B Wilson - Dat's right!

Lol true. I like that one. Feed the needy. Forget the greedy.Yes love that. I'm gonna use that

I Agree 👍

I agree,some people are ungrateful. I wouldn't invite them anymore.

Exactly!!!!!!

I cant stand when a few people who happen to be black do something out of line and all of a sudden it becomes "we". All black people have to do better because he's referring to a FEW assholes in his home? We're the only culture that does that and its maddening.

@@Andemur THANK YOU!!

Lisa Clark Amen! Next year, all 50 of those family members would be on their own for Thanksgiving dinner!

Right Here!!!

Anyway I wake up is alway gone be great

Good idea

Ahdali. And thatz why I don’t fuck with rich people cause they think they are better thin u They always forget where they came from like Rickey Smiley fuck him

And they don't have to worry about drinking and driving.

I would gladly go to someone house and not deal with dishes but I still want to drive my car

Its nothing wrong with people wanting to drive their own car 🚗

Your dad is a SMART man,and I say that all the time.

Every family does this

True..

Thank God for elders that tell it like it is

You better preach

True

Helena C .. USUALLY family is worse!!!

Preach

Ohhhhhh my God Grl u hit it on the head!

yes I agree

That’s the truth

Can’t please everybody

I know that's right!!! As soon as he started talking, I started snapping my fingers because I knew EXACTLY where he was coming from.

You are absolutely 101 percent right. I bet this will put something on their ungrateful minds.Blessings only come to those who are humble,they certainly showed they are far from that indeed.Dont let anyone keep you from being kind and displaying such a huge heart.God loves a cheerful giver but HATES the haughty one.

Such a warm greeting 😍

It's just a good habit that I have to help clean up so the host doesn't have to. Well they know where he'll be next year😅

lol...yeap!!!

👍👍😂

Wow, Family, that's pitiful and sad! Nevertheless, DISRESPECTFUL

I wonder what any of them call themselves out and be like yeah I said it now what..lol

@@williampippin8414, that would be the Right And GODLY Thing To Do, And, Apologize for being SO UNGRATEFUL!

butterification *They. He said it was a 90-year old COUPLE. Let’s please not forget the woman! Esp as she was likely the one who thought to bring a card. 😏😉

That use to be proper etiquette.

Amen!!!! This is the best and shortest sermon I have ever heard... Thank You!!!

Funny because I just got on my Sis about not writing thank you notes for her baby shower which the guests really showed up and showed out with gifts. My grandmother didn't play that. A verbal thank you wasn't enough. She was big on proper social etiquette.

👏👏👏👏👏👏

Mother love, just wondering. My dad's last name is Goodwin. Grandfather from the DC, Maryland, Virginia area! Could we be related? Thank you for posting. I'm Brenda Lee Foster.

Im DONE also 🥹

me either bro.king

I know the feeling well I just had a dinner party people hadn't seen in 4 years 3 years 2 years dot-dot-dot all they did was complain about the distance how far out I live in the suburbs blah blah blah. I'll put them three other kinds of liquor and spirits and me and they want to come in the kitchen and look and see that I'm drinking Hennessy and Coke sweetie that wasn't what I offered you. Everybody had a gift soon as they walked in the door three different items in each give bag free food free drinks free liquor rewind free Spades free heat for that day was hot soufriere and then you have the nerve to still come in somebody house complaining and looking focus on the head and acting crazy it doesn't make sense. But you know what never again. PS everybody was late I'm not talkin 10 minutes 15 minutes I'm talking about 50 minutes to up to 2 hours late okay. And all of them know when I say the food is going to be ready by 2 my food is already ready the only thing that probably is not going to be ready is the cornbread everything else is ready. I had to go back and rewarm the food and everything. Never again baby not in 2019 and Beyond. Imma get me some new friends... LOL just looking me venting but it's really sad when people do you like that

You are correct Rickey. Please invited me and my son. We would love to to come meet you and eat at your house. I love potato salad and ham

Christian King - Think about it - He provided transportation, top notch liquor and good food all for free and they still complaining. Ungrateful wretches!!😬

So with you why complain it's free be thankful 👍

Yeah!! Look what ya'll did!!

