Roland Martin Goes Off on the Word "Let" in a Marriage, Wife Has No Say in What He Does (Part 4)

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Roland Martin Goes Off on the Word "Let" in a Marriage, Wife Has No Say in What He Does (Part 4)

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In this clip, Roland Martin started off revealing that he has never drank, and he went on to speak about pledging a fraternity and telling them that he wasn’t drinking. Roland then detailed how his other pledge brothers wouldn’t go against their values for the fraternity, and Roland stated, “That’s the brothers you want!” Roland then spoke about the need for “reprograming Black America,” and he pointed to Martin Luther King speaking about the four institutions that are prime places to liberate Black America, including the Black church, Black press, Black fraternities and sororities, and Black businesses and organizations.
Later, Roland Martin spoke about being married since 2001, and Shawn asked what it’s like to be married to Roland. This led to Roland speaking about being on a cruise and playing golf each day and one of the other men on the cruise asking how his wife “let” him play golf every day. Roland explained that he’s a “grown ass man” with a “grown ass woman,” and he went on to point out that his wife has no say-so to anything he wears.
Interview by: Shawn Prez
Check out his youtube channel at: / powermovemakers

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@LeoSoloDolo Жыл бұрын

No wonder why Vlad didn’t personally interview Roland Martin he’s not stupid he would’ve got torn to shreds in seconds

@erb082580 Жыл бұрын

FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯💯

@Scambityfactsteam Жыл бұрын

Wit the quickness his ass woulda been eviscerated

@enescohuntejr Жыл бұрын

🤔?

@coomodus2592 Жыл бұрын

Vlad:: “Ok”

@fudgematthew33 Жыл бұрын

You think so?

@peterparrisjr849 Жыл бұрын

Respect makes relationships last

@reejeanawilliams8310 Жыл бұрын

This video has me tripping. 😂 I've been married 11 years next month. This video helped we understand my husband masculine manners. I was often offended and sensitive 🥺. I learned today, FINALLY its nothing personal. I don't want you to choose my food or clothes. It takes away their identity and right to self. Got it! Great segment! Took me over a decade to learn this. WOW ❤

@rolandsmartin Жыл бұрын

Nailed it!

@badass9643 Жыл бұрын

But you learned it… the key is to apply it. “Knowledge is power IF APPLIED”.

@petegriffin555 Жыл бұрын

Us too April 14th. Happy Anniversary to yall

@d.j.golson4025 Жыл бұрын

It’s beautiful to hear that from a woman…. No matter what u go through to get it or however long it takes… u got it… lucky Man U have….

@d.j.golson4025 Жыл бұрын

By the way I’ve been married since 19 and I’m 32 now with 2 kids… I don’t wanna go to in depth with me but wow… my wife need a friends like you… ✊🏽

@terrystarks2507 Жыл бұрын

This is the BEST Roland Martin interview I have ever seen. 😂😊

@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 Жыл бұрын

“Ain’t no let” -Roland Martin 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ungalld Жыл бұрын

Gotta respect dude. He solid on what he believes (most are facts) and that’s power. Salute 🫡

@krisj827 Жыл бұрын

Shawn will never say the word 'let' again to Roland Martin 😂

@elijahparis-salmon9943 Жыл бұрын

Women need to hear this😂

@miltonmitchell4290 Жыл бұрын

Roland a real one, How a another grown person "let" you do anything

@johntgilmore1 Жыл бұрын

Wow this is the Greatest interview I have heard

@greenrodney45 Жыл бұрын

I am now divorced my wife made me choose between her or the pound cake I chose the pound cake🤣 real talk

@tvs9978 Жыл бұрын

Are you talking a literal pound cake?

@greenrodney45 Жыл бұрын

@@tvs9978 yes can't live without it my weakness 🤣

@greenrodney45 Жыл бұрын

@@tvs9978 sour cream pound cake with butter pecan ice my wife couldn't stand it🤣

@taydriver5199 Жыл бұрын

@@greenrodney45 Damn that lowkey sounds fire AF 🍰🤣

@bara7331 Жыл бұрын

@@tvs9978 no, it's a very old joke

@commoncentz3148 Жыл бұрын

I see there's a lot of young people born in the 2000s who are sensitive and Naive. This how a man talk before the black community got reprogrammed. 50s 60s 70s 80s this how a man talk and think and that's why we were better off in those days.

@tvs9978 Жыл бұрын

Really? You were better off back then in the 50s and 60s?

