Roro vs. His Emotions

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2 жыл бұрын

Three boys… Three different personalities and one 3-day-old infant. These are the conversations we have EVERY DAY in this house. Someone is always upset, angry or confused about their feelings and yes I take the time to talk them through their thoughts even when they are wrong.
Boys rarely get to exist in spaces where they can be vulnerable and express themselves without ridicule or judgement. Those boys typically grow up to be emotionally unavailable and hurt men. Accountability and honesty can change all of that if covered with love.
#DevalesTruth #TheEllises #JustDadding #RaisingKings #4WholeBoys #MillennialParenting

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@michaelamitchell1603 2 жыл бұрын

“You’re allowed to be mad” I wish my parents would’ve taught me that instead of dismissing my emotions.

@tariqmom 2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@ivyjean4085 2 жыл бұрын

Right

@DrineThePoet 2 жыл бұрын

Same

@kml7785 2 жыл бұрын

My parents still do that and take no accountability for it .....

@beemonique8466 2 жыл бұрын

The Bible and experience taught me how, even when my family tried to suppress me. Truth is, people will say you're sensitive when doing so because, they don't want to be accountable for their actions, lack thereof or what comes out of their mouth. Parents are supposed to be our validator, when right or wrong. Good job Devale! Those boys need you, love you, look up to you and have much respect for you!

@iamenzo9234 2 жыл бұрын

This is what you call good fatherhood and changing the narrative. Boys should be taught how to be emotionally intelligent. Black dads matter. Salute Devale! 🙌🏽

@serene2414 2 жыл бұрын

💯💯

@camilliachatman5657 2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯😭🥰🙌🏼🙏🏽

@imperfectlyperfect3961 2 жыл бұрын

Facts!

@RondaSmith144Empress 2 жыл бұрын

Truths spoken and it had me crying because this is needed and extremely important👌👌

@lenamay1736 2 жыл бұрын

Everyone should be taught how to be emotional intelligent

@ltlbit75 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you told him " You're allowed to be mad, You can cry!" So many children need to hear this

@elizabeth70001 2 жыл бұрын

And also, children should be allowed to express themselves verbally. So proud of dad, and Toro because he understood what his dad was telling him and took responsibility for it. Yeah.

@fayeyoung7822 2 жыл бұрын

Accountability hurts. Now, that’ll preach! That word wasn’t just for RoRo, but for us all!! Awesome job Dad!

@HISongbird 2 жыл бұрын

Yep. And accountability is integrity.

@youngyummy7282 2 жыл бұрын

❤️ Best daddy in the world ❤️ I wish I had that ❤️ with my fucked up family 💔 sad but true 💔 loved them tho.

@WinnieK.G 2 жыл бұрын

True

@tsmith3522 2 жыл бұрын

Someone tell Will Smith this

@Mesmerizin08 2 жыл бұрын

It’s at this very moment that we can all understand why God gave Devale 4 boys. I’m 35 and I must say that I have honestly never seen a father speak with such compassion, patience, and understanding while also teaching in a positive light to their sons until now. He did it with such love & security. This video speaks volumes on the type of man Devale is and the type of men the boys will grow into. I pray that my future husband has this type of approach with our family.

@teonadavis9634 2 жыл бұрын

Yes this is a beautiful thing

@treyblk1417 2 жыл бұрын

Show your future husband this video😁

@Mesmerizin08 2 жыл бұрын

@@treyblk1417 It’s saved for whenever he finds me 👌🏾

@todaywithdorothy 2 жыл бұрын

I literally had to send this video to my husband! Definitely an example to follow!

@kenefa7466 2 жыл бұрын

Right! Helping add quality men into the world

@marquesathornton7494 2 жыл бұрын

"You don't get to lash out on people because you're emotional"... That right there was a word!!🙌🏾🙌🏾

@seritascott3341 2 жыл бұрын

Amen, Amen, Amen!! Some grownups need to hear this too.