That's right, don't invite them next year because they're ungrateful 😒

Always your own ungrateful asses family member's saying negative complaints then stay your asses home Never invite them again.

NeeNee Trulyblessed Yes. Everyone’s learning style is unique. Still, always tell them first. Then show the ones who don’t get it.

@@BL3SSed-Bliss Lol true....I know that's right!!!!

NeeNee Trulyblessed I SALUTE THAT STATEMENT 💪💪

I'm already on that train.. Some people need to see to believe.

Say it

Ricky out of this experience

As I was saying out of this experience God gave you a new mission you are a wonderful giving loving person I can feel your spirit when you're doing things for people I saw you once at the Pancake House on Evergreen and Southfield Michigan I just wanted to say hi to you but the person that was with you would not let me say hi but now I get a chance to tell you how much I admire what you are doing

mzhairextraordinaire Lol, some of them will also complain. Homeless people are regular humans, too. One’s personality remains, regardless of situation. Homeless folks in my state will tell you PREFERENCES, restrictions, etc. They feel “beggars CAN be choosers”! 🙃🤷🏽‍♀️ People are people.

@@BL3SSed-Bliss you are correct. I've could have word that way better. Appreciate your response. Havablessday💋

You know what.. I prematurely wrote that.. good job Rickey

I know that's right. Lol I turn 52 years old this year and I used to take everything for everybody and not say a word but once I got in my fifties that was all she wrote I say what I mean and mean what I say. Lol

Big Ro's Chronicles But you telling the truth though! I would have straight told them, I don't give a fuck what y'all talking bout! TYBA if you got an issue! BOUNCE! GET TA STEPPIN!!! in my Martin voice.

Ok 💯

@@lethoniagray2581 wow beautiful queen you really look good for 50 bless you✌💯

May God bless you

God Bless You!

Bless you Shay. Merry Christmas and Blessings

You have a good heart, have a Merry Christmas.

Blessings upon you my dear

I'm from Columbus also

U invited to mines

@@sabfit1520 hey Sabrina I'm moving to Orlando this week but been in Cols 8 years! Nice to meet you

@@antoniohoward981 thank you! I will come too😂😂 follow me on IG at @krystalonthemove or on FB as K Chantell

Kj Best wishes in Orlando

I used to have parties for my kids I would start cooking the night before and that morning make sure everything was set up only to have family members wanting to start a arguement and have my kids upset no more

Me too! I stopped last yr. My parties use to be set up so nice. Fr it be the same family members who aint got they life together starting stuff every time and when u don't wanna invite them u become gossip for the family phone calls (that they only make to each other when they talking bout somebody).smh

No Rovonda, keep having your parties, just STOP inviting your fake jealous family members! Tomorrow, I will be hosting my 16th Annual Holiday Bash, in the past, I invited relatives and dealt with the bullshhh, but fast forward sixteen years, not a single member of my immediate family was on the invite list this year and only two distant cousins.....👁👁

It's just awful family cant get together and enjoy the holidays .its always come kind of bullshit excuse my French with family..

@@lolita513 all the time

Right and they go eat your food

Right do you rickey

He sure does🤣🤣🤣🤣

Right😂😂

It's great that Rickey is not letting this situation effect him negatively , but positively! Because of this situation he's using his time, energy, and resources to go out into the community next year for Thanksgiving and feed the homeless/hungry.... Now thats a great example of how you let your Haters be your Motivators!!!!

@@Twp205 You're right Tamyra, it's a blessing what he's got planned. We just have to remember that we can't change our family. But we don't have to invite them to dinner again. LOL. God bless you.

AMEN.....ITS ALWAYS SOMETHING WITH MY FAMILY TOO...SO MUCH THAT I DONT EVEN DEAL WITH THEM ANYMORE

Oh lawd! Here we go again with another "holy" black female. How about you "holy" females tell the actually people that are being unappreciative and hateful? Why tell the person who's heart is in the right place that he needs to remember God?