@drew004jc Жыл бұрын

@@tvs9978 his name is closer to "pocket change" than it is to common sense for a reason

@commoncentz3148 Жыл бұрын

@@tvs9978 Yes as a black community and businesses and love towards one another. Absolutely Yes. Was there issues back then for wanting White People acceptance? Sure it was but alot of Black people and Business leaders were against that. But overall as a Black Community we were stronger.

@1215iya Жыл бұрын

@Common Cents facts

@commoncentz3148 Жыл бұрын

@@drew004jc Your Outlook on life is basic.

@bluehenry3463 Жыл бұрын

Roland Martin is my new hero! “F u mean let?”

@twin9775 Жыл бұрын

He’s absolutely right!! Basically saying it’s not about being liked!! It’s more about getting respect off your stance!! It shouldn’t matter about being liked!! What truly matters is being respected by others even if they don’t like it they’ll respect it!! Which goes with the “Let” angle also!! Respect my choices!! Take it or leave it but respect my decision.

@niecielask9542 Жыл бұрын

Roland is so funny. He is a true entertainer but keeps it so real.

@josephjohnson6624 Жыл бұрын

This is 💯‼️ I know some dudes that are saying I might get lucky tonight because they were on their best behavior all week. 🤦🏿‍♂️ This happy wife happy life shit need to stop. For real‼️

@revy1827 Жыл бұрын

that’s pathetic.

@joecool1409 Жыл бұрын

It’s really gotta be a horrible way to live. 🤦🏾

@jaye5926 Жыл бұрын

real talk : LET? Im grown asf u cant let me do s**t I feel u...

@theimpeccable1069 Жыл бұрын

Remember when Gina & Martin got mad at each other and Martin said "You don't tell me what to eat WOMAN!! Can I borrow a couple dollars for IHOP ?" Lmao 😆

@fernandawilson7974 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 yes

@akeem2752 Жыл бұрын

I wanted to pledge Kappa in college. I was cool with guys from all the frats. I stated kicking it with kappas going to meetings and eventing up until one of my guys told me they was demanding money randomly and jumping people. I was like "nigga,I didn't leave the south side (Chicago) to come get jumped into this bullshit, they don't even have guns, why would I give them my money?"

@thebornleaderfamily3862 Жыл бұрын

I feel him 100%. I don’t understand the concept of a woman “letting” a man do anything. When I hear that in relationship it tells me everything about a man. That can never be this Sag

@NoLineNoWait123AbC Жыл бұрын

My wife often uses the word “allow”, as in “I won’t allow her illogical rhetoric to poison my existence”, so she claims she’s not “allowed” to talk or express herself. I wish it was true because somehow I still hear unwanted words come out her mouth, and it’s endless.

@catovideo1 Жыл бұрын

Same here...Never drinked in my life time..And Im GOOD..🙏🏾💪🏾💯💯💯💯💯

@olumide31907 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad I watched this video. The word "let" almost implies you are under some restrictions or a prison in your marriage. She lets me do this, He lets me do that. Turn the sentence around and say a man "lets" his wife do such and such and wait and see the backlash you will get. When I hear some men talk about their marriage, some sound like they are in a prison dictated by what their woman lets them do. If a relationship is dictated by "lets" on either side then there is a problem. I'm not talking about doing things to disrespect your spouse, that's different. A Relationship shouldn't feel like prison.

@fudgematthew33 Жыл бұрын

Amen.

@henrybullard8411 Жыл бұрын

Damn. I got a newfound respect for this dude.

@bulletsRflying Жыл бұрын

The guy is a left wing loon🤡

@babycaine7196 Жыл бұрын

Frfr .. ain’t too many men left standing on business like this

@JamesCH08 Жыл бұрын

Hey that's exactly what I was thinking, he's making perfect sense though

@temarcusthompson8846 Жыл бұрын

Yea for real facts! It’s refreshing he respectful with it too!

@Staykool777 Жыл бұрын

Roland just gave a master class on what being a man really is.

@TH3RIPPA Жыл бұрын

Bitter people like controlling others

@Cameroon250 Жыл бұрын

He’s a “Truth Teller” here for it! Go King Roland! 🔥

@1430pj Жыл бұрын

All these years, I thought Roland was a simp, but he a Playa.

@stellac.e2086 Жыл бұрын

it's funny but true. he set the ground rules & boundaries early. both can be who they are for real. no fake flattery or arguments over trivial stuff. EXCELLENT 😂

@traleroy Жыл бұрын

We need more Roland Martin interviews

@Emmanuel-ne3oi Жыл бұрын

Roland Martin ain't no simp

@kinggee5605 Жыл бұрын

Roland Martin funny asf! Lol bro said he gave his dad that look. His pops had an epiphany about what he told him growing up and all he could do was say “son ur right” 😂 that’s respect right there can’t be a hypocrite

@rolandsmartin Жыл бұрын

100% true story!

