that with you... Now listening to this i dont know what to say ;(

@Logicalsane 2 ай бұрын

In domestic violence,men are actually in the right and women are in the wrong.....

@user-fs8jm7bm4b 6 ай бұрын

Junaid, I am from Karachi too. You mentioned food, even food in Pakistan is artificial. It may look good and taste delicious, but it's disgusting from inside, basically full of dirt and galazat.

@saitandale8482 7 ай бұрын

😢

@zaheer74ful 6 ай бұрын

Watch provokeed movie of ashwerya

@akilmerji8209 6 ай бұрын

50:00

@farrukh846 7 ай бұрын

Somehow this was depressing. Please share some positive emails/stories. We need some positivity.

@mustafahmed1 7 ай бұрын

i think the guy mentioned in the first part needed more of a few guy friends than a wife

@waqarahmed9169 7 ай бұрын

😅😅😅😅😅😅

@shaheerali69 7 ай бұрын

38:57

@mbzdotdev 6 ай бұрын

10:46

@Kwm-519 7 ай бұрын

If father is so important, why does @Junaid Akram lives away from his family and kids ? Although one can understand while listening to his wife speaking

@legendaryhound5261 7 ай бұрын

He lives away from kids, he isn't dead.... there's a difference 🤦🤦

@Kwm-519 7 ай бұрын

@@legendaryhound5261 where is this “being dead” coming from. I am just saying that on multiple occasions, he talks about how important it is for a dad to be in his kids’ lives. However, he himself lives away from them which is completely understandable if you have a nagging wife who thinks that being employed in London is like the best thing that can ever happen to a human being

@user-xk5si7mc3m 7 ай бұрын

@@Kwm-519 his wife is very annoying for sure. I cant imagine living away from my wife for even a couple of weeks.

@BilalKhan-nk2wj 7 ай бұрын

this is the hypocrisy of this channel, giving others advice on relationships and parenthood when he himself is part time father/husband lol

@SuperSilkwood 7 ай бұрын

Happy marriage life 😂😂😂

@hassixmalik9071 7 ай бұрын

Just to educate you at 50:07 maybe you slipped tongue but that sentence might feel like you did sarcasm about God. I hope I’m able to convey (may Allah guide you)

@Kwm-519 7 ай бұрын

Hhaha Junaid akram had to insert a disclaimer that aurat moti honay wali preference 20 saal puraani baat .. this is called “fear of cancellation”

@legendaryhound5261 7 ай бұрын

Q? 20 years pehle kia bat thi?

@Asad_. 6 ай бұрын

⭐⭐⭐

@nabeel685 7 ай бұрын

Last question ur going too far bro.Take care of ur health n life.Wat u said is correct but ppl here cannot accept it

@athbutt1914 7 ай бұрын

Mehmood Bhatti is the name of the fashion designer and he made National hospital in Defnese lhr. Saqib Nisar chay raided his hospital and degraded Mehmood himself very badly. He even mocked Mehmood's attire/clothing. like wtf

@creativeideaswithriz..639 7 ай бұрын

Ghar ka mamla... Then police intervene after murder of women.. We as pakistanis need a shift in laws regarding domestic violence..

@salmanpervaiz2119 7 ай бұрын

Just tired of listening to same family drama bs he should be doing other topics as well

@westwoodstreet 7 ай бұрын

I think it's because that's what most people are experiencing these days, it's sad but yeah..

@arson30 7 ай бұрын

He's tired himself and he said it numerous times that emails are on same topics. But Family issues are the main Problem of Pakistani audience he can't change that.

@legendaryhound5261 7 ай бұрын

He gets these types of emails mostly....what can he do

@dhruvgupta1124 7 ай бұрын

The real problem of pakistan is their women doesn't even have any say for themselves...krishna ji ne sahi hi kaha hain jis bhi riyasat rajya mein streeyon ki izzat nahi hogi us riyasat ka patan/vinash hona nishchot hain...

