So true! I’ve experienced this. I be happily single minding my business and here come a guy asking why my nails not done or why I dnt wear makeup 💄 & why my bottom tooth crooked CRAZY toxic mess trying to tear you down. Men can be so weird

This

Amen!

@@love_reka_777 I guess this is a sign of bad parenting on their mothers end..

I totally relate to what you said!

FACTS!!!

Never again💋

You said that!!

TRUTH!!!

Factual

amen!

Amen 🙏

I agree. I just found this channel about a month ago and it has really been helping me to understand my worth. Thanks R C Blakes

Yes !

I found this guy a few days ago. Where did he learn all this stuff? He says he’s not a psychologist or psychiatrist? I have learned so much from him these past few days! I am so thankful.

YES MA'AM SO MANY WOMEN ARE CONSTANTLY SETTLING.... THAT'S WHY REAL HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE HARD TO COME BY

This is a good one 💓

@@butterfly-ef8fx yes big time I am 19 and my generation is nothing but hook up culture etc and I don't want that so I am waiting on my Kingdom spouse and in the meantime educating myself and healing my childhood trauma etc.

I was insecure and got married to the wrong man at a young age. I wanted to leave soon after but had no support from my family. He will change, they said. Well, after 16 years of marriage, I was done. Initially, I did not have any support, but by this time, I was secure and did not want my daughter to grow up in this type of home. I raised my children after being divorced, but God did not bring me a partner. Now, after 38 years, this same man is trying to sweet talk me. 😂😂. I am no longer insecure!

Ain’t that a good word? 🙌🏾

That really hit me

It's true I've done pick Up many years now that's the player phase. Learning how to emotional spike some dudes just lowlifes😑. Proud of the feminine gang 🙏

FOR SURE, SAME EXPERIENCES ‼️

Yes!

Much appreciated ❤️✨

That's not exactly what he said He said you overestimate others and UNDERESTIMATE yourself When you're insecure you don't overestimate yourself It's almost as if you believe others can do what you can't do

Thank you.

YES!!

Even kings are not perfect. The thing is today people looking for perfect people and when we find out we are not perfect or a person has a weakness we want to call it quits, instead of trying to work on the problem together.

Facts!

Yes, I agree. It's trauma and our responsibility to parent ourselves when we identify it.

Amen

Facts!!!

That's why people should heal before they even have kids

Well done keep going 👌🏿💯❤️

Great! Keep it up

Heal heal heal

I pray for your healing in Jesus name! 🙏🏾

Get well Sister❤️

Both

I felt that. Its true.

Please elaborate on this please

I was well trained at school. Afraid to speak !everyone rouring with laughter. Because I was well spoken but poor. Some people can't cope because I am not ashamed of myself any more,x not afraid to speak! X I have something To say, I speak Jesus! He saved Me!.

❤Thank You Abba!

Agreed. I watch these videos and feel so much reassurance!

For Sure💌🙏

Yessss this is what it is, I kept trying to figure out but you hit the nail on the head.

Absolutely ✊🏾 Re:Dad I never had x I had a Dad & grew up with a Mum & Dad married at home with my mother, however he just left the rearing of his daughters ( 3 of us) to my mother who just focussed on the Golden Child, her favourite the first born & my father not recognising that HE HAD DAUGHTERS which needed HIM to enlighten US on what Men are & how they behave. Instead he allowed my Mother who had no brothers or uncles & no knowledge of Men & was a Narcissist. RC Blakes has been an absolute God Send 🌟 when he described certain behaviour practices & ultimately gave it a name (narcissistic behaviour) which has been a toxicity element throughout my childhood & literally made to believe that what I was experiencing I was so wrong when needing just unconditional love as a child & the interest shown to my older sibling who was 7 years older & still to this day she & her children still reign supreme. I constantly throughout my life thought by giving my parents what they wanted that one day they would recognise I too was good enough but no due to the teachings of RC Blakes. I finally walked away a year ago understanding that their demonic ways influenced the choices I made with the Men I chose as this WAS my norm because my parents set that stage for me from the age of 5 years old.

give a talk on using and manipulation together on women

Michel- Are we married to the same man ;) ? It is wonderful to have someone who knows how to treat ya!