@Flare6 Жыл бұрын

It's sad that Shawn thinks that it's wild for a man to be assertive and demand respect from those around him. Ain't no simp nor push over in Roland, which is EXACTLY why he's been able to stand on his own square and fight for Black folk and Black Media. So sad that there aren't enough brothers out here, like Roland, who know how to navigate this world with dignity and self-respect.

@thegreatoneforever5587 Жыл бұрын

He simps for the DNC all the time

@Flare6 Жыл бұрын

@@thegreatoneforever5587 You clearly don't watch his show 😂

@drodadreads Жыл бұрын

@@Flare6 facts cus he check them too

@80charriel Жыл бұрын

I agee with everything you said accept for fighting for Black Media, becuase if you watch closely when he says black media it always translate with his media. He is black but what about the other black media. He keep saying black media but he is really talking about himself. If you watch him long enough you will notice that if an organization doesnt partner with him he stops mentioning black media. Its like well they didn't go with my media forget the other black media.

@KtotheG Жыл бұрын

Shawn just sounds like a gynocrat... he doesn't disturb the waters with BW.

@durrtyjerzeeable Жыл бұрын

It's only when you really don't care what ppl think about you can you be free like this...Let...I couldn't imagine having somebody have that kinda control over anything I do 🤣🤣🤣

@smurf_n_wesson9064 Жыл бұрын

Some People really have No concept of Freedom of Speech. They think Your Speech is limited to How they Feel

@TakeHerTo303 Жыл бұрын

Only person to let me do something was my mom, as a child... I do what I want.

@KnowledgeCollege228 Жыл бұрын

No THIS is the interview we needed foreal that we didn’t know we needed!!

@HalfGayHalfStraight-qw4qy Жыл бұрын

He is not a Liberal Man nor a Conservative Man🇺🇲🇺🇸

@ChipJonesTheNavyRecruiter Жыл бұрын

I just had this conversation with someone a while ago… THE HELL YOU MEAN LET? Like I gotta owner or something

@topflightillusions9425 Жыл бұрын

This was the quickest 19min interview 😅 Great stuff 👏

@MinTimothyTate Жыл бұрын

This clip made my evening. Real talk with a dash of belly laugh!

@olumide31907 Жыл бұрын

I love this interview. Roland is a man comfortable in his own skin.

@ALabInSaintDenis Жыл бұрын

I feel you Roland🤣🤣!!! one of my favorite interviews so far

@ibervillezee9142 Жыл бұрын

Before you simps get in here crying. He said it goes both ways.

@skeeterjames2607 Жыл бұрын

Even though I don't have a lot, with what I do have, I support Roland. I have seen him on many shows and he is always plain and straight, no matter who he is talking to. I respect you man.

@herb8965 Жыл бұрын

Roland “red pill” Martin I’m flabbergasted 😅

@henrybullard8411 Жыл бұрын

Yes sir!! Red Pill asf!!

@UncleSwell707 Жыл бұрын

Borderline red cause he still got remarried. He 80% purple, 20% red.

@taharqa332 Жыл бұрын

@@UncleSwell707You can be married and be Red Pill.

@UncleSwell707 Жыл бұрын

@@taharqa332 that could be debated. I think it depends on perspective

@KtotheG Жыл бұрын

@@UncleSwell707 It's risky in the States, because women have the power to divorce and take half your shit..

@devodrick Жыл бұрын

I ain’t gone lie… this got me weak as hell!! Lmao

@DIESEL187 Жыл бұрын

Humpty Dumpty is a lil too cocky concerning the gift from his wife. Lol

@prosperwithcj Жыл бұрын

I remember talking to my boy and telling him about ideas and stuff and his response was like yea if my wife let me do it. I paused for a moment and was like aight man smh

@pbennett13 Жыл бұрын

Black Manosphere not feeling this 😂 parts 3 and 4 should be life lessons for Black men

@Hi-jx5oe 3 ай бұрын

Shared with my son

@offerskirksey2255 Жыл бұрын

Roland flexing those communication degree muscles 💪🏾 🤣🙌🏾

@ramsesstafford4640 Жыл бұрын

The fact that the dude who's doing the interview is so amazed buy what Roland is saying shows how henpecked he is.😂

@KtotheG Жыл бұрын

It does.. he's really showing his beta card... like, "you talk to massa like that? She gon git you." Smh. I get away from men like that. I expect a woman to talk like he does.