@Chinagurl 2 жыл бұрын

Amen! 🙌🏽

@naturalshatara9559 2 жыл бұрын

Umm but what about the people that do that anyways and it turns into harm. We can teach our children right but thr outside world maybe like no do what you want to do

@shoshanasadeh1266 2 жыл бұрын

@@naturalshatara9559 WHAT? He's teaching his sons not others. So cruel people rule our behavior and the world?

@naturalshatara9559 2 жыл бұрын

@@shoshanasadeh1266 I know he is teaching his sons but instead of thinking the world is not cruel mam reality it is

@sidnisera 2 жыл бұрын

"In life, you're going to make mistakes" i WISH i heard that more often as a child and been dealt with like this in a CALM manner. You're an awesome dad and those kids will be more emotionally healthy growing up because of you and your lovely wife. #BlackDadsMatter ❤

@victoriaevans3815 Жыл бұрын

That part

@alexis25 2 жыл бұрын

“You are allowed to cry. So if you feel like crying, you can cry. You don’t have to hold it in.” I wish more men were told this as boys. The difference it’d make throughout their lives is indescribable.

@ariesvibes1049 2 жыл бұрын

I swear, there would be less violence...

@latifahcheatam 2 жыл бұрын

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@vanessadeberry2453 Жыл бұрын

Such a Great Daddy

@janetjohnson9690 2 жыл бұрын

Perfect. Every mother needs a husband like this for their children. Righteousness.

@mrs_is_the_name3377 2 жыл бұрын

Yes I love my husband teaching our sons and daughters

@RayelityCheckMinistries 2 жыл бұрын

Pay attention to Khadeen too. Only a Queen can have a King. Every mother/wife needs to be ACCOUNTABLE too.

@imabewhoiam7135 2 жыл бұрын

I’m allowed to be mad. It’s ok to cry. I’m allowed to have feelings. It’s not ok to hit because I’m emotional. Mistakes happen. I have to be accountable…even though it hurts. Hugs help! Thank you RoRo and DeVale!

@msann713 2 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

@j.n.8153 2 жыл бұрын

Daddy is shaping and grooming his confidence. He walked away with it intact and better than before. That's emotional intelligence!

@santaniabella5378 2 жыл бұрын

Devale for President!!! This conversation alone is breaking generational curses and rebuking childhood trauma. 🙏🏾❤️

@tarawest1994 2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! God loves to see it!

@victoriaevans3815 Жыл бұрын

yesssssssssssssssssssssss

@amberspearman93 2 жыл бұрын

The amount of love in this conversation between a father and his son... yall raising kings ❤

@serene2414 2 жыл бұрын

💯

@shenathediva1089 2 жыл бұрын

#BoazMaterial 🤴🏾👑

@Pascale1112 2 жыл бұрын

Facts!

@maydavalle 2 жыл бұрын

🥲

@modernhomedesigns2024 2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree with you more

@bigvic8701 2 жыл бұрын

The 5 dislikes are from persons who aren’t accountable for their actions.

@chauntebaxter283 2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@LeighCrutch 2 жыл бұрын

This made me laugh so hard #truth

@jeanineplayfair4562 2 жыл бұрын

Listen!! You ain't lied.

@daijavu2651 2 жыл бұрын

And this is why it’s so important for little boys to have there fathers in there life

@theblackaudiofiles4444 2 жыл бұрын

SUPER BIG FACTS

@carmelmiller1226 2 жыл бұрын

*their *their

@Iycia 2 жыл бұрын

I am a single mother of 3 boys, and I saw this and instantly felt like I need to do better. You honestly help me raise my children. I look up to you man. You are an incredible father.

@ruthcoby2425 2 жыл бұрын

This is why fathers are so important! Well done Ellis well done!