Congratulations 🎊 so awesome!!!! 🎈 🎈 🎈

I cackled when he said that 😭😭😭

Lolllll

🤡

Re: A Clown Has A Job! I just love the clever way RC BRINGS THE REALITY HOME! He loves us gals sooooo much & will not rest...praise God! Until we trust in God & use time to truly analyse how magnificent we Are & don’t settle because we’re lonely or impatient xx

@@johannaalexander2009 I definitely need some helpful healthy friends look me up on Facebook if you're interested us women of God need to encourage each other

Good for you Queen❤️❤️

Bums will always try to keep you down so you stay with them. Congrats to you Queen 👑

Goodevening hard find good man willing too treat you like a queen , feel important , luv , values , honest , also do simple things for a woman ! I feel a man put a his hands on a woman not a man at all . The most important you really luv a woman you sacrifice n show actions that I ‘ m all about business n actions . I ‘ m trying find a good woman who ‘ s wants that in their life n be appreciate !

Good for you!! Love your life and be happy!

Good morning I ‘m single men

@RC Blakes Jr be on it! He have me about to shout in this house.

Sure will.

You’re too youthful to count a relationship out all together. Let’s pray that the quality of man will find you and you will naturally be open to exploring the possibilities. In the meantime LOVE YOUR SINGLENESS.

Thank you so much for responding. I will be purchasing Queenology and the Study Guide. Right now I'm taking advantage of my time and placing it into my relationship with God, my family and business. Again, thank you.

Minister Blakes, I love your show . There should be a show exclusively for men . My story is a little different than most women, because I took what I learned about men as a kid . because my father was a highly domineering an controlling type husband and Father who was also an awesome man, he got almost everything right as a dad , but failed as a husband , was married four times. I began to study men at an early age , because boys and men had violated me by the time I was twelve years of age , so I had to find out why they were behaving in these perverted type ways, and thank God ! , he protected me from being actually raped by these people who obviously had been taught the wrong way, permiscues behavior is taught to boys in a lot of different ways, and they see it as normal to be this way with females, and their are lots of females who have not been taught how to deal with these type of men . I believe that this should be a mandatory class at church and at school, I begin teaching my daughter as soon as she was able to comprehend these matters, knowing that one day she would have to face these behaviors, I never allowed any man to get to close to her as she was growing up, I did the best I could, no help from her father, but my family was there to help fill in when needed. That I raised as a single parent, and they both are grown and married, lol , praise God !! , and I have 13 grands and 3 great grandchildren and one about to be born any day now. 🙌🏾📖👍, I chose to remain single, I have all the love I need, and more love than most people, I am truly blessed and highly favored by God , it has been that way all of my life and I am so very grateful to God for this. Yes , I came to know the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior, at the age of 17,and I have been studying and enjoying the ways God every since, I am going to be 62 years old this year and my life is wonderful, all of my children are great and doing great things, the joy just overwhelms me at times, just knowing and seeing how much God loves me , it is very fulfilling , I am so okay about never having married, lol. God gave me beauty at birth, and satan really tried a lot of things designed to destroy my life !! , BUT !!! GOD !!! , did not let it happen that way 🙏🙏📖💪🙌🏾💕💖👋🥰👍

Scary to think as I read your post!😳🤔

Men are VERY much jealous of women which is crazy to learn since we’ve never been taught this ever but I’ve learned it from experience and observations. I once had a bf that laughed at my career choice, that was my first huge red flag and I’ll never forget it. I even began to doubt myself and surrounded myself with people that didn’t appreciate my value… years later, I learned that he had actually enrolled in community college, after had bashed higher education when I was with him since I had a post grad degree. The insanity! I still cannot wrap my head around the jealousy and even hatred he felt for me and how he treated me. In addition, through therapy, I learned that I was attracted to him because he was like my mom. Never approving or being happy for my accomplishments and secretly seething with anger/jealousy and insecurities. People are sick in the head my friends. Much ❤️

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!

This!!! This comment deserves all the awards!!! This is soooo true

You are absolutely right!

Miss Jennifer...Bravo ...that is so powerful.

Truth

G-d bless you..I did listening so on time..in my growth. Conditioned and hurt by parents ..Iv grown so much being on my own now in my 40's and thanks to these insights reminders i reflect back but also identify the tendencies I have ..yet i am able to choose..to decide and choose with my mind what is healthy relationship..healthy people. .Who genuine spiritually inclined souls.

@@SpecialgiftsLA iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii and iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

Goodevening it ‘s hard too find a good woman who ‘ s wants a man who ‘s really luv her n values you as honor , sacrifice , willing go extra mile too show actions n also do the simple things for a woman .

Goodmorning I take this very seriously

@@rashawntaylor4316 As you can see God is preparing us and molding us to be a virtuous Women. Keep praying 🙏🏾 for us.

That's amazing. God be with her!

Fantastic ❤ Education is the way to Happiness ❤

Yes!!! Same here. I'm actively working on my healing now from that continuous cycle of filth.

My father in Christ luv you and Lisa🙏

Dusty man...