@terrencemann2881 Жыл бұрын

Shawn sounds like this can't be real. Sounds like a lame or low-key simp status 😮

@SmartDave60 Жыл бұрын

I let my wife dress me. She knows what’s in style.

@qkellz931 Жыл бұрын

Lame af lol

@westdino5 Жыл бұрын

@@qkellz931 😂😂

@CSmoothh Жыл бұрын

He wasn't saying he is against the word "let" because he thinks his wife doesn't have taste. He was against it as in someone using it as a means of control

@CalculatedLife1122 Жыл бұрын

LAME

@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 Жыл бұрын

Smart man💯🤗

@dawkinsco6298 Жыл бұрын

💯. 🤨 Let!?!? (Soulja Boy voice)

@Angelo_Costa_Barsquiat Жыл бұрын

The right voice for that question😂😂😂

@studio202theshow6 Жыл бұрын

That "Let." is serious

@AfricanusKing Жыл бұрын

Fraternities are boule low level masonry

@cheesun124 Жыл бұрын

10:15 that guy is divorced now 🤣😂

@TOL456_ Жыл бұрын

Calling them crazy for being nonconformist and have strong minds and convictions is CRAZY lmao.

@KtotheG Жыл бұрын

The interviewer is an emasculated simp. I kinda suspected that by his overly deferential approach.

@MrHustle111 Жыл бұрын

Roland Martin is a black national treasure. He should be protected at all times...

@Thedecider1984 Жыл бұрын

lol what are u on?

@Gates216 Жыл бұрын

Sean Prez can’t believe a man ain’t getting ran by his wife lmao

@Allinmyworld Жыл бұрын

Nah, he's right and it must be working if he's been married that long. I love a grown ass man. He a handful i can tell!! 🤣🤣🤣

@KtotheG Жыл бұрын

"He's a handful" kinda contradicts your previous statement of "I love a grown ass man." You would normally say that about a boy, because he's unruly or difficult to train. That's the problem. We have too many women trying to dominate boys and men..

@Danthomas829 Жыл бұрын

I totally agree.. sadly most men LET they women run them out of fear of loss or they addicted to the abuse the woman giving them and they are afraid to even get out and try to date again and or face the pain and process of a divorce.. and these women know this.. but when a woman see that u aren’t afraid to lose her and that u are a man.. who is going to do as u please!? Then it’s funny.. they will respect you and be happy.. it’s when u giving a woman everything she wants that she nags the fk out of u.. literally

@MrAquarius127 Жыл бұрын

Women will never fully understand the way a man thinks

@yodaddy2619 Жыл бұрын

Loving this cant wait to see full episode

@TheShop90sKids Жыл бұрын

I say the "let" word as a joke and my wife "HATES IT" lol At the end of the day its about communication. Yes there are things that she doesn't like that I do and vice versa. But at the end of the day, if it's something either of us stand by on, there is no LET.

@cameroonbreezygoat903 Жыл бұрын

Lol weak ass man. It’s not gonna work long term bruh

@ronaldgreenjr1423 Жыл бұрын

He's never drunk in his life.....explains it all 😆😆😆😆😆😆

@vegitausa Жыл бұрын

Bruh like JBo, I Am The Paperwork! 😂😂

@willellis502 Жыл бұрын

Part of the programming needs to be getting Black “CHRISTians” out of all secret orgs, frats, etc etc.

@ForgottenCityOnline Жыл бұрын

BRAGGING about “cussing” somebody out says more about you than the person.

@mrlij6534 Жыл бұрын

i like Roland today, i agree with every word he said, lol. Women be wearing revealing things and then be tugging their coats and skirts? why the hell did u wear that if u are acting like u dont want anyone to see, i never understood that. ridiculous. and yes, no one tells a grown ass man what to do

@Zokloking91 Жыл бұрын

That why I love my brother!!!! “I hate that word let”

@pernellhaynesworth1212 Жыл бұрын

My daddy got dem ties 👔🎀😂💯💯💯😂🔥🔥📌🐐

@moo-moo74 Жыл бұрын

🤳🏾Call Daygo... 😂😂

@JayeBoogie1017 Жыл бұрын

BRUH....ROLAND STAYS ON POINT

@perryi7752 Жыл бұрын

Who ever is doing the interviewing, his wife must run the house

@eriaswright299 Жыл бұрын

Roland spitting bars.

@donaldoldacre9101 Жыл бұрын

You can’t tell a grown person what to do.