@tboi937 2 жыл бұрын

You’re a real stand up guy Devale. The world needs more Black men like you ✊🏾

@neeka0075 2 жыл бұрын

Factsss

@DrineThePoet 2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@itsthatwifelife 2 жыл бұрын

So true

@milove333 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@steffaniehorne9466 2 жыл бұрын

💯

@omarileedelegance 2 жыл бұрын

You need to be everybody’s father. This video hit my soul on so many levels. #perfection

@alhassanfirrdous7292 2 жыл бұрын

This is reality show and not a movie

@justindaniels9362 2 жыл бұрын

As the Dad of a 5 year old, THIS IS SO POWERFUL AND NECESSARY! Thank you Devale.

@lwazihlophe8955 2 жыл бұрын

This man's love for his son's is a marvel to watch.

@tinishaw9724 2 жыл бұрын

Yessssss!!! I love that's real!!! This is how it works!! Look at our people look at at our black brother!!! Yess!!

@bellestarr4040 2 жыл бұрын

Real Daddy I love it

@rissaceehart4076 2 жыл бұрын

YESSS IT IS❣️❣️❣️

@4u2mimic 2 жыл бұрын

Can this be reposted weekly for not only children, but adults who were never taught? This is a huge lesson. Bravo Devale!

@healingstartswithaconversa3761 2 жыл бұрын

SO beautiful and necessary for those of us who didn't get this to see what healthy correction looks like!!! God is strategic....doesn't matter how we get it...just as long as we see it being demonstrated!!!! Devale you are helping us heal by sharing your family's day to day love journey! We love and appreciate you all for that!!!!!🥰👏🏼🥰👏🏼🥰👏🏼🥰👏🏼

@sonyalovest8691 2 жыл бұрын

Major love devale calm allowed him to process his emotions in a loving calm way major key excellence of a dad raising kings of excellence!!!!💙💙💙💙💙

@gospel3067 2 жыл бұрын

This has to be shown in stores so Karen's can see it.

@mimilovesme 2 жыл бұрын

Just imagine if all young black men had this level of discipline, love and support 🥺

@BezalelWorkingWoman 2 жыл бұрын

Hands down what the world needs to see is this everyday on rewind. No abuse, no sarcasm, no handicap and letting them go free. I love it!

@shazz286 2 жыл бұрын

Accountability is a hard thing to teach and learn. This was heartwarming

@candiceparrissimmons238 2 жыл бұрын

Very heartwarming especially because in these times it isn't recognized much less taught. Good for him!

@carmenbennett3073 2 жыл бұрын

Accountability is hard!! #lifelessons. Congratulations! Another prince! Prince Marley better be crying to a melody!! Mommy feed me I'm hungry to the tune Ole pirates yes dey rob I #Jamdungvybes

@AmberTyseti 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. Accountability builds character

@bighomiemac3472 2 жыл бұрын

This brother just had a heart to heart with his son. It’s not about toxic foolishness like punching your son in the chest and punking him and telling him not to cry. This was a correct example.💪🏾❤️✊🏾

@lh8167 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I have to get on my dude with that with our son & his other son. I hate it!

@letssee6473 2 жыл бұрын

@@lh8167 *PRONTO* _SHARE THIS WITH HIM, WITHOUT SAYING A WORD_ #nojudgement

@lh8167 2 жыл бұрын

@@letssee6473 oh I am. I want to watch it with him. & say see, you don't have to punch them in the chest for them to get it.

@kthiggemj5184 2 жыл бұрын

Right shit my dumbass baby daddy tries to do

@letssee6473 2 жыл бұрын

@@lh8167 *may I suggest, that you ask him,* _So what do you think about this/ that type of solution?_ *He may be more receptive & open to dialog vs his POV- (Interpretation) of him hearing you say "SEE"* 👈🏾 _I TOLD YOU SO_ 😉 *lead in w/ questions, and supportive solutions, As you are & as you've witnessed here w/ the Ellises...~All the Best & cheers to you for doing the work* 🙌🏽 *Breaking **#GenerationalCurses*

@journeywithme_erika1890 2 жыл бұрын

I love that Ro was able to identify his feelings...when he said it still hurts after Devale said I'm not mad...that was the realist.