Give me a man of God.

I am so with you! I recognized my need to leave Facebook about 7 years ago, and it was one of the best decision I could have made. I feel a freedom that I didn’t know I needed to feel.

@Suzelaine Similien You said it right lady!! R.C. Blake is a "healer" not a "hater."

Red pill too

So true

Factsss

Absolutely🙌🏽🙌🏽

I have a question what if your man struggles with fleshy eyes 👀

I understand what you are saying. It so sad how these women act on social media I am a54 years old women and i think highly of myself. Thank you sir for keeping it real

Amen! That’s awesome

That part!

Word 😂

So true

Yes

Yes

That's the same thing I was thinking.

I agree!!!

I just reposted💯😘👑🙏🏽

Very true

Same here! 5 months NC!!!

thank you we need this teaching

All day foreal

Yes God ! 2 years 4 months no contact for me ! It’s a beautiful thing❤️❤️❤️

Same here almost 4 yrs no contact and counting ! Best decision I could’ve made in my life tbh! It was not easy for sure! No regrets here 💯👑

On

Yes lord, in the name of Jesus🙏🏾❤

I chased those things in family members too. I can say that I took all the harsh words and, over time turned them into positives. I also moved and that nurtured my ability to start healing. During a heated debate my aunt asked me “what kind of women do you want to be” at the time I took offense because of the previous words said that lead to that. A year later I’m becoming the “Woman I want to be” her words hurt me deep for other reasons but I’m learning to push through them and the insecurities they opened. God bless you❤️

Wow. I'm 32 years young...and this is the 1st time I've come across another female whose family, the very people you look to for love affection positive energy PERIOD, are the ones who put you down, made you feel ugly and awful, told you you weren't of value, you have no worth (the people I loved and admired the most, this is what they instilled in me, how they felt about me, since I was a young girl in elementary school, they being family, and the only "friends" I've ever had)...it hurts so bad I can't even get it all out on paper, and I'm just getting to a point where I'm somewhat verbalizing my experiences, trying other ways of getting the hurt and pain out of me, the distractions I've used all along the way are no longer working (keeping busy with school work music movies books and loads of emotional journaling) and I've got to heal, the hurt in holding is starting to take over...and I really want to heal release renew and start to live my life for me.

@@jalicarenee Yesssss I want to thank you for you sharing your story and being so vulnerable to do it ! So that others may read it and get inspired by what they are saying. It’s like you are writing about me and the story of my life . I wish I could have wrote it myself because I can relate to every thing you wrote and expressed in your story.. Thank you for your courage I hope that one day I can be and feel good and can one day have the same courage to express hurts and feelings to get past the hurt and continue to grow and heal myself too ..

@@jalicarenee I'm praying for you right now, Sister in Christ, Child of God.🙏 You, JalicaRenee, are precious, courageous and an inspiration. You are a blessing!❤

❤️

Good medicine here

SAY THAT AGAIN NO MORE BUMS 🤣

Amazing Story 😊

💛

Yas!! Sending you love! Let’s work work work!

Yes Indeed

Yes!

Amen! That hit hard!

Mental Health

You can be well put together, feminine and fit without looking and acting "extra"; that's what he is speaking about.

@@MT-yx5cu Right...her comment sound a lil insecure and defensive to me🤷

YOU TRULY HAVE MISUNDERSTOOD HIS ENTIRE MESSAGE! MY QUESTION TO YOU IS; WHAT KIND OF “REAL MAN” HAVE YOU HAD IN YOUR LIFE? I DIDN’T HEAR THAT PART!

That's not what he's talking about he's talking about insecurities not that you reject how you put yourself together

Agree

Anne great comment.

Yes high quality not high value

High Quality indeed!!!!💜🤗👑💎

Yes yes yes...High Quality. Because people are only associating value with money. And it's a lot of men with money that have gutter mentalities.

@@jaylentv1 exactly!!! That’s why I don’t really agree with Kevin samuels

GIRL YES🥰🥰🥰NO TIME FOR FOOLISHNESS

Amen! I’m 44 and I feel the same!

It's never too late to do better. Continue to press forward to the truth!

Amen!!! The father I needed as a young girl as well. Thank you Jesus for Pastor Blakes!! 🙏👸🏻🌹🙌❣️

Amen!! Or me at 59… and still learning!!

Omg .. You said that perfectly

Now, the saying is if you got it, flaunt it. I have learned that if your identity is in anything or anyone else other than Christ, you are setting yourself up for failure.

You got this 🙏🏾

Yes!

Can you share where I can read the article. That sounds very insightful!!

Wow, what a compliment. Thank you.😊🙏🏽♥️