@karlrouse8479 Жыл бұрын

I have a whole new outlook on this man after this interview

@HIKAMAMALANIHAYA 10 ай бұрын

Can’t wait until he releases he’s memoir❣️🤩💯

@byronnsmith Жыл бұрын

4minutes in MESSAGE 😂 8min in 😂😂😂

@saundracoveal2752 Жыл бұрын

“I’m grown.” That’s right!

@prokiid233rd Жыл бұрын

Imagine talking to someone that just brags about themselves the entire time

@KtotheG Жыл бұрын

Get over your fragility. BM need to stick their chests out more. A lot of you have been emasculated and it's embarrassing.

@dlmarh76 7 ай бұрын

Cope.

@billionairemase Жыл бұрын

Roland Martin One great thinkers 💯💯💯

@jdennison1983 Жыл бұрын

It sounds so simple, but it's so profound. Act like men, men.

@jaytethepoet8786 Жыл бұрын

Ego destroy relationships 🙏🏾

@ibervillezee9142 Жыл бұрын

Lack of intestinal fortitude does too.

@blockieanatyania3385 Жыл бұрын

No, When One Adult Tries To Control Another Is What Destroyes Relationships...

@mr.jayjay2401 Жыл бұрын

No frame from the man destroys marriages

@adgee5401 Жыл бұрын

There is no single thing that ruins any relationship as evidenced by the different answers in this comment section.

@KtotheG Жыл бұрын

Yes, so modern women need to let down their ego and get back into their place. You're right. That female ego is something else.

@taharqa332 Жыл бұрын

Facts! Men move a certain way…it’s either deep in your DNA or it isn’t.

@Drediggy Жыл бұрын

Roland is how I live. I would just say it differently.

@0rileus Жыл бұрын

Much respect before, definitely now.

@DIYD Жыл бұрын

Respect on the 2008 Navigator; No C - Note heard! ... better yet, ownership heard! :D

@georgewitt6842 Жыл бұрын

Real talk from a real man. Believe

@Theblacklarrycrowne Жыл бұрын

Roland is definitely 💯 RIGHT!!!!

@RonKraftwerk Жыл бұрын

2008 navigator. My man Roland. I don’t agree with most of his thought patterns, but this interview showed me that we have so much in common. I gotta look at his commentaries different now, because I don’t give a damn either. Lol

@livennlearn Жыл бұрын

Everyone wishes they had this level of conviction.

@walterjackson468 Жыл бұрын

You got you just need to empower & use it respectfully & accordingly ✌️

@KtotheG Жыл бұрын

A lot of BM get emasculated by their mothers.. That's what it is. That's why Shawn is so surprised to see a BM be masculine. This is a problem in the community. It's why the senseless crime rate is so high. Women have no place raising a man or dominating a man. Roland was raised by his father and it shows.

@Rome3aaro Жыл бұрын

He talking facts💪🏾💪🏾

@The1stClassVillain Жыл бұрын

Why are black fraternities and sororities using Greek letters instead of Egyptian ones?

@zae6934 Жыл бұрын

Did Shawn just say “boo with it” ? He a blood now 😂

@thetruth1635 Жыл бұрын

I can think for myself but when Joe Madison & Roland Martin speak on politics I listen .

@JustRaine97 Жыл бұрын

I'm dying laughing!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂 I agree with him 💯!!!

@undergod8666 Жыл бұрын

Loyalty the universe need a make over

@RozayPranks Жыл бұрын

Roland Martin: I don't eat No Damn vegetables! I'm grown! I be damn if I eat a damn salad. I like the size of my head Damnit. I only eat the finest deep fried pig feet.

@rolandsmartin Жыл бұрын

Well that’s a lie

@RozayPranks Жыл бұрын

@@rolandsmartin I got a hoodie for you lmk where to send it

@TheeBigStokes Жыл бұрын

Funny thing is i bet chicks aint get the message they only understood “Okay watch ima do this n that see how he like it “ 😂

@tilabryant5591 Жыл бұрын

If y’all don’t know his wife is his beard lol.

@justmyopinion9883 Жыл бұрын

I agree with Roland on this video. He is funny, but he is truthful. 🙂

@user-pz4vb9cu8u Жыл бұрын

"especially a Black woman" 🙄🥴🤦🏾‍♀️ Roland said his wife can work if she chooses! He's a PROVIDER so of course she will submit to small things like him wanting to wear what he wants or not eat certain foods. See the difference between his generation and today.

@almurry8943 Жыл бұрын

When Roland says he doesn’t like the word “let”, I hope he gives that same respect to his wife. She’s a GAW and she shouldn’t have to ask him to “let” her do anything. I’m with the interviewer, I couldn’t be married to his a-. And I find him very arrogant too, although I do respect him for standing his ground.