@dorothyadams2793 2 жыл бұрын

He said “look at my face” soul to soul

@mhutchinson370 2 жыл бұрын

Being a child therapist, I love this SO. MUCH. This is literally everything. That validation was beautiful. 🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤ #blackmentalhealthmatters

@angietaylor6105 2 жыл бұрын

I mad love this family, teach him sir.... God is please with Father hood.

@BeesOnMars 2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!!!!

@Hernameis994 2 жыл бұрын

When he kissed and hugged his son,my heart melted

@SharronDenice 2 жыл бұрын

This is the only time I’ve seen a child filmed while being vulnerable that makes sense. Wow, this is an amazing share. I’m big on not exploiting children however I feel the world is better for having seen this. Thank you for sharing Devale and Roro.

@SaveTheChildrenQ 2 жыл бұрын

This is the correct way to assist kids in their emotional mind state! Salute Black Father✍ most important part was "ITS OKAY TO CRY"

@makingchanges64 2 жыл бұрын

“Accountability hurts.” Wow, that’s a mouthful right there. God bless you, Ellises. ♥️

@Godslight1970s 2 жыл бұрын

Very deep and truthful.

@glolynjo 2 жыл бұрын

Whew chile...

@leggz8480 2 жыл бұрын

smh...I know fully grown adults that need that same "accountability" discussion. Emotional intelligence is everything! Good job dad!

@sweettee6827 2 жыл бұрын

Every bit of truth in it!

@justfabbermuda2202 2 жыл бұрын

Cuzsis Leggz, had tearing up all the way in Bermuda!!! This family is awesome!!! Accountability is everything!!!

@leggz8480 2 жыл бұрын

@@justfabbermuda2202 hey cuzsis hey! girl.... that is one thing I DO NOT tolerate is people that have no accountability whatsoever. It's exhausting just to be around. I simply cannot do it. owning your sh!t is true adulting!

@WLynah Жыл бұрын

I love seeing this Black father teach his son in a positive way. He son received the advice; my heart soften when Roro said, "Yes daddy." He connected with his father's advice. Love it!

@missjaszmine1968 2 жыл бұрын

I want you to know that I worked many years in domestic violence at the felony level; and I have had beautiful little boys share with me that they have been thrown against walls, and pummeled like grown men by their fathers, for their mistakes. Know that your example is important, needed, and deeply appreciated. May God's blessings continue to rest upon you and your entire family.

@darlenechaney629 2 жыл бұрын

I always disputed the notion of “a woman can’t raise a man” until seeing this video. The way he broke that down to his son, without providing judgment, was the epitome of discipline. The true art of love!!! As a single parent we don’t always know if our discipline is correct. I love this family so much. Khadeen is the queen surrounded by her King and all of her little prince charmings! Great job dad! Discipline with love AND a lesson!!!!

@padskiii 2 жыл бұрын

Aww why am I crying watching this..when rowy said “it just hurts” damnnn that’s so mature of him to notice his emotions like that

@classychick 2 жыл бұрын

I know I’m bawling 😩😩😩😩😩

@gwenhill1374 2 жыл бұрын

Thats the part that broke me DOWN! I LOVE THIS FAMILY

@shekeiaewings5675 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely cried!

@stacystewart8138 2 жыл бұрын

I'm crying too. 😪

@rebeccasanyaolu4923 2 жыл бұрын

I cried too 😭😭😭

@phyllisashley3367 2 жыл бұрын

Father of the year. He's raising 4 boys teaching him how to control his emotions. Awesome man, Father what a gift.

@jerlishacummings7808 2 жыл бұрын

Man if more parents did this we would have a better generation of adults and children. A lot of our emotions were dismissed when we growing up and we were just beat and hit on which in most cases were our parents own frustrations. This video is simply beautiful. Im proud of the way he allowed his son to express himself, told him where he was wrong and then showed him love. Job well done!

@K_Pops1222 2 жыл бұрын

This piece of art needs to be shared, studied and taught worldwide.