@nimfall 7 ай бұрын

Are you male

@dhruvgupta1124 6 ай бұрын

@@nimfall yeah

@batsy941 7 ай бұрын

16:13. UK police is all like this. Apas ka mamla keh kar nikal jati at least london police is like this. After all pakistanis blindly followed same justice system as UK which is broken

@Kwm-519 7 ай бұрын

30:50 if financial freedom was the solution, every woman in the west would have been completely fine whereas relationships in the west fail more similarly depression and anxiety is much more in those women

@legendaryhound5261 7 ай бұрын

The west dynamics are totally different...u can't compare their situation to a Pakistani situation....they have bigger levels of problems and depressions....a women in the west doesn't have to worry about what's gonna happen to her after her divorce, because she has can easily live on her own thanks to govt support and high wage jobs which are unavailable in Pakistan......most importantly they rarely face issue of Domestic abuse from their husbands.... Their issues there is that either the guy is not ready to marry them because of the fear of the guy that his girl gonna take his money if she divorces him...or women generally marry too late and they do not find a compatible partner.... that's their anxiety and depression....

@legendaryhound5261 7 ай бұрын

And the reason "relationships fail more in west", let me correct that for you..... relationships end more quickly in west, probably because 1) Women wants to take her husband's money by child divorce which is only possible once she divorces 2) Unlike a Pakistani woman....a wetern woman doesn't take her husband's BS....if she gets abused from her husband

@Kwm-519 7 ай бұрын

@@legendaryhound5261 can you explain “why they are unable to find a suitable partner” ? Did you just say “they ‘rarely’ face domestic abuse” - lol joke of the year

@Kwm-519 7 ай бұрын

@@legendaryhound5261 I don’t think you have seen the stats - domestic violence is not even in the top 3 reasons of high divorce rate in the west. I think you should do some research first

@masoodkhan581 7 ай бұрын

In the West, Relationship isn't the definition of success. It's only a criteria in lower income areas.

@SlimShady0911 7 ай бұрын

Next time you see him give him Rock Bottom

@SumaiyaTalpur-qq6jh 7 ай бұрын

🙌🙏👍

@faizanbutt2176 7 ай бұрын

Everything is alright about you the this channel sessions but sometimes it seems Junaid bhai shows off a bit which I feel is weird. I always enjoy listening to the episodes. I am sure hundreds of people would praying for you for what you are doing especially educating the girls. It works as therapy for me.

@BilalKhan-nk2wj 7 ай бұрын

"because i want to use cheap labor in pakistan to make money but still complain and tell others to leave pakistan"

@syedafauziahaider6504 7 ай бұрын

Desh premi

@nicolesmith8976 7 ай бұрын

Mulk mein filhaal koi mustaqbil nahin Khasker jab tak yeh shariffa and zardari rahengay aur company bahadur

@nicolesmith8976 7 ай бұрын

Triple T TARBYET TALEEM TARJEHAAT

@creativemonkey3162 7 ай бұрын

judge bhe pti ka tha

@Mrshahroz100 7 ай бұрын

india ka visa laga huwa hy😂

@HaiderRizvi69 6 ай бұрын

Kafir Ka mulk best❤️💯💯💯

@CuriosityJuice 7 ай бұрын

I have an alternative opinion that Junaid wants less competition for himself in Pakistan so he wants all professionals and competent people leave the country :) There are many competent people in Pakistan and doing quite well but their stories are lost among bad stories from million of people. Our brain tend to remember and react to bad stories more so we tend to forget good stories and events.

@fahadwaheed7611 7 ай бұрын

Do you even know how much diversity india has? Matlab kuch be keh dena ha bina sochaye samjhye.

@baninfatima9044 7 ай бұрын

Why are desi women so weak and helpless? They stay quiet for the sake of a toxic marriage. Please educate your daughters and make them financially independent before marrying them off