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Don't do it guys. I lived with a GF for 2 years in my mid 30's. She started acting up before we even moved in together once the decision was made. The attitude got even worse one we were in the same place. I eventually kicked her out and it was the best decision. Once they think they "have you", it's game over. They at least subconsciously lose some respect for you and no longer feel the need to be as nice. Expect much more nagging, bickering, etc... so if that's your thing, go for it! My home is a sacred place-I love living alone and don't need anyone here. If you don't make my life better by being here, you can fuck right off.

Been watching these videos on and off for 3 years now and this one really resonates with me. I moved in with my gf at 24 for all the same reasons rich said here; don’t have to drive over, more sex, and split rent. All of which sounds good when you’re broke and you have no better options. It went South fast when she was ready to get married and I wasn’t. We both became passive aggressive towards one another, very toxic environment that’s tough to get out of once you’re in. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone especially a young guy in his 20s.

She must move into your place. Her name on nothing…. That way you’re always able to walk away if you need 2. Never ever move into a woman’s house, you’ll be on the porch begging for a place to stay, & honestly as a man you should have a kingdom for a woman to come into. No 50/50 bs.

Lived through this myself two times. The first one I moved into her father's other house with her and she made the rules. Man I learned a lot. Sex went up a lot until months later where the family got weird and didn't want her to sleep over that place anymore because we weren't married (I didn't want to be tied down by marriage and the government) so I was left there for nights and she'd drive back to her spot. Ended up killing sex drive and interest Second one I picked an apartment with her - but she was way too controlling, and when we'd get in arguments she'd ignore me and the place would be heated. Didn't feel like a safe space whenever there were big disagreements. These days I'm making way more money to get my own place thankfully, and if I ever consider moving in with a girl they'd have to move into my place that I got and in my frame. Just can't have the girl / her family controlling living arrangements ever again, it sucked

You can’t live with a woman. You only truly live when you are without a woman. Live freely or live dearly. The choice is yours. 😎

I’ve learned the hard way. Don’t move in together. Literally on day 1 everything went south. That’s when they get comfortable and act out because now you’re trapped. If for some reason this advice is ignored, make sure everything is in your name. You hold all the cards. And if she ever gets violent, record everything. I narrowly avoid a DV situation.

Any money you think you will save by living with her will be all be spent everytime you leave just to get away from her for 15 fucking minutes.

Every single guy that I knew THOUGHT he could save money by moving in with a gf, it never worked Every single time, she would quit her job and he would end up supporting her and paying all the bills. And god help him if she got pregnant. So no, you don’t save money moving in with your gf.

I’ve only lived with one woman ( who wasn’t family) in my life. I’ll never do it again. I’m 38 and have never been married and never will. I like to live alone. I do things MY way and my days of compromise are over. Once I got used to living alone I could never go back again.

My last GF, we lived in two different places, I had my own place and she had hers. We lived about 40 minutes apart. I suggested maybe two or three times max we should just live togeather, she every time said no, it is beter we live apart. So fine, I dropped it. When the relationship was over, she said one of her reasons was she thought we would be living togeather by now and splitting bills. ..... I just told her, Yeah I said that a few times now, and told you (her) I would give her $650 a month/ help pay the bills/ repiars etc and every single time she was opposed to that idea. ( Pointing out her flaw in logic). She just looked at me knowing she was wrong. So fine go away hoe, I have saved SOOOOOOOOOO much money being single again. moved 12 hours away down south (From NY State to VA) and have a much better life without her.

Everything you mentioned in this video is fucking spot-on. "Just go make more money". Ding ding ding!! We have a winner! 😃

Been there, done that and it was a trainwreck in the end. I was a plugged in dork complicating my life and justifying why... What a waste of three years

Yup- 100% correct you are Rich. Didn’t matter who it was younger or older, introvert or extrovert- at some point that horrible concoction of words inevitably reared itself to form the most vile question ever to be consistently uttered in my presence more than a few times……. “TSSSHHH! YOU’RE GOING SURFING AGAIN?” and just like that, it was the beginning of The End. Don’t ever go POSTAL- go COASTAL 🏄🏾‍♂️