@TaylorMade8822 2 жыл бұрын

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽WELL SAID & I AGREE🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@bwilson2097 2 жыл бұрын

Truly does!!! Very powerful example of how to love and correct.

@earthangel0016 2 жыл бұрын

Amen! I am in agreement.👍😃

@barbiegalify 2 жыл бұрын

Indeed

@mmwins3900 2 жыл бұрын

Yessss

@nessas.9647 2 жыл бұрын

Those young kings have a dad that believes in accountability, THIS is refreshing! RESPECT!!

@bernicehollis5681 2 жыл бұрын

"Accountability Hurts, its okay to Cry but its your emotions you have to control" These words will resignate with your children. You and your family are and continue to be a great example! Peace, love & blessings to you all.

@belindalindsey607 2 жыл бұрын

Devale, you are so anointed as a husband, father and a man. Kay and your parents should be so proud of you.

@nathanneelyoutlawdiditprod2891 2 жыл бұрын

I've always had mad respect for Devale as a husband, father, head of household, but real talk, my respect just doubled in how you handled this. The way you calmly corrected him, explained why, and by the end, reiterated that the love is unwavering. Kudos to you. I have 1 son. That's an adventure in itself. I couldn't imagine dealing with 3 and a growing 4th. Big ups, young homie.

@itsreallykat 2 жыл бұрын

This brought me to tears, you just don’t see this much. I commend the father that you are, and how you’re raising up your king!!! People need to see this, especially coming from a man to his son! Amen to this!

@Geekygirlsjournal 2 жыл бұрын

I loved every second of this! Devale corrected his son, allowed him to express his emotions, told him that it was okay to have those emotions, explained why he shouldn't have reacted the way he did and then told him to apologize to his uncle. Wow! Great parenting

@willkearney5002 2 жыл бұрын

Whn u sniffle like that, your soul is hurt... memories as a child.

@NigerianGyrl 2 жыл бұрын

Facts. I still cry like that and when I hyperventilate you know I’m hurt

@angellcateau6098 2 жыл бұрын

Ikr when u cary and can't catch a breath, you know its deep lol. #memories

@quesham 2 жыл бұрын

Lol yess sirr

@byrdtaylor5703 2 жыл бұрын

FACTS!!!!!

@SaltandLightwithKJ 2 жыл бұрын

One of these days we gonna need a “Just Dadding” book on how you and Kay raised 4 WHOLESOME men.

@Rebecca57097ssss 2 жыл бұрын

🤜🏾🤛🏾. Big FaXXX

@anitracottman7506 2 жыл бұрын

ABSOLUTELY

@heavensent2909 2 жыл бұрын

AMEN 🙏

@thehoratiojay 2 жыл бұрын

This is how we end toxic masculinity and properly teach how to handle emotions.

@franngong6693 2 жыл бұрын

Without a belt, without a time-out, without yelling and screaming, without anger, this man Fathered his son. Take it to the classroom and teach!! This was a powerful lesson and the Village supported too. DEVALE, excellent, excellent, excellent.

@shanbrown73 2 жыл бұрын

Wow!! That brought me to tears . A real father handling his business.

@susanrobinson3745 2 жыл бұрын

Tears flowing down my face. So proud of this moment

@Topaz_Scorpio5 2 жыл бұрын

True that

@camekaalexander15 2 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@mzvetta9601 2 жыл бұрын

Heartwarming 💕🥰

@todaywithdorothy 2 жыл бұрын

“Accountability hurts” 😩😩 I love that he’s understanding his emotions!

@reefingmark4165 2 жыл бұрын

Devale says he wants his own sitcom…. That’s his goal, bro I’m here to tell you this KZfaq channel is your calling. These real raw moments, how to father your children, love your wife, be a man is fire! Please continue to teach us bro. Much love and respect!

