Wow, that was a huge step! ❤ Glory to God! So proud of you momma.

​@@edream2513soccerAll doctors do is prescribe people medication that makes them worse with side effects. Definitely, no God edification in that.

I m a doctor mom of a child with autism.... I left my carrier for him... I didn't had the courage to leave my kids alone

@@edream2513soccerGod uses us in many places in the same time. The important question is where are we needed the most, where are our priorities and what will have the biggest impact in the future with what we do now. No one can give themselves 100 % to 2 things. One thing will have to suffer and get less. But it is very true that only the Holy Spirit will be the one to move and convict and change hearts. Congrats on all your studying and time spent for becoming a doctor. I can only imagine how hard it was. Definitely something hard to let go of if the Lord calls you to do so.

@@edream2513soccerI tried to do both for a while, even working part-time, then prn and I just couldn’t (we have 4 kiddos). My husband too is a Dr, so income was not the issue. Continued to justify myself…but my heart knew what scripture speaks of the role of a mother, wife, and follower of Jesus Christ. I denied myself and picked up my cross.

I deeply understand! I almost left but decided to stay for the sake of our large family. You did the right thing.

Anyone who thinks SAHMs are useless or “doing less” are pathetic! I would argue from my circle of SAHMs that they don’t have luxury to have it easy. My husband even says he wouldn’t be able to do what I do. (And neither can I do what he does)

Just because a woman is married doesn't make life better, because most of us do NOT have righteous husbands. My life feels like hell on earth most days, and I've been married many years. I've homeschooled for 10 years, and he still criticizes me for that and doubts my abilities. Nevermind that I successfully educate 1 high schooler, 1 middle schooler, and 2 elementary age children while tending to 2 toddlers (yes, I have 6 children at home). Nevermind that I create my own curricula and my children are doing well. He's just critical because of his own unresolved baggage and anxieties, and rather than take it up with the Father, he takes it out on me. I'm trying to make moves to leave so my children and I can finally have peace, did it ever occur to you that YOU are the blessed one? Being single and under the covering of The Most High is best, HE is your husband and the father to your children, and not a man on earth can do a better job. Do you realize that many of us have husbands who pay bills but are stingy in other areas or don't provide us with anything but the bare minimum? I listened to Jady talk about it being a privilege to wash our family's clothing in this video, and it brought to mind my badly functioning washer that I have because my husband didn't listen to my input before buying it used. It's a tool meant to help me daily, and it's become a hindrance to the point I'm considering hand washing going forward. All because I'm currently married to an unrighteous man with no discernment and no ear to hear anything but himself. At least I have hot water and soap, but that's all thanks to The Most High. Sorry for the vent. But never forget how blessed you are to be led and covered by The Most High and not have to deal with an unrighteous husband. Many blessings have passed over my household simply because of who I'm married to, you don't have that issue. And if you ever do get married, PLEASE make sure it's ordained by the Father and that man is grafted into His spiritual family and righteous according to scripture.

True. Definitely wait on God, and get advice from other Godly people on any man that comes into your life. A number of married women are unhappy even with the "Godly" husband, but marriage is "honorable in all, and the bed undefiled. But whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4.

​@@silvernblack21Get on your knees and pray, pray, pray. And when you feel like you've prayed enough, pray again. God will fix things according to His will. I'm a witness. God can do it.🙌🏾

@@silvernblack21 Yes, you should be sorry for the vent. As a single Mother, I have enough on my plate. If you know the Lord so well, you should know that whining and complaining will get you nowhere but PRAYER can move mountains. So you should vent to our Father on your knees daily until you start to see a breakthrough in your marriage. I have been engaged twice and very close to marriage, so I'm no stranger to relationships. BUT I knew deep down after much prayer and fasting, they weren't my God ordained husband. Just because you got into a marriage that was unequally yoked spiritually, DONT take it out on others. Put on your BIG girl panties and deal with your decision, just like I have to every day with having to be a single Mom out of wedlock. All I see you doing is complain, complain, complain. You have unforgiveness and bitterness in your heart and no wonder why there's such turmoil on your household and marriage. It takes TWO. Do you see me being bitter and lashing out at Jady or other married Christian ladies? No! Yes, I said they are blessed to have GODLY husbands & if they have families, but that's the truth. But to sit here and come on people's channels & be rude about what they say to be grateful for is beyond petty. Yes, I am blessed to be single and have been for 10 years! As God has taken me through an amazing journey of healing, sanctification, and purification process.. To prepare me for my Godly husband. But it also has been one of THE most challenging times of my life. I could wake up every day and CHOOSE to be bitter, mad, ugly... But I DONT. Try pouring your heart out to the Father and changing your heart and watch how he changes your husband's heart. Do you read the Bible? Your quiet and Godly actions can change your husband heart, that's what the Bible says. Go watch "The War Room" as you're not even dealing with "your husband" it's the enemy. Learn how to fight spiritually and take back your household for the Lord. Are you going to sit there and whine or pick up your sword and fight back? God be with you. Shalom.

@@ATZCMinistriesSometimes the truth hurts and needs to be said in order for people to give their cares over to God.

I understand where you're coming from, so many of us don't have righteous husbands. It makes it so much harder, but I just remember the story of Abigail and Nabal whenever I need encouragement. Our Father sees everything and not one thing gets past him, there's always recompense. Never stop raising your children to love and follow the Father, no matter what your husband says or does.

@@silvernblack21 Thank you for the encouragement.

The book "Being There" by Erica Komisar is the book that has helped me navigate and has helped me survive my baby's first year. It is a reassurance that I made the best decision I am so grateful for the privilege of being SAHM.

Same sister. Same. Sometimes I feel like screaming because it's so stressful being a stay arbhome mom but it's truly a privilege and honour ❤

Yes because not everyone will be able to stay home so every family needs to decide the safest and most kind way to raise their children based on their situation. Thanks for this comment!

in the UK maternity leave is up to 52 weeks so considerably more than the US but sadly maternity pay isn't great.

This makes complete sense. I’m also baffled at how many individuals who don’t understand what feminism is or where they would be without the movement. There isn’t only one way to be feminine and it isn’t taking in the role of a man to financially provide for your household. It’s taking on the role of an adult. Men also are the parents of their child and must contribute in more ways than just financial. It is just as much his job to be present with the children and teach them just as much as the mother.

Yes. I'm working from home in hopes to grow my food blog/vlog business to be home with 2 little ones. It's hard right now, but in the end it will be worth just don't give up.

@@trynvegan thank you. I will not give up, we got this ❤️