@@ashleydunn4639 Sorry that that is how you interpreted what I said. Not trying to be a "holier than thou person". Believe me, God's still got a lot of work to do on me. I'm not agreeing with their ungratefulness. I'm just saying he's doing so much good in the world- he's making a positive impact. His future plans are wonderful. Being angry and holding on to hurts especially with family can't be healthy. Anyway, do you think that those family members that he spoke of will read all our comments? Unfortunately, it doesn't seem like they care. Therefore, I was trying to encourage the one that seems to care about others - Rickey. But, we're all entitled to our opinion. Be blessed Ashley.

Yes it is called reality

I'm 2 years late seeing this video 😂🤣 but preach it ! Tell them!. Some folks don't know what Thanksgiving mean. That's right tell them with that righteous anger. God bless you keep feeding the homeless. And may God triple bless you. Get Miss Janie on those kin Folks

Here it is two years later….I’m just seeing this! 😂😂😂. Nobody makes me laugh harder than Rickey Smiley!!! Can’t nobody get yo ass straight like Rickey too! Child….your family will stab you the deepest…. I had to cut everyone off except my immediate family, mother and one brother. I feel ya’. they can be the biggest bunch of ingrates ever.

No ma'am you still have Thanksgiving at your house!! You just don't invite they ungrateful behind!!

FeFeBlue I no longer celebrate holidays with family I go on a cruise on thanksgiving that solved the problem

EXACTLY

.Make it clear u want someone to bring something. I have family members who go all out, invite everyone, then complain ppl are at their home. Sooo If I pack up my 4 kids, to drive 4 hrs, Im not cooking. And they complain if u buy anything store bought. Rickey is right but tht bring something is case by case. Why I stay hm cuz if I invite u to eat, its so u can eat.I for sure show my appreciation for anyone opening their home to me.

I can so relate to your experience. Now I help the homeless with my resources. Family was not only ungrateful. but would verbally attack me and talk about me. I became wiser. Still love people but I expend my strength on homeless children and others who need and appreciate the help. No guilt feelings about it either.once I made up my mind to go in another direction, I was freed even from bad feelings of hurt and resentment against my family. Free to love everybody now.

xoSummerSunset Im dddyyyiiinngggg 😂😂😂

XoSummer Sunset , sometimes you can't deal with people ? No offense but your mother is your mother and the woman that gave birth to me will always have my love and respect . I pray to God that you both will have these Fruitage of The Holy Spirit one Day . God is Great , the Truth and the Light ! 😄 All Children of God knows and understands this !😇

@@anitabueno1091 not everyone's mother is like yours. Some mother's allow their boyfriends to abuse their kids. So you think those mother's deserve respect too? You never know what goes on behind doors. Don't judge

@xoSummerSunset. Lmao!!! I can relate.... family is something else!!! Gotta love'um tho!!! Smdh

Omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😘

maya&luna you mean don’t give to them

maya&luna I SALUTE THAT STATEMENT 💪💪💪

Same here! I'm so upset with them for him.

I would have too....😇

Exactly!

Bro....I know that's right!!!

I stayed at home my grandmother passed in September so I just didn’t want to be bothered...but we are never alone God is always with us and he’ll never leave🙏🏽

Thank you. People aren't considerate. I shouldn't have to tell grown people that they're not the only ones in the neighborhood. It's sad man.

I would have appreciated that ride and considered it a helping hand. No worries about gas, driving, picking up anybody Etc

i would have attended with gratefullinrss i spend my hollidays along. my mom was our rock and my father was a strong man loss them both in death so my family dont get together anymore i feel your pain. you are the rock in ur family an what they did was cast stones at you..just remember you will always be bless you have a good heart.

I don't blame him, I'm the same way !

Lol

Hahahaha

Hell yea lol

Exactly

A. Price For real

Right

Big Heart .. Right, I feel bad, and I'm not even his family, not Blood anyway! lol.. they done pissed him off!!! 😅😅😅

Right! It’s sad

Big Heart Amen