@jessika22ew 2 жыл бұрын

This made me cry. Instead of whooping us the tried to understand what made us do it. And corrected us

@nganekwane2295 2 жыл бұрын

"If you can't even remember what Uncle Dolo said, it wasn't even that bad" 🔥

@Daviss0413 2 жыл бұрын

I typically criticize parents of KZfaq family's for exploiting their kids but this was so genuine and necessary for other men and boys to see that I'm grateful to know that men like this are still around. I pray for this family's continued success and growth as a unit. Amen

@micheleevans4056 2 жыл бұрын

LOVE to witness black men being the Dad and teacher; all while listening and taking to heart what the child is saying. GREAT JOB!!!!

@MrRTFP 2 жыл бұрын

"You're allowed to be mad" That statement hit way different 🤞🏿

@brucegrover8658 2 жыл бұрын

Bruh! I wish I had this as a kid. I didn’t hit nobody but I broke things. Punched holes in walls, kicked glass doors, and broke my hand punching a chalkboard I was so mad. I see now being allowed to cry and somebody helping me process my emotions would’ve been so nice. Man I cant wait to be a dad to my son. Thanks for the inspiration.

@caramelcube528 2 жыл бұрын

An active father is everything!!!❤❤

@sweettee6827 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Active AND present!

@cokecola6669 Жыл бұрын

DeVale’s relationship with his son’s are priceless!

@ladie27d 2 жыл бұрын

I’m really tearing up! Him being able to voice his emotions and you in turn actually listening🖤🖤🖤I love to see it

@indigolynn4192 2 жыл бұрын

Uncle Dolo: "It's alright man..but hey next time i'm gone body slam you" lmaoooo

@aishac919 2 жыл бұрын

Good cop (Devale) and bad cop (Uncle Dolo)… so both sides covered. On the real, both men handled it well. Nuff respect

@afrogamergurl_9764 2 жыл бұрын

@indigo Lynn I thought you made that up before I finished the video. Then I finished LMAO!!!! I died!!!!

@estherthomas4205 2 жыл бұрын

This conversation spoke volumes & even made me stop and evaluate how I process my emotions. Devale is the dad many of us never had. So much love and communication, and life lessons packed into a 7 minute video. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@mzvetta9601 2 жыл бұрын

Dad Of The Century Award🏆

@kiamyal8698 2 жыл бұрын

Same here

@anointed3883 Жыл бұрын

I felt like I was in therapy. I'm over here 😢 crying. Wisdom like that comes from his own experience. God bless him for raising his young.....with wisdom and ❤ love. They'll remember 4ever.

@joylynirvin8690 2 жыл бұрын

Now this is why Fatherhood is SOOOOOO important!!!

@Ksabeautynyc 2 жыл бұрын

I’m not a mother yet, but I will be one day and I pray to raise kids with someone that has the endearment, patience, knowledge and understanding that Devale has! Truly inspiring ⭐️

@daviacarter91 2 жыл бұрын

SAME!

@staceymcclellan5332 2 жыл бұрын

This is why boys need there father's. This whole conversation is blessings young boys everywhere. I love this teachable moment he took with his kid and filmed it for other little boys to see. Duvale you are the truth. I absolutely love that you gave him permission to have his feelings then showed him how to navigate and behave thru and towards them. Real men talk I loved every bit of this.

@eb4478 2 жыл бұрын

Their*

@carlospar6896 Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭THIS is straight up good connection between a father and son right here...TRUE BLACK LOVE

@cherylg5032 2 жыл бұрын

That's real straight talk. So many young men and women are in jails or dead all from not controlling their EMOTIONS. The big lesson, how to deal with your emotions and show control of them👏🏽👏🏽

@PureDeedzPodcast 2 жыл бұрын

“You know why I’m smiling, because your being honest” Blessings to you and your family 🙏🏽

@Horac3 2 жыл бұрын

Yo who could honestly dislike this?! Allowing him to feel his emotions but still hold him accountable. This is REAL Fatherhood not no misogynistic/machismo nonsense.