What were the Pros……. Some company..I guess… What were the Cons: Bills increased. Food bill massively increased (she would make us buy healthy food, then wouldn’t make meals with it, and refused to use anything within date so it would get binned, make me buy in junk, then she would want a takeaway as it meant no prep). I was working as much overtime as possible to keep us just above the Red line. Got into big debt. I was more often than not sleeping on the couch as she snored. I couldn’t listen to any of my music unless I had headphones on. We watched only what she wanted to watch ie films and shows. Anything I wanted to watch, I had to do in my own time, or if a series, I had to try and catch up, as she would binge watch multiple episodes. The bathroom became a joke as she spent ages, or would rush me if I was using it. I had to do more housework than ever, she did less and less. She redecorated, which was needed to be fair, but she did it in her style- anything that was mine, was put away into cupboards and out of the way. I got up early for work and had to be like a ninja in my own home so as not to disturb her, But when it was on other foot, she would be crashing about. I was sometimes locked out of my home, as she kept the key in the lock, and when I knocked, she wouldn’t answer right away. Make me wait, power play, then she would unlock the door and storm off. Meals was always what she wanted, if I suggested something, she would say no. When she made a meal, I ate it without complaint, whenever I made a meal, she would complain and criticise. The clothes washing pile piled up more than ever, as she wouldn’t put into the wash, or if she did, once washed she would just leave it in the machine… so the clothes would be left in their own damp, without being aired… so I’d have to wash again. She was a clean freak, and would criticise and complain and demand- she had a high standard but wouldn’t do it herself and complain when you did. I was sleep deprived too, on top of the snoring, she would keep me up late as she would stay up late to watch something, with the Tv on high volume… I couldn’t go to bed and sleep. It was a death by a thousand paper cuts.

I just discovered this content… I think I might like it here. Taking notes 🤓… I don’t believe in moving in with a boyfriend but for reasons more aligned with wanting to be married with kids.

I will never move with a women again i'm, 38 freedom is priceless

Easier to have your own places when the inevitable breakup happens! Play on playas!

I’m living with my gf right now. Made the move before I was red pill aware. Facing a lot of the issues, but going with it right now just for the full life experience to understand everything so down the line, I don’t face the same issues. Things have gotten better since being red pill aware, I’ll say that. Actually doing pretty well living with her now

I have good experience with living with women. The ones that are "traditional" will cook for you and take care of you in ways that are definitely an addition to your life. The ones that are not like that, you can leave early before being too attached. So it's actually an excellent way to sort out the good ones from the trash.

Yeah my kids mum hated the fact I had hobbies and would try anything to screw them up for me. Shes now an ex

I was in many toxic relationships before I met my current girlfriend of a year and half. I’m probably one of the most cynical men you’ll ever meet, but when I met my current gf, she changed my view on relationships. She has one, maybe 2 red flags from Rich’s book. Other than that, she has many green flags - so many I committed to a LTR. We just bought a house together a couple months ago. The only real arguments we’ve had are about my 2 dogs that I brought into the relationship. She doesn’t like them on the bed and on the couch - that’s it. I’m willing to compromise on that. She knows I’m not interested in marriage and we both don’t know if we are interested in having children - we are both 35 years old. She does all the cooking and I’ll do the dishes after. We both are clean and share house duties where our strengths are. I do yard work and projects. She does the grocery shopping and does a little more of the cleaning than I do. So far, I’m enjoying the LTR. Again, I look at relationships and women much like Rich discusses on his channel, but I have found a woman worth compromising on things. I’ll update in 6 months to see if my mind has changed regarding living together.

I moved into a woman's house twice, Never ever do that. She has the power and will take up all of your spare time with non-sense (TV etc.). Moving into your place, you have the power and she knows it. If she acts up, she knows that you can kick her out. Best is to maintain your own place, alone. (What I'm doing now - peace and quiet).

Good to know.

I could never move into someone's house. That's crazy. I don't even like spending the night at girls homes/apartments. Like, naw you come over here.

Well, in my house, it would be kind of hard to watch more TV weather at chick was living there or not because I simply don’t have one and I don’t want one

Hi Rich. Read your book twice over the last few weeks, along with RM and Mode one. What would your solution be if you want to have a kid/kids?

You can move into her house right? As long as you dont give up you old place so you can still leave any minute

If you move in and she submits, makes you food, keeps the house clean, shuts up, wears maid uniform when she cleans the house and massages you when your back hurts, who wouldn’t want to move in with this type of woman. If you do this make sure she understands you are the man still. She wants to be dominated by a strong man, listens to you and respects you. And make sure she got no guy friends, cut her social media or have no photos on private only with her close friends.