@dd470_ 2 жыл бұрын

Haters

@shelisahumphrey4215 2 жыл бұрын

I was wondering the same thing. Probably someone who needs counseling. Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

@Horac3 2 жыл бұрын

@@shelisahumphrey4215 More than likely. We have to stop the trauma cycle in our community!

@debrasartfulcreations318 2 жыл бұрын

someone that wish they had this coming up sadly but to not like it is crazy hate is real

@dd470_ 2 жыл бұрын

@@debrasartfulcreations318 hate and the evil eye is real

@damishawillis1155 2 жыл бұрын

I love this ! The tone in his voice, the break down of getting to the bottom on his issues, the acknowledgement and acceptance in his emotions, and crying. Because so many boys are raised to not show emotions, and to not cry ever. Baby cry get that off your chest, but definitely keep your hands to yourself.

@ndomupeishechipendo1556 2 жыл бұрын

Lord I pray for a hubby who is a great example to our children 🙏🏾 This is really heartwarming

@mzMindlessJetsetter 2 жыл бұрын

As a first year teacher I wish more parents would have these conversations with their kids at home this young. I have 12 year olds displaying this exact behavior 10x worse and I have to stop teaching to raise somebody else child and have these conversations. Parenting is important!

@purplesoul9927 2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately a lot of parents do not have this understanding for themselves and are emotionally inept. Thank you for you're compassion and love of children to help make them become better going forward. 🌈🌟🌟🌟

@msfiesty88 2 жыл бұрын

I 100% agree. It definitely should start at home with conversations like this. It's unfortunate all parents didn't get that memo.

@mrspurposed1163 2 жыл бұрын

Love this. This is when it makes sense to film “disciplining” your child. He’s making him take accountability and showing patience.

@delisadawnmariee5189 2 жыл бұрын

Agree! This was teaching all of us! They are simply breaking the cycle.

@greengoddessof75 2 жыл бұрын

To all young dad’s around the world. This is how you bring out the King in your little King. Thank you Devale!!🙏🏽💚

@ladyc8114 2 жыл бұрын

By the Grace of God I was blessed to raise 3 beautiful children, girl, boy and another girl. My only Son graduated from college and is in the military. He is 36yrs old, the middle child. I taught him its ok to be in your feelings, just communicate to me, to us what you're going through, why you're feeling that way or this way. It's truly a Blessing to see a dad/father have this relationship with his child, girl or boy. I LOVE their family!!

@April-ku7bb 2 жыл бұрын

This was pure love !! You're teaching him lessons that money can't buy. How many young men are dead or incarcerated because of their emotions and the lack of accountability? 🤦🏾‍♀️ Thank you for sharing.

@carolannbenton4500 2 жыл бұрын

This was everything. I cried like RoRo. Just hearing his dad tone in explaining and teaching him at the same time was what our young Kings need no yelling no screaming just teaching and explaining. He sealed it with a hug and kiss.❤ dad to son= one day will grow to be prince 2 king. Good job Devale 💯 love it. Kay you have 4 special ones in your life💯

@sharitawilson9626 2 жыл бұрын

Me too crying like a river

@sharronridgenal2823 2 жыл бұрын

me tooo.😭 so precious and meaningful.

@amalik_333 2 жыл бұрын

Me too😭😭😭 lbvvs

@dd470_ 2 жыл бұрын

Same! Just blew my nose 🤧🤧🤧

@Candicewallace444 2 жыл бұрын

I shouldn't have clicked on this at work 😭😭😩😅 Fatherhood at it's absolute best 💓💓

@reginadeadrick2902 2 жыл бұрын

THIS is the perfect example of why God's will for our lives is always PERFECT. Children are a gift of God; and He has gifted you all four precious sons, to whom you are charged with leading. Everything you said to your son made perfect sense to him. He knows he is loved and does not want you to be mad at him. He was confident enough of your love to admit that "it hurts", and your lesson was "I know. Accountability hurts." Wow... Leadership meted out with a calm, genuine and impacting love. You demonstrated being both a Daddy and a Father in a few short moments. Bravo!