Sent this to my 18 year old son.

This channel is hilarious

I should have never lived with a girl before turning 30

After 8 year relationship I was given an ultimatum to move in with her & she'll leave. There was no financial upside to it as it was going to cost us more money to rent an entire house vs living seperate until I made more money to do something like that comfortably. Said she was willing to be in a financial burden to make it or & tried to force me to he codependent & go 50/50 while also wanting to start having kids next year. That shit ended & now she go back into the dating market as a 31 year old woman.

Yo bud.. Do u not live with your single mom ltr now Rich?

Don’t move in her place..

Women love playing that "more sex & better intimacy" card when trying to manipulate the guy into playing house with them -- and when we are in love or in lust, we fall for it.....

There is a something very "hard" about Mr. Cooper but I listen to him with an open mind. There is a palpable cynicism and bitterness of tonality that comes through in virtually every entry I have listened to of his thus far. There is a danger in his "Alpha Male" motif, because Cooper has a false and dangerous one. His emblematic title expresses his materialistic "market value".The REAL "Alpha" male doesn't talk about being an alpha but lives it . { Alpha is usually applied to a wolf pack leader and btw I raise wolves }... That kind of strength is unspoken. A true alpha does not "abandon" his girlfriend or wife if they are not parallel in spirit, thought , word and deed so easily as Cooper advocates. With the attitude Cooper espouses, the altruistic and idealistic "I will die for family" does not apply. So his advice rests on "my way or the highway" for him. This kind of apocryphal message contributes to the breakdown of the family, and society and even a nation. Just look at Canada and the U.S. NOW!!! The best girlfriend I have ever had -is Russian. She leaves American women I've been with in the past in the dust.

FELLAS: DO NOT DO IT....PERIOD. Don't let her talk you into playing house. If she moves in to your place, then she thinks all your sh*t is now hers, & you'll be dumb enough to go along cuz you're "in love". If you move in with her, then you are now HER guest & she will wear you down with her rules & what you want. It's lose-lose. However, if you do think she's the one, then make sure she comes into your world.

If I were to live with a girlfriend, I would move in with her. This way, I can easily move out if shit goes south. I would not move her into my place, not as easy to get her to leave. Also, if I were to move into my girlfriends house, I keep frame, or I leave.

I'll save you the trouble of watching this for his answer: Don't move in with your girlfriend.

Better to live apart from your girlfriend

I know a guy who sold his townhouse & moved into the chick's house -- cuz "it just made so much sense on so many levels"...That's what "love" does to your common sense. So he moves in & starts taking on bills, tackling all her home improvement projects, & essentially remodeling "their" home....Of course, things eventually went south, & of course she kicked him out of HER house.

Absolutely correct. Don't ever move in with him as your boyfriend. The only situation to live in together is marriage. No marriage no living in together.

Hell Fuck NO!

VASECTOMY!

Guys, just DON'T do it. You live your life, let her live hers, on her own. She will clean you out, financially, never pay her half, and leave you broke, for tainted P that gets worse the longer you live together. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

I might be unexperienced (or naive) but shouldn't a girl complement your life if you live together? I mean, she does the dishes, cleans,, cooks, laundry etc. means more time for me. Sure I have to find one like this, but other than that please let me know if I'm wrong somewhere. As for her expectations, IDK what she would say, I'm doing my own thing.

I talked my boyfriend into letting me move in with him because my apartment lease was up. It took three hours to sort it out because he kept saying, "What if it doesn't work out?" That was 45 years ago, lol. It worked out fantastically. We still talk about that conversation and have a laugh. If you make a commitment in your own mind and believe the partner has as well, it just works.

Don't do it.

I wouldn’t be able to have a “gf” if we don’t live together.. strictly cheeks only. Don’t know who would be over without me there

Wise men learn from books and KZfaq, Smart men learn from friends, Average men learn from their own mistakes, Idiots don't learn anything even after repeating the same mistake over and over again. Don't move in with them! Just don't! You'll hate your life most likely.

To men, not just moving in, dating in general is about sex at the end of the day. So no point if you are not long distance. Long distance, only do constant visit and spin the plates mate

My latest gold digger GF transitioned to new dik promptly, knowing my vault is sealed.

Wish people would stop saying the word crazy to describe someone ik your generation it's normal but it's doesn't help people with mental health issues and your lazy to actually come up with a different word to describe someone