@goojgty 2 жыл бұрын

How we handle those moments are very critical to our kids emotional maturity…

@UnMuted2Voice 2 жыл бұрын

When RoRo said it hurts! So powerful of his self awareness and emotions. I cried too. Keep up the good work Devale

@sandramungroking2018 2 жыл бұрын

Ok. Now I'm crying! Your willingness to share your family with the world and let us see a healthy, black family. Love this lesson!

@Jinxmissy 2 жыл бұрын

I have this conversation with my 9yr old at least twice a day. This is exactly my response every time. Word for word. Listen, this touch my soul. I pray to be better than my parents and I want my kids to be better than me. 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 #goodparenting #lovingparents

@YaaYaa25 2 жыл бұрын

"Accountability hurts!, I Got You, Son!, I Love You Son!" Those words are so important!! No, I'm not crying. SMH

@candacytoney4408 2 жыл бұрын

👏🏽”How are you going to know these things if I don’t teach you?” Best statement ever from a real Parent🙂🥺Our children NEEDS guidance and correction.Emotional Awareness is the number one asset to thrive in any setting. Bless your family 🙏🏾

@tracyhull9579 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness. “ It just hurts.” He love his dad so much.

@treyblk1417 2 жыл бұрын

Roro is a daddy’s boy and he doesn’t like disappointing DeVale😉

@deeval6457 2 жыл бұрын

Y'all just witnessed a blk father protecting, teaching and nurturing his son! This is why our kids need their fathers! We ARE NOT just ATM machines!

@arri5448 2 жыл бұрын

When Roro said “ it just hurts “ I broke 🥺🥺

@Love101Movie 2 жыл бұрын

Normally I would say somethings need to stay private. But I must say this was necessary for someone. I pray for your family as you’ll continue to raise this next generation with integrity, love and accountability. Way to be a great example for fathers everywhere 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️

@danielleturner751 2 жыл бұрын

Completely agree. This was a private moment but so important to see real men training their son's to be real men❤❤❤❤

@mariewalton7079 2 жыл бұрын

Yes I so agree 100%... Bravo to Ellise

@f.k.a1010 2 жыл бұрын

I initially felt conflicted about seeing Roro cry on camera, but I had to remember that this specific video is also part of the human experience and it’s ridiculous for us to expect KZfaqrs to only show us the “good” or “happy” moments. I took this as a teaching moment for me and others who didn’t experience this type of discipline. Children can be taught with love.

@shelliibeefraser718 2 жыл бұрын

Honestly I appreciate this video so much. As a single mom this is important to see. Until that special day where my kid had that help from a father, women like me can learn from this.

@SharelLove 2 жыл бұрын

This right here! The absolute best when father’s are raising sons to be men. If I had a hat on, I would tip it to you, Devale. You and Khadeen both. Blessings to you and your family. I just live this!!!

@mutsaruzvidzo7015 2 жыл бұрын

I love how he was teaching his Son

@AtheneHolder 2 жыл бұрын

I understand that he's speaking to a child, but when he said "if you don't even remember what Uncle said then it wasn't even that bad" that hit different. Lot of adults can learn from that because they holding on to something said or did that wasn't even that bad and didn't call for the reaction they gave.

@lita_james114 2 жыл бұрын

"Cause someone gonna hit yo ass back" the bigger lesson 🤣 😂 Glad you are teaching him it is okay to feel all the feels and express emotions. And so glad you explained that no one is mad at him! So many kids internalize without ever asking or making sure that no one is blaming or upset with them. Great job Devale!

@RichYork 2 жыл бұрын

My grandfather used to cry, him showing his emotions was everything to me bro so when I cried he made me feel like my feelings was valid, miss u Pa Pa, imma teach my little ones the same thing 💯

@tonyascreativespace3067 2 жыл бұрын

Lord my husband react with his emotions and now my son has learned the exact same behavior! Now he 23 and I'm still trying to teach him to control his emotions! Jesus! This is beautiful